EP 54 - Stop Chasing. Start Becoming! 🤩

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This year, stop chasing
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and start becoming.
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Because the goals that truly transform your
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life aren't the ones that you chase down.
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They're the ones
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you become one with.
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Are you ready to shine?
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Come on, it's
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the shiny one.
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You got this.
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My dear shiny mind, you who's watching,
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may I invite you to hit that subscribe
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button?
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This way,
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you and I are going to become partners in
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#shine and elevate the consciousness in the world.
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Thank you so much in advance and I'll see
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you inside.
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Hello, everyone.
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Welcome back to
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the Shiny Minds Show with Dr. Shiny.
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I am the proud creator of
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Neuro-Shine Technology™,
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a transformational
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international coaching federation
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accredited coaching education curriculum,
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which is
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a combination of
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10 powerful
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disciplines.
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Is a proven framework that transformed
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thousands of lives.
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And now
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it is coming to you
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with this podcast
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and YouTube episode.
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Wherever you are watching or listening, I
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am here today to talk about chasing versus
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becoming because it is all about radical
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alignment.
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In 2026, I want us to
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to stop chasing.
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I want us
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to
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become a different frequency.
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I want us to become something different.
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You know,
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every January
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we all set goals.
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We all have our vision boards.
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We write down what's important for us.
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I'm going to achieve this.
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I'm going to achieve that.
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I'm going to do this.
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I'm going to do less of this.
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I'm going to become less of this.
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I hope you do also have less goals.
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Every time I write goals, I
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make sure
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My biggest list is becoming goals.
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And those becoming goals, they include
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becoming less something.
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For example, becoming less agitated,
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becoming less frustrated because it's.
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how
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I operate, running a global business and having
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audacious goals makes me
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an overachiever,
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a big performer, right? I have done
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two doctorates last year.
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I have finished, I mean, it took me 15
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years in total to achieve both of them, but
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in one year I wrote two dissertations and
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the year before that I wrote my master thesis
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and before that wrote my Neuro-Shine
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Technology™ training manual. And before that,
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I wrote
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my
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323 page
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book.
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And before that, you know what I mean?
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There's always
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another goal that we are chasing.
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And what is it about? Like, why do you want
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the goals that you want?
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Is it really about
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the goal itself or is it about who you're
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going to be when you achieve the goal? I
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bet everything that I got is a great
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goal.
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about the becoming because it's never the
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destination in life.
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It is the journey.
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We all know it.
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It's not where we are going.
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It is how we are going there.
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Of course, where we go and then where we
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end up is very useful and very joyful if we
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achieve the goals.
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And regardless,
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Sometimes I just set myself very high goals.
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They're so
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out of
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reach in my current reality,
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but
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I know that it is reachable.
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Nothing is unreachable.
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If I never set that goal for myself,
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I know that there won't be any programming,
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there won't be any resonance with it.
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So that's why I make sure to set also some
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galactic goals in my language
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so that I can
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work on them so that my neurons can
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see them as doable.
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Hey, your wish is my command, right?
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Our reticular activating system
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is operating
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with that principle.
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Once you set that,
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then
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all your neurons, your
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neural neurons and reticular activating
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system in your prefrontal cortex, they are
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going to look for
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those visual, tangible
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cues in life.
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you will find out, oh, right when I decided
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to do this, I noticed I
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see a lot of that around.
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Have you ever experienced that? Perhaps you
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wanted to buy a certain car
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and you
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start seeing that car all the time in front
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of you.
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They have always been there.
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They're not just appearing just for you.
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It's your brain
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picking it up.
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You're setting the frequency behind it.
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It's the same thing.
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When you set a goal for yourself, when you
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tell your neurons, when you put Put the
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direction, the GPS.
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When you say that's where we're going, your
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neurons are like, okay, your wish is my
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command.
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Where are we going again?
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Here. Okay,
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let me find out the quickest, the most
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efficient way to get you there.
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And here's one.
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And it's just going to keep popping
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those clues, those things that you are
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programming yourself for, because that's
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how the brain works.
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It's the
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attraction, it's the frequency, it's the
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resonance.
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And today, that's exactly what I want to
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talk about.
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I want to talk about
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the concept of radical alignment as
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the law of physics, why it's important that
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we need to align with our goals.
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And instead of chasing them, we need to
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become them.
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Just pay attention.
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I'm not even saying you need to attract them.
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That is so 2025.
