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Hey, beautiful soul.
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Have you ever felt like traditional goal setting just doesn't
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work for you, Like you're forcing yourself into someone else's blueprint,
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Or maybe you've even outlined your goals and you're pushing
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them forward, but something just doesn't feel right. It feels
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like there's so much effort going in with little return.
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This whole process is leaving you drained and questioning your potential. Well,
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you're definitely not alone. Today, I'm diving into the top
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three things I used to plan my most aligned and
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abundant twenty twenty five.
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These are the tools that.
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Help me go from feeling overwhelmed to thriving in my
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own unique flow, and they just might unlock clarity and
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confidence that you've been craving in your.
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Business as well.
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I am so excited to dive into today's episode because
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we're going to be talking about setting intentions and visioning
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for twenty twenty five. If you're ready to start planning
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your year in a way that actually feels good, then
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keep listening. You're listening to the Aligned and Magnetic Podcast
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with Lauren Ashley, certified coach and mindset queen.
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Hey Hey Loves.
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Welcome back to another episode of the Aligned in Magnetic Podcast.
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I am so stoked to be here testing out a
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new video recording situationship. I really hope this works out
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because this is going to be a great episode. I
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don't know what could possibly go wrong, but we're going
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to do our best to have a successful episode. So hi,
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Welcome to twenty twenty five.
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What the heck?
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December was crazy for me? Okay, so, oh my god,
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where do I even start? I had been posting episodes
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up until mid December, and then my life just completely
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lifed in the best way possible. We finished our year
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traveling a lot. In November, we were away for birthday
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parties in Ottawa, came back for a couple days, and
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then we were off to Mexico for eleven days, and
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then we ended up on a red eye flight because
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our flight was delayed. And then we got back and
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we were home for like four days, and my sister
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was here, and then Christmas festivities were starting, and then
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we packed up all of our dogs and our cat
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and we drove down seven hours to Niagara.
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We left our dogs there.
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Everyone got a dog, so my dad and my brother
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and my brother's girlfriend had Chispa.
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My mom took Lola, and my.
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Sister took Little Bear and the cat did her own thing.
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We celebrated my birthday the next day. We took off
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on the twenty.
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Fourth to go to Vegas.
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We were in Vegas for about six days, saw all
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of her family, and then we came back to I
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grew up, got sick, spent time with my family.
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Oh my god.
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After New Year's was such a crazy day. We didn't
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even do much on New Year's Eve because we were
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so tired. We literally stayed in and karaoked with my
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family New Year's Day, My poor mom, that was the
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only day that we had available to go and see
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her and celebrate the holidays with her, and she got
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the worst of us. I was falling over at the table,
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like I couldn't even anymore. Because it was such a crazy,
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hectic time. We actually ended up cutting our trips short.
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We were in Niagro.
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We were supposed to be there until the second week
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of January. Alexis and I were like, okay, we're done.
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We overestimated the amount of energy that we would have,
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and obviously we wanted to stay longer and spend more
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time with my family, but it just doesn't make sense
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when you are absolutely drained. They don't get the best
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of you. Nobody gets the best of you.
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So we came home.
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Early and I took the first week of January off,
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which was so nice. I'm going to tell you
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about that week off, feeling super energized and ready. So
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thank you for your patience. I haven't put out an
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episode since mid December.
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I had episodes that were ready.
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To go, but if you have listened to the podcast
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at all, I think I've mentioned before I really like
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to be present when I'm away because I don't get
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to see family and friends that often. So thank you
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for waiting, and I'm super excited to bring you today's episode,
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particularly because the new year is such a great opportunity
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to slow down and to reflect and set intensions. And
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I know for me, over the past seven years as
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a business owner, there have been years where I planned
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so much and did none of it, or like a
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couple things, there have been years where I.
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Didn't plan at all and just went with the flow.
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And there have been years where I've been so busy
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and so stressed that I didn't have the mental capacity
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to even slow down. When you're entrepreneur and you don't
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feel stable in yourself, it can create a lot of stress.
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Even if everything around you is fine, you're still gonna
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think that things are not fine, and you're still going
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to kind of create a reality where you don't feel
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fine even though everything's fine. I hope that makes sense,
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but that's something that I've navigated as well. So I
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want to take today's episode to bring grounding to you
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no matter where you're at. Because I pulled my audience
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on Instagram and I asked how are you feeling for
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the new year, and it was about forty percent to
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sixty percent division.
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The forty percent were like, I'm tired.
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I'm so tired, and the sixty percent were like, I'm
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ready to go. No matter where you're at, whether you're
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feeling tired or you're feeling really ready to take on
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the year. This is a must listen to episodes, So
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make sure that you complete the episode because I'm gonna
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high three things that female entrepreneurs have to be looking
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at to plan their year, and it's going to bring
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you some insight.
