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Hello, hello, and welcome back everybody to Compounding Daily.
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I'm your host, miguel Sanchez, and welcome back to another episode.
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We are reaching three digits and this is episode 99.
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And things are getting a little exciting as we move forward into the third year of this podcast being a thing, a reality for me.
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And, with that being said, I have two wonderful friends, both whom you've met before if you've been listening to the show for a while, and we're going to do a compounding daily roulette episode today.
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If you don't know what that is, it's very simple.
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I, over the last two, three years, have been doing morning messages.
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I, over the last two, three years, have been doing morning messages and I always write down the topics.
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I always write down on my phone, like if it's like a quick note, you know, in regards to a quote, I read something that inspired me and now I've sent that list to Chris.
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So Chris has that list in his hands and he's going to pick at random and he's going to pass that around and trade the trainers here with me.
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You know, because I didn't properly introduce you guys, right, chris?
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I can't believe we haven't done a solo episode before.
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You know we're going to add that to the schedule.
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Both men sitting next to me right now are people who I consider quality friends, who have pushed me and who I've shared personal conversations with that have helped me, as an individual, grow.
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So I'm very excited to get your guys' perspective in some of the things I've written here.
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And the goal remains always the same for you, the listener, to gain some value.
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We're not here to have you compare yourself to us.
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We're here to show you how regular people can do extraordinary things when we fully live the values which I believe we're going to be speaking about today.
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And, with that being said, let me cover the Monday morning spiel.
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Right, it's Monday, yes, that's when I released the episodes, and I release them at five in the morning because if you're up at five in the morning on a Monday, you're probably thinking to yourself I'm tired, I'm exhausted, it's cold, because it's really cold.
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Now, you know, and you probably don't want to go through the motions, you don't want to get to work.
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You're entertaining thoughts of things you wish were there, but they aren't, so now you're feeling sad about it, and I'm here to tell you, not to just get over it, but that you are in the driver's seat and you get to decide where that conversation is going to go, because you can see the bad and you can be entertaining.
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Maybe this is an expensive Christmas for you and you don't know where you're going to get the money from.
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So you're stressing out about the holidays, etc.
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Etc.
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And I'm here to tell you that it's going to be fine, it's going to be okay, it's Monday, and if there's only one thing that you want to focus on, is the things that you can control.
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So your attitude, the conversations you have with yourself, the conversations you have with your friends, the way that you present yourself to the world, has direct correlation into how the world is going to react to you, and that's all within your control.
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And if you work on that long enough, eventually Monday is going to be a good day.
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Boom, let's get right into it.
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Yeah, that was good, yeah, that was so fun.
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I top that.
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It's like I've been doing this for a while.
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Yeah, but that was good, dude, thank you.
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Trey, you want to go first?
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Oh, it doesn't matter, I got you.
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Yo, I'm excited.
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I'm really excited to have you guys here.
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Oh, this is going right off the top man must go.
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That's a really good question.
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Okay, like that, I'll read it again yeah, for new things to come, old things must go.
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Um, uh, you want me to?
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start that one, then we'll go around.
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Yeah, um, I, I.
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I feel like one of the most difficult challenges in my seven years of growing into the person I am now was understanding that I couldn't have the best of both worlds.
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Like I had to understand that there were parts of me and I use this word very specifically that I that I had to kill.
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Right, there was parts of me that, no matter how many times I try to justify it, like you know, I could just go back to this habit that I had before.
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It wasn't realistic.
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Every time I I entertained that idea, it was like I was regressing back from the progress I've made.
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So I had to accept that in order to keep moving forward.
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Who I was.
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I'll give you a real example real quick.
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told juliana just last night wouldn't it be nice to just go to work, get out of work, come home, shower, sweats, socks, nice hoodie, tv's on, let's order some food.
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And that's my life, you know.
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But over a long period of time, that is the life I lived, and I was overweight, I was depressed, I was unhappy, I was lacking purpose.
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The people surrounding me were doing the same exact thing.
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So it's like yo, you getting on the xbox.
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Yeah, we're getting on the xbox every single day and that's okay if you're genuinely happy there and that's where you want to remain.
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But for me that wasn't the case, so as much as I want to go back to that, I know that it won't serve me.
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Moving forward, you know, that's really good, I think, uh, for the trainer guy here, I guess I'll talk from a physical aspect.
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Um, let's say, if you're trying to change your health physically or change your life physically, you can't continue to do the same things.
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You're doing as far as your bad habits, as far as your nutrition, your activity level, and you got to, you know eat a better diet.
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You know what I mean.
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You got to have a better routine as far as your output you're putting out there.
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You got to.
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You know, work out, go on walks, be more active, but you can't, you know, eat healthier and still eat the same candy bar every day.
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You know, what I mean, then you're just going back to those old habits you were at before that puts you in the situation you're at.
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You know what I?
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mean, If it's just like working out, you can't just.
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You know, I'm going to hit it hard three days in a row.
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Okay, I think today's a good day for McDonald's.
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You're going back to your old habits?
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Yeah, and that's how I started my, so I could have something like that.
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Training for it with a purpose, not training to eat like garbage exactly.
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You know what do you know my?
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initial thought when you said that was like by removing things you have to, you're making time for other things yeah you won't make time for what you already know.
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You never make time for something new yeah which is just what you said like big time to be more healthy, conscious.
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You know you had time play xbox for three hours.
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Okay, take an hour out.
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Yeah, exactly, you know both of you guys exactlybox for three hours okay, take an hour out.
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Yeah, exactly, exactly.
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So, making time, that's what I've initially thought about.
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Okay, yeah, see, and then there is no wrong answer.
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Yeah, yeah, you know that because it could be perceived in so many different ways.
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Yeah, I think a question like that goes in so many different directions yeah, come at your health, the people you surround yourself, with everything the thing you're doing on a daily basis, work all of it dude.
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You could directly correlate that to friends yeah, literally for sure like you gotta understand that some people uh, this is the big rudy episode.
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That was one of the most popular episodes yeah, yeah we're disagreeing with that because I believe some people are temporary in your life they come, they teach you a lesson, or they're just there for a chapter and then the chapter closes.
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Then you move on, and sometimes that is because you stepped into their chapter yeah, and you mingled in that chapter and but the whole time you were getting better.
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And now that chapter has closed and they've chosen to remain there, you know I mean so now, so once in a while you can go back and, hey, what's going on?
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But you it's hard to relate because you've continued moving forward yeah you know.
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So sometimes you got to let past friendships go for the sake of new friendships.
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That you're trying to make making time for the right people absolutely for sure activities.
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Even so, you can dig deeper into what you just said.
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Would you fully remove yourself from those that were doing things you were doing in your past, or would you just keep them at arm's length?
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You know what I mean?
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uh, because, do you fully remove people?
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like that out or things you were doing in your past, or would you just keep them at arm's length?
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You know what I mean.
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Uh, do you fully remove people like that out or do you, like you know, I'll keep you here?
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It depends on the extreme.
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Yeah right, yeah for sure for sure, so like I don't hang out.
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It's not that I got rid of my old friends, right, uh, some, some of them you meet at the wedding they're gonna be there and I haven't spoken or seen them in years, right, but we've stayed in touch and it's not that they're bad people or anything, it's just like we've.
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You
know, one of them has twin daughters now and, I believe, a son, you know.
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So life has happened, yeah, and we've grown apart.
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And they're not gym rats, you know.
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They're not into reading the personal development books, they're not into nutrition they're just not into those sort of things.
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So whenever I come around them.
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It's like I gotta rewind myself back to 2015, 16 and have those conversations again, like also when you, games are out and oh, have you done anything interesting?
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You know, it's almost like uh, like those small conversations.
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You don't want to have too much, you don't, but I'm mindful about that yeah, for sure, for sure that's really good.
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Let's pick another one.
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That was good.
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Yeah, that was eight minutes, Damn we're sorry, dude, that was a good question that was a really broad question.
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like we said, let's see here, I saw one I liked a lot, one second sometimes I try to think of like intermediate conversations while the person finds another quote, you know so there's no silence.
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Yeah, well, I can't find it.
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So who's breathing so hard on the?
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Is it?
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Yeah, it is.
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You Just set it down.
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My first 10 episodes was me.
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Make a film on me.
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Alright, this is interesting.
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I wonder what he meant by this.
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If you remember, initiative equals confidence.
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I'm sorry, may I see it?
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It's a small one.
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If you remember, initiative equals confidence, I'm sorry, initiative equals confidence.
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May I see it, if you don't mind, of course Is a small one Initiative.
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Initiative equals confidence.
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Oh, I know exactly what that means.
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So, uh, myself included in the beginning of my journey, I would say must be nice to be confident, you know, it must be nice to walk into a room and feel good about yourself.
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You know to walk into a room and feel good about yourself.
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It must be nice for the boss to say, hey, who thinks they can take on this task?
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And I'm the first one to raise my hand.
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Like I'll do it.
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You know what I mean.
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And I used to think confidence was something you were born with.
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I used to think confidence was something you were lucky to receive, or you must be taught by somebody who already has it.
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But, if you start from a position of insecure about yourself, when you see a confident person, you almost feel uh gross by it.
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That's how I felt, right when you're, when you're not confident yeah, like when I was fat miguel and I and I'm at the gym wearing the hoodie hiding my rose yeah yeah, and I see that dude walking in with the slick hair and the jacked body, I'm just like motherfucker dude Must be nice.
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You know what I mean.
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You think that was an intimidation thing.
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It was insecure on my part.
