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A woman who figured it out. She's not a medical professor.
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Years ago she came to me and she had figured
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out how to live disease free. She had MS, she
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had multiple sclerosis, and she lived symptom free for twenty
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three years at that time. Probably she's gone on for
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another decade. We haven't talked in a while. But when
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she systematized that and put it into a structure and
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named it, she was able to start taking clients in
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at five thousand dollars a pop, twelve at a time,
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lead them through ninety day program. You do that four
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times a year. You're at a quarter million dollar business
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with you one assistant and a call a week. So
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that's the magic of the Nail youre Offer program. And
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before we finish, we'll offer you all a Nail You're
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Offer blueprints so you can kind of see what you're
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stacking against this and get started on the path.
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Welcome to the Radical Responsibility Podcast. I'm doctor Fleet Maul,
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and I'm excited to guide you on a journey of
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authentic transformation. In each episode, I'll bring you insights from
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leading experts to explore trauma recovery, mindfulness practices, pause psychology,
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and innovative breakthroughs in health, wellness, and life optimization. This
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is a space for real conversations that inspire meaningful change,
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helping you find alignment with the person you are always
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meant to be. Let's get started. What if transformation isn't
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just about thinking differently but feeling differently. Science shows us
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that true change happens when we align not just our minds,
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but also the neural networks in our hearts and guts.
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This heart mind connection is the key to deeper healing, resilience,
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and expanded awareness. That's why I created the Heart Mind
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all sharing powerful tools to help you shift your mindset
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and heartset, regulate your emotions, and unlock your full potential.
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thousand dollars in growing, plus live gatherings and an inspiring
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global community to support your journey. If you're ready to
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step into a more heart centered, connected and conscious life,
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I invite you to join us. Clip the link to
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learn more and start your journey today. What is selling
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could feel like a sacred act of service rather than
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something we pushed through. In this week's conversation, I connect
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with Lisa Sasinvage, an extraordinary entrepreneur, mother, and the renowned
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queen of sales conversion. Lisa's journey from corporate life to
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building a multimillion dollar business while raising two children is
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nothing short of inspiring. We'll explore what it truly means
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to sell from a place of integrity. Lisa shares how
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she transformed her mindset around sales by replacing pressure with presents,
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and how you can too. From crafting your resistible offers
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to mastering high ticket conversations without ever feeling salesy. Lisa
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walks us to her most powerful strategies. This is a
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conversation for every entrepreneur who knows they're here to make
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a difference and is ready to receive the abundance that
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comes from offering real transformation, miam is Doctor Flee. Mall
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your co hosts for the session, and I'm thrilled to
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be here today with Lisa Sasavich.
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Welcome, Lisa, thank you so much.
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I was sharing with Lisa with you before we got
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started here that I first did one of your online
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trainings some ten years ago or so, and I was
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a solopreneur, primarily a solopreneur, a consultant, but also a
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meditation teacher and workshop seminar leader, and the idea of
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selling in public and selling from the state was just
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like terrifying to me. And I did your training, and
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you know, I'd watch Tony Robbins do it, I've been
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to the trainings, I'd seen people do it, couldn't imagine
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myself doing it. But I did your training, and then
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I had a training coming up with someminar I was leading,
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called Radical Possibility, and I got it all set up,
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had a programmed offer, I had the back table, had
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my team back there to take orders, and at the
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right moment, I pivoted and I did it. It was successful,
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and it blew me away, and I was amazed, and
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I was so grateful, And you know, I've been selling
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ever since and enthusiastically, So thank you so much for that.
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Ah well, thank you. It's you know, I'm always moved
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when I find out that people that I respect and admire,
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like yourself, were my students a decade ago. And sometimes
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I don't even know because it was an online digital course,
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and you know, there's definitely been times where we had
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a thousand or more people learning or speak to Cell
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method or nail your Offer method, so I didn't get
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to meet every person. And sometimes I'm in a situation
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like this and I find out like what you're telling
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me right now, and I just think my life purpose
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feels so fulfilled. And I know that's what you know,
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part of what you help people figure out, and it
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does feel so good to do that work, and it
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does feel so good to know that what you were
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made for is out there making a difference for other people.
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So thank you. If we ended right now, I'm like,
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I'm on cloud nine.
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That's great. And you know, we do. We finally figure
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out that it really is all about adding value to
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people's lives. And when we get the confirmation that we
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are adding values to people's lives, we develop all the
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more confidence that to be in the flow of what
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we're doing, and it's not about selling people things they
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don't need. It's really about bringing value to people. And
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when we do that and have that mindset, it flows
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and works. But you were one of my early mentors
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and figuring that out. So again, thank you, Thank you
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so much. So, you know, we always like to start
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our interviews so a little bit of your origin story.
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And I know it's almost not fair to really ask
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you to encapsulate that in a couple of minutes, and
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we have a lot to cover today, but I wonder
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if you would start. You know, we described your journey
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in your bio a little bit. You were in corporate America,
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you learned a lot, you were very successful, you learned
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sales at that level, and then you decided to lead
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that world and start your own business. And while you
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were raising jew toddlers, created a business from home that
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has really developed tremendous success for you and impacted so
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many lives like my own. So I wonder if you
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could talk about a little more about that journey, maybe
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any of the optacles or the hiccups or the pitfalls
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along the way.
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Yeah, thank you for asking. I mean, like for all
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of us. There's lots of pieces to my journey. In fact,
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I was honored to write a book for hay House
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a couple of years ago, right in the middle of
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the pandemic. It released called Mint for More, And we
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talk about the Mint for More moment, that time when
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all of your different education comes together, be it your
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formal education, your school of hard knocks, you know, just
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all the things you know make us uniquely who we are.
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And I think the piece of my origin story that's
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most relevant, especially in the intersection of your work and mine,
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is that my mom passed away when I was young.
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I was nineteen years old, just finishing up college Diego State.
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It happened pretty fast. It was cancer and was less
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than a year from diagnosis to the end, so there
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wasn't a lot of prep time, and she was a
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single mom. And I think I went on a quest
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for parenting really when I look back on it to
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where was I going to get my guidance now? And
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I found personal development, you know, And so I was
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really a child of personal development from nineteen years old,
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which is a long long time ago. Now, thank God
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for these filters on zoom, But you know, I found
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some different personal development organizations that really impacted my life,
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and whenever I would find one that I liked, I
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wanted to tell everybody about it. I mean, I just
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couldn't believe the things that I was hearing about possibility.
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I became a real child of what is possible for
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myself and I wanted for the people around me. And
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so I was one of those people that would share
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enthusiastically and bring lots of people to whatever organization it
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was that I was learning from, and it would take
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so much work to get my brother or my father,
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you know, would fly in, you know, people at that
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I worked with, for them to come to these introductions
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and learn about these personal development seminars that were just
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expanding my world so fast. And then when we would
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get there, unfortunately, this diamond that you know, I loved
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the work, unfortunately, when they led the introductions, it would
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turn into something that would make the people I brought
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feel pressured like they needed to register right now for
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these courses, and you know, it felt very pushy and salesy,
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which was not really right reference of having done the
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actual work there. So what I found is this personal pain,
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this disconnect between you know, this amazing work that was
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life changing, versus the process they were using to try
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to get people to sign up.
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Absolutely, I'm been thinking of some of the early days
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of that'st and other changes. Now the personal wather, there's
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this whole focus on enrollment and it could get intense
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and yes.
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And that was definitely, you know, the Landmark Forum one
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of the biggest contributors to all things I consider awesome
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about myself, but also the place where I sperience to
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that kind of a rub and so wanting to have
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my own people register, wanting to make a difference in
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a bigger way what I was seeing, not knowing that
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there was like multi billion dollar of industry that are
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also trying to register people from introductions and seminars and
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you know, whether they're in the legal field or direct sales, right,
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And like all of our companies, we if we're doing
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webinars or we're speaking from stage and we want to
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move people from interested to invested, we kind of need
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a way to do it. And so it wasn't feeling
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real good to me there. And I got into the
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introduction leader's program and I just started playing with you know,
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if I only get one shot to talk to this person,
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and I want to make a difference. What are the
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markers that I have to hit, you know, what are
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the things that I need to include so that person
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feels And have come to give it a name now,
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tension versus pressure, and you know, the distinction being that
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the tension would be something rising inside them that I
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need to make this change. I want to make this
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change versus pressure, which comes from like feeling like someone
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else is pushing you to do something, and so kind
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of not knowing that it would lead to this beautiful,
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you know, fifteen year career of teaching people how to
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do this, I just started toying with it, and then
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eventually I left corporate and I went to work for
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a small seminar company that was teaching relationship work, teaching
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women how to understand and appreciate themselves and how to
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understand and appreciate men. And that's six years with that company.
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Not only did we grow from about a couple hundred
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thousand in sales to over million in sales while I
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was there, but I got to practice the things that
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I had figured out and they worked, and so suddenly
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there I was just in a little bubble of this
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small seminar company leading these internets, and for me, I
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have seventy or eighty percent of the women that would
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come to our introductions would register for our courses. I
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would go back to my hotel room, whatever city I
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was traveling to, you know, spread the word, and I
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would be devastated about the twenty or thirty percent that
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didn't register, right, And then I'd go back to work
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and obsessed with like, what could I have said different?
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How could I have structured a different What else could
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I do? And when I eventually shared those numbers on
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a group mastermind call that I had enrolled in, the
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other people on the call, this was the first time
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I said it out loud to anyone, were like, you're
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closing eighty percent of a room. Like I didn't know
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how extraordinary that was until I sort of leaked it
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out to other people. And then it just happened, and
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I became really an entrepreneurial Cinderella story. We hit the
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ink five hundred, actually very quickly, number one sixty nine,
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which was, you know, incredible. I was a mom with
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two toddlers in tow and my then husband going through
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through medical school to become a surgeon like I was
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only doing this just to keep us afloat until he graduated.
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So it alway was beyond my own wildest dreams. And
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once I realized that there were so many organizations out
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there that this could benefit, and that we're already trying
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to use this model both online and webinars and you know,
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master classes and also on stages and events, I really
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started to hone in. Okay, I have some expertise around
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what I'll call leveraged selling, and the definition being when
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we're making our offer to more than one person at
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a time. You know, we teach high ticket one on
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one selling, and we teach you know, online launches, all
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the different formats. My sweet spot is that leveraged selling.
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watching it happen in a yucky way.
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of us who want to grow our businesses entrepreneurs, especially
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those of us who are the founder or principle of
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a business, and we will want to sort of expand
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what one person can do. We have to build a team,
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we have to build a company, but also moving from
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one on one sales to what a lot of people
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today call one to many, right, So yeah, it's that
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leverage saling you're talking about. Absolutely. Another thing that struck
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me was your early experience with Landmark, because I found
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a lot of really successful people at some point or
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another connected with something like Landmark. I led a training
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for twenty five years up until the pandemic. We haven't
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done it since, and we couldn't do it during the pandemic.
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of the Landmark form on steroids, the smaller groups. But
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that context, and the name of my book is Radical Responsibility,
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so that we learned to live a choice, and we
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learned to live to create our own destiny and manifest
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our own destiny. And it's really all about our own
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choices and how we respond to the circumstances of our life.
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And obviously that stud you well in the corporate world,
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but it also stood you well in terms of becoming
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a successful entrepreneur. I wonder if you could talk a
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little bit about that context out helped you succeed along
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your entrepreneurial journey and deal with all the challenge we
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were dealing with as an entrepreneur, as a small business owner,
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as a bounder, as a mother of two young children,
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because it's so easy to let life push us into
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one kind of victim mindset or another and get us
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back on our heels instead of being in that place
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of what can I do right? Living that realm of possibility.
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about maybe how what you got from the form and
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from your life in general inspired you to have the
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energy to really keep stay in that realm of possibility.
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Yeah. I appreciate the question, and it's not asked to
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me often, so I love the chance to share it here.
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Thank you. So at Landmark I really learned and this
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is really how they would verbalize it way back thirty
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years ago. Then it was to put my past in
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the past and create my future. And they have so
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many amazing tools. I mean, I really still to this
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day think that you know, for the minimal investment and
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three days of your life, that it is such a
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worthy way to spend those days to just transform your thinking.
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And I remember early on when I was, you know,
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doing this, and not a lot of other people I
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knew were, they'd say, well, you're getting brain washed, and
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I thought, well, I mean we wash our underwear, you know,
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like there's a lot goes through that brain, and I
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think it kind of needs to be washed every once
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in a while and get a clean look and a
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clean slate. And the distinction that they offer around that
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we have what really happened. You may remember the circles
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on the board, right, and then there's a story we
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make up about what happened, and that most of us
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are living in that story we made up and not
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really able to just see what happened. And that was
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a huge distinction to just be like, Okay, you know,
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this is what happened. It's not necessarily my story. And
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what story do I want to create? What's the headline
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I want to create for my life? And I think
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even to this day and I talk about this and in
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the Meant for More book, I look at the headline
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that I want in the future, and then I keep
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taking action consistent with having that headline, and that has
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worked out for me pretty well.
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I want to talk to you quite a bit more
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about sales and marketing, but first I'd like to explore
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your journey just a little more. So you started your
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own well, you worked with a company for a smaller
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seminar company for six years, and then that kind of
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evolved in your own work because you kind of developed
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a secret this. You realize your people couldn't imagine you
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were closing seventy percent of the people showing up for
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a seminar of some kind, and so you started evolving
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your own business. And at the same time, you're raising
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two young children. Your husband's in medical school, he's super busy,
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and so you're having to navigate all this and manage
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your time and manage your life. And you know, I
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think a lot of us as entrepreneurs at certain times
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feel overwhelmed and just don't know how to organize the
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whole thing. So what was your secret sauce in terms
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of being able to keep moving forward as an entrepreneur
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while also being a mom and supporting your husband in
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medical school and so forth.
