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You have this amazing machine called
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Mhmm.
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Human mind, and it's really like a lawyer.
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Mhmm.
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It's looking for evidence.
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Yep.
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All the time.
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Evidence of what you think or believe about
yourself Mhmm.
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About the world, about money, about business,
about pretty much anything.
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Yep.
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Filtering out.
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Yeah.
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What you think about you attract.
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This is how it is.
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It's the law of attraction.
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And I've talked to many wealthy people,
millionaires, billionaires, and they all say
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the same thing.
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It's their mindset.
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They don't talk bad about themselves.
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They don't have that negative self talk.
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They believe that they can accomplish whatever
goal that they set.
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They just believe that they can.
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And therefore they make it happen almost every
single time.
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I think it's a probably this is the most
unbelievable fact for for a lot of people
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living at the bottom of society that, hey.
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It's not your it's not even your school or
education.
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Alright, everyone.
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So today we have Andre Boutest, and I was on
his podcast a few weeks ago, and it was
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awesome.
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And now he's on mine.
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And he is the doctor of self worth, which is
really awesome, and we're gonna hear all about
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that.
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So, Andre, can you tell the audience a little
bit about yourself?
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Absolutely.
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I hope you have a few us.
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I started off, I was born in Central Europe,
and I was looking for my lost self worth most
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of my life.
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I started off with a father who I never felt he
loved me.
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He was not much spending time around.
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He was working most of the time doing his
business.
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And I somehow got so much criticism from him.
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I started to not believe in myself, and I
started to doubt myself.
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My head was full of, yeah, question marks.
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I didn't have the balls to even stand up for
myself or even talk in front of other people
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and always measuring myself up to others.
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So I became a type A personality.
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I achieved things after things after things,
running marathons, trying to impress my dad.
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Mhmm.
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I tried winning championships in basketball and
then long distance swimming, ice climbing.
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Nothing has worked.
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My father was just too busy, even worry about
me.
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And and at one point, I gave up, and I thought,
well, I have to try my luck somewhere else, and
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I moved to New Zealand and later on, tried
using Australia, and I was looking for, looking
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for who I really am.
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It was a very tough journey and with a lot of
dead ends.
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I spent over $100,000 on things that did not
work as far as changing my identity, finding my
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true self and my power.
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I had a whole list of things, and eventually I
found a mentor who helped me to overcome my old
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self limiting beliefs and and and the lack of
confidence most of the time that I had, and
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lack of self belief.
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Ever since that was nine years ago, almost
every collapse in my marriage and losing my
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children.
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Eventually, I I I found my power, and I I
became the doctor of Sapphors.
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It's a brand name that one of my clients gave
me.
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And I've been guaranteeing results ever since
to my clients to get where they exactly wanna
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get to.
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So I make sure that it's always defined.
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Have I answered the question?
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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And thank you for sharing your story.
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You know?
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A lot of it is hard to talk about, but it's
good, you know, you you know, as well as I do.
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It's good to talk about it.
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And I like your story because you tried a lot
of things and nothing really seemed to work.
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But you didn't give up.
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You kept on trying.
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And that led you to your mentor that really
made the
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biggest change.
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Absolutely.
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I think if you're listening to us, don't you
ever give up.
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Because
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I think even the Bible says, keep knocking and
the doors will open.
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And you will find what you're looking for if
you make a decision.
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And my decision was so deliberate nine years
ago when my wife almost walked out with my two
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children because I was still this struggling
man, father.
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I I started to hate my kids.
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I started to hate my wife because I was a
backpacker before.
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I was able to travel the world, you know, five
continents, sixty, seventy countries, and they
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took that away from me.
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Although I was looking for answers specifically
about me, but that freedom was gone.
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And and I had to stand up and earn money,
become the breadwinner.
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And and I think, by putting me, forcing me into
a corner and making that final decision that,
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hey, I don't want to lose my two children and
my wife, I think I became 110% committed.
