Darrell Peterson and David Gaona on Passing The Torch At Lifeline: täielik transkriptsioon

00:04:56.160 And I tell you, that's that's powerful. 00:04:56.160 --> 00:05:02.480 And um I think every dessert night, that's one of the things I start with, too, is just honoring him. 00:05:02.480 --> 00:05:04.079 And he's honored through our building. 00:05:04.079 --> 00:05:10.160 But um it has been an amazing 17 years. 00:05:10.160 --> 00:05:13.360 The relationships that I have with kids, it's just phenomenal. 00:05:14.079 --> 00:05:16.319 Yeah, he was definitely a special man. 00:05:16.319 --> 00:05:20.399 In 2012, uh, you had a fire. 00:05:20.399 --> 00:05:21.120 Yes. 00:05:21.120 --> 00:05:22.480 Tell me about that. 00:05:23.279 --> 00:05:35.279 Um, I woke up and noticed that I had a message on my phone, and um someone had said, Hey, your your building's on fire. 00:05:35.279 --> 00:05:41.759 So I went down to uh State Street and the building was gone. 00:05:41.759 --> 00:05:44.959 I mean, uh the roof had collapsed. 00:05:44.959 --> 00:05:51.600 Um the fire department told me that um they had poured a million gallons of water into that fire. 00:05:51.600 --> 00:05:56.480 Because if you remember, there were two other buildings that caught fire, and there was people in one of the other buildings. 00:05:56.480 --> 00:06:01.839 So, rightly so, the firemen were far more concerned about uh that one house. 00:06:01.839 --> 00:06:05.680 And I remember sitting there and thinking, what in the world are we gonna do? 00:06:05.680 --> 00:06:10.160 And at that time I was actually helping the Y out as well. 00:06:10.160 --> 00:06:24.959 The most amazing thing about this community, and Kevin, you were a part of that with Boys and Girls Club, is everybody reaching out, and Monday we still had clubs, which is pretty amazing, um, how the everybody rallied around us. 00:06:24.959 --> 00:06:31.839 And and um we just continued to grow and continued to move on, but it was it was shocking. 00:06:31.839 --> 00:06:36.160 I will say hindsight being in 2020 is the greatest thing that happened to Lifeline. 00:06:36.160 --> 00:06:42.240 Um because at that time, one of the places we went was uh Mary Beck Elementary School. 00:06:42.240 --> 00:06:50.639 And then the principal there went to Roosevelt, and then we're at Roosevelt, and before we knew it, we're at five different elementary schools in Elkhart. 00:06:51.439 --> 00:06:52.720 I remember that time. 00:06:52.720 --> 00:07:03.199 Uh I remember coming over and seeing being on State Street and visiting with you, but I remember the children, teens especially, coming over, and they they were devastated. 00:07:03.199 --> 00:07:05.600 That was like a home to them. 00:07:06.399 --> 00:07:07.360 Absolutely. 00:07:07.360 --> 00:07:12.000 Um it's a place where it was safe and unconditional love. 00:07:13.279 --> 00:07:16.959 But uh you guys moved so quickly and they had a place. 00:07:16.959 --> 00:07:25.040 And what they what the kids quickly realized was yeah, the place was important to us, but it's the people in our lives

that really matter. 00:07:25.040 --> 00:07:25.439 Absolutely. 00:07:25.439 --> 00:07:32.000 And as long as they had you guys, then it really didn't matter what what roof was over their house, over their head. 00:07:32.000 --> 00:07:35.439 So but but you rebuilt and you replanned. 00:07:36.240 --> 00:07:38.720 It was uh thirteen years. 00:07:38.720 --> 00:07:41.519 Um thirteen locations. 00:07:41.519 --> 00:07:46.480 Um it was at times heartbreaking. 00:07:46.480 --> 00:07:56.480 Uh there were times that I would go to the south side, different areas, um, and pray that God would give us the south side, give us an opportunity to really reach the south side. 00:07:56.480 --> 00:08:01.920 And uh I can remember praying too, God, why aren't you giving us a building? 00:08:01.920 --> 00:08:04.079 Um is it me? 00:08:04.079 --> 00:08:18.160 And uh I remember our speaking that openly at one point, and someone said, Look at all the things that have happened in that time frame, the relationship that you have with Elkar Community Schools by being in so many schools. 00:08:18.160 --> 00:08:22.000 We started an internship program, which now has just exploded. 00:08:22.000 --> 00:08:33.919 Um, I think David and I talked the other day that we had um over 350, excuse me, over 350 interns since we started our internship program. 00:08:33.919 --> 00:08:42.240 So we've become a a teaching facility, but all of that was brought about um in that waiting period. 00:08:43.360 --> 00:08:52.559 I when I was at the E lkhart Truth, I remember interviewing Irv or going to talk to Irv, and and there was this, you know, in the newsroom, it's like, oh, you're going to talk to Irv. 00:08:52.559 --> 00:08:58.480 He's, you know, or I mean, he was just known throughout the community as this amazing man. 00:08:58.480 --> 00:09:02.559 Um, but Daryl, I remember after the fire being out on the street talking to you. 00:09:02.559 --> 00:09:13.039 Um, I was a newspaper editor, reporter, and came out and we were talking and with the people next door and what happened, and then there's the whole, you know, how did this all happen? 00:09:13.039 --> 00:09:20.559 But um the the the grief was palpable that this place had gone away. 00:09:20.559 --> 00:09:26.000 Um, but it was also a place that in many ways was so tied to Irv's legacy. 