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That sense of purpose you have, the most popular question that
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young people ask me is about
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passion and purpose.
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They've been indoctrinated by society to think that they have
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this one purpose and their
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big issue is they can't seem to find it.
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So like an easter egg, they're going in hundive, what's my
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purpose?
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How do I know once I've reached my purpose?
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The people that are working now in jobs, listening to this on
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their way on the tube to
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work.
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What is this subject of purpose and passion?
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What do I commit my life to?
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How do we go about answering that?
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See, if you get absolutely committed to your purpose, you will
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be called a fanatic.
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If you're willing to do whatever it takes to achieve that, you
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will be called a terrorist.
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So there is no purpose to life.
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If you are not a vested interest and you can be not a vested
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interest only when you're
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joyful by your own nature, that how you are is determined by
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you.
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So this is the fundamental you have to set that your experience
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of life is determined
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by you.
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When I say experience of life, people are always thinking
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experiences happen because of
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your external stimuli no, if you dream of a tiger, you can
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experience fear, isn't it?
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You can dream of somebody beautiful and experience love, yes or
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no.
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So I am saying all experiences cost from within you.
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Human experience happens from within you, never from outside of
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you.
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There may be a stimuli.
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Now this stimuli means just like this, you know, you're too
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young to know these things.
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There used to be wax all course in this country.
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They always used to bucket in a slope like this because morning
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, you need two people to
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push that car in the morning in 50s and 60s, I'm saying.
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Later on, they had cranks taught.
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You need one person to do that.
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Otherwise you can't get your car started.
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Today all cars are self-stocked.
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I'm asking you, your peace, your joy, your love, your bliss
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fulness.
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Would you want to keep it on self-stocked or push-taught?
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Self-stow.
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I wouldn't want it to relax.
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This is the question you're asking repeatedly.
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You want push-taught.
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Don't be on push-taught.
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Inner experiences are always on self-starts.
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Outside world will never happen 100% our way, little bit, your
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way, little bit, my
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way, little bit, somebody else's way and that's how it should
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be because everything
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happened your way.
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Where the hell do I go?
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It doesn't happen your way or my way.
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It's fine.
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It is only fine if your joy will be your own nature, but if
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your happiness depends on what
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happens on the outside, then you being happy is a remote
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possibility.
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I want to be happy on my own nature.
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Here what you've said, however, I'm going to look at this room
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and I know something's
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going to annoy me, maybe my words are even wrong, but then I'll
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immediately snap back
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into this sort of unconscious, I don't know, dismay or despair.
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How does one go about, like the first step in becoming happy by
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our own nature?
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Do you think your life is worthwhile?
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Your life is worth investing about 32 hours of focused time
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upon it.
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Your life.
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Yes.
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If you think so, you should do that.
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This is what the process that I've called it as Inner
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Engineering, 32 hours of focused time.
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Book is just a large brochure, you know, because there is a
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practice involved.
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When I say a practice, a simple practice, which only 21 minutes
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of practice, to teach
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this 21 minute practice, we take 32 hours of orientation
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because without that it won't
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happen.
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You need to understand how the mechanism of your own thoughts,
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why are they hitting you?
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If your hand is punching you in the face, why is it doing that?
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You need to understand, otherwise just holding it down is not
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the answer.
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This is the most sophisticated machine on the planet.
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Have you read the user's manual?
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The use is manual for my body, for yourself as a life.
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No, I didn't know that was one.
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So when do you want to do it towards the end of the life is
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when people think they should
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do it?
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I feel like you got yourself your iPad, should you read the
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user's manual in the first
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three days or after three years when you're getting rid of the
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machine?
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When I first get it, yes, anybody gives me the use of manual
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for myself.
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No, no, the thing is it's inbuilt, you have to just pay
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attention.
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How do I do that?
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They will do one thing, right now, shall we do a simple
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experiment with this?
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Yes.
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You'll have to do this with your eyes closed, but right now
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look at me after what you can
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do.
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Place your palms like this, facing down upon your thigh, gently
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placed.
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So you will start breathing slightly deeper, 10, 15% deeper
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than normal.
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Don't do it yet.
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Hello.
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And as you're doing it, I will say switch, then you turn your
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hands around gently upon
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your thigh like this.
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And again, when I say switch, get back this way.
