Mary Morrissey | Building the Life You’re Meant to Live

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Notice that the part of us, the very power that's
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breathing us. You can't do that on your own. None
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of us created ourselves. We can't even make our heart
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beat one time under our own power. Life itself is
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animating this physical thing called our body. So there's a
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part of us that is whether you call it, I'm
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a spiritual being having a human experience, or however you
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define who you are. This is what the Transcendentalists we're
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talking about. There's a part of us that is more
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than our current circumstances, situations, and conditions, and we can notice.
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So now we have a vision of life, and it
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has money, and it has different things to it that
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matter to us for the good we can do with
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it that version of expanded life. Notice that there's a
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part of you that will be willing, and then there's
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a part of you that's arguing for why you can't.
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What if the belief's holding you back weren't even yours
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to begin with. In today's episode, I'm joined by the
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remarkable Mary Morrissey, a true pioneer in the field of
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transformational thinking and personal development. Mary and I dive deep
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into the power of belief and how our stories about money, health, identity,
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and success shape the very reality we live in. You'll
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hear powerful insights from Mary on rewiring limiting beliefs, including
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stories about money, failure, and identity. We also explore the
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law of vibration, dream building and how to expand your
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vision of what's truly possible right here, right now. If
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ready to ship from dreamer to builder and bring your
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highest vision to life, this is the conversation for you.
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Let's get started.
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My name is doctor Fleet Maull, your co host for
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the session, and I'm really thrilled to be here today
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with none other than Mary Morrissey.
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Welcome Mary, Thank you. I'm happy to be here.
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So you've been studying transformation for over fifty years and
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teaching for more than four decades, and I'm just curious
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as to what how did you get so enamored of
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personal transformation? How'd you find your way into this field?
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I wasn't looking. A series of things occurred in my life.
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Then I'll tell you a little backstory on it. I
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grew up in Beaverton, Oregon, and had a high schoo
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experience like most young girls dream about. I was class
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vice president and drill team and homecoming princess. Leaving the
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junior play and my high school boyfriend we'd been dating
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four years, went off to college, came back on spring break.
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I get pregnant May one. I'm at the end of
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my junior year in high school. I tell my mom
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and dad I'm pregnant. My mother wept for me as
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if I had died. We had a very hasty ten
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person wedding, and a couple of weeks later, I get
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a call from the principal of the high school to
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his office and are these rumors I'm hearing about you too?
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And I said, well, if the rumors are that, I'm
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pregnant and married in that order, then yes, they're true.
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And then you just put his head in his hands
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and he goes, Mary, you had great academics, you have
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terrific honors. But you will not be allowed to return
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for your senior year in high school because it would
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be totally inappropriate for a pregnant girl to get mixed
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in with the normal girls. But if you want a
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high school diploma, which I wanted because I had always
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dreamed of being a teacher, and I didn't see this
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as a dead end. I saw it as a detour
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on my way to my own professional so I wanted
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that high school diploma. He says, But if you want
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a high school diploma, there is a place for people
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like you. It was across the river and a part
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of Portland, Oregon. I hadn't been allowed to go drive
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after dark, where it's a normal high school during the
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day and then it becomes a high school in the
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evening for pregnant girls and delinquent boys. So that next
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fall I drove across. I'm now part of a group
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of classified delinquents, and I remember walking in thinking, Okay,
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this is my new student body. Now most of us
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can remember where we were, maybe at the beginning of
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a senior or the equivalent of it, depending on what
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part of the world we're in. But this was my
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new student body. My son was born in December, and
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I graduated from Washington Evening High School in May. In July,
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I'm in an intensive care ward in a Portland hospital,
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having been diagnosed with fatal kidney disease. So this is
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nineteen sixty seven. I've just turned eighteen. I'm a little
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boy who's seven months old, and they're telling me that
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one kidney is totally destroyed with the Fridas kidney disease.
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The other has fifty percent destruction, and at this point,
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without dialysis, without transplants, this is a death sentence. It's
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just a matter of how much time I'm going to have.
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So they tell me, if we can get the blood
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talks of level and my body reduced enough to remove
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the right kidney, then maybe I'll have six months to live.
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I'm terrified. The god of my upbringing, Fleet was not
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a friendly place to go when you felt like you'd
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really screwed up, and clearly I'd screwed up. My best
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girlfriends from grade school, their mothers would let them see
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me anymore, as if I had something contagious. And so
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my structure of belief when we're talking about rewiring beliefs,
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my belief at that time was my version of a
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higher power was an angry, punishing version. So I must
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be punished for being a bad girl. I don't even
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deserve to live. This is the wiring that's going on
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in me. Finally, the night before the surgery was scheduled,
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a woman walked in my room, maybe ten o'clock at night,
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and identified herself as the visiting chaplain. I wants to
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know if I want somebody to pray with me. And
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I was terrified, the scared, and I said okay. She
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pulled her chair next to my bed, and she didn't
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do anything that looked or seemed like prayer out of
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any kind of training I've had. She just pulled her
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chair next to me, and she said, would you be
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willing to tell me what's been going on in your
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life the last year or two? So I told her
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my story at the end of which she looked at
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me compassionately, and she says, Mary, Everything's created. Twice was like,
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what are you talking about? And she says, you actually
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know this. In fact, everybody knows this. Almost nobody knows
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the power of knowing this. She said, the bed you're
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laying on, the nightgown you're wearing, the sheet covering you,
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the walls of ceiling, the floor, all of it had
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to be a thought before it could become a thing.
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Now that you're considering how everything is created twice, I
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want to show with you. I hear how much you
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love your little boy, but I can also hear how
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much you've been hating yourself. You feel like you shamed
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your school, you shamed your family, you shamed your friends,
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and that toxic thinking. If everything's created twice, and a
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thought can help choose the color of the sheet you're
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laying on, could you imagine that there's a possibility that
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toxic thinking could have something to do with the toxicity
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that's rampaging your body and threatening your life. Now, this
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is nineteen sixty seven. We don't have mind body clinics
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at Harvard Medical School and all around the country to
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us today that we do. This was a different kind
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of thinking than anybody I knew thought that something I'm
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thinking could have something to do with my own wellbeing.
