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did not end up taking my Valium for my procedure on Monday. So we had our date night on Monday. 00:02:23 Speaker 2: You know what? 00:02:24 Speaker 4: I was having to text Robbie to be like, can you move date night? 00:02:30 Speaker 3: It could have very well, you could have moved your date night on Thursday too. 00:02:33 Speaker 2: I didn't have a date night. Well, no, because Haley had just gotten in from the UK and that was our only day off together. So you and Robbie see each other every single day and night. 00:02:40 Speaker 3: And so do you guys. More so, because we have children. 00:02:43 Speaker 2: I know, but she was out of town. 00:02:45 Speaker 3: Then she came back in town and she's going to be in town for quite some time. 00:02:49 Speaker 2: She went to San Francisco today. 00:02:50 Speaker 3: I'm just saying. It's really the same situation. 00:02:53 Speaker 4: Anyways, we had a best friend date night and. 00:02:58 Speaker 2: So originally I had chosen a spot in Santa Monica, which for all of you who don't know the logistics of L.A. is quite far from me. Not ideal for Tanya, but significantly closer for Tanya. 00:03:09 Speaker 3: For all intensive purposes, this is a restaurant. 00:03:16 Speaker 5: Say that again. 00:03:17 Speaker 3: All intensive purposes. 00:03:18 Speaker 5: It's all intense and purposes. 00:03:21 Speaker 3: It's not intense. 00:03:22 Speaker 2: Yeah, like intent, like intention for all intent. 00:03:26 Speaker 5: T-E-N-T-S. 00:03:28 Speaker 3: For all intent. 00:03:29 Speaker 5: Intents and purposes. 00:03:30 Speaker 3: Intents, but it's not, it wasn't intense. 00:03:32 Speaker 5: No, we're not saying that. No, that's a different word. 00:03:35 Speaker 2: That's, yeah. 00:03:36 Speaker 3: Valium, okay. For all intents and purposes, this is Becca's favorite restaurant. Like, she loves this place. You've spent birthdays there. We did your engagement dinner there. 00:03:44 Speaker 5: Yeah, I love it. 00:03:45 Speaker 3: Becca loves it. I don't particularly like this place. 00:03:48 Speaker 2: Since when? 00:03:50 Speaker 3: I would never opt to go there. But because Becca loves it so much, I was happy to go. I was prepared to go. I was ready to go. 00:03:57 Speaker 2: But when I told her the place, I received a very underwhelmed response. So I clocked it in my head. And then as I was driving to said restaurant, I was about to pass the exit where I would need to get off to go to Tanya's place. And I was like, would you... prefer to go somewhere closer to your house. And she was like, I'd always choose somewhere closer to my house. So I said, okay, do you think we can find somewhere on a Friday night right now? Like last minute. So she got to work and she found. I got to work. 00:04:26 Speaker 3: W-E-R-K. Okay. 00:04:28 Speaker 5: Work. 00:04:29 Speaker 2: Yeah. Cause I was like, I'm driving. So if you want to go somewhere else, you gotta, you gotta source it. 00:04:32 Speaker 3: And this was 5pm and we were looking for a 5.30 reservation. So it's tough. 00:04:36 Speaker 2: Well, which isn't that hard because most people on a Friday are not heading out at 5.30. 00:04:42 Speaker 4: You'd be surprised. Okay, so she finds a restaurant. 00:04:48 Speaker 2: And texts the girl who manages it or runs it, owns it. 00:04:53 Speaker 3: No, she doesn't own it, but she's very high up. She's a scrubber. Her name is Erin. Shout out, Erin. 00:04:57 Speaker 2: Shout out to Erin. 00:04:58 Speaker 3: Bad Roman Erin. I text her at five and asked for a 530 reservation thinking that she was like not going to get back to me. So I was like, let's just try. Let's just like wing it and go. But guess who got back to me? 00:05:10 Speaker 2: Erin. 00:05:10 Speaker 3: Erin, our scrubber. And she said, you're all set. 00:05:13 Speaker 2: Yeah. 00:05:14 Speaker 3: Which made me delighted because I've been wanting to take you there for a while. And so it all kind of worked out. But it was so funny. And what made me like really happy is Robbie got home from work and he was like, why do you look so sexy? Aren't you going? I was like, oh, yeah. Are you jealous? This is making you jealous. It's the first time I've ever seen him give any ounce of like. 00:05:34 Speaker 2: He's probably like, what is girls night mean if you're dressed like this? But you weren't dressed. 00:05:41 Speaker 3: I just had a bra. I basically had, like, a bra and, like, a sheer top on. 00:05:43 Speaker 2: Yeah, the sheer top of the bra. 00:05:45 Speaker 3: It was sexier than I normally dress, but it was, like, 100 degrees. So in my mind, I was just, like, put on the least amount of clothing I possibly can. 00:05:51 Speaker 2: It was like, that's your vacation outfit. Correct. 00:05:53 Speaker 4: Our romantic vacation look. 00:05:54 Speaker 2: Yeah. 00:05:55 Speaker 3: And I was like, no. Going out where the 20-year-olds go with Becca. I feel like that's what Elefante is. 00:06:01 Speaker 2: It's, like. 00:06:03 Speaker 1: Youth. 00:06:03 Speaker 3: Youth. 00:06:05 Speaker 2: Yeah, so. 00:06:05 Speaker 3: Had to dress appropriately. 00:06:07 Speaker 2: But we didn't go there. 00:06:07 Speaker 3: Yeah. 00:06:08 Speaker 2: Yeah. But the restaurant we went to was incredible. But they go to sit us down and they put us at a four top. So it was a booth and then two chairs on the other side. 00:06:17 Speaker 3: Isn't that great, Mark? 00:06:19 Speaker 5: Not for me, but good for you. I'm glad because I know that's a dream of yours. What is? Sitting on the same side of the table like newscasters. 00:06:27 Speaker 2: And so she goes, oh, my God, we can sit on the same side. And I had a choice to make because my initial reaction is. 00:06:34 Speaker 3: Like, No. 00:06:37 Speaker 5: Right. Normal human reaction. 00:06:38 Speaker 3: Yes. 00:06:39 Speaker 2: There's more room for that. But then I was like, you know what? I wanted to have a night to make Tanya feel loved and celebrated and be a good friend to her. 00:06:51 Speaker 4:

So I sat on the same side. 00:06:53 Speaker 5: Wow. And did your neck hurt after a while? 00:06:56 Speaker 2: Yeah. Thank you. Oh my gosh. 00:06:58 Speaker 3: You guys are so dramatic. You just turn your body. 00:07:01 Speaker 2: The logistics are so weird as a friend sitting on the same side. If you're with your partner, it makes sense. Cause it's like, okay, you're like physically touching and cuddling and like having that. But like, Just having conversation with someone made it so, I was like, this makes no sense. 00:07:17 Speaker 3: And Becca was like very, and once you pointed it out to me, I couldn't unfeel it. But she's like, there's no barrier between us and then the people that are like the table across from us. So we're just staring at them. We're just like staring at this. And they're a booth. So they're basically like in like a square facing us. 00:07:31 Speaker 5: Oh, right. Right, like you're delivering the news to them. Yes. 00:07:34 Speaker 3: And she was like, I just feel like there's no barrier between us and that table across. So then I started feeling weird because I was like, she's right. And then I just kept staring at them. 00:07:43 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was very awk. So I'm glad I was able to do it for you. But I don't, I think I'll be just a little, but not because I don't love you or respect you, just because of just like my neck comfort. 00:07:54 Speaker 5: It's fine. 00:07:55 Speaker 3: I mean, I usually take the L. I always sit across from you. Really, every time we've gone, I sit across from you. 00:08:00 Speaker 2: Well, normally they put us in a, Two top. Yeah. 00:08:02 Speaker 3: I mean, I was blessed with that four top. I was like, Erin knows, Erin knows me. She knows what I need right now. 00:08:08 Speaker 4: Erin set you up for success and set me up for discomfort. 00:08:11 Speaker 3: Correct. 00:08:12 Speaker 2: Um, but the meal is amazing. Like I can't wait to take Haley there. It's so fun. 00:08:18 Speaker 4: So fun and cute. And we were home by seven 30. 00:08:20 Speaker 2: Yeah. 00:08:22 Speaker 5: Delicious. 00:08:25 Speaker 2: So then what'd you do? 00:08:27 Speaker 3: And then Saturday we went to a celebration of life and actually it was like really impactful to me in a way. Cause this was one of Robbie's like really good friends from high school. And so it was a lot of like his friends and I'd met him a couple of times. I didn't know him that well, but the thing that I found so like beautiful about this is like everybody that came up and spoke, the sentiment was that this man was somebody who was there for people, even when they didn't ask for it. And that like really stood out to me because I feel like I'd say in particular this past year, I've been like very inward I've been like very selfish in a way like I've just been so focused on like me and like my journey right now that I I don't feel like I'm as aware of like the people in my life and like what they need obviously if they ask for help and they

need something I'm there but like when people don't ask for it I feel like I've just been so unaware um and so like it really stood out to me after that memorial of like that I just want to be better about that I love that. 00:09:28 Speaker 2: Yeah I was thinking about it because you messaged me about that. And I was thinking about how at the end of our life, when, when people talk about you, like, what are the things you want them to say about you? And it's that you leave an impact of people leaving something like that and feeling challenged to be better because of the legacy, you know? 00:09:46 Speaker 3: Yeah. 00:09:47 Speaker 2: Um, yeah, I, you sent that message to me and I, we were in Palm Springs and I had had a drink and I was trying to tell Haley that sentiment of like how beautiful it is to want to be to leave a legacy and impact like that. But I don't know if my period's coming. 00:10:07 Speaker 3: Or the alcohol, but I was sobbing. 00:10:11 Speaker 2: Like, can I get it together? What? 00:10:14 Speaker 1: I don't know what happened. 00:10:15 Speaker 2: It was a combo of many things, but she was like, it's okay. Like, let it out. 00:10:20 Speaker 3: Well, I feel like you're very much like that. 00:10:23 Speaker 2: What? 00:10:23 Speaker 3: Like you are able to see the people in your life when they're like drowning and you can like oh. 00:10:28 Speaker 4: My gosh don't I can't no you are. 00:10:30 Speaker 3: Like I really feel like you are that's why I sent you that message I feel like you're very much that person and I want to be better and be that way wow but I do feel like you are like that wow thank you. 00:10:41 Speaker 2: That's really nice. 00:10:44 Speaker 4: But yeah it was it really impacted me. 00:10:48 Speaker 3: It really impacted me too it was it was really crazy it was really beautiful though yeah very emotional. 00:10:54 Speaker 2: But yeah yeah as it would be you know yeah Your Saturday was very different. My Saturday was different. We woke up, Haley. 00:11:02 Speaker 4: Performed at, I don't want to speak on it wrong. 00:11:06 Speaker 2: I believe it's like a, I would say like a lesbian festival. It's called Dinah Shore, but it's in Palm Springs. They do, they've been doing it for, I think like 30 years or maybe longer. But they asked her to come perform. And so she, we went up and she found out she was performing at midnight. The way we were so stressed out. about having this day up. The amount of times we were having to go, okay. Maybe, like, at this point, we could take a nap or this time we need to eat dinner. Like, it was so sad that we were having to really. 00:11:38 Speaker 3: I would be stressed, too. Because, like, performing at midnight is different than just staying up. Like, on New Year's Eve, staying up till midnight is one thing, but, like. 00:11:46 Speaker 2: We stay up till midnight regularly, but we're cozy. 00:11:47 Speaker 3: Yeah, performing, you need to be, like, on. 00:11:50 Speaker 2: On. Yeah. And so we got up to Palm Springs and we went to the rehearsal. And I hadn't seen the show yet. I didn't really know what she put together, but... I just assumed it was going to be great because everything she does is great. But the show was so she did such a great job putting it together and making it look like a proper tour show that she was doing. And, you know, she was just doing the rehearsal, but they had the lights kind of testing and seeing how everything looked. And I was like, oh, my God, that's my fiance. 