# Andrea Vacca

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The Financial Documents You Need Before You Do Anything Else

Before an attorney is hired, before a spouse is told, before anything official happens, there's one quiet act of preparation that changes the trajectory of a divorce: getting clear on your financial picture. In this solo episode, Andrea Vacca walks through exactly what that looks like and why it ma…

Planning for Tough Conversations With a Resistant Spouse

Few moments in a divorce carry more weight than the first one: the conversation where you finally say the words out loud. In this solo episode of A Better Divorce Podcast, Andrea Vacca speaks directly to the thoughtful, emotionally intelligent people who have been rehearsing that conversation for w…

High-Conflict Divorce Doesn't Mean You Have to Go to Court

When a marriage has been defined by conflict, whether it is open arguments or long stretches of silence, most people assume divorce will have to be settled in court. If we can't agree on anything now, the thinking goes, how could we possibly reach an agreement on our own? In this solo episode of A …

Legal Separation vs. Divorce vs. Postnup: What's the Difference?

Few decisions carry more weight, or more confusion, than choosing how to formally restructure a marriage. In this solo episode of A Better Divorce Podcast, Andrea Vacca cuts through the noise around three commonly conflated options: legal separation, divorce, and the postnuptial agreement. Rather t…

Decision Fatigue in Divorce: Why Exhausted Choices Cost You Later

You sat down to review the proposed parenting schedule, read the same paragraph three times, and told yourself you'd come back to it. But you didn't. Or worse, you said yes to a proposal, not because it was right, but because you were done. In this solo episode of A Better Divorce Podcast, Andrea V…

The Parenting Plan That Prevents Future Fights

When couples decide to separate, the conversation about the children can feel overwhelming, and the phrase "parenting plan" often arrives loaded with anxiety. In this solo episode of A Better Divorce Podcast, Andrea Vacca walks parents through exactly what to think about before they sit down to neg…

Why I Recommend Divorce Coaches for My Clients

Andrea Vacca has watched the same pattern play out for three decades: the people who move through divorce with the most clarity and the least damage almost always have someone on their team most clients have never heard of. Not another attorney. Not a therapist. A divorce coach. In this solo episod…

27. How to Divorce Without Destroying Your Family or Finances with Collaborative Attorney Andrea Vacca

The lawyer you hire can shape the cost, tone, and aftermath of your divorce. In this episode, Gabriella sits down with collaborative divorce attorney Andrea Vacca to examine what changes when you replace the “bulldog” mindset with preparation, financial clarity, and a team focused on solving proble…

Privacy in Divorce - Why Court Should Be the Last Resort

Andrea Vacca opens this episode with a scenario that plays out more often than most New Yorkers realize: a well-known restaurateur files for divorce, a gossip column has the story within 48 hours, and inside a week his bankers, business partners, and the city's food media are all asking questions a…

Resentment Is the Most Expensive Emotion in Divorce

"Feeling resentment is like taking poison and expecting the other person to die." Andrea Vacca has come back to that saying many times in her work, because she watches it play out in divorce after divorce. In this solo episode of A Better Divorce Podcast, Andrea looks at what resentment costs: mone…