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Because I worked on myself and delivered.
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Like, you know, I did fire walking and Anthony
Robbins' event and John B.
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Martini and T.
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Harroker.
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Like I wasn't sitting on my butt.
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And somehow I just didn't have the pieces of
the puzzle.
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I needed someone, and probably that's also you
or myself.
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When we get to meet some people and they have
that big missing for us, obvious part of the
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puzzle, and usually it's mindset.
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That is somehow keeping them in this vicious
endless circle and not getting the results that
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they want and I believe they deserve.
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And certainly that was me.
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And I think when there is someone who could
pinpoint the root and they know what to do and
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how to what works to shift things around.
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I think that's magical.
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And and and this is where I believe I love
coaches because I think coaches are making the
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world go around and develop Yeah.
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Evolve.
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They are the tools, magic tools around probably
every country.
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Mhmm.
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And hope politicians will use that more.
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I know.
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Right?
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Yeah.
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But, yeah, I I agree with you.
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Coaches and mentors are so important.
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You know?
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I wouldn't be where I am today without my
coaches and my mentors.
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They've helped me come this far.
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And the reason why they've helped me is because
they lay out the path.
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They help you see things that you can't see.
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Because what a lot of don't realize is you see
the world that you choose to see.
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Everything that you watch on TV, listen to, the
people you're around influences what you see.
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And as soon as you can kinda see a little bit
further and open up your mindset, you see
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things that you didn't think were even there.
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I think that's that's profound, what you said,
but I do have a demonstration glass here.
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To imagine yourself being the old version of
you, And you want things to change, whatever
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problems, challenges you have, and you always
filter whatever is going around you.
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So the results you have today in every area of
life, not just business, is really the printout
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of your old self, of your old mindset.
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If you keep that old filter in front of your
five senses, not just your eyes, then you know,
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left to their own mindset and devices will
repeat the old results.
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And if you want change, then you will need
someone who could question whether you need
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this.
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Because things get red, too red, not good
enough, I'm unlucky, I don't deserve it, it's
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too difficult, I'm not too smart, I'm not
connected enough, I haven't got enough money,
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should I go?
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These are as long as you wear these, you are
looking for proof Mhmm.
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To all the belief that you have been indulging
yourself in.
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Mhmm.
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Yep.
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That's so true.
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And I love the word that you put that and you
do this to eyeglass it because that's exactly
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how it is.
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You will remain the same unless you choose to
be different.
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Hire someone like yourself to get you to the
next level that you want to go to.
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There was a bit of delay, but how do I change
others, and how do I change myself to that next
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level of self?
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That's the question.
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Yeah?
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Yeah.
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Think it comes back to vision.
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I was challenging someone today, and I said,
well, you came to me with the usual trauma,
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anxiety, fears.
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And she realized at one point she doesn't have
those fears anymore.
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And the anxiety and the fear of being alone,
all that old story.
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Today she realized that she needs a vision.
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Otherwise she's now stuck in her better version
yet no forward momentum.
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Oh, yep.
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Said to her, you know, I'm really happy we were
able to solve all these terrible issues of
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anxiety and fears, but not enough.
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We we need momentum toward the new version of
you.
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And I usually challenge them to describe how
has an inspiring life look like, feels like,
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and tastes like or sounds like for them.
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And then I think automatically, for a while,
they have to finally focus on what they want.
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Yep.
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And then, like in another one, they will have
new filters in front of their eyes.
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Yep.
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And new filters mean they will find new things.
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Mhmm.
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One of my favorite ones is I have these people
change how they perceive the world, is this
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idea of, well, what if you've been you could be
waiting for a miracle each day?
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And when they start to happen, you can even
question yourself whether, is it that one at
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midday?
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Or is there more coming?
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And that's a really good problem.
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Like, is there anything better coming my way
till the evening or this is it?
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And remember, what you are looking for is what
you will find.
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Yep.
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It's it's that simple.
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You have this amazing machine called
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Mhmm.
