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Speaker 1: No, I ain't going to lie. The black hairstylists are the cockiest. Yes. Like, they like, well, hey, look, your appointment at 10, 10 o'clock come. They be like, oh, I thought, can you go at.
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Speaker 2: 12, 1?
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Speaker 3: Yeah, they do.
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Speaker 1: And mess up your whole day. This is the taking over the game. All right, everybody. Welcome to Truth After Dark.
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Speaker 3: Do you think that men or women are more toxic? Hello, beautiful people.
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Speaker 2: Welcome to another episode of The Truth After Dark. I am your host, Cesar Faraday.
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Speaker 1: P2, Paul Pierce, aka The Truth, P squared.
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Speaker 3: I go by all of those.
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Speaker 1: Mr. P, Mr. Pierce. Mr. P. Yeah, WP.
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Speaker 3: I ain't heard of that yet. Okay, Mr. P.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah. What's up with you? How you been?
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Speaker 3: I've been cool.
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Speaker 2: Everything, you know, life has been lifin', but your girl is getting through it day by day.
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Speaker 1: See, your hair looked all.
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Speaker 3: Thank you. I'm tired of black hairstylists.
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Speaker 1: Whatever.
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Speaker 3: I don't care. I said it.
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Speaker 2: No, I'm done with these people because it's just like they don't care. And it's an abusive relationship because they know that you need them. And then they're just going to like today I had an appointment and the girls I'm outside of the thing.
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Speaker 3: And she's like, oh, my bad. I thought it was tomorrow. I'm on set. Like they don't give a damn. They're not even apologetic.
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Speaker 2: And she's like, can you come later tonight at four? No, I cannot come.
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Speaker 3: I'm filming a show.
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Speaker 1: I have things I'm doing.
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Speaker 3: That's why I'm getting my hair done. And this is a constant thing with these black hairstylists.
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Speaker 1: No, I ain't going to lie. The black hairstylists are the cockiest. Yes. Like, they like, well, hey, look, your appointment at 10, 10 o'clock come. They be like, oh, I thought, can you go at.
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Speaker 2: 12, 1?
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Speaker 3: Yeah, they do.
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Speaker 1: And mess up your whole day.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, and you know what they do?
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Speaker 2: They like to overbook because they want their money and I get it. But then you have me sitting in the hairstyle for 10 hours. The hair only takes... an hour and a half, two hours max. You have me sitting there for 10 hours because you want to do three other people before you do me.
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Speaker 3: It's so trifling. And we as black women put up with this abuse. White people, they don't go to this.
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Speaker 1: Is it just LA? No.
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Speaker 2: So it's funny because my homegirl and I were just talking about this. Paris, she was like, is it just LA? And I'm like, it's not. I lived in Atlanta.
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Speaker 3: I know that other people around the world
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experience this.
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Speaker 2: Because on TikTok and Instagram, women talk about this all the time. It's all over the, but the difference is, is other places like Atlanta and Houston, they.
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Speaker 3: Have more people.
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Speaker 2: Black great hairstylists here, it's limited. So they're really booked up and you could barely get an appointment with them. And then they still do all the bullshit everyone else does too. Yeah.
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Speaker 1: It's money in that, huh?
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Speaker 3: Oh yeah.
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Speaker 2: Them hairstylists make bank. Like you make it because you doing one girl's hair that's $ 3.
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Speaker 1: 50.
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Speaker 2: They book 12 women a day.
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Speaker 3: No, you can't do 12 hairs a day. Yeah, they can. Are you kidding me?
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Speaker 1: So you can make a G a day as a hairstylist at least.
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Speaker 2: Minimum that's not even as much as they make my hairstylist drives a g-wagon lives in a house like they are cracking okay and so think about 350 plus you got to leave them a tip so that's 400 right there right boom that's me while i was there she just did three other people's.
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Speaker 1: Hair right but they gotta pay booth rent right.
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Speaker 2: They gotta pay booth rent they gotta pay booth rent but that's only what that's probably one day of work yeah And they make their own schedule.
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Speaker 3: So they be there. And then people are thirsty.
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Speaker 2: Like as much as I want to cuss them out, I'm like, I'm going to have to come here again.
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Speaker 3: So I just have to be like, okay.
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Speaker 1: The life of a black hairstylist, the life of a black woman trying to get her hair done. That's a movie in itself. It is. It is.
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Speaker 2: I said how they had the surviving thing, like documentary. I was going to do one surviving the black hairstylist.
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Speaker 1: Surviving the black hairstyle. That's good. That should be a reality show.
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Speaker 3: There was.
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Speaker 2: Kim Kimble used to have a reality show about the hairstylist thing.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, but it was on like BET or Bravo.
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Speaker 1: I'm glad you had an adventurous hair day. I've been chilling though. I've been golfing a lot lately. And, you know, getting my little meditation in on the golf course.
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Speaker 3: Okay.
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Speaker 1: You know, doing a little bit of traveling. I'm going to be going a couple places in the next couple months.
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Speaker 3: Nice.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I've been cool hooping. You know, staying in shape.
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Speaker 3: There you go.
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Speaker 1: You feel me? You know, I'm getting older. I just had a 49th birthday.
