Enough Is Enough: Online Madness, Politics & Boundaries: täielik transkriptsioon

talk about this at work i talk about this with, 00:05:03.040 --> 00:05:06.040 you know a lot of people Life's hard right now. 00:05:06.539 --> 00:05:10.210 Things are very expensive. Hell yeah. Life's just difficult. 00:05:10.210 --> 00:05:14.091 I feel like we've been in survival mode. It's like we came off of COVID. For sure. 00:05:14.863 --> 00:05:16.669 That messed us all up. Mm-hmm. 00:05:17.516 --> 00:05:22.479 And we're not the same that we were before COVID. That life is... 00:05:24.081 --> 00:05:26.467 God, thank God we got to experience it. That's all I can say. 00:05:27.919 --> 00:05:30.461 But it's like, price of food's expensive. 00:05:30.461 --> 00:05:34.211 Cost of living's expensive. Everything, gas, everything. Everything's expensive. 00:05:34.211 --> 00:05:38.949 That weighs on you. And then I was thinking about, you know, 00:05:39.106 --> 00:05:43.181 the commute into work, working 40 hours. Holy shit. 00:05:43.808 --> 00:05:47.541 This weighs on you after a while. And we definitely have to do it because both 00:05:47.541 --> 00:05:49.471 of us have commutes. Right. 00:05:50.356 --> 00:05:53.671 So for all of you out there, if you're listening on your way home from work 00:05:53.671 --> 00:05:58.021 or you're grinding and you're tired and you're fucking wondering if this is 00:05:58.021 --> 00:06:01.991 ever going to change, God, I hope so because we're with you. A hundred percent. 00:06:03.120 --> 00:06:10.451 And I think that's why we also have to extend people grace to especially not 00:06:10.451 --> 00:06:12.627 knowing what they're going through. 00:06:12.947 --> 00:06:21.281 So there's somebody new that I like through my profession ended up like meeting 00:06:21.281 --> 00:06:23.391 but not really meeting like we'll get into that yeah, 00:06:24.013 --> 00:06:28.791 and without saying too much they had shared some stuff and I was like like not 00:06:29.131 --> 00:06:33.601 not too too personal like not into like too much details but like obviously 00:06:33.601 --> 00:06:38.438 I could read between the lines and they were sharing that like 2026 for them, 00:06:39.036 --> 00:06:42.391 has been like really rough and they were going through a lot of changes and 00:06:42.710 --> 00:06:45.391 you know as they're telling me this stuff I kind of giggled a little bit because 00:06:45.391 --> 00:06:50.291 I was like listen like same z's like I got you you know I get I didn't say it 00:06:50.291 --> 00:06:53.554 because I didn't want to make it about me but I was thinking it and um, 00:06:54.200 --> 00:06:58.661 it was just crazy because you know I was just like wow you just really really 00:06:58.661 --> 00:07:01.509 never know like people that, 00:07:02.078 --> 00:07:05.871 you would think are like damn like okay that person's like dope they like they 00:07:05.871 --> 00:07:09.601 got everything together like oh this is really cool but you don't know behind 00:07:09.601 --> 00:07:13.972 all of that like got it together what people

really have going on, 00:07:14.871 --> 00:07:19.585 in different, like, in different areas or whatever, you know? 00:07:19.933 --> 00:07:24.832 So, yeah, I say we all can extend each other a little bit of grace. 00:07:25.088 --> 00:07:27.904 But the one thing I will also say is the world is freaking, like, 00:07:27.904 --> 00:07:29.224 I feel like people have gone mad. 00:07:30.284 --> 00:07:34.480 Like, the world has gone mad. Everybody's, like, out to get each other. 00:07:35.099 --> 00:07:38.732 Like, it's just, it is so, it is completely mad. 00:07:39.075 --> 00:07:43.957 And I am so grateful. Can we just say this? Like we try not to bring politics 00:07:44.253 --> 00:07:49.124 onto the podcast. Like, you know, we try not to, but there are some situations 00:07:49.124 --> 00:07:52.206 where we may make, you know, slight exception or whatever the case is. 00:07:52.531 --> 00:08:00.204 But I am so happy that election season is over. And that's a wrap, folks. Thank you. 00:08:00.824 --> 00:08:05.444 Take the signs off the lawn. Stop the political campaign. We're done. 00:08:06.384 --> 00:08:11.083 We're done. Let's be done. Because people have gone mad. Like, 00:08:11.251 --> 00:08:14.775 I even catch myself, like, you know, when it comes to social media or whatever, 00:08:15.309 --> 00:08:18.902 where something could be posted and then, like, I'll like it or agree with it. 00:08:19.552 --> 00:08:23.325 And I'm like, why am I even, like, engaging in this? Like, why am I even getting mad? 00:08:23.534 --> 00:08:25.601 And then I have to take a step back and just be like, you know what? 00:08:25.787 --> 00:08:30.193 Let's turn off the phone. Let's walk away. Like, it's not even worth even, 00:08:31.000 --> 00:08:32.272 it's not even worth it, you know? 00:08:32.573 --> 00:08:35.284 I don't know, guys. So, redirect focus, I guess. 00:08:35.853 --> 00:08:41.364 Glad you said that. Yeah. Bringing this up on this podcast, I'm probably not 00:08:41.364 --> 00:08:45.675 even going to clip this in the social media because I don't feel comfortable anymore, 00:08:46.349 --> 00:08:51.492 which is crazy to me that I don't even feel comfortable on our own Facebook page. 00:08:52.148 --> 00:09:01.364 And the comments that some of y'all went for, me specifically, talking about 70H. 00:09:03.040 --> 00:09:10.344 Oh, yeah. Y'all doing too much. That was crazy. Listen, so I. 00:09:12.490 --> 00:09:14.884 When you were telling me about that, when you were telling me about that, 00:09:15.711 --> 00:09:18.828 I'm just going to say it. I hope she does clip this part. I hope she does. 00:09:18.828 --> 00:09:20.872 I hope she does clip this for social media. 00:09:21.969 --> 00:09:25.498 I totally understand where you're coming from because people are just wild. 00:09:25.498 --> 00:09:27.031 They get very brazen online. 00:09:27.542 --> 00:09:33.139 Very brazen. But what I don't appreciate is the fact that y'all came to my girl 00:09:33.399 --> 00:09:39.731 when she was

just simply doing research. You could agree to disagree and keep on MFing scrolling. 00:09:40.242 --> 00:09:42.663 But I'm telling y'all right now, keep doing it. 00:09:43.373 --> 00:09:46.738 I'm not going to keep my mouth shut for that much longer. Respectfully, 00:09:46.738 --> 00:09:50.948 I'm trying to maintain professionalism because we love our podcast and are trying 00:09:50.948 --> 00:09:55.748 to extend love and peace to everybody, but I don't have a lot of patience for people's BS. 00:09:55.748 --> 00:09:57.998 I don't appreciate y'all coming for my girl. I'm just saying. 00:09:57.998 --> 00:09:59.804 I do not appreciate that whatsoever. 00:10:00.292 --> 00:10:02.655 I just want to say that. Sorry. I just... 00:10:04.779 --> 00:10:10.980 Sometimes I comment and I know that they're not even going to either look at it or... 00:10:11.340 --> 00:10:14.590 But you're so respectful about it. Like, why do you have to be so hostile? 00:10:15.160 --> 00:10:17.898 But it's like, you come for somebody's weight? Are you kidding me? 00:10:18.241 --> 00:10:19.146 Wait, they came for your weight? 00:10:19.361 --> 00:10:22.510 They came for my... So it's about your weight? Yes, girl. Like, they were at... 00:10:22.660 --> 00:10:26.520 You know, that's little D energy for you mofos. Little D energy. 00:10:26.520 --> 00:10:28.869 Little D energy when you come for a female's weight. 00:10:28.997 --> 00:10:31.191 Ugh. Go ahead. Sorry. Ew. 00:10:31.638 --> 00:10:37.430 Ew. But like, here's where, then here's where even in politics where we get it all wrong. 