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I think I didn't have a lot of family around
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me either. You know, my mom passed away, my dad
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was in Florida and you know, doing his own life,
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and so any help that I had with my kids
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was literally purchased, you know, was like trusting that there
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was this angel in my life that was going to
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be a good person and have the best intentions for
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me and my kids along the way. And so I
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would say, you know, number one, knowing really prioritizing my priorities,
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my values. So for example, I haven't really done laundry
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or washed a dish since I had my children, because
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it was a choice for me, you know, was I
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going to work and then spend time with them or
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was it going to work and do housework while I
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set them in front of the TV. And because things
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were blowing up for me quickly and I was coming
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into and I didn't grow up with that. I mean,
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I had a single mom who you know, struggled, and
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even giving that to myself and allowing myself to make
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those non conventional choices as a mother with something I
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feel like I continuously had to do and from the
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outside people might criticize and not understand, but I knew
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from the inside that I was making the best choices
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for what I wanted in regards to being close with
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my children, which I'm happy to say they're eighteen and
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twenty one now. They're both launched as of literally just
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months ago. So we are we call ourselves open nesters
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because this has not been an empty nest. All of
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our extra vedroom of bathrooms constantly have visitors and friends
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and entrepreneurial friends coming through San Diego. So we love
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our open nest, and you know, I would go back
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and also say to answer your question. The other thing
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that was a tool that I feel like I could
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share and you know, our listeners here could apply was batching.
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So if I would go to travel to speak or
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for my own events, I would do other things along
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the way. So instead of a three day trip, maybe
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it was a five day trip and I'd also speak
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here and I'd also see a VIP client. Then I'd
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be home for three weeks, you know, or four. So
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I feel like even with my work schedule, I'll batch
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certain kinds of activities. And in factay I would I
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looking at the list of the forty five speakers that
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are here, and I'm a longtime client of both Joe
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Polish with Genius Network for many years, I would go there.
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That was like one of the things I would batch in.
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So I was not only teaching, but I was also learning.
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I really learned how to batch my time in you know,
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specific ways through those mentors. I'll also say as far
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as batching, I was looking at you at the list here,
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do you know that over ten of the forty five
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speakers have been my VIP clients. So you're going to
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have a lot of reverberation of my teachings when they're
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talking about their irresistible offers. You know, everyone from Jack Canfield,
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JJ Virgin, John asserf Dave Asbury, Natalie Ladwell, you know
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they've all been here out to do VIP work on
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their irresistible offers, the speak to Cell talks, their three
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day events. So and I batch, you know, so I
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might have two three VIP clients in a row and
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really just get the help, put everybody, the kids, get
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them all settled, do that, and then I'm back. And
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then when i'm back, I'm fully back. So that's been
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some of the secrets. And one other thing I do
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want to say that I think I'm a little unique
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because I was not able to find mentorship on this
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when I was looking is that about five years ago
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while we were at you know, millions of dollars in sales,
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thirty percent profit margin, one hundred people plus in our
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big mastermind, like really the company that everybody wanted to
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be like I wound it down. I got the message
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from the upstairs team that I looked and I had
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accomplished the goals personally and financially that I had wanted
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for my entire lifetime, and I, you know, to take
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care of myself, my kids and even a partner of
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my choice if I wanted to at this particular lifestyle
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for the rest of my life. And my kids were
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entering high school and I knew that, you know, there
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was a like a three year window that I would
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really have them right here close. And it was ironic
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because it was ninety days before we went into quarantine,
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and I had put fourteen people on my team with
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all my friend friends companies, and really did a beautiful
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conscious wind down. And I did. I couldn't find anyone
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that what actually just did that, that knew there enough
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and did that that didn't say, Okay, you know, I'm
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a ten million now I want to go to one
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hundred million, which nothing wrong with that, but for my
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particular value set and what I was looking for, I
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kind of made a move that I didn't have a
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lot of. Usually I just find someone who's done it,
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and if it was successful. I hire them and I
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copy their model. So I think that's just another thing,
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and maybe it falls in batching because for five six
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years while I launched the kids, I just semi retired.
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I only saw VIP clients like yourself. And now I've
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put my toe back in the water. I'm certifying people
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on how to be nail your offer coaches, and I'm
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entering people in their offers in group coaching again, mostly
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because my boyfriend's got enough coaching and if I didn't
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get another project, you know, he was worried about how
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much went transferred from the kids to him. So anyway,
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that's a little bit about me and like past, present,
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future and how I run things go.
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It's amazing that you were able to do that, and
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I'm not surprised you couldn't find someone to mentor you
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or model you in that, because it's pretty rare. I
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think that people are willing to do that. But how
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wise on you to preserve that precious time you have
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with your two daughters during those years. And so glad
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you're back, very happy. Back. Kind of wonder where is
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the successful around lately?
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You know, used to rodden Yellen Rippy somewhere.
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So glad you're back. And also, you know, listening to
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your story in the earlier days of that that I
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don't know when his book came out, but you were
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early modeling Dan Martell's buy back your Time approach, right,
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you know, And that's when we really think about a
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lot of us feel you know, the kids is a
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special thing, but there's all kinds of things we do
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because well, you just should do that yourself. You should
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cut your own grass, so you should do this, you
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should do that. And if you really want to focus
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and be successful, we have to put our energy where
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our real talents are and where it's going to have
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the biggest impact, and be willing to bring others in
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to work with and accomplish all kinds of things in
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our business in our personal life to really leverage our time.
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And I think there's some great modeling in that. So
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let's just talk about sales and what sales conversion really means.
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And you know, they really get it, even into the
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energy of it, like what is it really you know,
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what's the process of sales conversion, the psychology of it,
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the energy of it. And as an entrepreneur, how can
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we really Grock that we can learn all kinds of techniques,
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and you know, we can get lots of books, and
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we get frameworks and models and tools, but how do
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we get into the essence of it and really understand it.
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I appreciate the question. You're a great interviewer, by the way.
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You know, Well, first off, just to look at it
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from a pure definition like a statistic, you know, sales conversion.
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When we track it in a company, it's telling us
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of this many people that we talked to or spoke
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in front of, or that we're at our event. You know,
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so this many eyeballs a lot of people call, how
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many became clients? Right, So if there were ten people
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in your audience and three became clients, you're a thirty
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percent sales conversion. So that's you know, before getting into
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the energetics. That's just like the flat out business statistic
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of it. And also from more of a business statistic side,
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if you have ten people in your audience and I
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can teach you how to have five of them say
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yes and become your client from the same amount of energy,
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you still did your ninety minute talk or your webinar, Right,
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wouldn't you say that is a worthwhile thing to focus
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on because now you're at fifty percent if those clients
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are paying ten thousand dollars a piece, right, you went
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from thirty thousand to fifty thousand with the same energy outlaid.
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The other piece that's so magical is that your client
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acquisition cost was the same. You know, the things that
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we do fleet you and I to attract clients are
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the most time consuming and the most expensive, right, the
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most cost consuming things in our business. It's all the
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social media we do. It's all these interviews that we're
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doing right now, right, It's all these things we do
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to serve and attract new clients. So I've always felt
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like I grew this up as a busy mommy where
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I needed the shortest line between two points, and so
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it was coming from that energetic Now we get back
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to the energetic side that you know. I think companies
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spend a lot of time and money thinking that what
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they most need to invest in is growing their list
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and new eyeballs right and butts in seats, like they
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want more people. And with social media especially now you
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know your status is based on how many people are
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following you. I want to see who you are and
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look at your page, and you know, it's funny. People
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actually can't tell who I am and what I've accomplished
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because I might have fifty thousand people on Facebook and
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ten thousand people on Instagram, and in today's standard, if
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you're not at millions, you're not anybody, right if we
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look at that. But I focus on sales conversion, so i'm,
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you know, one of the most profitable entrepreneurs that I've met,
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and I want to, you know, as long as it
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is mine to do. I want to serve that client
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and serve the people that I've already served. I want
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to see how they I can serve them more, either
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with my work if it's in my wheelhouse of my expertise,
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or by referring them to somebody who it is in
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the wheelhouse of what they need. And I monetize that too,
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right through affiliate relationships. So energetically, I'm a little bad.
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My advice is a little opposite of a lot of
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what you hear out there. For example, I think it's
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more important to start by focusing on your irresistible offer,
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because otherwise any eyeballs that you attract. You know, if
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we're not converting them. It's like it's costing us more
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to get them right. It's costing every We need, bigger teams,
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we need we're taking care of more people, but we're
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not converting at a high level, so it's not efficient.
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Once you've got your offers nailed down and they're converting,
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then sure, you know, ramp up those Facebook ads, run
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more webinars, all the things. And then in my new
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Nail your Offer Certified Coach program, we're just taking our
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first thirty coaches. They're about to get certified, and I'm
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about in April to launch the second cohort. It's really
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my legacy, that move is to have other people be
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able to take my workout and enjoy the fruits of
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my labor and their own. But I just taught up
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sALS yesterday. There's a piece that they are certified in
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and how to train people to craft high ticket upsells.
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And that's another one where this everything I just said
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is exponentially multiplied because now we're taking a client who
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already loves us, they've already paid us, there's no client
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acquisition costs, and upsals of course are even more profitable
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because generally we're going up with not just intimacy and access,
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but also in the ticket of the offer. So we
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can you know, start getting into those you know, ten
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twenty thirty, one hundred thousand dollars offers depending on your industry.
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So I really think sales conversion is not the thing
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to do after you've attracted the crowd. I think it's
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the thing to nail down first, and then maybe you
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don't need this big a crowd, you know, unless it's
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just about making a difference for more people, which is
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part of the mission too.
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I know, a lot of your work in terms of
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your own business has been based on what we might
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call high ticket offers coaching programs and BIB coaching relationships
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and so forth. And then a lot of what you've
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been training people to do is how to attract clients
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and create sales conversions around high ticket offers. So how
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does that work in terms of you know, sometimes we
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talk about a value ladder and moving people from leave
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magnets and very inexpensive probably up the value letder to
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a high ticket offer. And then we also, well, you
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know a lot of the people that are insted in
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a high ticket offer, they're not interested in that value letder.
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They don't want to mess with all that. They just
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you know, they want somebody to meet their needs. And
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when somebody communicates that they're going to meet their needs,
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they're ready to write the check and sign up. How
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do you access those folks? How do you find those
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decision makers or individuals that have the ability to do
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a high ticket offer? So what's the I guess what
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I'm pointing to here? Now, what's the relationship between sales
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as you excelled at it and taught it and marketing?
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So you're in relation to trying to attract that potential
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high ticket buyer. For example, I'm.
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Getting the right people in the room, getting the right bunnels.
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Right, there's a lot of great questions in that question.
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I'm trying to tease out which way to go. This
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is another place where I'm a little bit contrarian to
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what's out there and the advice that's mostly given. So
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a lot of times by the time people find us,
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we have to correct this. I am an advocate for
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having my clients and experts of any kind. Anyone selling
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intangibles is really my client base. Right. If you're selling
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your services your expertise, you're coaching. So if you're not
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shipping a box, you're probably my ideal client, and so
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I would prefer to see you start out as the
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premierre provider. I would prefer to show you the markers
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to hit and how to position and package yourself for
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your marketing so that you start out with high ticket sales.
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And what that does is a allows us to start
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out maybe not going to big group programs, but one
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on one, high ticket so that we get immediate cash flow,
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We get immediate testimonials from people who actually do the
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work because when they pay attention usually and so it
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starts us out going to market that Hey I'm Nordstrom,
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I'm Bloomingdale's right, versus I think the majority of advites
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that's given is like, let's create a lead magnet and
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then go to a trip wire and then something low
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ticket and you know, now what we're looking at is
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the person. If it's successful, they need a big team
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because they're serving lots of people. They're serving buyers on
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the low end of the commitment and investment spectrum who
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generally need more and do less work. I hate to
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say it, but this is just what I've seen over
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the years. My VIP high level clients like yourself, and
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you know, thirty percent of the speakers on this summit,
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they're the best clients ever. You know, I could give
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them unlimited access to me and they just fall with
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what they need and they wanted, and they're out and
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they do the work. I would rather the advice that's
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currently given across the board is, you know, start out
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as Walmart and then you'll show them that you're Nordstrom.
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I don't think it really works that way. You know,
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you start out at Target and you get known as Target,
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your target, right, So I would prefer to see someone
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start out high ticket. And I was literally years into
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my business before I came up with a low ticket
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offer because I had to for you know, a summit
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or stage I was on that required something under five
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hundred dollars. So I came up with something like it
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was like a little piece of my bigger system. But
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we were years out there. And when I say high ticket,
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by the way, just for definition, in our campus, it's
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over two thousand dollars. Offers. Anything over two thousand dollars
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we categorize as a high ticket because it requires a
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different sales structure for the most part.
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You made some really important points there. Because selling low
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ticket B two c is takes a big team. It's
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very expensive. The profit margins get very squeezed, right, and
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you started off that way. I'm thinking of all, you know,
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the entrepreneurs and solopreneurs and bootstrapping entrepreneurs out in our audience,
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and maybe even some of the aspiring entrepreneurs you know,
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and maybe thinking, well, I don't know if I have
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confidence to sell a product a two thousand, four thousand,
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five thousand, ten thousand, and if somebody did give me
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ten thousand dollars because I really deliver so that they
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wouldn't feel like they've been taken, right, I mean, how
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did you How did you find your way into the
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confidence that you could create that much value for people
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and be able to communicate that with confidence so they
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were willing to sign on with.
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You appreciate that, and that is the first place we
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start with people. In fact, before we finish our interview.
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You know, I have a gift for y'all to get
649
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started with this. So we have a program called Nail
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Your Offer, and this is the first place I start.
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It didn't matter whether it was like you know, Frank Kern,
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one of the original Internet marketers, or John aseraffor Brian
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Tracy not going to my door. We start. We started
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with all these clients with nail your Offer, even when
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they had, you know, developed businesses. And the way you
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get the confidence is when you have the clarity. This
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is what nail your Offer provides. And it's what I
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do whenever I create something new, and you see it
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in every one of my programs that I have done.
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This process is and by the way, it's based on
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a book that many of us already know and love.