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It was a big part of me comparing themselves right.
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So, then I started reading the books, and every book always says confidence is something you work on, and the only way that you're going to get confidence is by admitting to yourself, first and foremost, that what you a lack of confidence means a lack of knowledge.
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So the better you understand something, the more the confidence is right.
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So I, right now, I'll start popping questions to you guys about plumbing, and you would.
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Your confidence isn't there.
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You know what I mean.
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But I'm confident in that because I've been doing it, you know for sure, once I once that switched in my mind I was like, oh my god, it's not that I'm not confident, it's not.
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I don't know what the fuck I'm doing yeah, it's a skill, that it's just a skill exactly so I was like so I just got to learn.
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So instead of being in the gym doing full body, let's split the muscles and now I was doing arm days, chest days, back days.
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Am I a professional?
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No, but I was walking into the gym more confident because, I knew today's a chest day and I know that that machine there does my pecs, which is what I'm trying to hit, as opposed to before.
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I look like, you know, just lost like y'all.
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Oh man, are they looking at me?
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Are they judging me?
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Do I look dumb?
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you know.
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So is it the right thing to do?
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You?
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Should I do it like this?
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Should I do this than this?
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Exactly so that initiative of learning led to me being more so much more confident about myself.
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You worded that so well.
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Like you hit that right on the money.
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That's what I meant by that.
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That's very small but, it gets to the point Because you got to do it right, like you got to experience it.
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You know like it's ironic because you fear something, so you don't do it, and because you don't do it, you continue to fear it.
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But if you fear something and you still do it, even if it's a failure, after it you did it, so you learned right.
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It's like if you're trying to learn how to swim and you jump in the pool and you don't know how to swim that first time.
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But you don't drown, right, you're still alive.
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But now that fear is a little bit less right.
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And then you continue to jump in the pool and before you know it you're a little bit further into the deep end.
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Confidence is building right.
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Initiative of getting over the fear is now building confidence.
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You do that.
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For a year you're gonna be swimming laps and before you know it you're doing butterflies and you're just like I'm confident in swimming.
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Why?
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Because I initiated the action required to get comfortable into it.
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Right, you know.
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That's something I always related to.
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I really like that Well in the gym.
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So when I first started going like when I was 18, whatever getting like serious into it the initiative started doing it and when I started succeeding at things I was trying to do like a bench PR, whatever it may be, that niche shift carried on into my work life especially and I felt confident.
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Like well, I knew I could push myself to do this and I did great.
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Now I can do it over here.
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And I didn't think about it, it just kind of happened naturally.
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Best part, it happened.
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Naturally, you're carrying over good things.
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Yeah, you started collecting the victories.
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Right exactly.
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You know it sounds egotistic, but but at this part of my life, because I've done the years of consistent self-discipline, it's like oh, you can do this.
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Last year the kid and he was younger, so I call him a kid the kid who was running the heat mains and running all the heat work at the job I was at was sent to because of some drama that happened.
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He was sent to another job and the foreman was stressing out oh man, the heat, do the heat, and I'm just like I can do it, bro.
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I was like I don't know what the fuck, I'm gonna you know, I mean I was stressing out, but I know I'm competent, right yeah I've proven to myself time and time again that if put in a difficult situation, I can piece things together that will move me forward.
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That's what happens a lot, you know, when they say like I'm gonna fake it, so I make it.
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But really what I'm saying is I don't know yet, but I'm gonna figure it out, yeah it happens to me all the time and it's a great feeling knowing that I'm confident.
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What I can do, they don't know exactly.
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I'm gonna figure it out exactly, you know yep, and every time you do that confidence it builds a little bit builds a little victory and uh, you know, and before you know, you become the kind.
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I worked with this guy once he he told me I'm just like I was the foreman running the job at the time and he, they gave him to me and he was older, so I'm still respecting him.
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He was like in his 50s, so I'm respecting him.
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I'm like all right, sir, well, this is what we're doing.
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Do you feel comfortable doing that?
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And he's like listen, man, you could throw me in a hole with a shovel and I'll build a stair and get out of there.
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And I'm just like all right damn, you know and anything I gave him if he had questions, he asked.
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If he didn't ask questions, I assumed he knew and he knew, and I didn't have to worry about him too much, you know.
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So that's a man that over time has proved to himself that, no matter what, he's going gonna figure it out, cuz now he's like you throw me in a hole and I'll be okay, I'll figure it out, and it's like good attitude mm-hmm essentially correlate that.
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Even so, like you, now have confidence in him mm-hmm and it shows the other side of it, right?
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Yeah, his confidence himself, like I'll figure it out, yeah, made you like I don't think work with this guy yeah, that's great which even like in a friendship level.
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I'm gonna worry about trading that show.
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He's always gonna show up.
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Or I call my girl.
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I know he's gonna be there but maybe you know, yep, you build that trust and if you want a really good example of confidence, just go listen to like episode two or three okay, and you'll hear the difference in my in my tone repetition you hear, like before every episode.
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I'm like yo butterflies, but literally I just had to make
sure everything was in order lights, camera.
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We're good, action, we're rolling and it's confidence.
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Not because I think I'm the shit now, but this is episode 99.
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Like, that's 99 weeks, if you think about it of consistently and the morning messages.
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Even with my appendix removed, I was on the couch.
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Good morning everybody.
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You know what I mean and those are little boosts, so yeah, that was a good one.
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I really liked that one that was great.
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You want to pick one out.
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Sure, I've never picked one out before.
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I'm going to scroll really random.
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I'm going to be like and just tap on it and just land on one.
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There you let's see, let's see, let's see what I get.
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Uh, boom, let's see what we get.
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This is the first one that caught my eye.
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It's bigger than you.
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How big is your ripple?
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Um, do you know what a ripple is?
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like a effect.
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Yeah, like an effect, right.
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So this one is is switching the personal development from self-development to how you as an individual are affecting others.
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You get what I mean.
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So it's bigger than you.
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How are you affecting others?
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Right, because the goal with this show, for example, is, as you listen, I'm not asking you to advertise compounding daily.
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I don't need you guys to like you know, here's my merch Make sure people are listening.
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And the goal is very simple People listen, they gain value.
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Right, I might not hear what they're doing because of this value, but they're doing it right.
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So now they make good decisions, they become better individuals.
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And now their friends are like why are you reading books all of a sudden?
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Why are you drinking so much water?
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Why are you at the gym?
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Oh, reading books all of a sudden.
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Why are you drinking so much water?
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Why are you at the gym?
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Oh well, I listened to this one podcast and it really motivated me.
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So that ripple has now extended to a stranger, I don't know, and now it's extending to their friends and my side of the ripple.
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I don't care, I already know that that's happening.
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I get confirmations every week, but the message to the listeners it's always like you might think that you know it's only about you and and all of this, but especially and I know you can relate, chris once you become a parent, you know, now it's no longer about yourself.
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You know, uh, if you're putting a lead, if you're, if you ever want to succeed in life, chances are you, you're gonna have to be put in a leadership position.
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You're not gonna be put.
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I was just telling Juliana about this the other day.
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Look at it from this perspective.
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Right, let's say me and you are both mechanics.
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Right, let's just say you're a plumber just like me.
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Right?
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A new position for foreman opened up.
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And in today's world, if the company is ran by actual people who care about business, Chris knows more about plumbing than me, right, but everybody hates him.
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Right, he's a great foreman.
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If you could put him in the boiler room, and he'll build a boiler room alone he's great at plumbing, but people can't stand him right.
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Right, miguel knows plumbing not at the same level as ch here, but people love working with Miguel.
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Every time they need another person for the job.
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Who do they call Miguel Every time we hear something positive about it.
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Miguel, All right.
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Who's going to get the position of foreman?
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The guy who, nobody.
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You get what I'm saying, so that comes from your ripple.
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How are you affecting others?
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Some people show up to work and they think I'm just here.
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I'm not here to make friends, All right.
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Well, not making friends eliminates positions higher up from you.
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Yeah.
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Right, because you don't climb the ladder alone.
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So you need people, you know.
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So that's just a statement very conscious in regards to how you're affecting others.
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You know, because if you show up and you're the complainer, you're the naysayer, you're the one always talking negative about life and everything when that promotion comes up.
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Yeah, people know that you know your work, but maybe they don't want that kind of energy around.
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So
your ripple was that of a negative effect on others.
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But if your ripple is one of like wow, I look forward to being around this individual.
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You know what?
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know, I mean when you go into the gym and you see trey and you hear him screaming let's go, let's go here we go.
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You know everything you know, literally you know that energy is uplifting, that energy is contagious.
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You're like, all right, I'm at the gym and this, this is it all right.
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Well, if you want to coach, who do you want?
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This guy yelling over here, or miguel the coach, who's holding a monster, can looking at the customer like, yeah, give me another rep.
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Man, all right, good job, all right, we're gonna go do squats now.
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You're just like I don't want that guy, you know.
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I mean, and I went to school longer than Trey and I'm more certified- right, for example yeah, you get no, no, for sure, and that's exactly where my mind went for sure it's like when you said the ripple effect.
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For what I do personally, man, I wake up every day 4, 34, 45.
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I got 5 am clients.
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Man, you know I don't want to get out of bed right now.
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I would use that extra couple minutes of sleep, you know, but um I know how much I'm affecting my clients when I'm there.
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You know it's way bigger than you know what I mean I have clients I'm training.
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I said on numerous podcasts like their healths really rely on me.
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We're training them and stuff.
