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The thing that is even more damaging is overthinking and
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over identifying with your human design. Welcome to the Aligned
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and Magnetic Podcast. I'm your host, Laura Ashley, Intuitive business
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coach certified by the International Coaching Federation, and they call
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me the Money, Mindset and Manifestation Queen. I take a
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spiritual and practical approach that's backed by neuroscience to help
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you make your vision a reality, but more importantly, doing
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it in a way that lights you the fuck up.
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If you're ready to create an aligned, magnetic and profitable
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business so you can live a life and do the
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work you are absolutely in love with, You're in the
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right place. Get ready to hear the powerful questions and
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raw lessons that you need to create success your way.
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Thank you so much for being here. Let's dive in. Hey, love, So,
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this is an episode that I've recorded back I think
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in January twenty twenty four. It is currently November twenty eighth,
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twenty twenty four, and a lot was going on for me.
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I want to post it anyway so that you can
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see the evolution. For context, I had just moved to Montreal.
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I was under so much stress and so much pressure
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because we just pretty much like doubled our lifestyle, and
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I knew that an up level was coming. The move
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was hard, the move was stressful. It wasn't that it
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was hard, and it wasn't that like I didn't know
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that it was right. It was definitely right, and I
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definitely knew that I had to do it. But it
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obviously comes with an adjustment period. So I'm releasing this
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episode today just to showcase the lessons that I was
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learning at that time. I'm in such a different space now.
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It's really amazing to see how time and definitely like
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routine and taking care of yourself just really can change everything.
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There are really good nuggets in here about human design,
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but be I want to share with you, like the
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lifestyle pieces that I had been going through when I
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first got to Montreal back in January. Yeah, I hope
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you enjoy this episode.
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I say, Hi datny and.
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I know flat Okay, Hi, Hi Loves, Welcome back to
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the podcast today. I want to share I guess a
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little bit of a controversial opinion about human design, and
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it is the problem with human design.
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Now, before we get into this.
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I'm just stepping out of an energy where I felt
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super stressed I felt super like, how are we going
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to do it all? And when you're in that level
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of energy, it definitely impacts I would say, your energy levels,
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but not just your energy levels, it totally impacts the
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way that you are being right. So instead of a
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approaching things from like a calm relax.
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I got this, I can do this.
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I'm open to receiving God Angel's universe show me the way.
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Instead of being in that state, you're more in the
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very high stress, like your nervous system is shot. You're
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completely just operating spam an empty battery.
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In a sense, but like you have no choice but
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to keep going.
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So a big lesson from that is like create more space.
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So first thing, create more space, and second thing to
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just not do so much. It's not even just like
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doing a lot, because actually we can do a lot,
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but when we're coming at all of those things that
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we're doing for a place of like energetic tightness and
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stress and like I just got to get through this,
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and we just feel like we're taking all of the
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burdens on our shoulders and we're just trying to make
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it through. If you tune into your body and tune
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into that frequency, it probably doesn't feel the greatest. You
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probably feel very irritated. If anyone interrupts you, you're probably
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gonna snap like things like that. That is how you
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know you're not in alignment energetically with your highest self
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and where you need
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to be headed. So I've been
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taking vitamins, I've been meditating. I recorded myself a hypnosis
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that I listened to every morning before getting out of bed. Now,
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I can't say that I've been perfect at maintaining like
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really healthy habits because I'm just kind of trying to
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get back into a rhythm and a routine that works
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for me. So for the most part, though, I've really
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been trying to do yoga every day.
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I'm taking the stairs more.
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I'm really trying to get to the gym as well.
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But it's like I have to slowly build that because
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when I first got here to Montreal and I came
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back from vacation, I was working like from nine o'clock
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in the morning until seven pm. And I just realized
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that I cannot sustain that, and that I deserve to
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have free time.
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I deserve to take care of my body.
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And I know that a lot of entrepreneurs struggle with
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this like, I am so driven by my work. I
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am such a motivated and driven person. I want to succeed,
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I want to help people. I want to do all
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of the things. And just because you want to do
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it doesn't mean you have to do all of that right.
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And what's so important, and this is why I.