00:10:37.430 --> 00:10:40.860 It's like, if we could just have dialogue with one another where we weren't 00:10:40.860 --> 00:10:48.060 degrading somebody just because we disagreed, right, then we could maybe have a conversation. 00:10:48.332 --> 00:10:52.690 Now, for those of you who, there was actually a small percentage of you that 00:10:52.690 --> 00:10:55.716 tried to educate me, and you brought up very good points. 00:10:56.366 --> 00:11:00.314 One of the points brought up was, well, if you're talking about 7-OH, 00:11:00.453 --> 00:11:04.920 this drug that you can get in gas stations, though it's getting federally banned 00:11:04.920 --> 00:11:08.992 anyway, but there's other stuff on the market, you should know what you're taking. 00:11:09.684 --> 00:11:14.690 Don't get that quick good time because it could take you right into an addiction. 00:11:14.690 --> 00:11:17.631 That's just a fact. Right. And I don't regress on that. 00:11:18.026 --> 00:11:23.563 Now, the thing was, a lot of people mention, well, why don't you talk about alcohol? 00:11:23.888 --> 00:11:29.223 Hey, I'm willing to tell you right now that some of my worst mistakes I've ever made included alcohol. 00:11:29.989 --> 00:11:32.900 Okay, so I can already tell you. 00:11:32.900 --> 00:11:38.250 You've also been somebody who from the get-go has also said that, 00:11:38.546 --> 00:11:41.780 you know, alcohol abuse needs to be mentioned too. 00:11:41.780 --> 00:11:46.630 But, you know, the 7-0 was a subject for the podcast, guys. 00:11:46.630 --> 00:11:49.950 It's not the only subject out there, but if there's something you guys want 00:11:49.950 --> 00:11:53.050 us to talk about then like let's do it Let's have a conversation, right? 00:11:53.050 --> 00:11:58.550 Don't come for my girl like that, bro Don't do it Because she is a lot more 00:11:58.550 --> 00:12:03.590 professional than I am So it's just like like you talk about crazy energy and 00:12:03.590 --> 00:12:06.160 it's like that to me is crazy energy like I, 00:12:07.024 --> 00:12:11.820 Some of the things you people say online is so hurtful and so cruel, 00:12:11.820 --> 00:12:15.580 not just to me. I'm not even talking about me now. I'm talking about just some 00:12:15.580 --> 00:12:17.310 of the things that I see. Yeah. 00:12:18.021 --> 00:12:20.146 My brother went through it with his business. 00:12:21.140 --> 00:12:25.620 He was saying something, and I guess, I don't know if it was TikTok or YouTube 00:12:25.620 --> 00:12:27.850 he was saying is like, you know, the worst. 00:12:27.850 --> 00:12:30.724 And it doesn't face him, but he was like shocked because, 00:12:31.329 --> 00:12:36.700 you know, for like his business and like what they promote and stuff like that it's all positive like. 00:12:37.700 --> 00:12:41.640 Regarding like mental health awareness and things like that and like I think 00:12:41.640 --> 00:12:48.287 somebody saw a rose being given to a young lady or something like that and automatically 00:12:48.676 --> 00:12:50.976 said something along the lines of. 00:12:51.901 --> 00:12:54.711 Had something to do with like her age or whatever. And he was giving, 00:12:54.850 --> 00:12:59.686 it was an adult woman. Like they were giving a rose to, to make the person's day. 00:12:59.959 --> 00:13:03.743 And like everybody online like came. And I was like, wait a minute, what? 00:13:04.097 --> 00:13:07.615 And I went to look at the video and I was like, oh my gosh, he was dead ass. 00:13:07.830 --> 00:13:09.229 I didn't see anything wrong with the video. 00:13:09.676 --> 00:13:12.538 Like nothing wrong with it. People are just wild. 00:13:12.753 --> 00:13:16.776 You know what I think it boils down to bestie. I really do think it boils down 00:13:16.776 --> 00:13:21.756 to people's internal struggles 100 and i'm not even making excuses like people 00:13:21.756 --> 00:13:26.998 are shitty ass people i mean we had somebody who like tried to come left on, 00:13:27.521 --> 00:13:32.186 a very funny simple post you know what i mean i think it's people's like internal 00:13:32.186 --> 00:13:38.038 mental struggles and so they're like deflecting or like whatever the word is that you want to say 00:13:38.392 --> 00:13:42.216 and so like their negativity it's just very quick and easy to come after somebody 00:13:42.216 --> 00:13:45.497 online because you're not number one face to face with the person,

00:13:45.956 --> 00:13:49.486 you're behind a keyboard or behind a cell phone so it's like you're so angry 00:13:49.486 --> 00:13:54.089 about life you just you just want to comfort people i don't know i think that um, 00:13:54.792 --> 00:13:58.576 like i said people have lost their minds nowadays you know what i mean you got 00:13:58.576 --> 00:14:05.958 to be careful about the things that you take in online and be very aware of 00:14:06.254 --> 00:14:08.083 just how people move you know, 00:14:08.857 --> 00:14:11.510 you gotta be really aware of that can't even say that enough. 00:14:12.270 --> 00:14:14.783 You know, people are wild. They're wild. 00:14:16.670 --> 00:14:20.286 I don't know. It's just not my first thing to go on to somebody's podcast, 00:14:20.286 --> 00:14:23.299 and just because I don't agree, because you, you. 00:14:25.330 --> 00:14:29.231 Facts. Really? You're not wrong. So yeah, it's actually great. 00:14:29.231 --> 00:14:31.746 It's great that politics is over. So happy. 00:14:31.960 --> 00:14:38.705 It's great that all this stuff is over because the world seems very on off kilter right now. 00:14:38.897 --> 00:14:41.450 And for me, I'm a Christian. 00:14:41.730 --> 00:14:46.801 You know, I'm going to just hone in on Jesus here because it's not going to 00:14:46.801 --> 00:14:50.511 be politics. It's not going to be Republicans or Democrats that save us. 00:14:50.511 --> 00:14:52.441 And That's right, sister. 00:14:52.981 --> 00:14:56.217 I used to be, you know, I used to be into politics, but... 00:14:56.629 --> 00:15:01.139 Yeah, same. Yep. Okay, so what? Big time, yeah. Because we also say, 00:15:01.337 --> 00:15:05.221 I'm not even the same person I was two years ago. Exactly. So if you know an 00:15:05.221 --> 00:15:08.241 old copy of me, you might as well check that out, because that thing's not even 00:15:08.241 --> 00:15:10.415 revised or updated. Do you know what I'm saying? Right. 00:15:11.391 --> 00:15:15.745 But it's not the people in the government that are going to be saving us from, 00:15:16.349 --> 00:15:18.444 what we're doing to ourselves. Excellent. 00:15:19.993 --> 00:15:26.559 Tell them, sis. Tell them. Tell them. So yeah, I just, yes, people are crazy right now. 00:15:26.750 --> 00:15:31.342 The other thing, though, too, I'll say is that I remember during a very low 00:15:31.342 --> 00:15:36.826 time I had during COVID, and I remember going into the grocery store, and I felt alone. 00:15:36.953 --> 00:15:40.181 I felt like, fuck, I'm the only one going through this or feeling this way. 00:15:40.622 --> 00:15:46.497 And I feel obviously isolated, felt despair, like what I think a lot of people were. 00:15:47.060 --> 00:15:50.522 But the problem is, is that people do a really good job of not showing it. 00:15:50.522 --> 00:15:54.664 We do a fantastic job of making it seem like we're not going through it. 00:15:55.272 --> 00:15:58.812 And so when I looked around for people looking for, oh, maybe that person kind 00:15:58.812 --> 00:16:01.764 of understands or is, there was nobody. 