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You know I have clients with all different types of health issues but, um, it's bigger than me, it's bigger than my couple minutes or a couple hours of sleep.
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So that's kind of where my mind went from a personal standpoint yeah, that's exactly what it's about yeah.
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So I think the other day miguel and I were at the gym remember the guy this was last saturday maybe and he said, like I was got here, I wasn't really feeling it, and he tells me we go like you guys came in here, we're doing some good lifts and he's like you guys got made me feel like I gotta do it.
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Oh, that was tony yeah, I was like it's funny, like we had that effect just by being there just the energy itself you got there.
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After I got there, it started happening and I was like these guys, I gotta do it now.
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Yeah, I can't tell you like uh, how many times and I'm I'm truly blessed man.
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I can't tell you how many times I'm
driving to work in the dark and I'm tired and my phone's like cling, cling.
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I'll look and it's just a message like needed this this morning.
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Thank you, ripple right, yeah, that didn't, I wasn't.
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Oh, thank you for your service, miguel.
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Here's a hundred bucks.
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No, none of that happened.
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It was just like you moving forward in your life, doing things.
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You don't want to do that walk in the morning with the vest on driving to doing things.
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You don't want to do that walk in the morning with the vest on driving to work.
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All of that I don't want to do any of it.
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Right, but I'm doing it.
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And now, because I did it, somebody listening who was planning to show up late or eat shitty food for breakfast or just not go to the gym at all, is now, like you know, just this past weekend we went to a Christmas party with Juliana for her company and a stranger.
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I get there and a stranger runs up to me.
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He's like you're Juliana's fiance, right?
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I'm like yeah, and he's like dude, I've been first of all, you're jacked and I'm like stop, Stop.
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You know what I mean, I'm flattered.
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Flattered.
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And then he's like I want to do what you're doing, I, I want to lose the weight, I want to do this and I'm and this is a stranger I've never met.
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Before I finished that 30 minute conversation, I sit down immediately.
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One of juliana's friends sits down and she's talking about how she's envious of us, how she wish she can do what we can do, and I'm just like whoa we're regular people just like you are.
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you know what I mean she's like.
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But sometimes I'm in, I'm on my bed and it's 11, uh, the afternoon on a Saturday, and I look and you already went on your walk and you're doing your second workout and I'm like, exactly, and you don't need to do that, but you are inspired to do something.
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That's the ripple.
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Yeah Right, and she doesn't need to.
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I'm grateful that she told me because that's a little cookie in my cookie jar that whenever I'm down, I pick it out like, oh, I'm inspiring others.
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Draw that.
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Whenever I'm down, I pick it out like, oh, I'm inspiring others.
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You know what I mean.
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So those are the things I I think about when it comes to creating that effect on others yeah, that's really good, really good question yep, who wants to go next?
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I'll pick one, yeah bangers thank you.
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Sometimes I think I could.
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Eventually I could just write a book, and the book will be one page covering each of those topics.
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What would the book be?
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called right on the spot compounding daily.
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I got one, let's do it.
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Aren't you tired of seeing others succeed?
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oh, yeah, that's just a slap to the face, even to me um, right, so always understand that those are literally thoughts in my mind and so that I have asked myself that question and it's just like aren't you tired of am I I'm speaking for myself here aren't you tired of seeing other dudes in great shape and here you are overweight still?
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Yeah, like, aren't you tired of talking about how you know you do?
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The reason this podcast started is because, uh, his name slips my mind down because it's been so long but a guy who's not even a friend it was an acquaintance I go to was talking to me and somehow the podcast came up and he's like oh, you got a podcast.
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And I'm like, no, not yet.
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I'm like it's just blah, blah, blah.
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And he didn't sugarcoat anything, he just was just like, oh, you're just full of excuses.
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Like, if you're going to make a podcast, you just make a podcast.
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As a matter of fact, and I quote he's like don't talk to me again until you have a podcast.
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And I was like I got offended.
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First of all, I was like who the fuck are you, bro?
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You don't know my struggles and my problems.
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Like coming at me all wrong.
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You know what I mean.
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But he was right.
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You know what was I doing every day?
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Listening to Tom Bilyeu, listening to Jim Rohn, listening to Tony Robbins, listening to all these people on different podcasts, and in my head I was daydreaming of like maybe one day.
00:25:08.912 --> 00:25:11.327
And then I was like, aren't you tired of that dog?
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Aren't you tired of like comparing your misery to other people's success and like, how long are you gonna stay there?
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You know, that's how I was talking to myself and that's why I wrote that.
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You know, like, aren't you tired of seeing other people succeed, knowing that you are a human being with two legs, two ears, two eyes, two hands, of a working mind?
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--> 00:25:39.666
You're not an idiot, you've been blessed with this gift called health and life, and you're sitting here in sorrow and pity yeah aren't you tired of that boom?
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that's, that's it.
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That's what I would talk to myself what's the last time you felt that way, like you had that question in your mind?
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I asked probably like once a month, that question Cause it's that random, right, and it's not that I'm tired of seeing others succeed.
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It's that I know, like the example I gave you guys right before we started recording.
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I know, cause I have the blueprint in my head, that there are things that I could be doing that would significantly start moving, compounding daily forward, but I'm not doing them.
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So now when that thought comes into my head, it's no longer I'm not at square one anymore.
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I'm way ahead of square one in my own personal journey and the way the podcast has been growing and everything.
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So the thoughts of like, oh, like, damn, I need to get started, I've already gotten started, the momentum's already building.
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So when that thought comes across my head, it's more of a like, like, yeah, I'm gonna be there one day.
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I'm already doing things.
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So maybe I don't ask myself that question a lot anymore, because I've put myself in a position where I feel like I'm getting closer to to that being my reality.
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So it's not a I'm not tired of seeing other people succeed anymore, because I've realized that I'm capable of the same amount of success, if not more, right what creates that question, though, like is it just doubt?
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you know, yeah, yeah, yeah, it's okay, oh yeah yeah, because, like you're comparing yourself, yeah, for sure right it's, it's okay.
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Oh, yeah, yeah because, like, you're comparing yourself, yeah for sure, Right, it's like the overweight guy sitting on a sofa, you know, watching the Olympia, you know he's just like, oh man, dude, and like then it's just, there's so many different scenarios, right, so like you, but you're at a job that you're displeased with and somebody who came in after you got the promotion that was there for you, you get what I'm saying.
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Is that personal towards you?
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Or maybe you should do some reflecting?
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and think like damn.
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What could I be doing Because?
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you could be like yo.
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That's bullshit.
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How did?
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this new guy get the promotion.
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Blah, blah blah.
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I wouldn't ask that question.
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I would ask why didn't you get it?
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Exactly.
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Right, without blaming the new guy and what was different about him?
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He had better qualifications.
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So I stopped looking at, I stopped placing people in a pedestal.
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Yeah, I used to look at Tony Robbins like a god and be like god.
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Oh my god, what he sold.
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He sold out an arena with 100,000 people in it.
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He charges people like 40,000 a month to have his number and I'm just like that'll never be me.
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That'll never be me and keep in mind that probably will never be me.
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But why would I limit myself to that thought?
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Since then, the work has been done, so I don't have that thought anymore.
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The more is like figure out what you really want, and what I really want is not to charge people that much to get in touch with me.
00:28:27.401 --> 00:28:30.412
You know what I mean but there there are ways to you know.
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Go on about it, right yeah for sure.
00:28:32.696 --> 00:28:50.618
Yeah, I just you know just recently, like you know your new job and we talked about what I was thinking of doing yes, as well, changing like jobs and careers and, um, I can describe this the best way to see is like I wasn't like upset that you got a good job and you got a great opportunity.
00:28:50.618 --> 00:28:55.998
Yeah, I was upset, like why didn't I take opportunity I had before I even knew of your new job?
00:28:55.998 --> 00:28:57.981
Yeah, I was just not on it.
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I wasn't I was debating a lot and it still am truthfully.
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But after that conversation I immediately went to let me fix my resume, let me actually start making those steps to get there.
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Yeah, talk to amanda, of course.
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Figure out what is best as far as moving, yeah, moving forward in the future, especially with baby on the way it's more where it gets a little bit trickier.
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Yep, it's not excuse, just, it's just yeah it's your reality absolutely that goes so, but still, I made the initial treatment resume.
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It's ready to go.
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When I feel like it's a good time, yeah, I'm gonna take the opportunity.
00:29:29.579 --> 00:29:30.851
Good, I decide I'm going to.
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It's just a matter of when.
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Now yeah it's really the question part yep, but until I thought about what you were doing.
00:29:36.071 --> 00:29:41.613
I wasn't even
considering fixing the resume or looking at the web page to fill out, make a new.
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Uh like the sign for like their own member id thing.
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Whatever, it wasn't a dog yeah, I think that just shows maturity in the individual, though, yeah, because it'll be more of a person that's immature like oh man, screw this guy.
00:29:52.087 --> 00:29:53.613
Yeah because it could, because it could be like.
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He's not better than me.
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Exactly, he's five four, no way where did that come from?
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I'm just kidding, but in all seriousness, high five motherfucker.
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But in all seriousness, like look at it from, I was already battling the insecurities Of my own adequacies Going into the new job.
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The new job I went into I know has higher standards, right.
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My co-worker messaged me that the day after I left he doesn't listen to this, and even if he did, I kind of don't care Because it's just the truth yeah.
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So if it hurts you, it's your truth, deal with it.
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He's like dude.
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You left and immediately oh Miguel's a shitty plumber, miguel you know, miguel wasn't capable, oh, but.