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You know, was health coaching in the beginning, because it's
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so necessary to take care of our body, to nourish
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our body, to take our vitamins, to forgive, to forgive ourselves,
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to forgive others, to do the energy work and the
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mindset work that really allows us to operate in a
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higher frequency, if this makes sense, and that is more
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relaxed and not high strung and stress the fuck out
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right anyway, I just wanted to kind of share that
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just in case anybody listening is struggling with this too.
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I want you to know that, first of all, you're
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not alone. It happens. But second of all, that you
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really need to slow down and to start taking care
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of your body and your mental health. Your mental
health
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needs to be priority, especially when you're interested in up leveling.
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If you feel like.
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You're kind of in a state of stagnancy in your business,
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I can probably guarantee you that it's because you haven't
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done your energy work and your mindset work. I'm also
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coming to this realization that, like, holy shit, I kind
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of like put my mindset work on the back burner
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for too long, and I need to circle back. And
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I'm so thankful it's such a game changer to just
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come back to what is your goal, what is your vision?
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And how can you energetically start to clear the stuff
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that's keeping you stuck and to make space for that
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goal and to stay committed to that goal. I find
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so many people set these big, lofty goals, but then
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they don't stay the course right. It's like they want
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that goal, but they don't believe that they can have it,
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and so therefore they give up halfway through on their
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way to the goal. I love you, Tea. You're just cute.
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Do my little buddy?
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I like to sit in this chair. I'll sit on
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the couch, or I go to the bedroom and she
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just flotows me and she's.
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Like, fem mom, are you okay? Can I get to pet?
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Please get to see it?
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Okay?
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Back to the topic.
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So what I really wanted to talk to you guys
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about today's human design and the problem with human design.
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Now, this might be a shocking episode to you.
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Because anybody who has been like, if you've been here
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for any sort of minutes, if you've been in my
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community for even like I don't know, a couple months,
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you know that I love human design. You know that
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my business literally fucking changed after I started embodying my
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human design. Leading up to that change, I was learning
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a lot about business. I was learning a lot about
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mindset and manifestation, and I had been doing a lot
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of the exercises. Strategically speaking, my business was great, right
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Like my strategy was perfect, it was on point.
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In terms of my mindset. I knew I was worthy.
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I was able to coach other people to five ks
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eight k like hay in full clients twenty k months,
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no problem.
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But when it came to.
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Me and my manifestation, I was doing the manifestation work,
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I was doing my mindset work, and I had the
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perfect strategy, and.
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I still wasn't getting resolved.
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Some people might chalk this up to like, oh, well,
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you just didn't like stay the course, and that's not
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true either, because I had been working at my business
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and like launching and promoting and doing a lot of
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the same thing time and time again. I did the strategy,
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I did the numbers, I did all of that. I
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looked at the things I needed to look at from
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a realistic and like entrepreneurial perspective.
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There was something missing.
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And that thing that was missing was my human design,
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just embracing my energy and how I am designed to
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function in this world. So if you know anything about
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my story, if you don't, I'm going to tell you
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right now. Basically what happened is I learned my business strategy.
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I was learning mindset and manifestation. Human design is what
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unlocked my next level. So up until to that point,
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I had made like I think the highest month that
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I made was like two thousand dollars maybe three thousand
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something around that in my business, and it was like
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a one time thing. I was making consistently around one thousand,
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sometimes one thousand, five hundred. Once I integrated my human design,
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so I learned about human design. I was like learning
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a lot, learning a lot, But once I really started
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to embody my human design and like seriously give myself
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permission to let go, seriously give
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myself seriously give myself permission to follow my gut.
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Seriously give myself.
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Permission to go all in on my vision and my
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dreams and what I knew was possible for me. Seriously
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give myself permission to let go of the doubts and
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just really lean on faith. That is when I had
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my first fifteen thousand dollars launch. That is when I
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started making five thousand dollars a month. I had eight
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K month as well, And I promise you like this
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was such a game changer in my business.
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But I see something happen.
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A lot for people who are just learning about human design,
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and it's a really big problem that can actually create
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more blockages than you originally came to human design with right.
