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Are you aware that you're in a trance? Like
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literally, are you aware that you are in a
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big trance that you call life?
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We're going to talk about that trance
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today, and we are going to turn that trance
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into your trance-formation.
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If you're ready, let's begin.
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Are you ready to shine?
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Come on.
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It's a shiny one.
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You got this.
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Welcome to the Shiny Minds show with
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Dr. Shiny.
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Today, I bring passion, trance-formation, and
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I bring my Neuro-Shine Technology for you.
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I am going to talk about what trance means,
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what it is doing to you, what is autopilot
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creating in your life without you even
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realizing.
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So first of all, we're going to define what
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trance are, we're going to look at what is
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it costing you,
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and we're going to look at a great
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trance-formation story that I am going to
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share with you from my Academy of
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Neuro-Shine Technology™
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And then I'm going to give you some
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tips, actually super helpful tips with my
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Neuro-Shine Technology™
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And now we're going to leave you with some
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delicious questions.
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So let's start by defining what trances are.
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By definition, a trance is a transition.
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If you look at it from scientific
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terminology, a trance is
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where you are hijacked by some other
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forces, but not your conscious awareness.
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Some other forces, meaning some other
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programs and conditions and some societal
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opinions that are running at the back of
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your brain, but you are not in control of
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them because they are in control of you.
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That's why you are not consciously aware of them.
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When you look at it from the perspective of
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brain waves,
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a trance
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is what happens when your brain is in
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transition from one brainwave to another
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brainwave.
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And when you are in that trance, which
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means that you do not have access to
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everything around you, everything that is
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about you.
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So when you are thinking about the trances
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that you go through in a day, you're
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driving, you're in a trance.
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Why? Because your conscious awareness is
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not there.
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Your subconscious takes over because you
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have have been driving for so many years.
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In neuro-linguistic programming, we call it the
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unconscious competence.
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You do not need your conscious, and that's
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why it goes unconscious, but you're still
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competent, right? Your body does the work,
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not your conscious faculty.
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That's one scenario.
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Another scenario is
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a more dangerous one.
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When you are eating,
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when you are eating, because it becomes a
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trance, a habitual,
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a default.
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formation where you already conditioned
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yourself to do certain things at a certain
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rate by certain frequency with certain
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amounts and
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with certain tastes and everything that you
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are looking for in your food when you eat.
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awareness into that habit, that action,
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perhaps that's where it becomes dangerous.
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not a trance-formation, but a trance-
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condition.
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then you can understand that it is
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conditioned.
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It is programmed into you.
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consciously.
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And that is what makes it autopilot.
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You have this autopilot
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in this machine that you need every day as
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you go by your day.
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And that autopilot wants the best for you.
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of things without you thinking about it.
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Imagine your organs,
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they are totally on autopilot and then you
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do want them on autopilot.
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You don't want to calculate how
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fast you want to
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pump your blood.
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Trust me, you
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love and you are actually super grateful
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for your heart to be doing that.
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We are all grateful for that. So
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those autopilot functions of our
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body, we never think about, we never ever
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question.
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There is cosmic intelligence there.
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I'm not talking about that, though.
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That's cosmic intelligence.
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The part that goes unnoticed, the part that
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goes still on autopilot, are the parts that
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are costing us, like eating,
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I talked about.
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Another dangerous example is our
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relationships.
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I can talk a lot about our relationships
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because when we go into a
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relationship, not knowing who we are, not
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knowing who the person is in front of us,
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not knowing how
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sharp our words are, our tonality is, and
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what we can make or break in the way that
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we use our language.
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How we communicate actually shows the way
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that we are programmed.
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Communication goes more than what it does.
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It is supposed to create collaborations and
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connections and relationships and
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everything that we do, we communicate,
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right? When you think about communication,
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the importance of it, how much of a glue
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that is in our society, in the world, in
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our humanity.
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And yet, think about when was the last time
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you stopped, you paused, and you
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literally asked yourself about your
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communication style.
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When was the last time? Or is it also
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something that is on autopilot.
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My dear shiny minds, that's where it gets
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really dangerous.
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Because when we live
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our lives on autopilot, when we communicate
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and then create conversations on autopilot,
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then we hurt each other.
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Then we make each other go into
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pain and suffering.
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And we don't even realize that we do that.
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We go into fear.
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We go into fear of rejection, fear of
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failure, fear
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of losing, fear of not trying, fear of not
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being good enough.
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It's all because we are on autopilot and
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then we never took the time to pause and
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question the way that we communicate,
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question the way that we show up for others
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in our life.
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And that autopilot is costing us.
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It's costing you your health.
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It's costing you your wealth.
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It's costing you your relationships, but
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most importantly, it's costing you the
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relationship that is the most important,
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the one that with yourself.
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That is the autopilot that I want to talk about.
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And that is the trance that I want to turn
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into trance-formation with
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passion and with
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my Neuro-Shine Technology™
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So trance-formation is possible.
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We can only do it when we truly want to.