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Speaker 3: You just had a birthday. Everybody wish Paul happy birthday. You had a birthday, so now.
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Speaker 1: You know, I feel young. I got to start planning for next year is the big one. So, I don't know. I got to figure that out.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, the 5-0 is going to be a big birthday.
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Speaker 1: Damn, the 5-0. I don't feel it. I don't look it. Period. Yeah, period.
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Speaker 3: As you should. You know, black don't crack.
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Speaker 1: You feel me? So, what's on the agenda? What else is going on out here in these streets?
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Speaker 3: Okay, it's always something.
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Speaker 1: Something.
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Speaker 2: So, well, this is funny because we're going to talk about Jay-Z, but Jay-Z is actually having a concert in L.A.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, he is.
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Speaker 3: Coming up. Or it was this past weekend by the time y'all see this.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, this past weekend.
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Speaker 2: But, yeah, everyone's been talking about going. I'm disappointed that I'm not going to that one because I'm a huge Jay-Z fan from back in the day.
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Speaker 1: Yeah.
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Speaker 3: But recently.
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Speaker 2: A report came out that Jay-Z, who works with the NFL, allegedly chose himself to perform at halftime.
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Speaker 3: For the Super Bowl.
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Speaker 1: That's going to be lit.
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Speaker 2: There has been some mixed emotions about this online. As you know, the Super Bowl will be in L.A.
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Speaker 3: This year.
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Speaker 1: Right.
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Speaker 2: So, you know, some people are feeling like he chose himself to do this.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, no, he's iconic.
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Speaker 3: I agree.
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Speaker 1: That's a great show. And.
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Speaker 2: People think that it should have been Drake because Drake dropped three albums this year and they feel like Jay should have chosen him to perform instead of himself.
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Speaker 1: Well, has Drake never performed at the Super Bowl?
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Speaker 2: No.
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Speaker 1: Maybe he didn't want to.
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Speaker 3: He probably does want to.
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Speaker 1: I mean, like, listen, y'all, like Drake don't need to.
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Speaker 2: He don't need to, but it's an and he probably wants to because Kendrick just did it. So now I'm coming back, back to back with it. And I'm coming and I'm about to perform. And then now.
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Speaker 1: And it's L.A. I'm not.
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Speaker 3: Drake don't want to perform in L.A.
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Speaker 1: Huh?
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Speaker 3: Drake don't want to perform in L.A.
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Speaker 1: Drake can perform where he want to.
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Speaker 2: No, but I'm saying, think about it. Kendrick, all the beef that he has with the L.A.
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Speaker 1: Scene. That's already kind of, that's kind of like, you know.
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Speaker 3: Settle down.
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Speaker 1: Settle down. It's the Super Bowl. People are going to be at the Super Bowl no matter who perform.
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Speaker 2: What is someone, who do you think is someone that you haven't seen perform at the Super Bowl that you would like to see?
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Speaker 1: Who would be dope for the Super Bowl?
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Speaker 3: Yeah.
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Speaker 1: Because this is like, man. Damn, this is a tough one. An artist at the Super Bowl. Damn.
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Speaker 3: Has Beyonce ever performed at the Super Bowl?
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Speaker 1: I was just thinking that.
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Speaker 2: Yeah.
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Speaker 3: I'm not a huge Beyonce fan, even though she's amazing. Has she performed?
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Speaker 1: I don't know.
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Speaker 3: I don't think she has.
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Speaker 1: I can't remember.
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Speaker 3: I think she might have.
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Speaker 1: I'm just thinking like, what audience? Because when you perform at the Super Bowl, I feel like you got to have a performer who can captivate. Not only do they have good songs, you got to have a good show, a good production, and you captivate the audience. You damn near got to be word for word with their lyrics and shit like that. So it's got to be somebody. You can't just throw anybody out there.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, it has to be a real, oh, Chris Brown.
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Speaker 1: Oh, Chris Brown. Hell yeah.
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Speaker 3: But they wouldn't do that because of his history of.
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Speaker 1: Being an abuser.
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Speaker 3: But I know they.
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Speaker 1: Wouldn't do that. You know he doesn't.
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Speaker 3: Get any of those opportunities, right?
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Speaker 1: Damn, that would be lit.
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Speaker 2: That would be lit, but he doesn't get, Usher has performed at the Super Bowl, doesn't he?
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Speaker 3: Beyonce did and has Usher. I think Usher has.
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Speaker 1: Man, Chris Brown should be performing at the Super Bowl, dog. Straight up. Like, that'll be lit.
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Speaker 2: Well, he recently got an award or something had happened and the internet, like, canceled the person who gave it to him.
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Speaker 1: It was an effort.
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Speaker 3: Like, they do not play about him. He has lost as talented as he is.
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Speaker 1: Okay, how about, how about, uh, yeah, we got to get, like, Any rappers out there that you think worthy.
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Speaker 3: Of the Super Bowl? That's like an art, like, I mean, Jay-Z, you know, which y'all are mad at.
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Speaker 1: We already didn't have Snoop and Dre and Em and 50 and all of them. They performed all of them?
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Speaker 3: They performed at.