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And then she said, so if you could live, what
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would you do with your life? And I'd raised my
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little boy and I'd become a teacher. And she said, okay,
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So tomorrow they're going to do a surgery. Right after
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the surgery, your mind will be dealing with some of
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the pain of the surgery. As that ebbs, your mind
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is going to want to go down the well worn
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paths of thinking that you've been doing. Is going to
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want to pick up that shame and think those thoughts again.
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So here's what I want you to do after the surgery.
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Notice anytime a self loving thought, and I'm going to
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we'll do a visualization. I had never even heard the
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word visualization at this point. And we're going to imagine
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sweeping up everything that's toxic in your body and just
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putting it in that one kidney when it gets released,
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and when it gets released, it's gone. She says, you're
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not looking for the doctors to tell you that, you're
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looking a different place in your imagination. So let's imagine.
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And then when the thought of toxic shame rises up
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inside you just interrupt it and say no, that left
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with the kidney. But it's not enough to let go
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of something you have to replace it. So what I
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want you to do is say no, that left with
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the kidney. And then immediately imagine you've got a little
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boy's hand in yours, and it's a warm hand. He's
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a five year old and you're walking up the steps
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to a school and he goes to kindergarten. And then
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fast forward and you're there, Oh, and you hear the
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sound of your shoes going down the hallway and turn
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the corner and there's your first classroom. Then fast f
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forward and you're in high school auditorium or a stadium,
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and there's caps and gowns all down on the stage
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or floor, and you hear your son's name cold and
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he's walking across the stage getting his diploma, and you're
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cheering for him, and all the moments of influence that
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you've been as part of his success and your teaching
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careers growing. And then fast forward and you're in the
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front rowbal wedding and you're the mother of a groom
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and that groom is your son, and he's marrying the
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love of his life, and your teaching career is flourishing.
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And she said, just keep doing that, So I would
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you know, looking back, fleet. I would say. I was
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an unconscious confident I must have done what she told
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me to do, But I wasn't thinking if I do this,
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that might change the toxology in my body and I
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could actually start to get well. But as I was
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doing that, about two weeks after the surgery, the doctors
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told my family gathering at the end of the surgery
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that one kidney was destroyed the other was all palkmarked
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and tripled. They didn't even know if I was going
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to have six months. But after two weeks, instead of
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continuing my numbers to get worse, they were stabilized enough
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that they said, well, we don't know how much how
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long this will last right now, but if you wanted
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to go home your little boy, I don't know if
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it'll be days or a week or a couple of
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weeks that you have at home before you have to
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come back. I went home in an ambulance. I was
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so weak I couldn't lift my head, and over time
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I had to go to Eurologist three times a week
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just to check numbers. But my numbers not only stabilized,
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they just started to slightly improve and improve. And during
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that time I'm visualizing and making different connections really about
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I'm not so aware yet to even really hold state
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on being able to notice what I'm noticing. But over time.
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Six months later, I'm in a conference room at the
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hospital and the surgeon, the doctors and the specialists are
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all just shaking their head, saying, we have no science
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for what's happened with you. The surgeon said, I saw
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that one kidney, but right now it's functioning as a whole,
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perfect kidney. So we don't know how long was less
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or even less. Whatever you're doing, keep doing it. I
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wasn't aware of what I was doing. It was just
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what I was doing, so I wasn't even curious. I
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was so I got well. I was so happy to
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be well. I wasn't curious for about three years later,
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when I'm deep in my undergraduate work and a series
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of things occurred in October of nineteen seventy one that
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I don't need to tell the whole story about, but
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I got I realized, Oh, this is what happened with me.
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This is transformation. And it didn't come from that. The
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ability to transform a situation was it predicated on the
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conditions of being great. That there was another way to
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work with situations that seem limiting and difficult, and you know,
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forecasting even death, it actually allowed for more life, more
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capabilities that I believe we all have. So that was
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the beginning, and then I began to be like a
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thirsty sponge for everything I could find in the field.
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As you mentioned, I got my master and psychology looking
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at it. From that lens religions, I went to a
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two year seminary studied world religions philosophies, and that's been
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my dedication is and particularly I got very interested in
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what's known as the Second Revolution in the United States,
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the first being the revolution that untied our ties to
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Britain governing US, and the second was a revolution that
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occurred in the Northeast that became known as Transcendentalism, which
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is Emerson Threau, that work of thinking beyond problems. And
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I've dedicated myself to the study of that and the
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service of that in helping people transform their lives and
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actually have a life that they love living while they're
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living it, because it's a very precious and short thing.
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Wow, I imagine that you had an incredible origin story,
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and I'm not surprised at all, and that is indeed
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incredible and I'm sure has really fueled your passion for
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the possibilities of transformation and sharing those with so many.
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So that's just incredible. And that Chaplain, what a gift
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that Chaplain showed if at that time in your life,
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well almost angelic, almost an angelic kind of visitation there. Amazing.
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So you alluded to this already a little bit. But
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so this summ it's all about rewiring your beliefs. So
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what does that bring up for you in the context
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of manifesting life. We want actualizing our dreams, dream building,
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what you call dream building, and today we're focused in
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particular on financial well being, financial freedom, even wealth, financial prosperity.
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belief systems that we've inherited, you know, the conditioning we
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received from our family lineage, the culture versus what set
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of bots and beliefs might create a different reality for
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us to allow us to manifest our best possibilities in
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this area.
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From the study, in the work that I've done with
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trends and dentalism, I'm going to transform something. It needs
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to go beyond the current form of existence, whether it's relationships, money, whatever,
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it is. So what they were discovering was that we
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have a what they called a common hour thinking that
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he's massively agreed upon as a construct for how reality works.
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That's in our human community, which is conditions have power
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versus the power that's in every one of us to
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think beyond conditions, circumstances, situations. So when Thireau does this
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experiment with life two years, two months, and two days
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and goes and lives, it wasn't a hermit. He was
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a surveyor with his brother, but he wanted to get
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close to life, and he wrote, I went to the
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woods to discover what life had to really teach me,
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and not discover when I died that I hadn't even
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really lived. And in his writings about the Experiment with Life,
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he writes, I was hardly at the lake seven days
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when I discovered I was taking the same well worn path.