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And I do have
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my formula for change, which is change
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equals awareness multiplied by willingness,
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when you become aware of the fact that,
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hey, I am in a trance, what kind of a
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trance am I in? What am I not seeing? What
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am I not aware of? What are the
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autopilot behaviors, autopilot patterns
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that I have that I am
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completely clueless about? If you begin to
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ask these questions to yourself, if you
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begin to notice what you have never noticed
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before,
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that is a awareness and that's where
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everything begins.
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That's where trance-formation begins because
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you get the trance and then you turn that
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trance into awareness, right? Now you have
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that, what I call mental file in your mind
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about it.
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Now you can visualize
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what the pattern is.
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catch yourself when you go into autopilot again.
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Next time you
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experience yourself going on autopilot,
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You catch yourself.
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I'll give you an example.
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Today, when I was doing my group mentor
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coaching for my students in my program, we
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talked about automated things that we say
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in our language, in our everyday
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conversations.
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Just like something easy, like no problem.
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Thank you. Okay. Voila.
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All kinds of things that we say, but we
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never think about the appropriateness, the
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value, the
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context.
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text around
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these words
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because we are on autopilot.
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We just say it a lot.
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It's a habit, right? It's a conditioning.
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It's a trance
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condition.
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Whether we chose it or not, it is a
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condition.
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If we are not mindful of the way that we
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use it, if it comes automated without you
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consciously choosing, without you
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intentionally deciding and picking that,
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that's autopilot.
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That's trance, right? So we talked about
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those habitual words that we use and the
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phrases that we use in our everyday life.
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And then I invited everybody to pause and
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to take more time to formulate.
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To think about the value, the
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appropriateness, and the context around our words
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more than the words that we share.
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Let me give you a concrete example.
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we are talking, we don't necessarily
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calculate how many words we are going to
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use, how many words we are going to choose
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when we say what we want to say. We
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just go unlimited
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some of the time.
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If you are not in a meeting and if it is
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not timely, if it is a casual, somewhat
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conversation, right? The important thing
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is, can we be more precise?
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Can we stop the autopilot of
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just
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letting a ton of words come out of our
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mouths and instead hold it, I do have a
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formula that I call, WAIT
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Why Am I Talking?
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That can be applied beautifully here.
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Because if we wait, if we really mentally
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think about and filter through what we are
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about to say, why we want to say that, what
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is the intention behind that, how would
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they receive when we say that? Is there a
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better way, a more efficient, a more
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loving, a more encouraging way to say that?
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That's a lot of mental activity in the
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brain already, isn't it? So that's why it
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requires a lot of quiet time within.
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That's how you can stop the autopilot of
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talking, talking, talking, sharing
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way too many words that are not necessary,
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that are not needed, that are not going to
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help anybody.
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And instead, letting go of all those.
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And instead, just taking your time, sitting
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quietly, and then calculating, see how else
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I can share
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what I want to share.
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And then you come off
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as confident, composed, and very mindful
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person.
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That is what I'm talking about.
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When it comes to turning the trances of
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your communication into trance-formations in
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your communication, that's one of the
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things that you can do to take your time,
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to filter through your words, to
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really become aware
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of what you're doing, why you're doing and
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how you can do even better.
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And then delivering it.
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So that's one way of creating
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trance-formation in your communication.
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And there are also signs.
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I'll give you three signs that you know you
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are on autopilot.
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One, you
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keep saying one day.
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How many of you do that?
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One day I'm going to start
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going on a diet.
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One day I'm going to start the gym.
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One day I'm going to start yoga.
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One day I am going to follow my dream.
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One day I'm going to become a coach.
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Hello? I'm
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I run a coaching certification school.
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I run a coaching business school.
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I've heard of this my entire life because I
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was one of them.
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It took me six years to really make the
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decision and to go for it.
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So I understand.
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Who am I to say anything? I'm not judging here.
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I'm just pointing out a fact that
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we run on autopilot.
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If I had known.
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that I was on autopilot.
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If somebody made me aware, if somebody gave
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me the formula for change when I was 25
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years old, trust me, I wouldn't have waited
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a second more.
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I would have jumped into my coaching
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education, my neuro-linguistic programming
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education.
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I would have reprogrammed my entire
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thinking so that I could trance-form
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trance-form my life
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earlier, sooner.
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I started at 31. I am
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46 today.
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I am grateful. Yes.
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And
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it would have been
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definitely faster.
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So for those of you who
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are listening to me, who are perhaps
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younger, you are at the beginning of your
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career, in the middle of your career,
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perhaps you are on a journey of seeking
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your truth because we always seek our truth.
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We always look for the light.
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Where is the North Star? Where do we go
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from here, right? I know you know what I'm
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talking about.
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I know we are all human beings.
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I know you feel me.
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I know.
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I get you.
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I've been there.
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I know you are on autopilot.
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Sometimes it might even be a little bit
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painful to admit, but hey, the sooner the
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better.
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If you're feeling like there is something
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deep inside of you, but and then you keep
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saying one day,
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that's a sign,
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another sign.
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Perhaps you go about your days and then
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you're like, I'm fine,
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but inside you're resentful.
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Ouch.
