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Speaker: Welcome to the Christian
homemaking podcast, Simply Convivial.
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I'm Misty Winkler, homemaker,
homeschooling mom of five,
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grandma, and author of the
book Home Is For Hospitality.
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Convivial means living together with joy,
and that's the kind of home atmosphere
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that we want to create in our homes
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Especially if we are homeschooling.
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And so today I'm excited to welcome
back Lawrence Scott to the podcast.
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Lauren makes her home in the foothills
of the Arkansas Ozarks, where she and
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her husband Nathaniel are raising their
two teenage boys on the Scriptures,
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living books, the great outdoors and
lots of meaningful work experiences.
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Lauren writes about the Christian
life, books, and homeschooling
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at keptandkeeping.com,
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where she encourages Christian women
to rest in grace and labor in love.
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Lauren is also the secretary and founding
board member of Arkansas Homeschool
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Network, a new statewide homeschool
organization that aims to support, inform,
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and equip Christian families in their
pursuit of independent home education.
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Thank you so much for joining
me again today, Lauren.
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Speaker 2: Thanks, Missy.
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I'm glad to be here
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Speaker: I had kind of two motives for
having you on for this episode, and one
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is to talk about independent homeschooling
because I think it's such a critical issue
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right now, uh, politically and socially
that, uh, homeschool families not get
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entangled with taking government money.
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Uh, I think that's very important
for the home education movement
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and home education freedom.
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But then also, I think it's such a
great example of, um, finding your
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calling as kids get older, it's a stage
that is often not talked about, and
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I've seen more and more conversations.
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Maybe it's because I'm also in this
stage of graduating students, having
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teenagers, and wondering what's
next, or what should I do with this
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experience that I've accumulated?
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Is there, is it any good for anything?
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And so what you are doing right
now is such a good example of, uh,
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taking the experience that you've
had in homeschooling and using it in
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service of the communities and others.
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So I would just love to hear your
story of how you got into, um,
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independent homeschooling to the point
of starting a whole state organization.
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Speaker 2: Yeah.
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Well, I like to say that independent
homeschooling is what we've always done.
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That's what homeschooling has
always been in America since the
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birth of the modern homeschooling
movement in the '70s and '80s.
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But even back before that, before
the public schools took over,
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education was done independently.
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It was independently funded, and it was
independently sourced, and largely it
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was provided by parents in their homes,
um, and as they go about their days.
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And so my family has really been one of
those traditional homeschool families.
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I've always been a homemaker.
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Uh, we've always lived on one income,
uh, my husband working to provide for
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us, and we've always sought to keep
our homeschool expenses reasonable in
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full faith that what we are able to
provide with the means that God has
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provided will be sufficient, and it has.
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Our kids are excelling, um, they're
starting 11th and 9th grades this year.
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Speaker: Wow.
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They're
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Speaker 2: all high school.
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Um, and like the launch pad
is just getting way too, way
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too quick on the horizon.
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But, uh, it's been so exciting, and
it has ⦠I have wrestled with those
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same questions that you talked about.
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What do I do when this is over?
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I mean, I will cry.
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I will definitely cry.
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Um, but I- I've already been pouring
so much into, uh, my local community.
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As my kids have gotten older, um, they're
independent in, in their schoolwork.
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I'm overseeing it, I'm checking in, um,
I'm honestly able to pa- focus a little
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bit more on my homemaking these days.
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But, um, it's a beautiful
thing to see them grow and
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mature and be ready for launch.
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Um, but it did feel like there was this
kind of
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gap on the horizon, and I really
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was not sitting there thinking, I know,
I will become a homeschool advocate.
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Let me, let me enter that arena.
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No.
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Um, I like to say actually that
for about the first 10 or more
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years of our homeschool journey,
I really had my head mostly in the
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sand, and I was very content there.
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Mm.
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Um, if I'm knowledgeable of
what's going on in political
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arenas, I will have an opinion.
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And so the safest thing was just to
ignore most of that, keep my head
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down, and just try to do a faithful
good job in raising my children.
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And I think that was the
right thing for that season.
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But where I am now, um, and really
it was in 2023 when the LEARNS Act
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passed in Arkansas that established the
Education Freedom Account program that
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homeschoolers weren't really asking for.
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We weren't even sure we would be included,
and so I was kind of watching this with
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a wary eye because I didn't think that
would be good for private schools either.
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Um, but when it opened up to
homeschoolers, it was really clear that
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we would be included in the program.
