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Welcome to Yawning Up, the podcast that showcases the stories of First Lady Explorer.
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To help us learn and unlearn Australia's history to work towards better future.
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I'm your host, Caroline Kelly Crow.
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This podcast is taped on the sacred, stolen, unfaded Aboriginal land of the roundary people of the poor nation.
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That always was and always will be Aboriginal land.
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I acknowledge traditional owners right across Australia and pay my deepest respects to our elders, our knowledge keepers, both past, present, and emerging.
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I am just listening to some tracks this morning.
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Is there anything better than a playlist to pump you up and get the endorphins flowing?
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I think not.
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I'm so excited about the guest that I have today.
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He is a fella that I've been following for such a long time.
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He is so passionate about health and well-being.
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And I'm so excited to dive into his personal story today.
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But before I do, I just want to say to all the listeners, just thank you so much for the love and the support.
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I guess when I started the podcast, I had every intention of dropping an episode every fortnight because there's just so many people in the community, in my community, who are doing amazing things and there's just so many conversations to have.
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At Black Bottle, I do a lot of things, a lot of things that I don't always go public and talk about to support the community.
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And I do that because I always believe in providing an active service.
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And I've just had a number of projects on.
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I ran a really successful network and leadership event called NAM Eats and Gatherings.
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And I guess, yeah, I think I just had to put something on the backburn.
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And unfortunately, it was the podcast.
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But uh safe to say that I am back, and thank you so much for continuing on the journey.
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So I get a lot of feedback from people who have been following the journey.
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Um, those who are here in so-called Australia, but also people who are abroad, people from Finland, the States, the UK, um, who are also listening in.
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And I just want to say um to all the brothers and sisters, um, First Nations communities, non-Aboriginal, Indigenous, brown Indigenous, people of color, all my people who are listening in.
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Welcome.
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Welcome to the podcast, the fourth episode.
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I'm so excited about the guest I've got today.
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This fella runs an increasingly successful online fitness enterprise.
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And I can't wait to get into his story.
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Without further ado, I think I'm gonna dive right into it and hand over to my brother to uh introduce himself as he would like to be introduced.
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Over to you, Braz.
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Hey, Superman?
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Nice.
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I'm a proud Camilla Roy man.
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My name's Jeffrey Morgan.
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I am a nutritionist.
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I was a trainer for 29 years.
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Uh I still am registered as such, but turned into a health and well-being uh well-being consultant for New South Wales and ACT Health, and run everything from school programs through to corporate health and well-being community projects for Aboriginal and non-Aboriginal communities and um high performance teams.
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Uh, I travel the country delivering uh habits and rituals workshops, tapping into mindfulness, well-being, and your health.
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Um so that's a bit of an introduction, hopefully, about myself and sort of gives you a bit of a background of what I do.
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Yeah, deadly.
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So we've got yeah, Jeffrey Morgan lifestyle on on the line with us, and it's so interesting to hear your background.
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Um, you know, having such a long history in health, it sounds.
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Um, before I kind of get into talking about that, because I'm really interested to understand your journey into fitness and into health.
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Um, I'm just curious to understand what it was like um growing up for you.
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Where so you said you're a Camilleroy man.
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Um, yeah, I'm I'm keen to know a little bit more about your your personal story, bros.
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Well, um family, I am a Camilleroy man from Walgroup.
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The family's from Walgreens, but I grew up in um Everley Street Ripment.
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Uh I always say one of the most notorious streets ever in Australia's history for the wrong reasons.
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Um, and out of that, obviously seeing the health issues within the community made me super passionate about um seeing our mob live longer and stronger.
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Uh, even from a young age.
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At 14 years of age, I I remember writing out a lot of stuff that I wanted to achieve in my life because there was a lot of dysfunction and destruction within the community in the nicest way.
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And I just felt that we could um do more so that our families could live longer.
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And I, you know, to identify it at 14, I obviously seen a lot of pain, heartache, suffering, you know, people being buried when they shouldn't have been.