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Speaker 1: The Super Bowl in L.A. like a couple years ago, like about two or three years ago they did. That shit was rocking.
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Speaker 3: Who would be?
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Speaker 1: I was at that one.
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Speaker 2: Damn, who would be as a, what about a female artist that you would think would be great outside of Beyonce?
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Speaker 3: It's hard to say, right? that's on that level of artistry that could do that?
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Speaker 1: The one girl, Kelly, what's her name?
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Speaker 3: Kelly Rowland?
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Speaker 1: Yeah, Kelly Rowland. But the one girl with Travis Kelsey, what's her name?
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Speaker 3: Oh, Taylor Swift. Taylor Swift, Taylor Swift.
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Speaker 1: Has she done
the Super Bowl?
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Speaker 3: It would be crazy because doesn't her man play in the NFL?
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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I'm saying. That's what probably makes sense for her. I'm not a fan of hers, but I think she has a huge audience.
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Speaker 1: But her following is ridiculous.
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Speaker 3: It's ridiculous. It's crazy. So she would be good, I guess.
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Speaker 2: All right.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I can't think of anybody else.
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Speaker 2: But I'm excited to see Jay-Z if this is true. And if it does happen, it's.
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Speaker 1: Going to be dope. And you know you're going to bring somebody out, probably.
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Speaker 3: For sure. Do you think that his catalog is big enough?
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Speaker 1: What about Kanye? Oh, yeah.
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Speaker 2: I mean, I don't think that they'll do Kanye because he's so controversial, but I would love to see Kanye too.
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Speaker 3: Kanye and Superbowl?
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Speaker 1: Damn, that'll be lit.
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Speaker 3: They probably won't do Kanye.
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Speaker 2: Speaking of Kanye, did you see Kim Kardashian dress up as Northwest for Halloween?
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Speaker 1: No, I didn't see that.
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Speaker 2: So Northwest is, it's like all over the internet because it's controversial about how she dresses. Have you seen her daughter? So her daughter has piercings all over her face.
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Speaker 3: All over her hands and she has.
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Speaker 2: The blue wig on with the big baby hairs and she dresses like very like an artist yeah like but like goth like dark clothing big combat boots big long nails.
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Speaker 3: And she's young i mean north or west must be like.
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Speaker 2: 12 11 or 12 or 13 right and everyone is like why.
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Speaker 3: Would kim let her daughter dress up like this what.
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Speaker 1: Are your thoughts a kid like that She's been in the limelight since day one. Yeah. And I can't even tell you Like she's pretty much a child star.
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Speaker 3: She is.
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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? She is. And it's difficult being in that position.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I can imagine.
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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? As a kid, like you're really trying to, your identity is your mom, but then you're trying to find yourself. You're trying to create your own identity. And so maybe it steers you to be a certain way because like when I look at a, Who else is like that? Like Will Smith kids.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, they're very funky and different. Jaden and Willow.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, they try to find their niche and try to find who they're going to be. You know, they don't want to be looked at in the same light as the parents, so they want to find who they want to be. Their own identity. Their identity. So I can see, you know, why some kids go in a certain path. But do you think that a parent.
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Speaker 2: Should, like, stop their kid from doing certain things like these piercings at
that young age?
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Speaker 3: Or do you feel like it's just hard?
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Speaker 1: It's difficult because, like, once they be, like, going in their direction, you can lose them as a parent. Like, they start tuning you out because they'll start bringing up, like, well, what about you? Then you're arguing with your kid and the relationship going bad. You got to allow your kid to be you to a certain degree. But at the same time, there's got to be some discipline in all of that.
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Speaker 3: We'll put this up for everyone to see.
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Speaker 1: Oh, my God. What is that?
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Speaker 3: This is Kim dressed up as North. Because this is how North looks.
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Speaker 1: Is that like mocking her or is she just.
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Speaker 3: It's Halloween. So Halloween, basically.
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Speaker 2: So she has all these piercings and she'll put like black in her mouth and she has that on her face.
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Speaker 1: Kim looking like kind of like an Elvira type of look for me.
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Speaker 3: I mean, Kim is so pretty.
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Speaker 2: She could look anything off, but it's just... Like that's how she literally dresses just like this to a T. But she also, her dad is Kanye. Your mom is Kim Kardashian. You're on stage with Kanye and everyone talks about it so badly because they're like, North is a mess. She looks a mess or whatever. But it's just like, I get what you're saying. She might've steered opposite of her mom completely because her mom is very girly and.
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Speaker 3: Like very feminine. And now you're like, I don't even want.
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Speaker 1: I want to find my lane and where I want to be. And this is, you know, You know, some kids want to be rebellious and go in their own direction to where they know their parents ain't feeling that.
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Speaker 3: Yeah.
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Speaker 1: But this is who I am. This is who I am. Yeah. This is me.
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Speaker 2: And, you know, the crazy thing about it is, is she's so, like you said, she's been in the limelight her whole life.
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Speaker 3: So at the end of the day, there's things that you try to.
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Speaker 1: It can make a kid kind of like... Crazy. Socially awkward.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure. I can see that.