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In these two conditions, something about your breath will
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change.
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I will also give you a clue what could be changing.
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Where the air is filling up in your lungs, how it fills up,
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something about it will change.
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Or let me put it this way, the maximum expansion and
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contraction in which part of the chest
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is it happening?
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This way, which way, this way, which way, just notice that,
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just hold your palms facing
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down, close your eyes.
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Okay.
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And when you say switch, hammer hands over, right?
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Read slightly deeper, not very forcefully, just 10, 15% more.
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And this is where the maximum expansion and contraction is
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happening.
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Switch, which again, please open your eyes.
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There's some difference.
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Yeah.
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What is it?
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In what part, I feel, how I feel?
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No.
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I feel the maximum expansion and contraction when you're
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holding two different postures.
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I felt like my chest and my belly were expanding more when I
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switched, when I was switching.
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I felt like I was just getting more errand to my body.
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Let me tell you what's happening.
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You can experiment by yourself and see when you have your hands
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facing together, facing
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down with all fingers together.
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Maximum expansion contraction is happening in the lower lobula.
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Yeah, yeah.
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If you turn it around, it shifts to the middle of the lobula.
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A middle of being much larger, you feel more, but actually it's
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the shift.
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So I'm saying, just by turning your hands around like this, the
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very way you breathe is altering
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itself.
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It's not just the breath.
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The very way your life energy's function is altering itself.
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How many times in a day unconsciously are you?
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Now you're setting your energy into turmoil and hoping to be
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peaceful, it will not work
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and I'm happy it doesn't work because if it works for you by
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doing wild things and still
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everything is peaceful and wonderful within you, then what is
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the use of my life?
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Spending a whole lifetime paying attention to every little
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thing that's happening here.
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I'm saying, if you can drive blind on the London streets and
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not hit anything, a good
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driver will feel insulted, isn't it?
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That's all I'm saying.
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But how do we learn the use of manual for ourselves now?
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So it's not something we go and read in a book.
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You said the problem is this, all your sense organs are outward
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bound.
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Because they are survival instruments, your sense organs, your
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ability to see, hear, smell,
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taste and touch are essentially your survival instruments.
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Life cannot be enhanced by them.
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You can only survive better.
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If you see better than me, you can survive better than me.
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If you hear better than me, you can survive better than me.
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But this life will not feel enhanced by perceiving more through
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the five sense organs.
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And they're all outward bound.
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You can see me.
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Can you roll your eyeballs inwards and scan yourself?
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No, you can hear that so much happening in the body, can you
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hear that?
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No.
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So all your sense organs are only to perceive what's happening
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around you, not to perceive
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what's within you, so to perceive within you, you need to turn
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inward.
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That needs a little, because it's not survival.
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Something has to be done.
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You know how to write English language?
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Yeah.
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Yes.
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It's done that damn 26 alphabets, you took some effort, isn't
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it?
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Hello?
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Yeah.
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It took some effort.
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And it took some guidance, because anything that's beyond
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survival needs striving.
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That's striving is missing in the society.
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There was a time, there was a time where in the civilization
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that we referred to as
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Hindustan or Bharat, or today being the political country is
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being called as India.
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In this culture, 70% of the people were invested in inward well
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-being.
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Because of that, they became super enhanced.
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Because of that enhancement, they became so wealthy in
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everything, rich in mathematics,
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rich in astronomy, rich in business, rich in trade, rich in
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industry.
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It was a richest nation on the planet, just 300 years ago.
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See everybody from here, whether it's English or French or
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Portuguese, everybody went
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to India.
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You think in search of poverty?
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In search of wealth, isn't it?
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It became like that effortlessly without conquering anybody,
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without having large armies, because
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people invested in enhancing themselves.
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I'm telling you, if you try to enhance your activity, without
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enhancing yourself, you
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will only die of stress.
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This is what is happening to unfortunately, whole lot of CEOs.
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I'm concerned about this, because a CEO means you gave
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something that is important, that
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needs to happen in the world, into his hands, his or her hands.
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And if they are stressed out, what misery will they create for
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the rest of the world?
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It's very important.
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That journey to taking care of ourselves, like I had to learn
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how to read a book or to
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learn language, no, I'm saying anything that's not survival.
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Yeah, will not come naturally, you have to strive.
