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Mm hmmmm. Are you sure.
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Well, nigga be waiting on you?
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Are y'all waiting on me? Possibly? Yeah, I guess. Welcome
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to this week's episode of Winding Audacity the Podcast. I'm
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your host brand's card, and I am joined by these niggas.
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I feel like, oh, okay, since y'all wait for me
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and ship, oh bitches, he wants he wants to be
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a sassy bitch.
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Okay, sassy bitch, that's cool you know about that is
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fine with me?
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Bitch period, Since y'all call the motherfucker sassy and ship,
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that's a fucking hate crime.
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That was a ghatto bitch that you just.
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What I do? Other fuck, it's a hate crime.
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Smack file with you is a damn hate crime.
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Who you see assault?
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Nick, nigga?
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You said that that means what you want to do
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to me showing up because I don't agree with you.
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It's just how we are. Just snag the ship.
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All fire, you see all fire, that's all right.
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See these motherfuckers ain't these motherfuckers ain't stopping me. They
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keep talking Ship.
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Your sassy bitch about how we talking.
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That's why your braids to be redombe bitch you're right,
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don't standing.
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You can't hurt my feelings. Bitch. I know I'm sitting
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over here looking.
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Like a nappy headed hope you sure it is?
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That's okay, your bitch. I was on vacation, bitch. Damn God,
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damn I have called for a while. Bitch, I'm going
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that's fine. Get the huffing make me sick? Oh rude, bitch.
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I love you too, I know it. Maybe I love you,
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bitch whatever, that's why your edges is afraid.
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Ain't nobody else?
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Oh you bitch?
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See I was about to be nice and play that
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bitch of compliment.
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See this?
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Should I be talking tapes of bitches? Should I be
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talking about? Did y'all know that Cova mixed Peter Chips?
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Yeah?
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I still have not made it to Cova. I'm gonna
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go where do you wanna go to? Co I'm gonna
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go to Cabo for maybe.
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Maybe next time we were call, I'll bring cop Before
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the team said the sense it to be my turn
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to get lunch for everybody.
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Lunch lunch. Okay, we like Lench, but no, they got
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in d C. They got a place that's I forgot
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what it's called. It it's called something jerk and that jerk. Okay,
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oh yeah, it's one my job. Then it's one. Yeah,
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it's one by my job in the location that will
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not be named, but it's one near my job. And
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they said it's like a Caribbean chipotle. Yeah, if we're
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talking about the same police. I said, what all right,
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I tried.
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She she looked skeptical. Ship. I give it a chance, Brandon,
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I say, I don't like it's a Mediterranean chipot last ship.
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I'll say that my kids all to day.
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Listen, they see they see this ship was like peace
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like like chicken, probably like some chicken.
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And some peas. And they're like, I don't like it.
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I like, at least try before you say you don't
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like it. You tried. I was like, listen, had.
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Peas and years I love I love it. It's not
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saying like a Popeye, but I haven't had like like
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my son's grandmother used to make peaces inside dish, but
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she would make them with like, uh, she makes scalloped
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potato and I missed some scaling. I'm basic.
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My mentor shed she hooked him up with the salt
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and pepper. But listen, mister, I told him, mister Aaron
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tries tried piece. This is the eighth time and tried piece.
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He still hates him.
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I like peas, but I put my just regular salt
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and pepper, and I would eat I can't. But now
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I don't put butter man. But I do love the
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playing salt pepper. But but I do. I buy a frozen
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peas in the bag from the store. The steam bags
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put that thing on. About six minutes. I will dumb
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that whole bag of peas into a bowl, eating salt,
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salt and pepper and eat them like that. I'm getting
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old because I'm starting to like more vegetables. I don't
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know what I seem.
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Like spargus before recently, and it actually wasn't half bad,
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but I'm not really. I wouldn't go somewhere in order.
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It was like mixed in with something.
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That I had.
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It makes good like roaster, like ross and bacon. Because
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that's how my my, my, my, my little sister. She
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she wrapped it in bacon.
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Yeah, more for you. Oh m m hm, any comments.
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Welcome to this week's episode. I think I said that already.
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I'm sorry, Like I said that already. My mind got
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a little distracted. Mm hmm mm hmm, girl, girl, Brandon
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will be talking about not that when you talk about
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that everything.
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Yeah.
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Lord, actually I had about a year.
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Sure about to do a little Disney sing along following the.
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Okay, okay, all right, you guys stop sexual assault on
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the microphones.
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Bro. They like it than complaining.
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Now.
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I forgot about to say.
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Thank you all for joining us this week. If you
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have any Hey, mama, Tabby, jump me up. That love
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your love, your little red wine blend.
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There's no thirteen point five alcohol.
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They still drinking Taba. The boys showing the sixty five
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bottles of Tabatha brown one. She is still drinking Tabatha Browns.
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I love her. It is very good, very good. That's
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my business. That's your business business. Oh gosh, So I
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love your season.
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And though I still haven't tried the sunshine season, and
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I don't think that's.
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Why I have the lemon garlic pepper wine. I used
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that on my vegetables. It's tasty.
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I need to find a season from a vegetables. You know,
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I have no salt, so yeah, I need so I'm
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back in the gym. You know I got You know,
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you get tired of looking at yourself, so you want
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to try something different. So I started back at the gym.
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I started getting mass in bed earlier and trying to
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get aiming for seven hours sleeping night because usually if
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I'll get about five and be up.
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Lane sending me damn Instagram videos two o'clock in the morning.
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But I noticed I was starting to have headaches, and
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I was like, not getting enough rest and probably not
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you drink drink a lot of water. Yeah, probably from
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not getting enough rest. So I noticed I was like, yeah,
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I need to get more sleep, and like I need
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to start going to be earlier, and started with like
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a workout regiment. So I'm back in the gym. I'm
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trying to early. I'm going to sleep early. Thing. It's hard.
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I can tell because I'll be scrolling on tick time.
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I'll be like, oh im a watch the last episode
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of this show. Okay, just a.
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Couple of days or nine o'clock. You know, I had
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to add to put aj down.
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You know, I'm I'm drowsy, like yeah, yeah.
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Y'all get them sleep when you fall asleep and no
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one realized you fell asleep and did you wake up?
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And'm like, when the fuck did I go to sleep.
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That happened to me the other day. I was I
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was watching TV and I was like, I'm not going
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to sleep. I'm playing there like this is good, this
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is no.
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I'm not I'm not like that. But I know in
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my case, which I started getting like getting worried about,
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was I would fall fall asleep. I guess it would
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be like a micro net. I would fall asleep and
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have like a really intense dream and then wake up.
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But I'd only be se for like twenty minutes. Yeah,
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And I was like, I don't think that's how like
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ram and like the sleep is supposed to work. So
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I know, you know how the bedroom set up right?
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So we got so so in front of the baby
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got aj friz and then I.
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Pulled so I pulled, I pulled kid a little.
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Chair from the from the front of the corner and
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I'm sitting there, I'm playing game.
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The next thing I do all the noise I came
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up like, yeah, at work one day that happened to me.
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It wasn't guess whatever, it was like, that's.
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What happened to me at work one day and you
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key off and I'm sitting at the day going computer.
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Yo, that should be crazy. I'm never I'm never that tired.
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Let me close this do and take me in that.
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You know, I'm never that tired. You know. You know
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I'm not a napper, which I probably probably would help
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me with my sleepers.
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He taken, wake up, gonna be eight THIRTYNNA be like right, Oh,
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I ain't clock out or nothing.
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I laid that at twelve thirty and I missed about
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six meetings, fourteen phone calls.
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I started taking naps during cold.
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I'm not a napper.
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When we started working from home during cold, I started
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taking naps. I'm like, all right, I'm gonna do you know,
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half my half my work before lunch break and twelve o'clock.
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And this is what you know. My desk is in
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my room. It was originally downstairs, but I moved it
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upstairs for the holidays to put my tree up, and
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I never moved it back down stairs. So I was like,
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all right, Sean, I started working from the bed. I
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had the little lat desk. Worst decision I ever made,
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because I'll be sitting there now next thing, you know,
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my head and went back on the head board and
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I'm like, oh lord. So I stopped working from the bed.
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So I was like, nope, get up, sit at your desk,
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work at your desk. I got to spin your damn
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chair around your bed right there. You get the bed,
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take a nap while she work like shine. And then
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they don't help that Chase as is laid in the
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bed stretched out like that, and I'm like, bitch, I'm working.
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You gonna work too. Fuck. So anyway, twelve o'clock, come
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lunch break. I lay my ass. Damn step my clock
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a right, get your ass up at one o'clock, get up,
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and that's what I would do. So then I was like, Seanna, no,
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you need to start working in your bed. Work because
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when you're working your bed, when you're so tempted to
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go back to the bed. So I brought myself a
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little rolling dusk from the tickety top. I ordered something
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from TikTok shop. Got a nice little rolling dust that
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it transfers into the stand up desk. You can raise it,
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yeah and stand up if you need to stretch and stuff.
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Your dead you're excited, not be damn.
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It was a reasoningly I took a pay for thirty
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or forty dollars for the dusk. But anyway, so I
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put that downstairs in the living room, so that makes
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me get my ass up and didn't do school work too.
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It helps with schoolwork as well, so they sit in
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my bed and do my school work too. So now
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I move my computer and everything down back downstairs. But
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I ain't want to keep moving that damn desk, So
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I bought this little rolling dusk and that helps I
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come sit down here on the couch. Cause at first
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I will come sit at table at the doe down
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and I'm like, I'm not comfortable here. So I'm like,
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if I get on the couch, I can at least
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be a little comfortable, kind of put my foot up
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and all that stuff like that. And now that's what
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I did. I work from downstairs and living. The thing
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that that helps and.
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The thing that fucked my sleep up, my sleep padd
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enough was when he when AJ came home from the
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then you like, yeah, I would go to work, but
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then it's like yo, but then it's like I'm at work,
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she home with him all day, and then when I
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come home, it's like, yo, I'm up, like you know,
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like I'm up, Like I'll be up all night with him, uh,
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up all night, and I probably won't go to sleep
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until like maybe three when because it's like I just
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wanted to be you know, I just want to make sure,
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Like I was up the like he started crying or whatever,
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I'm like, I'm uh, I'm helping, you know, like I
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like I'm changing him and feeding him and all that shit.
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But then it's like yo.
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But then once he started sleeping like a little longer,
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I was a you know, like now that we got
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a routine with him, like eight o'clock, will we'll we'll
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give my a bath. Then we'll give him like one
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bo like we'll give him like a five ounce bottle
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and then he'll then you know, we rub down with
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his little lab and the lotion. I spray the bed
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with melo, spread the bed with melowtony do his little
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We did.
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Because we did, it came into like a little sleep set.
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bath flotion bubble bad for lotion, and then then the spray.
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got like a little bit of camera mill in it.
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And that that also like sues him, like you know,
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he'll play he plays in the tub. Like now he
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it's like he acted soon as like soon as he
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even even if it's not water in the tub, he
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gets in there, he starts smiling and like bouncing like
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what are you what.
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Are you doing?
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Bathtime? Damn it question?
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No, no, no, I had to use the bathroom. Keeta
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was cooking. I took him in the bathroom with me,
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set him in the tub, and he just he just
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looking at me like.
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Because he thought it was bad time.
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him play. Yeah, we'll let
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in the tub. And and we used like the little
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lavender little lavender bodywalk baby body wash and he'll it
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just like it calm him down. So he kind of
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like on the routine, like you know, like he'll know
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like but he started tripping when he when he when
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he hit when he hear her do this and like,
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I know what y'all bitch is doing, like no, I'm not,
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I'm not. Then you're saying later, I'm not. Man hmmmm.
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up like.
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He'll wake up like four four in the morning, like
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four forty five, like like clockwork, and then I'm but
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I noticed that, I mean, I'm able to sleep a
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little longer. But then I'm glad that now he's like
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when he does wake up, it's closer to the time
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I got to get up, like I gotta get up
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from get up and get ready for work.
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But yeah, yeah, my.
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Like I tried, like I tried, like I tried that,
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you know, I tried to be like super Dad and
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ship when.
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He came home space miss on your pillow, no.
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Dude, when kid is pretty Yeah that ship, that ship
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knocked me the fuck out too.
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Because I got the candle and I'm like, who the
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fucking bit of the sleep candle? Ain't supposed to go
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to sleep with candles.
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Burning my thing? Like I can't do. I think. I
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took melatone for a little while, just to help me sleep,
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like every maybe like once a week or so, or
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once every couple weeks or so, for like three four months,
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and then I had like an actual nightmare that woke
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me up out my sleep. That's od, bitch, never again.
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And I'm I'm not a person who was like I
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rarely ever have nightmares, but that one night I took
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melatonin and got in the bed and went to sleep,
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and I was.
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Like I had some weird das.
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Yeah.
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Yeah, but I would say, like I say, try to
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take like I know you're not a napper, but it
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does help.
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I could I need I need to get more sleep.
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It does, I mean, but it does. It also has productivity.
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That's why I'm kind of like, I'm kind of like
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on the fence about them taking out nap time when the.
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Kids, when the kids go to when the kids go.
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To like elementary, you give them, you give them, you know,
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elementary school, you put them in charge of what they
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want to eat.
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So then you give them and you.
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Know you have that's when we have snacks and ship,
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like we got like the little butter like the little
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butter crunch.
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Cookies and ship.
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And then we now now you're getting them cookies, you
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give them, you're feeding them, and then you're giving them
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like like sugar and ship.
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So then you take them outside. But then it's like after.
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That they already drowsy, like they already drowsy from from recess.
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So it's like let them know, get them ah, you know,
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well at my school, we get them two hours, like
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they from one to three is off from one.
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To three is nap time.
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That's nice, yeah, but no, not when these little baskets
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don't go to sleep one Like, I'm like, yo, everybody's sleep,
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but you like, y'all, nap time is my planning time
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and my break from y'all. I don't take a break
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like like I worked. I worked ten hours straight, so
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it was like, but I'm off, I'm off like I'm
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off one day a week, so I only worked like
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technically yeah, so I'm like, y'all, naptime is my break.
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Excuse go to sleep and you know I can't, y'all.
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I'm like, but then it's like, yo, matter of fact,
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I don't even need you to go to sleep. You'll
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just sit down and be quiet. And it's like, no,
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like okay, I hate Like I was like, man, I
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missed when I was in when I was in pret
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K because they went to sleep, and I mean, order
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one little girl, she she like she was sitting. I
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mean she was sitting talk to me or like try
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to talk to me, and I'm like, I can't talk.
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I don't talk to people that's supposed to be sleep.
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She like, I'm gonna tell my mother, But.
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I started doing in addition to trying to get more sleep,
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I started instituting or not constituted, I'm not trying to
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say I started introducing, started doing meditation at night just
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to calm my brain down and try to just decompress.
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And I find it I'm going to sleep way faster
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than I was before because I do it when I'm
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put my lotion on and it got my blue lights
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on me and yet but but if you got YouTube
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on the TV, they have it. I don't need this
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blue light. I used Peloton on my phone. The phone
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is on the charger and then when it cuts off,
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I cut on my sleep low five no thirty minute time,
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I'll be in. Then you got you gotta improve your
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sleep high gene. Because I was following something like a
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doctor who I follow on on TikTok and he was
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talking about a study that potentially links lack of sleep
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with dementia as you get older, and I'm like, well, like,
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I need my mind to stay sharp. I'm not trying
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to take myself out early because I'm not getting enough sleep,
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or like to have strokes and heart attacks because your
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body isn't getting enough rest. So right now, thankfully, I'm
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not getting like two hours of sleep, and I'd average
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between five and six, but I'm pushing to get between
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seven or eight. And sometimes, like on weekends, I don't
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have to cut my lamal on. I don't if I
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wake up after six hours of sleep, okay, but I
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pushed for seven eight. I think one time I got
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like nine and a half hours. That's old, bitch. I
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must have been dead tied to sleep that yod damn.
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And I used to sleep like that, and I used
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to have to break the snowstorms too. Over time. I
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used to get slipped like that. I wake up like,
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what my damn your job.
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Doing snow time?
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Bro?
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The motherfuckers will come and pick your ass really thankfully.
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When I worked at the hospital, we didn't really have
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too too many snowstorms, but I remember there was one
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time when it started snowing and one of my coworkers
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dropped me off at home. I had to pay you,
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so I think I wasn't down to fucking run away
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for the bus and be strained on the bus buses
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weren't running. But what I also used to do, I
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used to I think the one time we did have
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a major snowstorm, I told him like, look, I'm stuck
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at home. I'm not coming in this weekend. So yo, son,
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I tried to. I never called out sick, never like
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you know, miswork, but I said, I'm in my house.
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It's a blizzard outside.
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I tried that ship when I was when I was
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doing valet down at the university. Wait, that's one. That's
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one on my packing straight right, Yeah, I was down there.
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My mind, I'll call I'll call my boss. My boss haid.
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He's like, Yo, it's just maybe I'm gonna come and
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get you. Like and because everybody else, like everybody else called,
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like because they said the buses wasn't running so they
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wasn't coming. Joel like he he came, like he picked
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me up minutes all. He was like, look, I got
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all wheel drive. We're gonna be there. And I mean
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and then you know, if we if needed be, they
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put us up in the hotel like they would put
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us up in the hotel on the front. But I mean,
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but you know me, like like I like to work.
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I was like, I'm in I'm in there. I was
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in there like Joe this something. And when I didn't
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have to park the carse like when you had to
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park the cause down on Lombard like we like we
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like we used like we usually do because most of
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the people they were coming.
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I did it for the cancelations.
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Because we were like right outside of like right outside
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of the on collegey department. So it's like for me,
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it's like my regular the regular people that I've seen.
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It's like, all right, I got you no words if
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you if you gonna make it out this motherfucker they
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get your chemo. I'm like, I'm i gotta do my
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you know, do my due diligence or you know, do
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like with God, you know, I gotta be all. I'm
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gonna be out here too, mm hmm. You're braving the storm,
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just you know, just get this. So I'm gonna, yeah,
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I'm gonna go pocket a little car. We're gonna I'm
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gonna pucket right there though, you know, I'm a little raggedy.
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Cars bitch hass car.
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One lady pulled up with with like a big ass
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trunk taking up like the side.
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I was like, you what happened? I was like, did
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you hear it this? She's like no, elk? Oh God,
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It's like, where's Elk? She's like Western Maryland. They got
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elk in western Maryland.
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No, not damn that, but you drove all the way
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down here where it sucked up that like that back that. Yeah,
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that ship was rough. I was like, damn.
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So yeah, if you haven't they do what you need
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to do to improve your sleep hygiene, you could, you know,
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try to start with a consistent routine for improving how
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much sleep you get. Try to sleep at the same
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time or wake up at the same time so your
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body can get used to that sort of rhythm. I'm
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getting I'm getting it.
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Yeah, you got to because you're talking like getting there,
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like waking up naturally at at the like at a
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certain time, like they woke up, woke up like seven thirties, like.