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I had carved a paths to the lake to take
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my bath in the morning, and I was continuing to
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take the same path. And I thought, if I have
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dedicated my whole life to discovering the impulse of life
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in the moment I'm living, and yet I'm following the
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same path every day. How often must I, unsbeknownst to me,
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be traveling the same well worn thought paths that I've
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been thinking before. So in terms of rewiring our beliefs,
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we have to become aware of a limiting belief. We
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have to notice that, Gosh, every time I think about
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how my mother beat me or how my dad did this,
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I keep caring a story about me that I'm continuing
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to live into as if it has power. It is
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a fact that that happened, but how much that fact
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has power in the life we're living now is a belief.
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So there's really nothing that cannot be transformed once we
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get to the core understanding that most people, in terms
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of common hour thinking, are trained, and I had decades
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of training in it too, that if I want to
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do something, I have to have the right conditions. I
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have to know where the money is coming from. I
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have to put conditioned circumstances in place. Then I can
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do the thing I want to do, versus deciding for
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the thing I want to do, having a very clear
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picture of it, the vibration of it, and then begin
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to live today doing the thing I can do with
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what I have, and start to notice and we see
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this in physics, that the more something is focused on,
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the more mass it gathers, and situations start to and
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things appear that we say came out of the blue.
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You know, it's a good thing to ask ourselves now
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and then where is the blue? The blue is right here.
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It's we are in you know, unending immense possibilities. So
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when the woman said to me, you know, could you
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believe there's a possibility you could get heal from this?
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And I said, well, they say I can't, which is good.
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Think about it. We're dealing with infinite possibilities. There's got
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to be one where you get well, let's think from
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that one. And so as we begin to understand how
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to apply both the art and the science to transformation.
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The art is in the vision. You have to have
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a crysticaler vision of what it is you want so
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much that you can imagine yourself being in it, holding
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the little boy's hand, being at the graduation of the wedding,
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and so you're actually there's a part of you that's
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resonating with it, even when nothing in the circumstantial world
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yet reflects it. And that's how all things in the
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circumstantial world are they come from the same thing. Our
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thoughts generate feelings. That feeling is a vibration. That feeling
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dictates the actions we will or will not take, and
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then the results are in harmony with all of those wavelengths.
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Same thing with your television. You turn on a television
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if you have cable, I mean, you might have you know, streaming,
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I mean on ending thousands of choices, but it's the
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one you're tuned to that's going to show up as
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the pictures on your screen. And if you don't like
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what's on the screen, you can change what you're tuned to.
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Hence rewiring our beliefs will transform anything you want to
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transform because you're changing the frequency, and what we're seeing
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on the screen it's a reflection of the frequency we're
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tuned to.
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It's a great metaphor. In the prison work that we do,
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we have a meditation that's called change the channel. So
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it's basically like, you know, you have the power to
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begin to make that shift for yourself. So you mentioned
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limiting beliefs. It's important for us become aware of the
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limiting beliefs we may have. So in your work in
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terms of building wealth or financial wellbeing, or financial security
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or even financial freedom, And that can be a ratio
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between you know, how we perceive our needs and then
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you know the revenue we generate. So I'm not trying
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to peg that might be anywhere for anyone what that
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sense of financial wellbeing and security or even financial freedom is.
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But in terms of that part of our lives, the
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money part of our lives, what have you found to
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be some of the more common limiting beliefs, limiting core
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beliefs that really hold people back or keep them stuck
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at a certain level of or lack of prosperity.
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Money doesn't grow on trees. I got to work harder,
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longer to be more successful. I'm not good with money
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common kind of beliefs that we generate. My amazing major
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shift in my relationship to money occurred in nineteen seventy five.
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I was attending seminary. There was a conference happening in
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my seminary was in Phoenix, Arizona, where I was studying
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world religions in Los Angeles. There was going to be
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a big conference and a man that I had listened
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to in those days, I think we had cassette tape.
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Hall once a week for lectures in mind science, you
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know how you think. And there was something about him
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that this guy knows things that I'm studying, but he
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knows it, and I wanted to go hear him along
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with other speakers. So I made my way to la
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his conference. His speech was going to be off campus
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because there are three thousand people wanted to come my
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guy there early I'm still a thousand persons back. I
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got my notebook. He comes on stage. He's like big
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shock of white hair and beautiful in those days, double
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breasted suit, black shiny shoes, and he's probably eighty. He
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walks across the stage and he just looks at the
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audience for a while and says nothing. I start to
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feel this uncomfortable shift. And then he reaches in his wallet,
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opens up his wallet and he pulls out money like
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this and he holds it up and he just shows,
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not saying a word. He just shows all the money
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and he goes, this is money. I love money. I
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just loved money. And when he kissed the money, I
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felt critical of him. I felt distastefulness about him, and
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I thought, this guy's not even spiritual. And then he
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put the money back in his wallet, and he said, so,
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now I'm going to ask you a question. I don't
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want you to raise your hand, but I want to
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ask you a question. When I just did what I did,
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you had some thoughts about that. So if you felt critical,
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or you wanted to rebuke me, or maybe you even
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had the thought he's not spiritual. And I felt like
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he had just crawled in me and heard all the
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things I was thinking. And he says, I want to
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ask you a question. Instead of doing what I just did.
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If I had walked out, instead of doing that with
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the money, if I had walked out with a little boy,
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pick up that little boy and I hold him and
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show you him the way I showed you the money,
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and then I bring him close and I say, this
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is my grandson. I love my grandson. Well, I'll bet
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every bit of the dollars I have in my wallet
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that you would not have been disdainful of me. You
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wouldn't have and rejecting of me. You wouldn't have been
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critical of me, and you certainly wouldn't have thought that
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I wasn't spiritual. Why Because you've been trained that it's
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okay to love a grandchild, but it's not okay to
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love the source of your freedom. Money is simply a
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symbol for your freedom to give what you really want
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to give, bring what you really have to this world.
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Let's go to your core beliefs about is it okay
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to have money? Because if you have a rejection that
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nice people don't have money, or those who are rich
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or selfish, or those are actually repellers of opportunities and
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situations that can help become the avenues and challenge of
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your own wealth.
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I grew up with a lot of those beliefs. My
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parents there was a family business made well, but it
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was middle class. But they had a lot of beliefs
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so like it was super rich people they're selfish, or
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they're probably corrupt, or the whole big corporate world is
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all you know. You you know assalted, they're small business
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people and you know they came out of the depression era,
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so they had that survival based thinking. And is a
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true that. I mean, this might not be do in
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all cases, but it's common. I think that whatever the
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financial mindset our parents have, and even often the income
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levels they have, it's kind of hard for us to
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go beyond that unless we really do change our beliefs
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in some way.