00:09:26.000 --> 00:09:37.759 And so for that, for for that to get reimagined in some ways, um change the organization and you led it through that to what it is now. 00:09:37.759 --> 00:09:50.000 Um, I don't I don't know if this is the right transition, but tell us uh David, on a daily basis, Daryl or David, what what is happening at the the building you have now called the hub? 00:09:50.799 --> 00:09:56.080 Yeah, I can summarize it in two words intentional relationships. 00:09:56.080 --> 00:10:08.879 From the moment our students uh get off the bus, there is a leader greeting them at the door, opening the door for them, smiling at them, giving them high fives, calling them by name. 00:10:08.879 --> 00:10:15.759 And every kid right away they know that they are loved, they are they are seen, and they're known by name. 00:10:15.759 --> 00:10:17.120 What an incredible thing, right? 00:10:17.120 --> 00:10:19.039 That somebody knows you by name. 00:10:19.039 --> 00:10:24.399 And um, as soon as they walk into the doors, that's what what these students are feeling and getting. 00:10:24.399 --> 00:10:25.759 And there's an excitement, man. 00:10:25.759 --> 00:10:27.759 We're excited that you are here. 00:10:27.759 --> 00:10:32.080 If you were to walk around our building, you'll see laughter, joy. 00:10:32.080 --> 00:10:39.200 Um, our leaders are so intentional, and not just uh watching the kids, but playing with the kids. 00:10:39.200 --> 00:10:40.960 And that and that's powerful. 00:10:40.960 --> 00:10:45.440 Uh we pride ourselves on not being babysitters, but we want to build relationships. 00:10:45.440 --> 00:10:58.639 So you'll see our leaders playing the gym games with the kids, you'll see our leaders playing board games, building Legos, but also having sometimes hard conversations, but you can see the love in those conversations. 00:10:58.639 --> 00:11:03.440 There's times where we have to maybe suspend a student for a few days, and that is so hard. 00:11:03.440 --> 00:11:11.519 And and you see how our leaders have such a hard time even saying, Hey, we have to you have to miss a few days. 00:11:11.519 --> 00:11:19.360 And we have leader literally seen leaders hug the students, like, man, I really don't want to do this, but we have to. 00:11:19.360 --> 00:11:23.200 And so that's what you will see, just a lot of intentionality. 00:11:23.200 --> 00:11:30.960 Um, and and for me, when I when I walk around and I see that, it it really does feel like I'm I'm in a miracle. 00:11:30.960 --> 00:11:36.000 Or I'm and I ask myself, man, God, why do I get to do this? 00:11:36.000 --> 00:11:40.080 You know, I get to do this as a living. 00:11:40.080 --> 00:11:42.799 What a what a privilege that is, you know. 00:11:42.799 --> 00:11:47.200 Um, and I tell our leaders like, we get to play with kids, you know, as a job. 00:11:47.200 --> 00:11:49.120 Uh what an amazing thing that is. 00:11:49.759 --> 00:11:55.279 I I think one other thing too is we're very intentional for the number of students that we have in the building. 00:11:55.279 --> 00:11:58.159 Um, we try to keep our ratio to 10 to 1. 00:11:58.159 --> 00:12:02.720 And and the reason for that is so that we can develop the relationships. 00:12:02.720 --> 00:12:06.320 It's incredibly unfortunate that we have to turn kids away. 00:12:06.320 --> 00:12:09.360 Our summer camp, we did 240 this year. 00:12:09.360 --> 00:12:11.919 We're gonna try to do 300 this next summer. 00:12:11.919 --> 00:12:14.080 That's a huge amount of kids. 00:12:14.080 --> 00:12:16.639 And we want to bring quality people in. 00:12:16.639 --> 00:12:22.080 We have the summer internship program through

our um our internship growing. 00:12:22.080 --> 00:12:26.480 But uh we want to bring quality people in to build those quality relationships. 00:12:26.480 --> 00:12:36.000 Another interesting thing is how many middle schoolers and high schoolers we have in our building after school and how many of those have been with us since elementary school. 00:12:36.000 --> 00:12:36.559 Yeah. 00:12:36.960 --> 00:12:45.919 Since um so when I started at Lifeline, my first group of students that I have just graduated this past year. 00:12:45.919 --> 00:12:52.000 So I saw these students all the way from elementary to high school. 00:12:52.000 --> 00:12:55.440 Um and to me, that's a win for me. 00:12:55.440 --> 00:13:00.159 Those are things that nobody can take away from me, and um what a privilege that is. 00:13:00.480 --> 00:13:03.679 And and and now those students become junior cam counselors. 00:13:03.679 --> 00:13:07.360 So they're in leadership positions working with our elementary program. 00:13:08.320 --> 00:13:13.519 And you actually started uh in 2016 as paid staff. 00:13:13.919 --> 00:13:14.559 I was an intern. 00:13:14.559 --> 00:13:16.080 Okay, intern. 00:13:16.080 --> 00:13:19.840 Yeah, I was working part-time um at that time. 00:13:19.840 --> 00:13:22.320 And um yeah, and then slowly. 00:13:22.799 --> 00:13:25.039 But you had been a lifeline kid too, had no. 00:13:26.000 --> 00:13:26.480 I wasn't, no. 00:13:26.720 --> 00:13:27.919 So you grew up in Elkart. 