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Miguel was going to be in charge while you were on vacation, though you, while you were in vacation, though you know what I'm saying.
00:30:48.875 --> 00:30:54.153
So, instead of him being in a position of, like you know what miguel kind of left, he kind of left on in an urgent put me in a pinch yeah but he's moving forward.
00:30:54.955 --> 00:31:01.938
Maybe, instead of sitting here complaining about my life day after day after day, year after year after year, I'd get encouraged to do something different.
00:31:01.938 --> 00:31:02.839
Right, you know?
00:31:03.221 --> 00:31:09.221
that's all get encouraged to do something different all right, you know, that's all, that's yeah for sure, that's good, do you want to do them?
00:31:09.261 --> 00:31:16.980
yeah, yeah, we're at 30 minutes so, like usually, I stop these like at 45 to an hour you know, up to you guys, and we're moving on a good speed.
00:31:16.980 --> 00:31:18.604
We're talking a lot more in depth.
00:31:18.604 --> 00:31:21.076
I like this, yeah the third mind in the room definitely adds to it as you just go along.
00:31:21.076 --> 00:31:22.039
Yeah, something you wouldn't think about.
00:31:22.039 --> 00:31:22.721
Yeah, I think about trading.
00:31:22.721 --> 00:31:24.046
Exactly, you know trade a lot in the room definitely adds to it.
00:31:24.046 --> 00:31:25.490
It gives you ideas as you just go along, yeah.
00:31:25.810 --> 00:31:26.836
Something you wouldn't think about.
00:31:27.180 --> 00:31:29.311
Yeah, I think about trading stuff Exactly, and you know.
00:31:29.432 --> 00:31:30.355
Trey a
lot of times.
00:31:30.355 --> 00:31:35.865
So far he's talked about, like his training stuff, which is not things that cross my mind at all, but it's the perspective.
00:31:35.885 --> 00:31:36.028
I have.
00:31:36.028 --> 00:31:39.973
Well, dude, you know when me, gino and Sam started the podcast.
00:31:39.973 --> 00:31:44.859
We are always trying not to go back to the analogy of fitness.
00:31:44.859 --> 00:31:50.006
Yeah, but the thing is like, since we're all gym rats you know, we're all it's, but it's.
00:31:50.006 --> 00:32:00.435
It finishes a big part of our lives, and a lot of the values we speak about tie in directly to fitness Right, so it just ends up being like that Some phenomenal questions in here.
00:32:00.670 --> 00:32:03.517
I've read like five good ones in a row.
00:32:03.517 --> 00:32:04.238
Pick one.
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All right, my bad, my bad.
00:32:05.500 --> 00:32:06.482
Thank you though.
00:32:06.809 --> 00:32:08.733
The best bet is betting on yourself.
00:32:08.733 --> 00:32:10.939
Take risk.
00:32:10.939 --> 00:32:15.738
I'll read that again the best bet is betting on yourself.
00:32:15.738 --> 00:32:17.041
Take the risk.
00:32:17.509 --> 00:32:21.101
I hate to be so cliche, but that just stems from no risk, no reward.
00:32:21.290 --> 00:32:22.729
Absolutely exactly where my mind went.
00:32:22.729 --> 00:32:25.115
Dude, you know like you have have to.
00:32:27.119 --> 00:32:30.386
It sounds arrogant, which is why I don't speak like this out loud.
00:32:30.386 --> 00:32:32.352
Yeah, but the conversation is my mind.
00:32:32.352 --> 00:32:33.494
Is you got this?
00:32:33.535 --> 00:32:36.260
yeah, for sure, you know like you, you are capable.
00:32:36.461 --> 00:32:37.752
Yeah, you know, and that goes back to.
00:32:37.814 --> 00:32:38.357
Sorry to cut you off.
00:32:38.357 --> 00:32:42.494
That goes back to what we were just talking about earlier about confidence you know, what I mean repetition about whatever you're doing.
00:32:42.494 --> 00:32:45.019
Let's say, if it's something at work, you've been doing it for so long.
00:32:45.019 --> 00:32:45.941
You know you got this.
00:32:45.941 --> 00:32:47.124
Yeah, because all the repetitions.
00:32:47.124 --> 00:32:49.297
You know what I mean yep, so that's just it.
00:32:49.337 --> 00:32:49.980
Like.
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Bet on yourself.
00:32:50.803 --> 00:32:54.615
What does that mean is have confidence in yourself that you are capable, right?
00:32:54.615 --> 00:33:00.733
So like was fat miguel confident that he was gonna be now getting ready for a bodybuilding show?
00:33:00.733 --> 00:33:08.371
Absolutely not, but as fat miguel, I bet that I could lose weight like I was I bet you I can get in shape.
00:33:08.371 --> 00:33:12.820
I bet you you know what fuck the doubters and there weren't any doubters.
00:33:12.820 --> 00:33:24.903
That was hard, but in my mind there was people just waiting for me to fail yeah and I was just like just watch me yeah and, ironically, the only person really watching was myself.
00:33:25.365 --> 00:33:35.763
So eventually I'm looking in the mirror and I'm just like yo keep betting on yourself, dude, because you're winning a little bit yeah and that that win came in one less belt loop that I'm away from you, know.
00:33:35.763 --> 00:33:40.898
I mean, it's just little victories, like I'm not eating tums with all my meals anymore because the heartburn's gone.
00:33:41.339 --> 00:33:54.857
It's like yo you're, you're betting on yourself and you're winning you know, and over time, the the better you've gotten at believing that you can, the higher the risk that you take do you feel like you're betting less, not even more, confidence?
00:33:54.959 --> 00:33:58.353
no, no, I'm betting more, so like taking a bigger risk.
00:33:58.353 --> 00:34:01.079
Yeah, I'm taking, so like like next year we're on youtube.
00:34:01.140 --> 00:34:04.756
Look now, I just said it on the on the on the accountability you know.
00:34:04.756 --> 00:34:05.959
So I've been telling all my friends.
00:34:05.959 --> 00:34:07.642
They're like well, what's next for the podcast youtube?
00:34:07.642 --> 00:34:09.213
I'm going to start making youtube videos on it.
00:34:09.213 --> 00:34:11.418
You know I that's super uncomfortable.
00:34:11.418 --> 00:34:13.081
Is there a risk in it?
00:34:13.081 --> 00:34:16.420
No, not really, you know, but it's.
00:34:16.420 --> 00:34:31.514
It's a form of challenge that's going to require things I've never done before for sure, you know so the risk of failure, I guess yeah, you know I'm like, but I bet you I can do it absolutely just figure it out, you get what I mean so.
00:34:31.815 --> 00:34:36.380
So that's just my approach with everything, and everything is a bucket list for me, right?
00:34:36.380 --> 00:34:45.266
So, like I'm five jumps away from getting certified to jump solo from airplanes, that's a goal yeah I'm competing next year, you know, um, then I'm doing jujitsu.
00:34:45.748 --> 00:34:51.862
you know, like, there's just so many things, and this is all for the sake of like you can do hard things, you know.
00:34:51.862 --> 00:35:13.436
And and now, when the hard things that I can't control happen in my life, right, uh, I, I I'll say this out loud and and I don't know where I got this from, but in my head I've played the expected phone calls one day hey, mom's not doing well, you need to come say your goodbyes.
00:35:13.436 --> 00:35:16.760
I've, in my head, already seen that thousands of times.
00:35:16.760 --> 00:35:20.920
So when it happens, I promise you, the next day I'm doing a morning message.
00:35:20.920 --> 00:35:22.838
I promise you that same.
00:35:22.938 --> 00:35:23.764
That's really fascinating.
00:35:23.764 --> 00:35:24.369
You know what I'm saying?
00:35:24.369 --> 00:35:25.601
I promise you that same week's really fascinating.
00:35:25.550 --> 00:35:29.670
Yeah, I promise you that same week I'm releasing an episode and it's
not going to be you know, hold on to your family.
00:35:29.670 --> 00:35:33.460
It's going to be, everything's going to keep going.
00:35:33.460 --> 00:35:33.822
Why?
00:35:33.822 --> 00:35:46.853
Because I've done the work on myself to see the things that are difficult, and I've already done so many difficult things by my own choice, right that when life puts difficulty in there, I'm just like great mother nature had a plan.
00:35:46.932 --> 00:35:47.675
God had a plan.
00:35:47.675 --> 00:35:51.610
What am I going to do about like yoda, mr yoda rip, you know cancer?
00:35:51.610 --> 00:35:56.739
I cried, I was sad, I can't control, so why, why?
00:35:56.739 --> 00:35:57.420
Why stay there?
00:35:57.420 --> 00:36:00.634
Why stay there, miserable, what was I doing the next day morning message?
00:36:00.634 --> 00:36:01.797
Morning message at the gym.
00:36:01.797 --> 00:36:08.059
I was at the gym, you know nobody, knew nobody knew until juliana made that post you didn't see me exactly, you didn't see me.
00:36:08.320 --> 00:36:11.159
My captions were not related to sadness.
00:36:11.159 --> 00:36:13.989
Life is going, but behind closed doors.
00:36:13.989 --> 00:36:15.840
I'm grieving, I'm crying, I'm doing my thing.
00:36:15.840 --> 00:36:17.005
You know I'm human.
00:36:17.005 --> 00:36:20.000
And then boom, locked in again, moving forward.
00:36:20.000 --> 00:36:23.934
And I've seen that with the, I've seen that with my mother, I've seen that with my sisters.