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If you're resenting life,
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I'll tell you,
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life owes you nothing.
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Breaking news.
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Life owes you nothing.
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You
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get to partner up with your life
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to co-create the change that you'll desire,
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that you want, because you are a conscious
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co-creator of your life.
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You get to partner with life.
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Life is just not going to give things to you.
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You're not a passive effect of anything.
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You are an active participant
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of your life
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and everything about your life.
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Where you live, who you live with,
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where you work, who you talk with, who you
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surround yourself with, what you eat, what
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you don't eat.
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Everything is
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100% your responsibility.
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And that's where you turn the trances, the
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conditionings of the society into
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trance-formations, because that's how
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with consciousness, you add your
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consciousness in the soup of the trance
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that you have, and it just blends together.
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And you get to create the formation form.
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You create a form out of the trance
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that you are in.
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That is a trance-formation.
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And that is what I love doing. I
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love
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co-creating trance-formations.
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with
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my clients, with my students, with my
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coaching students, with my
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coaching educator students, because this is
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how we can change the world.
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This is how we can become the change we
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want to see in the world.
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And then this is also what happened to one
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of my recent graduates.
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I can actually share this with you.
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This is exactly what she said as her
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biggest takeaway from my Nourish Shine
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Technology Coaching Education program.
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So this is what she says.
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I'm just going to read it and you can see
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it as well.
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What is your biggest takeaway from this
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program? She goes, Partnering with life.
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It has everything we need to ask, how can I
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partner with my life? And it answers who we
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want to be.
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I just love it.
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It'll be my compass.
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That's it.
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She took that away as
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her biggest learning, her practice, and
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that she lives by it every day.
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And when she shows up to our live Zoom
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classes, she goes, You know what? I asked
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my question.
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to my higher self, to my life.
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Is this in alignment with my truth? And then I
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wait for an answer from myself.
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And then that's how I make my decisions.
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This is how she is partnering with her life.
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She is asking if it is in alignment with
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her truth.
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And that is how she went from, how do I do
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this to this is how I do it.
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And then this is also how I teach it
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to my
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daughter.
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The first thing when you mentioned in a
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partner with life, I mean, I was just, wow,
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I mean, That is something I will never
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forget.
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It really impacted my heart a lot.
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I mean, after all of
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my dear peers, how they have mentioned,
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nothing else. I mean,
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they really covered how I felt, but I feel
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like it is what all the words we have been
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hearing is like
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partnering with light.
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It really impacted me.
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Whatever I take steps now, I'm just
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thinking, is it really, am I partnering
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with my light? It's very impactful.
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Thank you very much.
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I'm super happy I met
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And again,
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the day I met Shiny, I saw like a wild deer
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and I was like, my heart stopped.
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And I was like, okay, this must be a sign.
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And
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I really feel like, I guess it is, you know,
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the moment I'm just thinking
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partnering with life, I'll be remembering you
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and the wild deer.
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I saw that day and
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it's a wonderful memory for me.
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It's true
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life memory for me that I will say to my
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daughter.
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One is that every session is a learning
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experience. Yes.
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And,
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good or bad, you'll learn something from it.
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And also, I really appreciate your,
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the powerful questions that you,
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examples of,
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that will help, that definitely helps.
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I wanted to share this because
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to me, it's such a trance-formation.
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With the trance that we live in and we are
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not aware of, the autopilot is just killing
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the vibe.
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And we don't want that.
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I don't want autopilot to
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destroy the magic of life.
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When you are on autopilot, do, do, do, do, do.
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No, no, no.
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You're not a human doing.
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You're a human being.
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You want to take a pause
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and just be.
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And that's where trance-formation becomes
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truly trance-formational
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in pausing
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and really partnering up with your life.
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And that is what I want you to think about.
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I want to ask you a question.
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Here's a question.
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Are you constantly busy, but rarely
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fulfilled?
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Take your time,
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pause, you can even pause this video.
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And then come back with your answer.
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Are you constantly busy, but rarely
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fulfilled?
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Whatever your answer is,
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know that there is always another level of
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fulfillment.
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There is another level of
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alignment with your truth.
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There's another level of partnership with life,
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like how
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my graduate was talking about.
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And for that alignment, for that kind of
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deeper level fulfillment, I want you to just
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really take your time to review what is it
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costing you? Why are you
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busy?
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Busy doing
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what? For what reason?
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I really
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hope
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that I get to shake your core
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with this question because that might be a
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trance.
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If that's the trance that you are in,
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thinking that you are busy, busy bee.
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Busyness comes from being busy.
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Well, I mean, I am
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busy with my business because it has a
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purpose, but I am always fulfilled.
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So, I love keeping myself busy with my
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busyness because I chose this.
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I signed up for this.
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I partnered up with my life.
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I said, Count me in. I'm in.
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I want to do this for the rest of my life.
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So, I keep myself
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busy with this.
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turned my trances that I had back in my
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early 20s in Istanbul. And now
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this is my trance-formation.
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I turned my trances into formations.
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I formed my business
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out of choosing how to be busy.