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And for me, that you know, that's where passion grew to look after myself and try and learn not to end up in the same position.
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That's what it sort of grew out of, and then started to obviously think, you know, I'd love to do something around this as a um career, uh, turn my passion into a career, and ultimately, you know, that's what exactly what I did.
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And um that became my why ultimately long term, uh, I then created a vision which turned into the lifestyle program and on online program, which I haven't spoken about.
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And we've got a ton of clients, same thing from across the world, um, in that program, jumping in, trying to lose weight, um, and just teaching them.
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It was more, you know, something I learned from a young age, especially growing up in Redfern, was the habits that you obtain um are from, you know, those that are of value to yourself, the experiences of life in general, the formative use and you know, the role modeling as such from whoever it is within your life.
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And unfortunately, if they're destructive and then negative, then you're gonna take those on.
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And for me, I had to then tap into and then change and become who I am today.
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And um, I've left that person behind, but it's also taught me high value, and I still go back and appreciate the person I was to teach me the value I could pass on to others, um, to create a healthier, happier, and more successful life.
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And it's been, you know, honestly, it's been a journey.
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And as much as some people say, Oh, I wish I had my life different and I had a million dollars and you know, was able to drive a nice car or whatever it may be.
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For me, it's just been an ultimate journey to go through that struggle.
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Now, every single thing that I do in life is appreciated, um, and more so elevated on a different level because we had nothing, and you know, I get anything.
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Um, it doesn't have to be a million-dollar car, it could be a t-shirt as an example.
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I'm super grateful for that.
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If you share my your time with me like you are now, I'm super grateful for that.
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And that just elevates everything in life.
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And uh so a lot of people just said, Oh, I don't want to talk about being that person and and so
forth.
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For me, as I said, it's just elevated a lot of things in life and amplified the happiness that's come into my life.
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Had a peanut butter toasted this morning in some of the peanut butter toast.
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You need someone to go for it, my brother.
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I guess for the people who are, you know, at um not in Australia, um, red fern is um, you know, correct me if I'm wrong here too, bros, but it's it's deeply rooted in Aboriginal history here in Australia.
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It's um, you know, some say that it's the birthplace of the black power movement here.
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And um yeah, it's one of the former missions um in Sydney, New South Wales, that I guess is kind of in later years, as I understand.
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I'm not a traditional owner from there, but from the mob who I'm connected with that it's just been reclaimed as a black space.
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Um and so, yeah, how interesting.
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Um to grow up at the time of a of a political movement, and people were so focused on rights.
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I guess, you know, at times when we are focused on the greater oppression and systems, you know, sometimes the mob just lacks some of the means, hey, to look after themselves um and to live happy and healthy lives.
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I'm wondering if uh, yeah, we could talk a little bit about that in your line of work.
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With two of those things really quickly.
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Yeah.
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The fact that Pep can't afford, you know, the foods that um different uh socioeconomic areas would be able to afford and allow themselves that health through the foods that they put into their mouth versus you know being able to join a gym.
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Um we were lucky enough to have Mundine's gym at the bottom of it.
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But you've got to think about the education side of things as well.
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Um my parents weren't allowed in the schools, and if they were, they would probably, you know, imagine the racism and and so forth, they would have coped.
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Um and then be put on this side of school versus that would have been just imagine the mental health stress that was um uh attached to that.
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And I think on the back end of that, you know, if you're suffering on a mental health level, you don't have the education in the nicest way around how to keep yourself as healthy as you possibly can on a physical, on a nutritional, on a mindset level, of course, then on the back end of trauma, that's just gonna add this big um fireball of um destruction and uh you know negative thoughts and um and negative sort of behaviors and outcomes because of just the education level behind it and the um affordability.
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Uh and I think you know, it's something I've touched on um with New South Wales and ACT Health when they want to do programs around healthy lunchboxes as an example.
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I say don't worry about the lunchbox or what's in it.
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Can they actually afford what we're about to recommend?
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Because that's the biggest, as you know.