00:12:19 Speaker 5: Like, whoa. 00:12:20 Speaker 3: So cool. Yeah, did you get turned on? 00:12:24 Speaker 2: Well, I was just like, wow, she's so cool. 00:12:26 Speaker 5: Yeah. 00:12:27 Speaker 2: So the show was really fun, and she was amazing. And then I had the idea of, like, should we drive home after? 00:12:35 Speaker 3: I told Robbie this. 00:12:38 Speaker 2: Because I was like, if I'm sober, which I only had that one drink at dinner, so it was hours later, way later. And I was like, if I'm hype and awake because I haven't been sleeping super well and I might just be awake anyway, I could just drive home and we could beat any traffic. But then Haley was like, I'll do anything to stay and just go to sleep. Oh, wow. 00:13:00 Speaker 4: So I said, that's a really desperate plea. 00:13:04 Speaker 2: And I hear you. So we'll stay. So we stayed. 00:13:06 Speaker 3: When we woke up on Sunday morning, I was like, Becca, I was like, I'm curious if they're home or if they're still in Palm Springs because Becca told me she was going to try and drive home after the show. And Robbie was like, what? And I was like, yeah, she just wanted to be in her own bed, which I understand. So then I like went to my fine mind to look for you. And I was like, they're still in Palm Springs. 00:13:20 Speaker 2: No. 00:13:21 Speaker 3: And she didn't win that battle. 00:13:23 Speaker 2: We decided to make a stop at Cracker Barrel on the way home. 00:13:27 Speaker 4: Cracker Barrel is like a time warp. 00:13:30 Speaker 2: I walked in and felt like I was back in Louisiana on a Sunday after church. It was so interesting, but it's so good. 00:13:39 Speaker 3: Can't relate. 00:13:40 Speaker 2: You don't like it? I've never been. Oh my God, you would love it. You think? Yeah, it's so good. It's like country home style diner food. 00:13:49 Speaker 3: Do I like that? 00:13:50 Speaker 5: I don't know that you would like Cracker Barrel. I don't know. 00:13:52 Speaker 2: I think she'd love the pancakes for sure. 00:13:54 Speaker 5: Well, sure. 00:13:54 Speaker 2: Okay. 00:13:54 Speaker 3: Are they gluten free? 00:13:56 Speaker 5: No, this is what I'm talking about. 00:13:59 Speaker 2: By the way, she ate every gluttonous thing on the menu on Friday night. 00:14:04 Speaker 4: So this gluten free thing is a preference. 00:14:06 Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no. 00:14:07 Speaker 3: It's not a preference. But when I go into like the mindset, I knew my Friday night was going

to be gluttonous because of where we were originally going. I was like, I know I'm going to have the whip eggplant. I'm going to have the bread that comes with it. So in my mind, I was already preparing for my Friday night to be gluttonous. So the rest of the week I was tight and strict. 00:14:24 Speaker 1: Whipped eggplant and bread? Are you crazy? I mean, good golly, what is going off the rails here? 00:14:30 Speaker 2: I know. 00:14:31 Speaker 3: It's the gluten bread that I'm talking about. And they offer you crudités if you're gluten-free. It doesn't hit the same. 00:14:40 Speaker 2: Well, what I'm saying, it's a preference. Like, Haley has realized she cannot eat gluten or her whole body goes into. 00:14:48 Speaker 1: Well, that's what I'm... What happened to you that night when you ate bread? 00:14:52 Speaker 5: So it's a preference. 00:14:54 Speaker 2: Uh. 00:14:55 Speaker 3: So I wouldn't say it's a preference because I had Hashimoto's and by going gluten free, I reversed it. So I do feel like my body inflammation wise internally like freaks out, but I don't get any symptoms. 00:15:07 Speaker 1: So if you just went heavy gluten on a regular basis, you feel like your Hashimoto's. 00:15:11 Speaker 5: Might come back. 00:15:12 Speaker 2: Yeah. 00:15:12 Speaker 5: Okay. I see. 00:15:13 Speaker 2: Right, right, right. 00:15:14 Speaker 3: So I try to like live in the, live in the. 00:15:17 Speaker 2: I think we're all probably a little allergic to gluten. I can't imagine it's great for our inflammation. 00:15:23 Speaker 3: Inflammation. 00:15:24 Speaker 2: Yeah. 00:15:25 Speaker 4: Something I could lessen the load on. 00:15:28 Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, there's such good gluten-free options, especially in LA. I feel like it makes it easy. 00:15:33 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah. Anyways, I think you'd love a griddle pancake from Cracker Barrel. 00:15:40 Speaker 3: Do they have those in LA? 00:15:42 Speaker 2: No, it was in Riverside. 00:15:43 Speaker 5: Yeah. 00:15:44 Speaker 2: And then the girl was like, do you want to become a member? And I was like, oh, I wish. What I would give. But no, I can't. Because you're too far. But anyways, so yeah, we had that and then drove home and then we basically caught up on Survivor. 00:16:00 Speaker 3: Oh, the two episodes? 00:16:01 Speaker 4: When I say we, I casually watched. 00:16:05 Speaker 3: You're not into it? 00:16:05 Speaker 2: Haley's very into it. 00:16:07 Speaker 3: The season's good. 00:16:08 Speaker 2: Yeah. She's very into it. 00:16:09 Speaker 5: Yeah. 00:16:10 Speaker 2: Yeah. And then we watched Amazing Race. It was a lot of catching up on reality competitive television. 00:16:15 Speaker 3: Nice. Did you watch the pilot episode of Grey's Anatomy? 00:16:19 Speaker 2: I did. Oh! Yeah. 00:16:20 Speaker 3: We'll get into that way later then. 00:16:22 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. 00:16:22 Speaker 3: Let's put that in our back pocket because I had a really shocking response to it. 00:16:27 Speaker 2:

Oh. 00:16:28 Speaker 3: Yeah. A feeling I've never felt watching the show before. 00:16:32 Speaker 4: Do you think you're going to go see Verity? 00:16:33 Speaker 2: Oh, yeah. No, we decided it probably would be good. 00:16:39 Speaker 3: Not best for me at the moment. 00:16:40 Speaker 2: Easton sent me. Easton's not here today, but he sent me his review on Verity. And I've heard a lot of scuttle about Verity. 00:16:48 Speaker 5: I've seen Easton's review as well. 00:16:49 Speaker 2: Yeah. 00:16:50 Speaker 4: But I want to talk about that. 00:16:52 Speaker 2: After the break. 00:17:01 Speaker 1: We're back. 00:17:08 Speaker 5: We're back. 00:17:10 Speaker 4: So Verity has had a lot of discussion. 00:17:14 Speaker 3: I've heard it's bad. everyone's saying it's bad rotten tomatoes is saying bad. 00:17:18 Speaker 2: Too yeah 34 but i don't always agree with rotten tomatoes. 00:17:21 Speaker 3: Personally i live and die by the no you. 00:17:23 Speaker 2: Remember that kim kardashian show and you were like it got a zero and you were like no that's true. 00:17:29 Speaker 3: They don't know what they're talking about yeah oh yeah they don't like women let's things screw them. 00:17:36 Speaker 2: Um so i went and saw verity And I haven't read the book in a long time. Like it's been years and years. So I watched it from just the lens, almost like I know the story and know how to follow it. And listen, there are certain adaptations where you just know it's going to be slightly corny. Like you go in kind of knowing there's going to be an element of cheese, you know, like, are they really going to be able to make this book? 00:18:03 Speaker 3: He's one of those people. 00:18:04 Speaker 2: What? 00:18:05 Speaker 3: The book people. it was so much better. The book was so much better than the movie. 00:18:11 Speaker 5: I'm like, that's almost always the case. 00:18:14 Speaker 2: Okay. 00:18:15 Speaker 3: You little bookworms and go slither away into your book world and leave the big screen for us non-readers. 00:18:22 Speaker 2: Okay. 00:18:22 Speaker 3: And that's like every single time there's a book adaptation, the book people are like, the book was so much better. 00:18:28 Speaker 2: I was more so meaning that it was, it's, Because of what the story is about and how it's written, I think making it into a movie was just like really challenging. I don't know how they could, because a lot of it's in her head. So I guess it's hard to see the thought of something in your head. I don't know. Right. 00:18:46 Speaker 3: Like a dream. 00:18:47 Speaker 4: But thanks for your opinion on... Book readers? 00:18:50 Speaker 2: Just readers. 00:18:52 Speaker 3: Me and Alex are all on the other side of the internet. 00:18:56 Speaker 5: You do read. You just have to read self-help stuff. 00:18:59 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah. But I mean, I wouldn't say I'm a reader. 00:19:01 Speaker 2: It takes a minute. The self-help ones. 00:19:07 Speaker 4: Anyway, so I thought Verity, I was like, it was an easy watch. 00:19:12 Speaker 2: I knew, I think my expectations were probably low enough that I was like, it was whatever, fun. It is getting slammed. 00:19:21 Speaker 3: Slammed. 00:19:23 Speaker 2: Everyone's a hater because everyone has asked me about it. And granted, in my theater, there were several times where we all were giggling out loud and I don't think it. 00:19:31 Speaker 3: Was supposed to be funny. You know, dang, that's not good. 00:19:35 Speaker 2: I think if maybe Jennifer Lawrence had played the Dakota Johnson role. 00:19:41 Speaker 5: Oh, really? 00:19:41 Speaker 3: You think Dakota Johnson made it cheesy? You don't like her, huh? 00:19:44 Speaker 2: I love her. 00:19:45 Speaker 3: But as an actress, you don't like. 00:19:47 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't connect with her as an actress. but i love when i watch interviews of her i love her but i don't she's so deadpan and sarcastic that i don't see the transition to the acting roles. 00:19:59 Speaker 3: I saw this interview that her and anne hathaway did and like i can't remember where it was but they were showing her this new trend where like just thinking about it makes me laugh you take a saran wrap, like a piece of saran wrap and you put it over your face and then you put your makeup on, like you would put it on like all your wet, you know, like your foundation, your concealer, you leave it down on the table. And then the morning you just flip it over and you put that on your face and it like, it's supposed to like, it's a trend right now. It's a trend. And like they showed Dakota Johnson and halfway and Dakota Johnson is like, her reaction to it is just like, we got to like, we got to, this is, we, this can't be, serious like she was just like at one point we got to land her trees and just like yeah by the way when i'm watching them i'm like brilliant like that is like so did they do it yeah yeah she did it right then and there like she did on the surround wrap and then she flipped it over put it on her face and then she just like blended it with a beauty blender and it looked great and i'm like if i tried to do that it would look. 00:21:04 Speaker 5: I have I think that's your next video. 00:21:06 Speaker 2: Yeah. 00:21:07 Speaker 3: Absolutely. 00:21:07 Speaker 2: I'm begging. I'm begging for this. 00:21:11 Speaker 3: But it looked great on her. And they were like, this is supposed to save you time in the morning. I'm like, how much time do we need to save in the morning? Yikes. I don't know where I got on, but just watching that video was so funny. 00:21:22 Speaker 2: Because she's really funny. 00:21:23 Speaker 5: Yeah. 00:21:23 Speaker 2: And that's what I'm saying. I really like her as just an individual. And I think she's so pretty. And I love her hair and stuff. But anyways, Easton was absolutely.... 00:21:34 Speaker 4: Let me read this review by him. 00:21:37 Speaker 3: Did Jennifer Lawrence not want the role? 00:21:40 Speaker 4: I don't think they

