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welcome to the Shiny Mind Show with Doctor Shiny
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I am super excited to have Katerina
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Ambartsumyan in the house
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ladies and gentlemen
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another Shiny Mind on our Shiny Mind Show
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are you ready to shine come on
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it's the shiny one you got this
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thank you thank you shiny
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I'm super excited and thank you for having me here
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I was waiting for this moment
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and if you said this back in 2019
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that that would be happening this day
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I would be like mmm yeah sure
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haha this is
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this is something amazing
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I know right
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like would you ever think about that
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like 2,019 but yeah
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that marks the date of our encounter
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our cosmic galactic encounter with Katarina
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Katarina how did we meet Darling
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well that was transformational year actually of my life
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hmm before well
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I would I was that person who would just
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you know try to find everything
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analyze everything I I was just
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you know that I had my journey and I
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I wanted to find something and explore myself
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and I I had a great
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actually a journey and as you know
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that was not linear yeah
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I would have be here and there and then studying this
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and I actually got acquainted with
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the university of California
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in general back in 2,010
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that actually
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was the time when I fell in love with that university
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and I was like I gotta
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I gotta come here back
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come back here and study more and that was 2019
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when I actually I was I I
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I still remember those days
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when I was sitting here in Moscow
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and just choosing two programs to do at UCLA Extension
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and I was like leadership communication strategies
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that's something I need
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and I looked through and you had your photo there
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smiling I was like OK
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she's she's welcoming she's friendly
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I'm I'm gonna pick that one OK
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I'm gonna do that really yes
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I would I would
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I would definitely actually
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look at the photo of the instructor of the program
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so that matters matter too really
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so you you loved my smiley welcoming face
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I did I did ooh yes
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isn't that interesting okay
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so this is already an amazing introduction
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so dear shining minds whoever is watching or listening
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this is so important because obviously
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whatever we do how we represent ourselves in the world
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we kind of like you know judge the book by its cover
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ha ha ha ha that's right
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and it's totally fine right when people say oh
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you shouldn't judge the book by its cover
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I mean that's what we all do actually yeah
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at first glance but then obviously we gotta go deeper
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but first yeah
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that's that's what it is right
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oh my God it is obviously
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and that's the importance of having your photos
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very authentic and then very real
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having a smiling photo
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and like welcoming vibe in your photo
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I'm so glad to hear this
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I don't think we ever talked about this
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part of how we met Carolina
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I love hearing this yes
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that was like the first sign
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you're like the first thing to like tick tick
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well done she's good
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and then well yeah
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obviously the rest is as you can understand
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like she was my student at UCLA Extension
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that I have been teaching since 2,012
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the Leadership Communication Strategies class
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and she was super good oh my goodness
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so
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I want to hear the rest of our first meeting from you
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Katerina because obviously from your perspective
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it looks and it just also feels very different
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so how did you first meet me
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when I entered the room do you remember to share
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I remember I
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I truly remember everything
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oh please share
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I I really remember everything
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and I
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I remember that actually our first meeting was online
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you showed up on camera first and then yes
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that's what I remember oh really
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that that I don't remember
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tell me that was
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if I'm not mistaken that was
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you were supposed to fly from Istanbul to US
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or from some other city
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uh huh there was something like that
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because I remember watching you and you were sharing
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and that was my first time seeing you
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I mean in life
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but through the video oh okay
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even like we met on campus at the UCLA Extension campus
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like this is happening online
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that happened first on I mean
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but I don't know why I have it in my memory huh
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okay that's interesting
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but I remember the first day when you entered the
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the classroom oh yeah OK
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would you like to share
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and I remember the fact that we had a big class
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that was a pretty big class
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and I remember once you entered
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that's actually coming from the energy of the person
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uh you were wearing a dress uh
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a suit and a like a suit and a