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So a lot of people come to human design because
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they want to uncover the secret way that they can
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be in order to reach their next level, or why
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things don't feel right, or why whatever like insert what
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you want. A lot of people come to human design
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not just as a self development and awarees tool, but
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to figure out a problem right, to solve a problem
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that they're experiencing, which is totally valid. I often hear,
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though people say things like and let me know if
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you resonate with this, Oh I'm a projector I shouldn't
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work more than four hours a day, or oh, I'm
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an emotional authority, so therefore I shouldn't make any commitments,
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or I'm a generator, so I can't commit to more
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than one thing. Now, I've recently actually found myself using
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human design, my human design as a way of giving
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myself way too much permission to over commit myself and
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my energy, which is actually what got me into that
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place of burnout that I kind of introduced at the
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beginning of this episode. So I'll tell you more about
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exactly what got me there, and like what I would
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do differently.
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And how I thought I was following my design but
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I really wasn't.
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It is super easy to slip into excl explaining away
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or behavior with human design when it's actually just societal conditioning.
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That's the last thing I want to say about what
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I just said.
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I'll explain that later, because I want to first focus
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on the big problem with human design, and so the
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thing that is even more damaging is over thinking and
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over identifying with your human design. This isn't even just
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about human design itself. It's also about astrology. It's also
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about gene keys, it's also about numerology. It's also about
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you know, personality tests like the Meyers Brakes tests for example,
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any sort of tool, any agraam, any sort of tool
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that you use for self awareness and to really help
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you understand more about who you are. There is potential
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for this to happen. So I want you to be
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really aware of it because it is a big problem
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that I see a lot of entrepreneurs being affected by.
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So I notice this issue with a lot of people
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who are overachievers. It also happens in people who don't
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trust themselves.
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So just have that at the back.
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Of your mind as you listen through this episode, and
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just keep your finger on like, Okay, what is it
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that's really the root of this issue. If this is
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something that resonates with you, The thing is that overachievers,
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people who don't trust in themselves or feel insecure, is
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that they're searching for some sort of answer that is
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outside of themselves. They're searching for some sort of external validation,
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some sort of external reason why, some sort of external
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answer that's going to give them the secret key to
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success or the secret blueprint to their dream life. Right,
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no tool and no person for that matter, who can
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give you that
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only you can really dig and like discover what that
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answer is. It's part of the reason why I love
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coaching so much, because coaching helps to facilitate you in
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getting to that answer. Contrary to what a lot of
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people believe coaching is, coaching is not about like people
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instructing you on how to find what answer you're supposed
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to do or whatever. It's actually about helping you to
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tap into your subconscious mind and find the answers that
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are already there that maybe you're not saying or maybe
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not connected with. So these people think that they are
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missing something, that they're missing something in their business, they're
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missing something in their life, and that human design, if
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they just know more about their human design, is going
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to somehow unlock the magic recipe for their life. And
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while yes, hear me when I say human design can
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really help human design change the game for me, but
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human design is not a tool to obsess over and
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to just box you in even further than you already are. Okay, example,
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when I see posts of like coaches or people in
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the industry like they are like, oh my god, I
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have this like social media job posting.
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I need a social media.
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Manager, but they have to be a generator. I really
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need a generator on my team. Or you know, somebody
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is like, oh, like, I really want to do this thing,
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but I don't have consistent energy, therefore I shouldn't do it. Podcasting,
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believe it or not, was that thing for me. I
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really wanted to start a podcast, but I had a
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friend who was like, oh, but your energy's not consistent.
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Are you sure you're going to be able to keep
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up with a podcast?
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This is exactly what I mean by do not use
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human designed as a tool to box either yourself in
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or somebody else you can do.
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Ultimately, at the end of the day, you can do, have,
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and achieve anything you want.
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Human design is literally just a tool to experiment with
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your energy, to validate how you're feeling, and to try
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on different ways of doing something to optimize what you're
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already doing.
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It is not a tool to keep you small. It
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is not a tool to put limitations on you. It
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is not a tool to tell you, oh, you can't
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do something. It is not that type of tool. It
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is not a tool to hold you back. Just as
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an example like this whole, I need a generator to
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manage my social media.