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A friend of mine tapped me and
said, "Okay, I know you're kind
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of not enthralled with this.
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Can you research this?"
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Um, and so I like to say, look, the
Lord really just dropped this in my lap.
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Um, it was a first s- step was
to serve my local community.
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Can you speak a cautionary word on this
so that we get to hear both sides of the
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issue and families can actually consider-
consider well what to do about this thing
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that's coming, coming available to them.
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Um, and so I, as I started my
research, then it got personal 'cause
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my family got hit with a price hike
immediately because of the assumption
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that we had thousands upon thousands
of extra dollars just for education.
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Mm-hmm.
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Um, and so that, that just threw me
into researching this even further.
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If it's happening to me,
um, then it's going to be
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happening to other people, too.
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Um, and that the mama bear
came out a little bit there.
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But we've beenâ¦
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Let's see.
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Get back on track here.
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So as I presented this information
to my local community, it really did
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change some, some hearts and minds.
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It opened people's eyes to at least
think that there's some things to
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consider here when the government's
dangling money on a string, itâ¦
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or carrot on a string, it is
not necessarily a good thing.
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It's not necessarily a good thing.
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Um, and so I got to share that
message with a lot more people, uh,
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through this Valle sisters podcast.
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It was an awesome opportunity to
get that out further, and I've so-
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had so many people tell me that
that has deeply impacted them.
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Um, but I was still in the position
of not having a single conservative
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organization in my state that shared
my views and concerns about- Mm
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the fact that state funding
comes with accountability.
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It's taxpayer money.
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There will be strings attached.
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And so feeling like I was alone in
this, there was no organization that
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would be a voice for independent
conservative homeschoolers.
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Um, and so began to prayerfully
consider, well, who could be that voice?
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And the Lord was moving
in me, but not just in me.
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There were two other ladies in my state
who'd been talking for an extra year
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before I even got, got on this path.
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Um, and then in the end of 2025, beginning
of '26, we, we kind of found each other.
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The Lord provided for us to find
out what the others were up to.
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We met, um, and have been
working out plans ever since.
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And we've added another lady
to our team, and I'm thrilled.
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Honestly, these other ladies have more
homeschool experience, more nonprofit or
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business management experience than I do.
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And so I couldn't be more thrilled that
the Lord has just assembled some really
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fantastic ladies that I honestly get to
learn a lot from, um, in this process.
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But we've established the Arkansas
Homeschool Network to now be a principled
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homeschool organization, um, looking
out particularly for independent
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homeschoolers, making sure that our
voices are heard in Little Rock.
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But more than anything, to provide a place
for us to be, be able to connect, to help
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educate homeschool parents, um, not just
on the politics of things, but just on how
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to homeschool well to the glory of God.
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And so some of our key principles, um,
we operate from a biblical worldview.
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We believe in parental authority,
that God gives children to parents.
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And so they are the ones responsible,
uh, to provide that education
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in every sense of the word.
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Even if we outsource parts of it, which
we all do probably at some point, um,
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we are still the ones who are directing
and providing and sourcing all of that,
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um, and really are in charge of the
discipleship of our children before God.
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Uh, and then from that flows this
idea of educational independence,
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that it is right for the family
to be making these decisions.
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It is right for the family to be
providing this for our children- And
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it is not the calling of God for the
government to step in and take away
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that, that responsibility at any point.
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At any point So, let's see.
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I think that pretty much covers Oh, yeah.
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Speaker: All right.
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Speaker 2: Uh, b- so August has been busy.
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We've been, I've been spinning up the
school year, and we've also launched
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the organization at the same time.
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Speaker: That's super busy.
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Speaker 2: Yes.
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Speaker: Well, it's, it's so good toâ¦
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I love that you called it a principled
homeschool organization, because I
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think that really s- so many, um,
aren't, are not even sure what that
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means or what the difference would be
between one that's principled or not.
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And anymore, we hardly realize what
it means to act on principle, because
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a principle would be educating
my children is my responsibility.
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And so having other people pay
for my children's education
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contradicts that principle.
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But so often, our default, especially
default on American, modern American
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assumption, is if there's something
in it for me, how could it be bad?
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Or if it works, it's fine, which is,
you know, just a utilitarian principle,
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which is contradictory to scripture.
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We, we don't want to be behaving
like utilitarians, that as
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long as it works, it's okay.
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We want to be having biblical
principles and then reasoning
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out from those principles.
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Speaker 2: Absolutely.