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So I did not create this thought. Napoleon Hills the
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first place that I got this idea through Think and
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Grow Rich. And it's the part where he talks about
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it's not your quantity of knowledge that will bring you
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a great fortune, right, It's not the letters after your
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name or how much you know so you can keep
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adding those letters and keep getting degrees. It's not necessarily
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going to lead to a great fortune. He says. It's
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knowledge intelligently organized. So if we believe that, you know,
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if we buy that or we want to test that out,
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that it's not how much knowledge we have, it's how
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we organize our knowledge that will bring us a great fortune.
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That means that you listening and watching the right. Now.
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If you've got some expertise and you helped yourself with
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something that you want to help other people with, right,
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if you could organize that knowledge, I call it pick
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your own brain. Right, if you could pick your own
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brain and then put it into a system and help
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other people then walk the steps that you did in
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an organized fashion. This is where the confidence comes from
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because now you've got a system. You've picked your brain.
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So instead of everybody taken you to Starbucks so they
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could pick your brain about how you did XYZ, you
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do it. And then that is what becomes the content
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for your high ticket coaching or program. And you start
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to develop confidence because now you've named it. You end
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up naming this as a system. This is nail. Your
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offer walks you through all this. You clarified the steps
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people are going to take, and suddenly this magical thing happens.
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Fleet your intangible starts to feel tangible. Suddenly we have,
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for example, what you referenced from over ten years ago,
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this speak to sell formula. Right, and instead of hey Lisa,
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she's this girl that teaches one too many sales like
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I have this licensed trademark speak to sell a formula
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that's helped now over fifteen thousand people. It feels like
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I'm shipping a box, you know, And so I get confidence,
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and you get confidence that there's something there that I
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can invest in and I'm gonna get returns. And the
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other thing that happens is that when I go to
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coach it, I'm coaching in a system. So it's not
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just Fleet shows up for his coaching call and what
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do you goot coming up? And what can we patch
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together for you? And let's hope Lisa woke up on
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the right side of the bed. No, I'm going to say, Fleet,
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today we're going to work on seating. This is how
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you create hunger and desire in your audience throughout your
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talk without being pushy or nudgy or salesy. And you're like, great,
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I want to learn seating, right, And then the next
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day you show up and I say, today we're going
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to work on positioning. This is how like the first
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fifteen minutes of your talk will establish how well you
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close in the last fifteen minutes of your talk. So
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when you start to organize your knowledge, then you start
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to be able to speak about it with confidence, it
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becomes a clear, compelling and what we call an irresistible offer.
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And so that's how you take someone that you know,
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maybe like I've a woman who had figured out she's
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not a medical professor. Years ago, she came to me
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and she had figured out how to live disease free.
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We called it this is she has. She had MS,
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she had multiple sclerosis, and she lived symptom free for
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twenty three years at that time. Probably she's gone on
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for another decade. We haven't talked in a while. But
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when she systematized that and put it into a structure
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and named it, she was able to start taking clients
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in at five thousand dollars a pop, twelve at a time,
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lead them through ninety day program. You do that four
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times a year. You're at a quarter million dollar business
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with you know, one assistant and a call a week.
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So that's the magic of the Nail your Offer program.
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And before we finish, we'll offer you all a nail
733
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You're Offer blueprints so you can kind of see what
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your you know, how you're stacking against this and get
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started on the path. But that's the way, you know,
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and it's the way I've used in the way I'm
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a one trick pony I've continued to help people do
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for all these years.
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Where you described really the essence of the sort of
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the you know, the information or knowledge industry, online education
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and so forth. We take some transformation that we've been
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through and perhaps guided some others through, and then we
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figure out, okay, how do you structure that? What was
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the structure? What was what were all the elements that
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led to my own transformation? And it's how you package
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that into something where it's going to be replicable and
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it's going to guide other people to the same result.
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And that's actually brilliant, and I think especially for those
749
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of us who are you know, hopefully ideally, I think
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it's often the case that we're really trying to replicate
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our own transformational journey into an online knowledge product or
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00:37:50.119 --> 00:37:52.920
some kind of program of service. And if we do that,
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you know, the confidence that we have and there worked
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for me, it's probably going to work for others, right,
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And then we still have to communicate, we still have
756
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to enroll people in it. So talk a little bit
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about this idea, the irresistible offer.
758
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Yeah, so there's two distinctions. I like to kind of
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get the languaging out. This is definitely my landmark background
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talking in distinctions, right, but it helps us kind of
761
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be on the same page and move quickly. So there's
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the offer, and then there's the irresistible offer, and I
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like to draw a distinction between the two. So the
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offer is really the part where we're talking about what
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is that outcome or transformation, Like you just mentioned, there's
766
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this transformation that we want in part to the world,
767
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and then there's how we deliver it. So maybe we
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do deliver it through a digital course or coaching program
769
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or one on one VIP engagement. So when you put
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together the transformation in the way it's delivered, we call
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this the offer. Okay, And by the way, this is
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all in that Irresistible Offer blueprint, because I know you
773
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might be getting like a handcramp trying to note this
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all down.
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So, uh, Lincoln's right down below, so everybody can have
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access to that.
777
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Yeah, I mean they can note all of these things,
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but I'm going to pull out the pieces that are
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most important here. So then there's the irresistible offer. The
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irresistible offers when we take the offer, So we take
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now we've clarified the transformation that we want to provide,
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we know how we're providing it, and when we want
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to make that offer irresistible, we add a few things
784
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to it. And it's really kind of depending on how
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you're selling. But the most common elements to that we
786
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add to an offer to turn it into an irresistible offer,
787
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and the place for y'all to start are called bonuses
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and limiters. And bonuses and limiters work in tangent with
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each other, and we add them to the offer. And
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I like to call the offer the main dish, just
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so I have language. Right, So we've got the main dish,
792
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which is the transformation plus how you provide it. Then
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we've got the bonuses and the limitters. So those are
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the three elements that make up an irresistible offer. Now
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there's lots to learn. We talked a lot about the
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main dish. The main dish includes your system. You've picked
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your brain, what's your formula for success?
798
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Right?
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It includes your way you're going to deliver that and
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hopefully that not just works for your client, but for
801
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your lifestyle. I care a lot about both parts. So
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then we get into bonuses and limiters. And I can
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if you likely, I can drop a couple thoughts, a
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couple tips on how to think about bonuses and limitters.
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Most of us are probably familiar with the idea of
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bonuses and in a bonus stack with an opera and
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so forth, but talk about limitters to begin with.
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Okay, I'll just say on bonuses that you want them
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to handle the biggest objections, right, So your bonuses should
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pre think why someone wouldn't buy and then make that
811
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a bonus, because that's kind of doing the job for you.
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And the other thing I'll say is I'm just a
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big advocate for having very few bonuses, not a big stack.
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Unless you're in something like a summit or a book
815
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launch like we are here, where lots of speakers are
816
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putting in bonuses, that's a little bit of an exception.
817
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But for the entrepreneur just selling their own product or service,
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I'm a fan of just a couple of bonuses one
819
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to three, and what I care most about is that
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they're tightly related to the offer. You want to ask yourself,
821
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does this handle an objection? And would this person pay
822
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the whole thing just to get the bonus? Probably all
823
00:41:09.000 --> 00:41:10.719
know that, but I thought i'd just throw that in there.
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A couple tips, No really important, thank you, thank you,
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Oh you're welcome. You just to some things we don't
826
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think about often but we may have heard before. And
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but the limitter prayer your question. You know, the limitter
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is really where people fall short because they're afraid at
829
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this point that if they have a limitter, and it's
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usually of quantity or time. Those are the two main
831
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limitters you want to play with. They're afraid if they
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say at this break only or only on this webinar
833
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with quantity, you know, the first six people or the
834
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first six hundred people people get, or right now on
835
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this call only you know there's a scholarship available if
836
00:41:48.360 --> 00:41:50.719
you decide on this call. That would be like in
837
00:41:50.719 --> 00:41:53.559
a strategy session model. People are afraid to get that
838
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out of their mouth because that is the very piece
839
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that gives us that Oh my god, I'm going to
840
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be that used car sales and I'm going to be
841
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pushy or salesy. It's right at that moment when we're
842
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going to use the limitter absltly.
843
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I mean the whole thing about urgency and scarcity and yeah,
844
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am I manipulating people? And then We've all seen a
845
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lot of marketing and we've felt you know, and part
846
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of the psychology, I mean the limitters, you know, one
847
00:42:18.400 --> 00:42:21.079
way I've often thought about it. I've seen some really
848
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successful selling from the stage, and I know it involves
849
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all these psychological principles and there may be some LA
850
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NLP involved, There may be a lot of things involved,
851
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And if they were selling snake oil, I might have
852
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some issues about it. Right if what we're marketing is
853
00:42:35.079 --> 00:42:37.599
something that's going to really add value to people's lives,
854
00:42:38.119 --> 00:42:41.440
but human psychology being what it is, they probably just
855
00:42:41.559 --> 00:42:45.719
won't step across that line into their next possibility if
856
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we don't create a pathway for them somehow. So I
857
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don't know if that resonates with you. And you may
858
00:42:50.440 --> 00:42:52.559
have a lot more to say about how to use limitters,
859
00:42:52.880 --> 00:42:56.199
how to use scarcity, how to use urgency without being salesy,
860
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without the high pressure.
861
00:42:57.840 --> 00:43:00.239
Well I will give just you know, one big and
862
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I'm going to take it right out of our speak
863
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to self formula. So we have the formula that Fleet
864
00:43:05.400 --> 00:43:08.000
learned that you can use on webinars or stages. And
865
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when you get to the part where you're making the offer,
866
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it's critical to use a limitter. And why is because
867
00:43:14.039 --> 00:43:16.199
if you don't use a limitter one on one from
868
00:43:16.199 --> 00:43:19.599
a stage, from a webinar, it doesn't create that urgency
869
00:43:19.639 --> 00:43:23.360
for someone to buy now. So that tension that is
870
00:43:23.480 --> 00:43:25.880
really what has to be there for someone to part
871
00:43:25.960 --> 00:43:28.599
with their hard earned time, money and energy. Right they're
872
00:43:28.639 --> 00:43:30.920
making a decision that I'm going to give you time,
873
00:43:30.960 --> 00:43:33.800
money and energy in order to invest in this. If
874
00:43:33.840 --> 00:43:36.400
you don't have a limitter, then the natural bent of
875
00:43:36.400 --> 00:43:38.199
the human being is to put it on a sticky
876
00:43:38.360 --> 00:43:41.159
check your website, put it off, ask some friends like
877
00:43:41.199 --> 00:43:43.320
do all the other things except get it right now.
878
00:43:43.599 --> 00:43:46.039
So yes, I agree with Fleet one thousand percent. If
879
00:43:46.079 --> 00:43:48.360
you believe in what you're doing, then you want to
880
00:43:48.360 --> 00:43:50.840
help people jump that broom. So I want to give you,
881
00:43:50.880 --> 00:43:53.480
guys something that you can use right away, straight from
882
00:43:53.480 --> 00:43:57.360
our speak to self formula. It's called Justify. Justify you'll
883
00:43:57.360 --> 00:43:59.360
see it if you have happened to have the formula,
884
00:43:59.440 --> 00:44:03.559
invest in it. So that moment where we're gonna say
885
00:44:03.760 --> 00:44:06.159
at this break only you get one thousand dollars off
886
00:44:06.360 --> 00:44:08.360
or the next six people get a one on one
887
00:44:08.400 --> 00:44:10.880
session with me in addition to the package. Right, or
888
00:44:10.920 --> 00:44:13.440
I only have time in my schedule for twelve strategy
889
00:44:13.480 --> 00:44:16.199
sessions next week. At that moment when you want to
890
00:44:16.199 --> 00:44:18.719
skip that because you're afraid if you'll push your sales EI,
891
00:44:18.719 --> 00:44:22.320
the reason is that you have not pre thought your
892
00:44:22.400 --> 00:44:26.760
authentic justification for why you're doing it. So if you
893
00:44:27.000 --> 00:44:30.599
don't tell people, then they have to make it up.
894
00:44:31.159 --> 00:44:33.320
And what are they going to make up is that
895
00:44:33.440 --> 00:44:36.320
you just want their money. And then that feels terrible
896
00:44:36.360 --> 00:44:38.159
to people like all of you and I and Fleet
897
00:44:38.199 --> 00:44:40.400
because we know that we're here for a bigger purpose.
898
00:44:40.480 --> 00:44:42.880
But you know, can't help it when you're making the offer.
899
00:44:43.039 --> 00:44:45.559
You're the sales guy, even if you're a girl. So
900
00:44:45.760 --> 00:44:51.079
if you prethink the authentic justification of why you're doing
901
00:44:51.079 --> 00:44:54.079
the limitter and you share it, it will help you
902
00:44:55.000 --> 00:44:57.159
get it out of your mouth. And so a couple
903
00:44:57.239 --> 00:45:00.880
quick examples would be, look, I know there's six more
904
00:45:00.920 --> 00:45:05.360
speakers after me in this summit, right so I and
905
00:45:05.519 --> 00:45:08.239
as amazing as what you learned is, so is the
906
00:45:08.280 --> 00:45:10.519
next person going to be amazing? And I want to
907
00:45:10.559 --> 00:45:12.960
make sure this is in your inbox. So for the
908
00:45:13.000 --> 00:45:16.159
next X minutes, you know, if I was making an offer,
909
00:45:16.480 --> 00:45:18.679
you know I'm gonna bribe you. I'm gonna give you
910
00:45:18.719 --> 00:45:20.599
one thousand dollars off. So you if you even know
911
00:45:20.719 --> 00:45:23.960
this is partly for you, use this coupon code, go
912
00:45:24.079 --> 00:45:26.360
right now, and if you do that before I stop talking,
913
00:45:26.440 --> 00:45:29.119
you'll get one thousand dollars off. But you tell them
914
00:45:29.119 --> 00:45:32.480
why or on a strategy session. You know. Look, if
915
00:45:32.519 --> 00:45:34.519
you're ready to go right now fleet and you want
916
00:45:34.519 --> 00:45:37.760
to do some VIP work together, I have a scholarship.