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You see what I'm saying, playing with the
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words today, because that's literally how I
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see English.
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If you don't know, I'm sure you know,
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English is my second language.
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And then when I look at the root cause of
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of everything in life, it
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only makes me want to look at the root of every
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word in English.
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And that's how I see business coming from busy.
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Fulfillment, filling myself, it's something
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that is going to make me full.
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Transformation is what the formation I am
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going to create out of the trance says.
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You see what I'm saying?
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So
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that's why,
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let's just pause.
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Just pause already.
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Enough with the autopilot.
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Enough with never asking yourself about
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your truth.
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Is it in alignment with your truth? Is it
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something that you truly want to begin
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with? What is your truth? Who are you?
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Why do you exist? I can go really deep with you.
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I can bring all my research studies
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and then I can have a philosophical and a
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scientific conversation.
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And then we can talk a lot about the big
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bank and then how
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we
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came up as this amazing beings and then how
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we are divine light inside of us, because
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that is literally my message, my take home
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message.
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If you are taking home anything from this
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episode today, please know that you are in
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charge.
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Never, ever allow anybody to put you under
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trance.
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You co-create your own trance-formations.
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You choose the three-dimensional, the
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formational, the tangible form, trance-form.
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So you turn your trance says, your
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conditions, your societal programs and
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conditions into trance-formations.
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That would be my take home message for you.
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If you loved this episode, I would really
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appreciate if you could put a like on it,
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share it with more people who are in need
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of trance-formations to move
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from autopilot to living in alignment with
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their truth and purpose.
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especially with my Neuro-Shine Technology™, I
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would like to invite you
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to check out my Academy of Neuro-Shine
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Technology™, because we turn you
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into a
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change maker.
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You trance-form yourself
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first,
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you experience how to trance-form others, and
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then you become a change maker.
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You become a trance-former.
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First, you go through it, you experience
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it, and you feel it in your bones,
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and you're going to hear from
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some of my graduates, my students, and I
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would like to invite you to go to my
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website, grab that free PDF
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on shinyunsal.com to see if we can help you
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with my academy,
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with my Neuro-Shine Technology™ programs.
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Perhaps you just come and check out my
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Neuro-Shine Technology™ digital courses.
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Perhaps you just download a free language
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audit PDF.
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Perhaps you just study International
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Coaching Federation coaching skills.
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Perhaps you join a faculty cohort.
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Perhaps you join me, my cohorts, and learn
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to become a trance-former with me.
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Whatever you feel like, I just want to
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invite you to take a look because you will
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be trance-formed.
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When somebody is in my world, they are
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forever trance-formed.
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And
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I say it because that's what I witness
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every single day with my work.
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So I would love you to experience that.
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I wish 20 years ago, when I was starting
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this journey, somebody offered what I am
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offering you today.
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Just check it out because I know what I
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have is deeply trance-formational for you.
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So
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thank you for allowing my light to enter
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into your beautiful brain, your neurons,
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and your cosmic light.
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And until next time, keep shining your light.
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First, I would highly recommend this to
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each and every person on this planet
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because
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Something like this is an investment in
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yourself.
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And even if you do not become a coach, you
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choose to not use it as in the coaching
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business or in your profession.
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What you learn
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about yourself, for yourself, with yourself
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is absolutely priceless.
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So you walk away with, well, a
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beautiful set of skills, a beautiful set of
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coaching skills and ICF credited
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certification.
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I think what's more beautiful is you walk away
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hand in hand with yourself.
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Oh, wow.
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Oof.
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Yeah,
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you walk away hand in hand with yourself.
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It's almost like
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this is how
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I've been feeling.
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You know, I took my own hand and I was
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like, hey, come, let's go.
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Let's do this.
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You and I and NST and I
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meant to meet.
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It was time.
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That is so true.
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That is how I'm feeling truly. Yes,
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me too.
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I knew I was a coach by nature.
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I knew it.
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I always felt it.
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But, you know, going through life and when
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life throws things at us,
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we
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tend to forget our strength.
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We tend to forget our resourcefulness.
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And that was the time when I said, like,
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I lost balance.
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That was
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the moment.
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That was a
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mental state I was in at that time.
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You and NST literally
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held my hand and pulled me out of there
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and
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took me through everything.
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So I can't say this is just a training.
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It touched me
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from 12 to three.
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I went to bed, woke up at one.
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I thought I was gonna be jet lag every week.
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Not at all.
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I was more energetic the next day. Wow,
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really? It was amazing. So
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this is not just a training or a course to me.
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It's now a lifestyle, I'm addicted.
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The Go Galactic,
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Go
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Galactic,
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then you're in the right place.
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Let's go, let's go.
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Are you aware that you're in a trance? Like
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literally, are you aware that you are in a
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big trance that you call life?
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We're going to talk about that trance
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today, and we are going to turn that trance
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into your trance-formation.
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If you're ready, let's begin.
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Are you ready to shine?
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Come on.
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It's a shiny one.
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You got this.
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Welcome to the Shiny Minds show with
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Dr. Shiny.