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To help set you up for success.
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It's not out yet, but I'm coming out with an
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article soon on the seven tips to create proof business
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goals in twenty twenty five.
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The reason I say fail proof is because a lot
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of the.
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Time, working with entrepreneurs and leaders, they'll say they want
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one thing at the beginning of the year, and then
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we reach a point where it feels like things aren't
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working out in the way that we thought they would,
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or we're just not seeing the fruits of our labor,
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We're not seeing what we expected to see. Oftentimes this
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is where entrepreneurs will quit and find something else, or
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they will develop shiny object syndrome and change the plan.
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And when you change the plan constantly.
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You are going to struggle to see results because it's
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not about developing a different, better strategy. Like yes, there's
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always things that you can do to tweak your strategy,
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to optimize your strategy. And if you need help with this,
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this is something I'm really good at. My motivation and
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human design is all about improving things and making things
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the best they can be. I have high standards if
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you need support with identifying how you can make things better,
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how you can optimize, how you can take what you're
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doing and leverage it rather than just continue to push.
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We could have a strategy session and discuss ideas. I
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don't remember what I was saying, so I'm just gonna
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start with what I have written in my notes. So
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I wanted to say going back to Mexico this year
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was so good for me.
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I'm so good for my soul.
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Something that I've really realized as an overachiever high achiever
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is how much I discredit the
things that I've built
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and the things that I've created, and how amazing my
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life is. It wasn't until Mexico that I really got
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the mirror put in front of me. Our neighbor, who
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I love, Our neighbors are so amazing, was like, you know, you.
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Girls live a really epic life.
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It was in that moment that I was like, huh, yeah,
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he's right.
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We do live an epic life.
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You know, in our thirties, we have a vacation home
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in Mexico. We're living in Montreal, we have land in
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Mexico that we are going to develop at some point.
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I'm always so critical of the things that I don't
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have and judge myself for certain things.
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And I just want to say.
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This because if I'm doing it, you might be doing
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that as well. And something that has really just become
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clear to me is that we can't do everything in
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one year. We can't have everything that we want in
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one year. So what we've got to do, and this
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is going to be one of the things that we
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talk about today, is look to all the things we
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did accomplish. Look at all the things that we did do,
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even if it wasn't in the plants. This past year
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went amazing in so many ways and also didn't go
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as expected in other ways. I really was expecting the
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latter half of the year to go differently. I struggled
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with our move mentally.
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I struggled for the first I would say two.
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To three months here back in Canada, managing our property
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down in Mexico, and also adapting to our new life
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in our new yeah, just way of living and all
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of that stuff here.
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So that was a part.
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And then I got my shit together and saw lots
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of progress. I'm going to share with you the wins
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that I've identified for twenty twenty four. Because certain things
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weren't like expected or anticipated, sometimes what I do is
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I'm
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my life because I didn't plan it. Like our move
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to Montreal was planned ish. We had been talking about
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moving for a while, but once it came, it came fast.
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It was planned, but not really. We spent probably a
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month getting the house ready, packing our shit, and leaving.
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happen quickly, and just because we got here quickly, doesn't
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mean that it doesn't take time for me to integrate.
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So I'm jumping right into the episode, but it took
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me a long time once I got here to really
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ground into being here and to feel confident with the
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decision that I had made. I'll get more into that
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in a minute, but I just wanted to share this
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really divine thing that happened when I was in Mexico,
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and it was a really big realization, and I feel
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like I need to share it with you because we
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look so much at the physical reality of things, and
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we look at things like time and limitation, and I
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want to share this story with you just as a
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reminder that we are quantum beings and that things are
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always working out for our divine existence. So I had
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a human design reading in Mexico. When I go back
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to Mexico, I do human design readings. I love doing
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readings and connecting with people. That day I told Alexis
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my meeting is at this time. The meeting was not
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at my house. I usually invite people to come to
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my house or to the community and we do our
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session there. But this client asked me to go to
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her so I was like, yeah, you're no problem.
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We had a car.
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The appointment was at one, so I planned to leave
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at quarter to one so I could get there on time,
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be ready. I don't like to be late.
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I hate being late.
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I don't care if it's like something that's not reflective
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of me, like if it's for a show,
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take it back.
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I hate being late. Okay. Alexis will tell you this.
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If she heard me say, actually, I don't really mind
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if it's for this, she would be like, bitch, no,
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I'm always on her ass about leaving on time. There's
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the odd time that I'm not a hard ass around
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being on time, but usually I am. I like to
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be on time. I like to leave in time. I
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like to show up calmly and not rushed.
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Okay. So same day, we were leaving to go.
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To Holbosh, which is this little island. It's about two
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hours from King Kun. You have to take a ferry
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to get there as well. Super cute. So we were
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leaving for Holbosh later that day, so I had packed
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everything up, all of the things that I could pack
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up prior to going to my session, so that from
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my session.