917
00:45:37.800 --> 00:45:39.840
We call it a fast action scholarship. It's only for
918
00:45:39.880 --> 00:45:42.679
people who are ready to take fast action. Basically, what
919
00:45:42.719 --> 00:45:45.519
I'm doing is I'm passing on the savings to you.
920
00:45:46.199 --> 00:45:49.039
Like it's twenty five hundred dollars fast action scholarship. It
921
00:45:49.079 --> 00:45:52.239
means that the next time we're talking, we're coaching. It's
922
00:45:52.280 --> 00:45:55.000
not another call to talk about if we should work together.
923
00:45:55.440 --> 00:45:57.039
So if you're right there and you know this is
924
00:45:57.079 --> 00:45:59.880
gonna happen, let me pass the savings onto you. Let's
925
00:45:59.880 --> 00:46:01.800
go schedule our first coach and Colin, let's do this
926
00:46:01.840 --> 00:46:06.000
thing right. So I'm telling you the truth now. The
927
00:46:06.039 --> 00:46:09.119
thing that will ruin you is if you use inauthentic
928
00:46:09.199 --> 00:46:13.000
limiters like I only have six copies of my ebook, like,
929
00:46:13.119 --> 00:46:16.599
don't do that. You know, you know people are smart.
930
00:46:17.079 --> 00:46:19.639
So if it's authentic and you can express it, then
931
00:46:19.719 --> 00:46:22.440
it keeps the tension. It actually raises the tension, the
932
00:46:22.599 --> 00:46:26.719
internal tension. You're not being pushy, you're just what Landmark
933
00:46:26.800 --> 00:46:30.559
calls committed but not attached, Right. I got that one
934
00:46:30.599 --> 00:46:33.719
from them. You're committed that they make a decision, you're
935
00:46:33.760 --> 00:46:37.039
not attached to what the decision is, right, But you're
936
00:46:37.079 --> 00:46:40.159
making it very irresistible that if they think they're going
937
00:46:40.239 --> 00:46:42.360
to do it tomorrow, why not do it today?
938
00:46:43.119 --> 00:46:46.400
So I think this is something that many entrepreneurs and
939
00:46:46.519 --> 00:46:50.920
many people developing very sales approaches, marketing funnels and so forth.
940
00:46:51.280 --> 00:46:54.880
Forget why should the customer buy now? What's their reason
941
00:46:54.920 --> 00:46:57.400
for buying now? If we don't give people a reason
942
00:46:57.440 --> 00:46:59.679
to buy now, if they're going to wait, and then
943
00:47:00.079 --> 00:47:03.840
you got five million other people wanting to market something before,
944
00:47:03.880 --> 00:47:05.840
they're going to circle back to you, right if they
945
00:47:05.840 --> 00:47:10.320
ever do right, Yeah, absolutely, I think and being able
946
00:47:10.360 --> 00:47:14.519
to authentically justify it quite wonderful. Yeah. You know, there's
947
00:47:14.519 --> 00:47:17.239
a lot of people like yourself to teach marketing, teach sales,
948
00:47:17.280 --> 00:47:21.039
and teach entrepreneurship. And they're basically teaching the other entrepreneurs
949
00:47:21.039 --> 00:47:23.800
and other marketing and other salespeople and the other people
950
00:47:23.920 --> 00:47:26.599
using these sectings to sell other types of services, like
951
00:47:26.639 --> 00:47:30.119
the client you mentioned who was helping other people live
952
00:47:30.400 --> 00:47:33.679
illness free right because she had managed her own symptoms
953
00:47:33.719 --> 00:47:37.039
and become symptoms free. But one thing I've enjoyed with
954
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many teachers of marketing is they're teaching marketing while they're
955
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marketing to me and explaining how they're marketing to me
956
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and selling me at the same time. And I know
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what's going on, and I'm still buying in.
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That's what's amazing. You might remember. I don't know if
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you ever came to our live events, but a couple
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of your speakers, like Jim Quickie's to speak at our
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live events might cadache so a lot. You know, there's
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a lot of love in this whole sum here for me.
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Great group of people, an amazing group of people.
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It's amazing who you've attracted. It says so much about you. Really,
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if we look at the star stud lineup and that
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everybody here gets to learn from, I mean that what
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you all are getting part of. Let me tell you
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if I had what fleet's offering. You know, fifteen years ago,
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I could have shaved years, you know, off of my
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own journey. So I mean, if you can get your
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hands on this at any kind of higher level, I
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don't really know what the offers are, but I'm just
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telling you I know the lineup. I'd be trained a
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lot of these people or they're my mentors, Like this
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is the cream of the crop lineup here. I just
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want to say.
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The thing about selling without feeling sales You've been You've
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been touching this in many ways. You talked about the
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distinction between tension and pressure, and I know you talked
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about it even like if you're doing a webinar or
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you're on the idea of seating and so you're building
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that hunger. You know, what's the person hunger? Their hunger
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for their own possibility, right, You're creating that sense of
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possibility for them. So what are some of the other
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ways that we can really do that? And I guess
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there's two levels about the sales e thing. I mean, one,
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we don't want to come across as sales e, right
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because that's probably not going to be that effective. It's
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going to turn people off. But we also all have
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this antipathy to feeling that way ourselves. We don't want
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to feel that way ourselves, right, and so, and I
992
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think that holds a lot of us back from becoming
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effective salespeople affective marketers, because you know, if we're in business,
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I mean, I like what Russell Brunson says, I mean,
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if you're not selling, you're not in business. Business is
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selling and selling and selling, and you have to master
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the art of selling. So I wanted to you could
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say a little bit more about how we can really
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step into that and step into our game and get
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beyond this fear around being sales e because in some ways,
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if we're full of fear about being sales y, we're
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more likely to come across as sales e in some ways.
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Yeah, you manifest the thing you're freedom, right, it's right
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there in front of you. So you were talking about
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how you have people who teach sales and then we're
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marketing and they're actually marketing to you Wilder selling you
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their course on marketing or you know, for me, I
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like to model seating. I've done it one hundred times
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during this interview because I want to show you what
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I'm talking about and show you what it feels like,
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and hopefully you haven't wanted to run from the room
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with your hair on fire because you're getting so much value.
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And that's really what there is for you to learn.
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And here's the good news. We have to package ourselves
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as sales trainers because that's the result. Right, Like, so
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I get I'm on the sales and marketing day, but
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you know, I think I'm really a sales training company
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smuggling personal development. It's no accident that you know our book,
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our published book. I have a lot of books we've published.
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Our sales came out through Hayhouse, right, because I'm like
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that straddle individual, right, I've grown up in the land
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of possibility. And so the thing you shared about how
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people that teach sales and marketing are actually doing it
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while they're teaching it. That's the thing that I want
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y'all to get is that you don't actually need sales training.
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It's structure, you know. It's really when I tell you,
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what we honestly do is we give you structures to
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plug get into so that you can hit the markers.
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In our campus, it's five different we only have five courses.
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There's nail your offer, and then the four different ways
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to lead to it. It's from stage was speak to sell.
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High ticket selling is one on one event, profit secrets
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is three day events. And webinar launch system is you know,
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for your online launch. And that's all we got, guys.
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If you're selling it intangible, it's one on one, it's
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one to many, it's from an event, or it's online.
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And that's my whole product line. Like that, that's it,
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and we call it the Love your Life sales Machine.
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And you know, when people go through all that, they're
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ready with the structure. That's the point. I want to
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make the structure for any of those situations. And I
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remember after years of selling, I mean I sold millions
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of dollars probably for Pfizer, for Hewlett Packard. I worked
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for big companies, you know, and I just I remember
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when I got to do to go to offer my
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own thing like so many of you were doing. It
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was a whole different thing. I had sweat rings down
1048
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to hear. The first time I spoke, I was wearing
1049
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a silk blouse and I'll never forget, like there was
1050
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no hiding. My hands were visibly shaking. And I had
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sold millions for other companies, and I know many of
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you have experienced to this, who who are doing your
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own thing? What will give you the confidence that Fleet
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talked about and what will give you the ability to
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sell in all these different you know, four formats that
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make up ninety percent of where you'll be asked to
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make your offer. Where you'll want to is the structure.
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And I think it was Landmark. I'm not sure where
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I got it. Structure gives you freedom, I learned early on.
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And it's a little bit counterintuitive because, right we take
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off our pantyhose and our neckties and we say, oh,
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I'm doing my own business. But if we don't consciously
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put in structure, it's a mess, right, we never get anywhere.
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So structure for doing your one on one sales, calls,
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structure for how to nail your offer, structure for bonuses
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and limitters, structure for picking your brain and putting it
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into an organized formula. Structure for speak to sell. The
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course that you know you originally met me from is
1069
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really the name of the game. So if I really say,
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what we do is we give you the structures to
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you just pour your work into. And that's what gives
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00:53:03.199 --> 00:53:05.519
you the confidence to get out there. That's what gives
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you the ability to sell high ticket right from the
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get go. And I kind of say, you know, when
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you have the structure, you don't need to sell, you don't.
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You let the structure do the selling, and you what
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I like to call invite pursuit. You don't have to
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pursue business. You can invite pursuit when you hit the
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markers that people need in order to make a decision.
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Absolutely beautiful. And I think structure is everything. And when
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you tune into that, and there are you know, there
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are different structures and different approaches that people teach, but
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once you've tuned into that, and then you're listening to
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people who are successfully selling webinars on a stage, you
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00:53:40.679 --> 00:53:43.440
immediately pick up on their structure, right. Once you become
1086
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a student of this, right, and then you know you
1087
00:53:45.679 --> 00:53:47.880
can refine your bear structures because you see the way
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this person. I mean, there's some standard thing that almost
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00:53:50.239 --> 00:53:52.639
everybody does kind of universally, but people tweak it a
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00:53:52.679 --> 00:53:54.800
little bit of this way. But it's all about structure.
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And when you see, you know, really successful communicators are
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their mind is very organized and their structure their communication
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is really well organized. I mean, that's what makes them
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a great communicator. I've been teaching people to teach meditation
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and the guy of Meditation for the last fifty years,
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and I really I work with scripts and templates and
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structures with them, and they really resist it. And I said, no,
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you got to work with a structure. Get this in
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your bones, and then you'll develop your own style, your
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way of doing it. But you'll have a structure in
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your bones. Because when you listen to people do it,
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we have not gotten that structure in their bones. They're
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all over the place and they're just saying whatever comes
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into their mind that you know, some of it may
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be okay, but it's hard to follow it. It doesn't really
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move people or connect people to the practice. And you
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can always tell when a meditation teacher is really well
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00:54:46.400 --> 00:54:49.480
trained because the way they're presenting the practice is really
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well organized in terms of what information does a person
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need now? And then what do they need, and what
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00:54:54.000 --> 00:54:55.679
do they need and what do they need? Right? So
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I think structure is everything. And as salespeople in business,
1113
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we're communicators, right, we need to learn to communicate and
1114
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really effective ways, and so I think that's his goal
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what you shared with us, and I really encourage our
1116
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ideas to check out your structures and you're teaching around structures.
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So this has been really illuminating and joyful for me
1118
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because it's come full circle for me to finally connect
1119
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with you personally after all these years. Where can people
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connect with you online? And you mentioned you have a
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free gift that offered that people could learn more and
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then possibly learn more about your work and so forth,
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So where do they go?
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Well, thanks for asking, you know, I do want to
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say that to your point, what happens is we will teach.
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I remember when Brian Tracy put me on the main
1127
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stage for National Speakers Association years ago. It was such
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an honor. I mean wow, I was like a breakdancer
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teaching the Jeoffrey ballet. I was not a trained speaker.
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And the thing that he always talks about is that like,
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while I'm teaching speak to sell, I'm speak to selling.
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So I'm teaching the structure. They can see it, they
1133
00:55:55.400 --> 00:55:57.000
know it, and they still get up and run to
1134
00:55:57.000 --> 00:55:59.119
the back of the room and buy. That's the thing
1135
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because it's respect, it's giving them what they need to
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make a decision. It's the high, in my opinion, the
1137
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highest level of services to study those structures that give
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people what they need for their transformation. So to get started,
1139
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you can go to lisasasavich dot com forward slash fleet,
1140
00:56:16.719 --> 00:56:19.039
so you'll put in fleet's name f L e e T.
1141
00:56:19.280 --> 00:56:23.519
Lisasasovich dot com forward slash fleet. And the best thing
1142
00:56:23.559 --> 00:56:25.960
I can possibly offer you is really it's like an
1143
00:56:26.000 --> 00:56:28.559
audit of your own irresistible offers. We call it the
1144
00:56:28.599 --> 00:56:31.760
Irresistible Offer Blueprint. You'll see the things we talked about,
1145
00:56:31.800 --> 00:56:34.000
you'll see some things we didn't have time to talk about.
1146
00:56:34.559 --> 00:56:36.239
And if you want to take it beyond that, you
1147
00:56:36.280 --> 00:56:39.079
want to just go to lisasasabag dot com. You'll see
1148
00:56:39.119 --> 00:56:41.239
across the top some of the new things I'm doing.
1149
00:56:41.320 --> 00:56:44.280
We're certifying people. So if you want to help other
1150
00:56:44.320 --> 00:56:46.840
companies to nail your offer, you could be a nail
1151
00:56:46.840 --> 00:56:50.199
your offer certified coach. And I've recently started at twice
1152
00:56:50.199 --> 00:56:53.159
a month mentorship where you can come on twice a month,
1153
00:56:53.239 --> 00:56:55.639
bring your calendar, look at what offers you have coming up,
1154
00:56:55.920 --> 00:56:58.599
and get my coaching. And I think that's under mentorship
1155
00:56:58.639 --> 00:57:01.280
across the top line, kind of shop around, see what
1156
00:57:01.280 --> 00:57:03.320
we've got going these days. And of course all the
1157
00:57:03.360 --> 00:57:06.199
programs that I mentioned here, they're all listed under digital
1158
00:57:06.199 --> 00:57:08.639
programs and they're there to help you. If you have
1159
00:57:08.679 --> 00:57:10.880
a talk a launch coming up, you want to create
1160
00:57:10.920 --> 00:57:13.519
a high ticket program, it's all tested. You are not
1161
00:57:13.599 --> 00:57:17.079
my test rats. Fifteen thousand clients and fifty million dollars
1162
00:57:17.079 --> 00:57:19.480
in sales prior to you, so you can count on
1163
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some really great structures.