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I was ain't damn ain't da is no, no nothing.
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You got to because you don't. You don't want it
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to be a place or a thing where you know
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everything's all good and well now because we're young and
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we still fit and moving. But that ship. You won't
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take care of yourself. Now, that'll come back to bite
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your ass when you get older. Your house starts to
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decline in your fifties and sixties, or you get cognitive
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issues because you're not taking care of yourself. So yeah,
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that's that scared me hearing about that study or that
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potential link between lack of sleep and dementia. I said,
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oh no, we're gonna figure this out. You're gonna figure
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this out. So all right, well, before we get into
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our quan name topic, did you know that random? Totally random,
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it's totally unrelateable we were just talking about. But the
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close at the end of the harbor, that's the Yeah,
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they closed it. So there are only two owners left
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in the whole state of Maryland. Right, So it's only
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two us left in the whole state of Maryland. There's
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one in Elk City, and then there's one in Oakland.
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Out in Oakland, Maryland, which is like western Maryland, you're Cumberland.
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There are some it's some in Jersey, there's a couple,
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it's some in New York, some in Pennsylvania, and a
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few in Virginia. So mm, yeah, they closing it all the.
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Somebody give me the recipe for damn sup.
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I'm pretty sure you can find a dupe for that on.
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I'm looking up. That's tasty.
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Who can check you booth?
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Watch this first before you keep talking. Just y'all can't
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see it. But yeah, and oh, oh my.
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Sir, if I reflect my legs like that, I probably
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have a husband by now. Oh yeah, So we is
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going to go ahead and just started out with fuckery
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because that's what I sometimes. I'm throw you sometimes, I said,
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And we going to six Brown Chicks, which is Brandon's
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favorite thread. Shoutout to six Brown Chicks for keeping us
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dressed in fuckery because yeah, okay, come on with the
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ship which I came home from my second job and
514
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my unemployed living boyfriend and his fifteen year old son
515
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had a talk with me. They told me I needed
516
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to find a better job so that we can live
517
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in a better neighborhood. My boyfriend, I feel like you're
518
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working all the time, but it don't add money to
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our situation. Me, you could work too, my boy work
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for what? You worked two jobs and don't earn enough
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for us to live. Instead of two jobs, find one
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better paying job.
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Pause.
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This is how people end up on episodes of Snapped
525
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and Fad.
526
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A minute, bitch.
527
00:27:14.079 --> 00:27:17.640
What the dating pool is trash? The job market is trash.
528
00:27:17.759 --> 00:27:20.279
I love this man. I'm a proud Christian woman, and
529
00:27:20.319 --> 00:27:22.720
I don't want to evict this man and his just
530
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in time for winter. But something has got to give.
531
00:27:25.839 -->
00:27:26.400
What to do?
532
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Put that nigga and his raggedy as set out. You're
533
00:27:28.920 --> 00:27:32.839
a dumb ass halke fuck up. See you let this
534
00:27:32.920 --> 00:27:35.119
bum ass nigga talk to you crazy in the house
535
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that you're paying all the fucking bills in.
536
00:27:37.079 --> 00:27:37.759
That's what she's saying.
537
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What the fuck is your problem? You working multiple jobs
538
00:27:42.160 --> 00:27:43.880
and you didn't learn nothing from the bit Ship we
539
00:27:43.920 --> 00:27:47.519
talked about last week. Nope, from from from another man's trash, treasure,
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one man's trash, whatever the fu Tuoby movie's name was
541
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vibbing direct for Tuby Studios, One Woman's Yeah at the
542
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court of fucking Lilanois and fankel In on the West
543
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side of Detroit. You ain't learned nothing from that. You
544
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ain't learned nothing.
545
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Nope, Yo, you.
546
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A motherfucker could tell me, Ship in the house, I
547
00:28:08.079 --> 00:28:12.079
paid for laying here scratching your nuts, and I'm working
548
00:28:12.079 --> 00:28:15.640
two jobs to support all three of us. It ain't mine,
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00:28:16.400 --> 00:28:20.319
nigga pounds saying pound the pavement. Take little Tyron back
550
00:28:20.359 --> 00:28:23.119
to his mother and follow behind his ass because my
551
00:28:23.119 --> 00:28:24.839
house is getting locked when I leave, because.
552
00:28:24.640 --> 00:28:26.240
They probably at your house because she probably put that
553
00:28:26.599 --> 00:28:31.119
ass was sicking him in his goddamn son, this.
554
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Hot You ain't got no act, right, bitch. You ain't
555
00:28:34.160 --> 00:28:39.880
stand up, stand up, Ship, not fucking dumb.
556
00:28:41.519 --> 00:28:44.759
You have lost your rabit as mind blooded speak clear
557
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the way I will put avery and that nigga food?
558
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Are you crazy?
559
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You stupid?
560
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You have lost your man. You're a proud question woman,
561
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but you're shaking.
562
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Girl right pre married at that girl. You love that man,
563
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but you're letting the man take advantage of you. O cool.
564
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They probably come home and cook and clean and every
565
00:29:02.240 --> 00:29:04.519
damn thing was and they sit on the damn fucking
566
00:29:05.440 --> 00:29:07.119
couch playing two K not just.
567
00:29:07.000 --> 00:29:09.519
For your man, but for his teenage son as well.
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Girl.
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If you don't tell that motherfucker to go pound.
570
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Sign, he mad at him. I made at your stupid days, right,
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you lost your fucking mind.
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I wish the funk I was.
573
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I got a seventeen year old.
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Hmmm, I'm good.
575
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Mm hmm.
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You ain't got an answer to this in your fucking body.
577
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Not a pinch you can go bye?
578
00:29:32.759 --> 00:29:36.000
Oh simple hum? Just oh my god, that made me mad.
579
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I'm stupid, but just stupid. I'm sorry, Aaron. What was
580
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you gonna say?
581
00:29:43.960 --> 00:29:46.400
No, it's I think I think what question? I think
582
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one question is just like why?
583
00:29:49.480 --> 00:29:51.279
Why? Yeah?
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Like why like like what's the what's the problem? I
585
00:29:54.759 --> 00:29:58.079
mean what's the what's the issue here? Like like you
586
00:29:58.200 --> 00:30:00.079
saying that you need help, he's not trying to I
587
00:30:00.359 --> 00:30:02.400
said help because he's gonna ask you. He's gonna say
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that you know you can, you can get a better
589
00:30:04.839 --> 00:30:05.359
paying job.
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And it's like, bitch, the only people that can live
591
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for free is people that aren't old enough to work.
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You don't work, you don't eat, true ship, or you're
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a dumb ass to let God dumb bitch is taking
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care of you.
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That's what. Don't work. It don't eat.
596
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That ship made my blood hot. You being a dumb ass.
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It's in my house, nigga. The mission is they can take.
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Him a dollar and get his own goddamndles to ship, better,
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payhand better, go to a shelter funk out there. That
600
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made me, man, go stay with your mama. Mm hmmm.
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I oh, I mean that's made.
602
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Mm hmmm. It grinded your gears, did it?
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Simple bitch and take them? I mean, but and then
604
00:31:03.480 --> 00:31:04.720
on top like, ain't that much?
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00:31:05.839 --> 00:31:08.680
I mean as a man, that's like, why would you like,
606
00:31:08.680 --> 00:31:11.119
why would you want to be taken care of that way?
607
00:31:11.400 --> 00:31:14.039
Some niggas don't kids. They want they want they want ease.
608
00:31:14.400 --> 00:31:16.039
They want to easy life. They want to be a
609
00:31:16.119 --> 00:31:18.160
kept bitch, a bad bitch.
610
00:31:19.960 --> 00:31:22.559
But washing the dishes and cleaning bitch.
611
00:31:22.440 --> 00:31:26.160
That's all right. That's that's another thing. If you're in
612
00:31:26.240 --> 00:31:28.559
the house, like you're in the house, show you you
613
00:31:28.599 --> 00:31:31.039
should at least be able to I mean you should
614
00:31:31.039 --> 00:31:34.400
be like common courtesy, bro. If she's doing all the
615
00:31:34.440 --> 00:31:37.440
heavy lifting, at least you can do and sweep the floor,
616
00:31:37.559 --> 00:31:38.640
wash on washing dishes.
617
00:31:38.720 --> 00:31:42.160
Now you know that's too much like right? Do you
618
00:31:42.279 --> 00:31:48.640
know that you know that nigga ain't doing this ship man? Yeah? No, yeah, bitch, yeah,
619
00:31:48.839 --> 00:31:49.400
put them out.
620
00:31:50.599 --> 00:31:53.920
Stop thinking about but stop and stop thinking about your like,
621
00:31:53.960 --> 00:31:55.039
stop thinking about the kid.
622
00:31:55.160 --> 00:31:58.079
This ain't got nothing, especially when the kid ain't sucking yours. Yeah,
623
00:31:58.160 --> 00:31:59.559
this ship ain't got nothing to do with the kid,
624
00:32:00.079 --> 00:32:02.160
won't you a bitch? He can go with his mother, right,
625
00:32:02.960 --> 00:32:05.839
he got a grandmother or auntie, He got somebody that
626
00:32:05.920 --> 00:32:09.559
don't something involved him staying his raggedy, funky, dirty ass
627
00:32:09.559 --> 00:32:10.119
in your house.
628
00:32:10.400 --> 00:32:10.759
Agreed?
629
00:32:11.279 --> 00:32:15.319
Stand up? Oh oh you stupid?
630
00:32:15.480 --> 00:32:18.519
Just simple, just simple mind.
631
00:32:18.839 --> 00:32:21.599
I'm sorry, y'all ain't got the good the good sense
632
00:32:21.640 --> 00:32:24.759
God gave a billy name Lick of it ain't got
633
00:32:24.759 --> 00:32:26.759
the good sense God gave a bully go.
634
00:32:28.000 --> 00:32:28.559
Not nampy.
635
00:32:28.720 --> 00:32:32.640
I mean they are pretty stupid, but still mm hmmm,
636
00:32:33.400 --> 00:32:36.440
just stupid. Just oh my god, I'm sorry. I'm sorry.
637
00:32:36.559 --> 00:32:42.279
I feel it's just not worth it. Ain't like it's
638
00:32:42.319 --> 00:32:42.880
not worth it.
639
00:32:42.880 --> 00:32:44.559
It's not worth the streuss that you're going, that you
640
00:32:44.640 --> 00:32:45.839
already that you're giving yourself.
641
00:32:45.880 --> 00:32:49.599
Fucking that ship. Let it go, Let him go. If
642
00:32:49.680 --> 00:32:54.599
somebody isn't added anything to your life, why are they ain't?
643
00:32:54.680 --> 00:32:57.160
Why are m h mm.
644
00:32:57.000 --> 00:32:59.599
Hmmm about his businesses? Bye?
645
00:33:00.000 --> 00:33:02.440
Person is not adding anything to you in your life?
646
00:33:02.480 --> 00:33:05.319
Why do they have taken you? All they doing? They coming,
647
00:33:05.319 --> 00:33:07.799
They're coming at you with their hand out. What are
648
00:33:08.000 --> 00:33:09.920
what benefit
is this person adding to your life?
649
00:33:09.960 --> 00:33:11.160
And when they come over with the hand do you
650
00:33:11.200 --> 00:33:12.160
suppose to your finger up?
651
00:33:12.240 --> 00:33:14.680
I know having low self esteem is a thing, but
652
00:33:14.759 --> 00:33:17.160
you can't love somebody else that they expense it your
653
00:33:17.160 --> 00:33:18.119
own goddamn self.
654
00:33:18.720 --> 00:33:21.160
I'll give you Missus Howard because you need somebody to
655
00:33:21.200 --> 00:33:21.720
talk to you.
656
00:33:21.799 --> 00:33:23.440
I wouldn't want to send Missus Howard up or some
657
00:33:23.440 --> 00:33:24.000
ship like this.
658
00:33:26.880 --> 00:33:28.599
Shout out to missus girl.
659
00:33:28.680 --> 00:33:32.319
No, no, she don't. She taking the extensive break us.
660
00:33:32.599 --> 00:33:37.799
Girl, I need you going through some ship. Well, all right,
661
00:33:37.920 --> 00:33:39.920
moving on, we're going to rudd it to the m
662
00:33:39.920 --> 00:33:42.519
out of asshole thread that when it's a little lengthing.
663
00:33:42.640 --> 00:33:45.799
But uh am I then asshole for asking my wife's
664
00:33:45.839 --> 00:33:48.039
best friend to stop leaning on my wife after her
665
00:33:48.119 --> 00:33:52.119
dad died. Oh that's how just gonna get a little
666
00:33:52.160 --> 00:33:53.559
lovely little heavy guys.
667
00:33:53.720 --> 00:33:55.960
Okay, it's been a little heavy lately.
668
00:33:56.559 --> 00:33:57.839
Heavy heavy.
669
00:33:58.880 --> 00:34:01.319
You got so heavy on I gotta.
670
00:34:01.160 --> 00:34:07.599
Spend a little heavy. I'm oh finishing sugars that would
671
00:34:07.599 --> 00:34:11.440
be good, yes, or maybe on top of some coffee
672
00:34:11.559 --> 00:34:12.239
like hot chocolate.
673
00:34:12.519 --> 00:34:17.199
Oh fantastic, yes, okay, sorry me. Thirty two male and
674
00:34:17.239 --> 00:34:20.280
my wife thirty one female, were having a baby. My
675
00:34:20.320 --> 00:34:23.280
wife was around seven months pregnant. My wife's best friend,
676
00:34:25.159 --> 00:34:29.280
thirty female, father passed away unexpectedly and quite young. There
677
00:34:29.280 --> 00:34:31.480
were no warning signs. He seemed in perfect health for
678
00:34:31.519 --> 00:34:35.320
his age. Wife did not have an easy pregnancy and
679
00:34:35.360 --> 00:34:37.360
the third time mess that we were going for daily
680
00:34:37.400 --> 00:34:40.000
scams due to the baby not gaining weight and reduced movement.
681
00:34:40.800 --> 00:34:43.639
Wife was working with children and the kid. I'm sorry.
682
00:34:43.800 --> 00:34:47.440
Wife was advised to reduce stress. She is a social
683
00:34:47.480 --> 00:34:50.440
worker working with children in the care system, which is
684
00:34:50.480 --> 00:34:54.559
a very stressful and emotionally drained job. For her work
685
00:34:54.920 --> 00:34:57.440
put her on a lighter case load and gave her
686
00:34:57.480 --> 00:35:01.000
flexible hours.
This is also a the time that wife's
687
00:35:01.079 --> 00:35:04.599
best friend's dad died FYI. Wife and best friends had
688
00:35:04.599 --> 00:35:07.800
been best friends for about fifteen years. She was the
689
00:35:07.800 --> 00:35:09.719
maid up honor at our wedding and was a close
690
00:35:09.719 --> 00:35:14.320
friend of mine too. Best friend that died it was
691
00:35:14.320 --> 00:35:16.639
a shock to us all. We went round to her
692
00:35:16.679 --> 00:35:19.280
house the day after to comfort her as much as
693
00:35:19.280 --> 00:35:24.400
we could. At this point, everything seemed at sorry, y'all.
694
00:35:24.920 --> 00:35:27.840
At this point, everything seemed as you would expect. We
695
00:35:27.880 --> 00:35:30.280
took some snack foods around, We spent the little time
696
00:35:30.440 --> 00:35:33.199
a long time talking. There were tears all around in
697
00:35:33.239 --> 00:35:36.280
a lot of cuddles. After a few days of this,
698
00:35:36.519 --> 00:35:39.800
thanks to Katurn. While talking about the father's funeral, Wife
699
00:35:39.880 --> 00:35:43.239
asked best friend if she knew anything about how she
700
00:35:43.280 --> 00:35:46.159
wanted his funeral. The friend did not like this question
701
00:35:46.360 --> 00:35:49.239
at all and was immediately angry, saying why would I
702
00:35:49.320 --> 00:35:53.000
know that. From this point on, best friend was increasingly
703
00:35:53.079 --> 00:35:57.480
negative towards my wife. Wife felt helpless. She could barely sleep.
704
00:35:57.679 --> 00:35:59.920
I was coming to home, coming home to her crying,
705
00:36:00.159 --> 00:36:02.519
just looking at her phone because if the messages that
706
00:36:02.599 --> 00:36:06.440
they exchange, this is where I fucked up. I message
707
00:36:06.480 --> 00:36:10.280
best friend, this is the message. Hi, best friend. I'm
708
00:36:10.280 --> 00:36:12.239
not going to pretend to know anything about what you're
709
00:36:12.280 --> 00:36:14.039
going through, and I truly wish that I could help
710
00:36:14.039 --> 00:36:17.280
in any way. I am genuinely concerned about wife and
711
00:36:17.679 --> 00:36:20.519
bump on top of that, I'm not going to layer
712
00:36:21.280 --> 00:36:24.280
on all the things that she is struggling with right now.
713
00:36:24.559 --> 00:36:26.440
I just want to ask you to try to lean
714
00:36:26.480 --> 00:36:29.079
on her a little less. She wants what is best
715
00:36:29.079 --> 00:36:30.920
for you and wants to help. But the last day
716
00:36:31.000 --> 00:36:34.760
or two she hasn't eaten, and she's been pretty She's
717
00:36:34.800 --> 00:36:37.039
pretty much cried herself to sleep, and even there not
718
00:36:37.119 --> 00:36:39.880
sleeping well at all. Me and wife both love you
719
00:36:39.920 --> 00:36:41.480
and what to support you in any way we can.
720
00:36:41.639 --> 00:36:43.679
I'm just worried it might be a bit too much
721
00:36:43.800 --> 00:36:47.079
for a wife right now. Best friend said she was
722
00:36:47.159 --> 00:36:49.719
sorry that her dad dying was an inconvenience to us,
723
00:36:49.760 --> 00:36:52.280
and that she wouldn't burden us with her problem anymore.
724
00:36:53.039 --> 00:36:55.159
I spent the next few days trying to apologize and
725
00:36:55.159 --> 00:36:58.280
explain about the pregnancy, but to no avail. Best friend
726
00:36:58.320 --> 00:37:00.960
continue to be angry at me and wife. This point onward,
727
00:37:01.440 --> 00:37:03.679
I was asked not to attend the funeral, but wife
728
00:37:03.760 --> 00:37:06.599
did attend. Best friend was close to her for the
729
00:37:06.800 --> 00:37:12.079
entire funeral, barely said a word to her. Wife and
730
00:37:12.119 --> 00:37:14.760
best friend argued a few times after this, partially about
731
00:37:14.800 --> 00:37:17.079
what I had said, but other things I'm not certain of.
732
00:37:17.800 --> 00:37:20.639
Best friend has now stopped all communication with us. Our
733
00:37:20.679 --> 00:37:23.039
son has been born. Wife had an emergency c section
734
00:37:23.079 --> 00:37:27.400
because his heart rate was dropping. He is happy and healthy. Question,
735
00:37:27.760 --> 00:37:28.880
Am I the asshole?