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uh and heels
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I still I remember that yeah
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and I remember like you were
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confident stepping to class when you entered
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and like once you entered
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that was the energy actually that you brought
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and just just like in a second
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you brought the whole attention of the class
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I really I truly remember that
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I was like super excited you know how I felt that time
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like I was sitting and there was a person
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like a speaker on the stage
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like we were all watching
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not just like a regular class
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that was something different really wow
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wow that was interesting
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that different different
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completely different feeling uh
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different from other classes
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I definitely need to give you some more divorces
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right now
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like we never talked about these things
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that's so cool that's so interesting
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like I'm gonna share now
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and I'm I just realized
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that I got so excited now
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and curious to hear from your perspective
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like how it happen like
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why would it be me and even when you said like
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she was amazing I'm like
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what exactly was amazing you know
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I just started being curious about that
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mm hmm OK
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so let me just go through that first
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just from my perspective just sharing all of that
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please so well
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what actually
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fully made me fall in love with the program
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and just um
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I don't know with every single cell of
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of of me to dive into that
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is that
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it was not just a program that gives you theory
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or gives you just rules or things like
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that's what you should do to become a leader
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that was actually from a completely different angle
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that was looking first
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looking at yourself from inside and exploring yourself
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and then I realized that oh my god
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that's what I needed that's what I needed
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and there was in
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even in this leadership communication strategy program
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there was a pinch of NLP you wouldn't go deep into that
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but there was a pinch of NLP
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and I was like oh my god
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what is that
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what ingredient is she using in this program you know
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secret ingredient that she's using
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and I remember the book your book that we were reading
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and I loved it because it was not just a book
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but it was something about learning about yourself yes
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yes sign your star yeah
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it was like about yourself first of all
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and when I was reading
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I you know what I started feeling
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oh my God I wanna hear super curious if I mentioned
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but I definitely talked to my mom
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and I would just tell her
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I was like mom
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that's so weird but there like when I'm reading this
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this is like kind of biography as well right
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it is yeah real biography and I'm like
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why do I feel so close to this person
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I really couldn't explain
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there are just too many things that I feel her
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like I totally get what it is about
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because it touches me too
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that was so interesting really
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that actually also created some sort of trust in me
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to open up and when we were doing this homework
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like assignments
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and that was all about self exploration
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so when we were when we were doing that I I felt so um
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safe you know
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to open up
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even though like I knew that you were gonna read it
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right
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but I can't guess what I didn't even think about it
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oh my God I was just sitting with my paper and writing
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or my computer and typing
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wow that's what I that's how I felt
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that was really beautiful
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all the assignments that I gave you in inside my book
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that's what she's talking about by the way
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for those of you who are exactly what's going on my
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my class at UCLA
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Extension was really a personal development class
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more than a professional development class
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and I can actually show on screen
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this is how it looks like
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you literally needed to fill in these places
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like these blanks inside the book
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and the assignments
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like weekly assignments that they would get graded
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are these exercises inside my book
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and those exercises are asking nothing but their gifts
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their mission their galactic right
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they're even the like your galactic mission statement
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your purpose
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exactly your gift that made you think you would be like
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that would actually put you
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like you would find yourself be stuck
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okay let me just
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let me think about it yeah hmm
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they were like deep questions there
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oh yeah
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and I remember like I
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I let's say I will start typing something
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and then was like no no no no
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there is something more and then deleting again okay
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no this is kinda
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you started exploring yourself
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and your values and beliefs and wishes and everything
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you're like you're calling
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trying to find the calling right
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yeah and yeah