offered it to Jennifer Lawrence. 00:21:42 Speaker 2: Oh. 00:21:43 Speaker 4: Anyways, I feel like the reviews have been tough. 00:21:45 Speaker 2: And I was personally hoping that maybe one day a movie would come to us and see if we'd want to be a podcast where the actors. 00:21:54 Speaker 5: That would be cool. 00:21:56 Speaker 3: You know where it could have happened is Grey's Anatomy. 00:21:59 Speaker 5: Oh, yeah. 00:22:00 Speaker 3: But they turned a blind eye to scrubbing in. A blind eye. 00:22:06 Speaker 4: Well, we've kind of turned a blind eye to them as well. 00:22:08 Speaker 3: We've given them plenty of years of full 2020 vision. 00:22:12 Speaker 2: There was a time where they really could have had us on there and it had been an absolute thrill. 00:22:18 Speaker 1: Yeah, and it doesn't really work when you think about it. Because you've had. 00:22:23 Speaker 5: The actors on here. It'd be weird to have the characters on here. 00:22:27 Speaker 3: Oh, that'd be so cool. 00:22:29 Speaker 4: A little bit meta. 00:22:30 Speaker 2: Remember they had a whole storyline where these two podcasters were in the hospital. 00:22:36 Speaker 5: Oh, that could work. It could have been us. 00:22:38 Speaker 1: I'm talking about when Owen and Kim Raver were on a podcast. Now, Kim Raver was on a podcast talking about this amazing medical breakthrough. I was thinking of that. 00:22:48 Speaker 5: That wouldn't work. 00:22:49 Speaker 2: I must have missed that episode. 00:22:50 Speaker 3: Definitely did not hit my zeitgeist. 00:22:52 Speaker 2: That must have been the most recent season. 00:22:54 Speaker 5: That sure was, yes. 00:22:56 Speaker 3: Missed that one. 00:22:57 Speaker 5: Oh, yeah. 00:22:57 Speaker 2: What if we had Meredith Gray on talking about the new breakthrough on the scrubbing? Yeah, yeah. 00:23:03 Speaker 3: No, that is weird. But you know what I saw that I wanted to bring up because it just like makes my heart melt? 00:23:10 Speaker 2: What? 00:23:11 Speaker 3: Dean Unglert photographed a scrubber's wedding for free and she wrote about it. in our Facebook group and she basically like put it in there after the fact, cause she don't want to like jinx anything, but basically she just said how much she loves his photography and like, would he photograph her wedding? And he did, it was somewhere that he could like drive. Um, he did it for free because he wanted to like pay it forward because I think some, like somebody did that for him for his wedding or something, like something along those lines. But I was just like, that is so Dean to like go. And like, that's a lot of pressure to photograph somebody's wedding. Like I would be scared. 00:23:46 Speaker 2: I'm sure the photos are beautiful. 00:23:48 Speaker 3: Yeah, and it was funny when she wrote about it in the Facebook group. She was like, please don't inundate him with people asking Dean to photograph their wedding. 00:23:55 Speaker 4: I mean, it could be a lucrative business for him. 00:24:00 Speaker 5: Yeah. 00:24:01 Speaker 3: He's an amazing photographer. 00:24:02 Speaker 2: I know, he's amazing. 00:24:03 Speaker 3: Yeah. 00:24:03 Speaker 2: He's like, locals only. Only if I can drive. 00:24:06 Speaker 3: I just thought it was really heartwarming and sweet. 00:24:08 Speaker 2: I know, he's the best. 00:24:09 Speaker 3: He really is the best. And then I want to talk about Dancing with the Stars because... Last week, Britt went home. 00:24:19 Speaker 5: Shocking. 00:24:21 Speaker 3: I wasn't shocked. 00:24:22 Speaker 2: Shocking in the sense that they seem so shocked. And I keep getting messages when I've predicted who I think is going to be in the top three. They're like, don't underestimate the Hanson fans. They're such a strong, powerful group. And I was like, I felt like he was going to go far based on just his fan base and how likable he is. I'm having a. 00:24:46 Speaker 3: Hard time connecting with several of them. 00:24:49 Speaker 4: Who are you having the hardest time connecting to? 00:24:52 Speaker 3: Jenna Dewan. 00:24:53 Speaker 2: I know why, though. But why? It's because the whole concept of the show is to watch someone come in and be really vulnerable and nervous to. 00:25:04 Speaker 4: Try this new thing that they're not going to be good at. 00:25:07 Speaker 2: And there's this lack of being able to connect to her because she's not really having to... she's amazing. Like her dances, she looks like a pro out there. But I think because of that, there's this lack of wanting to root for her because she's already, she's already where she should be. 00:25:26 Speaker 3: But like all of them, like really like most of the men I'm not like, I really am only connected to like Guillermo and Ezra, like, and Maura, those three. 00:25:36 Speaker 2: That's a strong three. Yeah. That's my top. 00:25:38 Speaker 3: Three because I can't get there with really. And then like Tatiana, I could say Tatiana would be like my fourth. 00:25:44 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. That's a good group, and I also love Amber. 00:25:47 Speaker 3: Oh, yeah. I like her, too, but I also don't feel connected to her. 00:25:51 Speaker 2: I think I'm connected to her because I felt so sad at how her Olympic run went because they thought she was going to maybe take gold, and she just had a rough go and messed up. 00:26:03 Speaker 3: I'm not aware. 00:26:04 Speaker 2: So I think I'm rooting for her to have her redemption on the dance floor. 00:26:09 Speaker 3: They should make that clear. Did they? 00:26:12 Speaker 2: May have been in her package. Maybe during like dedicate or like the more. 00:26:16 Speaker 3: Emotional night she'll talk about it. Okay. 00:26:19 Speaker 2: But yeah, I've seen a lot of that about Jenna Dewan and Harry Shum. It's almost like they're too good. 00:26:24 Speaker 3: But even with like Sierra Miller, like I was like really excited because like everybody loves her to like get to know her more. And I'm like, it's giving nothing. 00:26:32

Speaker 2: Well, I also think there's so many people and I feel like they're having to rush through the show a lot. So maybe as people, it dwindles down, we'll have more time to getting to know people during the packages and stuff. Cause I do feel like it's very rushed. 00:26:45 Speaker 3: And even Tyler Cameron, I'm getting nothing from him. Like Jackson Olsen, nothing. 00:26:50 Speaker 2: Yeah. Maybe it's because it's all going really fast. There's not enough time to really sit down and get to know them. 00:26:57 Speaker 3: But I'm seeing a lot of hate online for Guillermo. It's so unwarranted. Do you know what really pisses me off? And, like, this is my first season watching, so take it with a grain of salt. But, like, it's not called the best dancing star. It's not called the best dancing star. It's called dancing with the stars. 00:27:16 Speaker 2: Thank you. 00:27:16 Speaker 3: It's not the best dancer shall win competition. 