736
00:37:29.280 --> 00:37:33.280
No? You are not to askhole at all. Now. Had
737
00:37:33.320 --> 00:37:37.199
you come at the best friend a bit greasy? Yes,
738
00:37:37.400 --> 00:37:39.199
but in this instance, based off of what you wrote,
739
00:37:39.239 --> 00:37:41.119
unless you wrote some shit and you're trying to chance
740
00:37:41.159 --> 00:37:43.639
switch it up based off of what you told us
741
00:37:43.639 --> 00:37:45.800
you wrote. No, you're not to askhole because your priority
742
00:37:45.880 --> 00:37:50.000
is your partner and your child while losing a parent
743
00:37:50.079 --> 00:37:53.960
is stressed, and I appreciate the fact that you led
744
00:37:54.039 --> 00:37:57.239
with sympathy first off and said, hey, sorry, you're going
745
00:37:57.280 --> 00:37:59.239
through this. If I could be there for you, you know
746
00:37:59.320 --> 00:38:02.400
in a different way, I definitely would be. But your
747
00:38:02.440 --> 00:38:06.800
priority is your family. And if your partner is losing sleep,
748
00:38:06.840 --> 00:38:09.280
she crying herself to sleep, she's not sleeping, well, she's pregnant.
749
00:38:09.719 --> 00:38:13.480
Your priority is your baby, and you need to try
750
00:38:13.480 --> 00:38:15.840
to fix the problem where you can. And if that
751
00:38:15.920 --> 00:38:18.599
means saying, hey, I know you're going through it right now,
752
00:38:18.639 --> 00:38:20.239
can you try to maybe lean on a little bit less?
753
00:38:20.280 --> 00:38:22.079
Like she's going through a rough time and her pregnancy
754
00:38:22.320 --> 00:38:24.840
and she's not gonna pull herself away because she cares,
755
00:38:25.119 --> 00:38:26.559
but can you maybe try to lean on her a
756
00:38:26.599 -->
00:38:28.280
little bit less. I feel like that was the right
757
00:38:28.320 --> 00:38:32.280
thing to do personally now in grief. It may not
758
00:38:32.360 --> 00:38:35.639
be received wrong, but it correct me if I am wrong.
759
00:38:35.960 --> 00:38:38.280
The best friend was being an asshole to her pregnant
760
00:38:38.280 --> 00:38:41.199
best friend and her boyfriend just off of her simply
761
00:38:41.239 --> 00:38:44.519
asking Hey, what do you want or foresee like for
762
00:38:44.559 --> 00:38:46.280
your father's funeral? I feel like it's a work our
763
00:38:46.360 --> 00:38:46.760
question to ask.
764
00:38:46.880 --> 00:38:48.559
It is because I probably could have helped you with
765
00:38:48.679 --> 00:38:49.760
something I'm asking you for.
766
00:38:50.119 --> 00:38:51.639
You panted you in the right direction to say, hey,
767
00:38:51.679 --> 00:38:53.119
I know somebody who does it, who will give you
768
00:38:53.199 --> 00:38:56.320
a discount. Funerals are expensive, and we all a lot
769
00:38:56.360 --> 00:38:58.880
of people unfortunately who people who don't you know, pre
770
00:38:59.039 --> 00:39:01.440
plan for their own shit, you planning all this stuff
771
00:39:01.440 --> 00:39:04.920
in the midst of dealing with grief, right, Like, yeah,
772
00:39:04.960 --> 00:39:08.159
I watched I watched I watched The Leader.
773
00:39:08.480 --> 00:39:10.599
I mean I watched kid, you know Kay the best
774
00:39:10.639 --> 00:39:15.679
friend door with her, we couldn't lean like she I mean, yeah,
775
00:39:15.760 --> 00:39:17.559
she could talk, like she came to talk to us.
776
00:39:17.599 --> 00:39:19.039
But at the same time, it was like it wasn't
777
00:39:19.079 --> 00:39:23.920
really much, you know, because Katy was Katy was. Katy
778
00:39:24.079 --> 00:39:26.199
was also you know, going through her own stuff, and
779
00:39:26.440 --> 00:39:28.119
it's like, yo, we you know what I mean, we
780
00:39:28.280 --> 00:39:31.119
get it, but we also, you know, we're also dealing
781
00:39:31.159 --> 00:39:34.119
with like dealing with life over here. So you know,
782
00:39:34.280 --> 00:39:36.679
she kind of she helped with she could, And I
783
00:39:36.800 --> 00:39:40.159
think I just think that it is a little selfish, Like, yo,
784
00:39:40.679 --> 00:39:44.119
you're being you're being selfish because because you're not worried
785
00:39:44.119 --> 00:39:48.599
about you're not concerned about my my lady and you
786
00:39:48.719 --> 00:39:51.480
know her being pregnant and you know, distress that you
787
00:39:51.679 --> 00:39:54.760
are that you excuse me that you were putting on
788
00:39:54.960 --> 00:39:58.840
like you're putting on her like it's stressful trying to
789
00:39:58.920 --> 00:40:01.920
be your best friend and and and then also be
790
00:40:02.079 --> 00:40:05.639
pregnant like you Streuss was trying to be a best
791
00:40:05.679 --> 00:40:07.960
friend to be pregnant. I mean, I ain't never been pregnant,
792
00:40:08.000 --> 00:40:10.719
so you know, I can only imagine, you know, the
793
00:40:10.760 --> 00:40:13.079
hormonal ship y'all be going you know y'all be going through.
794
00:40:13.599 --> 00:40:16.400
I said in the previous episode, the little mistakes to
795
00:40:16.440 --> 00:40:21.079
make you cry, can make you upset anything. Your hormones
796
00:40:21.119 --> 00:40:23.880
are sky freaking hot. We just watching it. We was
797
00:40:23.920 --> 00:40:26.679
watching the earlier. But my mama one day, yeah, we
798
00:40:26.800 --> 00:40:29.239
was watching the earlier about to bite me in my
799
00:40:29.320 --> 00:40:32.360
throat in the middle walmart. But I did. I was irritated,
800
00:40:32.480 --> 00:40:35.079
I was hot, I was hungry, and she asked me
801
00:40:35.159 --> 00:40:36.159
one question to you, damnity.
802
00:40:36.199 --> 00:40:36.599
I was like what.
803
00:40:38.199 --> 00:40:40.360
My mother stopped and pols and looked at me and said, oh.
804
00:40:40.320 --> 00:40:45.079
Ships that. Look, I know you're pressing. Let that.
805
00:40:45.639 --> 00:40:47.280
I know you're pregnant. So I let that slide. But
806
00:40:47.320 --> 00:40:51.840
don't you do it again. But yeah, you know, you're
807
00:40:51.880 --> 00:40:53.480
not the like, you're not the ass whole. You're just
808
00:40:53.519 --> 00:40:56.199
being concerned. You're concerned about your concerned about your wife.
809
00:40:56.880 --> 00:40:59.119
Like you're concerned, you're more so concerned about your wife
810
00:40:59.119 --> 00:41:02.119
and her mental and her mental health. And and because
811
00:41:02.159 --> 00:41:04.440
you know, she stressed out actually can't affect the baby
812
00:41:04.920 --> 00:41:09.000
like dramatically affect the baby. So it's like, yo, so
813
00:41:09.280 --> 00:41:11.360
she feels some kind of way fuck that. If she
814
00:41:11.400 --> 00:41:12.639
don't like, if she don't like, you had to this
815
00:41:12.760 --> 00:41:13.119
fuck her.
816
00:41:13.920 --> 00:41:14.559
You know what I'm saying?
817
00:41:15.079 --> 00:41:17.199
Like you did what you You did what you did,
818
00:41:17.320 --> 00:41:20.679
Like like Brandon said, you led with you led with sympathy. First,
819
00:41:21.400 --> 00:41:24.559
you live with sympathy. So your intentions, your intentions wasn't
820
00:41:24.599 --> 00:41:26.440
to be malicious.
821
00:41:26.159 --> 00:41:29.519
Or and you know, or hurt her. But again, as
822
00:41:29.599 --> 00:41:32.760
your as the husband, uh fellow from the one of
823
00:41:32.800 --> 00:41:35.320
the other questions from the past episode taking notes, as
824
00:41:35.360 --> 00:41:39.880
a husband, your job is to protect your family and
825
00:41:41.039 --> 00:41:44.480
that means protecting them from any and everybody. It does
826
00:41:44.559 --> 00:41:47.440
not matter who the fuck it is. Your wife's pregnancy
827
00:41:47.599 --> 00:41:50.519
was already high risk, she could have lost your
baby.
828
00:41:50.639 --> 00:41:52.639
Then what if she would have lost your baby from
829
00:41:52.639 --> 00:41:55.360
the stress? Then with with with with the best friend
830
00:41:55.440 --> 00:42:02.440
have said, then I'm sorry, I'm stressed. Who has lost
831
00:42:02.519 --> 00:42:07.000
a parent? Brandon has lost both parents. We know what
832
00:42:07.159 --> 00:42:09.840
that grief can be. Like, grief does make you do
833
00:42:09.920 --> 00:42:12.480
strange things. Brief grief you you go one minute, you're
834
00:42:13.079 --> 00:42:15.559
you're sad, then you're angry, then you're happy, then you
835
00:42:15.639 --> 00:42:17.840
remember in good times and you're angry again. I went
836
00:42:17.920 --> 00:42:19.760
through that. That's a big part of me going to
837
00:42:19.840 --> 00:42:22.239
therapy because I didn't know how to deal with my
838
00:42:22.320 --> 00:42:23.519
grief when my father died.
839
00:42:23.599 --> 00:42:27.320
Okay, so I thank you for turning into a hope.
840
00:42:28.159 --> 00:42:34.000
Yeah, nah, No, I should have. I would have been
841
00:42:34.039 --> 00:42:47.400
honoring my father anyway. It's just chokes people. But yeah,
842
00:42:47.559 --> 00:42:49.239
like I didn't know how to handle my grief, which
843
00:42:49.360 --> 00:42:51.800
and I I almost I messed up a few of
844
00:42:51.880 --> 00:42:54.880
my relationships snapping on people and mad at people and
845
00:42:54.960 --> 00:42:56.800
what was me? And what about me? And I understand
846
00:42:56.800 --> 00:42:58.440
you got this going on, but what about me? And
847
00:42:58.800 --> 00:43:01.679
I've been there. So while I understand where the best
848
00:43:01.719 --> 00:43:03.760
friend is coming from, I also understand with you as
849
00:43:03.800 --> 00:43:06.159
a husband, to protect her a leader is coming.
850
00:43:06.000 --> 00:43:08.679
From project your family. That's your priority.
851
00:43:09.320 --> 00:43:09.480
Now.
852
00:43:10.480 --> 00:43:12.079
Reading some of the comments on the story, I saw
853
00:43:12.119 --> 00:43:14.079
some people say that as the wife, they probably would
854
00:43:14.079 --> 00:43:16.119
have been a little upset because it wasn't really the
855
00:43:16.239 --> 00:43:19.360
husband's place. I disagree. I disagree. He was not nasty,
856
00:43:19.440 --> 00:43:21.719
he was not mean, he wasn't rude to her. He
857
00:43:22.440 --> 00:43:24.360
talked to her with love because as he said. She
858
00:43:24.440 --> 00:43:26.000
became a good friend of his too, so he had
859
00:43:26.039 --> 00:43:27.559
love for her too. He felt the loss that she
860
00:43:27.719 --> 00:43:30.280
lost too, But again, his priority at that time was
861
00:43:30.320 --> 00:43:32.119
making sure that his wife and his child was okay.
862
00:43:32.159 --> 00:43:34.679
Because being stressed out, his wife could have ended up.
863
00:43:34.719 --> 00:43:36.679
She could have had pre acclaimed to you, She could
864
00:43:36.719 --> 00:43:38.920
have miscarried. She could have lost her life by giving
865
00:43:38.960 --> 00:43:40.320
birth to the child. He could have lost his wife
866
00:43:40.360 --> 00:43:45.800
and his child. Things happened with understand how stressful pregnancy
867
00:43:46.159 --> 00:43:47.519
can be on your body.
868
00:43:47.599 --> 00:43:51.360
Ye let me anything happened. As a husband, it is
869
00:43:51.639 --> 00:43:52.320
it is our.
870
00:43:52.320 --> 00:43:54.639
Job to say the ship that y'all can't that y'all
871
00:43:54.760 --> 00:43:57.400
that y'all can't say, or you feel like you can't say.
872
00:43:57.679 --> 00:43:59.719
Like whenever, and there's a way to say it. You
873
00:43:59.800 --> 00:44:02.039
were a kid like whenever.
874
00:44:01.840 --> 00:44:03.960
Kidter don't want doing anything, or I mean, she doesn't
875
00:44:04.000 --> 00:44:06.320
necessarily want to know how to say anything. Like my
876
00:44:06.360 --> 00:44:08.760
first thing is, you'll blame me. I don't care, like
877
00:44:08.800 --> 00:44:11.159
you know what I'm saying. You can, Yeah, you can
878
00:44:11.199 --> 00:44:15.280
blame it like if if it's if it's real, like
879
00:44:15.360 --> 00:44:17.440
you know, if it's really like if it's really that serious,
880
00:44:17.480 --> 00:44:19.239
So you can blame it on me. I'll tell like, listen,
881
00:44:19.280 --> 00:44:22.639
I'll take the blame. I gotta take the because you know,
882
00:44:22.880 --> 00:44:26.239
as as everybody say and my mother will say, Aaron, don't.
883
00:44:26.039 --> 00:44:28.360
Give a fuck at all. So you know, if you
884
00:44:28.719 --> 00:44:31.400
like you're gonna be mad at me, I'm cool with that.
885
00:44:31.559 --> 00:44:32.440
Like you can be mad at me.
886
00:44:32.760 --> 00:44:35.320
I be the villain. I'm cool with that, you know
887
00:44:35.360 --> 00:44:37.039
what I'm saying, As long as she I know the truth,
888
00:44:37.320 --> 00:44:38.800
So I'll be the villain in your story.
889
00:44:39.000 --> 00:44:40.639
At the end of the day. My priority is that
890
00:44:40.719 --> 00:44:41.360
one right there and.
891
00:44:41.800 --> 00:44:44.320
When I took you know, the one you stood next
892
00:44:44.360 --> 00:44:46.400
to you, when I took a bow to her. Bitch, Yeah.
893
00:44:48.159 --> 00:44:48.519
My face.
894
00:44:49.920 --> 00:44:54.639
It's more than me personally. I feel like it may
895
00:44:54.679 --> 00:44:56.719
be more than the grief for her to still be
896
00:44:56.800 --> 00:45:00.400
angry and upset and you know after the funeral, or
897
00:45:00.599 --> 00:45:02.559
she could very well still be dealing with the grief
898
00:45:02.679 --> 00:45:05.239
because she has not gotten any help with it.
899
00:45:05.599 --> 00:45:08.559
Yeah, that's that's the that's the thing. It's the fact
900
00:45:08.559 --> 00:45:11.599
that she I'm believed, like I believe. It's the fact
901
00:45:11.639 --> 00:45:14.920
that she was looking for help
and and then here
902
00:45:15.119 --> 00:45:17.639
like here they come like we're not doing this. You
903
00:45:17.679 --> 00:45:20.039
know what I'm saying, Like we're not like I need
904
00:45:20.199 --> 00:45:22.679
you to not like understand where you're coming from and
905
00:45:22.840 --> 00:45:24.239
understand that you're upset, but don't.
906
00:45:25.159 --> 00:45:27.920
I would have said, you don't call me, you know,
907
00:45:31.119 --> 00:45:33.840
let me call me, let me know. I'll be your shoulder.
908
00:45:33.920 --> 00:45:36.039
Why my wife is going through you know you like
909
00:45:36.119 --> 00:45:38.360
you family to me too, Call me and I'll help you.
910
00:45:38.400 --> 00:45:41.440
I'll help you plan, I'll help you, you know, uh,
911
00:45:41.960 --> 00:45:45.119
get through this or something like that. I can put
912
00:45:45.159 --> 00:45:49.239
you in touch with somebody better help or something like that.
913
00:45:49.360 --> 00:45:51.519
That's what I feel like he should have should have said.
914
00:45:51.559 --> 00:45:54.599
But being an asshole, No, I don't think your adshold Sorry,
915
00:45:54.840 --> 00:45:55.840
I don't think you're the asshole.
916
00:45:57.119 --> 00:45:59.079
Because she she's still holding on to it.
917
00:45:59.519 --> 00:46:02.440
But then but and she's probably honestly, she probably gonna
918
00:46:02.440 --> 00:46:05.119
hold onto her for a while because this is happening
919
00:46:05.239 --> 00:46:07.920
at a really traumatic time, like a really traumatic time
920
00:46:07.960 --> 00:46:10.760
for her, and usually things are happened in traumatic men
921
00:46:10.800 --> 00:46:11.519
traumatic times.
922
00:46:11.519 --> 00:46:12.719
You niggas will hold that ship.
923
00:46:12.800 --> 00:46:12.920
Yo.
924
00:46:14.079 --> 00:46:17.599
Yeah, it might be its that bitch might be on
925
00:46:17.679 --> 00:46:21.840
her deathbed before she forgive you. You told me, because again,
926
00:46:22.159 --> 00:46:26.039
people people say stuff in in in you know, when
927
00:46:26.079 --> 00:46:28.039
they going through grief and they're not thinking straight because
928
00:46:28.039 --> 00:46:30.800
they're going through their stuff. But what would the response
929
00:46:30.880 --> 00:46:32.760
have been, and what could just this best friend have
930
00:46:32.840 --> 00:46:35.559
said if her trusting your wife, I would have caused
931
00:46:35.559 --> 00:46:37.639
her to lose that baby. And when she comes out
932
00:46:37.679 --> 00:46:39.880
of her grief and she's back in her right mind
933
00:46:39.920 --> 00:46:42.920
or she's back to a state of equilibrium, oh ship,
934
00:46:43.039 --> 00:46:44.760
I fucked up. I caused my best because I was
935
00:46:44.760 --> 00:46:48.880
trusting my best friend out they lost their baby. Fuck
936
00:46:48.920 --> 00:46:50.119
that bitch because I was.
937
00:46:50.119 --> 00:46:52.760
Dealing with the wife. I wouldn't I wouldn't forgive you.
938
00:46:53.320 --> 00:46:55.679
But you know what, And then I mean but then
939
00:46:55.760 --> 00:47:00.800
now now that there's the paradox, it's like, yo, lie,
940
00:47:01.559 --> 00:47:04.079
but it's like it's it's kind of a paradox because
941
00:47:04.119 --> 00:47:07.519
it's like, yo, like you she you know, she'd have
942
00:47:07.559 --> 00:47:09.559
lost the baby, like she lost the baby, she lost
943
00:47:09.599 --> 00:47:11.639
her father. And then it's like, yo, it's my is
944
00:47:11.960 --> 00:47:13.280
your loss isn't greater than mine?