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and you would literally uh prioritize
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prioritize you know
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just go up right and up right
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and step by step finding this truth in yourself
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oh yeah
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oh yeah
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well that is actually now so funny
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that's the instructor in me uh
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do you shine your minds do you remember
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the 7 C's of a leader that I was teaching
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I still have my copy book actually
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because I would write everything by hand
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and I still have this copybook and I
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I have every
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every single word you would just write or say
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I would literally write everything
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I was that nerdy student oh yeah
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you were and that's why you noticed like
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you know that's why I noticed you
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and then I was like okay
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she's special you had your own magical vibe about you
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and then I actually noticed that
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and before I go there
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do you wanna list all those seven seas
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oh my God it starts with consciousness consciousness
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confidence confidence
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calling that's what you're calling right
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calling
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commitment commitment to the calling exactly
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the fifth one
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who was that control
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because if you commit too much
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you can't yes
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there needs to be control
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control 5 OK
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two more
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look at look at us what
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look at us I'm just like quizzing you
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the last two is charisma and contribution right
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charisma I
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I love this one actually I loved yes
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and I remember the games we did
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and the quizzes
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and discussions we did around that topic charisma
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oh my God yeah
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yeah and then the presentation that you all did
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at the final presentation
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oh my God that's that's when I fell in love with you
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I mean
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I have been already like noticing you in my class
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and I have been wondering what is like
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what is it about her
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like something about her is just so different
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obviously you said it was a big class
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I think it was like 30 people or like
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that's what I'm curious about
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what was so different that you could feel that
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your vibe your energy and your openness
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you know I sense energy
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that's that's what I where I wanted to go to energy
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I sense energy
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I am a double Pisces and in my human design
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I actually have that part of me
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I'm not gonna go into details
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that I can actually tune into the energy around me
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and I can actually feel it
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and that makes me a very intuitive
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like highly intuitive highly sensitive human being
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and that's how I felt
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I knew that it was something different
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but when you also made your presentation
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the way that you were delivering your message
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the way that you were sharing your story
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the way that you were open
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the way that you were
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connecting with others in the class
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and also the charisma that you have
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obviously it's a part of it right
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I was like now you Learned all the Seven seas
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demonstrate all of them as a leader right
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so I was expecting a charismatic delivery in the class
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and then there you go with your like
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you know you have the
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the poison and you have this vibe about you
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you're very articulate
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the way that you talk very neatly
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and I loved your tonality
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I loved the way that you were very clear
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oh yeah yeah
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I'm like tell him
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tell him tell me more hahaha tell him
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tell him more hahaha great presenter
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this is a great style of communication
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I can actually sit down and listen to her
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and that is always obviously my benchmark right
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if I can sit down and if I enjoy listening to you
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hearing and learning from you yeah
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that's a done deal and that was it for me
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not only the energy and your openness and your vibe
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and obviously you are you
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you got an a A+ from me didn't you
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yes I did yeah
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yeah not only yeah
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not only you have this great vibe
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it's not only that
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it's a combination of so many different things right
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you're not only that but you're also super intelligent
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you are obviously very you know
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good student
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you got the A+ and you are very presentable
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and your communication style
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your influential leadership and your the
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your storytelling
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yeah yeah
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I remember when you were actually you know
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there is one thing as you started talking about this
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delivering the presentation
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um as I'm also a teacher
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I'm an educator right right yeah
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we never talked about your
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your background actually please introduce yourself
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yeah we will get back to you
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but like
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there is one thing that I wanted to highlight actually
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what I Learned from you
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when I was at USC Extension as your student
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so I just I
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I remember when you were giving feedback to us