00:13:27.919 --> 00:13:28.480 Yes. 00:13:28.480 --> 00:13:36.080 And and yet had not not had the opportunity to go to Lifeline, but somehow you you fell at into Lifeline. 00:13:36.080 --> 00:13:37.200 Tell me how that happened. 00:13:37.519 --> 00:13:43.759 Yeah, so that's uh again, when we we when we look at this story, all you can see is God. 00:13:43.759 --> 00:13:50.720 You you see God and how he moves things, uh, and he's just so sovereign over our lives. 00:13:50.720 --> 00:14:01.200 But um, when I was in Bible college in upstate New York, uh, I was there for two years, and um God had really burdened me for the youth in Elkart. 00:14:01.200 --> 00:14:07.759 And during that time he would tell me, Hey, go into the schools. 00:14:07.759 --> 00:14:10.639 Hey, go go minister to these youth in Elkart. 00:14:10.639 --> 00:14:14.879 And I was wrestling with God because uh I said, God, how am I supposed to do this? 00:14:14.879 --> 00:14:18.639 How am I supposed to just go into a school and say, Hey, I want to mentor kids? 00:14:18.639 --> 00:14:27.919 And it was a couple months before my end of my time at the Bible Institute, and I was working at their summer camp. 00:14:27.919 --> 00:14:44.240 And it just so happened that Daryl's dad worked at this Bible Institute, and Daryl grew up in that town where this Bible institute was at, and he grew up going to those camps that that I was working at. 00:14:44.240 --> 00:14:51.279 And now, as the executive director, Daryl would take students, lifeline students, up to this summer camp. 00:14:51.279 --> 00:15:01.360 And it just so happened to be that I was in charge of a unit of counselors, and my unit ended up being responsible for those lifeline students. 00:15:01.360 --> 00:15:09.840 Uh, and through some circumstances, circumstances, Daryl and I met and we started talking, and he started telling me the things that Lifeline does. 00:15:09.840 --> 00:15:24.399 He's like, Oh yeah, we mentor students in Elcart, we go into the schools, we have after school programs, literally to the to the um details, the things that God had been telling me to do was exactly what Lifeline was. 00:15:24.399 --> 00:15:27.679 And that's an incredible, yeah, just God. 00:15:28.240 --> 00:15:31.440 So at some point there was a romance that was part of this. 00:15:31.759 --> 00:15:34.320 Um that happened long long afterwards, actually. 00:15:34.639 --> 00:15:42.799 Well, so so so talk because I I don't we didn't in it we didn't lead with this on the podcast, but Daryl, you're now the father-in-law of David. 00:15:42.799 --> 00:15:44.320 Like he is married to your daughter. 00:15:44.320 --> 00:15:47.440 So what how talk how did that come into play here? 00:15:47.759 --> 00:15:49.039 Well, um, two things. 00:15:49.039 --> 00:15:58.960 The interesting thing, too, about the story of uh Word of Life Island was um there was a young man that I had to say, if you walk off this blacktop, I'll physically pick you up and bring you back. 00:15:58.960 --> 00:16:02.960 I've never raised my voice to a lifeline kid, but he knew I was serious. 00:16:02.960 --> 00:16:07.759 Um that student child is now at Lifeline. 00:16:07.759 --> 00:16:08.320 Yes. 00:16:08.320 --> 00:16:10.720 Um, so that's it, that's an interesting thing. 00:16:10.720 --> 00:16:19.840 When David first came, he and Emily were working together at Hawthorne, and they uh, to put it mildly, did not enjoy each other. 00:16:19.840 --> 00:16:21.759 They didn't like each other at all. 00:16:21.759 --> 00:16:37.120 And I can remember saying, you guys need to look at each other's giftedness and talents and realize that um you guys could make a good team here at Hawthorne. 00:16:37.120 --> 00:16:43.600 And uh so it didn't start off um as a romance, it started off almost exactly opposite. 00:16:43.600 --> 00:16:45.200 But I'll let David pick up from here. 00:16:45.600 --> 00:16:53.679 Yeah, just um a few years later, you know, we had um some tragedies at Lifeline um that really bonded the staff together. 00:16:53.679 --> 00:16:56.639 Um, we had to be there for one another during that time. 00:16:56.639 --> 00:17:02.080 And um just through that, we Emily and I just developed a friendship. 00:17:02.080 --> 00:17:04.559 And that's where it all started, just as friends. 00:17:04.559 --> 00:17:12.400 Where uh we would get um some of the other Lifeline employees and we would hang out after our clubs would end. 00:17:12.400 --> 00:17:22.960 So after clubs would end, we would all of us

would go to Emily's house and Emily would feed us and we would watch shows together, and and uh yeah, we would just do a lot of different activities together. 00:17:22.960 --> 00:17:29.519 During that time, uh just feelings started developing and um one thing led to another. 00:17:29.519 --> 00:17:37.920 We the kids would notice it, and the kids they would catch they they were catching on to it because we were bickering, right? 00:17:37.920 --> 00:17:39.839 Uh but really we were flirting. 00:17:39.839 --> 00:17:46.079 And the kids would say, Oh, you guys like each other, and we both would say, We will never marry each other. 00:17:46.079 --> 00:17:53.039 And then finally, when we f we when we did start dating, everyone around us said, We knew it. 00:17:53.039 --> 00:17:54.880 We knew you guys were gonna start dating. 