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Human mind, and it's really like a loader.
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Mhmm.
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It's looking for evidence.
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Yep.
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All the time.
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Evidence of what you think or believe about
yourself Mhmm.
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About the world, about money, about business,
about pretty much anything.
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Yep.
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Filtering out.
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Yeah.
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What you think about you attract.
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This is how it is.
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It's the law of attraction.
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I've talked to many wealthy people,
millionaires, billionaires, and they all say
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the same thing.
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It's their mindset.
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They don't talk bad about themselves.
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They don't have that negative self talk.
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They believe that they can accomplish whatever
goal that they set.
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They just believe that they can.
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And therefore, they make it happen almost every
single time.
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I think it's probably this is the most
unbelievable fact for for a lot of people
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living at the bottom of society that, hey.
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It's not your Sabbath.
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Mm-mm.
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It's not even your school or education.
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Yeah.
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Some somewhat to do with the parents from the
family.
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Yes.
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But really there is no ceiling.
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There is no limit to what one can achieve.
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And what that really does take is serious
mindset work.
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Mhmm.
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Is to start to and and probably the best way is
is listening to podcasts like this one.
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Yep.
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You're so lucky to have, yeah, have this
amazing gentleman here doing podcasts for you
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to help you with stories that, hey, it's
possible.
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It was possible for someone from Central Europe
who doesn't even speak the first language as
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English.
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And it was possible for someone who didn't have
legs or someone who is blind, they've been able
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to make a masterpiece out of their lives with
setting
up their mind for happiness, abundance,
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fun, and joy.
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Yep.
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I mean, look.
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About what was five or six years ago now well,
six years ago now, I was going through a really
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hard time.
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I was very depressed.
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I had suicidal thoughts.
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It was not good.
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And do do you wanna know what saved me?
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It was a podcast.
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I found a podcast called The Mindset Mentor by
Rob Dial.
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And that podcast, I just started listening to
it every day as much as I could.
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And I just, I loved it.
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I loved everything I taught and I started to
implement everything in my life.
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And over time, my mindset started improving.
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I started to not have as many negative
thoughts.
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And I started to see the whole world a lot
differently.
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It was amazing.
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It's kind of like the world changed.
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It's like the world got better, but we all know
the world did change.
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It's just my view of the world did.
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So yeah.
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So the podcast, by the the easiest thing to do
is struggle with the podcast, listen to it.
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If you're having a hard time, there's a podcast
out there for you that can help.
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And then the next step is to contact the doctor
of self worth because he can really help you
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out.
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Oh, thanks for that.
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Luckily, yeah, I'm not the only one.
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Luckily, you have some probably in your time
zone, but but, yes, that new I have another one
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here.
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I like that one.
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A new set of glasses, a new set of lens is
helping you to see something different in the
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same world.
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And I think there is nothing more inspiring for
me to have someone do that.
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And I believe that you probably have a very
similar experience when one wakes up.
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Mhmm.
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That they can be in charge to have more
optimism, more sense out of things.
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And I do believe that it's almost like a scale
system in the mind.
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When the tipping point, I believe, about 51%,
then your mind starts to catch more positive,
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better stories that you tell yourself about
whatever happens.
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You don't take things to you personally
anymore.
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That's when it becomes, I think the word is
self perpetual.
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It just starts to work for you automatically
because now the scale is always tipping toward
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more optimism no matter what happens.
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Because
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I can tell you things won't work out for us.
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They won't like there's serious, serious
problems.
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Last week I was on a yeah, I was presenting.
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I found out I was one hour off because New York
has changed the clock.
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That's one thing.
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And it's obviously just in the day.
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And then I find out that my camera stops
working on Zoom.
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I
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had to grab my phone.
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I was a bit late and present it as I was, a
unprepared.
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What is there to say?
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Yeah.
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You've just got to, I believe, sometimes show
up while circumstances seems to test you.
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Mhmm.
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And and it will happen.