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after every single presentation
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and that was so structured and deep
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and in a very pleasant way
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you know that you would actually accept it
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you would always say this
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this this was perfect great
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you would just um
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um a praise
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and then you would get what could be done better
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yeah and then yes
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no but right no
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but nothing yes
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no but
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and what could be done better
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and you actually perceive it differently
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oh yeah
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differently and you're like
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you just literally start analyzing and just thinking
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oh actually yeah
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maybe like
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I should pay attention to this part or that part
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that is so important because how many people
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the skill of giving feedback
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oh yeah 100% right
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how many people just like
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go direct into your core wounds
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that you bring your child from your childhood
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and yes you don't even know what's going on
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and then boom they just like put salt into your
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your scar and yeah
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unfortunately it happens a lot
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it happens yeah
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and that is a lack of self control
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and like we also teach that now okay
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now I I actually want you to just properly
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please introduce yourself to everybody because we
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we we just like jumped into Holly Matt at UCLA
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and ladies and gentlemen
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Katerina is one of our coach educators at the
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Academy of Nurishing Technology
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as a matter of fact she's actually right in the middle
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of a cohort that she is teaching
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so please introduce yourself properly Katerina
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so everybody gets to know you
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I'm um a teacher
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a lecturer at the university um
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here in Moscow it's a financial university
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under the government of the Russian Federation
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and there I teach international uh
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business communication in English boom
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which is amazing which is also all about communication
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and what's beautiful I always incorporate all of this
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you know coaching skills and um analytical skills
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analytical skills in my um teaching yeah method
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so um
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apart from that obviously
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as our doctor shiny said
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I'm a a member of the faculty and ICF coach
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a credited ICF coach which which is amazing and um
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this is a not honor for me
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it's it's
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it's just a big gift actually to lead a cohort
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because that's what I started doing
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and I was really waiting for that time
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for that moment to start doing that
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and right in the beginning
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like before before we started the show
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we were just talking that that's something
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I realized that I can do it again and again
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again and again and I'm not gonna get tired of that
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yeah
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this is something that it is just like so fulfilling
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you you
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you don't know what you don't know until you just like
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hit record on that very first zoom class that you
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deliver and after that
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you're hooked
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yes that's so true
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you're hooked creating change and transformation
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and witnessing growth in people
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and how they transform inside out
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and then how you are a part of that delicious
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co creation it is so blissful
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yes this this is a completely different that I
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I really love the word that you said fulfilling
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this is really fulfilling
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this is something that brings
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gives so much energy to you
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and you you don't even feel tired after the the class
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you feel like I like at right after the class
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I was like that was actually ten PM here
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and I was like I I I have too much energy
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I gotta do something you know
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I gotta run burn my energy
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you go galactic with it that's it
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like it energizes you and it does
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it does definitely you do that
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oh my goodness so
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for those of you who are wondering
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how we went from Katerina
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being a student
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sitting in my leadership class at USC Extension
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in 2,019
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and now fast forward 2,025
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she's actually delivering my oh my god
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this wow look what we're talking about
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and I remember like every single step
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you know like being a student
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and then when you literally just picked me
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you were like Katerina
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you're gonna come to do my program
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that was NST right and NLP
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that's what I started from and I started doing that
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yeah that was on that was offline
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and I was literally doing all together
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oh yeah
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I'm a nerd I love when I'm just
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when I have a lot of studying yes
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classes yes
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but that experience was so different
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that experience just completely changed everything
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and that's that was the time when I realized you if
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if you remember
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I told you that I had a feeling back then before
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before I started doing all of that
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I had a feeling that yes I love teaching
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I love what I'm doing but there is something missing