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We don't want to even like attract our goals.
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We need to become our goals.
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That is the highest level.
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And that's why I am using the terminology
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of
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radical alignment.
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When
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we teach Neuro-Shine Technology™, which is
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the
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technology for truth.
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We teach it for everybody to
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live in alignment with their truth.
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If you're not living in alignment with your
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truths,
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then of course you're going to leak energy.
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Of course, you're going to bump into
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friction,
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exhaustion,
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burnout,
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and some sort of learned helplessness
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because you are unaware.
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So today I am going to break down the
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physics.
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Literally
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the physics
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of
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living in a radical alignment
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with your own truth, with your own
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authentic voice and why it matters and
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how all the
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high achievers, the most successful people
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in this planet earth
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are the ones who do not chase goals,
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but they are the ones who become one.
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one with them.
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If you're ready, let's talk about what
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alignment is.
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Hello, Shiny Minds.
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Sorry to interrupt, but I just wanted to
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tell you that this Shiny Minds show
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is sponsored by
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my Academy of Neuro-Shine Technology™, where
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myself as the founder and my hand-selected
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amazing elite
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ICF-accredited
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coach educators
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are here
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to support you.
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to make you feel safe,
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seen, heard,
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appreciated,
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free to become whoever you want to be,
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and also
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transformed
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forever, inside out.
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We are here to hold your hands
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and to support your growth.
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If you ever feel like there is this part of
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you who
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wants to become more
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and achieve more,
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let us become your partners in #shine.
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Think of alignment as the physics of
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resonance.
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And let's look at the sky.
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Let's start with the sky mechanics.
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When you look at the sky, when you look at
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the sun,
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and when you look at all the planets that
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are orbiting the sun, what is really going
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on? There's gravitational force, right?
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There is some sort of alignment because of the
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gravity.
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Gravity is
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this cosmic pull.
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It's literally cosmic because it's
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everywhere in the entire universe.
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There is this cosmic pull of
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the mass that we carry, the planets carry,
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the sun carries, and you carry, I carry.
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Although we
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have teeny tiny physical mass,
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we are mostly energy,
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including the universe itself.
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There is still some matter, some
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physical mass that we have. And
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the gravity, that
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pull,
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the cosmic pull in the universe is
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what keeps everything in order, what makes
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the sky mechanics run with order in an
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organized, very beautiful, structured way.
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If we do not have gravity, if we do not
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have orbiting power of
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the sun for the planets,
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then they're just going to
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be in chaos, right? There is some sort of
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order in the universe.
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That order is
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the resonance, the physics of resonance.
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That alignment creates the resonance.
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And then I want you to think about now,
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let's come down from the sky mechanics
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and let's talk about your everyday life.
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Okay,
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so we're gonna
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come down
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to earth
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and we are going to talk about
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your everyday reality.
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You're gonna go
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imagine your You're going to visualize your home.
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And as you visualize your home, think about
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how you take a bath.
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So if you're someone like me,
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you're going to have your rubber ducky with
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you in your bath, right? She's going to be
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with you
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in the bath.
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You fill up your bath with hot water,
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and you add your Epsom salt and your
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lavender. Oh,
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amazing,
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luxurious items, components of your bath,
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and then you have your
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rubber ducky.
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and
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you
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have your rubber ducky float around the
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water with you.
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And what happens? The rubber ducky
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enjoys herself.
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I mean,
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mine happens to be a female, so that's why.
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The rubber ducky enjoys herself around the water.
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If
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it is not
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close
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to the drain, it just does whatever it does.
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It's kind of like chaotic.
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Right? It's not like the sun
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creating that kind of like cosmic pull,
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that gravity for the planet to orbit around it.
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It's more like, oh, I'm just here.
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I'm just, you know, hanging out by myself
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type of a thing.
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But the moment you bring your rubber ducky
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close to the drain, what is the drain?
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That's the sun.
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That's the gravitational pull.
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Now we're talking cosmic.
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Now we're bringing the sky mechanics down
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right in
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your bathtub
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and your rubber ducky is going to enjoy
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that because now we're talking resonance.
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Now we're talking
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gravitational pull.
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Now we're talking
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alignment.
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Now we're talking flow.
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You see what I'm saying? Visualize it with me.
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Your rubber ducky is enjoying.
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herself because now
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she has something
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to orbit around.
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She has something to be in alignment with, to
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be in the flow of.