945
00:47:13.559 --> 00:47:14.000
And it's like.
946
00:47:15.719 --> 00:47:19.760
Kind of is See, your father was already like almost
947
00:47:19.840 --> 00:47:20.159
out there.
948
00:47:20.960 --> 00:47:24.280
He was like he was already he did know, he's
949
00:47:24.360 --> 00:47:28.559
already lived his life. This one, this one, my kid
950
00:47:28.599 --> 00:47:29.559
didn't even get a chance.
951
00:47:29.880 --> 00:47:32.400
So it's like yo, so yeah, you you cal You
952
00:47:32.519 --> 00:47:34.199
could come with that, you know, you could come with
953
00:47:34.280 --> 00:47:36.719
that bullshit, and you know you could feel like you
954
00:47:36.800 --> 00:47:38.400
know she should have been there. But for you to
955
00:47:38.480 --> 00:47:40.480
feel like she she should have been there for you
956
00:47:40.599 --> 00:47:42.679
even though she was going through her own stuff, y'all,
957
00:47:42.719 --> 00:47:44.480
that's selfish as.
958
00:47:44.440 --> 00:47:48.199
Fuck either way, sir, you're not the asshole. Congratulations to
959
00:47:48.280 --> 00:47:51.639
you and your wife on your beautiful baby. I'm glad
960
00:47:51.760 --> 00:47:53.960
that he was born healthy and happy, and I hope
961
00:47:53.960 --> 00:47:59.000
that you're and your wife here baby is born strong.
962
00:47:59.239 --> 00:48:01.119
Pray for your friend and and pray that she gets
963
00:48:01.159 --> 00:48:02.760
through it what it is that she's going through, that
964
00:48:02.880 --> 00:48:04.039
she works through.
965
00:48:03.920 --> 00:48:07.440
This grief and if she don't fuck her, you know
966
00:48:07.480 --> 00:48:07.920
what I'm saying.
967
00:48:10.360 --> 00:48:13.760
Moving along, I'm gonna stay on reddick. I'm going to
968
00:48:14.000 --> 00:48:17.960
the ex the ex women thread. But it's a universal question.
969
00:48:18.760 --> 00:48:20.280
Also call that to ask wonder thread.
970
00:48:20.280 --> 00:48:22.440
And this is also labeled not safe for real folks,
971
00:48:22.480 --> 00:48:24.159
but it ain't that damn bad. But still put your
972
00:48:24.159 --> 00:48:27.880
here on time. How do you feel about your partner?
973
00:48:27.960 --> 00:48:29.039
Waken you up for sex?
974
00:48:29.880 --> 00:48:33.000
I love I love it, nigga, I still do that.
975
00:48:33.039 --> 00:48:38.079
I listen, I still do the ship now like ship listen.
976
00:48:38.199 --> 00:48:39.559
Let me tell you. Let
me tell you something.
977
00:48:39.800 --> 00:48:43.360
Uh uh, y'all listen when y'all get when y'all when
978
00:48:43.440 --> 00:48:46.480
y'all got a study person that y'all live with around
979
00:48:46.639 --> 00:48:50.519
like five six in the morning, it's already what bro
980
00:48:50.559 --> 00:48:52.280
because she been marry nick all night.
981
00:48:52.480 --> 00:48:56.920
So yo, you just not I mean, you can go ahead.
982
00:48:57.000 --> 00:48:59.239
Listen, you go ahead, you go ahead, stir that pot
983
00:48:59.280 --> 00:49:01.039
bro like, go ahead, but that's being that pot broke
984
00:49:01.039 --> 00:49:05.159
because she's been minding it's been marred no night. But
985
00:49:05.440 --> 00:49:08.679
at the same time, you know, first first, our first,
986
00:49:08.719 --> 00:49:11.280
I would say, talk to it and like talk about
987
00:49:11.360 --> 00:49:11.960
it first.
988
00:49:11.760 --> 00:49:14.039
And make sure comfortable.
989
00:49:15.400 --> 00:49:18.519
Up because some people because some people, you know some uh,
990
00:49:18.679 --> 00:49:21.880
some people might have like trauma and it's like that's
991
00:49:21.920 --> 00:49:25.239
why and they and you know, and you try to
992
00:49:25.280 --> 00:49:27.639
do something, anything can happen to you in that point,
993
00:49:27.760 --> 00:49:27.960
like you.
994
00:49:28.000 --> 00:49:30.440
Know, pickup PTSD or.
995
00:49:30.920 --> 00:49:34.239
Walk around your elbow to your face. So that's a
996
00:49:34.280 --> 00:49:35.480
conversation that should be heaved.
997
00:49:35.719 --> 00:49:39.880
Make now if y'all have not had the conversation, and
998
00:49:40.039 --> 00:49:48.519
you it's like every ball well too. Sometimes listen, sometimes
999
00:49:48.559 --> 00:49:50.840
you might get the Sometimes you might get the ones
1000
00:49:50.880 --> 00:49:52.360
that are you know, the ones that like you just
1001
00:49:52.400 --> 00:49:53.360
put it in their mouth while they.
1002
00:49:53.360 --> 00:49:58.199
Sleep, but you also gotta be careful because you you
1003
00:49:58.280 --> 00:49:59.679
might get it down on son.
1004
00:49:59.719 --> 00:50:02.079
That's my yeah, that's not even to tell you that's
1005
00:50:02.079 --> 00:50:04.239
that's that's that's my fear. Like we didn't, like, we
1006
00:50:04.320 --> 00:50:06.320
didn't have conversations about it, like you know, just daughter
1007
00:50:06.400 --> 00:50:09.599
say nah, because I'm scared you might bite me. And
1008
00:50:09.719 --> 00:50:11.360
it's like, I don't wonder what the fuck you might
1009
00:50:11.400 --> 00:50:12.119
be dreaming about.
1010
00:50:12.639 --> 00:50:14.519
Just my goddamn look, you about to bite into something
1011
00:50:14.559 --> 00:50:16.239
that your motherfucking dreaming and clamp down?
1012
00:50:17.400 --> 00:50:20.119
You know, not that ass?
1013
00:50:22.119 --> 00:50:22.639
What about you?
1014
00:50:22.719 --> 00:50:22.760
Be?
1015
00:50:23.599 --> 00:50:27.760
Yes, I don't mind being woken up. Well, here's the thing.
1016
00:50:28.840 --> 00:50:31.400
There's a difference between waking somebody who just went to
1017
00:50:31.440 --> 00:50:34.679
sleep like twenty thirty minutes ago, and waking somebody up
1018
00:50:34.719 --> 00:50:36.800
at three in the morning when you know they gotta
1019
00:50:36.840 --> 00:50:38.119
be up for work in two hours.
1020
00:50:38.360 --> 00:50:38.480
Now.
1021
00:50:38.719 --> 00:50:41.119
Sometimes it's good he wake me up three o'clock in
1022
00:50:41.159 --> 00:50:41.920
the morning, but.
1023
00:50:45.159 --> 00:50:46.480
Don't say the word milki.
1024
00:50:47.519 --> 00:50:54.400
But look, look, not that y'all need to notice about me.
1025
00:50:54.559 --> 00:50:58.639
But I'm always in the mood. So you right right now,
1026
00:50:59.639 --> 00:51:00.480
right right now.
1027
00:51:00.800 --> 00:51:05.599
This right moment, turn off, Like yo, I don't think
1028
00:51:06.199 --> 00:51:12.039
people understand that. People understand that, like yo, now you
1029
00:51:12.559 --> 00:51:15.000
you can you know you can like for for men
1030
00:51:15.519 --> 00:51:17.880
like yo. It don't take it does not take much.
1031
00:51:18.719 --> 00:51:21.000
Matter of fact, Yo, you come in like you come in.
1032
00:51:21.119 --> 00:51:22.840
You can come in. You can be here. You can
1033
00:51:22.880 --> 00:51:23.159
be in some.
1034
00:51:23.280 --> 00:51:26.000
Frumpy ass clothes you have, like some big ass some
1035
00:51:26.280 --> 00:51:27.920
big ass T shirts and sweatpants on.
1036
00:51:28.880 --> 00:51:33.039
Yeah, brush past, don't brush past me.
1037
00:51:33.960 --> 00:51:38.000
Don't don't you hope, don't bend over in front of me.
1038
00:51:38.199 --> 00:51:42.639
Don't do nothing like that. She grabbed me. I was like, look.
1039
00:51:42.639 --> 00:51:45.280
I was like, look, look, I'm liable to pop right now.
1040
00:51:46.159 --> 00:52:00.000
Sure says, I'm just saying, y'all gotta understand.
1041
00:52:00.199 --> 00:52:00.320
Bro.
1042
00:52:00.519 --> 00:52:04.400
S Look, I don't even have to be thinking about it.
1043
00:52:04.840 --> 00:52:10.840
You give me a look like right now, she ain't nigga,
1044
00:52:11.920 --> 00:52:15.360
look so what you want? That is one of the
1045
00:52:15.480 --> 00:52:17.920
things I missed about having a living partner is when
1046
00:52:17.960 --> 00:52:20.199
they when they hit the roll up. I was quick
1047
00:52:20.239 --> 00:52:22.320
to toot that butt, U hit that roll over and
1048
00:52:22.400 --> 00:52:25.679
I ain't gonna lie. This ain't one of my proud moments,
1049
00:52:26.440 --> 00:52:27.360
but not in fake sleep.
1050
00:52:27.400 --> 00:52:33.199
A couple of times, same sang, you know you know
1051
00:52:33.320 --> 00:52:36.119
you being on your side and you hear him talking
1052
00:52:36.159 --> 00:52:37.760
to you here, you can't moving.
1053
00:52:38.719 --> 00:52:41.519
The sleep, and I too that freak
sleep. And I
1054
00:52:41.639 --> 00:52:42.679
pushed my butt back like this.
1055
00:52:42.840 --> 00:52:50.440
And then the grab reach around having pulled like I'll be.
1056
00:52:50.519 --> 00:53:13.199
Like, I'm trying, right, I got a point, but look you,
1057
00:53:15.159 --> 00:53:15.679
I'm tired.
1058
00:53:15.800 --> 00:53:15.840
You.
1059
00:53:17.199 --> 00:53:19.599
I guess I hold on. I guess I could wake
1060
00:53:19.679 --> 00:53:23.280
up for it all that Nigga said, I guess I
1061
00:53:23.320 --> 00:53:24.760
could wake up for a couple of minutes.
1062
00:53:25.760 --> 00:53:29.960
I got time, hurry up, I'm sleep, I'm tired.
1063
00:53:30.480 --> 00:53:31.440
I just got the shower.
1064
00:53:31.519 --> 00:53:40.519
But yo, like yeah, wait, Yo, listen, yold do all
1065
00:53:40.559 --> 00:53:40.840
the work.
1066
00:53:40.920 --> 00:53:44.519
Though I like, I like putting them work. Then that's
1067
00:53:44.559 --> 00:53:46.360
a job I like doing. Yo.
1068
00:53:47.000 --> 00:53:49.840
It's like I will say, like it's been like the
1069
00:53:49.920 --> 00:53:52.159
times where like Joe, she tried to get shit started,
1070
00:53:52.199 --> 00:53:53.599
but then I was like dead tired.
1071
00:53:54.199 --> 00:53:56.039
And then I'll be sitting here and say some ship,
1072
00:53:56.159 --> 00:53:57.960
say the ship to me? She was like I did.
1073
00:53:58.079 --> 00:54:00.800
I was like, I found it. I'm sorry. It's like
1074
00:54:00.880 --> 00:54:02.320
you ain't want to wake up, like you ain't want
1075
00:54:02.320 --> 00:54:03.920
to wake up like I.
1076
00:54:04.119 --> 00:54:07.159
Was out, probably like the first like the first night,
1077
00:54:07.280 --> 00:54:09.400
the first couple of weeks he was home, and it's
1078
00:54:09.440 --> 00:54:11.920
like I've been up, like being up like non stop.
1079
00:54:12.119 --> 00:54:16.920
And then it's like, so I'm curious, as married folks,
1080
00:54:17.639 --> 00:54:20.000
how does that? How does the work? Now that you
1081
00:54:20.079 --> 00:54:22.360
have a pretty sleeping like right at the foot all
1082
00:54:22.400 --> 00:54:25.320
bed man, it still works?
1083
00:54:25.440 --> 00:54:28.159
Look down one damn standing up in the crib.
1084
00:54:28.079 --> 00:54:32.679
Like I'm gonna tell you know, I'm gonna tell you
1085
00:54:32.719 --> 00:54:34.719
the truth, like I try to move like I like
1086
00:54:34.880 --> 00:54:40.199
I tried to move the crib like I moved because
1087
00:54:41.239 --> 00:54:43.960
because because the one that the last thing I need
1088
00:54:44.119 --> 00:54:45.800
is for like the last thing I needed him to like,
1089
00:54:45.960 --> 00:54:48.440
you know, like be woken emotion.
1090
00:54:49.440 --> 00:54:50.280
No, it's not even that.
1091
00:54:50.400 --> 00:54:53.599
It's like he he'll do this thing where he turned
1092
00:54:53.679 --> 00:54:56.400
like he'll because it's kind of like off kilter a
1093
00:54:56.480 --> 00:54:59.239
little bit, he'll slide like he'll slide to the back
1094
00:54:59.360 --> 00:55:00.599
like he'll slide to the back of it.
1095
00:55:00.800 --> 00:55:03.159
And then it's like a ship because you hear him
1096
00:55:04.519 --> 00:55:05.440
and we're sitting there.
1097
00:55:05.360 --> 00:55:13.440
Like just waiting like like like he ain't gonna wake up,
1098
00:55:13.480 --> 00:55:13.679
you know.
1099
00:55:13.760 --> 00:55:15.920
No, I say exactly what it's gonna be. They gonna
1100
00:55:15.920 --> 00:55:18.760
be a teenager. He's gonna be good. He good and grown,
1101
00:55:19.719 --> 00:55:21.320
you know. I was. I was at the end of
1102
00:55:21.320 --> 00:55:23.719
the crib watching y'all have sex that one time, right,
1103
00:55:24.280 --> 00:55:24.960
I was wild.
1104
00:55:24.920 --> 00:55:27.400
With remember something from six months old that nigga.
1105
00:55:27.159 --> 00:55:31.239
Is the walk in there every kid, does you know?
1106
00:55:31.320 --> 00:55:33.840
I walked in on y'all and I stopped for two seconds.
1107
00:55:33.960 --> 00:55:36.000
Look y'all was in there wrestling, but traumatized.
1108
00:55:36.800 --> 00:55:38.639
As they get older, they want they want to have
1109
00:55:38.719 --> 00:55:43.360
this conversation. Oh listen, Mike business, you understand.
1110
00:55:43.480 --> 00:55:47.599
You get over the walking on the parent traumatizing. Take
1111
00:55:47.679 --> 00:55:49.360
the visual Jesus I was.
1112
00:55:49.760 --> 00:55:51.440
I walked into my sister and had to go drink
1113
00:55:51.480 --> 00:55:59.039
alcohol because somebody must fucking discussed. Somebody bring me some reef, please,
1114
00:55:59.800 --> 00:56:01.480
I win it. I took a bottle. I took that
1115
00:56:01.559 --> 00:56:03.920
bottle of shortening to the head that my mother had
1116
00:56:03.960 --> 00:56:06.840
in her house. I said, bitch, I did not need
1117
00:56:06.880 --> 00:56:09.320
to see that at all, because I said, one of
1118
00:56:09.360 --> 00:56:14.760
y'all was in my mother's bead too, like nasty bitches.
1119
00:56:17.800 --> 00:56:22.639
I said, all right, so mm hmm, I'm traumatized.
1120
00:56:24.239 --> 00:56:27.920
Like you, nasty b So I'm cool. I'm cool with it,
1121
00:56:29.800 --> 00:56:32.079
especially if it's you know, my long term partner and
1122
00:56:32.320 --> 00:56:35.320
somebody and we've had the conversation like I said, that
1123
00:56:35.519 --> 00:56:41.719
consent is content needed? Okay, consent is needed. There's a
1124
00:56:41.760 --> 00:56:44.239
conversation that needs to be had with the person that
1125
00:56:44.320 --> 00:56:46.719
you are being intimate with. I't understand why people think,
1126
00:56:46.840 --> 00:56:48.639
just because that you're in a relationship with somebody that
1127
00:56:48.679 --> 00:56:51.800
you own their body and and they're supposed to do
1128
00:56:51.840 --> 00:56:53.239
whatever the hell you want them to do and you
1129
00:56:53.280 --> 00:56:55.000
want
them to do it, and it don't work like that.
1130
00:56:55.159 --> 00:56:57.800
I hate to tell y'all that, sorry, great in the
1131
00:56:57.880 --> 00:56:59.119
relationship is such thing.
1132
00:56:59.360 --> 00:57:01.519
Yeah, and that's not yeah, and it's not okay, we'll
1133
00:57:01.559 --> 00:57:05.079
be saying no, uh no, Jama preserves over here.
1134
00:57:06.079 --> 00:57:09.079
It's a such thing as grieping a relationship. And it
1135
00:57:09.159 --> 00:57:11.559
goes both ways. Because if I say no once does it,
1136
00:57:12.119 --> 00:57:15.320
No means nomige. I don't give a damn. I don't
1137
00:57:15.440 --> 00:57:20.559
care if I'm not playing God damn it anyway. But yeah,
1138
00:57:20.760 --> 00:57:24.199
I'm cool with it if it's a conversation that we've had,
1139
00:57:24.360 --> 00:57:26.000
and I'll let you know. But if I'm dead ass
1140
00:57:26.079 --> 00:57:28.880
damn tired and I say no, you're just going to
1141
00:57:29.039 --> 00:57:32.800
suck at the fun up, I.
1142
00:57:32.760 --> 00:57:38.719
Ain't never so so wait, you did tie, But if
1143
00:57:38.760 --> 00:57:40.960
he wanted to do the wicky, would you be opposed
1144
00:57:40.960 --> 00:57:44.440
to that that you just lay that.
1145
00:57:45.320 --> 00:57:47.880
No, bro, she going she gonna do like hold a
1146
00:57:47.920 --> 00:57:50.119
hand like that, like just make it quick, not just.
1147
00:57:50.199 --> 00:57:51.760
Make it quick, make me quick.
1148
00:57:52.119 --> 00:57:55.559
I don't know. I don't know because like I'm gonna
1149
00:57:55.559 --> 00:57:56.920
be into it. I don't want you to think I
1150
00:57:56.920 --> 00:57:58.840
ain't enjoying it. I need to be.
1151
00:57:59.760 --> 00:58:02.400
I No, I will say this like, yeah, you're falling asleep,
1152
00:58:02.559 --> 00:58:06.519
like yeah, if you it's no, that's and it's no
1153
00:58:06.599 --> 00:58:08.280
emotion like you know, no, like no.