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Well. I encourage people to take action right now, don't wait.
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Their link right down for the pre offeras right below
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00:57:26.400 --> 00:57:28.599
this video. So take action now and make sure you
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00:57:28.639 --> 00:57:32.199
follow through because this is gold. And thank you so much, Lisa.
1168
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My pleasure, Thanks for having me.
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Oh it's a pleasure. Thank you so much. Thank you
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for joining me on the Radical Responsibility Podcast. Remember, real
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00:57:40.880 --> 00:57:43.400
change happens when we commit to our growth, face our
1172
00:57:43.519 --> 00:57:46.920
challenges with compassion, and stay open to transformation. If you
1173
00:57:47.000 --> 00:57:50.239
found this episode helpful, I encourage you to subscribe and
1174
00:57:50.320 --> 00:57:53.519
help us spread the message of healing and personal empowerment.
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Stay grounded, stay present, and stay true to you. Take
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care almost
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A woman who figured it out. She's not a medical professor.
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Years ago she came to me and she had figured
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out how to live disease free. She had MS, she
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had multiple sclerosis, and she lived symptom free for twenty
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three years at that time. Probably she's gone on for
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another decade. We haven't talked in a while. But when
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she systematized that and put it into a structure and
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named it, she was able to start taking clients in
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at five thousand dollars a pop, twelve at a time,
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lead them through ninety day program. You do that four
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times a year. You're at a quarter million dollar business
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with you one assistant and a call a week. So
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that's the magic of the Nail youre Offer program. And
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Welcome to the Radical Responsibility Podcast. I'm doctor Fleet Maul,
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I invite you to join us. Clip the link to
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learn more and start your journey today. What is selling
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could feel like a sacred act of service rather than
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something we pushed through. In this week's conversation, I connect
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with Lisa Sasinvage, an extraordinary entrepreneur, mother, and the renowned
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queen of sales conversion. Lisa's journey from corporate life to
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building a multimillion dollar business while raising two children is
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nothing short of inspiring. We'll explore what it truly means
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to sell from a place of integrity. Lisa shares how
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she transformed her mindset around sales by replacing pressure with presents,
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and how you can too. From crafting your resistible offers
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to mastering high ticket conversations without ever feeling salesy. Lisa
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walks us to her most powerful strategies. This is a
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conversation for every entrepreneur who knows they're here to make
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a difference and is ready to receive the abundance that
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comes from offering real transformation, miam is Doctor Flee. Mall
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your co hosts for the session, and I'm thrilled to
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be here today with Lisa Sasavich.
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Welcome, Lisa, thank you so much.
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I was sharing with Lisa with you before we got
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started here that I first did one of your online
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trainings some ten years ago or so, and I was
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a solopreneur, primarily a solopreneur, a consultant, but also a
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meditation teacher and workshop seminar leader, and the idea of
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selling in public and selling from the state was just
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like terrifying to me. And I did your training, and
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you know, I'd watch Tony Robbins do it, I've been
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to the trainings, I'd seen people do it, couldn't imagine
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myself doing it. But I did your training, and then
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I had a training coming up with someminar I was leading,
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called Radical Possibility, and I got it all set up,
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had a programmed offer, I had the back table, had
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my team back there to take orders, and at the
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right moment, I pivoted and I did it. It was successful,
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I was so grateful, And you know, I've been selling
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ever since and enthusiastically, So thank you so much for that.
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when I find out that people that I respect and admire,
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like yourself, were my students a decade ago. And sometimes
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a thousand or more people learning or speak to Cell
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method or nail your Offer method, so I didn't get
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to meet every person. And sometimes I'm in a situation
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like this and I find out like what you're telling
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me right now, and I just think my life purpose
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feels so fulfilled. And I know that's what you know,
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part of what you help people figure out, and it
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does feel so good to do that work, and it
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does feel so good to know that what you were
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That's great. And you know, we do. We finally figure
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out that it really is all about adding value to
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people's lives. And when we get the confirmation that we
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are adding values to people's lives, we develop all the
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more confidence that to be in the flow of what
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we're doing, and it's not about selling people things they
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don't need. It's really about bringing value to people. And
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when we do that and have that mindset, it flows
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and works. But you were one of my early mentors
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and figuring that out. So again, thank you, Thank you
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so much. So, you know, we always like to start
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our interviews so a little bit of your origin story.
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if you would start. You know, we described your journey
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in your bio a little bit. You were in corporate America,
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you learned a lot, you were very successful, you learned
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sales at that level, and then you decided to lead
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that world and start your own business. And while you
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were raising jew toddlers, created a business from home that
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has really developed tremendous success for you and impacted so
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many lives like my own. So I wonder if you
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could talk about a little more about that journey, maybe
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any of the optacles or the hiccups or the pitfalls
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of us. There's lots of pieces to my journey. In fact,
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I was honored to write a book for hay House
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a couple of years ago, right in the middle of
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the pandemic. It released called Mint for More, And we
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talk about the Mint for More moment, that time when
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all of your different education comes together, be it your
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formal education, your school of hard knocks, you know, just
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all the things you know make us uniquely who we are.
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most relevant, especially in the intersection of your work and mine,
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is that my mom passed away when I was young.
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than a year from diagnosis to the end, so there
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wasn't a lot of prep time, and she was a
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single mom. And I think I went on a quest
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for parenting really when I look back on it to
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where was I going to get my guidance now? And
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I found personal development, you know, And so I was
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really a child of personal development from nineteen years old,
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which is a long long time ago. Now, thank God
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for these filters on zoom, But you know, I found
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some different personal development organizations that really impacted my life,
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and whenever I would find one that I liked, I
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wanted to tell everybody about it. I mean, I just
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couldn't believe the things that I was hearing about possibility.
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I became a real child of what is possible for
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myself and I wanted for the people around me. And
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so I was one of those people that would share
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enthusiastically and bring lots of people to whatever organization it
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was that I was learning from, and it would take
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so much work to get my brother or my father,
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you know, would fly in, you know, people at that
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I worked with, for them to come to these introductions
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and learn about these personal development seminars that were just
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expanding my world so fast. And then when we would
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get there, unfortunately, this diamond that you know, I loved
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the work, unfortunately, when they led the introductions, it would
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turn into something that would make the people I brought
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feel pressured like they needed to register right now for
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these courses, and you know, it felt very pushy and salesy,
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which was not really right reference of having done the
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actual work there. So what I found is this personal pain,
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this disconnect between you know, this amazing work that was
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life changing, versus the process they were using to try
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to get people to sign up.
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of that'st and other changes. Now the personal wather, there's
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this whole focus on enrollment and it could get intense
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of the biggest contributors to all things I consider awesome
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about myself, but also the place where I sperience to
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that kind of a rub and so wanting to have
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my own people register, wanting to make a difference in
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a bigger way what I was seeing, not knowing that
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there was like multi billion dollar of industry that are
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also trying to register people from introductions and seminars and
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you know, whether they're in the legal field or direct sales, right,
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webinars or we're speaking from stage and we want to
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move people from interested to invested, we kind of need
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a way to do it. And so it wasn't feeling
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real good to me there. And I got into the
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introduction leader's program and I just started playing with you know,
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if I only get one shot to talk to this person,
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markers that I have to hit, you know, what are
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the things that I need to include so that person
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feels And have come to give it a name now,
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tension versus pressure, and you know, the distinction being that
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the tension would be something rising inside them that I
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need to make this change. I want to make this
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change versus pressure, which comes from like feeling like someone
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of not knowing that it would lead to this beautiful,
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women how to understand and appreciate themselves and how to
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understand and appreciate men. And that's six years with that company.
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I had figured out and they worked, and so suddenly
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small seminar company leading these internets, and for me, I
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was traveling to, you know, spread the word, and I
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would be devastated about the twenty or thirty percent that
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didn't register, right, And then I'd go back to work
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a group mastermind call that I had enrolled in, the
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closing eighty percent of a room. Like I didn't know
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how extraordinary that was until I sort of leaked it
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out to other people. And then it just happened, and
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I became really an entrepreneurial Cinderella story. We hit the
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once I realized that there were so many organizations out
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master classes and also on stages and events, I really
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what I'll call leveraged selling, and the definition being when
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we're making our offer to more than one person at
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a time. You know, we teach high ticket one on
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one selling, and we teach you know, online launches, all
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the different formats. My sweet spot is that leveraged selling.
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of us who want to grow our businesses entrepreneurs, especially
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those of us who are the founder or principle of
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a business, and we will want to sort of expand
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what one person can do. We have to build a team,
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we have to build a company, but also moving from
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one on one sales to what a lot of people
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leverage saling you're talking about. Absolutely. Another thing that struck
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me was your early experience with Landmark, because I found
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a lot of really successful people at some point or
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another connected with something like Landmark. I led a training
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for twenty five years up until the pandemic. We haven't
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done it since, and we couldn't do it during the pandemic.
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of the Landmark form on steroids, the smaller groups. But
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that context, and the name of my book is Radical Responsibility,
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so that we learned to live a choice, and we
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learned to live to create our own destiny and manifest
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our own destiny. And it's really all about our own
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choices and how we respond to the circumstances of our life.
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And obviously that stud you well in the corporate world,
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but it also stood you well in terms of becoming
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a successful entrepreneur. I wonder if you could talk a
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little bit about that context out helped you succeed along
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your entrepreneurial journey and deal with all the challenge we
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were dealing with as an entrepreneur, as a small business owner,
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as a bounder, as a mother of two young children,
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because it's so easy to let life push us into
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one kind of victim mindset or another and get us
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back on our heels instead of being in that place
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of what can I do right? Living that realm of possibility.
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So I wonder if you could talk a little bit
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about maybe how what you got from the form and
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from your life in general inspired you to have the
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energy to really keep stay in that realm of possibility.
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Yeah. I appreciate the question, and it's not asked to
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me often, so I love the chance to share it here.
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Thank you. So at Landmark I really learned and this
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is really how they would verbalize it way back thirty
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years ago. Then it was to put my past in
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the past and create my future. And they have so
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many amazing tools. I mean, I really still to this
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day think that you know, for the minimal investment and
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three days of your life, that it is such a
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worthy way to spend those days to just transform your thinking.
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And I remember early on when I was, you know,
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doing this, and not a lot of other people I
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knew were, they'd say, well, you're getting brain washed, and
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I thought, well, I mean we wash our underwear, you know,
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like there's a lot goes through that brain, and I
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think it kind of needs to be washed every once
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in a while and get a clean look and a
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clean slate. And the distinction that they offer around that
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we have what really happened. You may remember the circles
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on the board, right, and then there's a story we
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make up about what happened, and that most of us
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are living in that story we made up and not
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really able to just see what happened. And that was
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a huge distinction to just be like, Okay, you know,
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this is what happened. It's not necessarily my story. And
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what story do I want to create? What's the headline
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I want to create for my life? And I think
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even to this day and I talk about this and in
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the Meant for More book, I look at the headline
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that I want in the future, and then I keep
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taking action consistent with having that headline, and that has
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worked out for me pretty well.
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I want to talk to you quite a bit more
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about sales and marketing, but first I'd like to explore
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your journey just a little more. So you started your
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own well, you worked with a company for a smaller
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seminar company for six years, and then that kind of
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evolved in your own work because you kind of developed
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a secret this. You realize your people couldn't imagine you
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were closing seventy percent of the people showing up for
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a seminar of some kind, and so you started evolving
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your own business. And at the same time, you're raising
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two young children. Your husband's in medical school, he's super busy,
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and so you're having to navigate all this and manage
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your time and manage your life. And you know, I
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think a lot of us as entrepreneurs at certain times
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feel overwhelmed and just don't know how to organize the
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whole thing. So what was your secret sauce in terms
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of being able to keep moving forward as an entrepreneur
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while also being a mom and supporting your husband in
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medical school and so forth.
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I think I didn't have a lot of family around
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me either. You know, my mom passed away, my dad
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was in Florida and you know, doing his own life,
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and so any help that I had with my kids
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was literally purchased, you know, was like trusting that there
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was this angel in my life that was going to
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be a good person and have the best intentions for
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me and my kids along the way. And so I
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would say, you know, number one, knowing really prioritizing my priorities,
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my values. So for example, I haven't really done laundry
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or washed a dish since I had my children, because
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it was a choice for me, you know, was I
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going to work and then spend time with them or
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was it going to work and do housework while I
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set them in front of the TV. And because things
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were blowing up for me quickly and I was coming
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into and I didn't grow up with that. I mean,
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I had a single mom who you know, struggled, and
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even giving that to myself and allowing myself to make
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those non conventional choices as a mother with something I
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feel like I continuously had to do and from the
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outside people might criticize and not understand, but I knew
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from the inside that I was making the best choices
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for what I wanted in regards to being close with
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my children, which I'm happy to say they're eighteen and
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twenty one now. They're both launched as of literally just
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months ago. So we are we call ourselves open nesters
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because this has not been an empty nest. All of
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our extra vedroom of bathrooms constantly have visitors and friends
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and entrepreneurial friends coming through San Diego. So we love
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our open nest, and you know, I would go back
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and also say to answer your question. The other thing
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that was a tool that I feel like I could
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share and you know, our listeners here could apply was batching.