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Yeah.
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Probably this conversation was scheduled to us
probably two times before before we could.
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There was at least two reschedules for sure.
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Yeah.
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Yep.
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Have this conversation.
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Somebody was telling me today, oh, don't know
if we should meet because I canceled last time.
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I canceled today, she said to me.
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She said, well, you know, I'm flexible.
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I think if two people wants to meet, especially
you want to meet me, obviously not five minutes
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before or later not showing up, you have, let's
say, good enough reasons why something has come
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up and we keep rescheduling.
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I'm totally flexible with that.
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Life happens, Family commitments, kids, car
breaking down.
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I know how tough life can be, but I won't give
up on anyone.
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No.
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That's how I am too.
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I just I don't give up.
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You know?
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Things happen that slow you down.
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You have to move things around, but you work
around it and keep pushing forward.
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You know?
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It's like, well, I think we were supposed to do
this last Monday, and then I got hit with a big
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snowstorm.
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So then we were scheduled to Friday.
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Well, on Thursday, my computer went out, so I
didn't have a computer.
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So, yeah, things happened, but, like, we still
made our podcast episode happen.
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You know, it's like when me and you weren't
gonna give up on that just because of the warm
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weather or a computer taking a crap.
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You know, it's just keep pushing forward no
matter what.
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And whatever your goals are, you gotta fight
for them every day.
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You gotta chase them.
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Life's a lot easier when you have big goals and
you have something to look forward to.
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Yeah.
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I I do hear you.
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And and and I I say every tiny or bigger step
is progress.
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And
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I can tell you
there are some days when there
is five inches progress I make.
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Or sometimes none.
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But then I'll try not to slide back.
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I think that's a result that day.
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And this collapsing, I had this terrible
situation where I think it started July.
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Some hackers caught on my website,
drsapros.com.
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And I think, yeah, I got finally the specialist
three months after.
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So most of my SEO work was almost done train
and it took us four months to get rid of these,
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I don't know, links that were taking people to
buy t shirts and trousers.
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Under my link, somebody just somehow hooked,
piggybacked somehow.
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I don't understand most of this, but I
realized, well, it's outside of my expertise.
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I needed to hire someone who is good.
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Let me know if you need someone, but, but I now
have to be waiting to do Googling, texting.
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I learned some new phrases and to allow things
to clean themselves up with a professional.
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Yeah, they will be challenged.
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What would you say, I'm wondering, what would
you say about flexibility, especially when it
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comes to Surrey clients?
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How far do you go?
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As far as flexibility, it gets challenging
because if you have a client that reschedules
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almost every time, I've gotten rid of clients
because of that.
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Don't waste each other time.
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If it happens here and there, cool, but you
gotta be consistent.
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You gotta show up.
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Showing up is one of the most important things
you can do.
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Just simply show up and and be there.
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So I am, I would say, fairly flexible, though.
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Like, you know, if I got nothing else going on,
it's kinda whatever.
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You know?
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Yeah.
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You're focused.
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Same.
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I I do have a client, for example, who I've
been talking to for the last three weeks every
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day, ten minutes
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Mhmm.
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To set her balance back and her mind just to
have her through these really hard times.
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I I realized that this, hey.
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We will meet every week or every two weeks.
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It's just not gonna cut
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it.
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Mm-mm.
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So then I I veer off from the plan.
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I'm trying to be I think the word is paying
attention what they need from me, and I I want
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to deliver it because all I really care about,
the results they want.
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You're exactly.
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And as long as you have, you're listening to
us, and you have that in front of your mind, in
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front of your eyes, you can't go wrong.
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Come.
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You have five star rating reviews.
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Mhmm.
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I can guarantee.
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Yep.
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Clients, all they care about is to get what
they want.
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Mhmm.
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I think Zig Ziglar had that wonderful saying,
have as many as you can to get what they want,
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and then certainly you'll get of what you want
or maybe everything you want.
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Mhmm.