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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? Yeah. Like, you look at all these famous kids. I'm talking about not regular famous. I'm talking about famous like her. Like them, yeah. Like, even Michael Jackson coming up. You know, he started changing his appearance. Like, it just made him, like, socially awkward.
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Speaker 2: Well, also you have to remember that from the moment you're born, you have people commenting on your looks.
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Speaker 1: Yeah.
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Speaker 2: Especially as a young girl. Oh, like they talk about her weight because she's not like skinny. You know, she's not fat, but she's just, you know, when you go through that stage, you get baby fat. You're a little more chunky. And when you're that age and everyone's
commenting on that, that's hard. That's tough.
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Speaker 3: Like, so yeah, I get what you're saying. I think that's a good perspective.
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Speaker 1: Yeah.
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Speaker 2: Okay.
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Speaker 3: Yeah.
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Speaker 4: Yeah.
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Speaker 1: I usually dress up and I usually I like going to little Halloween parties. Yeah. Truthfully, that's kind of fun. But I don't know what I want to be yet. I got to I got to go to the costume store and figure it out. But I keep it simple. Like lately, you know, usually when I had the young kids, I was dressing up in character. We go in themes, cartoons. But now as an adult, you know, I've been going like. I might be a hippie one year. I might be, I don't even know what I was last year.
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Speaker 3: I know what you were. You were like the 90s with the afro. Oh yeah, I did the 90s look.
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Speaker 2: And then you did the afro hippie look with the pink jacket, the pimp look by the purple jacket.
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Speaker 1: I'm going to figure out, come up with something last minute again, see what it's going to do.
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Speaker 3: I'm going to be Princess Jasmine.
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Speaker 1: Who is that?
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Speaker 3: From Aladdin. Everyone says I look like Princess Jasmine from Aladdin. You don't know who that is?
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Speaker 1: I know the girl from Atlanta, yeah.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I like the word, the blue little. The blue one, yeah, yeah, yeah.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, so everyone always calls me Princess Jasmine.
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Speaker 3: So I'm like, finally, I'm going to be Princess Jasmine.
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Speaker 1: You should be Aaliyah.
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Speaker 3: Only, it's so funny because when Ray J said that I look like Aaliyah.
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Speaker 1: You should be Aaliyah. That would be lit.
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Speaker 3: Everyone was like, she do not look like Aaliyah.
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Speaker 1: Damn.
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Speaker 3: It was like, she did not give Aaliyah.
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Speaker 1: Okay.
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Speaker 3: People do tell me that when they see me, but not a lot.
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Speaker 1: You should dress up the next episode.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, that'll be fun.
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Speaker 1: Yeah.
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Speaker 3: For sure. We'll do a Halloween special.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, let's do a Halloween special.
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Speaker 3: And you guys can see our outfits and stuff. Right, right.
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Speaker 2: Okay, so moving on. Melissa Ford, we all know who that is, right? I think she used.
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Speaker 1: To date my, or was married to my.
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Speaker 3: I don't think she's ever been married before.
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Speaker 1: No. I think she was dating my homeboy.
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Speaker 2: Um so she's approaching 50 years old and she is single and she talked about the seven reason why reasons why she's so she's still single and this went viral the other day um here are her seven.
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Speaker 4: Reasons she's single yeah all right let me hear this and i can play you the clip actually if you want or you want me to just read it off read it off okay So she said that her first thing is the spark isn't enough.
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Speaker 1: What does that mean?
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Speaker 2: So it basically means like, just because I feel a spark, that doesn't mean that it will create a sustainable relationship.
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Speaker 1: That's the same thing as like, all.
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Speaker 3: Right, sex yeah like just because you feel like oh the lust.
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Speaker 2: Of this yeah that's not necessarily meaning that this is going to last into a sustainable relationship right okay right two she said that small talk doesn't work i need depth so like shallow conversations just like surface level things is not enough for her like she wants to be with someone who's intellectual enough to have an in-depth conversation about different things and communicate etc.
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Speaker 1: Like on the first date She didn't specify on.
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Speaker 3: I don't know if she's on the first date or not.
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Speaker 1: Go get a politician.
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Speaker 2: I get what she's saying, though. Like, you want to talk. You want to be able to have deep conversations with someone. That's important for people.
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Speaker 1: Well, I get it. But, like, I'm getting to know you.
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Speaker 3: No, she's not saying necessarily... This is not just on the first date.
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Speaker 1: She's just talking about... Yeah, but, like, this is dating. Yeah, I get what you're saying. You want somebody just like small talk. Yeah, I understand. I get what you're saying.
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Speaker 2: You want to talk
about real shit, you know? Because there's so many people who get in relationships and it's just like very surface level everything.
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Speaker 3: It's like, let's talk, you know?
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Speaker 1: Yeah, right.
00:18:49
Speaker 3: Number three.
00:18:50
Speaker 1: She want some of that, like, do you believe in God type of talk, huh? Is the moon landing real? I don't know.
00:18:57
Speaker 3: Is the earth flat?
00:18:58
Speaker 1: It doesn't necessarily mean that. She on that?
00:19:00
Speaker 2: I don't know if it's on that or just like, just actually like talking, getting to know each other, what happened in your.
00:19:06
Speaker 3: Childhood, you know, that type of stuff. Yeah, I get it.