00:36:23.934 --> 00:36:28.563
Hopefully I don't ever have to see that with my nieces and nephew, because hopefully I'm gone before they're gone.
00:36:28.771 --> 00:36:42.753
You know what I mean, but I know life is not as painful in those forms yeah you know, and since I have seen that pain in my own head over and over again, I'm okay in a good way, as depressing as that sounds that was really.
00:36:42.793 --> 00:36:44.458
That took a really wild turn.
00:36:44.498 --> 00:36:47.554
It always goes sad, but it's never from a sad perspective.
00:36:47.554 --> 00:36:49.018
Yeah, I use it in the right moment.
00:36:49.018 --> 00:36:49.659
Yeah, yeah, for sure.
00:36:50.041 --> 00:36:55.469
Yeah, the question was about betting on yourself um right yeah, yeah, so my mind immediately went where from.
00:36:55.469 --> 00:37:06.282
Another personal experience is when I opened up the gym you know I went from I went from a position where I was doing a lot of the personal training through me jumping from gyms to gyms just training clients on my own, I remember, and the risk was like man.
00:37:06.282 --> 00:37:09.293
If this doesn't work out, you know this could put us in a huge financial hole.
00:37:09.293 --> 00:37:12.684
You know, 90 of businesses fail or whatever they're.
00:37:12.724 --> 00:37:17.619
You know the percentages most businesses fail, especially fitness centers and gyms.
00:37:17.619 --> 00:37:24.702
But I knew that I'm very confident myself as a trainer, as um of someone in the gym.
00:37:24.702 --> 00:37:27.773
You know, I know I have a big community of people that support me.
00:37:27.793 --> 00:37:30.927
You know a big support group and um I put all my faith in god.
00:37:30.927 --> 00:37:31.570
You know what I mean.
00:37:31.690 --> 00:37:33.659
That's a lot of it, but I knew how good I was at what I do.
00:37:33.659 --> 00:37:34.603
I was very confident.
00:37:34.603 --> 00:37:38.358
My ability to train clients and my retention when it comes to that, yeah, so that's where my mind went.
00:37:38.358 --> 00:37:42.717
I was very confident that this is going to work out yeah, this is a big risk, 23 years old.
00:37:42.757 --> 00:37:44.900
I, I made it happen For the sake of that example.
00:37:44.900 --> 00:37:57.342
Right, you were placed at a fork, yeah, and to the left is the unknown route, yeah, actually, I can even add to that you know, because it was either me opening up a gym where I got another opportunity at another gym To be a trainer.
00:37:57.389 --> 00:37:58.755
To be a trainer, making really good money.
00:37:58.856 --> 00:37:58.996
Yeah.
00:37:59.230 --> 00:38:00.032
More than I'm making now.
00:38:00.032 --> 00:38:00.773
That's.
00:38:00.773 --> 00:38:01.295
You know what I mean.
00:38:01.295 --> 00:38:01.896
It was one of those things.
00:38:01.896 --> 00:38:05.844
Like man, I'll be in a great place financially, but I know God got a plan for me.
00:38:05.905 --> 00:38:06.224
You know what?
00:38:06.244 --> 00:38:07.775
I mean, I know something's bigger is on the other side.
00:38:07.775 --> 00:38:09.577
And now you're almost at a year.
00:38:09.938 --> 00:38:10.099
Yeah.
00:38:10.971 --> 00:38:12.952
We hit a year in March and we're almost at 200 members.
00:38:12.952 --> 00:38:14.532
Wow 200?
00:38:14.592 --> 00:38:16.695
Almost 200 members, wow, no way.
00:38:17.335 --> 00:38:21.518
Yeah, so it was just a matter of, and you're very passionate about.
00:38:21.518 --> 00:38:25.501
If you have that thought in the back of your head, no matter what's going to happen, we're going to make it work.
00:38:25.501 --> 00:38:25.920
You know what?
00:38:25.920 --> 00:38:28.623
I mean so yeah, Love that Leaving yourself.
00:38:28.663 --> 00:38:29.143
That's all.
00:38:29.143 --> 00:38:30.704
It is, dude we did that one here.
00:38:31.324 --> 00:38:33.146
That was good Bangers man.
00:38:33.146 --> 00:38:39.889
I like this Even to think about, like when we did our first podcast.
00:38:39.889 --> 00:38:50.773
Man, every day that super nervous like what are we gonna talk about?
00:38:50.773 --> 00:38:50.873
What?
00:38:50.873 --> 00:38:51.635
If I like freak out on here.
00:38:51.675 --> 00:38:52.538
This is like my fifth episode.
00:38:52.757 --> 00:38:53.139
I'm chilling.
00:38:53.139 --> 00:38:53.760
Throw any question at your boy.
00:38:53.760 --> 00:38:53.940
I got it.
00:38:53.940 --> 00:38:54.802
Yeah, it's, it's over time.
00:38:54.802 --> 00:38:55.445
Yeah for sure, repetition.
00:38:55.445 --> 00:38:55.784
That's all it is.
00:38:55.784 --> 00:38:56.728
Dude the reps.
00:38:56.728 --> 00:38:59.333
Yeah, man, you guys excited for the holidays yeah, I'm very excited.
00:38:59.454 --> 00:39:00.655
Christmas shopping was wonderful.
00:39:00.655 --> 00:39:05.456
Yeah, uh, christmas shopping could be stressful at times, for sure.
00:39:05.456 --> 00:39:20.166
I used to hate the holidays because the holidays was always surrounded by negativity about the fact that we had to spend money we didn't have to maybe get a genuine thank you.
00:39:20.286 --> 00:39:20.786
Yeah.
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For holidays.
00:39:22.498 --> 00:39:23.849
I set no expectations.
00:39:23.849 --> 00:39:28.101
So, even if I get that pair of socks, I'm just like thank you so fucking much.
00:39:28.101 --> 00:39:32.478
I really didn't need these, but I'm grateful to have them.
00:39:32.538 --> 00:39:33.766
You know what I mean?
00:39:33.806 --> 00:39:40.231
No, for sure, Because you know, when you're younger and you're oh, I wanted that Xbox, but mom got me one Because.
00:39:40.231 --> 00:39:47.184
I used to think oh, great, great, if I give my mom a $150 gift, I have to get my older sister, the same gift.
00:39:53.250 --> 00:40:01.536
And if I get my older nephew something for the game system, which to them is wow, that's money, and I get my little nephew something like a matching pair of Nike sweatsuits or something like that he might be like, but what about the game?
00:40:01.536 --> 00:40:04.835
So now I don't know any of that.
00:40:04.835 --> 00:40:06.599
To stress, I'm like you got what you got.
00:40:06.599 --> 00:40:08.001
You keep complaining.
00:40:08.001 --> 00:40:09.664
I'm going to tell you, santa, it's not real.
00:40:13.431 --> 00:40:14.054
You got to clip that.
00:40:14.114 --> 00:40:14.795
You got to clip that.
00:40:14.795 --> 00:40:15.317
That's wild, all right.
00:40:19.130 --> 00:40:21.478
Because you put a lot of emphasis on the word kill last time.
00:40:21.478 --> 00:40:22.380
Yes, you put it in here too.
00:40:22.380 --> 00:40:28.755
One of the messages was about this you must first kill yourself in order to recreate yourself.
00:40:28.876 --> 00:40:33.452
yes, uh, the same exact thing, right, uh, is literally the same exact thing.
00:40:33.452 --> 00:40:33.893
It's just.
00:40:33.893 --> 00:40:39.992
Uh, you, you have to eliminate parts of yourself that you know aren't serving you, right?
00:40:39.992 --> 00:40:46.384
So, uh, to go a little bit more in depth, I, I work a lot out of my mind and we all think in images.
00:40:46.384 --> 00:40:51.597
Right, if I tell you, you see the red car, immediately in my mind, poof, you have a red car there, right?
00:40:51.929 --> 00:41:04.630
So I approach this is going to sound crazy, but I approach year one of personal development, as I'm in a factory, and let's think about a video game in a futuristic world.
00:41:04.630 --> 00:41:07.996
Right, I'm in a factory, and let's think about a video game in a futuristic world.
00:41:07.996 --> 00:41:13.724
Right, I'm in a factory as Fat Miguel and I've hit the lotto and now I have the money to create, recreate myself.
00:41:13.724 --> 00:41:14.545
Who do I want to be?
00:41:14.545 --> 00:41:18.798
Yeah, in all sorts of the aspect, not just physically, but mentally.
00:41:18.798 --> 00:41:26.822
You know the values and I just saw myself taking pieces off, you know, and replacing them.
00:41:26.822 --> 00:41:28.976
We're like all right, miguel, you're impatient.
00:41:28.976 --> 00:41:33.010
You're always going over 90 in the highway, just driving like a fucking asshole.
00:41:33.010 --> 00:41:34.514
For what, right?
00:41:34.514 --> 00:41:35.817
Why, right?
00:41:35.817 --> 00:41:37.119
You've gone into three accidents.
00:41:37.119 --> 00:41:38.663
You're not even 23 yet you're.
00:41:38.682 --> 00:41:43.592
You need to relax you know I mean so I'm seeing all these things and I'm all right, well, I need a little bit more patience.
00:41:43.592 --> 00:41:46.681
So I need to do things that require patience.
00:41:46.681 --> 00:41:50.240
All right, well, you know you got to lose weight and that's going to require a shit ton of patience.
00:41:50.240 --> 00:41:51.956
All right, well, why do you want to lose weight?