00:16:02.232 --> 00:16:06.702 I felt like I was the only one. So for people out there, you know, 00:16:06.702 --> 00:16:11.222 right now, if you're struggling, which so many people are, just know that just 00:16:11.222 --> 00:16:15.997 because maybe people don't show it doesn't mean it doesn't that you're you're not alone, 00:16:17.132 --> 00:16:19.259 you're definitely not alone for. 00:16:20.718 --> 00:16:24.352 Sure yeah we got we have a lot of things to think about you know it's like you 00:16:24.352 --> 00:16:27.002 got to think about you know how you're going to heat your house i mean we're 00:16:27.002 --> 00:16:30.342 new england just the realities of life i mean i hate to be doom and gloom here 00:16:30.342 --> 00:16:34.446 but if we're having a real conversation how are we going to heat our home for sure, 00:16:35.450 --> 00:16:40.642 groceries are expensive put on the table yeah live in connecticut oh yeah shit's 00:16:40.642 --> 00:16:44.942 about to get cold here yeah and we can go on and then we're going into the holidays 00:16:44.942 --> 00:16:49.178 it's true it's so true so that's all i guess that was my, 00:16:49.967 --> 00:16:51.412 you know i guess that was my rant, 00:16:52.263 --> 00:16:56.022 but it's valid i mean it's all valid it's valid it's valid and with the holidays 00:16:56.022 --> 00:17:00.222 coming up and getting darker i think that these are definitely conversations 00:17:00.222 --> 00:17:01.284 we should be having you know, 00:17:02.619 --> 00:17:05.754 for sure how are you doing with the. 00:17:07.448 --> 00:17:12.006 It's not really bothering me. Like I'm, I'm okay with it. I am. I'm okay with it. 00:17:13.355 --> 00:17:17.748 It's definitely different. Like I feel myself getting like tired sooner. 00:17:18.068 --> 00:17:21.478 And you know me, like I'm usually ready in bed, like eight, eight 30, 00:17:21.478 --> 00:17:24.424 like the best you can tell you that my family can tell you that I'm, 00:17:25.268 --> 00:17:30.235 I'm usually ready and in bed for like eight o'clock guys. I really am an old woman at heart. 00:17:30.989 --> 00:17:34.838 So for me, it's like, but I do catch myself. 00:17:34.838 --> 00:17:40.468 It's funny. Like I was telling somebody at work I think it's like 3 3 30 is 00:17:40.468 --> 00:17:42.839 when I start feeling myself starting to kind of like, 00:17:43.582 --> 00:17:47.278 get to that point where I have to grab another coffee or grab a green green 00:17:47.278 --> 00:17:51.428 tea or something just for that little pick me up because I feel myself starting to, 00:17:52.468 --> 00:17:56.043 it's wild and I think it definitely has to do with the time change because usually 00:17:56.316 --> 00:18:01.395 my time that I start feeling like this little plateau is usually six o'clock 00:18:01.529 --> 00:18:07.058 what time is it right now I don't even know 5 11 It's 5.11. 00:18:07.058 --> 00:18:12.102 It

feels like 10. And it's mad dark. It's so mad dark. Yeah. Daylight savings time. 00:18:12.542 --> 00:18:16.937 So stupid. We did not need to do daylight savings time. Just stop. I'm so over it. 00:18:18.209 --> 00:18:24.046 So over it. Can we just keep the clocks one way or another? We can't keep doing this. 00:18:24.655 --> 00:18:28.578 This is not good for anybody's mental health to do this. It's just not. 00:18:28.578 --> 00:18:32.408 It's funny. I was like so excited. I was like, oh, yeah, the clocks are going 00:18:32.408 --> 00:18:34.245 back. We get like an extra hour of sleep. 00:18:34.808 --> 00:18:40.201 I don't know if it's like once you get once you hit 40 it does not matter like 00:18:40.549 --> 00:18:42.656 it does not feel like it's getting shit, 00:18:43.133 --> 00:18:47.068 it's just messing up you're like I don't know it's just messing up like just 00:18:47.068 --> 00:18:52.688 how your body is and stuff like that like I don't know I don't know this like it's messing up so yeah. 00:18:55.160 --> 00:19:00.034 My daughter's made comments before. She's like, you're on the couch every night 00:19:00.034 --> 00:19:05.011 by, you're on the couch sleeping every night by seven. See? See? 00:19:05.453 --> 00:19:09.679 She's like, can you maybe stay out or do something? 00:19:10.387 --> 00:19:16.342 She's not wrong. But it's hard. It's wicked hard when, that's what she said. 00:19:16.655 --> 00:19:22.294 But it's hard when you wake up, like I start rolling out around 4 a.m. 00:19:22.294 --> 00:19:29.307 Things are my I'm not I'm no longer in the REM okay I'm coming out of sleep 00:19:29.307 --> 00:19:35.584 4 30 I'm going to the bathroom and probably starting to think about putting 00:19:35.584 --> 00:19:37.010 a sweatshirt on going downstairs, 00:19:37.693 --> 00:19:40.744 get a cup of coffee quick before I have to start getting ready for work yeah, 00:19:41.464 --> 00:19:46.248 so my day starts early and then the time change makes it really hard so by 2 00:19:46.248 --> 00:19:51.484 30 3 o'clock I notice my anxiety gets a little bit like i better get home soon 00:19:51.484 --> 00:19:54.016 because my body knows the sun, 00:19:54.661 --> 00:19:59.544 my body knows that i should be getting home yeah when the sun goes down yeah 00:19:59.544 --> 00:20:08.115 then we go to we go home in darkness yep which which is wild which feels kind of it's so weird now. 00:20:08.919 --> 00:20:12.064 I don't know how to explain it so people like struggle here in new england with 00:20:12.064 --> 00:20:15.854 this shit and i understand why that's wild i don't know how people in alaska 00:20:15.854 --> 00:20:20.684 do it i remember you were watching that show or movie or something like that I have to watch it. 00:20:21.124 --> 00:20:24.724 What? The woman in Svalbard? I need to watch that. 00:20:26.144 --> 00:20:34.134 Like right now, they're dark. It's 24-7. She's at the tip. She's almost in Svalbard, 00:20:34.134 --> 00:20:36.324 Antarctica, or wherever it is. Mm-mm. Mm-mm. 00:20:38.335 --> 00:20:42.860 Yeah. Like I said, I'm just kind of like, meh, meh. And your commute's worse. 00:20:43.547 --> 00:20:47.709 Yeah. So then it's like when you come home in this darkness, it sucks. 00:20:48.139 --> 00:20:51.105 Okay. Can we talk about that real quick? Please. So remember how you were like, 00:20:51.105 --> 00:20:53.605 oh, that commute is going to be interesting, right? You did give me a heads 00:20:53.605 --> 00:20:55.115 up. I was like, no, it's fine. 00:20:55.755 --> 00:20:58.775 I'll tell you, right? It's not a big deal. It's going to be great, 00:20:58.775 --> 00:21:02.095 Kate. It's going to be great. It's going to be great. Like I did this before 00:21:02.095 --> 00:21:04.590 when I was in banking. I had to travel all over. It's fine. 00:21:05.293 --> 00:21:09.530 So the morning I'm good. Like, honest to God, I'm good, like, where I have to go. 00:21:09.821 --> 00:21:13.335 Because I do. I have the music on. I'm jamming out. Sometimes I carpool with 00:21:13.335 --> 00:21:15.409 a friend. Like, so we're good. 00:21:16.222 --> 00:21:20.951 Coming home, when I first started with this company that I'm at, 00:21:21.630 --> 00:21:25.305 there were a couple times where I was like, oh, okay, this is what bumper to 00:21:25.305 --> 00:21:27.006 bumper is going to be like. Okay. 00:21:27.586 --> 00:21:31.155 Okay. Okay. There's a couple days here and there, no problem. 00:21:31.155 --> 00:21:34.436 And then it went to, like, just maybe a little sprinkle here and there. 00:21:35.149 --> 00:21:41.207 Tell me why for the last MFing week, maybe it's daylight savings time. 00:21:41.567 --> 00:21:46.937 I don't know. It is. Every single evening when I tell you bumper to bumper, 00:21:46.937 --> 00:21:49.099 I can't even get onto the highway. 00:21:49.534 --> 00:21:52.987 I can't even get onto the highway without being like, I'm like, 00:21:52.987 --> 00:21:56.387 I got to go somewhere. I got to go somewhere. Like, what do you guys want from 00:21:56.387 --> 00:21:57.493 me? Like, I have to go somewhere. 00:21:58.327 --> 00:22:03.807 It's wild. Wild. And then the bumper to bumper. So I know it's going to take 00:22:03.807 --> 00:22:05.103 me like an hour to get home. 00:22:05.602 --> 00:22:09.227 And it really should only be like 40 minutes or something like that but it's 00:22:09.227 --> 00:22:14.774 gonna take me an hour to get home so i know i know every day it's gonna take me an hour to get home 00:22:15.099 --> 00:22:18.867 thank goodness i get out when i do like blessings for that right at least by 00:22:18.867 --> 00:22:22.667 the time you get back in right it's a reasonable time like thank goodness blessings 00:22:22.667 --> 00:22:26.140 for that that you know we do get out when we do yes but. 00:22:27.107 --> 00:22:32.022 It's still a little crazy a little crazy right and traffic starts early, 00:22:32.927 --> 00:22:38.669 where we come from traffic and you and i are like town like cities next to