00:17:54.880 --> 00:18:00.640 And the kids were the the funny thing is the kids, the kids were also saying, We knew this was gonna going to happen. 00:18:01.279 --> 00:18:08.000 You know, and and David in in a very respectful way came to talk to me at my house and asked me if he could date Emily. 00:18:08.000 --> 00:18:21.359 And I I remember saying to him, if this works out, you will have the greatest mate that you could possibly imagine for what you want to do. 00:18:21.359 --> 00:18:27.440 Uh Emily was a senior when I went to Lifeline and she was very heavily involved. 00:18:27.440 --> 00:18:31.920 But she is all about ministering to people. 00:18:31.920 --> 00:18:39.920 Um even right now, um on a Tuesday night, she has the entire staff over for dinner. 00:18:39.920 --> 00:18:50.400 And even as the staff has grown to the high twenties now, um, she still loves doing that and gets energy from that. 00:18:50.400 --> 00:18:59.119 And I said to David just the other day, you know, as mud as many times as you can get her in to do something here in the office, she helped us with the Christmas store. 00:18:59.119 --> 00:19:01.359 Um, it just energizes her. 00:19:01.359 --> 00:19:09.200 And you can drop your daughter off at our house anytime to make that happen. 00:19:09.200 --> 00:19:12.079 So um it it is a great team. 00:19:12.079 --> 00:19:18.640 I mean, my wife, I the things that we were able to do, the kids that we had at the house almost every day during the summer. 00:19:18.640 --> 00:19:22.480 Um so Emily was taught by a master. 00:19:22.799 --> 00:19:23.359 Yeah. 00:19:24.000 --> 00:19:25.440 Interesting side note. 00:19:25.440 --> 00:19:28.640 Uh I worked at Lifeline, I attended Lifeline. 00:19:28.640 --> 00:19:31.279 I was in Sagoon Lake growing up. 00:19:31.279 --> 00:19:36.000 Uh Daryl and I were in the same rooms in the early 70s. 00:19:36.000 --> 00:19:36.720 Word of life. 00:19:36.720 --> 00:19:37.440 Word of life. 00:19:37.440 --> 00:19:40.079 Didn't even didn't even know each other. 00:19:40.079 --> 00:19:53.519 And uh we had gone to snow camp, we went to I worked at the island, we'd been in basketball marathons, we and who would have guessed that God would have put us in the same county working with youth in two different two different ministries. 00:19:53.519 --> 00:19:57.279 So just an amazing uh story right there. 00:19:57.279 --> 00:19:59.759 But your story is amazing as far. 00:19:59.759 --> 00:20:08.880 Far as not only how you two met and how you ended up in Elkirk County, but you're the next generation of leadership. 00:20:08.880 --> 00:20:14.720 And that must be invigorating, exciting, must also be a little terrifying. 00:20:15.759 --> 00:20:21.279 Yeah, I mean, I look at it as um just what an opportunity, right? 00:20:21.279 --> 00:20:29.519 I told Daryl I could have been the elementary director for the rest of my life, um, because I just love doing that job. 00:20:29.519 --> 00:20:36.640 Um, but when Daryl approached me about the executive director role, um, Emily and I really took time to pray about it. 00:20:36.640 --> 00:20:40.000 And we felt that the Lord was leading me to that. 00:20:40.000 --> 00:20:43.200 But um, but I don't need to be the executive director. 00:20:43.200 --> 00:20:45.519 We just I just want to serve kids, you know. 00:20:45.519 --> 00:21:05.519 But in that, I feel like it's such a great opportunity, and w the plan that we developed and we have executed has been so key to this transition being um so smooth and just I I have so many people around me that are pouring into me. 00:21:05.519 --> 00:21:08.720 And yeah, it has just been an incredible journey. 00:21:08.720 --> 00:21:20.640 Yes, it has been there there have been moments of fear, but because of all the people that have been put around me and have been developing me, I've it I really do feel ready because of that. 00:21:21.200 --> 00:21:32.400 Well, let's talk about that transition, because I know when I was g I had given a year notice, uh, and I had been in boys and girls clubs for 40 years total, 30 as CEO. 00:21:32.400 --> 00:21:45.920 And I remember as time was getting near, my emotions, it was hard to keep them in check because I was walking away from something that I had built, something that I loved, something that was really, really important. 00:21:45.920 --> 00:21:55.920 Uh and I even though I was transitioning it to somebody who uh is doing an amazing job, uh, it was I still went through a lot of emotional ups and downs. 00:21:55.920 --> 00:22:01.759 And Daryl, maybe you could talk a little bit about that since you are you I'm I'm sure you're feeling some of that. 00:22:02.240 --> 00:22:05.039 Um I think much less than you would think. 00:22:05.039 --> 00:22:07.279 And I I I think there's a couple reasons. 00:22:07.279 --> 00:22:17.119 Because we've worked together for 10 years, um and and really created a great team because David's skill set is different than mine. 00:22:17.119 --> 00:22:22.559 And I think that's important to notice too, because God was able to use me to get lifeline where it is. 00:22:22.559 --> 00:22:28.960 But David's talents is perfect for