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And to make sure that it's more about the role modeling and how can we put together a program by a means test as an example that allows some young kids like myself who didn't get breakfast um or lunch or maybe even dinner for days on end um to be able to get the food that they required just to have energy for the day, um, like any other human being, to then go in and actually feel um right to study.
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Imagine sitting there not eating all day and say you travel at work.
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And people go, Why does the kid play out?
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Of course the kids are gonna play out, be starving, and you know um, people are gonna make choices to survive even as young at a young age.
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Wow, I think um it's amazing to hear that your program offers such a level of holistic support.
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I mean, personally, it kind of just it blows my mind about the the pay inequity in Australia.
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You know, we are one of the wealthiest countries in the world, the wealthiest developed countries in the world.
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Um, and I think it's like one in five kids or something that I was reading recently still go without breakfast of a morning.
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Um so I think it's fantastic that your program offers a level of sustainability for these families.
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Um, and it kind of sounds to me that that sort of resourcefulness kind of stems a lot from of your formative years um growing up in Redfern and um what an inspiration to, you know, come from the struggle and then want to give back to to our communities.
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The way I grew up, I just took all the skills that I learned on on a destructive um bad path then and applied them into a business sense.
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And I still had the principles of um everything I did there, but obviously just learn a better way to do that in a positive way without being destructive, and my life elevated.
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And that's one thing I'd share with anybody that watches watches this believe and achieve, um believe in yourself when you'll achieve anything that you want in your life, and it comes down to what you do and the actions you take.
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And the biggest thing I for me to change, I had to rewire the patterns of behavior in my head.
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So to
make money, I thought about a destructive way.
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What was a new way I could start to make money, but use the skills that I had and the drive and the passion and fold into something I was passionate about.
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And when you do something around your passion, the rest of all is in the place.
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You won't have to do much.
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Absolutely.
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Wow, I'm just so deeply inspired uh to hear your story.
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Thank you for sharing and you know how you've been able to turn that into an act of service, um, one that is so deeply needed in this country, I guess.
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Um, you know, many of you may know, but in Australia, we have an initiative that's been running for the last 10 years now, um, and it's called Closing the Gap.
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And it's about, you know, closing the health gap between us and non-Aboriginal people.
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Um, in Australia, we're still more likely to die eight or nine years earlier than non-Aboriginal counterparts.
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Um, and that's not by poor choices and not eating vegetables or rocking up to, you know, your your appointments.
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It's through um systemic uh oppression and racism and the heavy, heavy scars that remain post-colonization.
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And I just say, yeah, massive kudos to you and the work that you're doing, um, so that we can have some of the tools to live a healthy and happy life, one that um is is meaningful um because we all deserve to have a a quality of life.
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Um and yeah, so thank you.
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You know, what what led you on that path to finding your passion amongst all of this?
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Probably touching back on where I grew up and you know, um, seeing those health issues, and I just knew there had to be a better way.
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Why were other people, as you touched on, living longer than ourselves or living as you touched on, and one of the most important words and one of my pillars within the th the three pillars of the my program quality of life, happiness, and success.
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What does that look like for the individual?
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And you touch on the fact that we lived 10 years younger, but I you'd know this and I'd know this.
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Well, everybody watching whether you're overseas or in Australia, even though we lived 10 years younger than everybody else, a lot of people on medication, a lot of people are under constant stress, and I'm talking constant stress, whether it's financial, racism, uh dealing with things, and I want to relate this to yourself.
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You think, oh, you know, just get over it and move on.
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If you've got social media and I jump on your social media and I write something negative towards a post that you've posted up, say you post it up and you're feeling great about yourself, and I'm and I jump on as a female, um, would you be happy if I jumped on your page and wrote um your up yourself or something of that nature, and it's just uh, you know, maybe it was my opinion, this is just an example for everybody.
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And then someone jumps on and goes, Well, I just feel great about myself, and I said, Um, you just think you're too good.
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And uh, when I and this is what Aboriginal people um copy on a regular basis.