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So my social media.
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Manager, my admin assistant, my virtual assistant Anna, she's actually
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a manifestor and she is great at what she does, right,
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like she, I don't need to have a generator to
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do the social media things.
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She works just fine as a manifestor.
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And so like human design did not come to be
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to put people into career categories or job categories. It
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cannot tell you what kind of job you would be
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good at. It can tell you what type of career
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you should jump into. It can't even tell you how
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to niche down in your business. But it can give
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you clues and awareness as to who you are meant
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to be in this world, what you are here to
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embody that's in the incarnation cross, and how your energy
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is designed to help you accomplish the very thing that
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you want to do.
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Okay, So human design is a tool to free you,
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not to limit you.
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Have I said that enough times, I'm going to keep
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saying it because you need to hear it.
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So what I find really interesting is that a.
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Lot of people who struggle with limiting beliefs and lack
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of faith in themselves and to really struggle to believe
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that they can have the life that they are
envisioning,
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or to be the authority that they need to be
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in their business, or to take action in their business
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the way that they need to to get to the
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results that they want. These people with those limiting beliefs
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are the people that tend to come to human design
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and actually use human design as an excuse as to
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why they can't do the things that they already were
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limiting themselves for.
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Does this make sense?
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And so it's a really tricky line to walk between
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using this tool as a way of empowering you and
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a way of leveraging your energy and aligning your energy,
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and using it as an excuse or reason that you
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cannot do something. So the reality is that you can
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do whatever the fuck you want. And the secret to
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finding your magic, your recipe for success is first of all,
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loving yourself and allowing yourself to be your authentic being
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and to free yourself from the mental constructs and beliefs
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that are limiting you, that are holding you back and
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keeping you small. So if you find yourself in this
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place where you're looking at your human design and you're like, oh,
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like I would love to do that thing, but human
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design reference, Oh I would really love to do that,
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this thing over here, I would really love to have
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this kind of life, but human design reference. I need
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you just stop right there, and I need you to
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give yourself permission to follow what you really desire and
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follow what you really want, right and not even just that,
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but like follow what you feel called to do. So
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I talk about feeling called and like what you feel
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called to do in your intuition a lot. I actually
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have a course, it's like a mini course. It's called
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Intuitive Boss, Babe, and that teaches you all about how
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to really connect with your intuition and listen for those
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intuitive nudges for the universe speaking to you, for the
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things that you are meant to do that you are
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too busy focusing and externalizing on like overwhelming yourself with
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everything on the external world, like trying to just like
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get to that next level and a crazy chaotic energy,
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and we focus on just kind of silencing that and
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coming back to self and like, what is it that
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I feel called to do? What is it that I'm
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I'm really feeling told to what is my intuition telling me? So,
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intuition is like one of the best tools that you
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can learn how to use when it comes to manifesting
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your dream life, manifesting your dream business, and learning how
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to make money for the things.
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That you love to do.
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Hey, Love, I hope you're enjoying this week's episode so far.
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will help you too. Okay, see you in there. I
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remember that there was this time a couple years ago
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when I was really struggling with my confidence in my business.
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I had achieved a level of success that I was
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very proud of, but then after going through my divorce,
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I really found myself questioning like who I was and
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what I offered and my value, and like what I
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was doing in the world and what I even claimed
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in my business. And I was really trying to look
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at human design. I spent a lot of time looking
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at my human design and trying to map my niche
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and like what it is that I do.
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To my human design. And I have to say, like
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it got me somewhere.
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It definitely informed a little.
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Bit about like, Okay, what are you here to do?
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Like who are you here to be?
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But like I said, human design cannot tell you what
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type of business to run.
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It can't tell you.
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What niche to work with, right, And I was even like, oh,
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I'm a Capricorn and a lot of my placements are
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in my fourth quadrant and my north node is in
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the house of career. So I was like, of course,
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I'm here to help people build businesses.
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Right, which is true.
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I have a really deep passion in me for helping
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people to build businesses. However, I don't have a passion
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for sitting there and teaching on strategy.
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I don't mind informing my clients.