where we're heading. 00:22:28.960 --> 00:22:43.680 Um when I first approached David, and this is always emotional for me, when I asked him if he would be interested in doing it, uh actually it was even before that, I said to him, What's your game plan? 00:22:43.680 --> 00:22:46.319 And he said, What do you mean? 00:22:46.319 --> 00:22:49.119 I said, Well, you're a gifted speaker, you've spoken at church. 00:22:49.119 --> 00:22:52.160 Is that a direction or is lifeline your direction? 00:22:52.160 --> 00:23:00.960 And he said, When I was in college, and he just shared it earlier, I prayed all the time that God would send me to the south side of Elkhart to be the man I needed growing up. 00:23:00.960 --> 00:23:10.319 That comment meant the world to me because often not-for-profits will bring in somebody who's competent but not passionate. 00:23:10.319 --> 00:23:19.279 And for lifeline to have somebody who is competent and passionate, 10 years of experience, knows the staff. 00:23:19.279 --> 00:23:22.319 I mean, you know, you check an awful lot of boxes. 00:23:22.319 --> 00:23:34.799 When we decided to do it and picked a time, David did ask me if I would stay on to uh help with the vocational education, the um apparel shop that we have in the construction team. 00:23:34.799 --> 00:23:36.799 And I said, I'd I'd I'd love to. 00:23:36.799 --> 00:23:39.839 Um I want to serve you in any way that I possibly can. 00:23:39.839 --> 00:23:47.519 And I guess it was about two months ago, um, he said, uh, what would you think about leadership development here? 00:23:47.519 --> 00:23:56.400 And you know what, uh, Kevin, um, you know me, and to be able to pour into our staff means everything to me. 00:23:56.400 --> 00:23:59.039 And um I'm just excited about it. 00:23:59.039 --> 00:24:03.200 But you know, I have no desire to make decisions. 00:24:03.200 --> 00:24:05.200 I've said that to David. 00:24:05.200 --> 00:24:08.400 My wife said, What are you gonna do if David does something that you don't think you should? 00:24:08.400 --> 00:24:09.920 And I said, he does that now. 00:24:09.920 --> 00:24:14.559 I mean, you know, there are times our staff comes and says, What do you think about this? 00:24:14.559 --> 00:24:19.519 And I would might say, I don't know if I would do it, or I'm not sure if I would do it that way. 00:24:19.519 --> 00:24:25.119 But being a macro manager, it's like, you know, if you feel that this is what we need to do, go ahead and do it. 00:24:25.119 --> 00:24:29.839 And um I've been pleasantly surprised on a number of occasions. 00:24:29.839 --> 00:24:35.039 Um there's there's a great deal of confidence in David and the staff. 00:24:35.039 --> 00:24:50.079 So I man, I I I just feel so fortunate to be able to have a role, and that role is really doing what I love to do, and that's pouring into people. 00:24:50.480 --> 00:24:56.079 Are you gonna take some time maybe to go away before after you retire just for a little bit? 00:24:56.480 --> 00:24:59.200 Um, you know, well, you know I love golf. 00:24:59.200 --> 00:25:10.480 So um Leslie and I are leaving um I think April 1st is that day, and April 11th, I was able to get a place um for a week south of here. 00:25:10.480 --> 00:25:14.079 And then Leslie and I go away for three weeks in February. 00:25:14.079 --> 00:25:21.279 But what's interesting too, into that is um Andy Murray asked the other day in our secession plane. 00:25:21.279 --> 00:25:27.599 So our we have a secession team that meets, and he said to me, Um, where are we? 00:25:27.599 --> 00:25:30.960 Because January 1st is really the soft start. 00:25:30.960 --> 00:25:32.240 How close are we to that? 00:25:32.240 --> 00:25:36.480 And I looked at David and we smiled and said, he's basically there. 00:25:36.480 --> 00:25:44.480 Um for the last year I have said to him, I will make no decision that affects April 2nd without you being involved. 00:25:44.480 --> 00:25:51.920 Um when we go to Word of Life and we were asked to speak at one of the sessions, I had David do it. 00:25:51.920 --> 00:25:56.559 Um, making sure that everybody knows that David is the future. 00:25:56.559 --> 00:26:00.240 Um so I look at it and just I'm so excited. 00:26:00.240 --> 00:26:01.279 I really am excited. 00:26:01.279 --> 00:26:03.440 I'm excited because I get to spend time with the staff. 00:26:03.440 --> 00:26:07.279 I'm excited because I get to spend more time with my grandkids. 00:26:07.279 --> 00:26:11.119 Um my wife and I were gonna play heck of a lot of golf this summer. 00:26:11.759 --> 00:26:12.160 Good. 00:26:12.160 --> 00:26:13.440 Good for you. 00:26:15.759 --> 00:26:18.400 But you are gonna have a role at Lifeline. 00:26:18.400 --> 00:26:24.799 Like this um you're not uh you you're not completely going away. 00:26:24.799 --> 00:26:32.880 Tell us about what you're gonna be doing, because you're you've you've you've been good at marketing, and now a marketing role is gonna be part of what you're gonna be doing. 00:26:33.599 --> 00:26:38.640 Yeah, you know, it's interesting you would say that too, because I don't ask people for money. 00:26:38.640 --> 00:26:41.759 Pete would use me as an example of what not to do. 00:26:41.759 --> 00:26:59.200 Um but I said we had a strategic planning follow-up meeting um last week, and I said uh to Mike Reddy, who was doing it, I think I'm gonna have an easier time asking for money in the future because I'm saying David needs your help. 00:26:59.200 --> 00:27:02.640 And I said, that may make no sense to people. 00:27:02.640 --> 00:27:05.119 Because I'm not asking for myself. 00:27:05.119 --> 00:27:08.000 And Mike was like, no, that makes sense sense to me. 00:27:08.000 --> 00:27:11.839 And that's I was one who said, Hey, let's do mission 100. 00:27:11.839 --> 00:27:26.160 Um so for me to be in a role of promoting the staff and what the staff is accomplishing, uh, that that that would be much easier in in the future. 00:27:26.160 --> 00:27:28.319 Um so