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Empathy these days is out the window, and people only uh if it doesn't fit your narrative, then you flick it out the door.
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And unfortunately, Black Lives Matter, um you know, everyone jumped on board and it was great of that nature.
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But if you were truly about Black Lives Matter, and I mean this in a in in the nicest way, understand this.
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For me as an Aboriginal person, I don't see colour, I just see another human who I should respect out of common humanity.
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And if you give the respect back, I'll give I don't care if colour has no role in me interacting as a person or an individual, but the quality of life of our people is impacted because we're it's more around the education behind the history of Australia as an example, and all the world and we know more about World War II and the Nazis than we do about Aboriginal people and what actually happened in our country.
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Because when we had that conversation, I've seen a 15-year-old kid um post a great it was a great post, and the kid goes, you know, in history for year 10 or year 12, there was 10 weeks, and he spent nine weeks on the American Revolution and one week on Australian history, and a small component of that was the Aboriginal history.
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What if we flipped that nine weeks and made that nine weeks into learning about Australia's history?
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Remember, Aboriginal history is Australian history, and we merged that and then started to educate people to empower people to a sound and better understanding of what our country, our country, went through, so we can get on and be more united and more love and care and respect for one another rather than bouncing off.
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And this is where that quality of life on the back end of that, it takes a hit because you're constantly getting hit.
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And as I said, you know, whether it's um different components of being an Aboriginal person um does impact your stress levels.
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And as I said, if you had somebody who was bullying you, someone who's telling you you're not pretty, you're not
good enough, you're not strong enough, that's as an Aboriginal person what we call quite a lot.
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Um, whether I'm being super positive um quite often because um we're an Aboriginal person, and that hopefully that explanation sort of gives you a bit of context and insight into how we can all get on a lot better.
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Because I can guarantee you as angry as some Aboriginal people may be, if you come with respect and you listen and you hear what's being said, and we communicate together and then we look at what we can do together as a nation and learn from one another, we'll grow and prosper.
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Um it's as simple as that.
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Absolutely.
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Yeah, gosh, there's so much to unpack there.
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I think the the example of social media is a really good one because it's one that we all kind of fundamentally understand.
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And um, yeah, the example that you've kind of drawn on, which is being constantly teared down.
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Um gosh, language is so vital.
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The language, the words that we use to even define the problems is how we kind of do the solutions.
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I mean, a lot of the clients I work with when we go into some of that kind of intensive healing work around mindset and limiting beliefs, um, a lot of it is looking at the words and the language they use.
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You know, I can't do this versus I can't do this yet.
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You know, that one word yet has so much weight.
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So, you know, I I really do believe that language is critical in this conversation.
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And unfortunately, in this history, in this country, there's a history of looking at black and brown folk through a lens of less than or some othering that occurs.
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And of course, over time that that erodes at your self-confidence.
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You know, often I like to reflect and think about um, yeah, what if the the that and I don't want to borderline into some Marxist kind of conversation, but what if the measurement of happiness and success wasn't how productive we were?
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Um, it was how we were connected to each other and this land and the culture.
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And, you know, when I think about that, and I think we're all searching for this kind of spirituality or um, you know, something other than what we have, some higher purpose, some divine intervention, whatever it is.
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Um, I just think that it's a it's a kind of a missed opportunity for our schools to not be educating people about our culture.
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Um Aboriginal people have such a sophisticated and nuanced way of looking after um ourselves and
each other and and our interrelating.
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And yeah, I think we do have a long way to go.
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But I'm always, always optimistic.
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Um and I think, I think, yeah, it's just a missed opportunity in this country that we're not learning about it.
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You know, that said, I am seeing some changes.
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I'm seeing some uh pretty progressive schools really step up.
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Um, so big shout out to them.
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But I think you're right, we do have a bit to go here and and White Australia does have a black history and one that we should all be bloody proud of.
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Yeah.
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Yeah, I'll I'll call it changing the language to change the outcome.