1154
00:58:08.360 --> 00:58:14.320
Emotion to the ego. You really your body you know
1155
00:58:14.719 --> 00:58:16.360
you might sleep with the body.
1156
00:58:16.119 --> 00:58:19.519
Is, but the challenge is really good to you.
1157
00:58:19.960 --> 00:58:22.719
Now the challenge is to wake you up.
1158
00:58:23.559 --> 00:58:23.960
Mm hmm.
1159
00:58:24.639 --> 00:58:27.639
Now if you already participant, you wasn't only participating, but
1160
00:58:27.760 --> 00:58:30.039
then you still kind of sleep or he's gonna like
1161
00:58:30.119 --> 00:58:32.920
he gonna he's gonna work. He's gonna try to put
1162
00:58:32.920 --> 00:58:35.280
that work in to wake you up, to make you get.
1163
00:58:35.199 --> 00:58:38.880
Into it because you like hurry up, you know, like
1164
00:58:39.079 --> 00:58:39.519
hurry up.
1165
00:58:41.039 --> 00:58:45.199
But yeah, yeah, you say, Look, you can say I'm tired,
1166
00:58:45.239 --> 00:58:48.119
you can say I'm sleeping then like I'm like four
1167
00:58:48.159 --> 00:58:48.760
strokes sitting.
1168
00:58:48.760 --> 00:58:54.639
It's like yeah, don't stop, we got you got me
1169
00:58:54.679 --> 00:58:56.440
where I need to go. We are we we are right.
1170
00:58:56.719 --> 00:58:58.960
That's like, let's go, let's go.
1171
00:59:00.760 --> 00:59:02.440
Nother than the mess up thing is just like when
1172
00:59:02.480 --> 00:59:05.079
you get to like when you you know, like by
1173
00:59:05.159 --> 00:59:07.360
the time she gets started, Joe, you are most finished.
1174
00:59:08.559 --> 00:59:12.320
And it's like he got slowed down and said, what
1175
00:59:12.400 --> 00:59:15.320
the fuck is slowed down for? Like I got sw.
1176
00:59:17.280 --> 00:59:20.079
I'm about to crash out, bro got slow.
1177
00:59:21.119 --> 00:59:22.679
I'm about to be in here crumpingly.
1178
00:59:24.960 --> 00:59:26.079
Not crumping.
1179
00:59:29.840 --> 00:59:44.719
Like mm hmm, I'm going to roll it. Then, what's next?
1180
00:59:44.760 --> 00:59:45.639
Showing the bless her.
1181
00:59:45.639 --> 00:59:52.159
Soul lower mercy? Going back to six Brown checks.
1182
00:59:52.320 --> 00:59:55.800
Ship, Okay, hold on talking about mm hmm you got
1183
00:59:55.880 --> 00:59:56.639
the water from here?
1184
00:59:57.480 --> 01:00:00.480
Mm hmmm. My mama left the head. She told me,
1185
01:00:00.920 --> 01:00:02.639
just boy, the little it's a pump that you can
1186
01:00:02.679 --> 01:00:02.960
get off.
1187
01:00:03.000 --> 01:00:06.239
Okay, about to say what the you gonna do?
1188
01:00:06.320 --> 01:00:09.079
You wanna put on the put on that table?
1189
01:00:11.079 --> 01:00:23.000
Like, oh god, okay, y'all six brown chicks.
1190
01:00:26.880 --> 01:00:31.719
I secretly married Stretch, a college basketball standout turned convicted
1191
01:00:31.800 --> 01:00:34.840
drug deal Oh Ship. I had the marriage because he
1192
01:00:34.960 --> 01:00:37.719
spent five years in prison and we met on Facebook.
1193
01:00:38.360 --> 01:00:41.320
Stretched at his time and immediately reconnected with the folks
1194
01:00:41.400 --> 01:00:43.760
and habits that got him locked up in the first
1195
01:00:44.000 --> 01:00:46.719
the first time. Of course, I'm trying to get him
1196
01:00:46.760 --> 01:00:49.400
to change. I took him to my family reunion and
1197
01:00:49.440 --> 01:00:53.480
one of my uncles recognized my husband from his prison days. Stretch,
1198
01:00:54.039 --> 01:00:56.400
why are you here with my knees? My husband did
1199
01:00:56.440 --> 01:00:59.519
about face and sprint it to my car. I followed.
1200
01:01:00.039 --> 01:01:01.760
He told me that my uncle hated him in prison
1201
01:01:01.840 --> 01:01:05.679
and he left because he didn't want beef. Uncle and
1202
01:01:05.800 --> 01:01:08.119
his brother told me that Stretch didn't get his nickname
1203
01:01:08.159 --> 01:01:11.760
because of his height and basketball ability. We used to
1204
01:01:11.800 --> 01:01:13.880
say he has stretch smokes on his neck because he
1205
01:01:14.039 -->
01:01:18.639
used to deep throat the goons for commissary. Stretch says,
1206
01:01:18.840 --> 01:01:21.480
that's a lie and what happened in prison doesn't reflect
1207
01:01:21.519 --> 01:01:22.000
who I am.
1208
01:01:22.119 --> 01:01:22.280
Now.
1209
01:01:23.199 --> 01:01:26.599
Uncle has exposed him to everyone in my family. We're married.
1210
01:01:26.800 --> 01:01:29.760
I can't walk away without exposing our secret wedding and
1211
01:01:29.920 --> 01:01:34.239
that could hurt my family too. Advice, Baby, not, you
1212
01:01:34.400 --> 01:01:44.079
got a throat baby as a husband. Bitch, Hey, it's
1213
01:01:44.320 --> 01:01:48.039
for the absolutely not. You're not. I don't with red face.
1214
01:01:49.039 --> 01:01:50.599
No, that's not a blue face.
1215
01:01:50.679 --> 01:01:54.000
That's not a red face on No, that's I thought
1216
01:01:54.039 --> 01:01:58.440
that was baby, it is. I don't keep up with
1217
01:01:58.519 --> 01:01:59.800
these youngins. I thought that was A.
1218
01:02:00.159 --> 01:02:01.440
That's not his song.
1219
01:02:01.559 --> 01:02:03.480
Is Dotianna you write my bag? I knew it was
1220
01:02:03.519 --> 01:02:07.920
something rest cash. Okay, I take that back, I'll use it.
1221
01:02:08.039 --> 01:02:09.639
I thought it was him and I don't do nothing
1222
01:02:09.719 --> 01:02:10.719
associated with that.
1223
01:02:12.000 --> 01:02:13.320
Q and A Hot and ready.
1224
01:02:15.639 --> 01:02:21.280
I like Little Caesars, Q and A like Little Caesars,
1225
01:02:29.519 --> 01:02:29.719
Y know.
1226
01:02:38.239 --> 01:02:38.639
What you do?
1227
01:02:39.800 --> 01:02:40.159
Okay?
1228
01:02:40.440 --> 01:02:44.079
So like Little Caesars. Do you know what the thing that.
1229
01:02:46.079 --> 01:02:48.039
The ship that popped off of my head when he
1230
01:02:48.119 --> 01:02:50.760
said when he said like ye don't reflect his life.
1231
01:02:51.480 --> 01:02:51.840
He did it.
1232
01:02:51.880 --> 01:02:55.599
Whatever they said in the words of Curtis check what
1233
01:02:56.360 --> 01:02:57.239
they said he did.
1234
01:02:57.760 --> 01:02:58.639
He did that ship.
1235
01:02:59.360 --> 01:03:02.039
Hell when my man said, my man said, Yo man,
1236
01:03:02.239 --> 01:03:04.760
y'all be sucking people, y'all be suck y'all be niggas
1237
01:03:04.760 --> 01:03:06.280
in jail, he's like nigga, that was jail.
1238
01:03:06.639 --> 01:03:14.119
Like you, I don't want to talk about stuff like that.
1239
01:03:14.559 --> 01:03:16.400
So you got grapefruit in and.
1240
01:03:19.119 --> 01:03:22.440
Centrius burn. Now that's as centric as that burn.
1241
01:03:22.920 --> 01:03:30.800
Listenniga, Cris don't burn, not just nigga. Been getting grape fruity,
1242
01:03:37.320 --> 01:03:41.800
not need no fruit, nothing around a hole in it.
1243
01:03:41.880 --> 01:03:47.000
I'm not eating time nothing, no don't nutch. No, sister, nigga,
1244
01:03:47.039 --> 01:03:49.239
you got you're listening, I'm not you.
1245
01:03:50.519 --> 01:03:56.119
No, I didn't get like apple, no no, no, no no,
1246
01:03:56.559 --> 01:03:58.960
it's just it's not it's just spelled like yo, like
1247
01:03:59.320 --> 01:04:03.000
like Juicus bill bro like it just don't burn down
1248
01:04:03.079 --> 01:04:03.960
there like.
1249
01:04:04.079 --> 01:04:07.719
They went up the whole. No, no, that's how that's
1250
01:04:07.880 --> 01:04:08.760
that's what makes it burn.
1251
01:04:10.400 --> 01:04:10.440
No.
1252
01:04:10.920 --> 01:04:14.199
Usually you know you spray now, you spray the bars
1253
01:04:14.239 --> 01:04:14.400
with that.
1254
01:04:14.639 --> 01:04:16.519
You know, you sprey the balls with little but the
1255
01:04:16.559 --> 01:04:18.000
little like you know, you hit your clown and like
1256
01:04:18.079 --> 01:04:20.400
that ship hit the balls like nigga, what not your
1257
01:04:20.440 --> 01:04:21.000
bowls the.
1258
01:04:21.079 --> 01:04:25.440
P hole, It goes into p hole, which makes it burn.
1259
01:04:25.800 --> 01:04:27.000
See girls trip my guy.
1260
01:04:27.239 --> 01:04:28.280
That's what we were talking about.
1261
01:04:28.599 --> 01:04:29.880
No, no, no, no, no.
1262
01:04:36.000 --> 01:04:39.039
No. But she wanted she wanted to try though, but
1263
01:04:39.639 --> 01:04:44.400
I was like, I was like, the business, right, I
1264
01:04:44.440 --> 01:04:49.119
don't think you're marriedal sex life, that's discussion.
1265
01:04:49.119 --> 01:04:51.119
She married, she got a hood, but she do you wondered?
1266
01:04:51.880 --> 01:04:53.760
Now? I shop y'all on, but I don't need to
1267
01:04:54.039 --> 01:04:54.920
sort the details.
1268
01:04:55.039 --> 01:04:56.840
I just don't need to give me a husband.
1269
01:04:57.800 --> 01:05:05.400
I'm I'm gonna be fucking I say this though, like
1270
01:05:05.880 --> 01:05:09.440
drained and be drained didn't get up and or to
1271
01:05:09.599 --> 01:05:13.760
be drained, just to hold him over while I'm cooking
1272
01:05:15.840 --> 01:05:18.039
those anti drug questions with the friends, smoked weed and
1273
01:05:18.079 --> 01:05:19.719
she was a puddle on the couch just looking around
1274
01:05:19.800 --> 01:05:25.199
like she was like she can't talk right now because
1275
01:05:25.239 --> 01:05:25.920
she smoked weed.
1276
01:05:26.800 --> 01:05:29.760
And it just left us me and Bag. And I
1277
01:05:29.960 --> 01:05:32.440
feel like because I was telling the couch like, this
1278
01:05:32.639 --> 01:05:34.599
is nice, me and me and Bag.
1279
01:05:34.760 --> 01:05:36.960
That's that's how locked. And I'm trying to be smoke.
1280
01:05:37.760 --> 01:05:41.800
That's how that's how locked. And I'm trying to puddles
1281
01:05:41.880 --> 01:05:45.480
on the couch. Don't worry. Once we you know, once
1282
01:05:45.559 --> 01:05:49.079
we get syndicated, you'll be able to you better indulge again.
1283
01:05:50.239 --> 01:05:51.920
Want you can quit your job because we took off.
1284
01:05:52.159 -->
01:06:02.559
Man, it's been like welcome to gym rock. What was it?
1285
01:06:06.440 --> 01:06:06.480
No?
1286
01:06:06.760 --> 01:06:07.360
But move?
1287
01:06:08.039 --> 01:06:08.840
What's the next question?
1288
01:06:09.320 --> 01:06:12.599
Move? I just say, I mean, I just said, like, yeah,
1289
01:06:12.639 --> 01:06:15.440
when you when you get married, you gotta be able
1290
01:06:15.480 --> 01:06:16.519
to you.
1291
01:06:16.559 --> 01:06:19.320
Know, motherfucker get on my nerves. But goddamn it, we're
1292
01:06:19.360 --> 01:06:25.440
gonna try some ship. I'm still don't know how I
1293
01:06:25.480 --> 01:06:30.880
felt about sucking public sex, but stuff in private. I'm
1294
01:06:30.920 --> 01:06:33.000
not trying to catch a charge now. Maybe on a
1295
01:06:33.039 --> 01:06:33.800
balcony like I do.
1296
01:06:33.920 --> 01:06:35.679
Want to do some balcony vacation.
1297
01:06:35.920 --> 01:06:39.280
I want to try that's on, that's on, that's on
1298
01:06:39.360 --> 01:06:40.079
the fun it. Listen.
1299
01:06:40.719 --> 01:06:42.599
I want to try that because I had a balcony
1300
01:06:42.840 --> 01:06:44.880
when I was on my cruise and youmb person that
1301
01:06:44.920 --> 01:06:45.480
was in damn room.
1302
01:06:45.519 --> 01:06:47.920
He was my kid that be kind of go to
1303
01:06:48.000 --> 01:06:48.400
the go to.
1304
01:06:48.440 --> 01:06:55.719
The maybe and we was out on that water, especially
1305
01:06:55.760 --> 01:06:58.079
when it was dunk. I told you, I told you
1306
01:06:58.119 --> 01:07:00.119
you look straight out there. It's just pitch black, bro.
1307
01:07:01.480 --> 01:07:03.119
He might he might see another cruise.
1308
01:07:02.920 --> 01:07:08.800
Ship like way down yonder. I could imagine going out
1309
01:07:08.840 --> 01:07:10.800
to that balcony that night to get some in all your.
1310
01:07:15.159 --> 01:07:17.199
I ain't gonna hold your ship there and listen, I
1311
01:07:17.559 --> 01:07:18.519
ain't even hold.
1312
01:07:18.400 --> 01:07:28.679
Him sucking shut up, thank you any one time for me?
1313
01:07:29.760 --> 01:07:37.199
Mm hmmm? Who what time? Let's start?
1314
01:07:40.320 --> 01:07:43.920
Charlie Brown, hands on your knees, hands on her knees.
1315
01:07:46.199 --> 01:07:48.559
I can't look, can you go? I can't can you
1316
01:07:48.639 --> 01:07:53.760
go down on loop rest the beast? No, that's not
1317
01:07:53.880 --> 01:08:01.280
even thinking about Yeahsta d J. I had two different songs,
1318
01:08:01.320 --> 01:08:02.920
but I had to tame the time. I had that
1319
01:08:03.199 --> 01:08:05.719
and a Cupid shuffle in my head at.
1320
01:08:05.679 --> 01:08:08.159
The same damn time, not to Cupid shuffle, sir.
1321
01:08:08.400 --> 01:08:11.199
Lord listen, I did a lot of damn line dances
1322
01:08:11.239 --> 01:08:13.719
on that damn cruise. They was doing line dances every day,
1323
01:08:13.719 --> 01:08:17.920
and with all right, staying on six brown chicks, were
1324
01:08:17.920 --> 01:08:22.079
gonna continue with the fuckery. Sonny, my neighbor, always talks
1325
01:08:22.159 --> 01:08:24.760
bad about my kids to others. They are three and six,
1326
01:08:25.119 --> 01:08:27.840
She says, My kids are always thirty. My kids play
1327
01:08:27.920 --> 01:08:32.000
outside hard, and they always beg other neighbors for food.
1328
01:08:32.319 --> 01:08:35.199
My kids are welfare, but they are greedy. Sonny and
1329
01:08:35.279 --> 01:08:36.920
her husband have the biggest house on the block, so
1330
01:08:37.000 --> 01:08:39.039
she has influence in this turn of the neighbors against
1331
01:08:39.119 --> 01:08:41.920
me and my kids. So I fucked her husband all
1332
01:08:41.960 --> 01:08:45.800
summer and finally I'm pregnant. He's flipping out and begging
1333
01:08:45.880 --> 01:08:48.279
me to abort. I slept with him out of spite.
1334
01:08:48.319 --> 01:08:50.359
But now I like him and I'm keeping our baby.
1335
01:08:50.880 --> 01:08:53.560
How do I make him and Sonny accept my new
1336
01:08:53.600 --> 01:08:56.960
addition to their lives. It's important for me that our
1337
01:08:57.079 --> 01:09:03.000
dirty children grow up together, ma'am. First of all, Miss Milmins,
1338
01:09:03.239 --> 01:09:04.880
you gonna be an episode of fatal attraction.
1339
01:09:07.039 --> 01:09:09.399
First of all, he gonna be like he'll be like, hey,
1340
01:09:09.520 --> 01:09:10.600
let me talk to you on let me talk to
1341
01:09:10.640 --> 01:09:14.319
you on the stairs, like.
1342
01:09:17.399 --> 01:09:20.199
But nah, but for real, she was a single mother
1343
01:09:21.800 --> 01:09:23.760
trying to navigate the whole way through life.
1344
01:09:26.359 --> 01:09:27.960
Until it's so weird.
1345
01:09:28.760 --> 01:09:33.720
Here's a story. But this whole ish lady not even sonny.
1346
01:09:33.800 --> 01:09:37.000
Sonny is the neighbor. But if I was just starting
1347
01:09:37.119 --> 01:09:41.079
the neighbor him, I beat you and my husband ask
1348
01:09:42.279 --> 01:09:44.079
and he can come over and look with you in
1349
01:09:44.119 --> 01:09:49.279
the dirty children. Yep, they ain't gonna play in my face.
1350
01:09:49.760 --> 01:09:54.520
Mm hmm, absolutely not, absolutely the fucking up mum. And
1351
01:09:54.640 --> 01:09:56.199
then he wants you to aboard, but he wasn't thinking
1352
01:09:56.199 --> 01:09:57.600
about you aboard me. He was running up and you
1353
01:09:57.720 --> 01:09:59.760
raw make that makes sense with a with a wife,
1354
01:10:00.039 --> 01:10:01.640
with the whole wife and then go home to sleeping
1355
01:10:01.640 --> 01:10:03.560
with his wife too. That's what pisses me off about you, sorry,
1356
01:10:03.680 --> 01:10:09.279
is thinking dirty, trifling, uncooth motherfucker's got a straight up
1357
01:10:09.319 --> 01:10:12.239
out head fucking around and then you're fucking around road.