00:41:51.956 --> 00:41:53.635
Well, what don't I want to experience?
00:41:53.635 --> 00:41:57.335
Well, I'm pre-diabetic, my cholesterol is high, my neck is turning black.
00:41:57.335 --> 00:42:05.744
I'm not comfortable.
00:42:06.125 --> 00:42:08.666
And I'm looking at that and I'm like all right, do I need a six or eight?
00:42:08.666 --> 00:42:09.956
I don't need a six or eight pack.
00:42:09.956 --> 00:42:11.534
Four pack is okay for now.
00:42:11.534 --> 00:42:14.896
You get what I'm saying and in my mind, I'm creating this character.
00:42:14.896 --> 00:42:32.233
And then I'm like all right, how are you work on that?
00:42:32.233 --> 00:42:33.922
Well, you could probably start by reading books about how to communicate.
00:42:33.922 --> 00:42:35.088
All right, well, you don't read books at all.
00:42:35.088 --> 00:42:35.972
So where are you going to start?
00:42:35.972 --> 00:42:37.539
All right, well, now I'm a reader.
00:42:37.539 --> 00:42:38.565
Well, you go.
00:42:38.565 --> 00:42:43.717
You can't be a reader because right now, your time is spent at smoking weed and playing video games.
00:42:43.717 --> 00:42:46.483
Oh, I guess I could play a little less.
00:42:46.969 --> 00:42:55.476
So, then the way that took effect in reality was that I started unplugging my Xbox and putting the remote away and, until I read, I couldn't plug it back in and play.
00:42:55.476 --> 00:42:56.800
You get what I mean.
00:42:56.800 --> 00:43:11.577
Over time, I created to a T the person in my mind and then the game started by me going out there into real life and every day making decisions that were getting me closer to that.
00:43:11.577 --> 00:43:35.835
I promise you on my dead grandmother I can't
make this up how many times I pulled into McDonald's, got out of the car, was waiting in line because it was before the self-pay the kiosk thing I'm in line and my mind's like the person you want to become it wouldn't be in here right now and I'm just like, and I left.
00:43:36.396 --> 00:43:42.059
Got back in my car and I went home and I ate food that I cooked and I was pissed.
00:43:42.059 --> 00:43:49.063
But in my mind a little piece just got added Like dude Right, yeah, you're almost there, dog.
00:43:49.063 --> 00:43:51.563
And now, seven years, people ask me.
00:43:51.563 --> 00:43:53.905
Oh, you know, ask Juliana, she'll see me crying.
00:43:53.905 --> 00:43:55.385
You know why are you crying?
00:43:55.385 --> 00:43:58.688
I'm like, yeah, I'm so happy, Like this is what I worked so hard for.
00:43:58.708 --> 00:43:59.268
You know what I mean.
00:43:59.268 --> 00:44:10.525
Yeah, emotional, because I had to kill fat miguel, you know, and at times during covid, fat miguel was like I'm back, gyms are closed, you're 50 pounds heavier, oh, I'm back.
00:44:10.525 --> 00:44:17.059
You know, you beat god of war like in two weeks you know I'm back, you get what I'm saying.
00:44:17.199 --> 00:44:18.402
And now, the, the.
00:44:18.641 --> 00:44:25.597
I had to go back to the factory and recreate again and see what went wrong with the system and where I up and when I approach it.
00:44:25.617 --> 00:44:35.380
Like that, everything's becomes achievable yeah right you know that's a very long answer that was really good, you know how does that come off to you guys.
00:44:35.802 --> 00:44:43.068
In regards to the quote I think about um kind of similar right, it's pretty much the same thing from a health standpoint.
00:44:43.489 --> 00:44:48.608
I had to just recreate the person I was, that I wanted to be or create the person I wanted to be by just cutting out old habits.
00:44:48.608 --> 00:44:54.570
Yeah, as far as it's like eating out or um, not working out, because a lot I mean it's it's very similar.
00:44:54.690 --> 00:45:04.938
The best way that I can put that, if I had to put it in a short terms, is you first set the goals, and the goals decide who you have to become.
00:45:04.938 --> 00:45:06.201
Yeah for sure, right.
00:45:06.201 --> 00:45:12.380
So if I wanted to be a trainer, would I be working a lot on my speaking skills?
00:45:12.380 --> 00:45:15.295
Probably right, because you had hand on hand.
00:45:15.295 --> 00:45:17.382
But most trainers wouldn't go that route.
00:45:17.382 --> 00:45:20.032
They see, I gotta go get nfa or whatever it is certified.
00:45:20.032 --> 00:45:20.733
I gotta learn about nutrition.
00:45:20.733 --> 00:45:21.956
I gotta learn how to properly write working out programs.
00:45:21.956 --> 00:45:22.960
They're not thinking about that, right.
00:45:22.960 --> 00:45:24.163
So in my case, I was like well, your goal is to be a.
00:45:24.163 --> 00:45:25.106
I got to learn about nutrition.
00:45:25.106 --> 00:45:26.590
I
got to learn how to properly write working out programs.
00:45:26.590 --> 00:45:27.753
They're not thinking about that, right.
00:45:27.773 --> 00:45:30.081
So in my case, I was like well, your goal is to be a speaker, right?
00:45:30.081 --> 00:45:34.289
If, chris, your goal, for example, was, well, I want to be one of the world's best mechanics.
00:45:34.289 --> 00:45:39.483
So the person you must become is different than the person I must become, because your goals are different.
00:45:39.483 --> 00:45:54.501
So the better you are at aligning yourself to exactly what it is you want because you can't have everything you know you decide in order to become.
00:45:54.501 --> 00:45:57.309
So, like everything I've worked on, the physical, the bodybuilding show, everything I've worked on is an addition into me becoming a speaker.
00:45:57.309 --> 00:46:06.291
Right, because imagine, oh, here's a motivational speaker, miguel sanchez, and all he hears, walking to the stage and usually you're the fuck.
00:46:06.291 --> 00:46:07.273
Is this fat fuck here?
00:46:07.313 --> 00:46:15.809
right, the fuck you know I mean this guy's gonna vote, gonna move it, oh yeah yeah, what I mean is it wouldn't make sense.
00:46:16.393 --> 00:46:17.657
Immediately I lose the crowd.
00:46:17.657 --> 00:46:19.184
Yeah, it doesn't make sense.
00:46:19.184 --> 00:46:29.141
You know, when I spoke in front of the kids in high school, you know, as soon as I finished speaking, telling my whole story the military, everything right the first thing they said is like how much do you bench?
00:46:29.141 --> 00:46:34.139
And I'm just like, oh fuck, sweet, you know what I mean and and what kind of question is that?
00:46:34.181 --> 00:46:40.231
but that tells me, like, all right, maybe you worked so much on your physical aspect that people aren't even looking at you for a speaker.
00:46:40.231 --> 00:46:42.938
They're just like this guy's probably a trainer or something yeah, you know what I mean.
00:46:42.938 --> 00:46:45.664
But now I need to work on my vocabulary.
00:46:45.664 --> 00:46:49.539
Now I need to surround myself by maybe another speaker who's doing it so.
00:46:49.539 --> 00:46:51.083
I can see how he lives his life.
00:46:51.349 --> 00:46:52.596
I don't dress the same anymore.
00:46:52.596 --> 00:46:56.666
Ten years ago I was wearing foam posits, true religion jeans, true religion hoodie.
00:46:56.666 --> 00:46:57.469
You know what I mean.
00:46:57.469 --> 00:46:58.876
I sagged my pants a little bit.
00:46:59.431 --> 00:47:07.134
I had a Louis belt, that's just how I dress and now, if you see me out, I'm usually dressed like when I went to the bodybuilding show.
00:47:07.134 --> 00:47:07.795
What was I wearing?
00:47:07.795 --> 00:47:10.327
It's just like almost like business casual.
00:47:10.327 --> 00:47:10.949
Why?
00:47:10.949 --> 00:47:11.753
Because I'm a speaker.
00:47:11.753 --> 00:47:14.710
You never know who you're gonna meet and I don't introduce myself as a plumber.
00:47:14.710 --> 00:47:16.195
I'm a speaker, is what I've worked on.
00:47:16.195 --> 00:47:17.358
You know what I mean.
00:47:17.358 --> 00:47:25.219
So I had to kill fat miguel the gamer, pothead, arrogant, asshole, angry all the time, pessimistic at heart.
00:47:25.219 --> 00:47:28.012
You know the atheist didn't believe in anything.
00:47:28.012 --> 00:47:30.320
I was just like life sucks, this sucks.
00:47:30.400 --> 00:47:32.387
Kill me now don you know what I mean?
00:47:32.387 --> 00:47:35.476
How to kill him in order to make room for me.
00:47:35.476 --> 00:47:45.449
I kind of correlate more of like killing, like, I guess, more mental stuff yes like the sense of um, just what you think about yourself, I guess be a good example of that, the negative conversation you have with yourself.
00:47:45.362 --> 00:47:47.041
I guess be a good example of that the negative conversation you have with yourself, right?
00:47:47.081 --> 00:47:47.481
exactly.
00:47:47.481 --> 00:47:51.934
It's kind of like a like doubt right, yes, go back to a job, right, you know how to do something.
00:47:51.934 --> 00:47:54.521
But you always think like, is that sure, that's right?
00:47:54.521 --> 00:48:05.659
That was always like something back in my head, being confident, even going into like high school, like, uh, you can probably relate to this, I'm not sure, but, uh, trey, but like I grew up in new haven and that best place is kind of ghetto.