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Speaker: What have you seen in your
work, and I know you've done, you
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know, you've had other podcast episodes
with Scully Sisters and others, um,
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and then many conversations with
people in your state and other states.
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What would you say is the biggest
struggle people have as they try to f-
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navigate that, to figure out what, what's
really at issue with government funding?
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Speaker 2: I think that the biggest
knee-jerk reaction, the one I see
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most often, is that either it's our
tax dollars that we're getting back
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or it's our child's money, because in
theory it was like it would be going
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to them if they were in public school,
so why can't we get at that ourselves?
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So both of those boil down to I have a
claim on something from the government.
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I'm entitled to this.
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And if we look atâ¦
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Generally conservatives, if they look at
the kinds of welfare programs on the other
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side of the line, "Oh, that n- that's an
entitlement mentality and that's bad."
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Um, it's like we don't catch ourselves
when we're doing the same thing.
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Um, so I mean, I've heard all those same
arguments, like, "Well, you're privileged.
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You're this, you're that."
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Like, it'sâ¦
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Are, are you hearing yourself?
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You sound like the other side.
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What's happening?
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But, um, it's this idea of entitlement
and it's like I'm enti- Doing the
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math, most of us are actually getting
back way more money from, uh, the
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state to educate our children if
we take it than we pay in taxes.
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That's not true in every single case.
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Of course, if you're paying in
that much in taxes, you probably
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don't need the kickbacks, but-
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Speaker: Mm-hmm.
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Right.
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Well, yeah, you'reâ¦
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B- So you're not getting your money back.
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That's-
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Speaker 2: Right.
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So what we're saying is that we are
entitled to forcing, violently forcing,
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if you actually play this all out, if
someone refused, they would show up and
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forcibly arrest the person for not paying
their taxes or seize their property.
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It is a forceful taking of property
from someone else and saying that that
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should be funding my child's Christian
education, and that person might not
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believe at all the same things I believe.
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And it does actually
flip around in reverse.
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There will be people taking this,
these funds that are not Christians.
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It, it's not like we're
the only ones that benefit.
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And so I just think that there's
a lot of the actual workings out
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of these sorts of programs that
people haven't really thought about.
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So that's just like the knee-jerk reaction
is like, "It's my money to begin with.
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It's my tax dollars," or, um,
"We're entitled to this for
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some reason," and, and people
have to kinda work through that.
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Um, but you also said, like,
without realizing theâ¦
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How did you put it?
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The, um, the dangers.
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Speaker: Mm-hmm.
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Speaker 2: Right?
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'Cause that's the other side of it.
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Um, and we could get into that.
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I did kinda want to say, like, what-
As far as a definition, independence,
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I might want to clarify something
there- Yeah ⦠before I go on.
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And that is that when we talk
about independent education,
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it's not independence as its own
virtue, as though we go it alone.
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Um, that is not actually the point.
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We are independent from state interference
or, or any other authority that has
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no business being involved in our
child's discipleship and education.
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And what we are dependent on is
the Lord to provide and to provide
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wisdom, and for his word to actually
guide our decisions and curriculum
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and everything, um, in life.
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And so we are also interdependent with-
in our fellowship with other believers,
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and this is the way all homeschoolers
have done it forever, is banding
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together, creating co-ops, um, and
creating other kinds of opportunities
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where we share knowledge and share
experiences that benefit our families.
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So we are not totally independent, um,
but we have to establish that there's
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some clear boundaries of where God
gives jurisdiction to families, and
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others should not encroach upon that.
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That's what we're really getting
at when we talk about educational
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homeschool independence.
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So
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I guess so, so some of the p- pitfalls
of taking the money, and so why, why
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should we maintain this independence?
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And not just, like, take the money, but
just try to say, "But leave us alone."
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It's really not a sustainable position.
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They will win eventually.
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They have a right to say
what happens to state funds.
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Yes.
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You w- you can't win that.
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Um, but I honestly think, like,
you can have strings attached, and,
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and the strings and the regulations
have tightened every year since our
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EFA program has been in existence.
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Every single year the rules tighten.
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It's kind of like, and
who was surprised by this?
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You shouldn't have been surprised by this.
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Um, it's completely predictable.
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But I think something that isâ¦
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that people probably miss in this
discussion that I think is so much more
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critical to us as Christian parents is
actually the idea of formation, that
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how we fund our highest priorities is
incredibly instructive to our kids.
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It is.
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Because are we conveying to our
children that we depend on the
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government to provide, not just our
basic needs, but our every desire?