I'm looking for that. 00:27:28.319 --> 00:27:34.960 And then doing the apparel, you know, that was something that I I wanted to do from years ago. 00:27:34.960 --> 00:27:41.599 And in our first year, to do a quarter of a million dollars in sales blew my mind. 00:27:41.599 --> 00:27:49.519 And the construction team um not long ago built three duplexes from the ground up for La Casa. 00:27:49.519 --> 00:27:52.640 So to expand those things as well is is great. 00:27:52.640 --> 00:27:54.640 And we're teaching high school kids. 00:27:54.640 --> 00:28:00.799 Um, our staff is getting uh certified as teachers, so it's like going to the career center. 00:28:01.200 --> 00:28:08.720 I think one of the things I was so impressed with with Lifeline being ahead of the curve of a lot of the other nonprofits. 00:28:08.720 --> 00:28:15.440 So many of us could find quality staff, but they lived far away, but they couldn't find a place to live. 00:28:15.440 --> 00:28:19.200 That was a constant problem for us in Elkirk County. 00:28:19.200 --> 00:28:25.039 No matter what town it was, it was finding uh a place to live that that was affordable. 00:28:25.039 --> 00:28:31.039 Uh and and because if the employees don't have a place to live, that's hard to have a base. 00:28:31.039 --> 00:28:36.880 But you guys came up with this revolutionary idea that was I was so impressed with. 00:28:36.880 --> 00:28:40.640 Why don't you talk a little bit about how those how those houses happened? 00:28:41.200 --> 00:28:47.119 Well, um if you remember the the State Street was was not really the place to be a while back. 00:28:47.119 --> 00:28:55.759 And there was a duplex across the street, uh prick duplex and um drugs and prostitution. 00:28:55.759 --> 00:29:01.039 Um and we could see from our office all the different things that were going on, it came up for sale. 00:29:01.039 --> 00:29:06.319 And I was talking to our board and it it wasn't met real warmly, so we lost it. 00:29:06.319 --> 00:29:14.720 So then it came up for sale again, and by that time our board was understanding that you know, if we can bring people in for the summer, then we can really do a lot more. 00:29:14.720 --> 00:29:17.359 If we can do one-year internships, we can do a lot more. 00:29:17.359 --> 00:29:28.000 So when it came up for sale the second time, um the guy wanted a pretty decent amount for it, and I said to him, I know what you paid for it, and I know why you're selling it, because I I see it every day. 00:29:28.000 --> 00:29:29.599 I'll give you what you paid for. 00:29:29.599 --> 00:29:31.839 And he took it in a heartbeat. 00:29:31.839 --> 00:29:42.079 And it was actually uh uh Craig Fulmer who um I went to and I said, Can you talk me out of this? 00:29:42.079 --> 00:29:44.960 Because this is a crazy idea. 00:29:44.960 --> 00:29:52.319 And he said, I'm gonna talk to Connie, but uh this is something um I think we're we want to be a part of. 00:29:52.319 --> 00:29:55.519 And I said, again, not being a good fundraiser. 00:29:55.519 --> 00:29:58.480 I said, I didn't come here for money, I came here for advice. 00:29:58.480 --> 00:30:02.559 And he said, Well, if I'm gonna give you money, that means I think it's a decent idea. 00:30:02.559 --> 00:30:04.160 And that's how it started. 00:30:04.160 --> 00:30:14.720 And then all of a sudden it exploded, and we went and got uh another duplex, and then we remodeled two quadplexes and a triplex. 00:30:14.720 --> 00:30:35.519 And actually, David and I talked last week that as we continue to grow, there's an empty lot that we own, and it might be time to look at building something uh new, because we're actually talking to two couples right now who are getting married, who are rock stars, who they both want to work for Lifeline. 00:30:35.519 --> 00:30:44.400 And um, but having the house, as you said, people can drop everything and move here. 00:30:44.400 --> 00:30:50.799 Um, I'm going to Word of Life, Florida in uh January, and we're putting a new banner up. 00:30:50.799 --> 00:30:59.359 And the banner says real big, free housing, paid enter, well, it's paid internship, free housing, life's transformed. 00:30:59.359 --> 00:31:08.079 And there have been so many times where someone says, free housing, and how easy it is for them to uh to move here. 00:31:08.079 --> 00:31:11.279 So it's been it's been a huge game changer. 00:31:11.680 --> 00:31:20.720 And just brings in quality people at the best time because they're ready to launch their careers and we're better than here in Lifeline than to do that. 00:31:21.119 --> 00:31:21.359 Right. 00:31:21.359 --> 00:31:25.839 You know, so we we look at ourselves now as a as a sending organization. 