00:27:20 Speaker 2: It's not called BDSW. 00:27:24 Speaker 3: No, it's called DWTS. 00:27:27 Speaker 5: Yeah. 00:27:28 Speaker 3: Does not mean the best dancer will win. Does the best host win the Emmy all the time? 00:27:38 Speaker 5: Well, that's the idea, I think. 00:27:39 Speaker 3: Does the best actress win the Academy Award every time? 00:27:42 Speaker 2: Well, it's pretty subjective, right? 00:27:44 Speaker 3: Exactly, Beccatilly. Exactly. 00:27:47 Speaker 2: And it's based on votes. 00:27:48 Speaker 3: Exactly, Beccatilly. 00:27:49 Speaker 2: But if the majority votes for someone who they consider to be the best dancer objectively. 00:27:55 Speaker 3: You hit the nail on the head. 00:27:59 Speaker 2: But that's what I'm saying. I get... I get what you're saying. 00:28:03 Speaker 4: And do I do I think Guillermo is going to like take it all home? 00:28:06 Speaker 2: No. 00:28:07 Speaker 4: But do I think he deserves to be there with what he's done so far? 00:28:10 Speaker 2: Absolutely. Because people are comparing him to Andy from last season because Andy, like everyone loved him and wanted they were rooting for him. 00:28:18 Speaker 3: But was he bad? 00:28:19 Speaker 2: He wasn't improving, but they wanted they loved him. So he got through multiple weeks and people were mad about it. So I think they're trying to compare the two, but it's not the same because Guillermo is improving. 00:28:33 Speaker 3: Much so. Much so. 00:28:36 Speaker 2: And I just love watching Whitney's face every time it's not their name being called for who's going home. I literally think that she thought she was going to be on a plane with her husband and kids going home. And... She was like, there's no way. Like, in my mind, I think she's like, there's no way I'm going to make it past week two. 00:28:58 Speaker 1: But he is. 00:28:59 Speaker 3: Like, he's doing such a good job. 00:29:00 Speaker 2: I think he's going to go far. 00:29:01 Speaker 3: I think that I relate to him because I'm like, I feel like I, too, would have a similar arc

to his where I just, like, don't. I'm not good. But I think I could improve. But I don't think I'm ever going to be like Jawan Jenna. 00:29:16 Speaker 2: Jawan Jenna? Jawan Jenna? 00:29:19 Speaker 3: Jawan Jenna. I don't think I'll ever be Jawan Jenna status. 00:29:23 Speaker 2: Even Amber. 00:29:24 Speaker 3: I don't even think I could get to that level with hours and hundreds of hours of training. Like, I just don't think my body moves that way. Yeah. So I feel like I connect to Guillermo because I feel like that is how I would be on Dancing with the Stars. 00:29:36 Speaker 2: But you know what? Now that I'm saying that, it is interesting because Charli D'Amelio was on in one and she's a dancer, but she made it all the way. 00:29:47 Speaker 3: Did people like her? Yeah. 00:29:49 Speaker 2: Okay. But I'm saying this whole, I guess my whole argument has been, I think it's because there's this lack of vulnerability or like wanting to or improvement with Jenna and Harry's. But I also feel like that was probably the case with Charlie as well. Right. She was probably already really good. Yeah. 00:30:09 Speaker 3: It's hard for me because I literally have never watched a single season up until now. 00:30:14 Speaker 2: Well, everything's fresh. Everything's new. 00:30:17 Speaker 3: So new. 00:30:18 Speaker 2: So new. 00:30:18 Speaker 3: I feel like a kid in a candy store. 00:30:19 Speaker 2: But I would love to have Jenna Dewan because I would like to talk about that. Just like what it's like because to be so good at something and then to have people... saying, like, I'm not feeling connected to it. Like, she... I know, but every. 00:30:34 Speaker 3: Week, every single week, she says something to the lines of, like, this is really hard, even if you have a dance background. This is totally new. I've never done this before. Like, I'm like, she's really trying to hammer it in that it's different. 00:30:47 Speaker 2: I believe it, though. I do, too. But I also think when you're just that good and you have that much rhythm, you definitely have the advantage of being better than the others. Yeah. Yeah. So it's Mariah Carey night tomorrow night. 00:31:02 Speaker 3: Yeah, the fact that nobody's dancing to All I Want for Christmas. 00:31:05 Speaker 2: Always Be My Baby is what I was shocked by. 00:31:08 Speaker 3: All I Want for Christmas is like her biggest hit. 00:31:10 Speaker 2: That could have been a good jive. 00:31:12 Speaker 3: It's basically Christmas time. 00:31:14 Speaker 5: It's really not. 00:31:15 Speaker 2: It could have been a jive. Huh? Could have been a good jive. 00:31:18 Speaker 3: Could have been an amazing cha-cha. 00:31:21 Speaker 2: That's not the same thing. Yeah, so I was shocked because there was a lot of, when Britt and Taylor went home, Britt immediately turned to him and was like, I'm so sorry. And everyone was like, why did she say that? Why was that the first thing out of her mouth? So it was like, was there something going on behind the scenes? Did she know it was coming? I don't know. There was all this talk. Are there conspiracy theories? Yeah, because I think for a lot of people, it came out of nowhere. People were outraged. I just think she's an amazing choreographer. And everyone, if you watched all the pros, everyone seems to love her. And I think she choreographs all the cast dances. I think she's amazing. So I think people are just like, why is she not going further? Like, she should be going so much further than she does every year. 00:32:09 Speaker 3: I also heard that her, like, dream partner that she's, like, always wanted was Harry Shum. So I'm like, why didn't they give him her? 00:32:16 Speaker 2: I know. 00:32:16 Speaker 3: I don't know. 00:32:18 Speaker 2: This feels... But I think they thought with Taylor Hanson, he's like younger and they thought like he has a big enough fan base. 00:32:24 Speaker 3: Younger than Harry Shum Jr.? No, no, no. 00:32:26 Speaker 2: I'm saying younger than her other partner she's had before. 