Unshakable: Claim Your Identity Now

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Hey folks, today we're going to talk a little bit about claiming your identity.
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Because you don't necessarily build that unshakable vibe and unshakable feeling
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by just dodging hits all the time.
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You take them by standing tall and grinning.
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It's not about being fluffy with the motivation and hurrah and all that good stuff.
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It's who you decide to be today, right?
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I mean, for all of us, myself included, who do I want to be today going into tomorrow?
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It doesn't have to be the person I was yesterday or a week ago or a month ago or a year ago.
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Somebody might remember me as that person from a week ago, a month ago,
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a year ago, a decade ago. Like when you see an old friend, they remind you of the past.
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They remember you from the past.
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So if you had somebody that you were friends with in high school and you're
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50 now and you saw them 32 years later from graduating,
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you've had three decades of changes, of experiences, of life moments that they have no idea about.
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But they see the guy that did the keg stand after the football game and the winning touchdown.
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That's how life works sometimes but the way you decide to be today.
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That's when you as the owner of your own body and the owner of your own soul
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showing up raw you're protecting your own energy you're putting things out that
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are real and you're staying human,
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in a world that is becoming more and more inhuman every single day,
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so you could say it with me now about taking ownership yourself we could all
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say it together at the count of three we're going to say i'm the one who follows
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through period so three two one,
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i'm the one who follows through period own it and you got to prove what one
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move right just like we talked about,
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recently about stacking wins. You have to own that moment, own that change,
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and start stacking the little things that connect to that change.
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So when people see you, they see the new you that you're projecting to the world.
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They see the you that you want to be tomorrow, and the you that you're going
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to be right now, as of this minute.
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So remember this, and this will
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be the riff. I'm keeping this one super short. This is also episode 30.
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So thank you all for being here. This may be the shortest podcast series by
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minute for 30 episodes in the history of time and space.
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So I thank you all for spending a few seconds with me every day.
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My daughter's guitar teacher has a band. You can listen to it.
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It's a hardcore music, a New York hardcore scene that's called Wreath of Tongues.
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We went to a concert and his singer made a joke.
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We've got 40 minutes and we've got 90 songs and we'll have time to spare.
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Every song is like a minute, minute and a half, right? So sometimes it's not
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about the length of something.
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It's about just the quality of the moment to make a change in your life.
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I don't want you to sit here and listen to me for three hours.
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Hell, I don't want to talk for three hours about one topic. I don't want to
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beat anything to death that severely.
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I live and operate with an understanding that I'm talking to intelligent people
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that can onboard simple concepts, make a change in their day,
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make a change in their life for the better and for the good.
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For the complicated people out there that need way more time and need way more energy.
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You know, look, we could work together privately. You can go get a therapist.
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You could do whatever you need to do. I mean, a life coach.
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There could be a million other avenues that you might need. I'm here just to give you really quick.
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Hardcore rock and roll energy because that's the kind of person I am and that's
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the way I operate when I'm around other people so the riff for today is unshakable
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ain't a goal it's your default setting now,
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So own the hell out of that, folks. I really want you to own that.
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And one action today that you could take from your new identity.
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I want you to think about your new identity of who you are moving forward.
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And look, some of you, it might be the same identity, but you're learning to stack quick wins.
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You know, it could be something, just a piece of the last 30 episodes that you took.
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And it could be something from the RISE framework.
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It could be something from the effort switch, which my eight-day challenge is
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coming out. It might already be out by the time this posts, since I'm recording in a batch right now.
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It's about you doing things for yourself that make your life and world better.
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And I'm hoping for you that you're able to take even one sentence,
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one thought, one word from any of these episodes and help make yourself more unshakable.
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So take one action today from everything you've learned. Do it.
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Lock it in. you are all absolute freaking legends i want to thank every single
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one of you for being here on this journey we're not stopping anytime soon if
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anything we're just getting started and yeah thank you i'm steve lichtman and
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this was unfiltered and unshakable episode 30.