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So if I would go to travel to speak or
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for my own events, I would do other things along
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the way. So instead of a three day trip, maybe
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it was a five day trip and I'd also speak
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here and I'd also see a VIP client. Then I'd
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be home for three weeks, you know, or four. So
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I feel like even with my work schedule, I'll batch
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certain kinds of activities. And in factay I would I
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looking at the list of the forty five speakers that
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are here, and I'm a longtime client of both Joe
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Polish with Genius Network for many years, I would go there.
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That was like one of the things I would batch in.
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So I was not only teaching, but I was also learning.
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And then also Dan Sullivan from a strategic coach, and
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I really learned how to batch my time in you know,
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specific ways through those mentors. I'll also say as far
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as batching, I was looking at you at the list here,
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do you know that over ten of the forty five
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speakers have been my VIP clients. So you're going to
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have a lot of reverberation of my teachings when they're
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talking about their irresistible offers. You know, everyone from Jack Canfield,
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JJ Virgin, John asserf Dave Asbury, Natalie Ladwell, you know
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they've all been here out to do VIP work on
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their irresistible offers, the speak to Cell talks, their three
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day events. So and I batch, you know, so I
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might have two three VIP clients in a row and
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really just get the help, put everybody, the kids, get
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them all settled, do that, and then I'm back. And
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then when i'm back, I'm fully back. So that's been
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some of the secrets. And one other thing I do
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want to say that I think I'm a little unique
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because I was not able to find mentorship on this
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when I was looking is that about five years ago
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while we were at you know, millions of dollars in sales,
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thirty percent profit margin, one hundred people plus in our
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big mastermind, like really the company that everybody wanted to
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be like I wound it down. I got the message
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from the upstairs team that I looked and I had
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accomplished the goals personally and financially that I had wanted
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for my entire lifetime, and I, you know, to take
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care of myself, my kids and even a partner of
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my choice if I wanted to at this particular lifestyle
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for the rest of my life. And my kids were
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entering high school and I knew that, you know, there
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was a like a three year window that I would
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really have them right here close. And it was ironic
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because it was ninety days before we went into quarantine,
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and I had put fourteen people on my team with
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all my friend friends companies, and really did a beautiful
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conscious wind down. And I did. I couldn't find anyone
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that what actually just did that, that knew there enough
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and did that that didn't say, Okay, you know, I'm
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a ten million now I want to go to one
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hundred million, which nothing wrong with that, but for my
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particular value set and what I was looking for, I
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kind of made a move that I didn't have a
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lot of. Usually I just find someone who's done it,
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and if it was successful. I hire them and I
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copy their model. So I think that's just another thing,
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and maybe it falls in batching because for five six
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years while I launched the kids, I just semi retired.
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I only saw VIP clients like yourself. And now I've
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put my toe back in the water. I'm certifying people
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on how to be nail your offer coaches, and I'm
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entering people in their offers in group coaching again, mostly
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because my boyfriend's got enough coaching and if I didn't
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get another project, you know, he was worried about how
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much went transferred from the kids to him. So anyway,
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that's a little bit about me and like past, present,
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future and how I run things go.
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It's amazing that you were able to do that, and
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I'm not surprised you couldn't find someone to mentor you
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or model you in that, because it's pretty rare. I
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think that people are willing to do that. But how
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wise on you to preserve that precious time you have
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with your two daughters during those years. And so glad
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you're back, very happy. Back. Kind of wonder where is
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the successful around lately?
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You know, used to rodden Yellen Rippy somewhere.
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So glad you're back. And also, you know, listening to
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your story in the earlier days of that that I
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don't know when his book came out, but you were
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early modeling Dan Martell's buy back your Time approach, right,
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you know, And that's when we really think about a
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lot of us feel you know, the kids is a
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special thing, but there's all kinds of things we do
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because well, you just should do that yourself. You should
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cut your own grass, so you should do this, you
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should do that. And if you really want to focus
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and be successful, we have to put our energy where
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our real talents are and where it's going to have
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the biggest impact, and be willing to bring others in
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to work with and accomplish all kinds of things in
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our business in our personal life to really leverage our time.
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And I think there's some great modeling in that. So
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let's just talk about sales and what sales conversion really means.
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And you know, they really get it, even into the
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energy of it, like what is it really you know,
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what's the process of sales conversion, the psychology of it,
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the energy of it. And as an entrepreneur, how can
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we really Grock that we can learn all kinds of techniques,
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and you know, we can get lots of books, and
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we get frameworks and models and tools, but how do
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we get into the essence of it and really understand it.
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I appreciate the question. You're a great interviewer, by the way.
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You know, Well, first off, just to look at it
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from a pure definition like a statistic, you know, sales conversion.
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When we track it in a company, it's telling us
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of this many people that we talked to or spoke
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in front of, or that we're at our event. You know,
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so this many eyeballs a lot of people call, how
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many became clients? Right, So if there were ten people
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in your audience and three became clients, you're a thirty
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percent sales conversion. So that's you know, before getting into
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the energetics. That's just like the flat out business statistic
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of it. And also from more of a business statistic side,
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if you have ten people in your audience and I
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can teach you how to have five of them say
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yes and become your client from the same amount of energy,
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you still did your ninety minute talk or your webinar, Right,
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wouldn't you say that is a worthwhile thing to focus
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on because now you're at fifty percent if those clients
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are paying ten thousand dollars a piece, right, you went
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from thirty thousand to fifty thousand with the same energy outlaid.
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The other piece that's so magical is that your client
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acquisition cost was the same. You know, the things that
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we do fleet you and I to attract clients are
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the most time consuming and the most expensive, right, the
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most cost consuming things in our business. It's all the
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social media we do. It's all these interviews that we're
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doing right now, right, It's all these things we do
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to serve and attract new clients. So I've always felt
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like I grew this up as a busy mommy where
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I needed the shortest line between two points, and so
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it was coming from that energetic Now we get back
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to the energetic side that you know. I think companies
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spend a lot of time and money thinking that what
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they most need to invest in is growing their list
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and new eyeballs right and butts in seats, like they
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want more people. And with social media especially now you
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know your status is based on how many people are
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following you. I want to see who you are and
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look at your page, and you know, it's funny. People
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actually can't tell who I am and what I've accomplished
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because I might have fifty thousand people on Facebook and
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ten thousand people on Instagram, and in today's standard, if
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you're not at millions, you're not anybody, right if we
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look at that. But I focus on sales conversion, so i'm,
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you know, one of the most profitable entrepreneurs that I've met,
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and I want to, you know, as long as it
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is mine to do. I want to serve that client
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and serve the people that I've already served. I want
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to see how they I can serve them more, either
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with my work if it's in my wheelhouse of my expertise,
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or by referring them to somebody who it is in
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the wheelhouse of what they need. And I monetize that too,
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right through affiliate relationships. So energetically, I'm a little bad.
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My advice is a little opposite of a lot of
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what you hear out there. For example, I think it's
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more important to start by focusing on your irresistible offer,
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because otherwise any eyeballs that you attract. You know, if
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we're not converting them. It's like it's costing us more
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to get them right. It's costing every We need, bigger teams,
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we need we're taking care of more people, but we're
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not converting at a high level, so it's not efficient.
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Once you've got your offers nailed down and they're converting,
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then sure, you know, ramp up those Facebook ads, run
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more webinars, all the things. And then in my new
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Nail your Offer Certified Coach program, we're just taking our
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first thirty coaches. They're about to get certified, and I'm
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about in April to launch the second cohort. It's really
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my legacy, that move is to have other people be
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able to take my workout and enjoy the fruits of
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my labor and their own. But I just taught up
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sALS yesterday. There's a piece that they are certified in
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and how to train people to craft high ticket upsells.
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And that's another one where this everything I just said
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is exponentially multiplied because now we're taking a client who
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already loves us, they've already paid us, there's no client
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acquisition costs, and upsals of course are even more profitable
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because generally we're going up with not just intimacy and access,
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but also in the ticket of the offer. So we
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can you know, start getting into those you know, ten
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twenty thirty, one hundred thousand dollars offers depending on your industry.
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So I really think sales conversion is not the thing
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to do after you've attracted the crowd. I think it's
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the thing to nail down first, and then maybe you
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don't need this big a crowd, you know, unless it's
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just about making a difference for more people, which is
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part of the mission too.
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I know, a lot of your work in terms of
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your own business has been based on what we might
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call high ticket offers coaching programs and BIB coaching relationships
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and so forth. And then a lot of what you've
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been training people to do is how to attract clients
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and create sales conversions around high ticket offers. So how
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does that work in terms of you know, sometimes we
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talk about a value ladder and moving people from leave
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magnets and very inexpensive probably up the value letder to
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a high ticket offer. And then we also, well, you
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know a lot of the people that are insted in
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a high ticket offer, they're not interested in that value letder.
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They don't want to mess with all that. They just
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you know, they want somebody to meet their needs. And
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when somebody communicates that they're going to meet their needs,
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they're ready to write the check and sign up. How
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do you access those folks? How do you find those
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decision makers or individuals that have the ability to do
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a high ticket offer? So what's the I guess what
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I'm pointing to here? Now, what's the relationship between sales
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as you excelled at it and taught it and marketing?
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So you're in relation to trying to attract that potential
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high ticket buyer. For example, I'm.
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Getting the right people in the room, getting the right bunnels.
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Right, there's a lot of great questions in that question.
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I'm trying to tease out which way to go. This
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is another place where I'm a little bit contrarian to
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what's out there and the advice that's mostly given. So
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a lot of times by the time people find us,
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we have to correct this. I am an advocate for
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having my clients and experts of any kind. Anyone selling
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intangibles is really my client base. Right. If you're selling
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your services your expertise, you're coaching. So if you're not
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shipping a box, you're probably my ideal client, and so
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I would prefer to see you start out as the
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premierre provider. I would prefer to show you the markers
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to hit and how to position and package yourself for
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your marketing so that you start out with high ticket sales.
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And what that does is a allows us to start
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out maybe not going to big group programs, but one
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on one, high ticket so that we get immediate cash flow,
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We get immediate testimonials from people who actually do the
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work because when they pay attention usually and so it
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starts us out going to market that Hey I'm Nordstrom,
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I'm Bloomingdale's right, versus I think the majority of advites
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that's given is like, let's create a lead magnet and
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then go to a trip wire and then something low
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ticket and you know, now what we're looking at is
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the person. If it's successful, they need a big team
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because they're serving lots of people. They're serving buyers on
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the low end of the commitment and investment spectrum who
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generally need more and do less work. I hate to
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say it, but this is just what I've seen over
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the years. My VIP high level clients like yourself, and
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you know, thirty percent of the speakers on this summit,
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they're the best clients ever. You know, I could give
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them unlimited access to me and they just fall with
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what they need and they wanted, and they're out and
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they do the work. I would rather the advice that's
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currently given across the board is, you know, start out
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as Walmart and then you'll show them that you're Nordstrom.
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I don't think it really works that way. You know,
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you start out at Target and you get known as Target,
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your target, right, So I would prefer to see someone
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start out high ticket. And I was literally years into
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my business before I came up with a low ticket
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offer because I had to for you know, a summit
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or stage I was on that required something under five
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hundred dollars. So I came up with something like it
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was like a little piece of my bigger system. But
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we were years out there. And when I say high ticket,
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by the way, just for definition, in our campus, it's
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over two thousand dollars. Offers. Anything over two thousand dollars
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we categorize as a high ticket because it requires a
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different sales structure for the most part.
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You made some really important points there. Because selling low
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ticket B two c is takes a big team. It's
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very expensive. The profit margins get very squeezed, right, and
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you started off that way. I'm thinking of all, you know,
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the entrepreneurs and solopreneurs and bootstrapping entrepreneurs out in our audience,
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and maybe even some of the aspiring entrepreneurs you know,
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and maybe thinking, well, I don't know if I have
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confidence to sell a product a two thousand, four thousand,
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five thousand, ten thousand, and if somebody did give me
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ten thousand dollars because I really deliver so that they
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wouldn't feel like they've been taken, right, I mean, how
642
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did you How did you find your way into the
643
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confidence that you could create that much value for people
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and be able to communicate that with confidence so they
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were willing to sign on with.
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You appreciate that, and that is the first place we
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start with people. In fact, before we finish our interview.
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You know, I have a gift for y'all to get
649
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started with this. So we have a program called Nail
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Your Offer, and this is the first place I start.
651
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It didn't matter whether it was like you know, Frank Kern,
652
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one of the original Internet marketers, or John aseraffor Brian
653
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Tracy not going to my door. We start. We started
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with all these clients with nail your Offer, even when
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they had, you know, developed businesses. And the way you
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get the confidence is when you have the clarity. This
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is what nail your Offer provides. And it's what I
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do whenever I create something new, and you see it
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in every one of my programs that I have done.
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This process is and by the way, it's based on
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a book that many of us already know and love.
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So I did not create this thought. Napoleon Hills the
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first place that I got this idea through Think and
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Grow Rich. And it's the part where he talks about
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it's not your quantity of knowledge that will bring you
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a great fortune, right, It's not the letters after your
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name or how much you know so you can keep
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adding those letters and keep getting degrees. It's not necessarily
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going to lead to a great fortune. He says. It's
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knowledge intelligently organized. So if we believe that, you know,
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if we buy that or we want to test that out,
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that it's not how much knowledge we have, it's how
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we organize our knowledge that will bring us a great fortune.
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That means that you listening and watching the right. Now.
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If you've got some expertise and you helped yourself with
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something that you want to help other people with, right,
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if you could organize that knowledge, I call it pick
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your own brain. Right, if you could pick your own
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brain and then put it into a system and help
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other people then walk the steps that you did in
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an organized fashion. This is where the confidence comes from
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because now you've got a system. You've picked your brain.
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So instead of everybody taken you to Starbucks so they
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could pick your brain about how you did XYZ, you
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do it. And then that is what becomes the content
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for your high ticket coaching or program. And you start
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to develop confidence because now you've named it. You end
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up naming this as a system. This is nail. Your
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offer walks you through all this. You clarified the steps
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people are going to take, and suddenly this magical thing happens.