each other but like, 00:22:39.319 --> 00:22:43.423 you know it starts like shab and i work literally cities next to each other, 00:22:43.952 --> 00:22:47.864 if there was no traffic it would be nothing for her and i to get each other 00:22:48.131 --> 00:22:49.937 like maybe 15 minutes maybe yeah, 00:22:50.581 --> 00:22:55.337 but i i did i was gonna roll up on you one day i was gonna pop up yeah you were 00:22:55.337 --> 00:22:58.486 after your doctor's appointment but you never did i did it why, 00:22:59.347 --> 00:23:02.217 i think it was the dude i think it was the traffic i'm honest you I realized 00:23:02.217 --> 00:23:06.667 by the time you went over to where I was that your day is like gone. 00:23:06.667 --> 00:23:10.707 And then it was your guys extended day because I did look it up really quick. 00:23:10.707 --> 00:23:12.888 And I was like, this is the perfect day. 00:23:13.212 --> 00:23:16.167 And do you know, sure enough, I got out a little bit late just because I had 00:23:16.167 --> 00:23:19.854 to finish a project really quick. Not like super late, just a smidgen late. 00:23:20.307 --> 00:23:25.363 And I'm not kidding you. When I went to get on the first on ramp, 00:23:25.607 --> 00:23:30.087 which didn't even get me to the highway. It's like literally just getting on 00:23:30.087 --> 00:23:31.827 ramp to get out of the busy area. Thank you. 00:23:32.450 --> 00:23:36.189 And then I had to get onto the highway. I was like, nope, there's no way. 00:23:36.763 --> 00:23:42.317 And then it told me it was going to take me 35 minutes to get to where you were. I was like, no. 00:23:42.637 --> 00:23:45.888 And it doesn't take 35 minutes to get there. I was like, yeah, I'm not. 00:23:46.559 --> 00:23:49.891 I was like, damn it. Why can't I just go roll up on the bestie? 00:23:50.773 --> 00:23:53.165 Can I tell you something else I'm dealing with, too? I'll say this. 00:23:54.728 --> 00:23:58.267 So work's been a little chaotic. That's a good thing. Take that any day. 00:23:59.146 --> 00:24:06.217 Tell me why. it never bothered me in my 20s to rush around rush before work 00:24:06.217 --> 00:24:09.641 it never bothered me like i could always go with it, 00:24:10.527 --> 00:24:15.961 tell me why now at 42 if i am rushed in the slightest, 00:24:16.665 --> 00:24:22.017 we're forgetting things we're misstepping we're doing thing bad things are yeah 00:24:22.017 --> 00:24:27.327 it's not happening yeah i cannot be pushed any more than i am and i feel like 00:24:27.327 --> 00:24:30.077 it's already a slow thing as it is i don't know what's going on, 00:24:30.820 --> 00:24:36.247 hair thinning oh for sure not you i'm just saying like i feel you like i feel 00:24:36.247 --> 00:24:43.255 you i feel you i dyed it i did a box dye don't come for me i don't have time to sit in the chair, 00:24:44.003 --> 00:24:49.767 so i did a box dye and normally i would need at least a box i didn't even need 00:24:49.767 --> 00:24:55.124 a full box this time yeah dude i

stopped i stopped and i took out the extensions 00:24:55.502 --> 00:24:58.776 guys i know i wore i wore extensions i did you know why? 00:24:58.880 --> 00:25:02.259 Because the girls told me that they were like, mom, you don't need that. I was like, but I love it. 00:25:02.671 --> 00:25:06.682 And then I was like upset because my hair, the thinning, I was like, oh my God. 00:25:07.651 --> 00:25:11.194 Oh, my goodness. So I'm back to taking multivitamins because I feel like I was 00:25:11.194 --> 00:25:15.645 missing that. Good for you. I got to do that. I have to do that. Back to taking that. 00:25:16.394 --> 00:25:21.200 And I'm going to attempt. I'm going to attempt to not box dye my hair. 00:25:21.934 --> 00:25:25.696 I'm going to attempt. It's been, I think, like a month and a half now. 00:25:26.201 --> 00:25:27.211 A month, month and a half. 00:25:27.914 --> 00:25:33.086 Where's the gray? It's coming in, bro. Barely. It's all in how I part it. It's all in how I part it. 00:25:33.284 --> 00:25:36.384 Maybe it's been a month, though, Because I feel like usually a month and a half, 00:25:36.384 --> 00:25:42.294 you start like seeing the little, I'm going to attempt because both girls, 00:25:42.294 --> 00:25:44.357 especially the little one, told me to stop doing that. 00:25:44.652 --> 00:25:48.054 Because you know how they are about like the skin care and all that stuff. 00:25:48.054 --> 00:25:52.058 And she told me she was like, it's really not healthy. So I stopped. Neither is the nails. 00:25:52.604 --> 00:25:57.114 I need to. I need to feel something about myself. So let's not use that. 00:25:57.894 --> 00:26:02.094 Let's not use this. I told her, I said, listen. A lot of chemicals here. 00:26:02.434 --> 00:26:06.654 I know. But I was like, listen, it's either this or this. And these are usually 00:26:06.654 --> 00:26:09.224 ammonia-free dye kits. Oh. 00:26:10.414 --> 00:26:13.937 I'm just saying to you, Sharla, that I don't care what you do. 00:26:13.937 --> 00:26:15.087 I would support you in every way. 00:26:15.488 --> 00:26:19.098 I know for me, if I look at, and this is fine too. 00:26:19.603 --> 00:26:23.272 This is like my one little treat. I'm just saying if we're talking about chemicals, 00:26:23.975 --> 00:26:29.037 but also all the chemicals and all the products that you put on yourself after 00:26:29.037 --> 00:26:31.939 you take a shower, there's probably 300 ingredients. 00:26:32.403 --> 00:26:34.064 That's so true. It's so true. 00:26:34.980 --> 00:26:40.327 But? So true, Bessie. But I just can't believe how much older I look when I 00:26:40.327 --> 00:26:44.226 don't dye my hair. And it's strange to me. It bothers me. 00:26:44.915 --> 00:26:50.488 Shabba, I'm not lying to you. I look significantly younger when I dye my hair, 00:26:50.964 --> 00:26:52.127 because I have a lot of gray. 00:26:52.447 --> 00:26:54.877 I've seen you when you're like... You're too nice. No, no, no. 00:26:54.887 --> 00:26:57.013 I've seen you when you haven't dyed it. 00:26:57.887 --> 00:27:01.117 Yeah, I looked older. I thought it looked awesome. Everybody was like, 00:27:01.117 --> 00:27:02.786 Kate, you look great with dark hair. 00:27:03.035 --> 00:27:06.298 Maybe it's because, you know why? Maybe it's because you usually wear your hair. 00:27:06.768 --> 00:27:09.667 Maybe that's why. I haven't seen it down. But I always thought it looked cool 00:27:09.667 --> 00:27:11.110 with a couple of, you know what I mean? 00:27:12.307 --> 00:27:14.496 I would have said something. That's the other thing I want to talk about. 00:27:15.607 --> 00:27:19.352 As you can see, everybody, this is Kate 2.0. 00:27:19.904 --> 00:27:25.677 I am trying to get out of the bun stage that I've been in for 15 years because. 