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Now she is dancing.
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You see what I'm saying?
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See,
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that's why she's so cute. So
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anyways.
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That is how
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I wanted to explain
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the alignment, the radical alignment,
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the physics
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of alignment, and how
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it
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makes sense for you with your goals.
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Now we're going to connect the dots from
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sky mechanics to your rubber ducky in your
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bathtub.
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And now we're going to talk about your goals.
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I have a point, I promise you.
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So the point I have is that
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when you have a goal that resonates deep
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with all subatomic particles of yourself,
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then it's just going to be this flow, this
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radical alignment.
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All your body is going to scream,
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yes, we call it the nourish and moments of truth,
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right? Because there's truth in it.
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You're resonating with it.
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There is physics of alignment.
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There is a resonance.
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So this resonance is just like around it.
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It feels, it feels resonant.
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I'm going with the flow with it.
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I'm actually right around the right next to it.
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I'm orbiting around it.
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That has to be the frequency.
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If your goals
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do not carry the rubber ducky alignment,
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the rubber ducky resonance, they're not
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going to stick.
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No wonder why you set goals
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when you just like push yourself and you
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just like grind yourself when you just like
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push through it and then burn out, right?
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Because
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There is no resonance.
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There is no drain.
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There is no sun
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that makes everything in order.
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Everything is just like hanging around
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separately.
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They are not connected with
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one center sun.
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And guess who that center sun is?
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Yes, my shiny minds, that is you.
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That's why
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you do
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not want to chase goals.
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You want to become yourself.
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your goals.
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And yes, you also want to
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love your rubber ducky because she's going
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to remind you
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why you need to become your goals.
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So I hope at the end of this episode,
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you go get yourself a
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cute rubber ducky
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and that way you remember
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this.
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Because I mean, you're taking a shower or a
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bath every day, right? If you're someone
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clean, you will.
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So
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When you have this rubber ducky right next to you,
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whenever you have the baths, whenever there
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is this resonance, you're going to remember
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this conversation.
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You're going to say to yourself, oh, Dr.
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Shiny was talking about the goals and why
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we need to become the goals for the radical
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alignment, because it's the laws of
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physics.
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Just like my rubber ducky
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just
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goes and orbits around the drain.
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I am going to be
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the sun, the drain of my own goals.
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Like you're going to set your goals around
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who you are, not the other way around.
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The reason why I was able to transform my life so
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radically
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is because
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I take
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radical decisions.
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I make the moves.
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I let go of my career of a decade back in
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Istanbul.
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And then I said bye-bye
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to my very comfortable
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and yes, very abundant and prosperous life.
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I was traveling
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Nordic Europe and I was managing
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more than a hundred people in more than
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seven countries.
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I was making a difference in the company
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as the head of marketing.
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working directly with the CEO, and I was
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feeling that my work meant something.
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And then I was married.
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I had a life.
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I had friends. I had
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everything that I worked for in Istanbul.
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Guess what?
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I created that.
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So that's why when I felt the Nourish Shine
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moment of truth,
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when I become
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the new goal, which was
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to move back to Los Angeles, California,
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and to go after my
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wildest, wildest, wildest dream
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to live here in the U.S.
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and to just become something even bigger.
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I knew that I had a bigger potential.
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I knew that I had to become
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my new goal so that I can attract all the
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other circumstances,
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all the other people, situations,
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so that they are aligned.
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They are radically aligned.
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with my goal.
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I had to become the goal.
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You see how I get passionate?
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When I
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made that radical decision, the entire 3D
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reality
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collapsed itself into
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my dream.
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15 years fast forward.
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I am
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living my dream.
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I have become
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my dream. And
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as you are watching or listening to this
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episode,
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I am actually celebrating the 15th year
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anniversary
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of starting my journey, my journey of
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becoming shiny
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and becoming the light for myself and for
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others.
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in this lifetime, and I am deeply fulfilled
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because I live in radical alignment.
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I understand the physics of creating the
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change, becoming the change.
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And that's why in all of my episodes, I
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keep talking about
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my formula for change,
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which is awareness
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multiplied
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by willingness.
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If you find yourself setting
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your goals for the new year, for 2026,
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And you are promising yourself, this time
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is going to be different.
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This time I'm going to make it happen.
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This time I'm not going to
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let it slip away.
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I'm going to own it this time.
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But still yet, it's still not sticking
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because you're not becoming.