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Fleet your intangible starts to feel tangible. Suddenly we have,
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for example, what you referenced from over ten years ago,
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this speak to sell formula. Right, and instead of hey Lisa,
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she's this girl that teaches one too many sales like
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I have this licensed trademark speak to sell a formula
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that's helped now over fifteen thousand people. It feels like
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I'm shipping a box, you know, And so I get confidence,
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and you get confidence that there's something there that I
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can invest in and I'm gonna get returns. And the
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other thing that happens is that when I go to
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coach it, I'm coaching in a system. So it's not
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just Fleet shows up for his coaching call and what
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do you goot coming up? And what can we patch
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together for you? And let's hope Lisa woke up on
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the right side of the bed. No, I'm going to say, Fleet,
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today we're going to work on seating. This is how
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you create hunger and desire in your audience throughout your
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talk without being pushy or nudgy or salesy. And you're like, great,
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I want to learn seating, right, And then the next
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day you show up and I say, today we're going
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to work on positioning. This is how like the first
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fifteen minutes of your talk will establish how well you
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close in the last fifteen minutes of your talk. So
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when you start to organize your knowledge, then you start
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to be able to speak about it with confidence, it
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becomes a clear, compelling and what we call an irresistible offer.
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And so that's how you take someone that you know,
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maybe like I've a woman who had figured out she's
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not a medical professor. Years ago, she came to me
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and she had figured out how to live disease free.
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We called it this is she has. She had MS,
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she had multiple sclerosis, and she lived symptom free for
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twenty three years at that time. Probably she's gone on
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for another decade. We haven't talked in a while. But
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when she systematized that and put it into a structure
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and named it, she was able to start taking clients
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in at five thousand dollars a pop, twelve at a time,
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lead them through ninety day program. You do that four
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times a year. You're at a quarter million dollar business
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with you know, one assistant and a call a week.
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So that's the magic of the Nail your Offer program.
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And before we finish, we'll offer you all a nail
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You're Offer blueprints so you can kind of see what
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your you know, how you're stacking against this and get
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started on the path. But that's the way, you know,
736
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and it's the way I've used in the way I'm
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a one trick pony I've continued to help people do
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for all these years.
739
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Where you described really the essence of the sort of
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the you know, the information or knowledge industry, online education
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and so forth. We take some transformation that we've been
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through and perhaps guided some others through, and then we
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figure out, okay, how do you structure that? What was
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the structure? What was what were all the elements that
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led to my own transformation? And it's how you package
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that into something where it's going to be replicable and
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it's going to guide other people to the same result.
748
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And that's actually brilliant, and I think especially for those
749
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of us who are you know, hopefully ideally, I think
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it's often the case that we're really trying to replicate
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our own transformational journey into an online knowledge product or
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some kind of program of service. And if we do that,
753
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you know, the confidence that we have and there worked
754
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for me, it's probably going to work for others, right,
755
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And then we still have to communicate, we still have
756
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to enroll people in it. So talk a little bit
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about this idea, the irresistible offer.
758
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Yeah, so there's two distinctions. I like to kind of
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get the languaging out. This is definitely my landmark background
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talking in distinctions, right, but it helps us kind of
761
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be on the same page and move quickly. So there's
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the offer, and then there's the irresistible offer, and I
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like to draw a distinction between the two. So the
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offer is really the part where we're talking about what
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is that outcome or transformation, Like you just mentioned, there's
766
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this transformation that we want in part to the world,
767
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and then there's how we deliver it. So maybe we
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do deliver it through a digital course or coaching program
769
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or one on one VIP engagement. So when you put
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together the transformation in the way it's delivered, we call
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this the offer. Okay, And by the way, this is
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all in that Irresistible Offer blueprint, because I know you
773
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might be getting like a handcramp trying to note this
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all down.
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So, uh, Lincoln's right down below, so everybody can have
776
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access to that.
777
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Yeah, I mean they can note all of these things,
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but I'm going to pull out the pieces that are
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most important here. So then there's the irresistible offer. The
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irresistible offers when we take the offer, So we take
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now we've clarified the transformation that we want to provide,
782
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we know how we're providing it, and when we want
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to make that offer irresistible, we add a few things
784
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to it. And it's really kind of depending on how
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you're selling. But the most common elements to that we
786
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add to an offer to turn it into an irresistible offer,
787
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and the place for y'all to start are called bonuses
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and limiters. And bonuses and limiters work in tangent with
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each other, and we add them to the offer. And
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I like to call the offer the main dish, just
791
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so I have language. Right, So we've got the main dish,
792
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which is the transformation plus how you provide it. Then
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we've got the bonuses and the limitters. So those are
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the three elements that make up an irresistible offer. Now
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there's lots to learn. We talked a lot about the
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main dish. The main dish includes your system. You've picked
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your brain, what's your formula for success?
798
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Right?
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It includes your way you're going to deliver that and
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hopefully that not just works for your client, but for
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your lifestyle. I care a lot about both parts. So
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then we get into bonuses and limiters. And I can
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if you likely, I can drop a couple thoughts, a
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couple tips on how to think about bonuses and limitters.
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Most of us are probably familiar with the idea of
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bonuses and in a bonus stack with an opera and
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so forth, but talk about limitters to begin with.
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Okay, I'll just say on bonuses that you want them
809
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to handle the biggest objections, right, So your bonuses should
810
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pre think why someone wouldn't buy and then make that
811
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a bonus, because that's kind of doing the job for you.
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And the other thing I'll say is I'm just a
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big advocate for having very few bonuses, not a big stack.
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Unless you're in something like a summit or a book
815
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launch like we are here, where lots of speakers are
816
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putting in bonuses, that's a little bit of an exception.
817
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But for the entrepreneur just selling their own product or service,
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I'm a fan of just a couple of bonuses one
819
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to three, and what I care most about is that
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they're tightly related to the offer. You want to ask yourself,
821
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does this handle an objection? And would this person pay
822
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the whole thing just to get the bonus? Probably all
823
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know that, but I thought i'd just throw that in there.
824
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A couple tips, No really important, thank you, thank you,
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Oh you're welcome. You just to some things we don't
826
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think about often but we may have heard before. And
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but the limitter prayer your question. You know, the limitter
828
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is really where people fall short because they're afraid at
829
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this point that if they have a limitter, and it's
830
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usually of quantity or time. Those are the two main
831
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limitters you want to play with. They're afraid if they
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say at this break only or only on this webinar
833
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with quantity, you know, the first six people or the
834
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first six hundred people people get, or right now on
835
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this call only you know there's a scholarship available if
836
00:41:48.360 --> 00:41:50.719
you decide on this call. That would be like in
837
00:41:50.719 --> 00:41:53.559
a strategy session model. People are afraid to get that
838
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out of their mouth because that is the very piece
839
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that gives us that Oh my god, I'm going to
840
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be that used car sales and I'm going to be
841
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pushy or salesy. It's right at that moment when we're
842
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going to use the limitter absltly.
843
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I mean the whole thing about urgency and scarcity and yeah,
844
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am I manipulating people? And then We've all seen a
845
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lot of marketing and we've felt you know, and part
846
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of the psychology, I mean the limitters, you know, one
847
00:42:18.400 --> 00:42:21.079
way I've often thought about it. I've seen some really
848
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successful selling from the stage, and I know it involves
849
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all these psychological principles and there may be some LA
850
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NLP involved, There may be a lot of things involved,
851
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And if they were selling snake oil, I might have
852
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some issues about it. Right if what we're marketing is
853
00:42:35.079 --> 00:42:37.599
something that's going to really add value to people's lives,
854
00:42:38.119 --> 00:42:41.440
but human psychology being what it is, they probably just
855
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won't step across that line into their next possibility if
856
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we don't create a pathway for them somehow. So I
857
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don't know if that resonates with you. And you may
858
00:42:50.440 --> 00:42:52.559
have a lot more to say about how to use limitters,
859
00:42:52.880 --> 00:42:56.199
how to use scarcity, how to use urgency without being salesy,
860
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without the high pressure.
861
00:42:57.840 --> 00:43:00.239
Well I will give just you know, one big and
862
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I'm going to take it right out of our speak
863
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to self formula. So we have the formula that Fleet
864
00:43:05.400 --> 00:43:08.000
learned that you can use on webinars or stages. And
865
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when you get to the part where you're making the offer,
866
00:43:10.920 --> 00:43:13.960
it's critical to use a limitter. And why is because
867
00:43:14.039 --> 00:43:16.199
if you don't use a limitter one on one from
868
00:43:16.199 --> 00:43:19.599
a stage, from a webinar, it doesn't create that urgency
869
00:43:19.639 --> 00:43:23.360
for someone to buy now. So that tension that is
870
00:43:23.480 --> 00:43:25.880
really what has to be there for someone to part
871
00:43:25.960 --> 00:43:28.599
with their hard earned time, money and energy. Right they're
872
00:43:28.639 --> 00:43:30.920
making a decision that I'm going to give you time,
873
00:43:30.960 --> 00:43:33.800
money and energy in order to invest in this. If
874
00:43:33.840 --> 00:43:36.400
you don't have a limitter, then the natural bent of
875
00:43:36.400 --> 00:43:38.199
the human being is to put it on a sticky
876
00:43:38.360 --> 00:43:41.159
check your website, put it off, ask some friends like
877
00:43:41.199 --> 00:43:43.320
do all the other things except get it right now.
878
00:43:43.599 --> 00:43:46.039
So yes, I agree with Fleet one thousand percent. If
879
00:43:46.079 --> 00:43:48.360
you believe in what you're doing, then you want to
880
00:43:48.360 --> 00:43:50.840
help people jump that broom. So I want to give you,
881
00:43:50.880 --> 00:43:53.480
guys something that you can use right away, straight from
882
00:43:53.480 --> 00:43:57.360
our speak to self formula. It's called Justify. Justify you'll
883
00:43:57.360 --> 00:43:59.360
see it if you have happened to have the formula,
884
00:43:59.440 --> 00:44:03.559
invest in it. So that moment where we're gonna say
885
00:44:03.760 --> 00:44:06.159
at this break only you get one thousand dollars off
886
00:44:06.360 --> 00:44:08.360
or the next six people get a one on one
887
00:44:08.400 --> 00:44:10.880
session with me in addition to the package. Right, or
888
00:44:10.920 --> 00:44:13.440
I only have time in my schedule for twelve strategy
889
00:44:13.480 --> 00:44:16.199
sessions next week. At that moment when you want to
890
00:44:16.199 --> 00:44:18.719
skip that because you're afraid if you'll push your sales EI,
891
00:44:18.719 --> 00:44:22.320
the reason is that you have not pre thought your
892
00:44:22.400 --> 00:44:26.760
authentic justification for why you're doing it. So if you
893
00:44:27.000 --> 00:44:30.599
don't tell people, then they have to make it up.
894
00:44:31.159 --> 00:44:33.320
And what are they going to make up is that
895
00:44:33.440 --> 00:44:36.320
you just want their money. And then that feels terrible
896
00:44:36.360 --> 00:44:38.159
to people like all of you and I and Fleet
897
00:44:38.199 --> 00:44:40.400
because we know that we're here for a bigger purpose.
898
00:44:40.480 --> 00:44:42.880
But you know, can't help it when you're making the offer.
899
00:44:43.039 --> 00:44:45.559
You're the sales guy, even if you're a girl. So
900
00:44:45.760 --> 00:44:51.079
if you prethink the authentic justification of why you're doing
901
00:44:51.079 --> 00:44:54.079
the limitter and you share it, it will help you
902
00:44:55.000 --> 00:44:57.159
get it out of your mouth. And so a couple
903
00:44:57.239 --> 00:45:00.880
quick examples would be, look, I know there's six more
904
00:45:00.920 --> 00:45:05.360
speakers after me in this summit, right so I and
905
00:45:05.519 --> 00:45:08.239
as amazing as what you learned is, so is the
906
00:45:08.280 --> 00:45:10.519
next person going to be amazing? And I want to
907
00:45:10.559 --> 00:45:12.960
make sure this is in your inbox. So for the
908
00:45:13.000 --> 00:45:16.159
next X minutes, you know, if I was making an offer,
909
00:45:16.480 --> 00:45:18.679
you know I'm gonna bribe you. I'm gonna give you
910
00:45:18.719 --> 00:45:20.599
one thousand dollars off. So you if you even know
911
00:45:20.719 --> 00:45:23.960
this is partly for you, use this coupon code, go
912
00:45:24.079 --> 00:45:26.360
right now, and if you do that before I stop talking,
913
00:45:26.440 --> 00:45:29.119
you'll get one thousand dollars off. But you tell them
914
00:45:29.119 --> 00:45:32.480
why or on a strategy session. You know. Look, if
915
00:45:32.519 --> 00:45:34.519
you're ready to go right now fleet and you want
916
00:45:34.519 --> 00:45:37.760
to do some VIP work together, I have a scholarship.
917
00:45:37.800 --> 00:45:39.840
We call it a fast action scholarship. It's only for
918
00:45:39.880 --> 00:45:42.679
people who are ready to take fast action. Basically, what
919
00:45:42.719 --> 00:45:45.519
I'm doing is I'm passing on the savings to you.
920
00:45:46.199 --> 00:45:49.039
Like it's twenty five hundred dollars fast action scholarship. It
921
00:45:49.079 --> 00:45:52.239
means that the next time we're talking, we're coaching. It's
922
00:45:52.280 --> 00:45:55.000
not another call to talk about if we should work together.
923
00:45:55.440 --> 00:45:57.039
So if you're right there and you know this is
924
00:45:57.079 --> 00:45:59.880
gonna happen, let me pass the savings onto you. Let's
925
00:45:59.880 --> 00:46:01.800
go schedule our first coach and Colin, let's do this
926
00:46:01.840 --> 00:46:06.000
thing right. So I'm telling you the truth now. The
927
00:46:06.039 --> 00:46:09.119
thing that will ruin you is if you use inauthentic
928
00:46:09.199 --> 00:46:13.000
limiters like I only have six copies of my ebook, like,
929
00:46:13.119 --> 00:46:16.599
don't do that. You know, you know people are smart.