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We could just leave.
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Alexis needed to get an adjustment that day.
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So she leaves.
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I think she leaves around twelve, and normally the chiropractor
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is really fast.
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He's like twenty.
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Minutes, thirty minutes done. As soon as she left, I
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was kind of like, I don't know. I don't know
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if she's gonna make it back in time. But I
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was like, you know what, let it go.
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I don't want to come off as a control freak.
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So she goes. It is now quarter to one, Like
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I have to leave. Where's my wife? So I'm packing
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up my stuff.
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I'm already I'm all cute and my little outfit with
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my essential oils. I've got my things, my iPad, my book,
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all of the stuff that I take with me to
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a human design session. I had my water and I'm
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standing by the door waiting and she's not there.
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So I call her twice doesn't pick up.
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I'm like, buck, she is still in session and she
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has no idea what time it is. I felt so
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angry at that time too.
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I was so frustrated.
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I decide, you know what, she might be on her
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way back. I'm just going to walk toward the exit
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of our community or the entrance, and I'm gonna walk.
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I'm gonna see if she's there, and if she's there,
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then great, we can swap.
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I'll take the car and go.
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I'm just gonna walk to this client's house. I could
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have walked had I had enough time, Like if I
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knew that I was gonna walk, I could have walked.
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So I'm walking out of the community. This random I've
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never seen him before. He pulls up beside me and
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he's like, hey, do you need a ride? And normally
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I would never get into someone's car, but I was like,
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you know what, yes, I do need to ride.
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Where are you going?
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And he's like, oh, I'm going to Elecentro or something
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like that, and I was like perfect, drop me off
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as bs Thos this street and let's do it. So
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I get into his car and it was only like
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two minutes late for my meeting. And the reason I
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say this is because it was such a divine day,
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you know what I mean. I was so upset at
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the fact that Alexis wasn't back on time, and I
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could have just sat there and I could have just
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stayed upset, but I had a nudge, like my gut
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was telling me just.
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Walk to the exit.
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Walk to the exit, and so I was like, you
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know what, fuck it, Like I've got nothing to lose
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at this point, I'm already late. I might just have
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to tell my client I'm gonna be like ten minutes,
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fifteen minutes late, whatever. And that guy showed up, and
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then I show up to my client's place and she
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wasn't even ready anyway. All of that to say, I
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guess is that everything's always unfolding and divine timing, and
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no matter what we are supported, I think sometimes we
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get so lost in the this is what this looks like,
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and this has to happen this way in order for
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this to happen, and the world, the.
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Universe is so beyond that.
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My experience has been that it's very much our upbringing, right.
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Like we get taught.
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Okay, if you focus on this, this can happen. And
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the step by step and the following the rules and
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the this and the that, and ultimately, I think these
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ways of thinking pull us away from who.
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We really are.
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Like at the end of the day, we're all connected.
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I guess this is the message is that we're all connected, right,
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And I just want to offer that you lean into
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that this year, because if there's something that's on your
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heart to do, like I know a lot of people
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and a lot of my clients will come to me
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and they're like, Lauren, I just want to do this.
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I'm like, okay, why aren't we doing that? Like what's
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holding you back? You know? And they'll come up with
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excuses or reasons like, oh, well, I got to do
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this first, or I got to do this first. And
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there's no rule book, you guys, Like, there's no book
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written anywhere, there's no plan anywhere that says that if
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you don't follow these steps, you're not going to XYZ.
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It's so much bigger than that. And you know, the
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one thing that is really front and center for me
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as I enter this year is my human design because
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I'm so in tune with who I am, and I
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can be really good at being present with myself and
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moving where I need to move to fulfill whatever mission
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that I'm here to fulfill. There are times, though, that
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other people's energy will influence me, and I allow it
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to influence me, and I don't stay true to myself
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because I'm open to being influenced. And what I'm learning
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about the centers and just human design in general is
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like you can know your human design chart, you can
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know how you're designed to function, but if you're not
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working with your energy on a day to day basis,
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I can guarantee.
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You somewhere along the way this year, you're going to.
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Get pulled off track. So that's what I'm really practicing
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right now. You know, I set up my own routine
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and schedule and just really letting go of pressure. Like
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last year, I just felt so much pressure to be
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productive and make something of myself and all of this stuff.
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And what I'm finding after giving myself the time to
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take off and just completely disconnect from pressure from what
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I should do, what I think I need to do,
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and just focus inward, has really just reminded me of
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what brings me joy and what re energizes me as
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a leader. It's been I'm so impactful to the start
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of my year because now instead of feeling pressured, I'm
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taking my time in the morning, and I feel so
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much better, feel so good. I just feel so much
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more connected to myself. And so the whole purpose of
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me sharing this with you is that we live in
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a world that's very hustle and bustle, and it's so
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easy to get pulled away from what matters most to us.