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The society has to create that longing, being peaceful and
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joyful is more important for
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a human being's experience of life than me being better than
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you.
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That orientation, the society has to create, isn't it?
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I agree, I agree.
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It just seems like there's such a powerful narrative coming
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from social media, magazines,
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TV, movies, that.
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Yes, I'm not denying that.
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Making this individualistic, and it's not even individualistic,
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it's always about me being
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better than you.
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We started from the kindergarten school, there itself, they
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told you I am for strength,
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your third rank, from there it started, I am better than you.
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essentially what it means is,
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I enjoy your failures.
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Does it sound like joy to you or sickness to you?
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Sounds like a sickness.
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It is a sickness, we're building into our children right from
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day one.
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What about trauma?
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I was thinking about early trauma and how that drives us to be,
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drives us away from
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a life of contentment and drives us towards, you know, a life
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where we might end up in prison
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or we might be dysfunctional in other ways, because of
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something early that happened
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when we were seven years old, you know, it could be a small
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thing or a big trauma that has
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orientated us to be greedy or to be selfish or to be, in the
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worst case, maybe to
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others.
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which you yourself don't like.
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choices, either you can become
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wise or you can become wounded, choose.
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More unpleasant things happen to you than anybody else.
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You must be the wisest man soonest.
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No, you choose to be wounded because you carry this wound like
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a badge and so that you
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can cause the same wound to others, what's the point when you
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know the pain of it?
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How do you do the same thing to me?
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But it becomes a survival technique, there is no excuse.
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The thing is just this, instead of intelligently, consciously
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responding to life, you are
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reacting like any other creature, that's all.
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If something bad happens to me when I'm seven years old and
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these neurons fire in my brain
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that make me react badly, this is all what's happening,
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neurology, whoever told you
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this thing.
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Right now, we have a research center in Howard Medical School
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in Beth Israel Hospital,
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right now in October, this month on 17th to 21st, we have an
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international conference there.
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In these five, six years of its existence, they have done a lot
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of study.
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One thing they have found was, I can't go into all the
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scientific things I'm not a scientist,
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but one important thing is, this simple 21 minute practice I'm
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talking about, people
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who did this for over six to eight weeks, the endocannabinoids
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in their system is 70% higher
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than what is considered to be normal.
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What is normal for a happy person, it's 70% higher than that,
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you know what's endocannabinoid?
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You know what's cannabis, yes, yes, every human being has
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cannabis receptors.
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This doesn't mean that this body was created to smoke cannabis,
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you're supposed to produce
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it.
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When you don't produce it, you try to substitute from outside,
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that's a different matter.
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Let me not go into that aspect, but 70% higher, what this means
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is it is about 23% higher
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than what happens in sexual orgasm or extreme exercise, simply
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sitting here.
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So if you felt like that every moment of your life, do I have
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to tell you, don't drop,
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don't kill, don't do this?
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No, no, that's all you need to, we've not fixed that one thing.
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See, when you were a child, when you were five years of age,
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you was just bubbling with
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joy by your own nature, isn't it?
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Nobody had to work hard to make you unhappy at that time.
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But now somebody has to work hard to make you happy.
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What happened to the question?
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If you had really grown up, five years if you were that happy,
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by the time you were 31,
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you should have been ecstatic.
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You said something earlier about humans are the most
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intelligent species on earth, aren't
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we?
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You heard about that for now, artificial intelligence, I wanted
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to ask you about this.
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Oh, artificial intelligence, really come to that, first
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establish this, artificial intelligence
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is created by human beings, isn't it?
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Yes, then how did it become more intelligent than me?
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It's read more books, and no, see, everything, everything that
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's man made here in this
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world came out of human intelligence, and it's still not a full
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expression of our intelligence,
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still there are many, many more things we can do.
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You are thinking mind means, intelligence means just
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intellectual process because of that
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you think the phone is smarter than you, because it has better
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memory and it has better
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computing process.
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So all those who are on one dimensional intelligence, which is
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intellect, which is a European
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problem, if you ask me, you're exited, but still you're
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European, you know, in culture.
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I know, you Brexit it, but so it's in Europe that suddenly
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human thought became very
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ill-agiced, why it became like this is the dogmatic religious
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beliefs, which did not allow
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people to think for themselves, if you thought anything other
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than what's written in the
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book, you're dead, they made this for few centuries.