1358
01:10:12.319 --> 01:10:14.720
So you're putting my risk, my life at risk because
1359
01:10:16.359 --> 01:10:18.199
you wanna be a dirty bastard.
1360
01:10:19.359 --> 01:10:21.520
Some things you just can't come back from and getting them.
1361
01:10:21.560 --> 01:10:22.680
Bitch pregnant is one of them.
1362
01:10:23.159 --> 01:10:24.199
But I'm not Rashida.
1363
01:10:25.600 --> 01:10:26.760
My name Rashia.
1364
01:10:27.600 --> 01:10:31.119
I don't wrap like shorty Love. There's no way how
1365
01:10:31.760 --> 01:10:34.439
that you're gonna be humiliating me on national TV every
1366
01:10:34.439 --> 01:10:40.840
week and all over Atlanta, Atlanta, playing in my loddamn base,
1367
01:10:42.640 --> 01:10:44.720
and I'm gonna stay with you, absolutely the fucking not.
1368
01:10:46.119 --> 01:10:48.439
I take you for everything you got, including a seventeen
1369
01:10:48.479 --> 01:10:51.319
of them ear rings in your fucking heads. Sorry, sham,
1370
01:10:53.119 --> 01:10:56.039
do not be like Rasheeda Sonny let dirt dirt and
1371
01:10:56.079 --> 01:10:58.159
her dirt dirt. Kids have him, not to have him
1372
01:10:58.960 --> 01:11:01.119
got I have them, but make sure you take every
1373
01:11:01.199 --> 01:11:03.239
damn thing he got before you a lot to have him,
1374
01:11:04.840 --> 01:11:06.760
and you keep that big house for yourself. And if
1375
01:11:06.800 --> 01:11:10.399
y'all got your own children, mm hmm and ms mama's
1376
01:11:10.760 --> 01:11:15.600
what goes around comes around. I'm a true believer in karma.
1377
01:11:16.279 --> 01:11:17.680
You won't coming to you, booky boo.
1378
01:11:18.680 --> 01:11:23.399
M m. What's next? Seen?
1379
01:11:25.800 --> 01:11:30.199
I don't know because off doll And gave her name,
1380
01:11:30.199 --> 01:11:33.079
I don't know if that's her damn name. I don't
1381
01:11:33.079 --> 01:11:35.199
know if that's her damn name. I will run my
1382
01:11:35.279 --> 01:11:41.159
ass back to Reddit right quick. Another label not Safe
1383
01:11:41.199 --> 01:11:43.680
for work, which is not that damn serious. This comes
1384
01:11:43.720 --> 01:11:46.199
from the ak creddit thread and the question is how
1385
01:11:46.319 --> 01:11:50.279
do you feel about music during sex? I'm gonna expand
1386
01:11:50.399 --> 01:11:53.880
on that. Okay, what kind of music? How do you
1387
01:11:53.920 --> 01:11:56.840
feel about music? And what kind of music do you
1388
01:11:57.119 --> 01:11:59.920
like to play? If you like music?
1389
01:12:00.239 --> 01:12:05.199
So I love music during sex. I also because I
1390
01:12:05.279 --> 01:12:08.600
have plugs for everything. I like R and B, slow
1391
01:12:08.680 --> 01:12:11.640
jams and ship. I can't listen to the future. I
1392
01:12:11.760 --> 01:12:13.680
know people who can fuck the future, and I.
1393
01:12:13.720 --> 01:12:15.319
Got to miss the nasty times and.
1394
01:12:16.039 --> 01:12:20.000
Uh fucking migos and audit. Now my place is called
1395
01:12:20.039 --> 01:12:26.239
choking stroke. It is yeah, yeah, I got one time. Yeah.
1396
01:12:26.920 --> 01:12:27.039
Now.
1397
01:12:27.279 --> 01:12:29.479
I think the probably the closest into a rap song
1398
01:12:29.600 --> 01:12:31.359
there is pull My Hair by the Ying Yang Twins
1399
01:12:31.640 --> 01:12:35.279
because it just hits, hits, hit the spot now that
1400
01:12:35.600 --> 01:12:42.119
but you get the groove going a little bitch way.
1401
01:12:42.159 --> 01:12:55.560
They can see pull my hell. Okay, So yeah, I
1402
01:12:55.800 --> 01:12:57.680
enjoy R and B and the I mean you can
1403
01:12:57.720 --> 01:13:01.039
say a little ratchet tune in there. That's switching stroke
1404
01:13:01.079 --> 01:13:03.319
every now and again. But yeah, choky strokes been doing
1405
01:13:03.359 --> 01:13:04.880
me right for years. And it's to the point where
1406
01:13:04.960 --> 01:13:06.800
people on Apple who don't even know if they found
1407
01:13:06.800 --> 01:13:08.079
the place, and they followed, I.
1408
01:13:08.119 --> 01:13:09.920
Need to write to song the slide and there I
1409
01:13:10.000 --> 01:13:11.840
recommend miss pussy by applies.
1410
01:13:13.119 --> 01:13:15.600
Yeah, you know what, now you know my favorite like
1411
01:13:15.800 --> 01:13:20.359
my top, like my tops on h four walls by
1412
01:13:20.800 --> 01:13:24.920
by pretty welly pretty welly my bad, my bad p
1413
01:13:25.119 --> 01:13:28.319
dub a k A pretty willy pretty well what they
1414
01:13:28.399 --> 01:13:30.039
called him dude like.
1415
01:13:31.359 --> 01:13:36.079
Because he said he sampled, Uh he sampled michel A.
1416
01:13:36.760 --> 01:13:38.600
Something in my heart. M hm hmm.
1417
01:13:39.279 --> 01:13:43.319
That's the rushing Well okay, so question, what are some
1418
01:13:43.439 --> 01:13:45.880
of your favorite adult happy fun time songs?
1419
01:13:46.399 --> 01:13:55.800
Four was So Anxious, Secret Garden, the justin Stimulate, Ends
1420
01:13:55.800 --> 01:13:56.119
of Time.
1421
01:13:56.399 --> 01:13:59.840
Okay, that's a good one. No, Beyonce, no offense.
1422
01:14:01.000 --> 01:14:05.039
I actually like the original version. Now I actually do
1423
01:14:05.239 --> 01:14:07.520
like the remix. It's a tie between the two for
1424
01:14:07.600 --> 01:14:09.600
me because I was already in love with the song
1425
01:14:09.680 --> 01:14:15.359
before they did the remix with Speechless. Their voices sound
1426
01:14:15.439 --> 01:14:15.880
good together.
1427
01:14:16.359 --> 01:14:21.479
Yeah, Beyonce Speechless, that's a good one. Of course, you
1428
01:14:21.560 --> 01:14:24.600
know the usual cater to you as it was, got
1429
01:14:24.600 --> 01:14:25.560
it was okay.
1430
01:14:27.319 --> 01:14:30.039
Let me expand on your list. You got to throw
1431
01:14:30.760 --> 01:14:33.520
Oh yeah, dirty thirty in there by.
1432
01:14:33.439 --> 01:14:36.600
Tank was a dirty chinagulatory.
1433
01:14:41.159 --> 01:14:47.600
When we by Tank Mirror by Neo Say It by Neo.
1434
01:14:48.880 --> 01:14:49.000
Uh.
1435
01:14:51.680 --> 01:14:53.319
Also like said by t Pain.
1436
01:14:57.479 --> 01:14:58.680
Take You Down by Chris Brown.
1437
01:14:59.039 --> 01:14:59.680
That's a good one.
1438
01:15:00.560 --> 01:15:05.680
Uh if you're going old school. Uh, Love Won't let
1439
01:15:05.760 --> 01:15:09.239
Me Wait by Luther Trying off the Lights about Teddy Pendergrad.
1440
01:15:13.159 --> 01:15:16.880
Oh god O Brothers Summer Breeze.
1441
01:15:18.840 --> 01:15:25.640
Between the Sheets. No, because well that's that's a romantic song.
1442
01:15:25.640 --> 01:15:29.079
So I do like Boys to Atlantis. Yes, that's one
1443
01:15:29.119 --> 01:15:30.319
of my favorite brother songs.
1444
01:15:30.399 --> 01:15:36.920
Actually, reasons after the Love is Gone, not as.
1445
01:15:42.760 --> 01:15:49.000
Ask yourself about right hand, ask yourself question. I had
1446
01:15:49.039 --> 01:15:51.439
to think for a second. Yeah, I love I like that.
1447
01:15:51.680 --> 01:15:52.600
I like ask yourself.
1448
01:15:52.800 --> 01:15:56.640
Actually you actually you can put you can put everything
1449
01:15:56.760 --> 01:15:58.680
after after uh.
1450
01:16:01.520 --> 01:16:05.319
The you know, after that little boom boom boom, but
1451
01:16:05.479 --> 01:16:06.239
you know, breathe.
1452
01:16:08.680 --> 01:16:10.199
I got some stuff from hold on.
1453
01:16:10.359 --> 01:16:12.279
Let me so sence y'all the name about sixty dev
1454
01:16:12.279 --> 01:16:15.439
me name a few minds. So Liquid Lava Love by
1455
01:16:15.560 --> 01:16:18.359
Kevin Michael featuring Claude or Tis from City High.
1456
01:16:19.239 --> 01:16:21.600
Yeah, I'm gonna pull it up.
1457
01:16:21.840 --> 01:16:26.199
I also have uh when We by Tank Try Effortless
1458
01:16:26.279 --> 01:16:30.760
by Division. The Consequences of Jealousy by the Robert Gleasper
1459
01:16:30.800 --> 01:16:34.039
experiment featuring Michellan and degio Cello. Belonged to You by
1460
01:16:34.079 --> 01:16:37.840
Sabrina Claudio, Dripped by Luke James, Backstroke by Taser Moses
1461
01:16:38.760 --> 01:16:41.079
and Drameda in the Milkway by Michelle and de gio
1462
01:16:41.159 --> 01:16:43.920
Cello Skin by Rihanna, Feel My Love All on the
1463
01:16:44.000 --> 01:16:47.000
Side by Marvin Gaye, how about five We Make by
1464
01:16:47.319 --> 01:16:50.560
He's the Maxwell. That's why we Like All in My
1465
01:16:50.680 --> 01:16:54.199
Head by Sir h Can Blena Barrett.
1466
01:16:54.399 --> 01:16:57.079
Stay on, Sir, That's why. That's why I love him.
1467
01:16:57.199 --> 01:16:58.520
That's why I love That's why I love you by
1468
01:16:58.600 --> 01:17:03.000
Him Audio You got Us?
1469
01:17:03.800 --> 01:17:06.560
Can I? I said? Can I? By Leaning Barrats, Focused
1470
01:17:06.600 --> 01:17:09.199
by Her What's Good by Party next Door, The Pressure
1471
01:17:09.239 --> 01:17:13.800
by Joanne i Eko play by gopol CPR by some
1472
01:17:14.079 --> 01:17:14.600
Walk I Have.
1473
01:17:15.439 --> 01:17:18.520
I love
both of them like Yeah, ab Fan Like
1474
01:17:18.640 --> 01:17:21.279
ib fan Boy Overland and Jasmine.
1475
01:17:20.960 --> 01:17:23.920
Sullivan Jamazing.
1476
01:17:24.520 --> 01:17:26.479
I thought I hated it, but love You.
1477
01:17:26.520 --> 01:17:28.199
Don is a cover vibe ready for the world that
1478
01:17:28.279 --> 01:17:30.479
she did Michelle did in the Super Slinky Slow Down
1479
01:17:31.039 --> 01:17:33.399
Soul Sister by Ba Laud, Knocking the Boost by h
1480
01:17:33.479 --> 01:17:36.960
Town of Course of course, Wicked Games by by the Weekends.
1481
01:17:39.039 --> 01:17:43.920
Wicked Games Trading Places by Lussier, Say Yes by flore
1482
01:17:44.560 --> 01:17:50.439
The Canvas by Sir, Red Melody by Sir's Cousin Tiffany Goshet,
1483
01:17:52.600 --> 01:17:55.680
Falling by Leisure, Do It Well by Division the Recipe
1484
01:17:55.720 --> 01:17:59.399
by Sir. Day Party by Destin Conrad, Oh Oh, I
1485
01:17:59.479 --> 01:18:02.359
love that song Men have met the Day Party.
1486
01:18:02.760 --> 01:18:03.039
I have.
1487
01:18:04.640 --> 01:18:06.000
To switch up the tempo.
1488
01:18:07.399 --> 01:18:08.239
By Boys Men.
1489
01:18:10.279 --> 01:18:10.960
That's a classic.
1490
01:18:12.439 --> 01:18:14.239
Don't say yes just I mean, don't say no, Just
1491
01:18:14.279 --> 01:18:17.000
say yes by Making Good Love and Read your Mind
1492
01:18:17.079 --> 01:18:20.359
by Back to Sleep the remix, the original and the Remix.
1493
01:18:22.199 --> 01:18:25.399
What Else I Got on Here? Rocket by Beyonce, Oh
1494
01:18:26.880 --> 01:18:28.640
I got bid on here? I don't think I don't
1495
01:18:28.640 --> 01:18:33.119
remember bad in bed, but okay because it annoys men sometimes?
1496
01:18:34.720 --> 01:18:37.439
Do you remember? By Genuine? All night and all day?
1497
01:18:37.479 --> 01:18:40.399
By Genuine and let's go down to us your baby?
1498
01:18:40.439 --> 01:18:42.800
I got Can you handle it? That's what it's made for.
1499
01:18:43.159 --> 01:18:46.199
Do it to me? And seduction? What else?
1500
01:18:47.159 --> 01:18:47.279
Uh?
1501
01:18:47.720 --> 01:18:49.720
Should I got? The whispers on this motherfucker in the
1502
01:18:49.840 --> 01:18:52.600
move say yes and do I turn you on?
1503
01:18:53.960 --> 01:18:54.079
Uh?
1504
01:18:56.159 --> 01:18:59.760
In the middle of Love Faces by Trey Song I
1505
01:19:00.039 --> 01:19:02.600
had Love Cause by Kim I don't, but I'm gonna
1506
01:19:02.600 --> 01:19:07.119
add that I got with you. But that's my ship.
1507
01:19:07.880 --> 01:19:11.199
I got I got by Campbe when he had a
1508
01:19:11.239 --> 01:19:15.479
business thinking about school like some own work, Yes, school
1509
01:19:15.520 --> 01:19:21.800
like after school, like some homework. Am I kidding you?
1510
01:19:23.119 --> 01:19:23.279
Oh?
1511
01:19:23.520 --> 01:19:25.960
I got Crown World by Jill Scott. I got So
1512
01:19:26.119 --> 01:19:30.079
Gone by Jill Scott. Uh would you mind? By Janet Jackson. Baby,
1513
01:19:30.119 --> 01:19:31.920
you cannot have a freak list without having some jan
1514
01:19:32.000 --> 01:19:34.479
that on them. I got Freaking You and Fiend and
1515
01:19:34.520 --> 01:19:37.119
by Joe the scene if Only for One Night by Luther.
1516
01:19:37.680 --> 01:19:42.439
Let's Ride by Montelu Jordan, that's my ship getting late
1517
01:19:42.560 --> 01:19:46.720
and say yes by flow A. Try giving him something
1518
01:19:46.760 --> 01:19:47.319
he can feel.
1519
01:19:48.479 --> 01:19:48.600
Uh.
1520
01:19:48.840 --> 01:19:51.079
In Vogue version, I don't have to read the version
1521
01:19:51.159 --> 01:19:52.760
on here, but I might have to download that.
1522
01:19:52.880 --> 01:19:55.199
I feel like would kind of throw you off all
1523
01:19:55.279 --> 01:19:59.800
that screaming. I love reading Queen Ring, but but invo version.
1524
01:20:00.159 --> 01:20:02.159
I've studied this, I think of stuff I just add
1525
01:20:02.520 --> 01:20:05.560
it is the wholest version is very sexual sensual. I
1526
01:20:05.640 --> 01:20:07.319
might just keep adding stuff as I think of it,
1527
01:20:07.399 --> 01:20:09.159
Like if something popping on on my randoms, I'm like,
1528
01:20:10.600 --> 01:20:13.399
even though you know again some of it.
1529
01:20:13.520 --> 01:20:15.079
So don't forget, you know, if you just want to
1530
01:20:15.079 --> 01:20:19.079
switch that tempover Booty Collins, I'd right to be with you.
1531
01:20:19.359 --> 01:20:21.960
I need to that. I love me some booty carry
1532
01:20:22.000 --> 01:20:26.560
Holston's energy mm hmm. And then that's a good Oh
1533
01:20:27.760 --> 01:20:32.359
carry Holsten slow dance. That's that's that's a good one.
1534
01:20:33.119 --> 01:20:34.760
That's what a god don't want to be on that stage.
1535
01:20:34.760 --> 01:20:38.520
When she performed that one, I was like, dance is
1536
01:20:38.520 --> 01:20:42.640
a good one. Mm hm, it's a good one. Yeah.
1537
01:20:42.800 --> 01:20:47.640
But listen, yeah, y'all, y'all, y'all young kids. I don't
1538
01:20:47.640 --> 01:20:49.920
know what y'all do. Y'all, y'all, be y'all be playing.
1539
01:20:54.199 --> 01:20:55.720
That's my ship. I love that damn song.
1540
01:20:56.840 --> 01:20:59.920
Oh wait, naming hit that bad? Well, if it's small,
1541
01:21:00.159 --> 01:21:03.960
hold on away, I'm going and I might have he
1542
01:21:04.079 --> 01:21:07.039
might have punched you something, but punch Somebody lied about
1543
01:21:07.079 --> 01:21:11.239
having body parts that they said they didn't have. But
1544
01:21:11.359 --> 01:21:12.520
mom ain't raised no bitch, so.
1545
01:21:15.960 --> 01:21:16.239
That bit.
1546
01:21:16.560 --> 01:21:20.319
It's been a while, but let's see what the shape.
1547
01:21:24.039 --> 01:21:29.520
I'm already send some down here. I'm adding stuff to
1548
01:21:29.560 --> 01:21:31.720
my choke and Struck playlist because I updated it in
1549
01:21:31.840 --> 01:21:34.600
about a year. One of my
favorite sexy songs the
1550
01:21:34.680 --> 01:21:35.680
Painties by Most Death.
1551
01:21:36.239 --> 01:21:36.720
Mm hmmm.
1552
01:21:37.720 --> 01:21:41.359
Have you heard that song? That's probably my favorite most
1553
01:21:41.399 --> 01:21:46.479
death song, favorite most dep song. All right, so what's next?
1554
01:21:46.479 --> 01:21:53.680
Shown the chad? I forgot what I was right, abble.
1555
01:21:55.000 --> 01:22:01.119
Mm hmm. Jesus Christ, I'm going back to sixth Brown Checks.
1556
01:22:01.159 --> 01:22:02.720
We need to park read to break this, Yes.