00:48:05.659 --> 00:48:07.501
Yeah, kids pull each other like crazy.
00:48:07.501 --> 00:48:12.940
I'm sure it's everywhere, but I always had, and I walked into a new like school, like high school, for example.
00:48:12.940 --> 00:48:19.510
I'm afraid to talk to them like I have doubt about who they're gonna be to me, instead of being willing to like, make this person chance.
00:48:19.510 --> 00:48:20.411
I don't know them yet what am?
00:48:20.431 --> 00:48:24.297
I assuming they're not gonna be good to me yeah, I don't know that you know.
00:48:24.297 --> 00:48:25.940
So eventually, kind of like, I gotta.
00:48:25.940 --> 00:48:30.391
If I want to have friends and have quality people, I need to be willing to talk to quality people.
00:48:30.391 --> 00:48:32.858
I can't assume they're bad yeah, I don't know that.
00:48:32.958 --> 00:48:35.050
Yeah, you know even people who I don't know.
00:48:35.050 --> 00:48:37.418
You say trey said I don't really like this person.
00:48:37.418 --> 00:48:40.413
I'm like, I don't know it, maybe he doesn't like her for different reasons.
00:48:40.413 --> 00:48:41.335
I might love the person.
00:48:41.335 --> 00:48:47.730
Yeah, you know I and that was always in my head Like, oh well, I can be friends If my friend isn't like this person, like I can be your friend.
00:48:47.769 --> 00:48:49.969
Yeah, so you had to start working On that conversation.
00:48:50.653 --> 00:48:51.639
But they think Is what they think.
00:48:51.639 --> 00:48:53.168
What I know Is what I know.
00:48:53.168
--> 00:48:54.925
Yeah, that becomes a difference for me, yeah.
00:48:54.967 --> 00:49:03.579
Exactly, just thinking about that, I think for me personally it was like into the gym and stuff.
00:49:03.579 --> 00:49:06.824
I didn't want to surround myself with my friends, or I wanted to keep my arms linked, I should say.
00:49:06.824 --> 00:49:10.481
Those were doing like the oh yo, let's eat some Doritos and play 2K all night.
00:49:10.481 --> 00:49:11.693
I'm like bro, I can't do that now.
00:49:11.693 --> 00:49:12.416
I got to hit the gym.
00:49:12.416 --> 00:49:16.152
I got to follow my diet plan Because I know if I see that bag of Doritos I'm going to smash it.
00:49:16.713 --> 00:49:25.905
So, I had to keep those people, but I definitely think it's who I surround myself with, yeah, especially when I'm trying to enter different places in my life, different chapters in my life.
00:49:26.005 --> 00:49:33.806
Yeah, there's a for the sake you got to be able to see the different parts of your life.
00:49:33.947 --> 00:49:34.146
Yeah.
00:49:34.190 --> 00:49:41.780
And understand that every single one of them has things that need to be worked on your friends, your health, your spiritual, your mental, the conversation with yourself.
00:49:41.780 --> 00:49:42.650
All of them are.
00:49:42.650 --> 00:49:44.012
I split them into categories.
00:49:44.032 --> 00:49:45.112
Yeah, and to the conversation with yourself.
00:49:45.112 --> 00:49:45.454
All of them are.
00:49:45.454 --> 00:49:47.496
I split them into categories and then you get to decide which ones.
00:49:47.496 --> 00:49:48.936
Like right now, am I prioritizing my health?
00:49:48.936 --> 00:49:51.960
Yes, but I've gotten good at maintaining my health?
00:49:51.960 --> 00:49:56.766
Yeah, right, so there's not much work going into being physically healthy?
00:49:56.766 --> 00:50:02.449
Right, but I know that maybe I'm lacking in mental or maybe my spiritual is lacking a little bit.
00:50:02.449 --> 00:50:06.019
So now I get to focus on that subject in my own life.
00:50:06.019 --> 00:50:12.597
Or sometimes I may feel like, let's say I'll use a real life example.
00:50:12.597 --> 00:50:15.820
Let's say I continue achieving my goals.
00:50:15.820 --> 00:50:18.860
For some reason, you guys don't right.
00:50:18.860 --> 00:50:21.382
You're a dead end gym.
00:50:21.382 --> 00:50:21.623
Now.
00:50:21.623 --> 00:50:24.514
You just stopped growing and this is just gonna be a good example.
00:50:24.514 --> 00:50:28.523
Believe me, I'm already Be financially free.
00:50:28.523 --> 00:50:31.929
Yeah, the compounding daily has blown up and everything you know I mean.
00:50:31.929 --> 00:50:36.164
So now, when I'm surrounded by you guys, it's gonna be difficult.
00:50:36.244 --> 00:50:36.585
Mm-hmm.
00:50:36.786 --> 00:50:38.128
Yeah you know, I mean I'm gonna be like damn.
00:50:38.960 --> 00:50:44.813
I just went from hanging out with other successful business owners and everything and these guys just gave up
on their dreams.
00:50:44.813 --> 00:50:46.742
You get what I'm saying.
00:50:46.742 --> 00:50:50.132
I'm like am I gonna have to, am I gonna what?
00:50:50.132 --> 00:50:51.074
Continue down?
00:50:51.074 --> 00:50:52.786
You know I mean so different chapters.
00:50:52.786 --> 00:50:55.148
So now that category is the friendship category.
00:50:55.148 --> 00:51:03.255
Now I'm going to look at my friendship group and be like I need to work on some things, right, because now some people might be holding me back while some people are trying to get me to go higher.
00:51:03.255 --> 00:51:04.340
You know what I mean.
00:51:04.340 --> 00:51:07.701
And then you switch your focus Right.
00:51:07.701 --> 00:51:14.864
You go to the hospital and the doctor says you look physically great but you're showing signs of pre-diabetic oh fuck right.
00:51:14.925 --> 00:51:20.545
My health has now become a priority yeah you know, maybe now I'm not thinking so much about the books I'm reading.
00:51:20.545 --> 00:51:23.340
I need to really focus on getting my physical back too.
00:51:23.340 --> 00:51:24.405
Yeah, you get what I mean.
00:51:24.405 --> 00:51:31.967
So that that's the approach kill different parts of yourself with the understanding that you're not killing to eliminate, you're killing to replace.
00:51:33.228 --> 00:51:33.929
With something better.
00:51:33.929 --> 00:51:34.831
Want to pick the next one.
00:51:38.802 --> 00:51:39.885
Let's do the last one.
00:51:39.885 --> 00:51:43.614
I haven't done an episode this long, forever, forever.
00:51:43.614 --> 00:51:48.166
Okay, let's randomly scroll and see Boom.
00:51:52.119 --> 00:51:52.460
What do you got?
00:51:56.050 --> 00:51:56.351
Boom, alright.
00:51:56.351 --> 00:52:03.739
The first thing that Stopped my eyes says You're going to be judged regardless, so do what makes you Happy.
00:52:03.940 --> 00:52:04.864
That's a really good question.
00:52:04.864 --> 00:52:06.079
It's not a question.
00:52:12.090 --> 00:52:14.094
That one doesn't need self-explanatory right.
00:52:14.501 --> 00:52:18.371
But it's just like you're going to do, right.
00:52:18.371 --> 00:52:23.226
So I always speak from my own example, when I was fat and overweight.
00:52:23.226 --> 00:52:27.047
Miguel, be careful, you're eating too much Friends pinching my muffin top.
00:52:27.047 --> 00:52:30.608
You know I order pizza, I'm eating Chinese and people are looking at me like.
00:52:30.608 --> 00:52:32.429
You know, I order pizza, I'm eating chinese, and people are looking at me.
00:52:32.449 --> 00:52:33.429
Like you know, you shouldn't be eating that.
00:52:33.429 --> 00:52:34.231
Yeah, right, fast forward seven years.
00:52:34.231 --> 00:52:35.072
I pull out the scale.
00:52:35.072 --> 00:52:40.257
I'm weighing a cup of rice, I'm weighing my chicken and people are like dude, is it that serious you?
00:52:40.717 --> 00:52:42.041
get what I'm saying.
00:52:42.061 --> 00:52:46.152
So there's no, there's no winning yeah, but I'm happy with where I am.
00:52:46.192 --> 00:52:47.221
I'm happy with myself.
00:52:47.320 --> 00:52:48.682
So I was able to.
00:52:48.682 --> 00:52:54.855
Regardless of the judgment, the good and the bad, I'm still doing what makes me happy.
00:52:54.855 --> 00:53:01.126
One of my favorite ones was but you're a plumber, how much does a speaker make?
00:53:01.126 --> 00:53:02.284
Speakers don't make that much.
00:53:02.284 --> 00:53:07.913
To get to the point where you're making money as a speaker, you got to do something extreme.
00:53:07.913 --> 00:53:11.884
And Miguel, plumbing is a good career and I'm just like all right, thank you.
00:53:11.884 --> 00:53:13.065
Thank you for that.
00:53:13.065 --> 00:53:13.726
You know what I mean.
00:53:13.726 --> 00:53:16.773
Yeah, that's an opinion, that's a judgment.
00:53:16.873 --> 00:53:17.074
Yeah.
00:53:17.233 --> 00:53:21.485
You know, I appreciate it, regardless of what you think I'm aiming for that.
00:53:21.545 --> 00:53:21.846
Right.
00:53:22.081 --> 00:53:24.668
Cause it's my life, is my shoes to walk in?