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for themselves, they suddenly
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thought this is liberation, and the ill-agiced human thought
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and we crafted the whole education
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system on the planet based on that, today you're just using one
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dimension of your intelligence,
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which is intellect, thought processes thought to be everything,
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where one of them went
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to the extent of saying, I think so, I exist.
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Or the other dimensions of human intellect will come, will come
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I'm asking you, do you exist because you think or because you
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exist, you think?
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Because I exist, I think you may think if you want, you may not
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think it's up to you.
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So because you exist, your existence is important, your
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existence is because you're seeing
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me that you exist, even if you close your eyes, you still exist
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, isn't it?
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Yeah.
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Here anything you still exist, so your existence is fundamental
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, these are all activities
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of seeing, hearing, smelling, thinking, emoting, these are all
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activities of your existence,
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the life that you are, but we got it all upside down and how do
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you expect it to work?
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Because another aspect is, if I ask you a simple question,
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would you want your intellect
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to be sharp or blunt, what's your answer?
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If I give you a sharp instrument, let's say we give you a very
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sharp knife, now you
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must be very conscious, have you moved your hand?
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If you're little la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, if you do,
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interstance will come
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out.
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Yes or no?
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Yes.
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We don't give a knife to a child's hand, only because of this,
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because his hand is not
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steady, not because knife is dangerous, never in the history
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has it ever happened, a
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knife jumped up and stabbed somebody.
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It never happened, believe me, I've been following the news, it
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is only the hand that
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whales it, it can cut a vegetable and make you meal or it can
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do surgery and save somebody's
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life or stab somebody and take their life, all these things the
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hand can do, not the knife.
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So right now your intellect is a sharp instrument.
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Once you have a sharp instrument, you must know how to hold it.
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This is simply not there.
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Everybody's cutting themselves up and they think something is
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wrong with life.
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You can call this dress, anxiety, misery, whatever you want,
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essentially you have a sharp
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instrument on your own conscious, so you're cutting yourself up
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What you just listened to was a most replayed moment from a
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previous episode.
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If you want to listen to that full episode, I've linked it down
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below.
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Check the description.
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Thank you.
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That sense of purpose you have, the most popular question that
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young people ask me is about
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passion and purpose.
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They've been indoctrinated by society to think that they have
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this one purpose and their
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big issue is they can't seem to find it.
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So like an easter egg, they're going in hundive, what's my
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purpose?
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How do I know once I've reached my purpose?
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The people that are working now in jobs, listening to this on
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their way on the tube to
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work.
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What is this subject of purpose and passion?
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What do I commit my life to?
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How do we go about answering that?
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See, if you get absolutely committed to your purpose, you will
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be called a fanatic.
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If you're willing to do whatever it takes to achieve that, you
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will be called a terrorist.
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So there is no purpose to life.
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If you are not a vested interest and you can be not a vested
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interest only when you're
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joyful by your own nature, that how you are is determined by
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you.
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So this is the fundamental you have to set that your experience
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of life is determined
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by you.
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When I say experience of life, people are always thinking
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experiences happen because of
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your external stimuli no, if you dream of a tiger, you can
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experience fear, isn't it?
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You can dream of somebody beautiful and experience love, yes or
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no.
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So I am saying all experiences cost from within you.
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Human experience happens from within you, never from outside of
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There may be a stimuli.
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Now this stimuli means just like this, you know, you're too
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young to know these things.
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There used to be wax all course in this country.
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They always used to bucket in a slope like this because morning
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, you need two people to
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push that car in the morning in 50s and 60s, I'm saying.
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You need one person to do that.
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Otherwise you can't get your car started.
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Today all cars are self-stocked.
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I'm asking you, your peace, your joy, your love, your bliss
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fulness.
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Would you want to keep it on self-stocked or push-taught?
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Self-stow.
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I wouldn't want it to relax.
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This is the question you're asking repeatedly.
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You want push-taught.
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Don't be on push-taught.
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Inner experiences are always on self-starts.
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Outside world will never happen 100% our way, little bit, your
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way, little bit, my
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way, little bit, somebody else's way and that's how it should
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be because everything
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happened your way.
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Where the hell do I go?
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It doesn't happen your way or my way.
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It's fine.