1557
01:22:02.560 --> 01:22:04.560
We do, because it's starting to get little sex, little
1558
01:22:04.560 --> 01:22:08.840
sexy sex, nasty, nasty.
1559
01:22:10.479 --> 01:22:13.880
I'm going back to six Brown Chicks. I cheated on
1560
01:22:13.960 --> 01:22:18.640
my husband during COVID lockdown. I apologized, I ended that relationship.
1561
01:22:18.920 --> 01:22:21.720
I've also done things suspice if our marriage, including bringing
1562
01:22:21.760 --> 01:22:23.439
a dominatrix home for his birthday.
1563
01:22:23.560 --> 01:22:24.600
WHOA Okay.
1564
01:22:24.960 --> 01:22:27.800
Our seventh anniversary is approaching, and I asked him what
1565
01:22:27.960 --> 01:22:31.439
we should do me, what do you fantasize about him?
1566
01:22:32.159 --> 01:22:36.359
Life without you? He served me divorce papers a month
1567
01:22:36.479 --> 01:22:41.079
before our anniversary. Our wedding vowels may mean may nothing,
1568
01:22:41.359 --> 01:22:44.239
but death divide us meant nothing to him. He's a
1569
01:22:44.359 --> 01:22:47.840
narcissistic monster, and he's divorcing me to embarrass me in
1570
01:22:47.920 --> 01:22:50.239
front of my friends and family. I don't know how
1571
01:22:50.279 --> 01:22:52.359
to heal our marriage. I'm willing to fight for him.
1572
01:22:52.680 --> 01:22:53.199
What to do.
1573
01:22:55.159 --> 01:22:56.560
You can do? Let him go?
1574
01:22:56.680 --> 01:22:58.760
Yeah, let him let him go. Baby.
1575
01:22:59.159 --> 01:23:01.520
One thing my mama always told me is you don't
1576
01:23:01.920 --> 01:23:04.079
work to keep nobody that don't want to be fucking kept,
1577
01:23:04.199 --> 01:23:06.399
and you don't mother wants to let your ass go.
1578
01:23:06.520 --> 01:23:08.399
And you don't let the motherfucker tell you more than
1579
01:23:08.439 --> 01:23:09.560
once they don't want you.
1580
01:23:10.479 --> 01:23:11.119
Let that man go.
1581
01:23:13.199 --> 01:23:15.600
Well, I feel like he only stayed with you because
1582
01:23:15.640 --> 01:23:20.600
he had no other options, and you bringing to dominate
1583
01:23:20.640 --> 01:23:23.840
your tone and all of the other stuff. He just
1584
01:23:24.079 --> 01:23:32.199
was riding it out and literally and now ms Mama's
1585
01:23:33.720 --> 01:23:35.600
you screwed. You worried about being in bursed in front
1586
01:23:35.600 --> 01:23:37.359
of your family and friends, with you emburrased when you
1587
01:23:37.520 --> 01:23:42.880
was out here cheating doing the panoramic some Yeah, I
1588
01:23:43.000 --> 01:23:48.119
mean like you you you was out here cheating during
1589
01:23:48.159 --> 01:23:49.800
the lockdown. You're supposed to be in the house, coudled
1590
01:23:49.840 --> 01:23:50.520
over with your husband.
1591
01:23:50.920 --> 01:23:52.479
Maybe she got tired of being coled up with that
1592
01:23:52.560 --> 01:23:53.600
niggas like nigga fuck you.
1593
01:23:54.279 --> 01:23:58.359
That's why I always say that people discovered during COVID
1594
01:23:58.439 --> 01:24:00.920
that they didn't like they spouse it. That's sure their
1595
01:24:01.119 --> 01:24:06.439
children the doll the road to be part of this ship. Yeah,
1596
01:24:06.920 --> 01:24:08.479
but now you want to work your maritonne. You don't
1597
01:24:08.479 --> 01:24:09.680
give a fuck. You want to think about working your
1598
01:24:09.680 --> 01:24:12.640
maritone when you was out here hunching. So get what
1599
01:24:12.760 --> 01:24:15.439
you got, baby, ain't no fun. When the rabbits got
1600
01:24:15.439 --> 01:24:19.760
the gun, who well, who well.
1601
01:24:21.439 --> 01:24:23.680
It is what it is, and what can you say?
1602
01:24:24.079 --> 01:24:27.640
Let that nigga go half fun? But my thing is
1603
01:24:27.720 --> 01:24:28.159
joe y'all.
1604
01:24:28.239 --> 01:24:32.079
Let them go and be and be okay with like
1605
01:24:32.239 --> 01:24:34.680
and be okay with the consequences, like you know whatever's
1606
01:24:34.720 --> 01:24:37.600
gonna happen after that, because what I heard was I
1607
01:24:37.640 --> 01:24:39.960
don't want to do it because you know he gonna
1608
01:24:40.079 --> 01:24:42.319
is gonna embarrass me and ship like that that you
1609
01:24:42.439 --> 01:24:45.119
get over that, Yeah, get over it, because if you keep,
1610
01:24:45.159 --> 01:24:47.439
if you keep letting that fear, you keep letting that
1611
01:24:47.520 --> 01:24:49.760
fear fuck with you, or like you don't keep letting
1612
01:24:49.760 --> 01:24:51.600
it fear get to you, you're not You're gonna stay
1613
01:24:51.640 --> 01:24:53.000
in some ship that you don't want to stay in,
1614
01:24:53.359 --> 01:24:54.960
that you don't want to I mean, that's not I'm sorry,
1615
01:24:55.039 --> 01:24:56.239
not that you don't want to stay in, but it's
1616
01:24:56.279 --> 01:25:00.279
not healthy for you because you just you just described.
1617
01:25:00.000 --> 01:25:02.960
Start on syndrome. Bitch. I really want to fight for him. No, no, no,
1618
01:25:03.079 --> 01:25:06.039
you don't, hey don't you just right? You just right?
1619
01:25:06.560 --> 01:25:08.960
Probably a good man, Savannah, but it's probably just a
1620
01:25:09.039 --> 01:25:13.119
fair of being alone. I get it, but I don't
1621
01:25:13.159 --> 01:25:15.479
get it that.
1622
01:25:16.239 --> 01:25:20.880
Mm hmmm, checond to last question. Okay, I'm check it
1623
01:25:20.920 --> 01:25:23.880
out with a bank. I've been the other woman in
1624
01:25:23.960 --> 01:25:27.760
every relationship I've ever had. I chose this. It's beneficial
1625
01:25:27.800 --> 01:25:31.159
to me. Honestly, I prefer receiving the excitement a cheating
1626
01:25:31.239 --> 01:25:34.880
man brings to my bed. But I'm also a woman's advocate.
1627
01:25:35.119 --> 01:25:39.279
How the work. I'm working hard to change the loss
1628
01:25:39.319 --> 01:25:42.159
so that side chicks can get financial benefits when they
1629
01:25:42.239 --> 01:25:46.560
have a baby or when their boyfriend benefactor dies. In March,
1630
01:25:46.840 --> 01:25:49.520
my boyfriend slash benefactor, and I were in a head
1631
01:25:49.720 --> 01:25:54.640
on collision with an uninsured drunk driver. I injured my back.
1632
01:25:54.760 --> 01:25:57.960
I was leaning over when the crash happened, leaning over house.
1633
01:25:58.039 --> 01:26:03.439
Since I wonder he sustained minor injuries, he never checked
1634
01:26:03.479 --> 01:26:05.600
on me. I was screaming in agony, and he literally
1635
01:26:05.680 --> 01:26:07.840
walked away from the crash site and phoned his wife
1636
01:26:07.880 --> 01:26:10.680
to tell her that he loves her and he's okay.
1637
01:26:11.039 --> 01:26:12.199
Just put it in your mind.
1638
01:26:12.319 --> 01:26:17.560
The drunk guy up now. She walked out looking like Shamal.
1639
01:26:18.840 --> 01:26:19.520
The drunk guy.
1640
01:26:25.359 --> 01:26:30.359
I was like, I can't ship. I take I take
1641
01:26:30.399 --> 01:26:31.159
this from that one.
1642
01:26:31.720 --> 01:26:32.119
I can't.
1643
01:26:32.399 --> 01:26:33.199
You should have said that.
1644
01:26:36.720 --> 01:26:41.399
Beat my ast. The drunk guy, the police and the
1645
01:26:41.479 --> 01:26:47.600
ambulance and my rehabilitation drove him away from me. I'm
1646
01:26:47.640 --> 01:26:50.439
in physical therapy and unable to date or secure funds
1647
01:26:50.479 --> 01:26:53.439
to leave. I know he loves me. I think he's
1648
01:26:53.479 --> 01:26:55.640
still in shock and I want him to step up
1649
01:26:55.680 --> 01:26:57.760
and care for me, but he won't do it. How
1650
01:26:57.840 --> 01:26:58.680
do I reach him?
1651
01:27:00.760 --> 01:27:02.720
You can't, you can't.
1652
01:27:02.800 --> 01:27:04.720
He knew he was already doing some ship he wasn't
1653
01:27:04.760 --> 01:27:07.640
supposed to be doing, and he got he got fucked up.
1654
01:27:07.880 --> 01:27:08.279
That was it.
1655
01:27:08.600 --> 01:27:10.680
He probably took that as a sign from God, like, bitch,
1656
01:27:10.680 --> 01:27:11.520
you need to stop.
1657
01:27:11.439 --> 01:27:13.359
A hit it on collision with a drunk driver. Do
1658
01:27:13.439 --> 01:27:15.000
you know how often people survived that?
1659
01:27:15.880 --> 01:27:19.319
Yeah you blessed nigga. He yeah, he done.
1660
01:27:19.680 --> 01:27:20.920
You should be lucky to be alive.
1661
01:27:21.039 -->
01:27:21.079
You.
1662
01:27:21.239 --> 01:27:22.680
If he taking it as a sign to do right
1663
01:27:22.720 --> 01:27:24.159
by his wife, you probably shoul take it as a
1664
01:27:24.199 --> 01:27:29.159
sign and to stop being a fucking fucking asparagus or
1665
01:27:29.239 --> 01:27:30.800
potato salad o cold.
1666
01:27:31.439 --> 01:27:33.039
Oh. I got it. I got it. I was like
1667
01:27:33.439 --> 01:27:39.560
what Yeah? I was like, I was like, what a
1668
01:27:39.640 --> 01:27:41.159
couple of seconds, A couple of seconds, A couple.
1669
01:27:41.039 --> 01:27:44.079
Of seconds, you almost lost your life.
1670
01:27:45.880 --> 01:27:48.880
I ain't gonna be able to do it. I'm sorry, No,
1671
01:27:49.079 --> 01:27:49.319
thank you.
1672
01:27:50.479 --> 01:27:52.239
Ms Mama's learn your lesson.
1673
01:27:52.399 --> 01:27:56.720
Yeah yeah, yeah, move on, it's over. It's over. He
1674
01:27:56.760 --> 01:27:58.159
went back, He went back home.
1675
01:27:58.319 --> 01:28:00.239
He went back home to where he really want to be.
1676
01:28:00.399 --> 01:28:03.720
Sugar, that's my as somebody in my circle.
1677
01:28:04.000 --> 01:28:06.640
You know, she don't listen to this anyway, but her boyfriend,
1678
01:28:06.680 --> 01:28:08.880
you know, he he passed and you know, once he
1679
01:28:09.000 --> 01:28:10.680
told her that he was, that he was on his
1680
01:28:10.800 --> 01:28:11.159
way out.
1681
01:28:11.479 --> 01:28:12.920
He stayed with his wife and he never.
1682
01:28:12.880 --> 01:28:16.840
Come back around, and she ain't. She found out after
1683
01:28:16.960 --> 01:28:18.960
He was like, you know, like months after he was gone.
1684
01:28:19.279 --> 01:28:25.239
But I'm dizzy, bitch. This is this is this, this
1685
01:28:25.319 --> 01:28:29.199
ship is uh, it's over between y'all, so just let
1686
01:28:29.279 --> 01:28:31.560
it go. Just let it go. He didn't already made
1687
01:28:31.800 --> 01:28:34.680
he made his He almost died. I mean, he could
1688
01:28:34.720 --> 01:28:38.760
have died with you, bitch, And he was like, that's
1689
01:28:38.840 --> 01:28:39.199
too much.
1690
01:28:39.720 --> 01:28:40.680
I'm gonna finish this on.
1691
01:28:41.000 --> 01:28:41.279
I know.
1692
01:28:41.800 --> 01:28:46.079
Miss Mama's sorry for you, bitch. Better go get a
1693
01:28:46.159 --> 01:28:47.439
job and the cost and where you can sit down
1694
01:28:47.520 --> 01:28:54.399
there Okay, final question. I'm gonna just stay where the
1695
01:28:54.439 --> 01:28:57.760
fuck I am going. Six brown chicks. We entered our
1696
01:28:57.840 --> 01:29:00.640
second year of dating, and whenever my birth they comes up,
1697
01:29:00.720 --> 01:29:03.880
he starts an argument to mess up my dad or
1698
01:29:03.960 --> 01:29:06.399
to avoid buying me a gift. I wanted to know
1699
01:29:06.479 --> 01:29:08.279
how to proceed with him, so I set him up.
1700
01:29:09.000 --> 01:29:10.840
I told him and posted that I was going out
1701
01:29:10.840 --> 01:29:14.399
of town for my birthday. An hour after I left,
1702
01:29:14.560 --> 01:29:17.439
I hid in an addict. He entered my house with
1703
01:29:17.520 --> 01:29:20.560
another woman. I heard everything. They had sex, and he
1704
01:29:20.640 --> 01:29:22.479
told her he was staying with me until he found
1705
01:29:22.520 --> 01:29:26.159
a better situation. He brought money from her and then
1706
01:29:26.239 --> 01:29:29.640
made her take it oober home. He didn't shower, and
1707
01:29:30.199 --> 01:29:33.039
then called another woman, telling her that his bitch is
1708
01:29:33.079 --> 01:29:36.000
out of town and to come through. This woman was
1709
01:29:36.520 --> 01:29:40.680
a neighbor. I was in shock. I felt hurt, stupid, angry,
1710
01:29:40.760 --> 01:29:43.720
and disgusted. I was packing his shit when he came
1711
01:29:43.800 --> 01:29:47.000
home with the female neighbor. They tried to fight me,
1712
01:29:47.199 --> 01:29:49.880
so I shot him in his arm and shoulder and
1713
01:29:50.000 --> 01:29:53.760
self defense. No charges. When he left the hospital, I
1714
01:29:53.880 --> 01:29:57.680
let him stay while he healed. He's timid now, even
1715
01:29:57.760 --> 01:29:58.560
jumpy around me.
1716
01:29:59.039 --> 01:30:00.199
It breaks my heart, the.
1717
01:30:03.000 --> 01:30:05.680
Manly version of him. But I know he's actively trying
1718
01:30:05.720 --> 01:30:07.840
to stay with my neighbor. I don't want to lose
1719
01:30:07.920 --> 01:30:09.840
him to her. How to convince him to stay with
1720
01:30:09.960 --> 01:30:12.520
me and that I won't shoot him again. I want
1721
01:30:12.640 --> 01:30:14.840
us to get past this because I believe God brought
1722
01:30:14.920 --> 01:30:18.359
us together for a reason. Advice, bitch, don't bring guarding
1723
01:30:18.399 --> 01:30:23.319
to that. Guard ain't nowhere near that, just like and.
1724
01:30:24.960 --> 01:30:25.600
Just like uh.
1725
01:30:27.399 --> 01:30:31.399
Denise said, or misspet show, gard ain't nowhere near that,
1726
01:30:31.600 --> 01:30:33.960
just like he ain't nowhere near Joe Hol's thing. Okay,
1727
01:30:35.479 --> 01:30:45.000
that's what she said. Let me say something not the
1728
01:30:45.039 --> 01:30:48.520
neighbor having bitch, I don't understand why Yucky fight for
1729
01:30:48.560 --> 01:30:52.239
motherfuckers who don't want y'all. He bought not one, but
1730
01:30:52.439 --> 01:30:54.720
two bitches in your house while you was gone, refer
1731
01:30:54.880 --> 01:30:57.840
to you as this bitch being out of town, told
1732
01:30:57.880 --> 01:31:00.079
the last bitch that he was only staying with you
1733
01:31:00.159 --> 01:31:02.119
until he get into a better situation. So they showed her.
1734
01:31:02.159 --> 01:31:04.840
He a fuck ass nigga right there, and you want
1735
01:31:04.880 --> 01:31:07.600
to fight for him, and you think Jesus brought him
1736
01:31:07.640 --> 01:31:11.159
to you, baby, He came from
the devil m kam.
1737
01:31:17.159 --> 01:31:22.800
The fuck. How many don't stand up, because I swear
1738
01:31:22.880 --> 01:31:24.199
we would have chefs to talk about with you. I
1739
01:31:24.199 --> 01:31:27.720
wouldn't keep these asked questions the primise always say yourself and.
1740
01:31:28.239 --> 01:31:30.520
Stay being the dumb ass bitch. We appreciate the entertainment
1741
01:31:30.800 --> 01:31:31.720
because the fuck.
1742
01:31:32.439 --> 01:31:33.560
Uh what.
1743
01:31:35.079 --> 01:31:36.000
It's on? Confusion?
1744
01:31:36.560 --> 01:31:37.520
You going to jail?
1745
01:31:38.800 --> 01:31:42.640
Mm hm South Defense and know it's a no she eventually,
1746
01:31:42.800 --> 01:31:44.439
or she's gonna go to jail, or that she's gonna
1747
01:31:44.439 --> 01:31:47.680
catch up because she obviously can't control her temper. But
1748
01:31:47.800 --> 01:31:50.560
then she also has abandoning issues, and then it's like, bro,
1749
01:31:51.479 --> 01:31:52.439
y'all make your mind.
1750
01:31:52.319 --> 01:31:54.800
Up, or you know, just take that L. Like to
1751
01:31:54.960 --> 01:31:57.479
take the l. You don't need them, you know. I mean,
1752
01:31:57.520 --> 01:32:00.079
I'm sorry you you don't. You don't want him. You
1753
01:32:00.239 --> 01:32:03.239
just like the idea of him, and you don't want
1754
01:32:03.319 --> 01:32:08.439
him to be with nobody else. Mm hmmm, open that open.
1755
01:32:08.279 --> 01:32:11.720
That cage, multiple bitches in your home. Your home is
1756
01:32:11.760 --> 01:32:15.960
supposed to be your sanctuary, and he has no respect
1757
01:32:16.000 --> 01:32:16.199
for you.
1758
01:32:16.640 --> 01:32:18.399
And I ain't trying to hear that dumb ship like
1759
01:32:18.640 --> 01:32:22.840
I invested. I invested so many years in them, Like
1760
01:32:23.039 --> 01:32:24.680
let that ship the fuck go, let him go.