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And even for me, I've got into the habit of just talking about human beings, other human beings, and I don't want to talk colour anymore because in the end I feel that even that then is is impacting or trying to sort of push a particular agenda, um, or someone may feel that it's um looked upon uh uh uh that particular way.
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So for me, it's just for fellow Australians, um, so we can get on.
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And I think one of the most important things Redfront taught me growing up in an uh community where I was told I was no good in the media, the local police, the community around us, and taxi drivers wouldn't drive you know into the area.
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You said Redfront, they like get out of the taxi as an example.
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Yeah, um, it taught me to be super resilient and block out the external and just focus on the internal.
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And when I knew what my happiness, my success, and my quality of life look like, and you touched on it before.
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And it's very funny because when I do a corporate health and well-being program, you'll find that yeah, it's a big house, nice car, family, be able to travel, money in the bank, etc.
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etc.
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And versus I think the bat, yeah, it's each to the own world, actually.
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This is my opinion on everything, obviously, around how you can amplify your life.
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And I take it from being an Aboriginal person, Mother Earth is one of the most beautiful things on this planet.
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You can go down and watch the sunrise, and you can feel just as good as you would feel buying a new car.
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And I think if you know it costs you absolutely nothing, put a partner next to yourself that you, you know, you got love or care for, or your family as an example, and you need zero dollars to get out that happiness.
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Um, and that could be determined for me, is determined as success.
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To be able to do that on a regular basis in my calendar and know that I'm doing that on a Friday morning with my aunt going down to the beach and watching the sun come up to make sure that my soul is enriched and my internal battery is charged around how my happiness and success looks like.
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If I get the nice car and if I get the nice house after that, then it's only adding value to what I already see.
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And my value or my base level comes from a lot of stuff that is free to every single person, and you know, treating somebody nice, that you can walk past somebody and say, Hey uh morning, and you'll find that if you have a great attitude the way you say that, that's okay, morning, now say it back to yourself.
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And that costs zero dollars to respect and be kind to other human beings, and that's where I'm coming from.
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And once I get that car, if it happens because I've followed my passion, then it's only a bonus and it's only value.
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But imagine how good I feel about getting in a car because I already feel good just about being in nature, being alive, seeing, hearing, breathing, and knowing that life is precious and they want this beautiful thing we call Australia.
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And um, you know, we as Aboriginal people appreciate the country uh and respect it and only take what you need as such.
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Um, and from that, when I get that card, it's amplified by a million.
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If I you know get a partner that I connect with, amplify by another million, and all of a sudden, you know, people uh then I go into the Aboriginal community and say, What's your success look like?
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And they go, I don't really care about success.
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I go, yeah, but you're thinking on a money money and a financial or materialistic level.
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I want you to think about what your success looks like.
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Is it to go back on country and learn your own language?
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And I go, yeah, that'd be awesome.
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I go, that would would that be success to you?
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I don't know.
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You you determine it, but start to think laterally that it just doesn't have to be about materialistic things.
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Owning a Gucci or Prada bag is an example, but maybe being able to go and explore the country, sit on top of the mountain, watch the sun go down with your partner, and know that that was one little box that you wanted to tick, and that could be your own vision or purpose behind your own success.
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So start to think outside the box and watch your life elevate.
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I love that.
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And I think you know, there's so much evidence about the importance of gratitude and and being appreciative of what you have.
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And I guess that's unfortunately like coming from not a lot, when we do start to have things, we we are very appreciative.
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But this notion you're talking about, which is controlling your internal world, I love that.
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I mean, there's gonna be there's always shit going on in your family, in community, in uh what we're seeing with you know social justice.
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And it's important to have a voice and and elevate the voice of community, of course.
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But we also have to look after ourselves and we have to make sure that our cups are full so we can be there for others.
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And my nan used to say that if you're gonna go into the battleground, you've got to be well and you've got to be strong to be going back in the battleground.
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And that that that notion of being able to control your internal world while everything's happening is is so is so beautiful.
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And I guess with that, you know, bras, I'm curious to understand with your program.