00:19:09
Speaker 2: Number three, she said, I run the math on any connections. Is this person worth the piece that I've built?
00:19:14
Speaker 1: The math.
00:19:16
Speaker 2: Like she's running the math in her head of like, is the pros outweighing the cons? Does it feel like this person is disturbing my peace?
00:19:25
Speaker 3: I can deal with that. I think everyone should do that, right?
00:19:27
Speaker 1: Yeah.
00:19:30
Speaker 2: Four, my brain has updated its threat detection.
00:19:33
Speaker 3: I watch for warning signs now.
00:19:36
Speaker 1: Okay. What took you this long?
00:19:38
Speaker 3: Well, this is what I will say though.
00:19:40
Speaker 2: I will say, I think as you get older, it does become harder to date because your standards change, right? And you know more about life, more about what you want and more about people. So you become more jaded because you're more hurt or you've been through more shit.
00:19:54
Speaker 3: And you're like, wait a minute, I know what this means.
00:19:56
Speaker 2: Whereas when you're young, it's easier to find somebody because you don't care about a bunch of shit.
00:20:01
Speaker 3: You're like, is he cute?
00:20:02
Speaker 2: Is he fine?
00:20:02
Speaker 3: Does he have a little bit of money? Does he have good sex? Does he treat me all right?
00:20:06
Speaker 1: Cool. Cool.
00:20:07
Speaker 2: But when you get older, you got so many stipulations around what you want, what you don't want.
00:20:13
Speaker 3: She said, I'm not downgrading. That's number five.
00:20:16
Speaker 1: Well, what's the, what that mean? I mean, who was the upgrade before?
00:20:20
Speaker 3: I don't know. So this is just her list.
00:20:23
Speaker 1: I don't know what level she was at before. Like, was she dating any like, you know, A-list celebrities?
00:20:29
Speaker 3: Probably. I don't know who she was dating, but I'm sure she was.
00:20:32
Speaker 1: But like, I mean, it was a public.
00:20:33
Speaker 2: Or maybe she just means she's not downgrading her lifestyle.
00:20:37
Speaker 1: Yeah, what's her lifestyle? What has she got going?
00:20:40
Speaker 2: I mean, she has her podcast. She obviously was on Joe Budden's show for a long time.
00:20:44
Speaker 1: Oh, she was?
00:20:44
Speaker 3: Yeah, he replaced her with
someone else.
00:20:47
Speaker 2: But that was the whole thing that happened when he was replacing her that they put out, I was going to be her replacement.
00:20:53
Speaker 1: Yeah, I will say this with her list.
00:20:56
Speaker 2: Wait, let me finish it first. And then you say, so you hear everything. Six is, I have rebuilt my life piece by piece. It's my fortress.
00:21:03
Speaker 1: Yes.
00:21:04
Speaker 3: Seven is I noticed what I used to ignore. So that's her list. So you can say what you want to say.
00:21:11
Speaker 1: Everybody going to have a list and that's cool for them. You know what I'm saying? I have nothing against her list because your list is going to be something that's going to protect you and what you already done been through to say, all right, if I can get somebody like this, which maybe you will, maybe you won't, that's going to bring peace to you. And You know, being a senior citizen.
00:21:36
Speaker 3: I'm crying.
00:21:37
Speaker 1: She 50, right?
00:21:39
Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess she's approaching 50.
00:21:41
Speaker 1: I mean, she still look good. I think I've seen her on the show. Yeah, she does. You know, that ain't a knock on her. I just think, you know, everybody gonna have their list and everybody's been through. She's probably been through a lot. I think she's the date to homie. I'm not 100% sure.
00:21:53
Speaker 2: Well, you know, she was a video vixen and, you know, that's how she got her career off the ground. Or that's how people know her is from videos.
00:22:00
Speaker 1: I know her, but I'm just, my memory is all messed up. I think they was living together too. And it kind of like went. But anyway, that's another subject. And I don't know how that ended. But anyway, you know, she know that time is running out too. But I think she better understand that. Because in a decade, she's going to be 60. You know, and then you don't want to be 60 and alone. Right? Or maybe you do.
00:22:27
Speaker 3: Maybe you do.
00:22:28
Speaker 1: You know, but it's hard out here. You know, once you start getting up in the age for a female, for a lady, for a woman.
00:22:34
Speaker 3: I think it's hard for man and woman, but I will say this.
00:22:38
Speaker 2: I've noticed, right, that women will choose to like leave a man at an older age or be alone because they'd rather be.
00:22:47
Speaker 3: Alone, but men will be more miserable by themselves.
00:22:49
Speaker 2: Like, I look at my mom and dad and my mom and dad, even when they're not kicking it, like my mom will always say, your dad will be depressed and.
00:22:56
Speaker 3: I'm hitting it.
00:22:57
Speaker 2: I'm living my best life because women naturally take care of men, not even like financial men take, but when men start to get older, they need more of like a caretaking type of person.
00:23:07
Speaker 3: So like men get more sad and women be like, I'm good. I don't have to wait on this man. I don't have to do this. I don't have to do that anymore.