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The who
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needs to come before the what.
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The who
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is
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you.
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You are the sun.
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You are the sun, the planets, meaning the
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people, the situations,
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the luck that is going to orbit around you.
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You are going to be the drain
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that your rubber ducky is going to flow
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around, orbit around.
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You are going to become the frequency that
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attracts all the other similar frequencies
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for you to become the quality of your life
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that
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you are wishing so
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deeply for.
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You have to stop some behaviors
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that are absolutely not in alignment.
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If they are not in alignment with your new
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self, no excuses.
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Cut them.
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Stop them.
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That's it.
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It's time to stop.
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It's time to
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speak
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up.
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Kindness at the expense of your values? No.
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Pleasing others
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at the expense of your truth?
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No.
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Hiding who you really are for others'
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approval? No.
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Trying to impress others
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while betraying your own cosmic audience
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within? No.
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You
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have to stop it,
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okay?
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I have to be very truthful here, and then I
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have to remind you that radical Radical
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alignment requires
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radical decisions.
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Just no, no more excuses, no more.
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That's it. You
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need to be in radical alignment with
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whatever you want, whatever you choose,
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because otherwise, I promise you, you're
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not going to get what you want.
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It's just
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physics.
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It's physics.
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I studied 15 years
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for
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the metaphysics of human behaviors,
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the science of consciousness.
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I wanted to understand the,
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the law behind it.
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Like why
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do we achieve some things? Why
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extraordinary people become extraordinary?
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Why do they get to live
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the life of their dreams and you don't?
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Why? Because
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they bet on themselves.
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I bet on myself
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again and again and again,
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even when I
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lost
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more than
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$100,000
582
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and I got
583
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my website hacked.
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I had to deal with hackers.
585
00:19:45,700 --> 00:19:45,940
I
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had to go through that
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all by myself
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in a foreign country where I didn't know
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anybody.
590
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I had to pay people to help me.
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And next thing you know, my credit card
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piled up. It
593
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was more than a hundred thousand dollars.
594
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Guess what?
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I kept on investing.
596
00:20:03,780 --> 00:20:06,100
I kept on betting on myself.
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I kept on believing,
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choosing the frequency of certainty over
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anything else.
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That's what radical alignment means.
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When you are too afraid to open your mouth,
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to speak your truth,
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because you're afraid what others are going
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to say, that is so
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not aligned.
606
00:20:26,420 --> 00:20:28,580
That is so out of alignment.
607
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No wonder why you don't get what you want.
608
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No wonder the universe is not hearing you
609
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because you're not clear.
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My darlings, my shiny minds,
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It's time you wake up. up.
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It's time you feel
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the call inside of you.
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I am coming to you
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this year.
616
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You need to have to stop chasing.
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You have to start becoming.
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You have to start becoming
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the sun,
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the drain for your little
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rubber ducky and your big audacious goals,
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whatever you have.
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This is the year
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you wake up.
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This is the year you
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choose you.
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You say, you know what? I'm choosing me.
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I would really love to do this for you, but
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not at the expense of my own self-peace,
630
00:21:17,780 --> 00:21:19,140
my self-care. So
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00:21:19,540 --> 00:21:21,780
perhaps we can reschedule that. Say it.
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Start becoming comfortable by saying
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No, you can't do it in a kind way.
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You don't have to choose kindness at the
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expense of your truth.
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I see it all the time.
637
00:21:32,820 --> 00:21:34,580
It just like breaks my heart.
638
00:21:34,660 --> 00:21:36,420
It's enough already, you guys.
639
00:21:36,420 --> 00:21:37,060
It's enough.
640
00:21:37,380 --> 00:21:38,820
You're being burnt out.
641
00:21:38,900 --> 00:21:40,660
People are not treating you well.
642
00:21:40,980 --> 00:21:43,060
People are not giving you the value that
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you deserve.
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00:21:43,860 --> 00:21:44,660
It's time
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you start
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giving the value that you deserve.
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If you don't, nobody else will, because
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you're not teaching them, you're not giving them
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any reason to. Understand?
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That's why
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I'm inviting you to become the goals, the
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dreams that you want from 2026 to
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become the change that you want to see in
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the world and to become the person that you
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00:22:10,380 --> 00:22:11,020
are in love with.
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That's it from me for today.
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Thank you for watching.
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Until next time, keep shining your light.
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Go galactic,
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then you're in the right
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place.
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Scott?