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It is only fine if your joy will be your own nature, but if
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your happiness depends on what
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happens on the outside, then you being happy is a remote
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possibility.
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I want to be happy on my own nature.
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Here what you've said, however, I'm going to look at this room
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and I know something's
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going to annoy me, maybe my words are even wrong, but then I'll
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immediately snap back
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into this sort of unconscious, I don't know, dismay or despair.
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How does one go about, like the first step in becoming happy by
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our own nature?
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Do you think your life is worthwhile?
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Your life is worth investing about 32 hours of focused time
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upon it.
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Your life.
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If you think so, you should do that.
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This is what the process that I've called it as Inner
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Engineering, 32 hours of focused time.
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Book is just a large brochure, you know, because there is a
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practice involved.
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When I say a practice, a simple practice, which only 21 minutes
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of practice, to teach
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this 21 minute practice, we take 32 hours of orientation
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because without that it won't
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happen.
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You need to understand how the mechanism of your own thoughts,
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why are they hitting you?
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If your hand is punching you in the face, why is it doing that?
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You need to understand, otherwise just holding it down is not
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the answer.
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This is the most sophisticated machine on the planet.
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Have you read the user's manual?
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The use is manual for my body, for yourself as a life.
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No, I didn't know that was one.
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So when do you want to do it towards the end of the life is
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when people think they should
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do it?
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I feel like you got yourself your iPad, should you read the
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user's manual in the first
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three days or after three years when you're getting rid of the
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machine?
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When I first get it, yes, anybody gives me the use of manual
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for myself.
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No, no, the thing is it's inbuilt, you have to just pay
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attention.
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How do I do that?
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They will do one thing, right now, shall we do a simple
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experiment with this?
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Yes.
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You'll have to do this with your eyes closed, but right now
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look at me after what you can
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do.
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Place your palms like this, facing down upon your thigh, gently
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placed.
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So you will start breathing slightly deeper, 10, 15% deeper
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than normal.
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Don't do it yet.
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Hello.
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And as you're doing it, I will say switch, then you turn your
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hands around gently upon
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your thigh like this.
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In these two conditions, something about your breath will
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change.
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I will also give you a clue what could be changing.
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Where the air is filling up in your lungs, how it fills up,
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something about it will change.
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Or let me put it this way, the maximum expansion and
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contraction in which part of the chest
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is it happening?
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This way, which way, this way, which way, just notice that,
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just hold your palms facing
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down, close your eyes.
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And when you say switch, hammer hands over, right?
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Read slightly deeper, not very forcefully, just 10, 15% more.
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And this is where the maximum expansion and contraction is
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happening.
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Switch, which again, please open your eyes.
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There's some difference.
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What is it?
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In what part, I feel, how I feel?
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I feel the maximum expansion and contraction when you're
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holding two different postures.
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I felt like my chest and my belly were expanding more when I
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switched, when I was switching.
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I felt like I was just getting more errand to my body.
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Let me tell you what's happening.
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You can experiment by yourself and see when you have your hands
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facing together, facing
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down with all fingers together.
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Maximum expansion contraction is happening in the lower lobula.
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Yeah, yeah.
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If you turn it around, it shifts to the middle of the lobula.
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A middle of being much larger, you feel more, but actually it's
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the shift.
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So I'm saying, just by turning your hands around like this, the
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very way you breathe is altering
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itself.
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It's not just the breath.
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The very way your life energy's function is altering itself.
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How many times in a day unconsciously are you?
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Now you're setting your energy into turmoil and hoping to be
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peaceful, it will not work
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and I'm happy it doesn't work because if it works for you by
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doing wild things and still
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everything is peaceful and wonderful within you, then what is
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the use of my life?
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Spending a whole lifetime paying attention to every little
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thing that's happening here.
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I'm saying, if you can drive blind on the London streets and
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not hit anything, a good
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driver will feel insulted, isn't it?
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That's all I'm saying.
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But how do we learn the use of manual for ourselves now?
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So it's not something we go and read in a book.
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You said the problem is this, all your sense organs are outward
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bound.
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Because they are survival instruments, your sense organs, your
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ability to see, hear, smell,
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taste and touch are essentially your survival instruments.
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Life cannot be enhanced by them.
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You can only survive better.
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If you see better than me, you can survive better than me.
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If you hear better than me, you can survive better than me.