00:27:25.677 --> 00:27:28.089 Speak for yourself, sister. I ain't never getting out of that. 00:27:28.860 --> 00:27:30.857 It looks good on you, though. For me, it looks. Air clip. 00:27:31.852 --> 00:27:36.507 So I'm doing the ponytail. It looks long. 00:27:36.925 --> 00:27:42.054 It's long. Yeah. It's long and strong. That's what she said. 00:27:44.526 --> 00:27:48.877 But I'm going to do this for a little bit, but I already need to die again because 00:27:48.877 --> 00:27:51.876 look, there's the little silver stripes, you know? 00:27:53.718 --> 00:27:58.919 I don't know, Shabba. I just want to say that the pre-menopause is really bothersome 00:27:58.919 --> 00:28:02.001 to me because by the end of the day, by the time I get home from work. 00:28:04.317 --> 00:28:09.839 I was telling Enz, by the time I get home from work, I don't have the energy to keep going. 00:28:09.839 --> 00:28:13.820 And sometimes your household feels like a second job because you have to, 00:28:14.098 --> 00:28:17.819 you know, the toilets or the shower or the bathroom needs to be cleaned or there's, 00:28:18.979 --> 00:28:23.769 dinner, laundry, cleanup, all those things. by the time it's like, and, 00:28:25.250 --> 00:28:28.820 Maybe it's a time change. Maybe it's just premenopause. But I'm really struggling 00:28:28.820 --> 00:28:33.570 in premenopause. I just don't feel like the same woman I was two years ago. 00:28:33.870 --> 00:28:35.703 I'm being so honest here. 00:28:36.852 --> 00:28:41.483 I feel very tired. I feel tired. I'd like to be in an ideal world. 00:28:41.826 --> 00:28:47.346 I'd like to be here at the clubhouse much more often if I'm being 100%. 00:28:47.480 --> 00:28:51.150 But there's something about when it gets dark like this, by the time you get 00:28:51.150 --> 00:28:54.417 home, you almost feel like I'm not going out. Yeah. 00:28:55.088 --> 00:29:01.119 Yep so i will get merch in here for the holiday season to force me to be here and us to be here, 00:29:02.112 --> 00:29:06.580 because otherwise i don't we'll have to only do this on the weekends or something 00:29:06.580 --> 00:29:09.860 i i don't know you know what i'm saying it's just no i can see that because 00:29:09.860 --> 00:29:12.555

i find i find myself becoming more of a homebody, 00:29:13.300 --> 00:29:18.690 and it's crazy because it's cozy right just but in the summertime right now 00:29:18.690 --> 00:29:23.110 this wouldn't even be a thing we'd be like oh we're out we're outside with our 00:29:23.110 --> 00:29:26.010 megaphone or with the music going down main street. 00:29:27.778 --> 00:29:32.310 But we are it's true you're so right so it's like it is it definitely is the 00:29:32.650 --> 00:29:36.370 time of season it's just like the hibernate but you know what you bring up a 00:29:36.370 --> 00:29:38.890 good point though because you know how you were saying before like in the morning 00:29:38.890 --> 00:29:40.210 you can't be like rushing around, 00:29:40.970 --> 00:29:42.760 i agree with you i do agree with 00:29:42.760 --> 00:29:47.687 you because i need that peace like i need that calmness in the morning, 00:29:48.244 --> 00:29:52.200 leading up to like me going into work so that i like can have my mental where 00:29:52.200 --> 00:29:55.710 it needs to be because you know it's you know there's a lot that needs to get 00:29:55.710 --> 00:29:59.560 done and stuff like that and then by the time you like you leave you might be 00:29:59.560 --> 00:30:03.018 like tired not in a bad way guys i'm just saying like when you're working a full day, 00:30:04.111 --> 00:30:09.069 But, like, you kind of are, like, getting ready to, like, try to, you know, decompress. 00:30:09.289 --> 00:30:13.505 But I also feel like you and I are kind of at a stage in our lives where our 00:30:13.505 --> 00:30:17.755 oldest are, I mean, they're young adults now, right? 00:30:18.235 --> 00:30:22.095 So we don't necessarily have that part. I do have my youngest. 00:30:22.428 --> 00:30:27.065 But even in that sense, like, I'm finding, like, mornings are more calmer, 00:30:27.065 --> 00:30:29.585 even though, like, it's, like, you know, a rush to get her to school. 00:30:29.585 --> 00:30:32.026 But it's still calmer in a way. 00:30:32.466 --> 00:30:36.985 And then coming home she knows that like i just need a couple of like moments 00:30:36.985 --> 00:30:39.905 to like get comfortable and i usually throw on the slippers and then try to 00:30:39.905 --> 00:30:43.375 figure out dinner but it's like very like right so i do understand where you're 00:30:43.375 --> 00:30:45.028 coming from because i feel like any, 00:30:45.585 --> 00:30:47.652 being thrown into that like i'm like. 00:30:48.929 --> 00:30:53.201 Anything into the mix yeah yeah so i could see that and then i i i like, 00:30:53.885 --> 00:30:58.295 i needed to pick her up from something and i i did it wasn't a problem but i 00:30:58.295 --> 00:31:01.885 like i found myself being like oh my goodness like oh my goodness you know right 00:31:01.885 --> 00:31:03.167 or something that wasn't even, 00:31:03.843 --> 00:31:07.535 like so I could see where you're coming from as far as needing that calmness 00:31:07.535 --> 00:31:11.615 in the morning and then later on in the day kind of getting to the point where you feel yourself maybe, 00:31:12.335 --> 00:31:17.495 a little bit 100% I also am noticing an increase in caffeine intake whether 00:31:17.495 --> 00:31:24.512 it's green tea or coffee 100% because you're not a whole lot but like I might have like, 00:31:25.287 --> 00:31:34.105 a green tea in the morning and then like I said And by usually that 2.33 o'clock 00:31:34.105 --> 00:31:37.903 mark, I catch myself needing to get another cup of something. 100%. 00:31:38.072 --> 00:31:41.810 But then there's water in between that, obviously. Right. Right. But yeah. 00:31:42.350 --> 00:31:44.955 Yeah, I know. I totally get that. I totally get where you're coming from. 00:31:44.955 --> 00:31:47.265 Especially when you have the drive home. You're just like, okay, 00:31:47.265 --> 00:31:50.855 how am I going to get through these less? And we both do, well, 00:31:50.855 --> 00:31:53.825 I do retail and you do customer service. Is that fair to say? 00:31:53.825 --> 00:31:57.309 Yeah, yeah. So that's draining too because... 00:31:58.185 --> 00:32:03.042 Whether you're doing what you do or I'm doing what I do, these people need your undivided attention. 00:32:03.042 --> 00:32:07.642 They need hand-holding. They need, you know, and you're dealing with all these 00:32:07.642 --> 00:32:12.762 emotions. It's like, it's crazy. But, yes, if you're feeling all those things. 00:32:13.964 --> 00:32:15.549 Shabba and I feel them, too. 00:32:15.728 --> 00:32:18.341 For sure, guys. It's normal. It really is normal. 00:32:18.677 --> 00:32:21.650 We acknowledge it. We acknowledge that we're in this together, guys. 00:32:22.021 --> 00:32:25.185 But this whole darkness night thing like, 00:32:25.916 --> 00:32:28.672 i honest to god i'm so tempted like i, 00:32:29.192 --> 00:32:32.952 holding out i'm holding out one holiday at a time you're so tempted to what 00:32:33.332 --> 00:32:37.962 i'm tempted to start decorating for christmas you were you in the comments i 00:32:37.962 --> 00:32:43.917 asked our fans if we should start because i if i had no i want to start decorating in here really, 00:32:44.480 --> 00:32:48.032 lights yeah dude because i i try to do, 00:32:48.512 --> 00:32:52.842 the day after thanksgiving like it's on and popping and now that like my oldest 00:32:52.842 --> 00:32:55.902 daughter said she's going to be home for that extended time and then my youngest 00:32:55.902 --> 00:33:00.372 and her kind of have the same schedule a little bit i'm like oh and i don't 00:33:00.372 --> 00:33:03.142 have to work the day after i'm like and we have that weekend i'm like, 00:33:04.154 --> 00:33:09.061 I think we're going to decorate the day after Thanksgiving. That's fair. 00:33:09.061 --> 00:33:11.671 Anything after Thanksgiving is fair. There was one year. 00:33:11.932 --> 00:33:14.131 I don't remember when it was. It wasn't last year. It might have been the year 00:33:14.131 --> 00:33:16.483 before