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there is something more
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I could sense it that there was something more
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but I couldn't find I
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I I didn't know what it was
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and then once I started doing NLP and NST
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I started getting I
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I just had this aha moment actually
526
00:22:23,833 -->
00:22:25,600
and I realized oh my god
527
00:22:25,600 -->
00:22:27,466
that's what I was looking for
528
00:22:27,566 -->
00:22:29,333
that's where I feel so
529
00:22:29,433 -->
00:22:31,400
so home you know
530
00:22:31,433 -->
00:22:33,266
oh what a feeling
531
00:22:33,266 -->
00:22:34,266
yes that
532
00:22:34,266 -->
00:22:35,833
that was beautiful that's like I
533
00:22:35,833 -->
00:22:37,900
I felt this uh
534
00:22:37,900 -->
00:22:40,400
joy inside that was amazing
535
00:22:40,400 -->
00:22:42,066
wow this is yes
536
00:22:42,066 -->
00:22:46,466
and then I did level 1 ACC Pat Level 1
537
00:22:46,466 -->
00:22:48,733
then I did level 2 as well
538
00:22:49,100 -->
00:22:50,666
and then level 3 like
539
00:22:50,666 -->
00:22:54,266
and level 3 and I flew the whole way to Miami
540
00:22:54,266 -->
00:22:58,433
and then again to Miami exactly twice yes
541
00:22:58,433 -->
00:23:00,066
that was that was beautiful
542
00:23:00,066 -->
00:23:01,266
oh my god
543
00:23:01,800 -->
00:23:06,066
and just being a a member of um
544
00:23:06,066 -->
00:23:08,333
Near China Academy this is
545
00:23:08,366 -->
00:23:09,633
it means the world really
546
00:23:09,633 -->
00:23:11,900
this is just this is this is the top
547
00:23:12,900 -->
00:23:15,700
same here my beautiful Katarina
548
00:23:15,700 -->
00:23:18,633
I do remember the day we had that conversation
549
00:23:18,633 -->
00:23:21,633
in my car in Los Angeles you remember that
550
00:23:21,633 -->
00:23:23,833
oh my god I remember it so well
551
00:23:23,833 -->
00:23:26,566
we were driving from NLP to the
552
00:23:26,600 -->
00:23:29,300
to the to the class at UCLA right
553
00:23:29,300 -->
00:23:32,633
and it was just like such a spiritual moment when I was
554
00:23:32,633 -->
00:23:34,866
like getting to know you at another level
555
00:23:34,866 -->
00:23:36,466
in that moment I felt it
556
00:23:36,466 -->
00:23:37,633
remember you were asking like
557
00:23:37,633 -->
00:23:40,966
how do I pick how do I know right
558
00:23:41,466 -->
00:23:44,433
I actually knew in that moment
559
00:23:44,433 -->
00:23:47,366
that she's going to teach minor
560
00:23:47,366 -->
00:23:49,200
shine technology in Russia
561
00:23:50,700 -->
00:23:53,700
like I knew it right in that moment
562
00:23:53,700 -->
00:23:55,566
and then I told you that I said
563
00:23:55,566 -->
00:23:59,300
I remember I told you that yeah
564
00:23:59,300 -->
00:24:00,000
it was like oh my God
565
00:24:00,000 -->
00:24:01,966
I'm getting this pops like this is this yes
566
00:24:01,966 -->
00:24:02,300
I I
567
00:24:02,300 -->
00:24:03,766
and I remember my feeling
568
00:24:03,766 -->
00:24:05,833
you know what I was having inside that
569
00:24:05,833 -->
00:24:07,000
that moment huh
570
00:24:07,000 -->
00:24:09,466
what I was like wow
571
00:24:09,466 -->
00:24:10,100
this that
572
00:24:10,100 -->
00:24:11,233
I mean that sounded too cool for me
573
00:24:12,533 -->
00:24:13,666
you know oh
574
00:24:13,666 -->
00:24:14,633
and I I mean
575
00:24:14,633 -->
00:24:16,000
I was like wow
576
00:24:16,000 -->
00:24:18,033
that would be awesome but I
577
00:24:18,033 -->
00:24:21,300
I I can't say that I truly believed it would happen
578
00:24:21,300 -->
00:24:23,033
too good to be true huh
579
00:24:23,033 -->
00:24:24,500
yes too good to be true
580
00:24:24,500 -->
00:24:25,833
I was like well
581
00:24:25,833 -->
00:24:28,400
sounds amazing but well
582
00:24:28,433 -->
00:24:30,300
do I have what it takes ever happen
583
00:24:30,300 -->
00:24:31,366
you know ah
584
00:24:31,433 -->
00:24:34,000
I know I can totally relate because I
585
00:24:34,000 -->
00:24:36,633
I've had exactly the same thoughts
586
00:24:36,633 -->
00:24:38,400
the same doubts in my mind
587
00:24:38,400 -->
00:24:41,200
oh can can I make that happen
588
00:24:42,966 -->
00:24:44,200
I'm just putting it out there
589
00:24:44,200 -->
00:24:47,866
but I just I just said it like the words just came out
590
00:24:48,300 -->
00:24:51,666
I mean I don't even have like the structure for it
591
00:24:51,666 -->
00:24:53,366
but I know I want it
592
00:24:55,466 -->
00:24:58,900
yeah that that was actually the inner voice
593
00:24:58,900 -->
00:25:03,066
this intuition that the sense that you had that said
594
00:25:03,100 -->
00:25:03,566
yup yup
595
00:25:03,566 -->
00:25:06,433
that is that's how they manifest alright
596
00:25:06,433 -->
00:25:08,600
your shiny ones who are watching
597
00:25:08,600 -->
00:25:09,600
who are listening that's
598
00:25:09,600 -->
00:25:11,100
that's called manifestation
599
00:25:11,100 -->
00:25:14,866
that is called I believe the law of attraction
600
00:25:14,866 -->
00:25:18,300
that is how I also listed and talk in my book
601
00:25:18,300 -->
00:25:20,533
right as part of my metaphysical studies
602
00:25:21,566 -->
00:25:24,500
it's so great so we had that intention
603
00:25:24,500 -->
00:25:29,233
so when you really truly put your intention
604
00:25:29,233 -->
00:25:33,900
so clearly into that quantum field
605
00:25:33,900 -->
00:25:36,766
it just aligns so deeply
606
00:25:36,766 -->
00:25:40,966
and the universe is like your wish is my command
607
00:25:42,166 -->
00:25:43,900
yes and here we are
608
00:25:44,066 -->
00:25:45,933
here we are she
609
00:25:46,100 -->
00:25:52,066
she goes from my leadership student to teaching
610
00:25:52,066 -->
00:25:53,966
our coaching students right now
611
00:25:53,966 -->
00:25:58,100
she is about to certify the next generation of coaches
612
00:25:59,666 -->
00:26:01,466
oh my God that feels so
613
00:26:01,666 -->
00:26:03,900
so proud so proud really
614
00:26:03,900 -->
00:26:05,166
I know right
615
00:26:05,166 -->
00:26:07,700
yeah and then by the way
616
00:26:07,966 -->
00:26:12,900
shall we also talk about our learnings and lessons
617
00:26:12,900 -->
00:26:15,366
you know there are so many people who are
618
00:26:15,500 -->
00:26:17,966
running into obstacles and barriers
619
00:26:17,966 -->
00:26:18,866
and then like
620
00:26:19,700 -->
00:26:21,666
like oh I
621
00:26:21,666 -->
00:26:22,666
I I couldn't do it
622
00:26:22,666 -->
00:26:25,833
I failed and then they stop and then I I
623
00:26:25,833 -->
00:26:28,000
I am not good enough and then they
624
00:26:28,000 -->
00:26:29,133
they stop
625
00:26:29,466 -->
00:26:33,766
would you like to share some of your experiences of
626
00:26:33,766 -->
00:26:35,633
like what you experienced
627
00:26:35,633 -->
00:26:38,400
and then how you just overcame all those
628
00:26:38,633 -->
00:26:41,033
yes and that's actually I
629
00:26:41,033 -->
00:26:44,300
I think there is like there is a bunch of things that
630
00:26:44,300 -->
00:26:47,166
I would just use the wrong words
631
00:26:47,466 -->
00:26:48,233
hmm saying
632
00:26:48,233 -->
00:26:52,566
and just talking about myself or like about my trials
633
00:26:52,866 -->
00:26:56,166
and due to this wrong words
634
00:26:56,166 -->
00:26:58,400
because of these wrong words
635
00:26:58,500 -->
00:27:00,866
I would just not feel enough
636
00:27:00,866 -->
00:27:03,933
you know I would not feel enough powerful
637
00:27:04,066 -->
00:27:06,300
and I would not complete something
638
00:27:06,400 -->
00:27:08,266
because the wording was wrong
639
00:27:08,266 -->
00:27:09,766
so that that's
640
00:27:09,766 -->
00:27:12,166
that's something that we learn to do right
641
00:27:12,166 -->
00:27:14,733
alright it's important what
642
00:27:14,866 -->
00:27:16,800
what message you put inside
643
00:27:16,800 -->
00:27:20,700
yeah the programming and the programming exactly
644
00:27:20,866 -->
00:27:22,866
and that's the words you use
645
00:27:22,866 -->
00:27:25,233
not only when communicating with the others
646
00:27:25,233 -->
00:27:27,200
but first of all with yourself
647
00:27:27,300 -->
00:27:28,466
with yourself right
648
00:27:28,466 -->
00:27:31,400
because everything starts from ourselves
649
00:27:31,433 -->
00:27:32,233
oh yeah
650
00:27:32,233 -->
00:27:35,666
that is a huge learning and that is a huge message
651
00:27:35,666 -->
00:27:37,733
that we would love to share with you
652
00:27:38,000 -->
00:27:43,266
if you are talking to yourself with a negative language
653
00:27:43,466 -->
00:27:45,400
and if you are wondering like
654
00:27:45,400 -->
00:27:47,233
why things are not happening
655
00:27:47,233 -->
00:27:49,466
well let's start right there
656
00:27:49,533 -->
00:27:53,200
and like because in your language
657
00:27:53,233 -->
00:27:57,666
with the language you dictate your reality
658
00:27:57,666 -->
00:27:59,700
that you literally create your reality
659
00:27:59,700 -->
00:28:01,500
with the words that you use
660
00:28:01,500 -->
00:28:03,800
so that's why you want to perhaps like
661
00:28:03,800 -->
00:28:07,033
pause and do a language audit
662
00:28:07,033 -->
00:28:10,033
I'm so excited and passionate
663
00:28:10,033 -->
00:28:12,033
about doing a language audit
664
00:28:12,033 -->
00:28:14,966
like how are you talking to yourself
665
00:28:15,366 -->
00:28:20,500
if you just listened to yourself in the whole 24 hours
666
00:28:20,500 -->
00:28:20,800
I mean
667
00:28:20,800 -->
00:28:23,266
minus the the part that you're sleeping obviously
668
00:28:24,033 -->
00:28:26,866
well you would never know exactly perhaps even then
669
00:28:26,866 -->
00:28:28,600
what would you hear from yourself
670
00:28:28,966 -->
00:28:31,333
isn't that a great way to approach Karina
671
00:28:32,900 -->
00:28:33,700
actually
672
00:28:33,766 -->
00:28:36,833
analyzing everything and hearing from the side
673
00:28:36,833 -->
00:28:38,100
listening to yourself
674
00:28:38,400 -->
00:28:39,866
from the side right
675
00:28:41,466 -->
00:28:44,566
because only then we start analyzing why
676
00:28:44,566 -->
00:28:47,466
because this is some kind of autopilot mode
677
00:28:47,566 -->
00:28:49,833
uh huh we say a lot of things
678
00:28:49,833 -->
00:28:52,900
just because we're programmed that way right yeah
679
00:28:52,900 -->
00:28:56,533
we say this because that's that's the program we have
680
00:28:56,533 -->
00:28:57,500
yeah
681
00:28:57,500 -->
00:29:00,600
and and it's not because probably we think that way
682
00:29:00,600 -->
00:29:05,066
but just because we're used to use these words yeah
683
00:29:05,066 -->
00:29:06,733