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But this life will not feel enhanced by perceiving more through
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the five sense organs.
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And they're all outward bound.
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You can see me.
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Can you roll your eyeballs inwards and scan yourself?
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No, you can hear that so much happening in the body, can you
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hear that?
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So all your sense organs are only to perceive what's happening
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around you, not to perceive
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what's within you, so to perceive within you, you need to turn
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inward.
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That needs a little, because it's not survival.
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Something has to be done.
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You know how to write English language?
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It's done that damn 26 alphabets, you took some effort, isn't
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it?
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Hello?
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It took some effort.
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And it took some guidance, because anything that's beyond
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survival needs striving.
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That's striving is missing in the society.
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There was a time, there was a time where in the civilization
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that we referred to as
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Hindustan or Bharat, or today being the political country is
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being called as India.
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In this culture, 70% of the people were invested in inward well
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-being.
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Because of that, they became super enhanced.
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Because of that enhancement, they became so wealthy in
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everything, rich in mathematics,
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rich in astronomy, rich in business, rich in trade, rich in
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industry.
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It was a richest nation on the planet, just 300 years ago.
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See everybody from here, whether it's English or French or
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Portuguese, everybody went
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to India.
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You think in search of poverty?
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In search of wealth, isn't it?
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It became like that effortlessly without conquering anybody,
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without having large armies, because
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people invested in enhancing themselves.
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I'm telling you, if you try to enhance your activity, without
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enhancing yourself, you
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will only die of stress.
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This is what is happening to unfortunately, whole lot of CEOs.
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I'm concerned about this, because a CEO means you gave
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something that is important, that
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needs to happen in the world, into his hands, his or her hands.
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And if they are stressed out, what misery will they create for
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the rest of the world?
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It's very important.
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That journey to taking care of ourselves, like I had to learn
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how to read a book or to
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learn language, no, I'm saying anything that's not survival.
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Yeah, will not come naturally, you have to strive.
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The society has to create that longing, being peaceful and
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joyful is more important for
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a human being's experience of life than me being better than
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you.
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That orientation, the society has to create, isn't it?
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I agree, I agree.
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It just seems like there's such a powerful narrative coming
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from social media, magazines,
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TV, movies, that.
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Yes, I'm not denying that.
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Making this individualistic, and it's not even individualistic,
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it's always about me being
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better than you.
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We started from the kindergarten school, there itself, they
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told you I am for strength,
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your third rank, from there it started, I am better than you.
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So the whole life is about being better than somebody means,
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essentially what it means is,
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I enjoy your failures.
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Does it sound like joy to you or sickness to you?
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Sounds like a sickness.
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It is a sickness, we're building into our children right from
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day one.
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What about trauma?
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I was thinking about early trauma and how that drives us to be,
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drives us away from
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a life of contentment and drives us towards, you know, a life
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where we might end up in prison
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or we might be dysfunctional in other ways, because of
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something early that happened
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when we were seven years old, you know, it could be a small
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thing or a big trauma that has
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orientated us to be greedy or to be selfish or to be, in the
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worst case, maybe to
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others.
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Essentially, you're finding an excuse for the way you are,
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which you yourself don't like.
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See, if something unpleasant happened to you, you have two
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choices, either you can become
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wise or you can become wounded, choose.
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More unpleasant things happen to you than anybody else.
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You must be the wisest man soonest.
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No, you choose to be wounded because you carry this wound like
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a badge and so that you
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can cause the same wound to others, what's the point when you
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know the pain of it?
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How do you do the same thing to me?
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But it becomes a survival technique, there is no excuse.
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The thing is just this, instead of intelligently, consciously
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responding to life, you are
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reacting like any other creature, that's all.
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If something bad happens to me when I'm seven years old and
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these neurons fire in my brain
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that make me react badly, this is all what's happening,
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neurology, whoever told you
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this thing.
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Right now, we have a research center in Howard Medical School
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in Beth Israel Hospital,
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right now in October, this month on 17th to 21st, we have an
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international conference there.
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In these five, six years of its existence, they have done a lot
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of study.
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One thing they have found was, I can't go into all the
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scientific things I'm not a scientist,
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but one important thing is, this simple 21 minute practice I'm
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talking about, people
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who did this for over six to eight weeks, the endocannabinoids
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in their system is 70% higher
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than what is considered to be normal.