that. I don't know what it was. I got the itch. 00:33:16.809 --> 00:33:22.801 And this year with it being so freaking dark, I'm kind of feeling like I may 00:33:22.801 --> 00:33:25.944 end up doing something before that. I don't know, guys. 00:33:26.483 --> 00:33:29.131 I don't know. My nutcrackers, I was looking at them the other day, 00:33:29.131 --> 00:33:31.528 the big ones. I was like, ooh. 00:33:32.411 --> 00:33:37.282 I know. It's so tempting. And a friend's giving me her tree because she upgraded her dreams. 00:33:37.537 --> 00:33:40.049 And she showed me the tree she's given me. And I was like, yes, 00:33:40.467 --> 00:33:44.322 let's do this. Because we remember last year's tree. But that was cute. 00:33:45.042 --> 00:33:48.653 And that should go in somebody's room. I don't even know if I saw it. I didn't even see it. 00:33:49.340 --> 00:33:51.551 I might have gotten rid of it. I might have been so mad. You know what? 00:33:51.551 --> 00:33:55.161 Like, I just used that. I wish I did it, though. Oh, my gosh. 00:33:55.161 --> 00:33:56.201 I didn't see it. Did you see it? 00:33:56.984 --> 00:34:00.566 I saw it. Oh, you think you did? Okay. In a bag. 00:34:00.949 --> 00:34:04.191 Oh, so then maybe I do. because i have a closet that all my decorations are 00:34:04.191 --> 00:34:07.531 in now so it might be in one of those bags maybe i'm telling you stories yeah 00:34:07.531 --> 00:34:08.948 maybe i might have it yeah, 00:34:09.768 --> 00:34:12.501 so you know what that means it's probably going to nessa's room because she 00:34:12.501 --> 00:34:16.901 wants she wants one like an actual give her that one yeah that's a perfect size 00:34:16.901 --> 00:34:24.099 for her room that was cute last year so should we tell you please tell them please please tell them, 00:34:24.903 --> 00:34:30.021 so i so there was one year a friend of mine thank you joey went with me because 00:34:30.021 --> 00:34:34.214 i wanted to get a new tree like it had to be a new tree i wanted the smell of your mic real quick, 00:34:34.851 --> 00:34:38.988 okay i wanted the smell of a real tree and he's like, 00:34:39.621 --> 00:34:44.321 out of anybody i know very particular about the christmas tree he chooses like 00:34:44.321 --> 00:34:47.311 it will take him like a couple of hours 00:34:47.731 --> 00:34:52.061 and maybe a couple of different locations to find like his tree so it's like 00:34:52.061 --> 00:34:55.102 you know what joey is my person i need to go to, to find a tree. 00:34:55.915 --> 00:35:01.256 So I ended up getting, Betsy was her name. Betsy was the name of the tree. The tree was... 00:35:02.197 --> 00:35:07.242 Like perfect outside it was like the perfect tree and we got it into my old place, 00:35:07.983 --> 00:35:11.820 and it was way too wide it took up probably a good quarter of my living room, 00:35:12.343 --> 00:35:16.673 he had to cut the top of it for me like the whole thing was just it was a monstrosity, 00:35:17.126 --> 00:35:19.721 so she had to go she had to go home, 00:35:20.593 --> 00:35:25.519 so then i ended up bringing back out queen elizabeth and queen elizabeth no 00:35:25.519 --> 00:35:29.552 the queen victoria is one of the Queens. The tree was named Queen something. 00:35:30.149 --> 00:35:33.389 Took her out of the attic, brought her down, and beautiful. She, 00:35:33.389 --> 00:35:37.869 you know, I've had her for many years. And unfortunately, that particular year. 00:35:38.919 --> 00:35:44.146 She had shown her age. Our cats had kind of gotten to her too. 00:35:44.499 --> 00:35:47.734 And so after that holidays, it was time to get rid of Queenie. 00:35:47.873 --> 00:35:50.857 So then she had to leave us. 00:35:51.528 --> 00:35:54.740 So I was like, you know, I'm not buying a new tree, but I don't want a real 00:35:54.740 --> 00:35:57.907 tree. I don't want to deal with that again. I don't know what I'm going to do, but I need a tree. 00:35:58.596 --> 00:36:03.020 Buy a fine and buy a cheap tree. And I thought it was going to be the cutest tree. 00:36:03.380 --> 00:36:07.340 And it had said that the tree was six and a half feet. and I'm doing the math 00:36:07.340 --> 00:36:12.300 and I'm like I'm five six so if I'm five six and it's like a six and a half 00:36:12.300 --> 00:36:18.000 tree six and a half foot tree isn't gonna be too big right but it's gonna be taller than me so 00:36:18.370 --> 00:36:21.880 I'm thinking if I'm five six six and a half should be like right here I'm like 00:36:21.880 --> 00:36:22.980 okay that's fair it's not gonna 00:36:22.980 --> 00:36:26.680 be a massive tree but it'll still be cute and I decorate it how I want. 00:36:28.128 --> 00:36:31.790 So we put together the tree my oldest and I and my youngest was coming down 00:36:31.790 --> 00:36:37.040 to decorate and I say to my oldest daughter i was like hey ali where's the other 00:36:37.040 --> 00:36:39.534 part to the tree she's like mom what do you mean this is it, 00:36:40.956 --> 00:36:44.730 i was like no there's got to be like there's got to be like another piece like 00:36:44.730 --> 00:36:48.600 isn't there supposed to be three parts she's like that is the three parts i said no it's not 00:36:48.920 --> 00:36:52.930 i'm like it's not this isn't six and a half feet i'm five six and this tree 00:36:52.930 --> 00:36:55.991 is shorter than i am so it's not six and a half feet like, 00:36:56.525 --> 00:37:01.930 you know she's like mom i'm telling you this is all three pieces i was like son of a gun, 00:37:02.562 --> 00:37:07.680 she was right guys so this tree is like a little shorter than i am and it had 00:37:07.680 --> 00:37:12.104 like the fake snow on it it was super cute but the height it wasn't doing it for the height like, 00:37:13.178 --> 00:37:17.163 and like the width it wasn't even like fluffy like guys i don't even know how 00:37:17.163 --> 00:37:20.713 to explain it but that was our tree for like the girls were like oh it's great 00:37:20.713 --> 00:37:24.993 it's beautiful

like oh it's awesome like they're so positive but i knew it was 00:37:24.993 --> 00:37:27.683 bad when she took the photo from i took. 00:37:29.983 --> 00:37:36.923 The photo on top i'm like this is not this is not this is an optical, 00:37:38.843 --> 00:37:42.903 i was so mad i was so mad and i was like telling myself i'm like you know what 00:37:42.903 --> 00:37:46.494 i can just order one off amazon i was like no i don't want to order a damn tree off amazon 00:37:46.732 --> 00:37:50.033 because what if i order one off amazon and it comes in and it looks like where 00:37:50.033 --> 00:37:53.896 you went and then i was like hold on and then i was like oh maybe i'll go to 00:37:54.080 --> 00:37:58.403 home depot because at least i can see in person but then the home depot trees 00:37:58.403 --> 00:38:00.733 that they had left were like 200 and something dollars i was like you know 00:38:01.111 --> 00:38:05.272 what this shit i don't want a damn christmas tree anymore so i got my tree from. 00:38:08.383 --> 00:38:10.963 The dollar general shout out 00:38:10.963 --> 00:38:16.068 to the dollar general no hate love you guys i got my tree from the dollar, 00:38:16.719 --> 00:38:22.163 in our town no hate no hate it looked really cute the outside of the box looked 00:38:22.163 --> 00:38:25.833 really cute it would have been better as like if you got two of them and put 00:38:25.833 --> 00:38:27.043 them on each side of your door, 00:38:29.513 --> 00:38:33.402 but i had to take the picture from up top to kind to like help the tree look 00:38:33.681 --> 00:38:38.690 taller because no it wasn't a baller it wasn't a shot collar you know it was it was, 00:38:40.194 --> 00:38:44.902 it was like a little napoleon as soon as she sent that photo i knew something was wrong, 00:38:45.971 --> 00:38:48.211 She tried to do that thing where. 