930
00:46:17.079 --> 00:46:19.639
So if it's authentic and you can express it, then
931
00:46:19.719 --> 00:46:22.440
it keeps the tension. It actually raises the tension, the
932
00:46:22.599 --> 00:46:26.719
internal tension. You're not being pushy, you're just what Landmark
933
00:46:26.800 --> 00:46:30.559
calls committed but not attached, Right. I got that one
934
00:46:30.599 --> 00:46:33.719
from them. You're committed that they make a decision, you're
935
00:46:33.760 --> 00:46:37.039
not attached to what the decision is, right, But you're
936
00:46:37.079 --> 00:46:40.159
making it very irresistible that if they think they're going
937
00:46:40.239 --> 00:46:42.360
to do it tomorrow, why not do it today?
938
00:46:43.119 --> 00:46:46.400
So I think this is something that many entrepreneurs and
939
00:46:46.519 --> 00:46:50.920
many people developing very sales approaches, marketing funnels and so forth.
940
00:46:51.280 --> 00:46:54.880
Forget why should the customer buy now? What's their reason
941
00:46:54.920 --> 00:46:57.400
for buying now? If we don't give people a reason
942
00:46:57.440 --> 00:46:59.679
to buy now, if they're going to wait, and then
943
00:47:00.079 --> 00:47:03.840
you got five million other people wanting to market something before,
944
00:47:03.880 --> 00:47:05.840
they're going to circle back to you, right if they
945
00:47:05.840 --> 00:47:10.320
ever do right, Yeah, absolutely, I think and being able
946
00:47:10.360 --> 00:47:14.519
to authentically justify it quite wonderful. Yeah. You know, there's
947
00:47:14.519 --> 00:47:17.239
a lot of people like yourself to teach marketing, teach sales,
948
00:47:17.280 --> 00:47:21.039
and teach entrepreneurship. And they're basically teaching the other entrepreneurs
949
00:47:21.039 --> 00:47:23.800
and other marketing and other salespeople and the other people
950
00:47:23.920 --> 00:47:26.599
using these sectings to sell other types of services, like
951
00:47:26.639 --> 00:47:30.119
the client you mentioned who was helping other people live
952
00:47:30.400 --> 00:47:33.679
illness free right because she had managed her own symptoms
953
00:47:33.719 --> 00:47:37.039
and become symptoms free. But one thing I've enjoyed with
954
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many teachers of marketing is they're teaching marketing while they're
955
00:47:41.719 --> 00:47:44.360
marketing to me and explaining how they're marketing to me
956
00:47:44.760 --> 00:47:46.679
and selling me at the same time. And I know
957
00:47:46.760 --> 00:47:49.360
what's going on, and I'm still buying in.
958
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That's what's amazing. You might remember. I don't know if
959
00:47:52.159 --> 00:47:54.519
you ever came to our live events, but a couple
960
00:47:54.559 --> 00:47:56.639
of your speakers, like Jim Quickie's to speak at our
961
00:47:56.679 --> 00:47:58.599
live events might cadache so a lot. You know, there's
962
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a lot of love in this whole sum here for me.
963
00:48:01.199 --> 00:48:03.199
Great group of people, an amazing group of people.
964
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It's amazing who you've attracted. It says so much about you. Really,
965
00:48:07.119 --> 00:48:09.000
if we look at the star stud lineup and that
966
00:48:09.039 --> 00:48:11.119
everybody here gets to learn from, I mean that what
967
00:48:11.239 --> 00:48:13.239
you all are getting part of. Let me tell you
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if I had what fleet's offering. You know, fifteen years ago,
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I could have shaved years, you know, off of my
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own journey. So I mean, if you can get your
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hands on this at any kind of higher level, I
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don't really know what the offers are, but I'm just
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telling you I know the lineup. I'd be trained a
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lot of these people or they're my mentors, Like this
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is the cream of the crop lineup here. I just
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want to say.
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The thing about selling without feeling sales You've been You've
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been touching this in many ways. You talked about the
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distinction between tension and pressure, and I know you talked
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about it even like if you're doing a webinar or
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you're on the idea of seating and so you're building
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that hunger. You know, what's the person hunger? Their hunger
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for their own possibility, right, You're creating that sense of
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possibility for them. So what are some of the other
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ways that we can really do that? And I guess
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there's two levels about the sales e thing. I mean, one,
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we don't want to come across as sales e, right
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because that's probably not going to be that effective. It's
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going to turn people off. But we also all have
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this antipathy to feeling that way ourselves. We don't want
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to feel that way ourselves, right, and so, and I
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think that holds a lot of us back from becoming
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effective salespeople affective marketers, because you know, if we're in business,
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I mean, I like what Russell Brunson says, I mean,
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if you're not selling, you're not in business. Business is
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selling and selling and selling, and you have to master
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the art of selling. So I wanted to you could
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say a little bit more about how we can really
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step into that and step into our game and get
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beyond this fear around being sales e because in some ways,
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if we're full of fear about being sales y, we're
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more likely to come across as sales e in some ways.
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Yeah, you manifest the thing you're freedom, right, it's right
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there in front of you. So you were talking about
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how you have people who teach sales and then we're
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marketing and they're actually marketing to you Wilder selling you
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their course on marketing or you know, for me, I
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like to model seating. I've done it one hundred times
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during this interview because I want to show you what
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I'm talking about and show you what it feels like,
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and hopefully you haven't wanted to run from the room
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with your hair on fire because you're getting so much value.
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And that's really what there is for you to learn.
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And here's the good news. We have to package ourselves
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as sales trainers because that's the result. Right, Like, so
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I get I'm on the sales and marketing day, but
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you know, I think I'm really a sales training company
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smuggling personal development. It's no accident that you know our book,
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our published book. I have a lot of books we've published.
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Our sales came out through Hayhouse, right, because I'm like
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that straddle individual, right, I've grown up in the land
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of possibility. And so the thing you shared about how
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people that teach sales and marketing are actually doing it
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while they're teaching it. That's the thing that I want
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y'all to get is that you don't actually need sales training.
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It's structure, you know. It's really when I tell you,
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what we honestly do is we give you structures to
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plug get into so that you can hit the markers.
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In our campus, it's five different we only have five courses.
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There's nail your offer, and then the four different ways
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to lead to it. It's from stage was speak to sell.
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High ticket selling is one on one event, profit secrets
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is three day events. And webinar launch system is you know,
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for your online launch. And that's all we got, guys.
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If you're selling it intangible, it's one on one, it's
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one to many, it's from an event, or it's online.
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And that's my whole product line. Like that, that's it,
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and we call it the Love your Life sales Machine.
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And you know, when people go through all that, they're
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ready with the structure. That's the point. I want to
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make the structure for any of those situations. And I
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remember after years of selling, I mean I sold millions
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of dollars probably for Pfizer, for Hewlett Packard. I worked
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for big companies, you know, and I just I remember
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when I got to do to go to offer my
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own thing like so many of you were doing. It
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was a whole different thing. I had sweat rings down
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to hear. The first time I spoke, I was wearing
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a silk blouse and I'll never forget, like there was
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no hiding. My hands were visibly shaking. And I had
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sold millions for other companies, and I know many of
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you have experienced to this, who who are doing your
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own thing? What will give you the confidence that Fleet
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talked about and what will give you the ability to
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sell in all these different you know, four formats that
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make up ninety percent of where you'll be asked to
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make your offer. Where you'll want to is the structure.
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And I think it was Landmark. I'm not sure where
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I got it. Structure gives you freedom, I learned early on.
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And it's a little bit counterintuitive because, right we take
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off our pantyhose and our neckties and we say, oh,
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I'm doing my own business. But if we don't consciously
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put in structure, it's a mess, right, we never get anywhere.
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So structure for doing your one on one sales, calls,
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structure for how to nail your offer, structure for bonuses
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and limitters, structure for picking your brain and putting it
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into an organized formula. Structure for speak to sell. The
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course that you know you originally met me from is
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really the name of the game. So if I really say,
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what we do is we give you the structures to
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you just pour your work into. And that's what gives
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you the confidence to get out there. That's what gives
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you the ability to sell high ticket right from the
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get go. And I kind of say, you know, when
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you have the structure, you don't need to sell, you don't.
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You let the structure do the selling, and you what
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I like to call invite pursuit. You don't have to
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pursue business. You can invite pursuit when you hit the
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markers that people need in order to make a decision.
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Absolutely beautiful. And I think structure is everything. And when
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you tune into that, and there are you know, there
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are different structures and different approaches that people teach, but
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once you've tuned into that, and then you're listening to
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people who are successfully selling webinars on a stage, you
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immediately pick up on their structure, right. Once you become
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a student of this, right, and then you know you
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can refine your bear structures because you see the way
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this person. I mean, there's some standard thing that almost
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everybody does kind of universally, but people tweak it a
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little bit of this way. But it's all about structure.
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And when you see, you know, really successful communicators are
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their mind is very organized and their structure their communication
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is really well organized. I mean, that's what makes them
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a great communicator. I've been teaching people to teach meditation
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and the guy of Meditation for the last fifty years,
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and I really I work with scripts and templates and
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structures with them, and they really resist it. And I said, no,
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you got to work with a structure. Get this in
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your bones, and then you'll develop your own style, your
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way of doing it. But you'll have a structure in
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your bones. Because when you listen to people do it,
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we have not gotten that structure in their bones. They're
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all over the place and they're just saying whatever comes
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into their mind that you know, some of it may
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be okay, but it's hard to follow it. It doesn't really
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move people or connect people to the practice. And you
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can always tell when a meditation teacher is really well
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trained because the way they're presenting the practice is really
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well organized in terms of what information does a person
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need now? And then what do they need, and what
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do they need and what do they need? Right? So
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I think structure is everything. And as salespeople in business,
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we're communicators, right, we need to learn to communicate and
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really effective ways, and so I think that's his goal
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what you shared with us, and I really encourage our
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ideas to check out your structures and you're teaching around structures.
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So this has been really illuminating and joyful for me
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because it's come full circle for me to finally connect
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with you personally after all these years. Where can people
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connect with you online? And you mentioned you have a
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free gift that offered that people could learn more and
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then possibly learn more about your work and so forth,
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So where do they go?
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Well, thanks for asking, you know, I do want to
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say that to your point, what happens is we will teach.
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I remember when Brian Tracy put me on the main
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stage for National Speakers Association years ago. It was such
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an honor. I mean wow, I was like a breakdancer
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teaching the Jeoffrey ballet. I was not a trained speaker.
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And the thing that he always talks about is that like,
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while I'm teaching speak to sell, I'm speak to selling.
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So I'm teaching the structure. They can see it, they
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know it, and they still get up and run to
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the back of the room and buy. That's the thing
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because it's respect, it's giving them what they need to
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make a decision. It's the high, in my opinion, the
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highest level of services to study those structures that give
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people what they need for their transformation. So to get started,
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you can go to lisasasavich dot com forward slash fleet,
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00:56:16.719 --> 00:56:19.039
so you'll put in fleet's name f L e e T.
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00:56:19.280 --> 00:56:23.519
Lisasasovich dot com forward slash fleet. And the best thing
1142
00:56:23.559 --> 00:56:25.960
I can possibly offer you is really it's like an
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00:56:26.000 --> 00:56:28.559
audit of your own irresistible offers. We call it the
1144
00:56:28.599 --> 00:56:31.760
Irresistible Offer Blueprint. You'll see the things we talked about,
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00:56:31.800 --> 00:56:34.000
you'll see some things we didn't have time to talk about.
1146
00:56:34.559 --> 00:56:36.239
And if you want to take it beyond that, you
1147
00:56:36.280 --> 00:56:39.079
want to just go to lisasasabag dot com. You'll see
1148
00:56:39.119 --> 00:56:41.239
across the top some of the new things I'm doing.
1149
00:56:41.320 --> 00:56:44.280
We're certifying people. So if you want to help other
1150
00:56:44.320 --> 00:56:46.840
companies to nail your offer, you could be a nail
1151
00:56:46.840 --> 00:56:50.199
your offer certified coach. And I've recently started at twice
1152
00:56:50.199 --> 00:56:53.159
a month mentorship where you can come on twice a month,
1153
00:56:53.239 --> 00:56:55.639
bring your calendar, look at what offers you have coming up,
1154
00:56:55.920 --> 00:56:58.599
and get my coaching. And I think that's under mentorship
1155
00:56:58.639 --> 00:57:01.280
across the top line, kind of shop around, see what
1156
00:57:01.280 --> 00:57:03.320
we've got going these days. And of course all the
1157
00:57:03.360 --> 00:57:06.199
programs that I mentioned here, they're all listed under digital
1158
00:57:06.199 --> 00:57:08.639
programs and they're there to help you. If you have
1159
00:57:08.679 --> 00:57:10.880
a talk a launch coming up, you want to create
1160
00:57:10.920 --> 00:57:13.519
a high ticket program, it's all tested. You are not
1161
00:57:13.599 --> 00:57:17.079
my test rats. Fifteen thousand clients and fifty million dollars
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00:57:17.079 --> 00:57:19.480
in sales prior to you, so you can count on
1163
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some really great structures.
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Well. I encourage people to take action right now, don't wait.
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Their link right down for the pre offeras right below
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this video. So take action now and make sure you
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follow through because this is gold. And thank you so much, Lisa.
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My pleasure, Thanks for having me.
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Oh it's a pleasure. Thank you so much. Thank you
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for joining me on the Radical Responsibility Podcast. Remember, real
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change happens when we commit to our growth, face our
1172
00:57:43.519 --> 00:57:46.920
challenges with compassion, and stay open to transformation. If you
1173
00:57:47.000 --> 00:57:50.239
found this episode helpful, I encourage you to subscribe and
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00:57:50.320 --> 00:57:53.519
help us spread the message of healing and personal empowerment.
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Stay grounded, stay present, and stay true to you. Take
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care almost