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And for me, those are like my practices. It's my
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meditation time, it's my yoga time. I really need to
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be in my body. I really need to clear my
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mind so that I'm not allowing things like shiny objects
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syndrome to pull my attention. You know, there were days
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last year where, and this is what derailed me toward
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the end of the year, there were days where I
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was so certain that I was going to launch a program,
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and I would scroll social media and see something and
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I would be like, Oh, maybe this isn't the right
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thing to do. I should focus over here. And it's
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that habit that is keeping you from experiencing the results
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that you want to experience. When I've had my biggest
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months yet, it is when I have gone all in
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on my trust and faith in myself and my idea
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and whatever it was that I created. Right let's say
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I'm launching a new program. My biggest months came because
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I went full force, full belief, full faith into that.
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It doesn't work if you half asset. I've done a
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lot of half assed launches, whether it's because I didn't
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believe in them or because I didn't have the energy
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to follow through. Whatever the reasoning was, it's been usually
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one of those two or another one that I love
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is because I created something that I thought would make
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money and allow me to help more people, versus something
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that I genuinely wanted to create. So all of that
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to say, this year, we are prioritizing self care. We
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are prioritizing connection with self. And if you are in
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a space right now where you feel stressed, you feel pressure,
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you feel like you've just been running, I implore you
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to block.
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A week if you can.
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And if it's not a week, maybe it's thirty minutes
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every morning, maybe you get up thirty minutes earlier. I
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don't know how it would look for you but set
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that intention right, set the intention to take time for yourself.
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It doesn't really matter what you do. What matters is
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how you feel about what you do.
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Okay, So I hope that was helpful.
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Now that we've caught up on all the things, I
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want to talk to you about the three things that
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I looked at to plan my twenty twenty five.
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These are only three things that I want to cover, because.
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If I go into all seven things, it's going to
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take a lot longer. I'm going to cover the three
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things that I think are most important. But if you
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DM me on Instagram or keep your eyes on my feed,
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I will be releasing this seven tips to create a
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feel proof business goal plan in twenty twenty five, and
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you definitely want to look at that because it's going
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to walk you through step by step. So the first
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thing I want to start out with, and this is
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not part of the main three points, but I want
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to just mention that having gratitude for where you have
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taken your life in business and for what you do
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have is essential to come into this exercise and make
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the most of it. When you come from a lack mentality,
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whether it's like I don't have enough this, I need
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more of this. I haven't achieved this. You're going to
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continue to create more chaos, more overwhelm, more feelings of
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lack in your life. You're going to focus on looking
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for problems instead of finding solutions, and instead of holding
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the vision for what you want and allowing opportunities to
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come to you. Okay, So when you come from a
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place of lack, you're going to notice that you are
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more in a state of fight or flight, that you
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are more in a state of pushing, or you'll be
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in complete hopelessness and you won't take any action at all.
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Versus when you're in a feeling of gratitude, you're going
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to notice that not only energetically you feel more expanded,
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but you're also going to magnetize solutions to you that
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match your vision. This is the law of vibration, law
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of attraction. Everything that exists in this world has a
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frequency or a vibration, and like attracts like. Right, So
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whatever you're putting out you're going to get back. So
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just keep that in mind as you reflect on twenty
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twenty four and as you plan for twenty twenty five. Okay,
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if you're listening to the podcast. I'm showing my vision
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board right now. I'm not done with it yet, but
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I created a vision for myself for this year, and
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I also created project boards that are on my wall
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over there, and these have things that I really want
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to focus on in hone this year. Honestly, they've made
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all my to do list forever, but I'm like, we
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got to get it done this year. So what I've
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actually done is I've carved out because sometimes when a
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project feels too big, you don't really know where to start,
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and you kind of just potter sputter, buttter putter whatever.
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And so what I did was I actually mapped out
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steps to get me going. I've really noticed that for
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me as a manifesting generator, I need things to respond to.
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I need things to get me going. So if I
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come into work one day and I'm completely blank, I'm like,
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I don't know where to start. Instead of spending time
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checking my email, checking Instagram, checking Facebook, and getting lost
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on rabbit holes, I have these things. These are almost
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like my social media replacements that I can look at
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and remember like, oh, this is what you set out
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to do, this is what you're going to focus on today.
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Otherwise we end up wasting so much time.
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And I see this happen a lot in entrepreneurs, where
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they're not disciplined with their time and they end up
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wasting a lot of time consuming other people's content over
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getting shit done in their business. So the first thing
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that I identified were my cycles. Okay, this is number one,
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because it.
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Was so bad last year.
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I noticed that in Mexico every summer. I hadn't really
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noticed this before becoming an entrepreneur, just because I think
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when you have a job, job, you just kind of
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go with things and you don't really question things as much.