00:38:49.950 --> 00:38:53.708 She tried to do that thing where she's trying to get the angle right. 00:38:54.086 --> 00:38:57.440 Sometimes people do this for a better look. 00:38:58.430 --> 00:39:03.290 Shabba was doing that for her tree, and I knew it. She knew it. She knew it right away. 00:39:04.130 --> 00:39:07.010 Like, right away. How did you know that, girl? All the photos are up. 00:39:07.470 --> 00:39:08.498 You know what I'm saying? 00:39:09.561 --> 00:39:12.490 And you know what's so sad is, like, you know how you go to put your, 00:39:12.850 --> 00:39:14.977 like, star on the top of the tree? 00:39:15.168 --> 00:39:21.223 And it's like a fun thing and like you normally have to take out a chair or like a ladder, 00:39:21.910 --> 00:39:26.330 here right right and one of the kids can put the star on the top or if you're 00:39:26.330 --> 00:39:30.590 my oldest daughter chick's so tall so you know she should play for you 00:39:31.010 --> 00:39:35.140 she really should play for you con if only she liked basketball what gino like 00:39:35.140 --> 00:39:38.340 that's your fault that's your fault for not putting a basketball

in her hand 00:39:38.340 --> 00:39:41.810 dude she tried she tried she wasn't about that life remember she played she 00:39:41.810 --> 00:39:43.990 played for a little bit you should have did it when she was 00:39:44.431 --> 00:39:48.810 one month old what do you think kobe bryant did like that's true she was 20 00:39:48.810 --> 00:39:53.350 and a half 20 and a half inches she was in the 300th percentile i'm telling 00:39:53.350 --> 00:39:57.930 she was 22 and a half inches long when she was born that is one like long ass 00:39:58.350 --> 00:40:04.270 did you deliver her naturally i did oh damn and do you know in the bed like 00:40:04.270 --> 00:40:09.246 oh your placenta no she was so stretched to the point we were like looking at her and we're like, 00:40:09.752 --> 00:40:12.880 i i already knew what Everybody was thinking because if she just like was just 00:40:12.880 --> 00:40:16.300 stretching like this, we're like, I hope this stays only a couple of days because 00:40:16.300 --> 00:40:19.241 she's not going to be able to stay in the little bed that they put them in. 00:40:19.682 --> 00:40:21.674 I was like, did you eat your placenta? 00:40:22.330 --> 00:40:25.267 I did not. Because you seem like the mom that would. 00:40:26.219 --> 00:40:31.469 I have heard about that. Your girl, stop talking. I think if around the time 00:40:31.469 --> 00:40:35.212 I had Nessa, if the delivery wasn't how it was, I probably would have done something like that. 00:40:35.495 --> 00:40:37.742 Because I did want to do like a natural delivery. 00:40:38.429 --> 00:40:42.269 I did want to try it. I am so sorry for her, for you. I did. 00:40:42.269 --> 00:40:46.950 I wanted to do like an at-home delivery. It just didn't unfortunately work out that way. 00:40:47.386 --> 00:40:51.099 You would have, but you would have eaten your placenta? Why not? 00:40:51.938 --> 00:40:54.818 I would have tried it. There's a lot of nutrients that come from that too. 00:40:55.721 --> 00:40:59.709 There's something like i don't know there's a lot of nutrients in in in brussels 00:40:59.709 --> 00:41:05.079 sprouts but i don't see you eating brussels sprouts brussels sprouts okay i'm sorry i love brussels 00:41:05.519 --> 00:41:09.499 i'm sorry i love that i love it there's a lot of there's a lot of vitamins in 00:41:09.499 --> 00:41:12.228 bok choy but i don't see you eating bok choy, 00:41:12.966 --> 00:41:15.779 but please let's put up the fight about eating your placenta, 00:41:16.679 --> 00:41:22.231 i would oh my god why not Why not? You know, I would try that. 00:41:24.408 --> 00:41:29.799 Why not? Okay, Kourtney Kardashian. I'm sorry. 00:41:30.499 --> 00:41:34.459 You know what? And if some of you have eaten your child, your placenta. 00:41:35.579 --> 00:41:38.623 Your child? You said it's placenta or your placenta? 00:41:41.190 --> 00:41:44.300 I'm just saying they say like there's benefits to that. 00:41:44.428 --> 00:41:48.489 I didn't realize that you were really into nutrients and vitamins and supplements. 00:41:48.489 --> 00:41:51.859 I'm not saying that. I'm just saying, I wouldn't be opposed. 00:41:51.859 --> 00:41:55.682 I'd have to do a little bit more research, but I wouldn't knock it without knowing. 00:41:55.909 --> 00:41:58.887 Oh, that's fair. That's such a safe answer. 00:41:59.532 --> 00:42:01.802 Don't knock it before you try it. 00:42:08.628 --> 00:42:09.418 Lord help us, 00:42:11.612 --> 00:42:16.204 we've missed you guys we've missed you guys so much us too we know you've missed us guys, 00:42:17.173 --> 00:42:21.425 do you have anything else you want to talk to them about no just really excited 00:42:21.425 --> 00:42:26.815 to not have to worry about a christmas tree right dude i hate going into stores, 00:42:27.326 --> 00:42:31.237 but i think that might be a topic for maybe another episode going into stores, 00:42:32.409 --> 00:42:36.984 i'm sorry guys i'm an online person deliver it to the door i'm sorry i can't 00:42:37.326 --> 00:42:40.443 more and more i'm an in and out person, 00:42:40.966 --> 00:42:44.785 but we've been talking about this like going into walmart though like i oh dude 00:42:44.785 --> 00:42:48.985 oh my gosh i just want to get in and get out like get what i need and get out 00:42:48.985 --> 00:42:54.177 i don't want to be in there for a long time right i hate going shopping for anything like just, 00:42:54.857 --> 00:42:59.005 when you have a click when you can just click a button like I know that sounds 00:42:59.005 --> 00:43:05.175 lazy and we need workers and you know stores but I'm horrible I'm one of those 00:43:05.175 --> 00:43:09.368 people that contributes to this I hate to say it the truth, 00:43:10.335 --> 00:43:15.735 well again day's busy so anything that eases it up like god you can order something 00:43:15.735 --> 00:43:20.519 from Amazon and then it gets to your house like in the morning like at 4 a.m. Sometimes same day. 00:43:21.175 --> 00:43:25.041 That's something. Isn't that something? Like Jeff Bezos knew what to do. 00:43:25.227 --> 00:43:29.235 How can these? How can these? I know. We're not going to have JCPenney very 00:43:29.235 --> 00:43:33.058 much longer. That's really sad. We're just not. That's really sad. 00:43:33.420 --> 00:43:36.065 Macy's? How the hell is Macy's holding up? 00:43:37.313 --> 00:43:41.515 I don't even know about that. I don't even know about that. I'm actually really 00:43:41.515 --> 00:43:43.767 surprised. Because like Kmart. 00:43:44.473 --> 00:43:47.695 Kmart? I would have thought Kmart would have lasted over Macy's. 00:43:48.370 --> 00:43:50.582 Pricing-wise? Now all we have is Walmart. 00:43:51.275 --> 00:43:54.875 We have Walmart. Thank God we have Walmart. Target. I don't think anything's 00:43:54.875 --> 00:43:56.499 happening with Target. Kohl's. 00:43:57.958 --> 00:44:01.383 You know, stop playing the games with this cash, this super cash. 00:44:02.016 --> 00:44:06.056 Stop, stop, stop making me be in there