00:23:14
Speaker 2: I noticed that with women at an older age, um, like they feel more fulfilled. But it's hard when you're someone who's like wanted a kid. I don't know if she wants kids anymore.
00:23:24
Speaker 3: She's about to be 50. So I doubt, I mean, I'm not going to say I doubt it. I don't know.
00:23:27
Speaker 2: But I'm saying like when you want to have certain things for your life as a woman, you do have a time clock like men do not.
00:23:34
Speaker 3: You know, that's the difference.
00:23:36
Speaker 2: Men can go and have someone pregnant at 80 years old if they wanted to.
00:23:40
Speaker 1: I wonder why did that list go viral? Because, I mean, I didn't really hear nothing on there that was just like, whoa, whoa, whoa, take a step back. You need to lighten up your list. I didn't hear nothing. I didn't really hear.
00:23:50
Speaker 2: No, I think her list wasn't bad at all, to be honest with you.
00:23:54
Speaker 1: I mean, it's not a bad list. I didn't hear nothing that was like red flag, like men stay away from her. I didn't hear nothing on that list like that. So that's why I'm like, how did that go viral?
00:24:03
Speaker 3: You know, I think it's... People.
00:24:05
Speaker 1: Probably think she need to like... Well, because people think you're 50. It kind of sounds tight. Like, you need to loosen up the less or something?
00:24:13
Speaker 3: I don't feel like it was even that tight. I just think that.
00:24:16
Speaker 2: I do think that men and women, as they get older, just people in general, you do start to know more, understand more. And how you would choose a woman now is different than how you would have chose a woman when you were 20, right?
00:24:30
Speaker 3: Because you know what to look for now. You've been in these.
00:24:32
Speaker 2: Long relationships and you know, okay, I'm not looking for that no more. Or I was just looking for a fine girl and we can work on everything else later. But now it's like, looks are not enough. I don't, I'm not just going for looks. You got to have this, that, and that.
00:24:45
Speaker 1: I wonder if race, I wonder with her, does race matter?
00:24:48
Speaker 3: I don't know. She never mentioned that.
00:24:49
Speaker 1: I think we got to start throwing race out there because I think you black girls, when you start getting opened up up there in age, you got to start opening up y'all races.
00:24:57
Speaker 3: I think at any age, you should start opening up your races.
00:25:01
Speaker 1: You got to open up your races. You got to give, you got to give yourself a chance.
00:25:05
Speaker 3: I think at.
00:25:07
Speaker 2: Any age, you should start opening up races in my opinion, because I feel like you should, you know, you should, you should, you should really start opening that up.
00:25:18
Speaker 1: Okay.
00:25:18
Speaker 2: So anyways, moving on from that, Clarissa Shields, We all know who she is, right?
00:25:24
Speaker 1: Yeah, the champ.
00:25:27
Speaker 2: She said she would be a
Christian porn star. So she was on a stream and was asked what she would do if she didn't box. And she replied saying she would be a Christian porn star, meaning that she would make porn, but only with her man.
00:25:43
Speaker 1: I'm about to look up what's a Christian porn star. Like, I want to, like, what is that? I'm doing porn for God?
00:25:48
Speaker 3: I think she made that up.
00:25:49
Speaker 1: I'm doing porn for God? Like, is that a thing? Hold on, though. That can't be.
00:25:53
Speaker 3: You're not doing porn for God.
00:25:55
Speaker 1: What does Christian porn star mean?
00:25:56
Speaker 3: She's saying, I'm telling you what it means. She's saying that she would only do porn with her man.
00:26:00
Speaker 1: Well, just say that.
00:26:03
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, but baby, I don't know that anybody wants to see.
00:26:06
Speaker 1: I'm looking at no results of this. There's no results for Christian Horrorstar. I mean, that's like that, dude. I mean, that's kind of normal. That's kind of normal with your man.
00:26:22
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's not normal to put it out for the world and let people see and pay for it. That's not normal. That's what a porn star is. you're not making a sex tape for you and your man you're becoming a porn star meaning you're having sex there's nothing christian about that you're having sex and putting it out there for the world to see and letting other men or women whoever watch this like that's not no that's absolutely insane would you ever.
00:26:46
Speaker 1: Make a christian porn make.
00:26:48
Speaker 2: Porn with your significant other like if you guys were down bad and it was just like let's get some porn cracking.
00:26:54
Speaker 1: Nah, I'm good on that world. That's not, I'm good.
00:26:56
Speaker 3: On that world. That's a dark world, it seems like. It seems like a very dark world.
00:26:59
Speaker 1: I mean, when you start to put yourself out there like that, it's just, you just don't give a damn.
00:27:05
Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree.
00:27:06
Speaker 1: You just like, you know, I'm just here for the world. At this point, I'm going to have sex with as many people I want and everybody can see it. You're a slave to your body.
00:27:15
Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree.
00:27:16
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? I agree. And if that's what it takes for you to survive, then, you know, to each his own.
00:27:24
Speaker 2: I think that I commend women that have been sexualized or have like a body that's been sexualized, right?
00:27:31
Speaker 3: Like a curvy girl, a big butt or big boobs, whatever.
00:27:34
Speaker 2: That chooses the route of not doing that because it is an easy way to make a lot of money.