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Today, I bring passion, trance-formation, and
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I bring my Neuro-Shine Technology for you.
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I am going to talk about what trance means,
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what it is doing to you, what is autopilot
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creating in your life without you even
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realizing.
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So first of all, we're going to define what
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trance are, we're going to look at what is
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it costing you,
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and we're going to look at a great
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trance-formation story that I am going to
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share with you from my Academy of
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Neuro-Shine Technology™
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And then I'm going to give you some
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tips, actually super helpful tips with my
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Neuro-Shine Technology™
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And now we're going to leave you with some
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delicious questions.
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So let's start by defining what trances are.
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By definition, a trance is a transition.
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If you look at it from scientific
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terminology, a trance is
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where you are hijacked by some other
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forces, but not your conscious awareness.
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Some other forces, meaning some other
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programs and conditions and some societal
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opinions that are running at the back of
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your brain, but you are not in control of
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them because they are in control of you.
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That's why you are not consciously aware of them.
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When you look at it from the perspective of
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brain waves,
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a trance
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is what happens when your brain is in
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transition from one brainwave to another
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brainwave.
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And when you are in that trance, which
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means that you do not have access to
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everything around you, everything that is
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about you.
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So when you are thinking about the trances
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that you go through in a day, you're
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driving, you're in a trance.
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Why? Because your conscious awareness is
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not there.
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Your subconscious takes over because you
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have have been driving for so many years.
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In neuro-linguistic programming, we call it the
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unconscious competence.
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You do not need your conscious, and that's
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why it goes unconscious, but you're still
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competent, right? Your body does the work,
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not your conscious faculty.
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That's one scenario.
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Another scenario is
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a more dangerous one.
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When you are eating,
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when you are eating, because it becomes a
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trance, a habitual,
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a default.
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formation where you already conditioned
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yourself to do certain things at a certain
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rate by certain frequency with certain
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amounts and
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with certain tastes and everything that you
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are looking for in your food when you eat.
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And if you never inserted your conscious
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awareness into that habit, that action,
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perhaps that's where it becomes dangerous.
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And that's where the trance becomes
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not a trance-formation, but a trance-
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condition.
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If you look at it as a trance condition,
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then you can understand that it is
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conditioned.
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It is programmed into you.
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You did not necessarily choose it
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consciously.
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And that is what makes it autopilot.
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You have this autopilot
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in this machine that you need every day as
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you go by your day.
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And that autopilot wants the best for you.
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And that's why it takes
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of things without you thinking about it.
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Imagine your organs,
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they are totally on autopilot and then you
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do want them on autopilot.
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You don't want to calculate how
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fast you want to
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pump your blood.
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Trust me, you
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love and you are actually super grateful
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for your heart to be doing that.
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We are all grateful for that. So
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those autopilot functions of our
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body, we never think about, we never ever
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question.
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There is cosmic intelligence there.
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I'm not talking about that, though.
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That's cosmic intelligence.
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The part that goes unnoticed, the part that
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goes still on autopilot, are the parts that
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are costing us, like eating,
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I talked about.
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Another dangerous example is our
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relationships.
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I can talk a lot about our relationships
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because when we go into a
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relationship, not knowing who we are, not
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knowing who the person is in front of us,
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sharp our words are, our tonality is, and
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what we can make or break in the way that
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How we communicate actually shows the way
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that we are programmed.
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Communication goes more than what it does.
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connections and relationships and
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everything that we do, we communicate,
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right? When you think about communication,
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the importance of it, how much of a glue
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that is in our society, in the world, in
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our humanity.
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you stopped, you paused, and you
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literally asked yourself about your
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communication style.
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When was the last time? Or is it also
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something that is on autopilot.
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My dear shiny minds, that's where it gets
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really dangerous.
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our lives on autopilot, when we communicate
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and then create conversations on autopilot,
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then we hurt each other.
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pain and suffering.
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failure, fear
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of losing, fear of not trying, fear of not
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being good enough.
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then we never took the time to pause and
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question the way that we communicate,
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question the way that we show up for others
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in our life.
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It's costing you your health.
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It's costing you your wealth.
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It's costing you your relationships, but
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most importantly, it's costing you the
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relationship that is the most important,
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the one that with yourself.
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That is the autopilot that I want to talk about.
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into trance-formation with
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passion and with
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my Neuro-Shine Technology™
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So trance-formation is possible.
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We can only do it when we truly want to.
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my formula for change, which is change
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equals awareness multiplied by willingness,
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when you become aware of the fact that,
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hey, I am in a trance, what kind of a
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trance am I in? What am I not seeing? What
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am I not aware of? What are the
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autopilot behaviors, autopilot patterns
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that I have that I am
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completely clueless about? If you begin to
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ask these questions to yourself, if you
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begin to notice what you have never noticed
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before,
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that is a awareness and that's where
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everything begins.
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you get the trance and then you turn that
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trance into awareness, right? Now you have
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that, what I call mental file in your mind
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about it.
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what the pattern is.
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catch yourself when you go into autopilot again.
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experience yourself going on autopilot,
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I'll give you an example.
