رونوشت کامل Episode 17: The Transformative Power of Belief & Self Investment

WEBVTT 00:00:02.224 --> 00:00:04.929 Hello and welcome to Unlock your Happiness series. 00:00:04.929 --> 00:00:10.728 I'm Jenny Williams and I'm here to talk to you today about someone believing in you is all you need. 00:00:10.728 --> 00:00:17.282 So it's a real fitting topic to talk about. 00:00:17.282 --> 00:00:26.092 I think we all need someone to believe in us, but sometimes we don't allow that to happen. 00:00:26.092 --> 00:00:46.512 So someone believing in you really is all you need to be able to push forward, to be able to feel loved, to be able to grow, to be able to reassure yourself, to feel supported, to feel guided, to lean against. 00:00:46.713 --> 00:00:51.566 They do so many things and there's so many versions of people believing in you. 00:00:51.566 --> 00:01:01.948 So the classic ones obviously are your partners, so being loved and believed in by your partner Family. 00:01:01.948 --> 00:01:05.194 Obviously they believe in you and they kind of push you forward and stuff. 00:01:05.194 --> 00:01:14.313 But what I really mean is having someone by your side to work on you directly. 00:01:14.313 --> 00:01:25.171 So sometimes they come in guises as PTs, as nutritionists, as therapists, as counselors For me. 00:01:25.171 --> 00:01:37.942 I have had multiple coaches and mentors and you can call them what you want really life coaches, business coaches, consultants, human design people. 00:01:37.942 --> 00:02:01.393 I've had all sorts of support and guidance along the way and I think over time, as you evolve, obviously the coach and the mentor does change, but I truly believe that having someone believe in you really is all you need to be able to change the horizon for you. 00:02:01.393 --> 00:02:11.781 So a lot of people that run their own businesses would have coaches, or maybe running it on their own but think they can do it on their own, but don't have a coach just yet. 00:02:11.781 --> 00:02:24.526 Or there could be people in like senior roles, that who has been promoted to managers, that they're not been given any management training and is almost trying their best to work on a scenario that they've never kind of been in before. 00:02:24.526 --> 00:02:27.040 So we all need someone. 00:02:27.040 --> 00:02:38.293 No matter what we are doing, no matter where we are in life, no matter what our bank balance says, no matter what our relationship status is, we all need someone to believe in us. 00:02:38.293 --> 00:02:46.036 And my question for you really is who is that for you Like who? 00:02:46.036 --> 00:02:48.120 Who is that one that you kind of lean on? 00:02:48.159 --> 00:03:02.389 Now, a lot of the time we have friends that we we lean on to kind of share advice with, or to frustrations, or to kind of get a value of what's the word, not a valid opinion, but like a, a balanced opinion, I suppose, cause I know they've known you for years. 00:03:02.389 --> 00:03:03.903 They know what you're going through. 00:03:03.903 --> 00:03:11.943 They've been there through all the step of the way, but are they giving you truly the support that you need? 00:03:11.943 --> 00:03:15.269 Are they making you think differently? 00:03:15.269 --> 00:03:20.395 Are they making you move forward? 00:03:20.395 --> 00:03:25.325 And that's what a coach and a mentor does. 00:03:25.948 --> 00:03:29.562 They look at you holistically, or this is what I do, anyway. 00:03:29.562 --> 00:03:31.885 I would look at you holistically. 00:03:31.885 --> 00:03:40.054 Where are you in life, in work, in business, in relationships, in finance, in all sorts of things? 00:03:40.054 --> 00:03:48.724 Because it all amalgamates together and it all becomes a kind of ripple effect in the circle of life, and our icky guy as well. 00:03:48.724 --> 00:03:54.638 So are you having someone look at that for you? 00:03:54.638 --> 00:03:58.372 Are you having someone that's there when you're like you just need to let off steam? 00:03:58.372 --> 00:04:00.980 Who's got an unbiased opinion? 00:04:00.980 --> 00:04:02.204 That's what's really. 00:04:02.905 --> 00:04:23.036 My point is, if they're unbiased, they don't know your history, they don't know where you've come from, they don't know the stories of your life not just yet, anyway so they can really have a kind of have you thought about this? 00:04:23.036 --> 00:04:24.341 What about that? 00:04:24.341 --> 00:04:27.940 Are you sure that's the max that you can, you can offer? 00:04:27.940 --> 00:04:30.165 I want you to be able to do this. 00:04:30.165 --> 00:04:41.221 Show me that this looks good, try that, all of these kinds of questions a coach is going to ask you and it's going to make you feel uncomfortable. 00:04:41.221 --> 00:04:49.672 It's not easy having a coach, but then why would you have a coach if they're just going to sit with you and not let you grow or not help you to grow anyway? 00:04:49.672 --> 00:04:58.925 My coach at the moment gives me all sorts of conversations and I literally like squinch in my seat and be like, oh, why have I not thought about that? 00:04:58.925 --> 00:05:04.908 Or I know she's saying what I need to hear, but I don't really want to do it, all of that stuff. 00:05:04.908 --> 00:05:16.875 But why am I investing my money in her if she's not going to push me forward, if she's not going to give me the tough love that I need or if she's not going to give me a cuddle when I need it? 00:05:18.420 --> 00:05:23.889 Having someone believe in you to push you forward will be all you need to achieve success. 00:05:23.889 --> 00:05:29.059 Growth in you to push you forward will be all you need to achieve success. 00:05:29.059 --> 00:05:37.160 Growth, happiness, ultimately, and for you to be aligned in what you're doing, if it's your business, if it's your life. 00:05:37.160 --> 00:05:43.600 We need that person to do that for us, and it can be lonely, on our own. 00:05:43.600 --> 00:05:46.401 I've got a family. 00:05:46.401 --> 00:05:47.002 I've got a house full.