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Yeah, and one of those beliefs is the fear of
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outshining parents. If I earnt more money than my dad
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ever did or my families ever had, maybe they won't
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like me. So if your core value is relationships, then
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those two things might unless you become aware of them
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and transform. It's okay for me to have money to
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help my family. It's okay for me to be a
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place where my grandchildren get to go to college because
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I'm able to support a portion of that or all
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of that. So making it okay to you know, we're
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dealing no matter what you call it energy, call it life,
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call it spirit, it's unlimited abundance right here, and we
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are all one thought away from either becoming more constricted
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or becoming more abundant. The thought itself dictates whether we're
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going to be open to more good or condensed by
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the circumstances. So my definition of this when he wrote,
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I borrowed his term common hour thinking he wrote in
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his essay and the conclusion, I've discovered this one thing
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from my experiment. I've discovered this, at least from my experiment,
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that if one advances confidently in the direction of their dream,
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your dream is a certain amount of money that's in
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your accounts, in your assets, and what you're doing with it.
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Wanting money is not enough. It's money is a tool.
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So it's what you would do with the tool that
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has way more energy in it. So if one advances
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confidently in the direction of their dream, dreams endeavoring to
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live the life they've imagined. When not, then now, so
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I'm laying in a hospital bed, or I'm laying in
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bed at home, and I'm imagining, I'm doing what I
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can with what I have imagined and walking my little
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boy to school, high school, graduation, wedding. And that's unbeknownst
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to me, changing the vibration, the toxology, immunity, all of
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that in my own body. So if one does that,
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he says, So, remember, you can't get to a dream
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you haven't dreamed up. So wanting to have a little
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more money at the end of the month is not
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big enough dream. It's what you're doing with it. Remember,
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she said to me, what would you do with your life?
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She didn't say, would you like to get well? She said,
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what would you do with health? So that I'm visualizing myself, yes,
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being healthy, but I'm doing things with that health. So
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it's the same thing with money. You don't want just money.
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You want what you're doing with money. So you want
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to be sure you're having that version or vision of
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yourself being that and doing that. He says, you'll pass
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an invisible boundary once you get past common hour thinking.
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You open your self up to I mean, there's infinite possibilities,
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and it's the possibility you agree with most that will
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become much more of your reality. So if you believe
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I'm not good with money, you get to not be
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good with money. It isn't As you begin to change
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that and say I can get good with money, you
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know I can allow more money in my life because
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I really care about this cause or this. It's okay
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to want to have a home that is your welcoming
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place to your family or friends, or and you want
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a bigger house. And if you have a part of
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you that thinks, well, that's just selfish, that's common hour thinking.
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It's not the truth. It's just a belief, and it
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will continue to constrict you. So one of the key things.
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In all the people I train, the number one tool
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is to notice what you're noticing. You can't change something
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you're not even noticing. And if you're having recurring thoughts,
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you know I had recurring thoughts, you must be a
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really bad girl. I mean, look at you, you're like
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a delinquent. Now I'm and I was just I had
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a string of this going on in me in those days.
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So what you can't change something you're not aware of.
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So to be able to notice your own trains of thought,
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and if you're on a train of thought, it is constrictive,
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and beating you down is never going to take you
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to a good destination. So we get in front of
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that and begin to change even one or two of
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those core thoughts. So common error thinking. The definition of
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that is looking to circumstances, situations, and conditions for permission
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to be and do and have and live the way
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you would love to. Brave thinking is the courage to
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think and live from a vision regardless of circumstances, situations,
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and conditions, which simply means holding the vision. What can
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I do with what I have to move me and
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in the direction even one baby step today? What can
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I do today that would move me in the direction
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of my vision or my dream, health, whatever the dream is.
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And as you know that you're dealing with the infinite,
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an idea will come. If you're thinking thoughts, how do
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I get to the end of the month and pay
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my bills? Oh my gosh, how am I going to
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get money? Like if I move this one and I'm
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going to pay less on that one, and I'm going
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to continue to create results where I'm having to try
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to get to the end of the month and pay
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my bills. But you could It takes no more energy
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to ask a different question like what could I do
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to generate an extra ten hundred thousand depending on how
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you relate and what's going on in your life this month?
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Why got your first thought is so why I'm not
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going to be able to do that? But what if
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I could? And that's the core of what happened in
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Conquered Massachusetts with Emerson Threau what if?
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The Trendsanellas have been a huge impact on my life.
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So I'm glad you keep referencing back to them. And
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I've always loved reference Throw's expression a lot. That the
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great came out of the expression is something massive man
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before general neutral language or something. But the great mass
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of humanity living lives are quiet desperation. And that's when
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we have we have not embraced the power of belief.
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We have not embraced the power of our own mind.
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We're living according to circumstances, and of course we're always
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waiting for the other shoe to drop, because our whole
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sense of well being is focused on circumstances. So I
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want to talk in a moment I ask you about
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I know you're working worked a lot with something called
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the law of our braation, and I want to ask
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you about that moment, just to make a fine point
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of this so our audience realizes how important it is
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to get in touch with the associations we have around money.
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And there's so many negative culture. I mean, there's a
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lot of celebrity and things, but there's also a lot
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of negativity associated around money and money dirty and all
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these kind of things. And my understanding is, you know,
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based on our upbringing, our conditioning, our family, all those influences,
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we have kind of a framework of beliefs about wealth
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and money until we do something about changing that. Even
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if we're motivating, I want to make more money. I
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want to develop wealth. We'll keept keep hitting a barrier
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of our beliefs, and it's like we start doing too well.
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It's like the air conditional kick in and cool us off.
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If we don't do well enough, heat comes on. I know,
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you got to get busy. But we're almost programmed to
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stay within this particular band. Some call it a blueprint,
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and so the most effective thing rather than struggling with
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the brute print is change the blueprint, change the beliefs.
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But I think, first of all, as you're saying, we
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have to become aware of what is our money, set
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of beliefs, our blueprint, whatever it is that we're dealing
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with right now.
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I one hundred percent agree with you. That's exactly noticing
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what you're noticing, and so you can notice those little
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wiry thoughts that oh, this is too good to last.
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Well wait a minute, where did that? Who says? It?