and that's a habit already
684
00:29:06,733 -->
00:29:08,600
and then it's like so unconscious
685
00:29:08,600 -->
00:29:11,500
for example from my own beginning
686
00:29:11,500 -->
00:29:14,800
when I was in my corporate world back in assemble
687
00:29:14,866 -->
00:29:19,600
I remember there was a time going after one career
688
00:29:19,600 -->
00:29:21,500
after one career let me it's the same career
689
00:29:21,500 -->
00:29:23,200
it's advertising and marketing
690
00:29:23,200 -->
00:29:25,700
but and then it wouldn't stick
691
00:29:25,700 -->
00:29:26,666
I remember like
692
00:29:26,666 -->
00:29:30,500
I would work in an advertising agency within a year
693
00:29:30,633 -->
00:29:31,633
like like
694
00:29:31,633 -->
00:29:35,533
I'm in another agency either they just like fire me
695
00:29:36,866 -->
00:29:37,800
I'm like okay
696
00:29:37,800 -->
00:29:38,466
I don't like it
697
00:29:38,466 -->
00:29:42,766
I'm gonna go like it was like that for I believe six
698
00:29:42,766 -->
00:29:44,166
seven eight years
699
00:29:44,166 -->
00:29:47,000
like one after the other one after the other
700
00:29:47,000 -->
00:29:47,766
and then guess what
701
00:29:47,766 -->
00:29:52,033
it makes you feel something is wrong with me exactly
702
00:29:52,033 -->
00:29:54,466
I started asking this question to myself
703
00:29:54,600 -->
00:29:57,766
what is wrong with me I'm getting goosebumps
704
00:29:58,100 -->
00:30:00,400
yeah and that was when I realized
705
00:30:00,400 -->
00:30:02,400
you know I'm talking about language audit
706
00:30:02,700 -->
00:30:06,066
that is when I realized I was asking the wrong question
707
00:30:06,066 -->
00:30:07,666
whatever you ask yourself
708
00:30:07,900 -->
00:30:10,566
you shall receive exactly
709
00:30:10,933 -->
00:30:13,600
so I was getting the answers that all the reasons
710
00:30:13,600 -->
00:30:16,200
what might be wrong with me
711
00:30:17,433 -->
00:30:19,966
and you would find so many things right
712
00:30:22,100 -->
00:30:23,966
oh check check check
713
00:30:23,966 -->
00:30:24,266
oh yeah
714
00:30:24,266 -->
00:30:25,333
I did I did that
715
00:30:26,866 -->
00:30:27,966
so then
716
00:30:27,966 -->
00:30:31,033
you end up becoming a part of a problem
717
00:30:31,033 -->
00:30:34,700
that you are stuck in and you're defined by
718
00:30:34,766 -->
00:30:37,166
no wonder why you cannot get out of it
719
00:30:37,166 -->
00:30:38,066
no wonder why
720
00:30:38,066 -->
00:30:41,200
you don't get the results that you want in your life
721
00:30:41,200 -->
00:30:41,933
no wonder why you don't understand
722
00:30:43,500 -->
00:30:43,700
like why things are not happening for you
723
00:30:45,833 -->
00:30:48,033
because you're asking the wrong questions
724
00:30:48,033 -->
00:30:49,900
so exactly right
725
00:30:50,200 -->
00:30:50,800
so yes
726
00:30:50,800 -->
00:30:53,700
yes because you're also teaching obviously
727
00:30:54,200 -->
00:30:56,200
communication negotiation
728
00:30:56,200 -->
00:30:57,600
like business right
729
00:30:58,600 -->
00:31:03,066
what is your favourite thing to teach as part of
730
00:31:03,066 -->
00:31:04,166
communication
731
00:31:04,233 -->
00:31:05,600
negotiation or business
732
00:31:06,266 -->
00:31:07,300
communication really makes your heart
733
00:31:09,266 -->
00:31:11,333
can't wait to talk about this
734
00:31:11,333 -->
00:31:15,733
I think I truly love talking about values
735
00:31:16,500 -->
00:31:21,166
beliefs and how it is connected with the communication
736
00:31:21,266 -->
00:31:24,700
so that's literally about potato head right
737
00:31:24,700 -->
00:31:25,600
and uh
738
00:31:25,600 -->
00:31:29,866
communication components like what's go yes
739
00:31:30,100 -->
00:31:34,033
what's going on and about this how
740
00:31:34,033 -->
00:31:37,000
how it works why it happens this why we
741
00:31:37,000 -->
00:31:39,466
we react I really love talking
742
00:31:39,466 -->
00:31:44,300
about this interaction and our reaction and emotions
743
00:31:44,500 -->
00:31:46,966
why and where it's coming from
744
00:31:46,966 -->
00:31:51,900
and how we can analyze and explore ourselves
745
00:31:51,900 -->
00:31:54,633
in order to be able to be
746
00:31:54,633 -->
00:31:56,966
a good communicator with others
747
00:31:57,200 -->
00:31:59,333
oh yeah because once you study yourself
748
00:31:59,766 -->
00:32:01,133
you're actually gonna
749
00:32:01,166 -->
00:32:03,266
kind of catch yourself from time to time
750
00:32:03,266 -->
00:32:06,166
being a potato potato hat as well right
751
00:32:06,166 -->
00:32:09,400
it happens but when you have these tools
752
00:32:09,700 -->
00:32:11,700
when you know where it's coming from
753
00:32:11,700 -->
00:32:14,566
how it works in our brain right
754
00:32:14,566 -->
00:32:17,200
this is like a part of NLP and NST
755
00:32:17,400 -->
00:32:18,333
mm hmm that's yeah
756
00:32:19,100 -->
00:32:21,300
you wanna also mention what is the potato head
757
00:32:21,300 -->
00:32:22,800
now everybody is wondering like potato head
758
00:32:22,800 -->
00:32:25,233
I know I was waiting for it
759
00:32:25,233 -->
00:32:25,866
like Katarina
760
00:32:25,866 -->
00:32:27,166
you didn't mention that
761
00:32:27,266 -->
00:32:31,600
potato hat is that person always judgmental
762
00:32:31,600 -->
00:32:33,633
I'm being a potato hat like everybody knows
763
00:32:33,633 -->
00:32:34,800
hahaha
764
00:32:35,633 -->
00:32:37,700
Mr and Mrs Potato Hat
765
00:32:38,366 -->
00:32:41,200
this is that person who things
766
00:32:41,200 -->
00:32:43,066
that always knows everything
767
00:32:43,066 -->
00:32:45,633
who judges assumes right
768
00:32:45,633 -->
00:32:51,066
who is always right who never wants to hear any other
769
00:32:51,066 -->
00:32:51,866
um
770
00:32:52,800 -->
00:32:55,066
perspectives yeah
771
00:32:55,066 -->
00:32:56,766
perspectives like
772
00:32:56,766 -->
00:32:58,600
I'm always right yeah
773
00:32:58,600 -->
00:33:00,866
and that's it and then you're wrong
774
00:33:01,033 -->
00:33:02,600
I'm right and I'm the smartest
775
00:33:03,066 -->
00:33:05,000
yes and the others are always wrong
776
00:33:05,000 -->
00:33:06,900
they're like always arguing with everyone
777
00:33:07,666 -->
00:33:11,000
right if anybody is feeling like
778
00:33:11,000 -->
00:33:13,366
oh that is me hahaha
779
00:33:14,200 -->
00:33:15,800
yeah be here yo
780
00:33:15,800 -->
00:33:17,100
that's where it all begins
781
00:33:17,866 -->
00:33:19,200
this this is like a very
782
00:33:19,200 -->
00:33:21,200
I would say like sharp uh
783
00:33:21,200 -->
00:33:23,766
introduction of potato hat right
784
00:33:24,866 -->
00:33:27,666
like the worst type of potato hat
785
00:33:28,433 -->
00:33:30,200
which would be my mom you know
786
00:33:30,200 -->
00:33:31,766
when I started working with her
787
00:33:31,766 -->
00:33:34,466
you know back in 2,013 she
788
00:33:34,466 -->
00:33:38,500
she was never wrong oh my God really
789
00:33:38,633 -->
00:33:39,666
like seriously
790
00:33:39,666 -->
00:33:41,966
I was like fascinated I'm like
791
00:33:42,000 -->
00:33:44,433
how could you even like think that
792
00:33:44,433 -->
00:33:48,066
you can be right about every single thing in life
793
00:33:48,066 -->
00:33:50,066
like how yeah
794
00:33:50,066 -->
00:33:52,800
but every single person have their own
795
00:33:52,800 -->
00:33:53,766
yeah right
796
00:33:54,300 -->
00:33:56,366
that's what I that's what I love teaching
797
00:33:56,366 -->
00:33:58,800
because when I start teaching that
798
00:33:58,800 -->
00:34:02,800
I literally see in the eyes of the people this like
799
00:34:02,800 -->
00:34:08,166
oh my God and they start actually um
800
00:34:09,366 -->
00:34:11,933
studying themselves oh yeah
801
00:34:12,066 -->
00:34:14,900
it's not that you actually start uh
802
00:34:15,166 -->
00:34:15,300
you you
803
00:34:15,300 -->
00:34:18,433
you don't start exploring and on
804
00:34:18,433 -->
00:34:20,366
trying to scan the other person
805
00:34:20,366 -->
00:34:21,933
and your um
806
00:34:22,766 -->
00:34:23,566
the the
807
00:34:23,800 -->
00:34:25,433
the person you're talking to right
808
00:34:25,433 -->
00:34:28,200
your interlocutor it's not about that
809
00:34:28,200 -->
00:34:29,766
because you start from yourself
810
00:34:29,966 -->
00:34:31,366
and then you actually
811
00:34:31,366 -->
00:34:33,100
having all of this knowledge and tools
812
00:34:33,100 -->
00:34:34,533
and instruments and everything
813
00:34:35,033 -->
00:34:37,466
you catch yourself sometimes
814
00:34:38,200 -->
00:34:41,100
just being a victim of this potato hat
815
00:34:41,100 -->
00:34:43,266
like feeling this potato hat is
816
00:34:43,266 -->
00:34:47,666
took over you your emotions and everything right
817
00:34:47,666 -->
00:34:48,400
and it's yeah
818
00:34:48,400 -->
00:34:50,466
absolutely yeah
819
00:34:50,533 -->
00:34:51,600
that's that's um
820
00:34:51,600 -->
00:34:54,300
I even I sometimes just talking
821
00:34:54,300 -->
00:34:54,966
I'm like OK
822
00:34:54,966 -->
00:34:58,500
stop literally stopping myself and I'm like OK
823
00:34:59,100 -->
00:35:00,400
this is my truth
824
00:35:00,400 -->
00:35:03,500
but it doesn't mean this is this person's truth boom
825
00:35:03,833 -->
00:35:04,633
right
826
00:35:05,266 -->
00:35:08,466
and when I teach this um
827
00:35:08,466 -->
00:35:12,566
and it already starts transforming people
828
00:35:12,866 -->
00:35:14,866
and it's deep I believe
829
00:35:14,866 -->
00:35:17,500
like very deep that's why I
830
00:35:17,800 -->
00:35:18,400
when I you
831
00:35:18,400 -->
00:35:20,000
when you said like when you feel oh my God
832
00:35:20,000 -->
00:35:21,300
I'm gonna talk about it
833
00:35:21,300 -->
00:35:23,633
that's how I feel when I have to teach this
834
00:35:23,633 -->
00:35:26,166
I'm like oh my God I'm gonna talk about it yeah
835
00:35:26,166 -->
00:35:28,266
oh my God I love hearing that Karina
836
00:35:28,266 -->
00:35:29,866
because this is exactly
837
00:35:30,166 -->
00:35:33,366
the path to becoming a shiny mind
838
00:35:33,666 -->
00:35:36,400
shiny mind obviously means in
839
00:35:36,400 -->
00:35:39,366
in our language is an enlightened mind
840
00:35:39,366 -->
00:35:41,033
a grateful heart
841
00:35:41,033 -->
00:35:45,700
and a curious mind is what makes somebody a shiny mind
842
00:35:45,700 -->
00:35:51,100
and it all begins by accepting your a potato hat right
843
00:35:51,100 -->
00:35:51,400
like you
844
00:35:51,400 -->
00:35:54,100
you are coming from a place of unconsciousness
845
00:35:55,900 -->
00:35:58,933
and you are unaware of what is going on
846
00:35:59,000 -->
00:36:00,966
until you become aware but guess what
847
00:36:01,266 -->
00:36:06,933
once you're aware then it is never the problem anymore
848
00:36:07,000 -->
00:36:08,833
because after awareness
849
00:36:08,833 -->
00:36:12,500
there comes the willingness in our formula for change
850
00:36:12,500 -->
00:36:13,300