revolving door. 00:44:06.683 --> 00:44:11.559 You know what I mean? It's like, okay, I get the 30% off and then I buy some things. 00:44:11.924 --> 00:44:18.555 Then I get the Kohl's cash. Come on back again. Now nothing's on sale, but your cash is due. 00:44:18.995 --> 00:44:23.745 I used to be so frustrated about that. I used to be a Kohl's person myself for the same exact reason. 00:44:23.745 --> 00:44:27.585 And then I was like, I can't like, and then you can only use this a certain time. 00:44:27.585 --> 00:44:34.385 Oh my god then you find a champion hoodie no it doesn't no you can't use it on that okay, 00:44:35.650 --> 00:44:40.715 so you can't use it on chaps can't use it on under armor can't use it on nike 00:44:41.015 --> 00:44:45.958 okay it's so true so you can use it on crofton borough right. 00:44:47.339 --> 00:44:51.965 I don't know how to dress anymore it's all about comfort for me it's all about 00:44:51.965 --> 00:44:54.805 comfort now i don't know if that's a good thing or a bad thing it's all about 00:44:54.805 --> 00:44:59.524 comfort now oh i it's very clear it's comfort for me too it's comfort, 00:45:00.887 --> 00:45:04.713 comfort over anything and shout out to old navy that's only, 00:45:05.671 --> 00:45:11.984 sizing sizing fantastic pricing when they have sales like what dude, 00:45:12.795 --> 00:45:20.055 they have all sorts of sizing yeah and fit up to plus sizes jeans all their stuff quality, 00:45:20.515 --> 00:45:23.555 just everything when they have really good sales when they have really good 00:45:23.555 --> 00:45:27.355 sales yeah when they have good sales but you'd be shopping at you used to shop 00:45:27.355 --> 00:45:31.232 at that bougie ass place you go yeah but that yeah i don't want to say their name because i want to, 00:45:31.860 --> 00:45:35.755 kind of expensive kind of yeah girl i don't remember the last time i stepped 00:45:35.755 --> 00:45:37.101 foot there you know what they're playing on, 00:45:37.918 --> 00:45:41.535 they're playing with us couldn't tell you last time i've been there way too 00:45:41.535 --> 00:45:45.796 expensive i can't even believe i used to and i used to buy a lot of clothes there, 00:45:46.900 --> 00:45:52.190 But, you know, obviously, since moving, we realized the insanity for the amount 00:45:52.190 --> 00:45:53.833 of clothes I had. It was disgusting. 00:45:54.502 --> 00:45:56.930 Absolutely disgusting. I mean, we threw out some of your clothes, 00:45:56.930 --> 00:45:58.618 bud, but you said throw everything out. 00:46:00.080 --> 00:46:04.430 I actually have three baskets waiting to give to a friend. And I always thought 00:46:04.430 --> 00:46:07.441 that I donated a lot, like every season I thought I did. 00:46:08.364 --> 00:46:13.041 How many pairs of shoes did you have, Shabba? I don't know. A lot, man. A lot. 00:46:14.020 --> 00:46:17.370 Like an unhealthy amount. It was actually disgusting. I was very disappointed 00:46:17.370 --> 00:46:21.446 in myself I need to

get more shoes No, I don't think you do. 00:46:23.920 --> 00:46:29.460 I'm telling people I've learned I've learned I mean, I still kept some of the 00:46:29.460 --> 00:46:36.483 flats because I get cheapo flats just to wear for work and I sit at a desk, so it's fine but, 00:46:37.144 --> 00:46:42.010 all you really need is a solid pair of, what, maybe two sneakers maybe two pairs 00:46:42.010 --> 00:46:44.592 of sandals good sandals I listen to you. 00:46:45.144 --> 00:46:49.944 I freaking love this, Charlotte. Maybe some rain boots, a pair of winter boots. 00:46:50.960 --> 00:46:55.080 Oh, Shabba needs the pair of boots to go to Vermont. I haven't been in a minute. 00:46:55.080 --> 00:46:56.947 Can I ask you a question? Road trip. 00:46:57.336 --> 00:47:02.965 Can we go? Can we bring? I'm saying it now on the podcast because it's going to force you to do it. 00:47:03.888 --> 00:47:09.430 Can we go to the Vermont Country Store and do a tour for everybody? 00:47:09.430 --> 00:47:12.930 I think we should. Could we bring these guys to the Vermont Country Store? 00:47:12.930 --> 00:47:14.309 But I would love to do that. 00:47:14.610 --> 00:47:18.830 Instead of the magazine, we're just going to bring you through the whole store 00:47:18.830 --> 00:47:21.599 if you've never been. Yeah. Because I've never been. I've never been either. 00:47:22.222 --> 00:47:25.280 I think that would be a blast. I think we need to do this. I think we need to 00:47:25.280 --> 00:47:27.705 do it. Absolutely. Very soon, too. 00:47:28.698 --> 00:47:34.096 Oh, yeah, before it gets wintertime? Yeah. I mean, even though winter's beautiful there, but yeah. Right. 00:47:34.814 --> 00:47:37.589 We definitely should. Like, right now is the perfect time to head that way. 00:47:37.780 --> 00:47:40.648 Right. Like, we need to do it very soon. Yeah. We need to plan this. 00:47:40.648 --> 00:47:42.210 Would you guys like that? I know you would. 00:47:42.546 --> 00:47:45.170 I know you would. Two Talking Fools take over Vermont? 00:47:47.150 --> 00:47:52.461 Shabba's favorite place is Vermont. We know this. Like, she loves Vermont. 00:47:53.061 --> 00:47:56.085 I love Vermont. Maybe. Haven't been there in a minute, though. 00:47:56.834 --> 00:48:00.268 How long is it going to take us to get there? Remember CB? Like four hours, 00:48:00.268 --> 00:48:03.988 depending on where we go. Four hours to get up there? Yeah, but it's quick. 00:48:03.988 --> 00:48:06.952 It's a quick four hours. It doesn't even feel like it. A quick. 00:48:07.266 --> 00:48:10.498 I promise you. You're telling us from where we are to the Vermont Country Store, 00:48:10.498 --> 00:48:13.428 it's going to take four hours? Oh, I don't know if it's four hours to the Vermont 00:48:13.428 --> 00:48:15.898 Country Store, but where I've been is usually four hours. 00:48:16.089 --> 00:48:18.738 Oh, look. That's practically in a main. 00:48:19.989 --> 00:48:27.271 I mean, never been to Maine, so. Oh, my Lord. Four hours. Oh, man. I'll drive. 00:48:28.617 --> 00:48:32.152 But yeah, no, you're a good driver. You are. On most days. 00:48:32.919 --> 00:48:36.998 No, you are. You're a little bit, I would say your foot's a little heavier than 00:48:36.998 --> 00:48:40.278 mine. I've heard that. I've heard that quite a bit. 00:48:41.410 --> 00:48:45.949 This girl reminds me. Call me Shanika Patrick. Shanika freaking Patrick, bro. 00:48:46.618 --> 00:48:54.024 Vroom, vroom, baby. Vroom, vroom. But I mean, the car that I had did go fast. So, I mean. Oh, yeah. 00:48:54.939 --> 00:49:01.492 You were a baller. Wanna be shot. Shot call. Running in hands on the impala. 00:49:02.446 --> 00:49:05.060 Bro, it feels good to be here with you. It feels really good. 00:49:05.060 --> 00:49:08.117 I've missed this. I've missed this. I've missed you guys. 00:49:08.698 --> 00:49:11.276 Life's been life, guys. But we don't want you to think that we're, 00:49:11.514 --> 00:49:14.648 you know, we're just, we're life and right with you. 00:49:14.776 --> 00:49:19.510 We are. Also, you can go to the twotalkingfools.com website if you'd like to 00:49:19.510 --> 00:49:23.640 purchase merchandise. There's going to be stuff coming, new stuff on there, 00:49:23.640 --> 00:49:27.006 as well as we are doing an order in here for the holiday season. 00:49:27.302 --> 00:49:28.840 That's going to include some nice things. 00:49:29.445 --> 00:49:34.135 And everything is free shipping right now. So take advantage of that. 00:49:34.552 --> 00:49:36.759 Other than that, twotalkingfools.com. 00:49:37.476 --> 00:49:38.358 We love you. 00:49:39.169 --> 00:49:46.533 Shabba, you got anything else for him? Holla Holla, y'all Holla, y'all Peace.