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Might have been what I believe? But I don't have
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to believe that now there can be sustained expansive growth.
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I mean, because I just thought it up. If you
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think something while it hasn't yet become physical in your life,
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but that's how everything physical in our life does happen.
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It starts with the thought, and then that thought is
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focused on and then it begins to build mass, meaning
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you put time to it, you put energy to it,
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you gather materials to it, and pretty soon you've got
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a whole new wardrobe of your life that is much
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more congruent with a life you love.
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Absolutely. Yeah, I think I've been aware of the book
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Think and Grow Rich, probably since I was in my youth,
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and I just never read. I wrote it off for
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all the negative associations I had about money or the
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negative social stations I had with that kind of thing.
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I finally read it earlier this year and I was
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blown away. I mean, the psychology, the psychological insight, and
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the psychology in that book is absolutely phenomenal. Was also
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based on his research at the time. So let's talk
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about the law vibration. Once we get clear that we've
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got some beliefs that probably are not working for us,
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they're limiting us, and we're open to creating a new
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vision for ourselves. What's the role of the law of vibration.
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Well, when we think about it, there are you know,
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the law of electricity, the law of magnetism, these We
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respect these laws. They are fundamental. Even though you can't
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put your fingers or hands or five senses to them,
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they exist, and we are in a field of life
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in which it's helpful to understand that. It's also helpful
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to understand that while we often now in personal development
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speak of the law of attraction, the law of attraction
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is the secondary law. The primary law is the law
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of vibration. I can't be thinking this thought it has
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a vibration to it and expect this result. We are
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not going to work our way into abundance from thinking
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negative limiting thoughts. Those two things are on a different frequency.
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So the goal that is to move to being the
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person who's living the life you're imagining. When throws is
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if one advances confidently. Well, most people think that means
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I have to be confident in me. That's misplaced confidence.
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We know that we're on and off and that sometimes
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we're more consistent than others. But you can count on
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gravity every day. You and I do not get up
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in the morning and wonder if our feet are going
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to stick to the floor. We are confident in invisible laws,
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including you can be confident in the invisible law of
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vibration if one advances confidently in the direction of their dream,
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endeavoring to live the life they're imagining, meaning you can't
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get to your dream anymore that I can get to discovery.
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If I'm tuned to CNN, I have to come from
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that frequency, so I have to be the person having
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that life, even though nothing in the material world yet
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has shifted. But because I'm on that frequency, different ideas
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come to me. The ideas I'm having about my life,
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who I can be, and what I can have, are
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consistent with the major dominant thought patterns I'm operating on.
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Those are not Even though you may have had a
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result in your life for thirty years, it's only there
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thirty years because I've been on the same frequency for
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thirty years. It can change almost in the natosecond when
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we get enough of us on another frequency. So noticing
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the thoughts you're thinking are the expansive your first creation.
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If you're thinking a thought that's more expansive, you're going
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to feel it. Or if you're thinking, oh my gosh,
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how many gets the end of the month and pay
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my bills and I worry about this and worry, and
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you're going to feel constrictive. So watch for expansion or
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constriction in your own energy. And the more we lean
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into expansion, the more we're going to see expansion the
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things that matter to us in life.
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Well, it is so incredibly helpful the way you're what
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you're teaching us. I mean, because sometimes you know the
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law of attraction, manifestation, the book The Secret to film
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is they get a little bit of a bad rap,
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and some of that work that's put out in the
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world is a little simplistic, but here you're really talking
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about the actual science. On the one hand of the psychology,
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very clear psychology involved, but also the physics. The we
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could talk about neurobiological term, but this is the way
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that whatever energy is vibrating in different periodicity, different wavelengths,
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and so certainly does influence other ways. And we know
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the science of intrainment and the science of residence, the
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science of coherence. All this is real science and what
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you're describing here of how that works, and it makes
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complete sense. You have a program called your dream builder program,
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and I use that expression. I wonder if you could
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make a distinction perhaps between being a dreamer as opposed
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being a dream builder.
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So a dreamer dreams of things out there that, oh,
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wouldn't that be wonderful? And you can feel uplifted or
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even inspired a bit in the vision of something possible,
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but there's no grounding of that in order for physicality
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to arrange itself around, you know, molecular happenings. No dream
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comes true unless you have the dream and then build
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the dream. So I have wanting to simplify all this.
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The first thing of dream building is the vision, and
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that has to be a crystal clear vision, as if
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it's happening now, so you could step inside of it.
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You're mentioning, discovering science, getting er think and grow rich.
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When Jullian Hill interviewed Carnegie, which he didn't know, Carnegie
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had a vision for what he wanted from Hill, He'll
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just want it to get an interview so that we
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could sell a document. He told him so once he
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agreed to a twenty year experiment for which he would
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be not paid a dollar. With Carnegie richest man in
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the world at the time, his promise, if you just
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do what I'm telling you, you will become And you
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do this, you study the science of success, because there
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is a science to it. I know I want every
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common person to be able to have access to it.
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You will become more successful than in your weldest dreams
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right now, so he agreed. Step one. He's told Napoleon Hill. Now,
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when you go home today, I want you to go
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to the mirror, and I want you to look yourself
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in the eye, and three times a day, I want
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you to say to yourself, as if you're talking to me,
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Andrew Carnegie, not only shall I match your achievements in life,
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but I shall meet you at the post and pass
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you at the grand stance, which is a horse racing metaphor.
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The post is where the final stretch happens. The grand
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stands is where the race is won. He's imagining looking
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at Andrew, and Napoleon Hill says, I felt like a fraud.
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If I'm saying this one thing about all my current
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results are this, I mean I'm struggling. They're living in
719
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a one room, he and his young wife. They're living
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in this one room, barely able to pay rent each month.