00:31:25.839 --> 00:31:48.960 Um we lost a uh an employee just the other day, and I said to him, and one of the board members said, You we have to look at those as graduations because they've come here, they've cut their teeth in youth ministry, we've been able to teach them, and we literally have former interns in South America and all over the United States who cut their teeth at Lifeline. 00:31:49.519 --> 00:31:49.759 Yeah. 00:31:49.759 --> 00:31:51.440 You know, you have a wonderful board. 00:31:51.440 --> 00:32:14.640 You mentioned about your secession plan, and you've done a great job of building and maintaining a strong board of directors that can be strategic, and you've always provided vision, uh, like the housing and this beautiful facility the community has given you, and you sh that you offered up to another nonprofit to move in to help them get started. 00:32:14.640 --> 00:32:20.400 Uh you just continue to be the leaders in the youth development uh space. 00:32:20.400 --> 00:32:24.000 But this board of directors is very, very unique. 00:32:24.000 --> 00:32:33.200 And the fact that they have been so uh helpful in this trans transition, uh what were some of the bumps along the way? 00:32:34.079 --> 00:32:35.599 I I don't know how many. 00:32:35.599 --> 00:32:39.200

I would say even in the last two years, there was one hiccup. 00:32:39.200 --> 00:32:47.279 And you know, when David and I were talking yesterday about this podcast, honesty was the main thing. 00:32:47.279 --> 00:32:50.640 We always speak honestly with each other. 00:32:50.640 --> 00:32:53.680 Um there's something that I learned years ago. 00:32:53.680 --> 00:32:57.440 Oh, I see, we observe, we interpret. 00:32:57.440 --> 00:33:02.079 The C is not conclusion, the C is asking for clarification. 00:33:02.079 --> 00:33:14.079 So um, and and even through that little hiccup over a year ago, that's what got us through it to say, okay, you know, here's what I'm seeing, help me, help me with this, help me with this. 00:33:14.079 --> 00:33:19.519 And I would say there's an enormous amount of trust and honesty. 00:33:19.519 --> 00:33:29.680 Um and I'll let David chime in here, but when Andy Murray said to me, I'm retiring, what's one thing you can do for me? 00:33:29.680 --> 00:33:32.880 I said, start meeting with David periodically. 00:33:32.880 --> 00:33:39.119 And he has met with David for, you know, like two years every other week. 00:33:39.119 --> 00:33:43.839 And and Kevin, you know, in talking with David, you've been a big part of that as well. 00:33:43.839 --> 00:33:49.200 So uh I think that's really super key that he's not just getting information from one person. 00:33:49.200 --> 00:33:52.799 He he has a number of people in his life, as you mentioned earlier. 00:33:54.160 --> 00:34:01.920 Yeah, I think a lot of people are as much as you pour into kids, a lot of uh successful business people are pouring into you. 00:34:01.920 --> 00:34:12.480 That that had to have been helpful for you, but also a little daunting figuring out how do I take all this in and then and then deploy it back out into the mission. 00:34:12.480 --> 00:34:14.320 So we may talk a little bit about that. 00:34:14.639 --> 00:34:23.360 Yeah, I think um I always um I'm opening your ears to all these giants, you know, in my life. 00:34:23.360 --> 00:34:36.559 And um in terms of these are everyone that is pouring into me in their sector of business or not for profit, they they're the top, you know, and it it's incredible that God has provided that for me. 00:34:36.559 --> 00:34:42.400 And so it's it's so nice to be able to have those people. 00:34:42.400 --> 00:34:50.719 It's so nice to be able to um even for you, Kevin, to be able to come to you to you and just ask you on how to process a few things. 00:34:51.760 --> 00:34:55.760 Tell me what's lifeline gonna look like ten years from now under your leadership? 00:34:56.079 --> 00:35:02.400 Yeah, I think um you will s always see um that we are Jesus centered. 00:35:02.400 --> 00:35:03.199 You know? 00:35:03.199 --> 00:35:07.280 Um that that is something that we that is never going to change. 00:35:07.280 --> 00:35:13.760 And um always finding new ways on how we can um minister to youth. 00:35:13.760 --> 00:35:25.920 So every so if you look at everything that we do, whether it be the vocational, after school, our JDC program, all of those are just part of our mission statement, reaching Elkart's youth. 00:35:25.920 --> 00:35:29.679 So we are gonna find new ways on how to reach Elkart Elkart's youth. 00:35:29.679 --> 00:35:36.960 We are gonna adapt to the uh to whatever the culture is and to make sure that we are reaching Elkart's youth. 00:35:36.960 --> 00:35:41.840 Uh but the one thing that will never be different is that we will be sharing Jesus to those youth. 00:35:42.400 --> 00:35:46.159 Will there be a lifeline Fort Wayne and a lifeline South Bend? 00:35:46.639 --> 00:35:47.119 You know. 00:35:47.119 --> 00:35:53.519 Um I don't I don't think so right now, but you never know what God has in plan for us. 00:35:54.400 --> 00:36:01.119 I think the neat thing is is our mission never changes, but our methods do. 00:36:01.119 --> 00:36:14.800 Uh we've had people ask us to come to certain areas, and what we have said is, hey, we have housing, send someone in, they can take everything that we have and go anywhere they want. 00:36:16.719 --> 00:36:19.280 You've had so many successful stories. 