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Today, when I was doing my group mentor
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coaching for my students in my program, we
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talked about automated things that we say
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in our language, in our everyday
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conversations.
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Just like something easy, like no problem.
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Thank you. Okay. Voila.
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All kinds of things that we say, but we
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never think about the appropriateness, the
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value, the
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context.
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text around
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these words
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because we are on autopilot.
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It's a habit, right? It's a conditioning.
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condition.
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condition.
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use it, if it comes automated without you
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consciously choosing, without you
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intentionally deciding and picking that,
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that's autopilot.
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those habitual words that we use and the
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phrases that we use in our everyday life.
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to take more time to formulate.
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appropriateness, and the context around our words
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more than the words that we share.
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we are talking, we don't necessarily
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calculate how many words we are going to
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use, how many words we are going to choose
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when we say what we want to say. We
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just go unlimited
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some of the time.
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not timely, if it is a casual, somewhat
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conversation, right? The important thing
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is, can we be more precise?
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Can we stop the autopilot of
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just
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letting a ton of words come out of our
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mouths and instead hold it, I do have a
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formula that I call, WAIT
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Why Am I Talking?
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That can be applied beautifully here.
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think about and filter through what we are
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about to say, why we want to say that, what
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is the intention behind that, how would
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they receive when we say that? Is there a
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better way, a more efficient, a more
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loving, a more encouraging way to say that?
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That's a lot of mental activity in the
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brain already, isn't it? So that's why it
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requires a lot of quiet time within.
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That's how you can stop the autopilot of
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talking, talking, talking, sharing
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way too many words that are not necessary,
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that are not needed, that are not going to
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help anybody.
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quietly, and then calculating, see how else
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I can share
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what I want to share.
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as confident, composed, and very mindful
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person.
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That is what I'm talking about.
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When it comes to turning the trances of
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your communication into trance-formations in
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your communication, that's one of the
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things that you can do to take your time,
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to filter through your words, to
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really become aware
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of what you're doing, why you're doing and
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how you can do even better.
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So that's one way of creating
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trance-formation in your communication.
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And there are also signs.
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I'll give you three signs that you know you
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are on autopilot.
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One, you
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keep saying one day.
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How many of you do that?
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One day I'm going to start
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going on a diet.
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One day I'm going to start the gym.
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One day I'm going to start yoga.
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One day I am going to follow my dream.
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One day I'm going to become a coach.
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Hello? I'm
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I run a coaching certification school.
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I run a coaching business school.
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I've heard of this my entire life because I
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was one of them.
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It took me six years to really make the
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decision and to go for it.
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So I understand.
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Who am I to say anything? I'm not judging here.
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I'm just pointing out a fact that
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we run on autopilot.
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If I had known.
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that I was on autopilot.
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If somebody made me aware, if somebody gave
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me the formula for change when I was 25
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years old, trust me, I wouldn't have waited
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a second more.
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I would have jumped into my coaching
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education, my neuro-linguistic programming
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education.
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I would have reprogrammed my entire
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thinking so that I could trance-form
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trance-form my life
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earlier, sooner.
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I started at 31. I am
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46 today.
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I am grateful. Yes.
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it would have been
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definitely faster.
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So for those of you who
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are listening to me, who are perhaps
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younger, you are at the beginning of your
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career, in the middle of your career,
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perhaps you are on a journey of seeking
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your truth because we always seek our truth.
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We always look for the light.
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Where is the North Star? Where do we go
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from here, right? I know you know what I'm
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talking about.
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I know we are all human beings.
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I know you feel me.
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I know.
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I get you.
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I've been there.
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I know you are on autopilot.
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Sometimes it might even be a little bit
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painful to admit, but hey, the sooner the
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better.
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If you're feeling like there is something
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deep inside of you, but and then you keep
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saying one day,
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that's a sign,
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another sign.
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Perhaps you go about your days and then
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you're like, I'm fine,
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but inside you're resentful.
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Ouch.
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If you're resenting life,
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I'll tell you,
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life owes you nothing.
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Breaking news.
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Life owes you nothing.
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You
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get to partner up with your life
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to co-create the change that you'll desire,
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that you want, because you are a conscious
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co-creator of your life.
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You get to partner with life.
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Life is just not going to give things to you.
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You're not a passive effect of anything.
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You are an active participant
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of your life
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and everything about your life.
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Where you live, who you live with,
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where you work, who you talk with, who you
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surround yourself with, what you eat, what
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you don't eat.
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Everything is
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100% your responsibility.
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And that's where you turn the trances, the
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conditionings of the society into
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trance-formations, because that's how
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with consciousness, you add your
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consciousness in the soup of the trance
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that you have, and it just blends together.
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And you get to create the formation form.
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You create a form out of the trance
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that you are in.
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That is a trance-formation.
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And that is what I love doing. I
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love
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co-creating trance-formations.
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with
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my clients, with my students, with my
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coaching students, with my
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coaching educator students, because this is
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how we can change the world.
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This is how we can become the change we
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want to see in the world.
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And then this is also what happened to one
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of my recent graduates.
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I can actually share this with you.