00:27:40
Speaker 3: And a lot of women do it.
00:27:42
Speaker 2: A lot of women have OnlyFans and it's became so accessible, so easy to do. You can do it from your home. And so the women who do not choose that route, kudos to you. And kudos to me.
00:27:55
Speaker 1: It's hard out here, though.
00:27:56
Speaker 3: Because I could be choosing that route, too, and doing all of that. It's hard out here in these streets. Yeah, it's tough.
00:28:01
Speaker 1: If you got, I'm telling you, that's why you see in the hood, like, if the opportunities ain't there... Casby going to slang and drugs is easy. I can make the money doing this. Like now for a girl who don't have the same opportunities, that's why in the hood they like, oh, I could go to the strip club and make this. I could do OnlyFans and get this. Like I get it.
00:28:21
Speaker 3: And I don't judge it.
00:28:22
Speaker 1: I get it. I understand the situation, everybody's situation. And then when desperation kick in, what you going to do? And that's what you see a market for it for. So it is what it is.
00:28:34
Speaker 3: And I think as a woman, you know, damn. You get down bad.
00:28:40
Speaker 1: Don't wait until it's too late.
00:28:41
Speaker 3: You better start throwing that thing.
00:28:44
Speaker 1: Don't be waiting on no man. If the man ain't, if he ain't showing, what's the prince that come and show up on the high horse? If he ain't pulling up, then.
00:28:52
Speaker 3: And these days, he ain't pulling up.
00:28:54
Speaker 1: He ain't pulling up.
00:28:55
Speaker 3: I don't even think them type of men exist.
00:28:57
Speaker 1: He's doing a drive-by.
00:28:59
Speaker 2: I'm not going to say they don't. I feel like there is still good men out here. So I will say that. Um, what do you feel like you would be doing if you didn't play basketball?
00:29:10
Speaker 1: Um, if I didn't hoop, I'll find a way. I just think I'm a, I'm a, I'm a, uh, I'm a go getter. You know what I'm saying? I just think like if I didn't hoop, uh, I would have been some type, I would have started a business or something, something like, uh, You know, growing up, if I was in the hood, growing up, I was trying to like see what the market is. And then with today, the time is, there's so many ways you can make money through online stores. and stuff. I'll educate myself. I would have educated myself on things like that, e-commerce. Right now, you can sit at home and just make money right now. Like, really? Yeah. you know, I would adjust with the times, you know, like at 1920, it would have been something different. So I would have been like, all right, probably would have got a job, worked for the city. I don't know, figured it out. And then I would just be, I always be trying to advance. I would, I would have never like stay in one place. You know what I'm saying? If I was doing security, all right, next thing I know I'm on my own security firm. Yeah. Okay. From that, like, you know what I mean? I'm going to build it up, whatever I was going to do. 100%. You know, if I was just throwing youth programs, I mean, it's whatever. Whatever it is, I'm going to start somewhere and I'm going to take it to the next level. And that's my mindset. That's my work ethic. That's just how I was built. And, you know, if Hooping wasn't
there, it definitely would have been a different route I would have took. But I always feel like no matter what route I took, I would have got back to that place where I'm at today.
00:30:46
Speaker 3: Yeah, 100%. Okay.
00:30:51
Speaker 2: Blueface, which I'm so sick of anything that has to do with Blueface.
00:30:55
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. What's wrong with Blueface?
00:30:57
Speaker 3: I mean, everything is wrong with him. We know that.
00:30:59
Speaker 2: But outside of what's wrong with him is he, so he just had a baby with Nevaeh, which is.
00:31:06
Speaker 3: His baby mom, obviously.
00:31:07
Speaker 1: Is she a singer? No.
00:31:09
Speaker 3: You're talking about Nevaeh.
00:31:10
Speaker 1: Nivea? It's not the same girl?
00:31:12
Speaker 2: Nevaeh is a young girl. Nivea is about your age. She's a senior citizen too.
00:31:15
Speaker 1: Oh, damn.
00:31:16
Speaker 3: I thought that was the singer. She used to be with Lil Wayne. This is your generation. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:31:20
Speaker 1: I know who Nevaeh is.
00:31:21
Speaker 3: I know who she is.
00:31:22
Speaker 2: Nivea.
00:31:23
Speaker 1: I know who Nevaeh is.
00:31:24
Speaker 2: Nevaeh is some young 22-year-old girl that was Blueface Baby Mama.
00:31:30
Speaker 3: They would be streaming together. You know what I'm saying?
00:31:32
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know which one this is. And so.
00:31:34
Speaker 2: She just had a baby that was in a relationship, living together, doing the baby shower before the baby even dropped.
00:31:40
Speaker 3: You know, he dogs these women bad.
00:31:43
Speaker 2: Yeah. He hops from woman to woman to woman. Before the baby even drops, he leaves her. He goes back to Krishan.
00:31:51
Speaker 4: Uh-huh.
00:31:52
Speaker 2: Krishan obviously has his baby. You know, their baby has a mental.
00:31:57
Speaker 3: Illness, disorder.
00:31:59
Speaker 2: And he recently had said that's not his baby and all this. Yeah. He gets back with Krishan and proposes to her publicly in a club in Arizona.