right
851
00:36:13,666 -->
00:36:16,533
so awareness multiply by willingness
852
00:36:17,100 -->
00:36:19,433
that's it there you go you're free
853
00:36:19,433 -->
00:36:24,333
and we gotta also tell you it's uncomfortable growth
854
00:36:24,900 -->
00:36:29,900
it is very uncomfortable facing your shadows
855
00:36:30,266 -->
00:36:31,833
facing the fact that oh my God
856
00:36:31,833 -->
00:36:37,066
I was wrong it's one of the hardest things that people
857
00:36:37,200 -->
00:36:40,300
can actually accept like I'm like
858
00:36:40,300 -->
00:36:44,100
this is I can tell you like 15 years into teaching
859
00:36:44,766 -->
00:36:46,933
you know what I'm I have been teaching
860
00:36:47,166 -->
00:36:51,500
one of the hardest things to do for every human being
861
00:36:51,500 -->
00:36:53,500
for any human being whoever you are
862
00:36:53,500 -->
00:36:54,533
it doesn't matter
863
00:36:54,566 -->
00:36:58,000
one of the hardest things to do is to say yeah
864
00:36:58,000 -->
00:37:00,800
I was wrong I'm wrong it's so hard
865
00:37:00,800 -->
00:37:02,200
but yet so simple
866
00:37:02,766 -->
00:37:04,266
right yeah
867
00:37:04,266 -->
00:37:06,166
it is there there
868
00:37:06,166 -->
00:37:07,766
there there is one thing actually I
869
00:37:07,766 -->
00:37:09,233
I just remembered
870
00:37:09,233 -->
00:37:13,400
and I wanted to mention that something that I actually
871
00:37:13,600 -->
00:37:15,600
I'm I'm not sure if you've noticed
872
00:37:15,600 -->
00:37:16,266
but I've
873
00:37:16,266 -->
00:37:19,633
I stopped saying I don't know all the every single time
874
00:37:19,633 -->
00:37:20,166
oh my God
875
00:37:20,166 -->
00:37:22,566
this is something that we have been working with you
876
00:37:22,566 -->
00:37:24,000
yes yes
877
00:37:24,000 -->
00:37:27,733
because you actually said that you were like Katerina
878
00:37:28,233 -->
00:37:31,966
have you noticed that you say I don't know all the time
879
00:37:31,966 -->
00:37:32,466
yes yeah
880
00:37:32,466 -->
00:37:34,033
language audit darling
881
00:37:34,033 -->
00:37:35,166
language audit yes
882
00:37:35,166 -->
00:37:37,400
yes and I would literally say I don't know
883
00:37:37,400 -->
00:37:40,000
and that's what we had actually
884
00:37:40,000 -->
00:37:41,900
that's what we were discussing actually
885
00:37:42,100 -->
00:37:44,700
this week with the with our coaches
886
00:37:45,166 -->
00:37:50,100
that there are two reasons why we may say I don't know
887
00:37:50,400 -->
00:37:51,066
it's well
888
00:37:51,066 -->
00:37:53,166
actually we should all know that
889
00:37:53,166 -->
00:37:55,466
it's not because we truly don't know
890
00:37:55,600 -->
00:37:59,500
we know everything we have all the answers inside
891
00:37:59,766 -->
00:38:01,200
but when we say I don't know
892
00:38:01,200 -->
00:38:05,633
the first reason is either we are just
893
00:38:05,633 -->
00:38:07,566
our neurons are like super lazy
894
00:38:08,266 -->
00:38:11,166
super lazy to move and they're like
895
00:38:11,166 -->
00:38:12,433
it's easier to say I don't know
896
00:38:12,433 -->
00:38:15,100
I don't wanna go there and I
897
00:38:15,100 -->
00:38:17,233
I don't wanna move right
898
00:38:17,233 -->
00:38:20,000
that means we need to give some exercise to our neurons
899
00:38:20,000 -->
00:38:22,033
the second reason is
900
00:38:22,033 -->
00:38:25,000
it just feels more comfortable and safe to say
901
00:38:25,000 -->
00:38:26,266
I don't know probably
902
00:38:26,266 -->
00:38:28,200
there is something you don't wanna face
903
00:38:28,200 -->
00:38:30,966
and acknowledge and admit right
904
00:38:30,966 -->
00:38:32,300
and you're like I don't know
905
00:38:33,033 -->
00:38:37,566
uh huh and with certain things that I had recently
906
00:38:37,800 -->
00:38:40,333
when I was saying I don't know all the time
907
00:38:40,433 -->
00:38:42,066
I realized that
908
00:38:42,066 -->
00:38:46,266
I just didn't want to face certain things oh
909
00:38:46,600 -->
00:38:48,800
very shine moment ladies and gentlemen
910
00:38:48,800 -->
00:38:50,866
very shine breakthrough in the house
911
00:38:50,866 -->
00:38:54,666
hold up I I wanna just congratulations ha ha
912
00:38:56,566 -->
00:38:58,933
it's true yeah yeah
913
00:38:59,100 -->
00:39:02,466
I was I was hmm what was that you didn't want to face
914
00:39:02,466 -->
00:39:04,566
if you want to share okay
915
00:39:04,700 -->
00:39:09,800
what it was I think I didn't want to face the fact
916
00:39:09,800 -->
00:39:11,600
this is very complicated okay
917
00:39:11,600 -->
00:39:13,233
I'm I'm pretty sure you're gonna get it
918
00:39:13,233 -->
00:39:15,833
this is super complicated okay
919
00:39:15,833 -->
00:39:17,000
super curious now
920
00:39:17,500 -->
00:39:23,066
ha ha so a part of me went to the victim mode
921
00:39:23,500 -->
00:39:24,966
mm hmm yeah
922
00:39:25,466 -->
00:39:27,100
and I would be like oh
923
00:39:27,100 -->
00:39:29,266
this is not enough I'm not enough
924
00:39:29,266 -->
00:39:32,666
and I would just complaining about myself to myself
925
00:39:32,766 -->
00:39:33,600
you know like hmm
926
00:39:33,600 -->
00:39:35,566
this is not this this is not no
927
00:39:35,566 -->
00:39:37,800
it's doesn't work I can't do this
928
00:39:37,866 -->
00:39:39,833
why I didn't want to go there
929
00:39:39,833 -->
00:39:42,166
because I didn't want to admit that
930
00:39:42,400 -->
00:39:45,700
I didn't want to admit that I was in a victim mode
931
00:39:45,700 -->
00:39:47,266
you know what I mean oh yeah yeah yeah
932
00:39:48,000 -->
00:39:49,400
I'm not there I mean
933
00:39:49,400 -->
00:39:51,600
I'm good I'm I need I'm a coach
934
00:39:52,033 -->
00:39:54,300
I'm not there hmm
935
00:39:54,300 -->
00:39:56,433
oh yeah that was like a double thing
936
00:39:56,433 -->
00:39:57,400
you know yeah
937
00:39:57,400 -->
00:39:59,566
like that's the that's the power trap
938
00:39:59,566 -->
00:40:01,700
I I am very familiar with it
939
00:40:01,700 -->
00:40:04,166
I mean really somebody as I mean
940
00:40:04,166 -->
00:40:05,500
I'm a Wonder Woman yeah
941
00:40:05,800 -->
00:40:06,600
yes
942
00:40:07,166 -->
00:40:08,366
how hard was it
943
00:40:08,366 -->
00:40:11,266
how hard was it for me to face my own shadows
944
00:40:12,633 -->
00:40:14,700
like yeah darling
945
00:40:14,700 -->
00:40:16,600
I totally I totally hear you
946
00:40:16,600 -->
00:40:19,866
I connect with you right there at that deep place yes
947
00:40:19,866 -->
00:40:21,866
yes connection yeah
948
00:40:21,866 -->
00:40:22,700
because you know
949
00:40:24,166 -->
00:40:25,266
we go high
950
00:40:26,033 -->
00:40:29,500
you see we use the same emoji hahaha
951
00:40:29,566 -->
00:40:32,066
there is a connection there is a true connection
952
00:40:32,066 -->
00:40:34,400
that's what Neuro Shine technology does to you
953
00:40:34,400 -->
00:40:36,066
ladies and gentlemen yes
954
00:40:36,066 -->
00:40:39,333
hahaha you literally emerge exactly
955
00:40:41,466 -->
00:40:45,500
and then it gets easier once you start teaching
956
00:40:45,633 -->
00:40:46,000
now
957
00:40:46,000 -->
00:40:48,966
you gotta rise up to another level of responsibility
958
00:40:49,100 -->
00:40:52,800
radical responsibility once you start teaching
959
00:40:53,066 -->
00:40:55,866
your level up your leveling up
960
00:40:55,866 -->
00:40:59,866
your leveling up your Ascension accelerates
961
00:40:59,866 -->
00:41:03,366
and then there is no room to escape anymore
962
00:41:03,366 -->
00:41:05,133
you just gotta face yourself
963
00:41:06,200 -->
00:41:08,166
that's true that's true
964
00:41:08,366 -->
00:41:11,300
and this this is like a side effect right
965
00:41:11,300 -->
00:41:12,600
uh huh yeah
966
00:41:12,733 -->
00:41:14,966
this is a side effect your
967
00:41:16,000 -->
00:41:18,433
it's just inevitable yeah
968
00:41:18,433 -->
00:41:21,433
definitely so inevitable that you're like
969
00:41:21,433 -->
00:41:22,333
you know what
970
00:41:22,600 -->
00:41:26,166
let me just be super brutally honest with myself
971
00:41:26,800 -->
00:41:30,200
because I'm teaching you and I have integrity
972
00:41:30,200 -->
00:41:32,600
so I gotta like face my own truth first
973
00:41:32,600 -->
00:41:34,400
face my own shadows first
974
00:41:34,400 -->
00:41:37,200
and I gotta actually like be the leader
975
00:41:37,200 -->
00:41:39,633
be the change I want to see in the world
976
00:41:39,633 -->
00:41:42,466
and I wanna share how I experienced it
977
00:41:42,466 -->
00:41:45,166
so that I can give you unconscious
978
00:41:45,366 -->
00:41:48,933
unsolicited permission that
979
00:41:49,666 -->
00:41:51,600
makes you feel like it's okay
980
00:41:51,966 -->
00:41:54,433
to admit your shortcomings
981
00:41:54,433 -->
00:41:55,400
your flaws
982
00:41:55,700 -->
00:41:58,566
because we're kind of like imperfect and that's okay
983
00:41:58,866 -->
00:42:00,700
haha all of a sudden
984
00:42:00,700 -->
00:42:01,500
now
985
00:42:01,500 -->
00:42:07,100
you hold such a deep space for everybody to just fall
986
00:42:07,500 -->
00:42:08,666
and it's a beautiful
987
00:42:08,666 -->
00:42:13,133
soft place to fall and finally say wow
988
00:42:13,200 -->
00:42:15,300
I am seen
989
00:42:15,300 -->
00:42:20,700
heard and still appreciated with all my imperfections
990
00:42:22,000 -->
00:42:25,866
is it still okay to have flows and to be accepted
991
00:42:27,400 -->
00:42:30,200
what a concept yes
992
00:42:31,966 -->
00:42:35,100
yes having this safe place
993
00:42:35,433 -->
00:42:36,700
like a pillow
994
00:42:37,400 -->
00:42:38,466
that I think
995
00:42:38,466 -->
00:42:40,833
this is something that every single person
996
00:42:40,833 -->
00:42:43,566
on this planet needs now right
997
00:42:43,666 -->
00:42:47,100
because all the people have this in mind like oh
998
00:42:47,100 -->
00:42:49,566
people are gonna judge people are gonna this
999
00:42:49,566 -->
00:42:51,100
people are gonna that
1000
00:42:51,300 -->
00:42:53,766
and at the same time you judge yourself
1001
00:42:54,600 -->
00:42:55,666
there is just too much
1002
00:42:55,666 -->
00:42:58,400
and once you find this super safe place
1003
00:42:58,400 -->
00:43:00,033
and this environment you're like
1004
00:43:00,033 -->
00:43:03,600
oh wow that it exists oh yeah
1005
00:43:03,600 -->
00:43:07,300
I'm not gonna be judged exactly yeah
1006
00:43:07,433 -->
00:43:11,566
that that is the world that we want to see
1007
00:43:11,900 -->
00:43:16,333
and we actually take the lead to become first
1008
00:43:16,433 -->
00:43:19,366
dear shiny mice if you would love to join us
1009
00:43:19,366 -->
00:43:21,900
in the vision that we wanna create
1010
00:43:22,266 -->
00:43:23,900
that's how that's how it is
1011
00:43:23,900 -->
00:43:27,733
that's how it looks like it looks like a place of
1012
00:43:29,200 -->
00:43:35,366
like full authenticity and full honesty no judgements
1013
00:43:35,366 -->
00:43:36,866