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Because when you're talking about the
amount of money that's getting thrown into
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homeschooling now, it does not meanâ¦
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It, it's like 10 times more than
what you need to actually homeschool.
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Um, and so we're, we're going
to be passing on that kind of
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entitlement mentality if we have it.
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Um, we are teaching our kids that the
source of our needs is the state, that
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we are perfectly okay with whatever
hoops they ask us to jump through as
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long as we keep getting the money.
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That's compromise.
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It is.
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Um, and so our kids actually learn
from the environment that we create,
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and that environment is made up
of the decisions that we make.
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Um, I'm s- also, and I'm really sad
to report this, but it is having
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an impact on homeschool communities
already in the state of Arkansas.
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Um, I've heard directly from distraught
young homeschool moms telling me that the
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community that they're a part of, much of
the talking shop among the moms involves,
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"How are you spending your funds?
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Did you find something else
to use up this last $1,000?
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Um, how did you convince them
to pay for these bookshelves?
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They told me no."
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And it's likeâ¦
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Uh, and I won't even get
into the, the obvious fraud.
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No, I've heard stories.
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But, uh, but there's all these ways
of f- of trying to say, how do you
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justify your purchases to the state?
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Um, and if it's just a basic educational
expense, well, now you're justifying
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all of your educational choices, and
that puts you in a completely opposite
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position to the state than what is right.
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But, but back to the impact
on the community, um-
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Basically, moms talking shop is
turning into moms gaming, talking
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about how they can game the system.
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And that is so not the same as how did you
coach your child through long division?
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How do you ma- balance, you know,
preparing a meal for dinner when
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they, there's, there's still
school on the table at 5:00?
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Um, these are very, very
different kinds of conversation.
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Um, and this is forming the culture
of the homeschool community.
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These things are not of the same
quality, and I think we need to remember
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scripture's warning that the love of
money is the root of all kinds of evil.
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And so our children are gonna
be absorbing these things.
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Um, and as we kind of noted, like-
More and more young people are
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looking
favorably at socialism.
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And I think the obvious reason for
that is having grown up in a public
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school system, which I did, but growing
up in that public school system,
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today it is even further socialized
than it was when I was in school.
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They're providing more and more of
your basic healthcare, counseling,
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even food, and even supplies.
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Um, they've made a lot of these
things universally provided, so
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it's not even income-based anymore.
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It's just like we provide everything.
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And when you are trained in this, it
doesn't really matter what mom and dad
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say, if the form of your life is that
every single day I'm dependent on the
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state for a variety of basics, like
you are being raised in socialism.
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You just are.
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And so when we take state funds for our
homeschooling, we're actually inviting
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the same mechanism into our homes,
and that also teaches our children.
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Um, so we've mentioned there could be
strings attached, and there already are.
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You have to take a state-mandated
test, um, or you have to take a, uh,
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norm-reference test in the state of
Arkansas when you receive the funding.
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Right now they're very generous, but
there's very loud, um, vocal calls for
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homeschoolers to take the exact same
tests that they're, they're taking
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in the public schools, and I, I think
that is pretty nearly on the horizon.
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Like, that'll be pushed for this
sem- this legislative session.
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Um, and I, as I've said, there's
been price, um, hikes and things
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that are impacting all of us who
don't take the money, and that puts
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more pressure on us to, to join in.
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So, um-
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Speaker: Yeah, you put more
money into the local community
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and then the prices will go up.
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It'sâ¦
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That is, it's basic economics.
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And, you know, you have things like piano
lessons and dance classes, and these
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things that a lot of the money goes to.
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And so you're going to be much more
free, you- you're gonna be much more free
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spending money that's not yours, right?
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Just free money.
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And so if the piano teacher doubles their
prices, if you're taking government money,
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it doesn't really matter to you 'cause
it's not affecting your home budget.
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But for everyone who's not taking the
government money, it just puts that
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right outside their reach, and then
they become more and more tempted t- for
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that money because they're being priced
out of resources that they otherwise
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could have, um, participated in.
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Speaker 2: Yeah.
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And that being priced out
is- isn't just hypothetical.
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Yeah.
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It's happening to my friends.
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Speaker: Yeah.
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Speaker 2: It's re- it's real.
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It's here.
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Yeah.
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And the other, the other
thought is just that separation.
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Um, private schools that take the
funds are no longer truly private.
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Um, though I think that they actually
maintain a little more privacy
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than homeschoolers do, just because
of the nature of homeschoolers
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having to get every single purchase
approved, um, entered on ClassWallet
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or else submitted through, like, a
reimbursement, sending in an invoice.