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So if we could talk a little bit about your actual program, because I imagine that'd be helping people control their internal worlds.
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Um yeah, what does that what does the program look like?
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So the workshops in general, as I said, work around those three pillars, your quality of life, your happiness, and your success, determined by yourself.
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And what we do, or what I do is get out and make people realize there's two forms of life, existing or living.
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And then I get them to write out everything that's important to themselves in around these different particular lists that we put together.
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And then on the back end, there's a whole heap of different components and subjects.
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But they start to realize that they're just going through the grind of things.
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And a lot of people and a lot of studies recently have shown that people that are interviewed when they get older, they ask them what did they regret most.
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And it wasn't like, you know, I had a failed business, I cheated on my partner, I broke my leg or something of that nature.
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I didn't travel to this country.
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It was all sorry, it was all about the stuff that they didn't do.
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I didn't travel to Greece and I always wanted to go there.
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I didn't go to Disneyland, I wanted to go there, I didn't get married and I always wanted to do that, whatever it may have been, because they never put themselves, they were too busy, or they life just caught up, caught, you know, caught up on themselves.
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And I think what I do is I get them to slow it down to speed it up, meaning write out what their happiness, success, and quality of life looks like.
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And that then gives them a vision to take them out of the existence to start creating something where they are actually living within their life.
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And people, you know, the comments I get all the time is I've had a light bulb moment, and I've had a lot of people cry within the thing because they realize think about this: you come out of school, you go through school, come out of school, you go into what uni or you go into work.
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And a lot of people take what type of work?
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Anything that's gonna pay the bills because you're old enough now and you want to start to support yourself.
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Maybe you're partying, it's an interesting world, maybe you're running your own life, and all of a sudden you got to about 30 and you start to go or even 25, 30, you know, and you're like, maybe I should start a business or head in the direction of where I want to head.
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Some of you hit success, some of you don't.
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But in general, a lot of people then might not start that business and just go in the grind or going to work every single day, get up at nine, get up early in the morning, run through the old process, do your hair as an example.
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Um, I won't it wouldn't take me too long on in the current environment.
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But in general, like on a on a really serious note, it it literally goes through a daily grind that is just the same thing, groundhog day, day in, day out, and then all of a sudden they look at time and they go, Far, I'm 60 years of age, and I didn't jump out of an airplane.
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I wanted to always jump out of an airplane, I wanted to scuba dive in Bali.
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I wanted whatever it is that you want to do, if you don't know what that looks like, and you don't create a vision, purpose, and why behind your life, I guarantee that life will always be too busy for yourself.
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And as long as you let that be the excuse that you tell yourself, your brain will only hear what you tell it.
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And guess what it will do on the back end of that?
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It will just listen before you get to an age where it's too old and you just live in with a lot of regret.
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And anything I I know anybody that's watching this will know when you do something or have something of regret within
yourself, a lot of people get angry about it because you know they didn't tick off a box around something that was important to them.
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So do yourself a favor, really create a vision, purpose, and why behind your life, and that's you, not me.
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I might want the Lamborghini, you might not want it.
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Each today, write out what it looks like, and then start to create a roadmap slash framework towards your life.
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You know, is it contacting a university to get in contact and do the uni degree that you've always wanted to?
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I did mine when I was really, I didn't come out of school and go straight into uni, I let it slide, and I came out and did it a lot later because I realized in my industry it would give me another little feather to my cap.
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But in general, what is the importance of your life around your success, happiness, and quality of life?
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And remember, success doesn't have to be a materialistic thing.
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Success is ticking off boxes on a regular basis based around what's important to yourself.
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But if you don't have a list to do, what are you ever gonna do?
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You're just gonna go through that everyday groundhold day, and I guarantee life's gonna snatch you away before you're even done what's important to you.
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Yeah, I love that.
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I I mean this whole notion of the busyness syndrome where we're too busy to do X, that's just a bunch of guna, really.
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You know, it's it's it's not being it's not prioritizing the things you need to do.