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But as an entrepreneur, I really noticed that my productivity
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in the summertime went down and my level of exhaustion
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went up, and it was harder to motivate myself. Last
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year moving to Montreal, I was like, hey, maybe it
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was a Mexico thing. Maybe Mexico did that to me,
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And here's why, there's valid reasoning behind it. In Mexico,
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it is so hot in summer. It is thirty eight
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celsius with humidity. You cannot leave your house without dripping sweat.
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It's really hot.
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I don't even want to go to the beach in
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the summertime because it's that hot. That's how crazy hot
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it is, and everyone over in Canada you're probably like.
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That's crazy.
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I would go to the beach in thirty eight degree.
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Why getting into the ocean doesn't even satisfy her because
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the ocean's hot. Anyway, I thought maybe it was a
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Mexican thing. So this year I'm like.
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Great, I'm in Montreal, I live in the city. Now
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I can source the energy. I can push myself to
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go through summer. So I didn't plan very well.
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I experienced the worst depression I have ever experienced in
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my life. Before last summer, I didn't really identify as
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someone with depression. I would have bad days, but this
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carried on for like weeks, slush months, like a I
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probably should have been a little more concerned for my
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well being. I focused on self care as much as
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I could, but I was in a really bad mental state.
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So the reason that Number one is looking at my
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inner cycles and seasons is because every single year in
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the summertime, I inevitably hit that slump and I try
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to push through it, and the more I try to push,
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the more depressed I get. This year, we're doing things
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differently so before making any plans, I looked at what
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are the seasons and cycles that I know for myself
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are problems or challenges. Just like nature, we are creatures
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that also have cycles, particularly women. Men's cycles are twenty
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four hours, Women's cycles are twenty eight days. The nine
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to five works really well for men because their testosterone
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peaks in the morning and dips after four five o'clock.
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It's perfect for women. It's different. Ours peaks and
dips
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over a twenty eight day span. So that's why there
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are a couple days a month where you feel super jazz,
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super energized, super productive, you can freaking accomplish whatever you
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set your mind to, versus other days where you feel
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like you just want to rot in bed. We have
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these cycles, and I think that for me particularly, this
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is super important because this is just like I'm a
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very observational person. What I see happen in the corporate world,
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in our traditional world, is that women are running themselves
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into the ground, pushing, pushing, pushing, and then they get
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sick and have all of these ailments and doctor's appointments.
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Just this past summer, Alexis, we had to go take
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her to the hospital because she was stressed, like she
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didn't know she was stressed, but she had issues. Now
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looking at her human design, we could see why she
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had those issues, and it happens for her like this
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is again observational eye track patterns, IE track cycles. This
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is something that's happened every single year for her. Every
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single year when she hits a stage of stress as
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a projector, she experiences the same issues in her body.
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And that's because she's not designed to follow such a
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workhorse type energy. She needs rest, she needs to detach
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from that sacral energy. Everyone's different, even amongst women, more different.
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But I think the more that you can get to
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know your cycles and seasons, the easier it's going to
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be to not just plan your year, but also achieve
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the goals that you set for yourself. We can be
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a little bit more realistic.
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It's just not worth.
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It, in my opinion, to chase success at the expense
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of your own mental health, mental wellbeing, physical well being
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this year. If there's only one thing that you do,
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let me invite you to track your cycles in your seasons.
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Cycles would be your twenty eight day cycles. Day one
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starts when you're menstruating. You can download an app. I
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like to use stardust to track my cycle. Day one
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is when you're menstuating. Then you go into the fillicular
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phase and ovulation ovulations when you have the most energy.
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Then you're two weeks pretty much in luteal phase, and
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that's when your energy starts to dip. Now it's not
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to say that you can't accomplish anything. I'm in my
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luteal phase right now and I've accomplished a lot in.
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The last couple days.
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It's to shift how you work with yourself. Make sure
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that you're getting everything that you need to have a
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successful day, to acomplish everything that you need to accomplish,
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and when you're feeling really tired, just like giving yourself
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that permission to rest. I have compared myself a lot
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to my male counterparts in the past, and it's just
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simply not fair because we have completely different bodies, we
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have different hormone cycles, we have different energy levels.
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And I think.
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The more that women can stand in their awareness of
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this their cycles, the more successful they will be, not
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just successful, but healthy. Right because at the end of
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the day, as a business owner, my health is my investment,
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it's my currency.
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If I'm not healthy, I can't work. So all of
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that to say is we have cycles.
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Before tracking this information about myself, I would get so disheartened.
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I would be so upset when I would wake up
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one day and have zero to give. And I'm the
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kind of person now if I don't have the energy,
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I can't just sit here and pretend to have the energy.
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I'm not the type of person that can just push through.