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Like how to deal with strategy, but My bread and
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butter is really like helping people who are already aware
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of strategy to customize it to them and to really
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make it magical. And when we do that, when we
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make a strategy magical and unique to them, it literally
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completely changes how they show up. It changes the results,
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it changes everything about the way that they were showing
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up before. Because before they come to me and they're like, yeah,
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I get this strategy like whatever, and I'm like, okay, well,
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how do you feel about that strategy because like, you know,
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I'm picking up some funky energy and they're like, yeah,
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I don't really love it. But once we get them
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behind really loving what it is that they're doing and
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really showing up for and believing in themselves, that's when
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shit is just like like they're off to the races
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and that is what I'm really good at. So all
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of that to say, during this time when I was
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really searching for answers, I was even looking outside of
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myself because I was, you know, I had just gone
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through so much difficulty with you know, getting divorced. I
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was rediscovering like who am I? Like.
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I definitely got stuck.
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In my head and there were a lot of other
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factors and variables involved that I won't get into, but
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I just want to say that the lesson here is that,
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like human design and astrology did not solve my problems.
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I solved my problems by like finally just landing on something.
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That's the key, landing on something and trying it right.
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I spent so many months just percules and trying to
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come up with like, what's the problem, what's the problem.
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The problem was I wasn't showing up.
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The problem was I wasn't out there like experimenting and
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trying
the thing on right. And So if there's anything
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that you walk away from this episode with, it's just
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to get out of your head, get out of overthinking,
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get out of oversap strategizing, and really get into your
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body and get into the action and get into following
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the instincts that you are receiving, the intuitive nudges that
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you are receiving right, and go with it and work
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on your belief in yourself.
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Okay, Now, before we close.
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Off the episode, I want to just share with you
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how human design can also be a problem in that
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we use it to explain some funky ass patterns or
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societal conditioning that we have not yet be conditioned from.
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So for myself, I found myself really over committing to
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projects and to different things that I thought I was
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really excited about. But let me just walk you through
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the process and what I realize now what actually happened.
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So I've definitely been in this state over the last
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several months where I'm like, hey, I'm ready for the
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next level. Okay, let's go, Okay, let's do this, Let's
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blow this shit up, let's fucking go. And I'm like,
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I know my goal, I know what I want. Let's go,
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let's go, let's go, let's go. But what ended up
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happening is I went into like way overdrive. So I've
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been asking the universe for signs, like asking for collaborations.
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And the thing is that what I realized is that
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when committing to projects, instead of tuning into my gut,
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what I actually ended up doing is I made a
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decision from my emotions. So for any sacral being that
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is not emotional authority. So you know, you might be
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a manifesting generator, but you have emotional authority.
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This does not apply to you.
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This is for people who are purely sacral beings, and
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they do not have their emotional center defined. So what
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I really struggle with is, because we are designed to
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amplify other
people's emotions, we can sometimes take on and
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get confused.
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With decision making.
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So what I tend to see is like I get
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sold into doing something through other people's excitement, right. And
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this is something that I've really had to decondition and
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just be really aware of, because whenever I've made decisions
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from a place of like someone else's excitement for something,
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but my gut initially kind of like I retract Whenever
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I have a gut instinct that something is a no,
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my body like feels like oh no, Like I feel
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kind of not necessarily a punch in my gut, but
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I feel like my body just kind of steps back.
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It's not drawn forward.
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Right, And so I always always always get an initial
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gut feeling, whether it's lit up or whether it's retracting.
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But where I go wrong.
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Is I continue to like feel it out, and as
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I feel it out, I'm getting kind of swirled into
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the other person's emotions. And this is particularly relevant as
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well when investing. I've made a lot of investment decisions
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based on emotions. I had an initial gut instinct. But
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I overrolled that gut instinct and I continued to consider it,
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and then I was like, oh, this is sounding really exciting,
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this is sounding really exciting. Like sure, I think I'm excited. Yeah,
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my gut says I'm excited. But it wasn't my gut.
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It was me absorbing the other person's emotional authority and
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their excitement for the thing that they're selling me on. Right.