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This is exactly what she said as her
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biggest takeaway from my Nourish Shine
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Technology Coaching Education program.
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So this is what she says.
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I'm just going to read it and you can see
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it as well.
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What is your biggest takeaway from this
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program? She goes, Partnering with life.
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It has everything we need to ask, how can I
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partner with my life? And it answers who we
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want to be.
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I just love it.
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It'll be my compass.
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That's it.
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She took that away as
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her biggest learning, her practice, and
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that she lives by it every day.
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And when she shows up to our live Zoom
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classes, she goes, You know what? I asked
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my question.
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to my higher self, to my life.
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Is this in alignment with my truth? And then I
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wait for an answer from myself.
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And then that's how I make my decisions.
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This is how she is partnering with her life.
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She is asking if it is in alignment with
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her truth.
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And that is how she went from, how do I do
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this to this is how I do it.
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And then this is also how I teach it
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to my
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daughter.
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The first thing when you mentioned in a
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partner with life, I mean, I was just, wow,
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I mean, That is something I will never
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forget.
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It really impacted my heart a lot.
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I mean, after all of
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my dear peers, how they have mentioned,
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nothing else. I mean,
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they really covered how I felt, but I feel
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like it is what all the words we have been
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hearing is like
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partnering with light.
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It really impacted me.
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Whatever I take steps now, I'm just
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thinking, is it really, am I partnering
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with my light? It's very impactful.
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Thank you very much.
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I'm super happy I met
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And again,
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the day I met Shiny, I saw like a wild deer
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and I was like, my heart stopped.
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And I was like, okay, this must be a sign.
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And
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I really feel like, I guess it is, you know,
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the moment I'm just thinking
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partnering with life, I'll be remembering you
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and the wild deer.
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I saw that day and
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it's a wonderful memory for me.
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It's true
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life memory for me that I will say to my
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daughter.
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One is that every session is a learning
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experience. Yes.
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And,
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good or bad, you'll learn something from it.
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And also, I really appreciate your,
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the powerful questions that you,
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examples of,
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that will help, that definitely helps.
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I wanted to share this because
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to me, it's such a trance-formation.
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With the trance that we live in and we are
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not aware of, the autopilot is just killing
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the vibe.
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And we don't want that.
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I don't want autopilot to
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destroy the magic of life.
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When you are on autopilot, do, do, do, do, do.
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No, no, no.
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You're not a human doing.
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You're a human being.
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You want to take a pause
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and just be.
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And that's where trance-formation becomes
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truly trance-formational
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in pausing
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and really partnering up with your life.
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And that is what I want you to think about.
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I want to ask you a question.
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Here's a question.
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Are you constantly busy, but rarely
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fulfilled?
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Take your time,
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pause, you can even pause this video.
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And then come back with your answer.
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Are you constantly busy, but rarely
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fulfilled?
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Whatever your answer is,
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know that there is always another level of
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fulfillment.
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There is another level of
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alignment with your truth.
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There's another level of partnership with life,
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like how
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my graduate was talking about.
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And for that alignment, for that kind of
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deeper level fulfillment, I want you to just
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really take your time to review what is it
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costing you? Why are you
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busy?
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Busy doing
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what? For what reason?
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I really
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hope
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that I get to shake your core
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with this question because that might be a
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trance.
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If that's the trance that you are in,
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thinking that you are busy, busy bee.
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Busyness comes from being busy.
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Well, I mean, I am
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busy with my business because it has a
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purpose, but I am always fulfilled.
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So, I love keeping myself busy with my
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busyness because I chose this.
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I signed up for this.
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I partnered up with my life.
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I said, Count me in. I'm in.
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I want to do this for the rest of my life.
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So, I keep myself
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busy with this.
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turned my trances that I had back in my
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early 20s in Istanbul. And now
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this is my trance-formation.
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I turned my trances into formations.
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I formed my business
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out of choosing how to be busy.
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You see what I'm saying, playing with the
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words today, because that's literally how I
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see English.
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If you don't know, I'm sure you know,
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English is my second language.
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And then when I look at the root cause of
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of everything in life, it
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only makes me want to look at the root of every
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word in English.
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And that's how I see business coming from busy.
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Fulfillment, filling myself, it's something
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that is going to make me full.
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Transformation is what the formation I am
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going to create out of the trance says.
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You see what I'm saying?
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So
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that's why,
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let's just pause.
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Just pause already.
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Enough with the autopilot.
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Enough with never asking yourself about
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your truth.
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Is it in alignment with your truth? Is it
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something that you truly want to begin
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with? What is your truth? Who are you?
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Why do you exist? I can go really deep with you.
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I can bring all my research studies
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and then I can have a philosophical and a
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scientific conversation.
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And then we can talk a lot about the big
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bank and then how
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we
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came up as this amazing beings and then how
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we are divine light inside of us, because
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that is literally my message, my take home
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message.
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If you are taking home anything from this
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episode today, please know that you are in
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charge.
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Never, ever allow anybody to put you under
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trance.
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You co-create your own trance-formations.