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So instead, what I've done is I've adjusted my expectations
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of myself. If a day comes where I wake up
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and I'm exhausted, now I know why. Instead of being
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super hard on myself, I can allow myself to go
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--> 00:31:24.279
through that without judging myself. If you're getting anything from
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this is to give yourself that grace that you can
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go through challenging days or low energy days.
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As a high.
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Achiever, I have expected myself to perform at eighty two,
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one hundred percent every day because that's just who I am.
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The reality is that it's not possible.
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So we're tracking monthly cycles and annual cycles, just like seasons.
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I have noticed for me that I go through fall, winter, spring,
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and summer in my life, but it's actually backwards to
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what you would think I've noticed that July, August, maybe August, September,
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that's my winter. October, November, December, Spring, things are starting
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to bloom again for me, starting to get excited, starting
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to get more energized, starting January into maybe February, March, April.
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Those are my summer days, and then my fall is
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pretty much up until July August. Mark I can go
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hard until July. It's August that I dip every year,
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knowing this this year, instead of planning to launch something
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and making all of my money in the summertime, we're
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not doing that. So the first thing to look at
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know your monthly cycle and your annual cycles. Okay, second
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thing is we're going to reflect on twenty twenty four.
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Make note of your winds.
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Identify the obstacles that held you back in twenty twenty
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four and that will inevitably come up again in twenty
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twenty five. We are creatures of habit. So many times
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where like, oh, we went through this one thing that
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sucked New year, Everything's fine. The reality is patterns repeat.
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You're going to go through the same challenges over and
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over and over again. So instead of hoping and wishing
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that they're gone, and that you've overcome them and so
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you'll never have to deal with them again.
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What is more helpful and.
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Realistic is to create a fail proof plan so that
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when you do hit those challenges, you know when they're happening,
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and you also are set up to navigate those challenges
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with more ease. So this would look like identifying any
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weaknesses within yourself. So for me, with an open crown
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and an open ASNA, I am super susceptible to other
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people's ideas, other people's opinions, other people's advice, and other
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people's mental pressure. In the office I work in, I
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know one of the other human design types and they
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have a defined I can't remember or if they have
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a defined crown and ogna or just a defined OSNA. Nonetheless,
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I feel their mental pressure. So super important to be
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aware of your own energetics and of the energy you're
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sharing space with others. It's not always possible, but if
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at least you know your own you can kind of
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work on cleansing, clearing and all of that jazz.
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Now, being aware.
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That I'm susceptible to all of those things, I can
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put a plan in place to help me navigate when
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I notice that my head is feeling pressured, or when
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I notice that I'm overthinking, or when I notice that
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I'm questioning myself or my decisions. Right, Okay, Lauren, you
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know that these are open areas.
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Where is this coming from? First of all? And second
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of all, how.
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Can we come back to a neutral space observe the
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thoughts rather than identify with them. So all of that
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to say, make note of the winds, which is super
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important because as high achievers, we often fail to recognize
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the progress that we've made, and we only focus on
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what's left to do and how far we are from
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our vision. Not only is this super energetically draining, it's
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also teaching your mind to close off. We got to
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train our minds to open up to opportunities and possibilities.
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Our mind is actually wired to look for threats because
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evolutionarily speaking, the brain is wired in all mammals to
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look for signs of danger. That is why our mind
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focuses so much on the negative when what we really
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need to be focusing on is positives and looking for
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opportunities and possibilities because our inner world becomes what we
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focus on. So if you're constantly looking for what's not
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going well, what's failing, what's bad. Then you are going
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to create a world and feel all of those things.
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When you start to notice what's going well and you
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start to open up your mind to start thinking more
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positively and express gratitude and notice all of the things
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in your life that you can be so grateful for
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and that you are so blessed to have, that is
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where your mind will start to pick up on other
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things that match that frequency. If you're interested in knowing
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what my top wins were, just before I get into
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the other things. My top wins for twenty twenty four were.
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I leveraged partnerships and collaborations, which brought in new clients
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out of nowhere. I had an almost twenty K quarter.
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This was really big for me. I also facilitated my
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first in person three day coach training. I've been facilitating
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the same coach training online for years, but doing it
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in person was absolutely amazing. We moved into our apartment
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in Montreal, got our home ready in Mexico to rent,
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and welcomed our first few renters.
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This year, I dealt.
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With, navigated and overcame a lot of anxiety and depression
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this summer.
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That is a huge win.
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Now having had this space to kind of disconnect and
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recenter with myself, I no longer feel anxious.
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It started back.
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When we were living with my family for two months.
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I just could not kick this feeling of anxiety and
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it lasted on and off up until I round December.
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Going back to Mexico and then coming back and reconnecting
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with myself was really huge, so I'm very proud of that.
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And then we spent a ton of time with family.
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I got to travel to some really big family milestone
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events this year, so we had my mom's sixtieth at
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the beginning of the year, my uncle seventieth, my cousin's fortieth.