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So all of this to say is that we can
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easily explain things away and use human design as like
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a cop out or a way of explaining like behavior.
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And I just want to say that you know, at
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the end of the day, you're our body's always guiding you.
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Whether you know human design, whether you know astrology, whether
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you know fucking I don't care what it is, your
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body's always guiding you in the right direction. The problem
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that I see most often is that people just aren't
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paying attention to their body. They're not paying attention to
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the signals that their body is giving them, and that
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is what's running them into the ground. That's what's making
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them burnouts, what's making them lose their passion and get sick. Right,
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if we don't listen to our body for a long
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enough period of time, we will get sick. It's just
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something that happens. And because we hold all of that
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negative energy or just stagnant energy in our body, and
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we can overwork certain areas.
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Of our body.
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So all of that to say, if you don't know
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anything else about human design, and you only know your authority,
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that is enough to help you get into alignment.
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Right, because your authority is your intuition.
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It's guiding you, it's telling you yes, no, maybe, Like
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it is literally your probably strongest tool as a business owner,
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as a high achiever in this life, who is trying
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to strive for more, who wants more out of life,
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who is here to impact other people, who is here
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to do really incredible things, Like I know that you
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are here to live an epic life, and you can
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do that by simply following your gut instincts. Sorry, I
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want to correct that, not your gut, your authority, because
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everyone has a different authority.
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Right. If you are loving this.
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Episode so far, you're like, I don't know, Like maybe
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I need to reconnect with my human design now.
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I want to.
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Say that you can go down the rabbit hole of
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human design However, what I also see is that people
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who lack the confidence in themselves are looking for external validation.
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They will go down this rabbit hole before they've even
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mastered following their authority. So I want to say two things.
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If you're listening to this episode and you're like, huh,
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00:30:59.359
this human design thing sounds interesting, I'd love to know
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more about my design. I offer human design readings. I
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will drop the link in the show notes that you
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can book a human design reading with me. I promise
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this can be a really big game changer for you
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in your business, and I'm going to help you to
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make it be a game changer for you in your business.
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I'll make sure you don't get stuck down that rabbit hole.
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But the other thing I want to say is if
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you've been knowing about human design but you're really feeling
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like something's off, it's probably because you know you're human design,
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but you're not embodying your human design. And I want
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to throw this opportunity out there to work with me
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one on one. I am really good at helping people
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to embody their design and embody the way that they
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are meant to be, and really to get into that
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body again so that they can make change and not
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just know the changes that they need to make or
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know the information, but to live the information. This is
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called the triple loop of learning Hargrove's work we teach
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us inside of the Coach Approach Leadership Academy. But it
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is one thing to know, it is what another thing
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to do. It to another thing to be right. And
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so when you can combine the knowing, the doing, and
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the being, so your knowledge, your actions, but also the
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way that you be, your energetics, the way that you think,
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the way that you expect things to happen, or the
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way that you expect your life to unfold, that is
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how you master manifestation and going after what it is
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that you really want, and not just that, but also
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master your human design.
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So I would love to help you do that.
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If that feels like it is the right fit for you,
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let me know. We can start with the human design
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reading if you want, and I will probably let you
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know how we can work together long term if that
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is something that you're interested in, and if you've had
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a human design reading for me before and you really
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would like to just work on integrating that information and
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work on embodying it so that you're not constantly feeling
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like you're headed down the wrong path, but you feel
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like you're really lit up with life and lit up
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with what you're doing, where you're going, and you feel
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really confident and you know yourself, you know what you're
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here to do. I would love to help you get there,
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so send me a message. Let's work together. I would
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love to help you get to where you want to be.
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I'm sending you so much love.
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Thank you for being here. If you are interested in.
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Making money doing what you love, make sure you subscribe.
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That is everything that I believe in, and I would
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love to help you get.
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There as well.
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Thank you so much for tuning into the podcast today.
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If you like what you heard, I would love it
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if you left a review. If you like my vibe,
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come and hang with me in my Facebook or Telegram group.
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I'll drop the link to my email list below, or
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you can get instant access. Make sure you check the
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show notes for any other links that I mentioned today,
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and until next time, I'm sending you waves of abundance.
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