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You choose the three-dimensional, the
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formational, the tangible form, trance-form.
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So you turn your trance says, your
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conditions, your societal programs and
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conditions into trance-formations.
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That would be my take home message for you.
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If you loved this episode, I would really
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appreciate if you could put a like on it,
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share it with more people who are in need
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of trance-formations to move
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from autopilot to living in alignment with
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their truth and purpose.
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especially with my Neuro-Shine Technology™, I
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would like to invite you
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to check out my Academy of Neuro-Shine
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Technology™, because we turn you
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into a
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change maker.
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You trance-form yourself
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first,
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you experience how to trance-form others, and
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then you become a change maker.
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You become a trance-former.
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First, you go through it, you experience
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it, and you feel it in your bones,
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and you're going to hear from
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some of my graduates, my students, and I
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would like to invite you to go to my
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website, grab that free PDF
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on shinyunsal.com to see if we can help you
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with my academy,
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with my Neuro-Shine Technology™ programs.
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Perhaps you just come and check out my
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Neuro-Shine Technology™ digital courses.
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Perhaps you just download a free language
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audit PDF.
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Perhaps you just study International
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Coaching Federation coaching skills.
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Perhaps you join a faculty cohort.
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Perhaps you join me, my cohorts, and learn
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to become a trance-former with me.
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Whatever you feel like, I just want to
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invite you to take a look because you will
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be trance-formed.
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When somebody is in my world, they are
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forever trance-formed.
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And
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I say it because that's what I witness
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every single day with my work.
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So I would love you to experience that.
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I wish 20 years ago, when I was starting
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this journey, somebody offered what I am
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offering you today.
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Just check it out because I know what I
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have is deeply trance-formational for you.
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So
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thank you for allowing my light to enter
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into your beautiful brain, your neurons,
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and your cosmic light.
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And until next time, keep shining your light.
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First, I would highly recommend this to
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each and every person on this planet
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because
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Something like this is an investment in
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yourself.
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And even if you do not become a coach, you
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choose to not use it as in the coaching
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business or in your profession.
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What you learn
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about yourself, for yourself, with yourself
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is absolutely priceless.
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So you walk away with, well, a
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beautiful set of skills, a beautiful set of
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coaching skills and ICF credited
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certification.
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I think what's more beautiful is you walk away
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hand in hand with yourself.
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Oh, wow.
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Oof.
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Yeah,
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you walk away hand in hand with yourself.
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It's almost like
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this is how
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I've been feeling.
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You know, I took my own hand and I was
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like, hey, come, let's go.
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Let's do this.
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You and I and NST and I
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meant to meet.
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It was time.
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That is so true.
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That is how I'm feeling truly. Yes,
682
00:25:56,020 --> 00:25:56,460
me too.
683
00:25:57,460 --> 00:26:01,020
I knew I was a coach by nature.
684
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I knew it.
685
00:26:01,740 --> 00:26:03,180
I always felt it.
686
00:26:04,140 --> 00:26:06,540
But, you know, going through life and when
687
00:26:06,540 --> 00:26:08,780
life throws things at us,
688
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we
689
00:26:09,740 --> 00:26:11,820
tend to forget our strength.
690
00:26:11,980 --> 00:26:14,860
We tend to forget our resourcefulness.
691
00:26:15,100 --> 00:26:17,500
And that was the time when I said, like,
692
00:26:17,980 --> 00:26:19,340
I lost balance.
693
00:26:19,580 --> 00:26:20,140
That was
694
00:26:20,780 --> 00:26:21,460
the moment.
695
00:26:21,460 --> 00:26:22,140
That was a
696
00:26:23,300 --> 00:26:25,660
mental state I was in at that time.
697
00:26:26,540 --> 00:26:29,980
You and NST literally
698
00:26:30,620 --> 00:26:33,660
held my hand and pulled me out of there
699
00:26:34,220 --> 00:26:34,780
and
700
00:26:35,020 --> 00:26:37,340
took me through everything.
701
00:26:37,780 --> 00:26:41,580
So I can't say this is just a training.
702
00:26:41,900 --> 00:26:43,100
It touched me
703
00:26:43,420 --> 00:26:45,180
from 12 to three.
704
00:26:45,420 --> 00:26:47,420
I went to bed, woke up at one.
705
00:26:47,420 --> 00:26:49,660
I thought I was gonna be jet lag every week.
706
00:26:49,980 --> 00:26:50,500
Not at all.
707
00:26:51,020 --> 00:26:54,140
I was more energetic the next day. Wow,
708
00:26:55,420 --> 00:26:58,380
really? It was amazing. So
709
00:26:58,940 --> 00:27:01,660
this is not just a training or a course to me.
710
00:27:01,980 --> 00:27:04,220
It's now a lifestyle, I'm addicted.
711
00:27:05,340 --> 00:27:06,380
The Go Galactic,
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Go
713
00:27:07,900 --> 00:27:08,460
Galactic,
714
00:27:08,700 --> 00:27:10,700
then you're in the right place.
715
00:27:11,300 --> 00:27:12,180
Let's go, let's go.