00:36:19.280 --> 00:36:25.440 Tell me, give me some of the stories of kids that have come up through lifeline and where they are now as adults. 00:36:25.840 --> 00:36:38.960 Yeah, so uh Daryl will be able to speak um a lot into that, but I'll give you um a student that right now he graduated and is now actually working for us. 00:36:38.960 --> 00:36:44.719 Um his name is Elvis, and I met Elvis um at Hawthorne Elementary. 00:36:44.719 --> 00:36:47.280 He was one of my first students that I had. 00:36:47.280 --> 00:36:50.159 And um he has come through the program. 00:36:50.159 --> 00:37:03.920 Um he was one of our leaders in our high school program, and um his senior year, he was really struggling that he was gonna graduate because he wouldn't he couldn't come back to Lifeline. 00:37:03.920 --> 00:37:10.480 And he approached uh me one day and said, Hey, what would be the possibilities of me being an intern? 00:37:10.480 --> 00:37:13.360 And we started having those conversations. 00:37:13.360 --> 00:37:18.079 And um he is now working in an arparo shop and he is learning a ton. 00:37:18.079 --> 00:37:24.000 Uh, we are pouring into him, and but that's just one of of the stories, yeah. 00:37:25.039 --> 00:37:28.639 You know, I think that pouring into is those soft skills. 00:37:28.639 --> 00:37:36.320 Showing up on time, learning how to work as a team, learning how to communicate, those kind of things. 00:37:36.320 --> 00:37:48.719 But another great thing is Tadriana, who has worked with us for a number of years, who Emily, my daughter, called me one summer and said, you need to get out of here right away. 00:37:48.719 --> 00:37:53.599 A tragedy in the family, mom's gonna move, it's not gonna be good for Tadriana. 00:37:53.599 --> 00:37:56.480 And uh Emily adopts her. 00:37:56.480 -->

00:38:01.599 And we're talking like 24 hours, mom signs over guardianship to Emily. 00:38:01.599 --> 00:38:04.320 Uh Emily's 26, she's 16. 00:38:04.320 --> 00:38:09.119 But again, um, my first call is Don Phillips, Basher Jones. 00:38:09.119 --> 00:38:10.800 How do we do this? 00:38:10.800 --> 00:38:11.840 How do we maneuver this? 00:38:11.840 --> 00:38:20.159 And he gives us all the paperwork, and Basher supports uh Emily uh financially as well. 00:38:20.159 --> 00:38:32.400 And now Tadriana is a, you know, plays an important role at Lifeline, is actually going to start back at college in January to be a uh social worker. 00:38:32.400 --> 00:38:43.760 So, you know, you could sit here a time and time again of of young people from a very early age and seeing their incredible growth and the impact that lifeline's had on them. 00:38:45.280 --> 00:38:53.280 Thank you both for being here today and and sharing some of your thoughts on your story with us, but also the way that you share your hearts with other people. 00:38:53.280 --> 00:38:55.199 Elkart's a better place for it. 00:38:55.199 --> 00:39:03.119 So um we always uh wrap up the podcast with a question of what gives you hope, and so we'd ask both of you to respond to that. 00:39:04.480 --> 00:39:07.920 Yeah, I that's a great, great question. 00:39:07.920 --> 00:39:20.320 Um every day, like I mentioned, I live in a miracle, and I see our employees' hearts change to love more, to be more patient. 00:39:20.320 --> 00:39:26.400 I see our kids' heart changing to trust us and them knowing that they are safe. 00:39:26.400 --> 00:39:38.719 I see families being impacted because the children go home and tell their parents about the Bible stories and the verses they're memorizing, and then the parents now want to go to church. 00:39:38.719 --> 00:39:46.880 Every day I'm living in a miracle, and I'm seeing hearts transformed, whether it be our employees, whether it be kids, whether it be whole families. 00:39:48.880 --> 00:39:53.199 Um everything that David said, you know, and I I say it was such a grateful heart. 00:39:53.199 --> 00:39:57.599 Because God could have chosen anyone to be at Lifeline, but fortunately he chose me. 00:39:57.599 --> 00:40:02.400 But I think what gives me hope is an Incredibly young, talented staff. 00:40:02.400 --> 00:40:07.599 I've had other not-for-profit leaders say to me, Darryl, you've got the best staff in Elkart County. 00:40:07.599 --> 00:40:16.079 And that gives me great hope for the future and continued, continued growth. 00:40:16.079 --> 00:40:19.519 Very talented, very passionate for our kids. 00:40:19.920 --> 00:40:23.440 This show is a production of the Community Foundation of Elkart County. 00:40:23.440 --> 00:40:30.000 It is powered by equipment from Sweetwater and recorded at the Community Foundation's offices in Elkart's River District. 00:40:30.000 --> 00:40:37.119 Editing is done by the award-winning communications students at Goshen College, home of one of the best college radio stations in the nation. 00:40:37.119 --> 00:40:40.400 Listen to Globe Radio at 91.1 FM. 00:40:40.400 --> 00:40:43.280 Music is provided by sensational sounds. 00:40:43.280 --> 00:40:47.840 Learn more about the Community Foundation of Elkhart County at inspiringgood.org. 00:40:47.840 --> 00:40:51.039 You can follow us on Facebook, Instagram, and LinkedIn. 00:40:51.039 --> 00:40:52.239 Thanks for listening. 00:40:52.239 --> 00:40:56.400 We hope you're inspired and inspire good in your community.