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What is normal for a happy person, it's 70% higher than that,
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you know what's endocannabinoid?
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You know what's cannabis, yes, yes, every human being has
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cannabis receptors.
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This doesn't mean that this body was created to smoke cannabis,
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you're supposed to produce
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it.
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When you don't produce it, you try to substitute from outside,
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that's a different matter.
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Let me not go into that aspect, but 70% higher, what this means
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is it is about 23% higher
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than what happens in sexual orgasm or extreme exercise, simply
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sitting here.
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So if you felt like that every moment of your life, do I have
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to tell you, don't drop,
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don't kill, don't do this?
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No, no, that's all you need to, we've not fixed that one thing.
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See, when you were a child, when you were five years of age,
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you was just bubbling with
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joy by your own nature, isn't it?
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Nobody had to work hard to make you unhappy at that time.
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But now somebody has to work hard to make you happy.
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What happened to the question?
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If you had really grown up, five years if you were that happy,
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by the time you were 31,
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you should have been ecstatic.
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You said something earlier about humans are the most
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intelligent species on earth, aren't
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we?
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You heard about that for now, artificial intelligence, I wanted
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to ask you about this.
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Oh, artificial intelligence, really come to that, first
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establish this, artificial intelligence
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is created by human beings, isn't it?
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Yes, then how did it become more intelligent than me?
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It's read more books, and no, see, everything, everything that
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's man made here in this
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world came out of human intelligence, and it's still not a full
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expression of our intelligence,
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still there are many, many more things we can do.
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You are thinking mind means, intelligence means just
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intellectual process because of that
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you think the phone is smarter than you, because it has better
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memory and it has better
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computing process.
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So all those who are on one dimensional intelligence, which is
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intellect, which is a European
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problem, if you ask me, you're exited, but still you're
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European, you know, in culture.
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I know, you Brexit it, but so it's in Europe that suddenly
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human thought became very
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ill-agiced, why it became like this is the dogmatic religious
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beliefs, which did not allow
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people to think for themselves, if you thought anything other
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than what's written in the
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book, you're dead, they made this for few centuries.
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So suddenly when they broke away from that and started thinking
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for themselves, they suddenly
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thought this is liberation, and the ill-agiced human thought
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and we crafted the whole education
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system on the planet based on that, today you're just using one
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dimension of your intelligence,
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which is intellect, thought processes thought to be everything,
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where one of them went
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to the extent of saying, I think so, I exist.
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Or the other dimensions of human intellect will come, will come
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.
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I'm asking you, do you exist because you think or because you
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exist, you think?
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Because I exist, I think you may think if you want, you may not
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think it's up to you.
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So because you exist, your existence is important, your
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existence is because you're seeing
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me that you exist, even if you close your eyes, you still exist
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, isn't it?
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Yeah.
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Here anything you still exist, so your existence is fundamental
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, these are all activities
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of seeing, hearing, smelling, thinking, emoting, these are all
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activities of your existence,
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the life that you are, but we got it all upside down and how do
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you expect it to work?
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Because another aspect is, if I ask you a simple question,
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would you want your intellect
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to be sharp or blunt, what's your answer?
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If I give you a sharp instrument, let's say we give you a very
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sharp knife, now you
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must be very conscious, have you moved your hand?
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If you're little la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, if you do,
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interstance will come
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out.
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Yes or no?
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Yes.
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We don't give a knife to a child's hand, only because of this,
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because his hand is not
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steady, not because knife is dangerous, never in the history
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has it ever happened, a
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knife jumped up and stabbed somebody.
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It never happened, believe me, I've been following the news, it
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is only the hand that
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whales it, it can cut a vegetable and make you meal or it can
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do surgery and save somebody's
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life or stab somebody and take their life, all these things the
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hand can do, not the knife.
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So right now your intellect is a sharp instrument.
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Once you have a sharp instrument, you must know how to hold it.
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This is simply not there.
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Everybody's cutting themselves up and they think something is
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wrong with life.
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You can call this dress, anxiety, misery, whatever you want,
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essentially you have a sharp
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instrument on your own conscious, so you're cutting yourself up
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.
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What you just listened to was a most replayed moment from a
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previous episode.
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If you want to listen to that full episode, I've linked it down
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below.
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Check the description.
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Thank you.