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I got to meet my new nephew, and I got
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to spend a lot of time with my grandparents, which
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I'm super super grateful for because I haven't really been
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around as much when I was living in Mexico. I
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didn't get to come and visit as often, so it's
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been really amazing to spend time with my family. Here
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are some questions that you can ask yourself to support
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your reflections. First question is what did I accomplish in
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twenty twenty four, What went well? What were my greatest
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obstacles or setbacks? And that's for twenty twenty four, So
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what did I accomplish? What went well? What were my
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greatest obstacles or setbacks? You can even ask yourself what
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you're most proud of. So then for twenty twenty five,
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we are going to look at what do I want
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to be known for? What am I ready to call
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in this year? What needs to be resolved to do this?
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What do I want my year to look like in
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twenty twenty five? What needs to be fixed, looked at,
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worked on to support me in bringing this vision to reality?
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And most importantly, what is my mission? I worked on
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my vision emission years ago, and for whatever reason, the
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last couple of years, I've kind of disconnected or forgotten
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or haven't really redefined my missions. Having a mission statement
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is really helpful because it guides the reason behind everything
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that you're doing. If your mission is just to make
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money in your business, you're gonna wake up one day
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and not feel motivated to do it, and you're gonna
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have no reason to show up, no reason to work
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toward that mission. However, if you create a mission that
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is focused on contribution focused on impact focused on the
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world or helping people or something like environmental change, right,
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something that impacts the greater good. Then that is where
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you can source energy when you're feeling at your lowest.
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So those are some questions that I recommend we dive
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deeper into this and talk about creating a fail proof
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plan inside of my workshop called vision. It is a
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human design, visioning and setting workshop where I'm going to
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teach you how to understand certain elements of your human
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design chart and craft goals in a way that you're
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designed to craft them and achieve them. The reason being
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is because I spent years doing smart goals. I spent
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years setting these really big goals for myself and trying
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to achieve them in a way that looked like other
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people's way, in a way that was proven but for
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somebody else. And I spent a lot of time banging
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my head against the wall because I just got so
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frustrated with how I was doing things and it just
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didn't work well for me. My energy felt super restricted,
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and so I ended up feeling really frustrated. When I
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finally learned about human design and actually applied that to
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goal setting, things really opened up for me, So check
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out the link in the show notes to sign up
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for that. We're not done yet, though, So the last
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thing that I looked at to craft my vision for
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twenty twenty five is my human design. I've really been
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diving into the centers. I don't think that the centers
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are talked about enough. The centers govern where we influence
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other people, but also where other people influence us, and
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when we're not aware of our energy. When we're not
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aware of these centers, it can become really debilitating. For example,
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that mental pressure can become debilitating headaches, migraines, confusion, overwhelm okay,
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emotional center, depression, anxiety. I have an open emotional center.
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And what I didn't mention about my summer when I
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told you I went through the worst depression of my
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life is that a couple weeks after I had mentioned
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it to Alexis and she was like, oh, okay, But
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she disclosed to me a couple weeks later that she
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was also feeling really depressed. And she has a defined
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emotional center. She's meant to feel those ups and downs.
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I'm not meant to take that in and so knowing
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that she was going through a hard time. Really helped
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me to understand where I was actually maybe identifying with
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that energy instead of allowing it to pass through my experience,
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if that makes sense.
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Understanding how to.
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Work with the energetics of your chart is so so
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important to free yourself from these things. The open centers
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are usually where we feel the most challenged, where our
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pain usually lies. For me, it's that open emotional center
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where I get really influenced when the undefined heart center too.
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Oh my god, that one's a doozy.
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Anyway, For years I struggled to reach my goals and
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stick to the plans that I created for myself because
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they were all based on traditional goal setting methods, productivity hacks.
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And all of that.
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Knowing my human design really helped me to understand why
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those were not working for me, why they were incorrect
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for my energetic makeup. It took a while, but I
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eventually got to the place where I just accepted the
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way that I'm created, the way that I came here
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to be, and realize the gift in being what I
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came here to be, rather than pushing myself to be
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something else. I learned that just because it works for
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one person doesn't mean it's going to work forever, and
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that's okay. Just as an example, as a manifesting generator,
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I used to focus so much on that advice of
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focus on one thing at a time, do one thing
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at a time, finish it, complete it, and do the
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step by steps, and then the launch I would get
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so bored, I would get so lost, I would get
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so confused in all of these templates and structures. It
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was really overwhelming, and for a while I really doubted
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my ability to be an entrepreneur. I was like, can
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I even do this? I'm getting overwhelmed. I can't even
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finish this like template or this launch plan. I'm getting
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so overwhelmed that I don't think this is for me.