00:32:30 Speaker 3: They feel like they're the same age to me. Yeah, no. Everybody keeps calling him Harry Shum. Is it Harry Shum? 00:32:35 Speaker 2: Oh, Harry Shum Jr. 00:32:36 Speaker 3: Is it Shum? 00:32:37 Speaker 1: I don't know. 00:32:37 Speaker 5: How old do you think he is? 00:32:38 Speaker 3: Harry Shum? 00:32:39 Speaker 2: Yeah. 00:32:39 Speaker 3: Shum or Shum? 00:32:40 Speaker 5: I think it's Shum, but I don't know. 00:32:42 Speaker 2: I thought it was Shum too. 00:32:43 Speaker 3: But everybody says Shum. 00:32:44 Speaker 1: Well, I feel like they would know. They're with him, right? Like, if they're saying it on that show, wouldn't they say, hey, Harry? No, I don't know what they're saying. 00:32:49 Speaker 3: I actually don't know how they're saying it. 00:32:50 Speaker 2: We'll pay attention. 00:32:51 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'll pay attention this week. 00:32:52 Speaker 5: How old do you think he is? 00:32:53 Speaker 3: I think he's 41. 00:32:55 Speaker 5: Becca? I think he's... This is an impromptu. How old are they? 00:32:59 Speaker 2: 44. 00:32:59 Speaker 5: And you're right. It's 44. Very good, Becca. 00:33:02 Speaker 3: What about Taylor Hansen? 00:33:04 Speaker 5: Well, I'd be happy to look that up. Thank you. 00:33:06 Speaker 3: I'm guessing Taylor Hansen's 47. 00:33:09 Speaker 4: Oh, I'm guessing he's 42. 00:33:10 Speaker 5: 43. Very nice, Becca. 00:33:12 Speaker 1: And your gift that ages continues. 00:33:15 Speaker 2: Yeah. 00:33:16 Speaker 5: Shoot. 00:33:18 Speaker 2: Anyways, I would love to have Britt on. I was just telling you her story. Her story is amazing of her relationship with her husband. He was a contestant on Dancing with the Stars and he's deaf. She learned sign language. To be able to. 00:33:32 Speaker 3: Teach him? 00:33:33 Speaker 2: Teach him and communicate with him. 00:33:35 Speaker 3: That's so crazy. That seems hard. 00:33:37 Speaker 2: They did a dance. I think it was either a contemporary

dance or something freestyle. And they did a whole section where it's dead silent. The music stops so that the audience could hear what he's hearing while he's dancing. Chills. Anyways... Yeah, I just got. 00:33:52 Speaker 3: Chills hearing that. 00:33:53 Speaker 2: They are married and their story is so beautiful. And I just... A lot of people are like, I wouldn't be shocked if she like is just over the show and leaves. I don't think, I don't know if she feels that way, but I would love to talk. I would love to have her on. 00:34:06 Speaker 3: The ask is out, Becca Tilly. 00:34:07 Speaker 2: She follows you. 00:34:09 Speaker 3: Does she follow you? 00:34:09 Speaker 2: No. What? Yeah, she follows you. She's a tot. 00:34:15 Speaker 5: Tanya tot. 00:34:17 Speaker 3: Well, if we can't get her, maybe I DM her. 00:34:19 Speaker 2: Yeah. 00:34:19 Speaker 3: Really just go grassroots on this podcast here. We have to go grassroots. We're going to go, we're going to start going grassroots in here. 00:34:25 Speaker 2: Um, What was it? Oh, the thing about the grunting in the workout class and everyone was in the comments was like, the tots are really quiet today. They were absent. 00:34:37 Speaker 4: They couldn't even defend you on that one. 00:34:40 Speaker 3: It's fine because I know in my heart what's right. Okay. 00:34:49 Speaker 2: Okay. Good to know. 00:34:49 Speaker 3: Being free to express myself. 00:34:52 Speaker 2: Yeah. I want to talk about your spiral with the Clorox wipes because I didn't quite understand the panic, but we're going to take a break and we'll be right back. 00:35:03 Speaker 5: What are you doing? 00:35:20 Speaker 2: We're back. Okay, so you... Your whole life, especially within the last decade, has been... Decade? Wow. Yeah, I mean, basically since I've known you. 00:35:31 Speaker 5: Okay. 00:35:31 Speaker 2: Has been to be as health conscious, keep microplastics, keep your endocrine disruptors far away. Minimal, yeah. Not drink out of aluminum. 00:35:46 Speaker 4: Just, like, many different things. 00:35:48 Speaker 2: And... You expose yourself with a habit that you've been doing for many years. 00:35:54 Speaker 3: You know, what's so crazy is like you you think your day to day like I do. I try to minimize all the toxins, like all the things. And then there was something that I've been doing every single day. That's like so insanely toxic. I had no idea. So I posted like, you know, like it's is it like a trend? You do like my five to nine before my nine to five. 00:36:12 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah. Okay. 00:36:15 Speaker 3: So I did that, but it was, the times were obviously different, but just like my routine that I do before I start work. Right. And the last thing I do is I wipe down my microphone and my desk with Clorox wipes every single day. 00:36:27 Speaker 1: Full on. 00:36:28 Speaker 3: I wipe down Becca's mic. I wipe down the podcast mic. I wipe it down after you're done. Like I'm constantly Clorox wiping everything. I have never received more DMs when I tell you in my Aside from my, like, when I get my period and stuff, more messages of people being like, Clorox wipes are endocrine disruptors. Don't touch them with your bare hands. Wear gloves. I was like. 00:36:52 Speaker 3: So now. 00:36:54 Speaker 1: Oh, no. 00:36:55 Speaker 2: Yeah, they're by your feet. 00:36:57 Speaker 3: There's, like, a new wipe. It's by your feet. There's, like, a big tub of apparently cleaner wipes. 00:37:03 Speaker 2: Oh, I see. I knocked over. 00:37:04 Speaker 3: Yeah. 00:37:05 Speaker 2: Oh, wow. Yeah, that was what that was. That's what was on the floor. 00:37:09 Speaker 3: And so now I have these, like, cleaner wipes. Because I'm like, the last thing I'm doing is putting on gloves before I wipe down my desk. 00:37:16 Speaker 2: That's a lot. That's a commitment. 00:37:18 Speaker 3: But it's just like, it was very eye-opening for me because I'm like, there's things that you do and you just don't even realize it. Do you know what I mean? 00:37:24 Speaker 2: Yeah. Sometimes you just gotta live life, though, right? Let go, let God? Yeah. Maybe just take off the pressure. 00:37:31 Speaker 3: No, because now that it was in my head, there's no way I can touch a Clorox wipe again. 00:37:37 Speaker 2: But, like, normally when I.... 00:37:40 Speaker 4: Wipe something down with a Clorox wipe, I wash my hand after. 00:37:43 Speaker 3: Not good enough. And I don't. I just wipe it down and I just sit my ass down for hours. 