1761
01:32:24.840 --> 01:32:26.800
He she is in a lot of ship. They don't
1762
01:32:26.840 --> 01:32:30.159
give it of no use. The motherfucker's investigators in a
1763
01:32:30.199 --> 01:32:34.880
degree they don't use. And you're ready about.
1764
01:32:34.680 --> 01:32:46.640
Him, Okay, Seana, on one today people got degrees and
1765
01:32:46.760 --> 01:32:49.399
even you shout out to chasing mellow.
1766
01:32:57.159 --> 01:32:58.239
No, miss Mama's take.
1767
01:32:58.319 --> 01:33:03.359
Cut your losses about fuck him like you shot him
1768
01:33:03.399 --> 01:33:03.880
in his arm.
1769
01:33:04.359 --> 01:33:05.000
And the shoulder.
1770
01:33:06.920 --> 01:33:09.159
You could have hit an article in that bitch, but
1771
01:33:09.800 --> 01:33:11.039
you know how.
1772
01:33:11.039 --> 01:33:13.560
You then what you can be crying over the casket.
1773
01:33:14.119 --> 01:33:15.880
Didn't want to let him come home with you while
1774
01:33:15.920 --> 01:33:19.079
he healed. Now send him to one of them bitches. Stuff.
1775
01:33:20.000 --> 01:33:21.319
At least one of them is as dumb as you
1776
01:33:21.399 --> 01:33:23.600
because he bought money from her and then sent her
1777
01:33:23.600 --> 01:33:26.359
home and over that she probably paid for. Funk out
1778
01:33:26.359 --> 01:33:31.359
of here. Earl girl, get some self esteem. Our haird
1779
01:33:31.399 --> 01:33:34.520
is on sale. G's some self esteem two for one.
1780
01:33:35.760 --> 01:33:37.840
It's at the same place that all dasty is. But
1781
01:33:37.960 --> 01:33:40.159
all Dasty is sold out right now because everybody keep
1782
01:33:40.199 --> 01:33:43.600
buying the ship, apparently because there's a lot of it
1783
01:33:43.720 --> 01:33:48.319
going around. Okay, true ship, Okay, that's all right.
1784
01:33:49.359 --> 01:33:50.159
That's the last question.
1785
01:33:50.399 --> 01:33:51.640
The last question. I am done.
1786
01:33:52.279 --> 01:33:55.479
That's the last question. That was the last one. He said,
1787
01:33:55.960 --> 01:34:00.560
she said she wanted to go out on north than me.
1788
01:34:01.000 --> 01:34:02.520
I mean, I mean I.
1789
01:34:02.720 --> 01:34:05.399
Thought it a number one in there for a little sure.
1790
01:34:05.520 --> 01:34:07.399
Since okay, y, let's make this next one the last one,
1791
01:34:07.439 --> 01:34:08.199
since you got one.
1792
01:34:08.199 --> 01:34:10.319
Queued up already, I got one queued up, and it's
1793
01:34:10.359 --> 01:34:12.439
on the right thread, not on the six brown halfless.
1794
01:34:12.560 --> 01:34:19.279
Okay, this may be slightly better. Possibly this is.
1795
01:34:19.279 --> 01:34:23.199
On the x men thread. But again, questions are universal.
1796
01:34:23.880 --> 01:34:25.960
What advice would you give to someone who found out
1797
01:34:26.000 --> 01:34:29.039
that their fiance used to make not safer work content
1798
01:34:30.079 --> 01:34:31.000
before they met them?
1799
01:34:34.159 --> 01:34:40.119
What you're sharing the link or kept all the time out? Look?
1800
01:34:40.319 --> 01:34:46.560
Say what, here's the thing right this nigga would be
1801
01:34:46.560 --> 01:34:51.560
coming down the steps right now? All right? Damn well,
1802
01:34:51.640 --> 01:34:53.199
since you come to that steption, I'm gonnay it anyway.
1803
01:34:54.479 --> 01:34:56.680
How long ago? How long ago was this?
1804
01:34:57.399 --> 01:34:58.079
That's a good question.
1805
01:34:58.359 --> 01:35:00.520
Now if this is something now, if we thirty six,
1806
01:35:00.640 --> 01:35:03.600
thirty seven years old, they were, and you did something
1807
01:35:03.600 --> 01:35:04.720
when you was eighteen, you was in.
1808
01:35:07.439 --> 01:35:08.359
Financial street.
1809
01:35:08.760 --> 01:35:10.560
No, I was gonna say the name of a company,
1810
01:35:11.439 --> 01:35:13.600
but you wouldn't want to see this, so don't don't
1811
01:35:13.640 --> 01:35:15.680
look it up. I'm telling you, really, you don't want
1812
01:35:15.680 --> 01:35:17.439
to see what I'm about to say. You was in
1813
01:35:17.520 --> 01:35:20.119
the coco doing laying and low and spreading and wide
1814
01:35:20.159 --> 01:35:20.880
on webcam.
1815
01:35:22.359 --> 01:35:30.319
Then get that, I mean took it back, take it back.
1816
01:35:30.479 --> 01:35:33.439
No, no neighbor number homos and they bumping and spit
1817
01:35:33.479 --> 01:35:36.199
inside each other. So you try to look for that
1818
01:35:39.680 --> 01:35:45.359
because you need some bread. Now, bang bus might be
1819
01:35:45.479 --> 01:35:58.199
more on your speed for you. I'm just I'm just saying, everybody,
1820
01:35:58.720 --> 01:36:03.239
your motherfucker. I'm sorry. We don't advocate foot there.
1821
01:36:04.359 --> 01:36:07.680
So my good cocoa butter.
1822
01:36:08.760 --> 01:36:19.680
Yeah, oh big assase.
1823
01:36:23.560 --> 01:36:25.000
The reality kings.
1824
01:36:27.119 --> 01:36:32.359
See later like Hunter.
1825
01:36:34.079 --> 01:36:35.159
That I never got.
1826
01:36:35.239 --> 01:36:38.399
I never got in the older older women, that's it's
1827
01:36:38.600 --> 01:36:39.279
really my thing.
1828
01:36:40.119 --> 01:36:43.520
I wanted to say, all look at my own they don't.
1829
01:36:44.359 --> 01:36:49.800
They don't bathroom upstairs, it's sairs. Oh man, I'm sorry,
1830
01:36:49.840 --> 01:36:50.399
I'm sorry.
1831
01:36:51.079 --> 01:36:52.119
I didn't to do that.
1832
01:36:53.920 --> 01:36:56.079
I really didn't. I was just talking and it just
1833
01:36:56.199 --> 01:36:56.840
really came out.
1834
01:36:57.359 --> 01:37:00.880
But like the brown wine from Brandon.
1835
01:37:01.399 --> 01:37:03.239
I had one glass of wine when we first started
1836
01:37:03.319 --> 01:37:09.079
recording son a couple hours ago, a couple seven you know,
1837
01:37:09.399 --> 01:37:14.159
whenever we started recording checked us out. I literally had
1838
01:37:14.199 --> 01:37:16.439
that ended in ginger. I had nothing sis but no
1839
01:37:16.760 --> 01:37:21.920
how long ago? Was it? What were you doing in
1840
01:37:22.000 --> 01:37:25.479
the content because you was fucking fucking cats dogs or
1841
01:37:25.479 --> 01:37:29.720
some ship didn't? No, no, no, but what how long ago?
1842
01:37:30.039 --> 01:37:30.600
What was it?
1843
01:37:31.119 --> 01:37:32.680
Is it still online so I could see it.
1844
01:37:34.640 --> 01:37:36.279
And research purposes?
1845
01:37:36.359 --> 01:37:38.039
Research purposes, you know, I want to see you know
1846
01:37:38.239 --> 01:37:39.520
what you was doing when you were younger, and if
1847
01:37:39.520 --> 01:37:41.520
you're still doing it with me, if we can incorporate
1848
01:37:41.600 --> 01:37:50.279
some stuff now, yeah, what else? And if do you
1849
01:37:50.399 --> 01:37:52.760
my partner, mean, we've already we already had the s
1850
01:37:52.840 --> 01:37:54.840
T I S T I H I V conversation, so
1851
01:37:55.920 --> 01:38:04.960
that's already been had. What else? What would you? I
1852
01:38:05.079 --> 01:38:07.520
also and hate I hate to be this person, but
1853
01:38:09.119 --> 01:38:17.159
I have to weigh me being in proximity to someone
1854
01:38:18.600 --> 01:38:21.880
unfortunately I hate. I have to say this with the
1855
01:38:22.039 --> 01:38:26.199
job I have, I have to weigh me being in
1856
01:38:26.319 --> 01:38:29.800
proximity to someone who did that at one point and
1857
01:38:29.960 --> 01:38:34.880
how that could affect me professionally, especially if you was
1858
01:38:34.960 --> 01:38:37.199
just doing it last year or you was blessing open
1859
01:38:37.279 --> 01:38:41.920
on only fans or just for friends last year. So yeah,
1860
01:38:42.399 --> 01:38:44.239
we can't have a questions. It might be okay. And
1861
01:38:44.319 --> 01:38:46.000
if it was like you know, some solo content you
1862
01:38:46.079 --> 01:38:47.840
did when you were eighteen or you thirty seven and
1863
01:38:47.960 --> 01:38:50.560
you you off making you know it was fully like
1864
01:38:50.640 --> 01:38:54.359
you had a like your face was never shown and whatever,
1865
01:38:54.479 --> 01:38:56.439
then coolest it was never linked to your name and
1866
01:38:56.840 --> 01:38:59.880
potentially fine, But there are some questions that may affect
1867
01:38:59.920 --> 01:39:01.880
me in my personal livelihood that I have to consider.
1868
01:39:02.359 --> 01:39:04.079
And it's not to say it's an automatic chop, but
1869
01:39:04.199 --> 01:39:05.920
it would be definitely be a conversation.
1870
01:39:06.479 --> 01:39:10.239
Conversation. I agree that conversation needs to be had. I
1871
01:39:10.359 --> 01:39:12.960
need to know what and who you were doing exactly
1872
01:39:13.079 --> 01:39:15.600
you were doing, who you were doing it with. Uh,
1873
01:39:15.760 --> 01:39:17.640
you ain't got name the names, but I need I
1874
01:39:17.760 --> 01:39:20.520
need to know. I need to know if animals were involved,
1875
01:39:20.520 --> 01:39:24.399
because ship, because baby, if you was, if you was
1876
01:39:25.399 --> 01:39:29.439
hunching on horses and dogs and choking chickens and ship,
1877
01:39:29.560 --> 01:39:34.359
I ain't doing it. I'm sorry. I ain't gonna judge you,
1878
01:39:34.399 --> 01:39:37.399
but I can't do it because the way my mind works,
1879
01:39:37.560 --> 01:39:38.920
it's gonna always be in the back of my mind,
1880
01:39:38.920 --> 01:39:40.760
and I don't like that, and I'm gonna be questioning
1881
01:39:40.800 --> 01:39:46.479
a lot of things. Somebody out there may be able
1882
01:39:46.560 --> 01:39:48.640
to handle you, and I wish you the best. I
1883
01:39:49.479 --> 01:39:54.039
don't know. That's just like women who dates strippers. I
1884
01:39:54.319 --> 01:39:58.960
couldn't see myself knowing it because every night women get
1885
01:39:59.000 --> 01:40:01.520
to see what I lay with every damn night, and
1886
01:40:01.560 --> 01:40:03.000
I don't want to hear that. Oh but I come
1887
01:40:03.039 --> 01:40:04.239
home and lay next to
you every night.
1888
01:40:05.359 --> 01:40:07.279
Know what if it was a difference between somebody who
1889
01:40:07.399 --> 01:40:09.640
was like a burlesque dancer where they stayed on the
1890
01:40:09.680 --> 01:40:11.680
stage and no one got no one interacted with them,
1891
01:40:11.840 --> 01:40:13.880
it was just like like like a go go dancer
1892
01:40:13.960 --> 01:40:15.279
for example, where he's in a cage.
1893
01:40:16.720 --> 01:40:18.079
Are they straight go go dancers?
1894
01:40:22.199 --> 01:40:23.760
I know it's women go go dances. I know this
1895
01:40:23.920 --> 01:40:25.560
is gate ones, but I guess it would be.
1896
01:40:26.479 --> 01:40:28.239
I don't know about any straight man. I don't know.
1897
01:40:28.920 --> 01:40:30.840
I'm not sure. But anyway, that was just a question.
1898
01:40:31.119 --> 01:40:34.840
I was just wondering. But yeah, I don't know, because
1899
01:40:34.880 --> 01:40:38.560
I being somebody who've been to some parties with strippers.
1900
01:40:38.640 --> 01:40:44.159
They they yeah, they you ain't gonna be coming home
1901
01:40:44.159 --> 01:40:46.119
with me if you had your face burdens bitch as
1902
01:40:46.239 --> 01:40:51.560
all night. I'm sorry, these strips nasty, nasty, whole face
1903
01:40:54.199 --> 01:41:00.520
his head okay mm hmm. So me for only the
1904
01:41:00.560 --> 01:41:02.680
advice I would give you is if this is something
1905
01:41:02.720 --> 01:41:06.079
you ask have the conversation. Ask the questions. Make sure
1906
01:41:06.119 --> 01:41:08.479
you ask all of the questions. Don't wait six months
1907
01:41:08.560 --> 01:41:10.079
later and be like you know why and by the way,
1908
01:41:10.880 --> 01:41:12.960
right don't know. If you say you want to accept
1909
01:41:13.000 --> 01:41:14.600
it and willing to move on in the relationship, do
1910
01:41:14.720 --> 01:41:16.239
not ever bring it up again. It does not need
1911
01:41:16.279 --> 01:41:17.000
to be discussed again.
1912
01:41:17.039 --> 01:41:19.680
You can bring it up the way of asking. You
1913
01:41:19.960 --> 01:41:23.000
can ask questions for clarification, not to come off like
1914
01:41:23.119 --> 01:41:25.399
your question in the person because you're insecure about the
1915
01:41:25.479 --> 01:41:28.680
decision you ultimately yeah, I can see that.
1916
01:41:30.840 --> 01:41:33.399
I just I don't know, you know, I just think
1917
01:41:33.520 --> 01:41:38.319
that I just think, like it really does, I mean,
1918
01:41:38.359 --> 01:41:39.720
it really does come down.
1919
01:41:39.600 --> 01:41:44.039
To what what are you? Like, what's your hard line
1920
01:41:44.680 --> 01:41:47.000
on everybody on this one? Like, yo, what is your
1921
01:41:47.039 --> 01:41:49.439
hard line? And like what like what you know?
1922
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Because like it goes up there with the same kind
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of conversation with if if a person doesn't want to
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have kids, like are you still like are you still
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willing to be with this person?
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Like yo?
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Just because they then did some ship like Briandon said, look,
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I just want to know what it was that you like,
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what it was that you were doing, so you know,
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like morally because I mean you know that, like because
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you was doing some bcality type ship. It's like, all right,
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see certain things that I'm just not into, like and
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I think I think like you know, and Sean a
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case of if he if he was doing you know,
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if he was if he was he was gay pay.
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Like people have things they are not what I'm saying.
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It was like, what the like, what's the such a thing?
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Sucking dick for money? Absolutely not sex. You're absolutely right.
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You have fifteen years damn.
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But you were still you were still eating snatches, just bro,
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so I'm good.
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Listen here I was if you you try, what if
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you suck, if you suck one dick, that'll make you gay?
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Ship sir.
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You were like, I'll be.
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No, thank you you mad. I could do it better
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than you you might. That's what it is like.
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Now you got all things you can be is my
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is my gay b ff? And teach me some tips.
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You already got one of them. Bitch you right, I
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am irreplaceable.
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You're right. I would never replace it. Good you guys,
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I would never try.
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Thank you and warmaning nothing but death nothing. Let's hope.
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That's another forty fifty seven from there.
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Yeah, because we got no a whole said seventy years.
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Like yeah, I said thirty week. That's coming sixty.
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From the time. Brandon gonna be in the front picking
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us all up from the retirement. We'll come out the
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door like what we're gonna do? God damn, that didn't
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do my hip out again.
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Hold on, prove my weik from ast dressing in my apartment.
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Not that one, the good one.
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It's just all funked up with the ponytail. Ain't this
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how the kids wearing their head now?
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They not this one? No, the good one to make
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the stallion probably commercial.
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Yeah, hot, it's me hot girl mag hmm. You know
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I used to drop it real love when I was
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back in my younger days, child, but now now my
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joints is.
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Aching, so I take that.
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You know, I need to stay regular so I can.
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She's the hot girl codes roke.
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Down body, YadA, YadA, YadA YadA, And I'm writing the
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living room like come on, man, yeah, big titties, little waist, Lord,
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you got anything?
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We done good? I'll be good.
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God damn, y.
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A graph go to that's way about the fans. Now,
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five years in the future, we all a hundred years
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old looking at each other like you, I'm your Niggas
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ain't dead yet.
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Ship ship, niggas, don't don't let me go for as
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show because niggasnna better bike listen, and we had we
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had a conversation, but somebody wanted to be a drama
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queen and died.
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Stinking bitch.
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Gonna leave me here this ghetto ass planet, by my god,
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damn soelf.
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Like wa, yuh yeah your grab mom? Yeah yeah, yeah yeah,
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grab them miss Yeah you know I grabbed them.
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Damn it. I know what I knew you, but I
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knew you.
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Saking with your stupid ass.
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Hey, j Lena, get your.
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Father with.
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Bring kids over. Ship that's funny. Yeah, y'all, she gonna
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come to your.
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He asked me to sing this song. Man, I'm ana
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sing this little a and b selection uh. If I
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don't do you nothing, I'm a ball. I'm talking all
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day like clock on the wall.
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Go get your money, no boy, thank you, Go and
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get your funny rain from a nigga like run.
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Do you realize?
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Do you realize?
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Like yo, our songs like oldie station, our songs that's
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that's considered old. It's going to be ratchet as fuck
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because it's a party.
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It's a party. It's a party. They're playing the oldest
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I used.
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To play for times like this, the rhyme like this,
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so I had to grid like that.
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The shot like this.
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Hold what I wrote that, y'all thought it was real?
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Oh bitch, get out.
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With that being said, we thank y'all so much for
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listen to this this week's episode of foolishness. If you
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have any feedback, commentary comments, if you want to answer
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any of today's questions, feel free to send us an
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email and ask one of the part at gmail dot com.
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That's ask k W A and.
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D A pot at what's on your stroke playlist?
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I just need to mind but I tell you about that.
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Yeah, even though I'm involuntarily celibate.
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change that for fifteen cents to day, YouTube can help
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To day, you can help crack her back.
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One eight hundred crack that back, but nuts one hundred
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bus nuts.
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With that being said, that might be interested.
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Venture Yo.
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Said dual commercial, Thank y'all, We love y'all, and we
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will be back next week with an autumn episode.
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My Mind, By.
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Bye bye Say it's already cutting off the Floppy City