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When I gave myself permission to let go of those
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proven methods and discover a process that would work well
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for me, that's when things like I said earlier really
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changed for me. That's when launching actually became successful for me.
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That's when I honestly just felt different, like I felt
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so in my power. We talk about who we are,
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but I noticed that a lot of people kind of
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reject themselves still. They either reject themselves by still trying
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to fit a mold that they're not meant to be in,
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or they know their chart, but they're not working with
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it actively, so they end up still getting swept away
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into other people's things. It can present a lot of challenges.
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It presents a lot of personal challenges and frustration.
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So if you've ever felt like you are the black.
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Sheep of entrepreneurship and that other people's strategies just don't
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seem to work for you the way that they promised. Now,
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there is one thing that I'll address here is that
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a lot of digital product creators do over promise results.
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So that is one thing.
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But there are a lot of quality pieces of work
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out there, and if we don't customize it to how
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we came here to be, it will be a struggle
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to see results with that specific way.
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Does that make sense?
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One example I can speak to is the process of writings.
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I've started writing a book, I have no idea when
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it's going to come out because I don't always.
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Have words to say. That's
because of my open asna.
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I have a defined throat as a manifesting generator, but
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my OSNA center my mind is not connected to my throat. Therefore,
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I don't necessarily have concrete thoughts or opinions about things.
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I have more of like this.
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Neutral perspective and open mind, right, so I can take
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and hold multiple different perspectives at once. That can be
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a challenge when I feel pressured to, for example, write
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an email write my book. Writing the book is not
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with super priority, so I've allowed that to be its
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own creation. But for example, when it comes to writing
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content a sales page for a launch, sometimes I get
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stuck because I just can't find the words to say.
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There are words like I have the power of my voice,
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but there's nothing up here sometimes right, So putting myself
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in the right environments to allow my energy to flow
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has been really helpful.
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There was one morning I came into.
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The office and I wrote eleven pages of this book.
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I just felt so inspired by whatever was happening. So
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that's something I'm really focused on this year, is really
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diving into the energy centers and optimizing finding ways around things.
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Because I could easily say, oh, I.
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Have an undefined mind and a defined throat, therefore I'm
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not meant to write a book.
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I could easily say that, but I don't believe in that.
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I think there are always ways to get your energy flowing,
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and it's going to look different for everybody.
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I could read a book on how to write.
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A book, and I could get nowhere with it, because why,
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you know why.
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So those are the top three.
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Things that I focused on in my visioning and planning
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for twenty twenty five. Now, I want to paint a
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picture for you. I want you to imagine that you
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wake up in nine months from now and you are
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sipping your morning coffee or
your morning tea, or your
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morning hot chocolate, whatever you drink. You're making your gratitude list,
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and all of a sudden, you get a tingle in
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your tummy when you finally realize that you reached the
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goals that you set for yourself, and you realize that
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this time it was aligned, it was easy, and it
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was deeply fulfilling. If you have ever felt like traditional
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goal setting leaves you feeling more disappointed in yourself than accomplished,
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then it is time to discover how you're uniquely wired
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for success. My workshop vision is the human design, visioning
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and goal setting workshop, where you are going to say
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goodbye to cookie cutter goal setting strategies that leave you
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feeling disappointed in yourself, and you're going to say hello
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to aligned vision that sets you up for success in
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a way that feels easy and exciting to you. This
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workshop is on sale right now. We're going to meet
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live online the challenges, tackle your questions, and create a
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vision for this year and maybe even for the next
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five ten years. So I'm going to drop the link
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in the show notes. People have absolutely raved about this workshop.
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Used to run this workshop with my friend Carolina, and
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I have tweaked it because we're not running it together anymore.
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You can do it self guided or come and be
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with us in the live workshop. It's on so right now,
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only for two weeks. It's a really great program and
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you're going to use it like not just this year.
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You can use it again next year and the year
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after that. If you have access to it already, you
888
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can go through it again. If you want to attend
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the live workshop, though, you do need to purchase the workshop.
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Send me a message if you have any questions about that.
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This is your year to move forward with intention and
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alignment and I wish you nothing but the best. Thank
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you so much for being here. If you liked this
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00:48:55.480 --> 00:48:57.599
episode today, please share it with a friend or a
895
00:48:57.599 --> 00:49:01.599
colleague or a client. I appreciate you listening. I appreciate
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you implementing the things that I talk about here because
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they're truly life changing. And I am just so grateful
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for my community and my audience and my listeners.
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Thank you for being here.
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I love you, and I will see you in the
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next episode. Thank you so much for tuning into the
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podcast today. If you like what you heard, I would
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love it if you left a review. If you like
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my vibe, come and hang with me in my Facebook
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or Telegram group. I'll drop the link to my email
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list below, or you can get instant access. Make sure
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you check the show notes for any other links that
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I mentioned today, and until next time, I'm sending you
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waves of abundance.