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I've actually I I've I've tried to, I'm really conscious of the language I use, particularly working with clients, because words have meaning and they carry emotions.
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And I'd I've eradicated the word busy out of my try to get it out of my vocabulary because it is it I try to say I'm productive as opposed to dumping my busyness on people.
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And I think it's because you can fall into this busyness trap, and there's there's so much benefit in creating a sense of freedom that comes with the time and energy you're putting behind things you love.
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And that's what I really like about YES program.
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It sounds to me it's not just it sounds like health and fitness is a huge component, but you're actually working through goals around people's mindsets and actions.
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And how many how many people have you seen through your journey to date?
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Have you seen quite a number?
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We well, we count per year, and this year we're up over 80,000 people,
and that's on a corporate juvenile justice, adult um corrections.
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So over 80,000 people, and you know, I know as a trainer, probably realistically, even if you're a great trainer, you show up, you do everything right, you get a probably a 20% return on your investment.
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And I mean that in the nicest way.
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Same thing, because it's about changing what's in set in that person's belief.
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And they're telling themselves, I'm no good, I shouldn't even be in the gym, I'm too fat, I'm too ugly, I'm not strong enough, whatever it is that they're telling themselves, so that small percent of investment I worked at at some point, I mean my brother's suicide, I could transition at this point.
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I said from this point, I'm gonna go into consultancy because I've been meaning to do it.
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At that point in time, I realized if I could impact a say a thousand people even in here and I've got a 10% return of investment, I then get 100 people that I change.
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And I know the people around them, the viable attractive tribe, will start to say, Hey, I'd like to train as well.
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What do you eat?
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How do you do that?
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What and so forth.
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And that meant 500 people would be changed rather than if I had you know 100 clients in here and I've got 10 to change, 50 versus 500, it was a no-brainer, and I transitioned.
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And you know, to have 80,000, if I get 10% of 80,000 do the maths, I'm gonna end up with a huge impact or more of an impact before I leave this planet and a legacy that that will be um well and truly left behind when I leave this planet.
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That for me was my ultimate goal.
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Wow, it's just it's so phenomenal.
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Um, I am so deeply, deeply grateful for your time today and just oh wow, 80,000 people.
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I'm still just kind of thinking about that.
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I mean, as you say, it's not just the 80,000 people that attend the program, but it's those families and those communities and those groups of people that are equally influenced by the change.
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And yeah, you should be so proud of your accomplishments.
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Thank you for your acts of service and your time with me today.
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Now, where can people go to find out more information about yourself and this deadly program, brother?
00:35:54.719 --> 00:35:56.239
Yeah, uh, Jeffrey Morgan.
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Just type in Jeffrey Morgan, J-E-W-F-R-E-Y, uh, and it's Morgan, M-O-I-G-A-N, and it should pop up, um, and you'll see my bad head.
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Uh you're amazing.
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I burned some calories from the get-go.
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Yeah, yeah, but I'm on a serious note, or www.jeffreymorgan.com.au um and all the programs on there, and basically we'll send you out the information if you want me to come out of your town, organization, school, community, or as an individual to help change and maybe even save your lives.
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Thank you so, so much again, my brother.
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It has been an absolute honour to listen to you and your story.
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Head over to Jeffrey's Instagram um for some daily dose of inspiring content and some um pretty kick-ass workouts.
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He puts a lot of content out there for free.
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Um, very generous.
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I know that those workouts got some of our mob through COVID.
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Um, in our community, the word mum is bum, and um it's a good way to get off the mums and um to get fit and healthy.
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But I guess in you know, in retrospect of today's conversation to really unpack the mindset, the the values, the why, the purpose.
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So do yourself a favour and head over to Jeff's page.
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Thank you so much for joining me today.
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It honestly fills me with an abundance of gratitude that you've taken time out of your busy lives to come along and listen and learn.
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Please fight and review this podcast or feel free to send me any feedback by visiting my website carolinecanel.com.au Yield spiritually until next time.