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Exactly.
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Exactly.
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And for the listeners, where do they need to go
so they can work with you?
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To to find more to find out more about me is is
the easiest way is my website,
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doctorofselfworth.com.
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That's doctorofof.
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Selfworth.com.
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Only one block.
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Or you could yeah.
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That you'll find free resources there.
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You can click and get a few, free call with me
and see.
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Sometimes I can't find, I cannot help you.
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I'm happy to tell you that, hey, I'm not the
person you need now, or I might have someone
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else.
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But maybe if you punch into Google hashtag
doctor of sufferers, you'll certainly end up on
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one of my social media pages or on my website.
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So yeah, it's fairly easy.
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I also have a few speaking arrangements and
also have a YouTube channel.
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Yeah, it's it's easy these days to find someone
online.
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Mhmm.
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It it really is.
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Awesome.
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And I got one more question for you.
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So my slogan is your abilities are infinite.
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What does that mean to you?
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Well, I I would say ability.
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What does that mean to me?
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I would separate the two, maybe I'm not using
the right terms or terminology, but I think
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ability has this and maybe it's more skill, but
I still take it on that maybe you cannot do
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certain things yet to make your business work,
to make an area of life work because you just
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don't know how.
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I think there's that part of ability which can
be handled fairly easily.
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You find someone who is successful and then you
have the formula.
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But the other part of, I think, ability is
mindset that we talked about a lot today.
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And if you are able to maybe have a coach, have
someone, a mentor, who's able to shift your
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mindset, I think you will always find the
skills that you need.
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You'll be always be able to train yourself up
to get the results that you need and want.
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But without this mindset, please actually
believing that you deserve it, believing that
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you can do it, and believing that, hey, it will
come towards you.
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I think you will have those old I showed you.
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Have those old beliefs that, not good enough.
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I don't deserve it.
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I don't think it will work for me.
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Maybe it will work everyone else, but not me.
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Then you will get your proof and your learning.
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But please, don't make it too hard.
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Don't suffer too long.
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Get someone to change your concept of yourself.
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I call identity self image.
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And then have someone I think it would be
probably best investment of your life.
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Yep.
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The highest the highest rate on investment, I
believe, It's you, the next version of you
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who's able to create results, create a life on
your terms, or maybe just have one extra day
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off a week first.
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But maybe from that extra day, you'll be able
to skyrocket your business or maybe you just
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have that day off.
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I have some friends and they don't work on
Fridays.
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It's their play day, It's their staff
development day.
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They pay in programs and they're having fun,
talk to people around the world, and that's
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their Friday.
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Weekend is family.
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And there comes Monday to Thursday, a four day
work week.
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Yep.
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I think that was a great meaning to that
because it goes with everything that I believe
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You know?
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So thank you for that.
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And, Andre, thank you so much for being on the
show.
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Thanks very much.
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You've been a great host, and and I would love
to have you in front of more and more people
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because you're such an inspiration
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00:32:11,919 --> 00:32:12,559
Thank you.
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For for a lot of people who have soft and hard
excuses not to try it, whatever they want.
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But you are here among us to really show that,
hey, no matter what, things are possible.
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And as you said, I think it's a wonderful
title, infinite ability.
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That's what you have.
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Be a listener.
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Thanks very much for being here.
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00:32:45,910 --> 00:32:46,950
Yeah, thank you.
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And speaking of that, if anybody listening and
you have an event that you would like me to
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speak at, let me know.
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I will let you know because there are times
when I get to get close to summit hosts and
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I'll be able to refer
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you.
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Awesome.
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Thanks.
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Right.
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Well, that was a great episode.
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Thank you again.
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Thanks very much and see you soon.
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If you enjoyed this show, please go ahead and
share anywhere else that you see fit because
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the only way that I can grow this by you guys
doing it, I don't throw anything on here.
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So let's just get it out there by
word-of-mouth, help more people.
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Alright everyone, remember your abilities are
infinite.