00:32:12
Speaker 3: She's crying her eyes out. She's like, yes.
00:32:16
Speaker 2: Whoa.
00:32:16
Speaker 1: Yeah.
00:32:17
Speaker 2: So they not, I guarantee they're not going to for real get married. I think that they just, she is crazy. So the other girl is over there.
00:32:24
Speaker 3: Just had this baby. She's crying her eyes out.
00:32:27
Speaker 2: The thing is, is I'm going to say this and I know this sounds crazy, but I don't feel bad for none of these girls.
00:32:32
Speaker 3: You knew what you were getting into with this man.
00:32:34
Speaker 1: 100%.
00:32:35
Speaker 2: He publicly dogs women constantly. The type of stuff he does is so absurd and ridiculous. He's been with seven different women this year. He was with Hazel Lee at one point. Then he was with this other girl, Nivea, whatever, this other stunner girl.
00:32:53
Speaker 3: He was with her. He'd been with seven different women.
00:32:56
Speaker 2: Krishan, the fact that you keep taking this boy back, I will literally pray for you. He dogged you. You went online publicly and said he was gay and that you was.
00:33:08
Speaker 3: Doing whatever in his butt.
00:33:09
Speaker 1: Damn. Damn.
00:33:10
Speaker 3: So now you go.
00:33:12
Speaker 2: Back with this man, y'all are all sick and delusional and need help. And I really do see why other communities look at us. And if this is the thing being publicized, I'm just like, damn, we look a mess.
00:33:25
Speaker 3: We look a mess. This is what's being on the internet.
00:33:27
Speaker 1: Well, this is the thing. Like, once you, like, she had a kid with him. I mean, that was love. That was love. Sometimes love, when you let it go, If it's true love, it'll come back around.
00:33:44
Speaker 2: So you guys are going to jail. You're getting ass beat. You're doing all this and that's true love.
00:33:49
Speaker 1: It came back around. She got the tat, Woody. She got the kid, Woody. And please believe it. These girls understood what they was getting themselves into. But like every girl out here, y'all always feel like y'all could be the one to change somebody.
00:34:05
Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree with you on that.
00:34:06
Speaker 1: You feel me? Like y'all think like, all right, I can change you. And then you get into a comfortable space with somebody that's like, all right, I got him where I want him. And you think you got the lion tamed. But the lion is just not tamed. He's just resting. He was just resting until it was time to eat again. You understand? Lions don't eat every day. Do you know that? Yeah. Because a lion, you got to hunt for your food. You might go out 10 straight days and not capture nothing. But then they can go without food long periods. But then, like I said, he was resting.
00:34:39
Speaker 3: No, I don't agree with anything that you're saying. I'm going to just keep it real.
00:34:43
Speaker 1: He was just like, all right. So he went from here to here now. Don't ever support what he's doing. I'm not supporting none of that. I'm just saying, like, they understood what they was getting into. And you want to get back into it. Yeah, that's fine.
00:34:56
Speaker 3: You want to get back on this roller coaster.
00:34:58
Speaker 2: And so when they got back together, she cleared her bank account of $ 100, 000 and gave it to him. dumb girl and i really hope that you can get some mentorship and some real.
00:35:08
Speaker 4: Therapy let's just no it's just that's love no that's.
00:35:12
Speaker 1: Not love what you calling.
00:35:14
Speaker 2: It it's called uh it's a word i don't think we're able to use anymore but it's.
00:35:19
Speaker 3: Called yeah stockholm.
00:35:21
Speaker 2: Syndrome and stupidity like you're you're you you when the stockholm syndrome you know what that is right You running back to your abuser, that's sad, girl.
00:35:32
Speaker 3: And I really hope that you can get help.
00:35:34
Speaker 2: And I'm not even trying to be mean because you're a young girl and you're very lost in this world. And I really do pray that you can get the help that you need so you can know that you deserve better. And every woman that's messing with this man deserves better. And then you're watching this girl cry her eyes out who just had a baby with this man and he was damn near going to marry this girl two minutes ago. And now you propose it to this girl in the club while this girl just had a brand new baby by you. And it's not like it was a random girl who just had a baby and she wasn't your girlfriend. This was the girl you was living with, you was with every day, he's going to marry. It's different if it was like, oh, I knocked up a random girl. That's not my girl. This is your girl.
00:36:09
Speaker 1: Right, right.
00:36:10
Speaker 3: Like, come on, man. Like, we got to do better than this. I'm sorry.
00:36:14
Speaker 2: And this is the example. This is why I'm scared. This shit is so publicized on the internet. This is an example that young kids are seeing in the black community and they think that shit is cute. And then a young girl is going to be like, well, Krishan keeps going back to him after he was beating her ass and calling her this and saying the son wasn't him and putting her in jail.
00:36:32
Speaker 3: And knocking her teeth out.
00:36:33
Speaker 1: You know what's wrong with our society today and our generation right now? And, you know, we got all these like streamers and, you know, these shows that like, you know, like the housewives or the baddies or the streamers that kind of like push out views. But it's a lot of negativity that is an example that's going to our kids. Yeah, I agree.