00:37:49 Speaker 5: Yeah. 00:37:50 Speaker 3: Seeping into my pores. 00:37:51 Speaker 4: My endocrines are very disrupted. I'll tell you that much. 00:37:54 Speaker 2: I'll tell you that much. 00:37:57 Speaker 1: Yeah. 00:37:57 Speaker 3: And then they hit you with like the TTC stuff. I'm like, okay, this is where the spiral begins. Thank you so much. 00:38:04 Speaker 2: I think of you every time I see an outrageous... AI video I'm like I literally feel like Tanya if she saw this she'd send it to me like how cool is this I saw this one where this girl and this guy are standing in front of this airplane that's taking off and the guy runs and it's sunset and she like launches him up and he does like a back flip and I was like I just know if Tanya saw this she'd be like whoa that's. 00:38:34 Speaker 3: So cool I saw a girl running in a spiral staircase that went in like a loop-de-loop. And I was like, wow. 00:38:42 Speaker 2: How does she do that? That's some core strength. 00:38:47 Speaker 4: Dang. 00:38:47 Speaker 3: Tough. All right. Well, that's all the time we have for today. 00:38:53 Speaker 2: That's all. But don't you worry your little head because we are going to. 00:38:57 Speaker 3: Before we go, I did mean to ask you, have you been doing the artist's way? 00:39:02 Speaker 2: Yeah. Just a morning pit. No. But I've been doing the morning pages. It's so hard. 00:39:08 Speaker 3: So I, too, did not do my solo date this week. But it doesn't mean that I'm

out. It just means I'm down. And I will do two solo dates this week. 00:39:19 Speaker 2: I'm realizing something that this practice is going to be really good for me. Because I hate being told what to do. Yes, you do. And I hate being told. that like to do this right and to be committed to it, you, you have to commit and do the morning pages every day. You have to do, you know, I'm really struggling with that part of it. 00:39:42 Speaker 3: This is where your breakthrough is going to happen. 00:39:43 Speaker 2: I know. 00:39:43 Speaker 3: Because I do think you need something, someone to like hold you accountable and push you through this 12 weeks. 00:39:49 Speaker 2: I know. 00:39:49 Speaker 3: Come 2027, it's going to be like, watch out. Becca Tilly is going to be a new person. 00:39:55 Speaker 2: Yeah. 00:39:56 Speaker 3: But I'm with you. I've done the morning pages every day. 00:39:58 Speaker 2: And you're so dedicated and you have a lot of structure and routine. 00:40:03 Speaker 4: And if it's hard for you, imagine what my. 00:40:05 Speaker 3: Yeah, I can't. I knew there's no way you're keeping up with it. 00:40:08 Speaker 2: I am. I just... Didn't do the same thing you didn't do. 00:40:13 Speaker 3: I did try. I tried to take myself out to lunch one day and I couldn't find parking. 00:40:21 Speaker 1: Wow. 00:40:22 Speaker 2: Okay. 00:40:23 Speaker 3: So the attempt was there. I just did the follow through. It didn't happen. I was like, I'll just do it another day. And then another day didn't come. 00:40:29 Speaker 2: Yeah. 00:40:30 Speaker 3: But I'm going to do two dates this week to make up for it. I'm not letting, normally I would let this like make me quit and just like, oh, whatever. I'm gonna start over later. No, I'm not quitting. 00:40:38 Speaker 2: You're just going to, why don't you just commit to do it? Like, why don't you just do one this week so that you're. 00:40:43 Speaker 5: Okay. 00:40:45 Speaker 2: Two. What are you going to do? 00:40:46 Speaker 3: I'm going to take myself to lunch and I'm going to color me mine. 00:40:49 Speaker 2: Okay. 00:40:50 Speaker 4: I told Haley that we both said color me mine. 00:40:53 Speaker 2: And she was like, y'all like how y'all view artist is like that. Color me mine. Yeah. 00:40:59 Speaker 3: Color me mine. Stop numero uno. 00:41:02 Speaker 5: You're going to record yourself at color me mine. 00:41:04 Speaker 4: Oh, I'm sure she will. 00:41:06 Speaker 2: I sure can. 00:41:06 Speaker 5: I'd love to. 00:41:07 Speaker 1: See people's little double takes. Like, that woman is really just here by herself, huh? Just making a pot. 00:41:12 Speaker 5: Great. 00:41:12 Speaker 3: I feel like. 00:41:13 Speaker 2: Color Me Mine is a very... I think that's why I feel like it'd be a great solo date. 00:41:17 Speaker 4: Because it feels like something you definitely. 00:41:20 Speaker 2: You know what you should do is go to a movie by yourself. That's so easy. 00:41:23 Speaker 5: That one's easy. 00:41:24 Speaker 3: I've never seen anyone at Coloring Mind without children. 00:41:26 Speaker 2: Oh. 00:41:27 Speaker 3: Yeah, I've never seen them without children. And I've never gone without children. 00:41:30 Speaker 2: I've only been without children. 00:41:32 Speaker 3: Wow, shook. 00:41:33 Speaker 4: I've never been alone, but I've only been without kids. 00:41:35 Speaker 2: Yeah. With friends. 00:41:36 Speaker 3: Yeah, never. Okay. 00:41:38 Speaker 2: So... We'll look forward to hearing. 00:41:41 Speaker 3: About that next week. 00:41:42 Speaker 2: Okay. 00:41:43 Speaker 3: So we're going to be back on Thursday. We're going to do our Grey's Anatomy recap and we have a really fun game. Mark, take it away. 00:41:49 Speaker 1: Well, I mean, I have another family feud. If you want to do another family feud, it will hold till Thursday. 00:41:53 Speaker 2: Nice. Okay. Perfect. Yeah. 00:41:55 Speaker 5: Evergreen. 00:41:55 Speaker 1: I'll put a post it again. So I'll see it here tomorrow and Wednesday. And then Thursday when we get on, no, that's what we have to do. 00:42:01 Speaker 2: Okay. Perfect. 00:42:01 Speaker 5: We're going to talk about Grey's, the pilot. 00:42:04 Speaker 1: Yeah. 00:42:05 Speaker 5: Family feud. 00:42:05 Speaker 2: Yeah. 00:42:06 Speaker 1: Another round of don't say the same thing. You guys have still not gotten close to 10. 00:42:09 Speaker 5: Yeah. So we'll try that again. 00:42:11 Speaker 2: Yeah. 00:42:11 Speaker 5: It's going to be a great Thursday. Great. I mean, it's only three sleeps away. 00:42:14 Speaker 3: Can't wait. Well, really it's, yeah, three sleeps away. 00:42:17 Speaker 2: All right. Well, stay tuned for Thursday's episode and we love you so much. Love you. 00:42:22 Speaker 3: Bye. 00:42:23 Speaker 1: Bye. 00:42:26 Speaker 2: Love you, Crystal.