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The state has a record of every single
purchase that a homeschool family
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makes, whereas the private schools
actually get away with managing their
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own budgets a little bit more in-house.
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So homeschoolers are actually giving up a
considerable amount of their own privacy
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when they sign up for state funding.
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Speaker: So then what kind of work
do you do with the organization?
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What, what is that being set up
to, to, to do and accomplish?
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Speaker 2: Yeah, so I'm the
secretary, and I'm learning a lot
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about filling that role in itself.
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Um, but we are gearing up for our
first capital day early, um, 2027.
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Uh, we are gonna haveâ¦
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We've got a welcome packet that
we're gonna send to members.
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We've got a monthly
newsletter, email newsletter.
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Um, and we'll have Arkansas Homeschool
Network's website is arhsn.org.
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So if anybody out there listening is
in Arkansas, you can go to our website,
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scroll down to where it says be the
first to know, and join our mailing
list.
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We'd love, love to have the
opportunity to connect with you.
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Uh, we plan on actually doing
some workshops and things to help
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equip, uh, homeschool families, um,
providing opportunities for just
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getting together and, and doing,
um, some fun things together,
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building networks across the state.
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And I think that's one of the things that
we, we really sorely need at this point,
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is that only about 50%, somewhere around
50%, um, of homeschoolers in the state of
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Arkansas participate in the EFA program.
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That means we still have half of us
that do not, and they currently don't
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have a central hub for organizing,
for communicating with each other.
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So a huge part of what we will be doing
is providing that opportunity, um,
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for real encouragement because some of
the young, especially the young moms,
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they've not been at this long enough.
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I've got most of my friends, we're
like, "We don't need the state funds.
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We don't want that."
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Um, I've got a strong community around me,
but so many of these new to homeschooling
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moms, everyone around them is taking the
money, and it's, it feels very isolating.
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Um, especially, um, for one that I
know who, um, one year their co-op
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was $40, and the next it was 400.
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Speaker: Wow.
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Speaker 2: She just lost her friend group
because they, they went on without her.
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So, um- Wow ⦠that's really happening.
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So we wanna be able to provide support
for families in that situation,
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and also be able to point them to
free resources that are out there.
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And, and because we know that
it's actually going to be even
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more challenging to maintain this
principled position of funding your own
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children's education because the state
is making it harder by interfering.
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Speaker: Mm-hmm.
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Speaker 2: Gonna provide
all the help that we can.
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Speaker: Well, thank you so much.
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I hope that this was helpful to inspire
more people to look into government
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funding in whatever form it's happening.
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I know it's happening in
most, if not all states.
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You might know more.
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Speaker 2: It has passed.
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Many of the red states have passed,
um, funding programs, but the one big
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beautiful bill has passed a national
program that the governor may opt into.
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And so that can actually bypass the
legislature to where the National
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School Choice Program can be accessed
by, um- Students in states that do not
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already have an EFA or ESA program.
00:24:07.145 --> 00:24:08.475
So it's concerning.
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It's sweeping the nation really quickly.
00:24:09.735 --> 00:24:12.005
Honestly, I knew it was gonna go
to the national level, but it's
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happened a lot faster than I thought.
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Speaker: Wow.
00:24:14.775 --> 00:24:15.135
Yes.
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So I hope people have maybe some new
reasons they thought of to think through
00:24:20.245 --> 00:24:26.845
this more deeply and, you know, think
with more long-term consequences, not
00:24:26.845 --> 00:24:33.306
just, "Oh, more money would be nice" , but
what are the consequences of that money.
00:24:33.756 --> 00:24:38.405
And then also, just to be inspired
about the possibilities that, you
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know, just to keep your eyes open for
those doors that God might open wh-
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when you're in that season of, you
know, teenagers or graduating students.
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There are needs and opportunities
in every community and every state.
00:24:54.925 --> 00:24:59.345
And whether it's something similar
to the Arkansas Homeschool Network
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or a co-op or, you know, a- so many
things that we can do to be active
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in serving in our communities.
00:25:08.765 --> 00:25:10.865
So thank you so much for
joining me today, Lauren.
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Speaker 2: Thanks.
00:25:11.855 --> 00:25:12.645
Glad to be here, Misty.
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Speaker: And all those links to,
um, the network's website and to
00:25:18.135 --> 00:25:22.035
Lauren's blog and all those things
will be in the episode notes.
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All right.
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Thank you.
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Speaker 2: Thank you.