721
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And he's looking imagining, looking at the richest man in
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the world in his eyes and saying, I'm not only
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going to become as successful as you, I'm going to
724
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become by the end of my lifetime more successful, and
725
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he just feels like a fraud. And this isn't but
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here what's happening. He's starting to rewire a belief that
727
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he's stuck in limitation and things he's going to have
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to struggle. He's got an inner belief about stuck with money,
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struggle in life paradigm. And he just starts doing this
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anyway because his mentor told him to do it. The
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mentor said, I'll check in on you and when I
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think you're ready, we'll have another meeting. So Napoleon Hill
733
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said it was probably three weeks of doing this and
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just doing it because he was told to do it,
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like the woman who came to my bed, and he said,
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he was walking down the street and this thought crossed
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his mind, Well it could happen, and it was like
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somebody else's thought had got into him. There's some belief
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that is ours to change right now, no matter how
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successful we are that fleet you clearly spoke. You know,
741
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the upper limit is always held by certain beliefs. So
742
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if we want to break through in any area, it
743
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starts with really noticing what we're noticing, and the thought
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that's behind and driving that. So, of course Andrew Carnegie
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had all this physical wealth. Napoleon Hill then writes his
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book twenty years later, publishes that Carnegie, it's made about
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one thousand millionaires. You can't even begin to count the
748
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number of millionaires that came out of the science of
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success that the ploy and Hill codified.
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Wonderful. And you know, just for our audience, clearly, everything
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that you're so wonderfully teaching us supplies to every aspect
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of our health, our relations. We're focused today on wealth
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and financial freedom and so forth, but these principles apply
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to every area of our life.
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When we're noticing what we're noticing, notice that the part
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of us, the very power that's breathing us. You can't
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do that on your own. None of us created ourselves.
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We can't even make our heart beat one time under
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our own power. Life itself is animating this physical thing
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called our body. So there's a part of us that
761
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is whether you call it I'm a spiritual being having
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a human experience, or however you define who you are,
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there's a part of us that This is what the
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transcendentalists we're talking about, a part of us that is
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more than our current circumstances, situations, and conditions, and we
766
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can notice. So now we have a vision of life,
767
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and it has money, and it has different things to
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it that matter to us for the good we can
769
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do with it that version of expanded life. Notice that
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there's a part of you that will be willing and yes,
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and then there's a part of you that's arguing for
772
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why you can't, Why now is not a good time.
773
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Well it might work for other people, but it's not
774
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going to work for you. So we have two sides
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to our human nature. One is the spiritual side that's
776
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always for more expansion. The other part is way more
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goird in the human nature, which is, well, how are
778
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you going to do that? Where is the money going
779
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to come from? And it's all conditional based thinking. So
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to become aware when you notice the part of it
781
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that's trying to talk you out of having what it
782
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is that you would really love, because it's just patterned thinking.
783
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It was given to us, we were raised with it.
784
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Money doesn't grow on trees, all of the limiting beliefs,
785
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so you can't change something till you notice it. So
786
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if you notice the part of you that wants to
787
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go forward, and the part of you that's arguing for
788
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why you can't, you can override that part by installing
789
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new thinking that turn into new beliefs.
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Beautiful. So I want to ask you, I think one
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of the things that's a real obstacle to change in
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every area of our life is our self image and identity,
793
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which is really a collection of beliefs. And so often
794
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I've heard people say, I'm sure you have. Well that's
795
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just the way I am. I mean, that's not going
796
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to change. I've always been that way, right, Or that's
797
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just the way life is. Well, Princeville, that's the way
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I am. And we're we have a very strong, almost
799
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a desperate need to hang on new identities because we
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start off as little tikes and we have to develop
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some kind of self structure and we develop it out
802
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of whatever environment we're in, but to navigate the world, right,
803
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because we can't handle the groundlessness of just consciousness or
804
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you know, letting, you know, transcending self structures and all
805
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that at that point. So we develop with self structure
806
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and we're pretty desperately hanging on to that. And since
807
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when we're looking at change in transformation, we have to
808
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be willing to start to loosen our grip on one
809
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identity and consider the possibility of a new identity emerging.
810
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And that can be a little frightening, like who would
811
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I be? Or I've always been this way, so who
812
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would I be?
813
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So I wonder if you could talk about the power
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of self image and identity and how we can shift
815
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that in terms of this area of our life, in
816
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terms of financial wellbeing and financial freedom and so forth.
817
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It was Maxwell Maltz who wrote in Psychosybernetics and then
818
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The Magic Power of Self Image Psychology that you can
819
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never outperform your own self image. So what I'm looking
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at as my results is a reflection of my own
821
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self image. Who I think I can be, what I
822
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don't think I can be, How important other people's approval
823
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is to me versus really having what the role would
824
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have called you more self recognition, that it's what really
825
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matters to you is how you see you. So one
826
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of his tools that he used at self image transformation
827
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is to he called it the theater of your mind.
828
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That in the theater of your mind, there's a lot
829
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of different movies on the shelves that you can play,
830
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and you can currently play the movies of you failing,
831
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or you could recurringly show some movies of three times
832
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when you were successful, from riding your bike for the
833
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first time or tying your shoes for the first time,
834
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or even what he called micro successes. But you start
835
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this self image is not a static for everything unless
836
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you believe it is. That's the way I've always been.
837
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That's because that's what I tell myself. It doesn't have
838
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to always be that way. But maybe nobody ever introduced
839
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that I actually can change that. And the question is
840
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do you even want to? Because maybe there's a hidden
841
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benefit to continue to be holding onto that maybe I
842
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get attention. You want to know all of those things
843
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because as you know in your work fleet in psychology
844
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that there's many layers of why things continue to be
845
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that are not life giving. So the fundamental question is
846
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do I want to have a more successful life? To me?
847
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Would that include money? What about my relationships? What about
848
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great health along the way to be able to do
849
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and give the things that matter to me? What in vocation?
850
00:45:20.199 --> 00:45:23.119
You don't have to earn income in your vocation, but
851
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your vocation is what you do with your time and talent.
852
00:45:25.920 --> 00:45:28.559
That is meaningful to you, and if it has the
853
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output called work that is meaningful and purposeful, and I
854
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feel like you're contributing to something bigger than yourself. There's
855
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a certain kind of fulfillment that isn't found unless we
856
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put those structures in place. So in noticing who you've
857
00:45:46.519 --> 00:45:51.119
been telling yourself you are, those are more structured beliefs
858
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about what I can have and be into. So when
859
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you realize you actually are far more than you've ever known,
860
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and you contain far more than you've ever thought, because
861
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you're connected to this infinite energy and call it what
862
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you will is breathing you right now, and it's sending
863
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signals of more life in the human experience. We see that,
864
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we hear that it. Just notice what you've been longing
865
00:46:15.559 --> 00:46:19.519
for and notice where the discontent is. Those are two
866
00:46:19.599 --> 00:46:22.760
signals from your soul that you are meant for more. Now,
867
00:46:22.800 --> 00:46:25.000
you'll either shape that into a vision or you'll just
868
00:46:25.039 --> 00:46:27.960
continue to struggle with the circumstances. We've all been given
869
00:46:28.000 --> 00:46:31.480
free will and that, but to know that those conditions
870
00:46:31.559 --> 00:46:34.559
are not more powerful than the power breathing you, and
871
00:46:34.599 --> 00:46:36.440
there's a way to work with that in such a
872
00:46:36.440 --> 00:46:39.960
way that you unleash that power and authority to even
873
00:46:40.000 --> 00:46:43.320
bring simple but life lasting changes.