you're just who you are
1014
00:43:37,033 -->
00:43:40,833
come as who you are and feel safe
1015
00:43:40,833 -->
00:43:45,400
seen heard and appreciated no matter where you are
1016
00:43:45,400 -->
00:43:48,000
because there's always a beginning
1017
00:43:48,100 -->
00:43:49,566
and in the world that we live in
1018
00:43:49,566 -->
00:43:55,266
in 2,025 I know and feel and also
1019
00:43:55,500 -->
00:43:59,333
since I have studied from my metaphysical researches
1020
00:43:59,600 -->
00:44:03,466
we are in a time of awakening
1021
00:44:03,966 -->
00:44:05,200
that awakening
1022
00:44:05,366 -->
00:44:09,533
is actually empowering us to have the freedom
1023
00:44:09,966 -->
00:44:11,800
to accept ourselves
1024
00:44:12,033 -->
00:44:16,900
we are rising up to a new level of freedom
1025
00:44:17,033 -->
00:44:20,700
that is actually ready to shed the layers
1026
00:44:20,966 -->
00:44:23,200
of our old programming
1027
00:44:23,200 -->
00:44:26,166
the old paradigm like how it used to be
1028
00:44:26,166 -->
00:44:29,500
how everything was so different
1029
00:44:29,500 -->
00:44:31,666
how the society knew everything
1030
00:44:31,666 -->
00:44:34,200
how the society told us what to do
1031
00:44:34,200 -->
00:44:35,400
what to believe
1032
00:44:35,400 -->
00:44:39,066
what to say how to live it's gone bye bye
1033
00:44:39,233 -->
00:44:42,966
now we are just waking up to a whole new paradigm
1034
00:44:42,966 -->
00:44:46,900
and then we are co creating this new paradigm
1035
00:44:46,900 -->
00:44:50,300
as we are awakening to this new paradigm
1036
00:44:50,366 -->
00:44:51,733
within ourselves
1037
00:44:51,833 -->
00:44:54,500
and that is also why I'm getting goosebumps oh
1038
00:44:54,500 -->
00:44:56,133
I love it when I have goosebumps
1039
00:44:56,333 -->
00:45:02,066
and that is also why when we become the change maker
1040
00:45:02,200 -->
00:45:06,933
when we become the leader of this new paradigm
1041
00:45:07,100 -->
00:45:10,866
when we become this vulnerable leader
1042
00:45:10,866 -->
00:45:13,133
this vulnerable soul
1043
00:45:13,333 -->
00:45:16,300
who is totally okay to go within and say
1044
00:45:16,300 -->
00:45:17,700
you know what I was wrong
1045
00:45:18,166 -->
00:45:22,000
I apologize I did wrong I judged you
1046
00:45:22,000 -->
00:45:23,300
I criticized you
1047
00:45:23,300 -->
00:45:27,600
I told you things that I was actually telling myself
1048
00:45:27,600 -->
00:45:29,900
because I constantly judge myself
1049
00:45:30,066 -->
00:45:31,933
I constantly criticize myself
1050
00:45:33,100 -->
00:45:35,333
oh yeah
1051
00:45:35,466 -->
00:45:38,533
that's the world we live in and we are changing it
1052
00:45:40,800 -->
00:45:44,166
realizing that that you're a part of that
1053
00:45:44,166 -->
00:45:49,700
and you are like a a small cause of that
1054
00:45:49,900 -->
00:45:51,300
that makes you feel so good
1055
00:45:51,300 -->
00:45:52,300
you're like oh my God
1056
00:45:52,300 -->
00:45:54,666
I'm doing for the better
1057
00:45:55,400 -->
00:45:56,766
yes I have this
1058
00:45:56,766 -->
00:46:01,733
I have this positive impact on lives right yeah yeah
1059
00:46:02,633 -->
00:46:03,666
oh yeah
1060
00:46:03,666 -->
00:46:05,800
that's how you know that oh my God
1061
00:46:05,866 -->
00:46:07,466
this was a great day
1062
00:46:08,000 -->
00:46:10,333
right yes exactly
1063
00:46:10,466 -->
00:46:13,266
you feel so good you feel so much light inside
1064
00:46:13,266 -->
00:46:14,266
you're like oh my God
1065
00:46:14,266 -->
00:46:17,400
I did I did good because I brought some light
1066
00:46:18,066 -->
00:46:20,800
yeah and I brought some light enlightenment
1067
00:46:20,800 -->
00:46:21,866
I just you know
1068
00:46:21,866 -->
00:46:24,566
co created some shining eyes in the world yes
1069
00:46:25,800 -->
00:46:28,733
that cosmic self illumination
1070
00:46:28,766 -->
00:46:30,700
that cosmic light within us
1071
00:46:30,700 -->
00:46:33,933
it just needs to shine just needs to shine
1072
00:46:34,200 -->
00:46:38,200
so I think that's a beautiful place to just end this
1073
00:46:38,200 -->
00:46:41,633
delicious conversation do you have any parting words to
1074
00:46:41,633 -->
00:46:43,200
it was like a cherry on top
1075
00:46:43,200 -->
00:46:46,200
right moment I felt like yeah
1076
00:46:46,433 -->
00:46:48,700
do you have any parting words to share
1077
00:46:48,700 -->
00:46:51,333
with our shiny minds to be
1078
00:46:53,500 -->
00:46:57,500
well what I would love to say is that
1079
00:46:57,633 -->
00:46:58,800
whenever there is something that inside
1080
00:47:01,800 -->
00:47:04,433
like your voice your inner voice says
1081
00:47:04,433 -->
00:47:06,133
it's important to listen to yourself
1082
00:47:06,866 -->
00:47:11,566
it's important to rely and listen to your intuition
1083
00:47:12,466 -->
00:47:16,000
it's important to remember that fear is OK
1084
00:47:16,400 -->
00:47:16,700
and
1085
00:47:16,700 -->
00:47:19,866
even if you want to start something new in your life
1086
00:47:20,600 -->
00:47:22,300
just go for that yeah
1087
00:47:22,300 -->
00:47:24,100
and remember the formula
1088
00:47:24,700 -->
00:47:27,066
willingness awareness yeah
1089
00:47:27,066 -->
00:47:31,266
multiplied will awareness is the change right
1090
00:47:31,400 -->
00:47:32,366
and um
1091
00:47:32,466 -->
00:47:32,566
just
1092
00:47:32,566 -->
00:47:36,733
just to remember that there is this highest vibration
1093
00:47:37,033 -->
00:47:39,466
and this highest vibration actually
1094
00:47:39,466 -->
00:47:43,633
we get when we do great for ourselves
1095
00:47:43,633 -->
00:47:45,666
and for the world oh
1096
00:47:45,866 -->
00:47:49,066
it cannot be only for us it's for the world right
1097
00:47:49,066 -->
00:47:51,433
so when we bring this enlightenment
1098
00:47:51,433 -->
00:47:52,233
when we
1099
00:47:52,433 -->
00:47:56,700
when we share and radiate our light from inside that
1100
00:47:56,700 -->
00:47:58,100
imagine what what happens
1101
00:47:58,100 -->
00:48:01,233
there is more light around us and other
1102
00:48:01,233 -->
00:48:02,566
it's some kind of touching
1103
00:48:02,566 -->
00:48:04,433
the next person touching this
1104
00:48:04,433 -->
00:48:07,800
and the light becomes more and more and more and more
1105
00:48:08,000 -->
00:48:10,400
that's what coaching is about
1106
00:48:10,433 -->
00:48:12,400
that that's what it is about
1107
00:48:12,466 -->
00:48:14,133
and yeah um
1108
00:48:14,433 -->
00:48:17,800
just become a part of this big family
1109
00:48:17,800 -->
00:48:22,466
and this is a family I would call it a family right yes
1110
00:48:22,466 -->
00:48:24,033
yeah I don't know
1111
00:48:24,033 -->
00:48:27,666
one of the best choices in the world
1112
00:48:27,666 -->
00:48:28,700
oh yeah
1113
00:48:28,700 -->
00:48:31,200
she is actually telling the truth
1114
00:48:31,500 -->
00:48:34,666
everyone who's watching or listening to us
1115
00:48:34,666 -->
00:48:37,866
it is a family of change makers
1116
00:48:38,000 -->
00:48:40,000
yes visionaries
1117
00:48:40,000 -->
00:48:40,700
you are oh my God
1118
00:48:40,700 -->
00:48:43,900
I love how it sounds a family of change makers
1119
00:48:44,033 -->
00:48:46,000
do you hear how you sound
1120
00:48:47,266 -->
00:48:48,333
do you hear yourself
1121
00:48:49,800 -->
00:48:51,466
yeah yeah
1122
00:48:52,033 -->
00:48:52,766
that's I think we
1123
00:48:52,766 -->
00:48:54,900
we should actually write it down with this expression
1124
00:48:54,900 -->
00:48:56,233
we we gotta use it later
1125
00:48:56,233 -->
00:48:59,000
ha ha ha it's written ha ha ha
1126
00:48:59,000 -->
00:49:01,000
absolutely it's in you
1127
00:49:01,000 -->
00:49:02,500
it's written in your soul
1128
00:49:04,900 -->
00:49:07,833
so that's that she said
1129
00:49:07,833 -->
00:49:09,933
listen to the inner voice
1130
00:49:10,000 -->
00:49:12,100
and come join us in our faculty
1131
00:49:12,100 -->
00:49:14,366
and become a part of our cosmic
1132
00:49:14,366 -->
00:49:15,500
galactic mission
1133
00:49:16,666 -->
00:49:19,400
yes shine your light on others yeah
1134
00:49:21,766 -->
00:49:23,366
so by the way
1135
00:49:23,433 -->
00:49:26,466
she is as part of the Academy
1136
00:49:26,466 -->
00:49:28,266
of Neuroshine Technology
1137
00:49:29,000 -->
00:49:32,866
she is teaching Neuroshine Technology Program Level 1
1138
00:49:32,866 -->
00:49:35,800
if you want to learn from Katerina
1139
00:49:36,033 -->
00:49:39,100
if you want to join her cohorts
1140
00:49:39,200 -->
00:49:42,600
please go ahead and go to my website
1141
00:49:42,633 -->
00:49:45,466
as you know the Shine yourself.com
1142
00:49:45,466 -->
00:49:48,800
there's actually a free PDF guide that you can download
1143
00:49:48,833 -->
00:49:51,033
and then you can just start exploring
1144
00:49:51,033 -->
00:49:52,866
you don't have to decide right away
1145
00:49:52,866 -->
00:49:55,333
we understand that it might take time
1146
00:49:55,466 -->
00:49:57,266
just get the free guide
1147
00:49:57,266 -->
00:50:00,566
start exploring and then if you have any questions
1148
00:50:00,566 -->
00:50:02,666
come talk to us alright
1149
00:50:02,666 -->
00:50:04,400
and then if you like this episode
1150
00:50:04,400 -->
00:50:07,433
please put a like on it share it with your friends
1151
00:50:07,433 -->
00:50:10,866
let's make this world a brighter place together
1152
00:50:10,866 -->
00:50:12,133
right Katerina
1153
00:50:12,466 -->
00:50:14,500
perfectly sad yeah
1154
00:50:14,500 -->
00:50:16,900
we want to make this world a better place
1155
00:50:16,900 -->
00:50:18,533
and we want you to subscribe
1156
00:50:18,566 -->
00:50:21,633
you want like you want to subscribe to this channel
1157
00:50:21,633 -->
00:50:24,700
because this is only going to make your life
1158
00:50:24,700 -->
00:50:26,533
a brighter life hahaha
1159
00:50:26,900 -->
00:50:29,266
and more positive a more conscious
1160
00:50:29,266 -->
00:50:31,466
a more shiny life
1161
00:50:31,500 -->
00:50:35,866
and that's what we are inviting you to do
1162
00:50:35,900 -->
00:50:38,933
and we thank you for watching
1163
00:50:38,966 -->
00:50:42,300
for just joining us in this episode
1164
00:50:42,300 -->
00:50:44,433
and thank you Katarina thank you so much
1165
00:50:44,433 -->
00:50:47,166
thank you too shiny that was pleasure
1166
00:50:47,166 -->
00:50:50,200
that was amazing thank you for yes
1167
00:50:50,200 -->
00:50:52,366
it was my pleasure enjoy it so much
1168
00:50:52,366 -->
00:50:54,000
oh my God me too
1169
00:50:54,100 -->
00:50:56,266
me too this was so beautiful
1170
00:50:56,266 -->
00:50:59,000
what a completion we had after so many years
1171
00:50:59,000 -->
00:51:04,366
I love that so dear shiny minds to be until next time
1172
00:51:04,366 -->
00:51:06,666
keep shining your lights bye
1173
00:51:08,166 -->
00:51:10,000
galaxy go galactic
1174
00:51:10,000 -->
00:51:12,700
go galactic then you're in the right