874
00:46:43.639 --> 00:46:48.440
As we consider possibly changing our belief structures around wealth
875
00:46:48.480 --> 00:46:51.719
and financial freedom and changing our identity our self image
876
00:46:51.719 --> 00:46:54.840
around that believing in the possibility of something greater. Wherever
877
00:46:54.880 --> 00:46:57.039
we are, they're believing in the possibility of something, you know,
878
00:46:57.360 --> 00:47:00.400
a significant shift that can bring up a lot of fear.
879
00:47:00.840 --> 00:47:03.920
What if I fail, or if we have tendencies to
880
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be self critical and self shaming, we'd be fear I'm
881
00:47:06.320 --> 00:47:08.039
going to fail and now I'll be shaming our experience
882
00:47:08.079 --> 00:47:11.400
all the shame, or many of us also feel like
883
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we kind of need permission, waiting for somebody to give
884
00:47:14.159 --> 00:47:17.360
us permission to be this different person right or you know,
885
00:47:17.519 --> 00:47:19.559
we have a lot of these like I don't deserve that,
886
00:47:19.719 --> 00:47:21.119
or how could I? But I wonder if you could
887
00:47:21.159 --> 00:47:24.760
talk about again noticing what you're noticing, but how to
888
00:47:24.800 --> 00:47:26.920
work with that fear that comes up, or how to
889
00:47:26.960 --> 00:47:30.000
work with the feeling of almost feelings of guilt or
890
00:47:30.039 --> 00:47:32.639
a lack of permission or something that come up even
891
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once you're really trying, like I'm going to take on
892
00:47:34.679 --> 00:47:36.639
this vision I'm hearing Mary, I'm willing to really do
893
00:47:36.679 --> 00:47:39.039
the work, and then I get into get really nervous,
894
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it gets scary.
895
00:47:40.239 --> 00:47:43.599
So we want to rewire in terms of rewiring, rewiring
896
00:47:43.880 --> 00:47:49.960
our belief about failure. In this dimension of life, we
897
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learn equally from getting it right and not getting it right.
898
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It's just information, but we have you know, as little kids,
899
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we give ourselves full permission to experiment and try and
900
00:48:00.719 --> 00:48:04.000
fail and take the learning. No one just stood up
901
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and walked. You walk and fall down. You walk and
902
00:48:06.679 --> 00:48:09.440
fall down. And as little kids, when we fall down
903
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a number of times learning to walk, we don't say, well,
904
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I guess I'm not going to be a walker, but
905
00:48:14.039 --> 00:48:16.840
fall down in love or fall down in money. And
906
00:48:17.039 --> 00:48:20.000
as adults we think we should always get it right,
907
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and the fear that we don't get it right can
908
00:48:23.320 --> 00:48:26.880
feel so piercing. When we don't understand this is simply
909
00:48:26.960 --> 00:48:32.480
learning that this gives us an opportunity for feedback. It's
910
00:48:32.599 --> 00:48:35.760
only failure when we decide its failure. Up until then,
911
00:48:35.800 --> 00:48:38.199
it's just feedback. Okay, that didn't work, Well, let's find
912
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out what does and neutralize it. But that's not something
913
00:48:42.840 --> 00:48:46.199
that's in the culture of thinking about what looks like failure.
914
00:48:46.280 --> 00:48:50.039
You go, oh, my God, it's shameful that was dominating
915
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in my early life. It was deadly, and I believe
916
00:48:53.679 --> 00:48:57.840
it's deadly, whether it's physically deadly or life in terms
917
00:48:57.840 --> 00:48:59.960
of constriction that I'm going to live under the veil.
918
00:49:00.239 --> 00:49:03.880
I just don't want to fail versus I'm willing to
919
00:49:04.280 --> 00:49:06.679
have some things work and maybe some things not work
920
00:49:06.760 --> 00:49:10.199
while I'm learning and growing. Now you don't have to
921
00:49:10.239 --> 00:49:13.320
take your whole bank account and do something with it.
922
00:49:13.440 --> 00:49:17.400
You can give yourself permission to explore your starting a business.
923
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You're doing something, and you still can have your protections
924
00:49:20.960 --> 00:49:25.159
in place. But it's the psychological side of it to
925
00:49:25.440 --> 00:49:29.800
be willing to experiment and learn. When Thomas Edison, I
926
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mean arguably the most prolific inventor ever to walk this planet,
927
00:49:34.679 --> 00:49:38.280
was asked, how did you deal with ten thousand failures
928
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on your way to finding the incandescent bulb? And he
929
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looked at them quizzically and he said, I never had
930
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a failure. It was all feedback. It's something we can
931
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adopt if we choose to.
932
00:49:48.519 --> 00:49:51.719
Absolutely, there's a wonderful training I led a lot, and
933
00:49:51.719 --> 00:49:53.760
it was introduced me by someone else where. We did
934
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this game called the Maze game, and if you're trying
935
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to get through the maze with your team, and every
936
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time you step in a wrong square, you get beatt
937
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And the teaching that came out of the end of
938
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it was realizing because you have emotional reactions to the beep, right,
939
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you get upset, and you get upset with yourself, you
940
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get upset with the person you know doing the beeping.
941
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The realization on the end of it's just feedback. It's
942
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just feedback that helps you then find the right path.
943
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So I think that's a great insight for us to
944
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have about what's a rising for us. So one of
945
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the bleaf structures I think can really get it in
946
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a way is people. And you referenced the speaker that
947
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you saw out there in Los Angeles and your thought that, well,
948
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he's not even spiritual, and then he said that you
949
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probably had that thought right. So people often think that
950
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money and spirituality are opposin ince of the spectrum. They're
951
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on different poles. So I wonder if we could you know,
952
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I know myself, I grew up with this kind of
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depression era fear and survival based stuff with my family.
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Then you know, in the sixties, I revolted and became
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a hippie and the kuntercultural movement, and then money in
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the corporate world was all bad, right, And then I
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became a Buddhist, and I misinterpreted those teachings to think
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it was purely, you know, that really hardcore anti materialism,
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which is a misunderstanding of that tradition. But it really
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doesn't say anything about wealth one way or the other.
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It's more how you relate with how you use it,
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what you do with it. But so anyway, I had
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to work through all those different things about feeling like
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spirituality and money where it opos in the spectrum. It
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really wasn't until later in my life I started through
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my work meeting some wealthy people who were quite spiritual
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and quite sane, and that relationship to my thinking. Now,
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at the same time, we know there's a lot of
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people who drive themselves to financial success and have a
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lot of financial success. We're not happy. So I wonder
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if you could talk.
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About that a bit, about how we can build wealth
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in a way that is not out of alignment with
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our spiritual values and which will not put us in
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a place of more unhappiness, but rather more abundance and ease.
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In our life.
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I think there's something called full spectrum wealth. Most people
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associate wealth in a very small corner of their lives.
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It's money, it's a physical asset, but that doesn't make
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you wealthy. Full spectrum wealth is that you're wealthy in
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your health. So many times people are so busy trying
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to earn income gather wealth they at the expense of
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their own health, so they can become bankrupt in health
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or bankrupt in relationships because they're too busy doing the
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thing that they think has this value. Meanwhile, they're missing
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a whole I mean depth of wealth that comes in
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really healthy, long lasting, beautiful, relating expressions of life, vocation,
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something that isn't just about money, but it's something that
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you can love into existence because it has meaning and
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purpose involved in it. And then this thing called your freedom.
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Quadrants or four quadrants, health, relationships, vocation, and I know
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you do many of these summits that actually address specifically
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these areas fleet. The fourth quadrant in my understanding of
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full spectrum wealth is you want to be wealthy in
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time and money freedom not just money freedom, but the
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time to invest in things with your time that matter
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to you, to take the trips that if you love
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to travel to different places with family or friends, that
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you have this wonderful mix of health, relationships, vocation, time
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and money freedom and to work with our rewiring our
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beliefs that you can actually have a full spectrum wealth
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result in your life that continues to expand in increase
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versus if I get this and I'm going to trade that,
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which is just common hour thinking is looking to things
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outside ourselves to try to rearrange so we can have
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the things that matter to us.
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Well, that's an argument for our audience really making sure
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that you take advantage of all the days of the
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summit because it addresses all those areas of our life.
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And again, what you're teaching us, these basic principles apply
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to all these areas. We can apply them not only
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to financial prosperity financial well, but to every aspect of
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our life. So we're coming near the end of our
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time here, and you know you've spoken to this again
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and again. Like developing, it's kind of a mindfuls pact
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and awarespact, paying attention, like being attentive to the emotions
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that are rising, the thoughts that are arising, beginning to
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recognize some of these self limiting patterns that that's really
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the basis of the work. If there's a practice, it's
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learning by paying attention to our existing self limiting patterns, right,
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and then that's the beginning of being able to change them.
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And you kind of mentioned this before, but I wonder
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if one kind of like really rower meets the road.
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Part of that is, as we become aware of a
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self limiting thoughts or patterns of any kind, there's going
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to be a feeling of constriction that will affect our energy,
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our breath, you know. It's that feeling constriction. And it
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seems like if we relax into a more expansive view
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or trusting source, trusting consciousness, trusting that which animates us
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as you've been referencing, there's more feeling of opening. And
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I'm wondering if you can talk about how that might
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be a guide to keep us on the path to
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move away from our constricted conditioning into more expansive visioning
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for our lives.
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So I'll give you three magic words that I use
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and train people in exactly what you just said. So
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you're noticing expansion, you're noticing contraction. What is life giving?
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What is life constricting the thought that generate that feeling.
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So if you have a thought, you know that's just
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the way I am, or money doesn't work for me.
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You hear all this, you know whatever when you hear
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yourself thinking a limiting thought, that and how it is
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just who you are? You just say, up until now,
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I believed that. Up until now, i've operated. Is that's true?
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But now and the moment you say up until now,
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it's as if the whole subconscious mind gets alert. Oh,
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captain's turning the ship. Now, in the old days, it
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would take seven miles to turn an ocean liner. But
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the moment the captain gave the order, all hands under
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deck went to work on it. So why saying up
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until now? So what's now? And then you lay That's
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where you lay down a more expansive version like but
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now i'm and you late. You're changing self image, You're
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changing the construct of who you are and how you
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can be and what you can have. And nothing in
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your material world has shifted yet. But it's already shifting
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by means of a new vibration moving into and through you,
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by means of your agreement with it. But if I
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agree with limitation, what Henry Ford said, if you think
1060
00:56:20.760 --> 00:56:23.559
you can or you think you can't, you're right. So
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let's get on the right side of you getting to
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actually experience who you came to be and what you
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came to bring and the life that really has your
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name on it.
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Wow. So I hope our audience will write that down
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because that is golden that it's like the secret sauce
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there of how to create that shift. That's quite amazing. Well, Marrit,
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thank you so much, Thank you so much for everything
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you shared with us today. It has been incredibly illuminating.
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Thank you so much for the work you bring into
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the world so bravely. And where can people learn more
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about you your work, the Brave Thinking Institute, your dream
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Builder programs.
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You can go to BTI dot com or Brave Thinking
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Institute dot com. You'll find everything I'm doing. There's a
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lot of free things on YouTube, and of course everything
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we're offering is on the website. But I also want
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to say thank you Fleet, Thank you for your work
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in the world. Thank you for the years of study
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and all that it took for you to be bringing
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all the wonderful things into our lives that you are bringing.
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It's been a privilege for me to be hearing.
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Oh, thank you, Mary. It's certainly an honor and privilege
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for me, So thank you so much, and please be well.
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Thank you for joining me on the Radical Responsibility Podcast. Remember,
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real change happens when we commit to our growth, face
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our challenges with compassion, and stay open to transformation. If
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you found this episode helpful, I encourage you to subscribe
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Stay grounded, stay present, and stay true to you. Take
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care