00:53:35.139 --> 00:53:37.275
And if I want to say I'm a speaker, and then I'm, and you don't have to worry about that outcome or not you know absolutely, that's it.
00:53:37.275 --> 00:53:37.380
That's it for that one.
00:53:37.380 --> 00:53:37.583
Yeah, that was really good.
00:53:37.583 --> 00:53:37.920
I mean I can 100 relate to that.
00:53:37.920 --> 00:53:38.114
Yeah, you know what I mean?
00:53:38.114 --> 00:53:38.556
I believe we all can.
00:53:38.465 --> 00:53:41.954
Yeah, for sure, I think everyone in there, there's always gonna be somebody saying that what you're doing isn't gonna work or it's not working out.
00:53:41.954 --> 00:53:56.315
Yeah and I believe the saying is nobody believes that you can do it until you do it, until it's done, or that's that the actual quote is nobody believes it could be done until somebody does it, and then somebody does it, and now all of a sudden other people are doing the same thing because now people believe.
00:53:56.315 --> 00:54:04.273
So I welcome people's judgment because I never look for people's understanding of me.
00:54:05.101 --> 00:54:06.920
You're not going to understand me 100%.
00:54:07.121 --> 00:54:08.840
I don't even understand me 100%.
00:54:08.840 --> 00:54:09.663
Sometimes I'm like why?
00:54:09.682 --> 00:54:09.804
did.
00:54:09.844 --> 00:54:11.945
I just think that what the hell was that about?
00:54:11.945 --> 00:54:15.168
Don't be so depressing, Miguel, if it's a depressing thought.
00:54:15.530 --> 00:54:15.951
You know what I mean.
00:54:16.920 --> 00:54:27.454
So even I judge myself and at the end of the day, I make sure that when I'm alone with myself, looking at that man in the mirror and checking in, like yo, how you doing, man?
00:54:27.454 --> 00:54:33.503
Are you doing the things that are making you happy or are you doing the things that are?
00:54:33.543 --> 00:54:34.246
making you happy or are you?
00:54:34.266
--> 00:54:35.789
are you doing things for the sake of the approval of others?
00:54:35.809 --> 00:54:40.963
yeah, period and 99 of the time I do things because I asked juliana, she went you want to get nope, why not?
00:54:40.963 --> 00:54:41.565
Because I don't want to.
00:54:41.565 --> 00:54:48.507
Uh, okay, I mean yeah, and there's nothing wrong with that yeah, you know, but you just got it again.
00:54:48.507 --> 00:54:59.170
Most people, most people's number one problem in life is that they don't know who they are or what they want yeah if you don't know who you are or what you want, you're constantly just aimless yeah and I think I want to do this.
00:54:59.371 --> 00:55:08.965
I think I want to do this, and I mean you got to go experience things, so, and that's really how you learn, so it's a good place to start is where we all start, but never.
00:55:08.965 --> 00:55:13.672
Most people don't lock into one long enough to figure out if it's truly what's meant for them.
00:55:13.773 --> 00:55:18.550
I think it's hard to people have a hard time accepting who they are to be happy to do what they want Right.
00:55:18.550 --> 00:55:29.753
So meaning, like, if you're into doing podcasts, right, so you're like I don't want to tell people I do them, like you know, if they hear it, that's the point.
00:55:29.753 --> 00:55:32.400
Think about me, yeah, what he's going to think about me doing a podcast?
00:55:32.400 --> 00:55:33.885
I still do to this day.
00:55:33.945 --> 00:55:41.273
Man, exactly, I just started recently posting videos and captions from the podcast on my Facebook.
00:55:42.222 --> 00:55:42.342
My.
00:55:42.402 --> 00:55:44.909
Facebook is mostly high school friends.
00:55:44.909 --> 00:55:51.289
High school Like oh Fat Miguel, like friends and I posted that and I'm like oh shit.
00:55:51.289 --> 00:55:54.628
Who the hell does he think he is oh?
00:55:54.628 --> 00:55:58.065
He he lost a few pounds and now he thinks he can just tell people how to live.
00:55:58.467 --> 00:56:07.929
You know, and those are all negative thoughts I'm creating yeah, a lot of my old friends and old associates have liked it, commented on it, you know, I mean showed.
00:56:07.929 --> 00:56:09.394
Oh, this was great thing.
00:56:09.394 --> 00:56:13.889
I didn't know you had a podcast and I'm just like what was I stressing out for?
00:56:13.889 --> 00:56:22.641
And even if they don't like it, most of them don't have the courage to tell me, so I'll never hear about it to begin with, exactly, which means.
00:56:22.702 --> 00:56:25.201
I don't give a fuck, yeah, you know, because it won't affect me.
00:56:25.201 --> 00:56:34.034
For me, a big shift in being people was accepting, like who I am, things I like to do talking about what I like to do, you know, because I always had like I need to talk to him about sports.
00:56:34.034 --> 00:56:38.894
I gotta be like one of the guys you know, but I could talk to him, be like, hey, this thing happened, I really enjoy.
00:56:38.894 --> 00:56:43.088
Yeah, he has no idea what it's about, but I can still talk because I'm confident, sure, yeah like.
00:56:43.108 --> 00:56:44.340
I know who I am, I like what I like.
00:56:44.340 --> 00:56:47.605
Well, I'll give you a real example you'll relate a lot to this one.
00:56:47.625 --> 00:57:15.190
Okay, I'll be at a red light summer windows down, confident, blasting pale face and all here screaming right and then a car pulls up to me and I look and I lower it and I roll the windows up and I'm just like not that confident you get what I'm saying but that bothers me yeah, I might just sit there and be like dude, but it's not like you're in the car slitting your wrist.
00:57:15.190 --> 00:57:20.192
Dude, like you know, you're not here like crying listening to you're enjoying music, yeah.
00:57:20.621 --> 00:57:27.248
And why is this stranger's judgment of you because you're bobbing your head, rocking back and forth going to stop you from enjoying this song?
00:57:27.248 --> 00:57:27.871
Absolutely?
00:57:32.639 --> 00:57:39.045
I crack the window and it feels so uncomfortable and I erase the volume back up and I start bobbing my head and I can feel the eyes and I'm just like you're never gonna see this person again.
00:57:40.972 --> 00:57:47.858
Look at them so yeah, I mean, it's just why am I allowing somebody right, somebody whom I don't even know?
00:57:47.918 --> 00:57:50.563
that's a great example, yeah to judge me yeah.
00:57:50.603 --> 00:57:59.346
I mean, I can't tell you how guilty I feel when we go to family events, right, and I've been in this scenario.
00:57:59.346 --> 00:58:00.268
I'm the guy.
00:58:00.268 --> 00:58:03.228
You see my plate and it's just chicken and vegetables.
00:58:03.228 --> 00:58:10.773
Yeah, and the guy next to me is this really overweight guy and his shit is, you know, the whole works Everything on the menu he has on that bitch.
00:58:10.773 --> 00:58:14.516
Mac and cheese the bread and I somehow feel bad.
00:58:15.077 --> 00:58:21.760
I somehow feel bad Like I'm like Damn dude, like he's probably looking at me Like come on, man, you don't gotta be this healthy.
00:58:21.760 --> 00:58:26.260
You're at a party, enjoy some food you know, and again Instead.
00:58:26.260 --> 00:58:29.900
Eventually I met the guy and he was asking Genuine interesting questions Also.
00:58:29.920 --> 00:58:30.141
What do met?
00:58:30.161 --> 00:58:32.606
the guy and he was asking genuine interesting questions also what do you eat so little and what's the purpose of that?
00:58:32.606 --> 00:58:42.480
And here I was creating a judgment from him to me that never existed to begin with, and it made me almost want to pick a shitty food just to not so feel so bad about being.
00:58:42.480 --> 00:58:43.501
You get what I'm saying.
00:58:44.244 --> 00:58:53.873
People are going to judge you, no matter fucking what yeah, so just do what you know is going to be good for you and I, I know the foods that are good for me and
I know the music that lifts my spirit.
00:58:54.340 --> 00:58:57.190
You know, and not everybody is going to agree with those things.
00:58:57.190 --> 00:58:58.485
Relating to the music thing too.
00:58:58.485 --> 00:59:02.268
Like for me, I used to always kind of like I'm talking about, like I like metal or whatever.
00:59:02.268 --> 00:59:05.188
I'd be like oh, that's the transmogrification music.
00:59:05.188 --> 00:59:15.626
I'd be like uh, yeah, just a little bit this, yeah, you know whatever.
00:59:15.626 --> 00:59:16.833
And then eventually, oh, I love me, like I just joke of work.
00:59:16.833 --> 00:59:17.791
People like oh, you know something, like you know pop some.
00:59:17.735 --> 00:59:18.085
I have no idea.
00:59:18.028 --> 00:59:19.641
Yeah, scream that, yeah, that's what is.
00:59:19.641 --> 00:59:23.664
There's a joke and like really, but then one guy hears it I could work is like, oh, what do you listen to?
00:59:24.266 --> 00:59:34.606
and I made like a new friend to a company about me, something who I am, yes, and great conversation, well, and what more friends do you want than exactly the ones who actually relate to you know?
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By not if I didn't.
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And I was still the person who said, oh, you know what, hello with this.
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I wouldn't know he liked it too.
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Maybe eventually, but most likely not, and I would have not had that good experience with somebody.
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Yeah, help me actually make a new friend and have a new story, and so we can work with and we're together.
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Stereos on, put whatever you want yeah, it's a great time, you know yeah, I mean you're in the car driving to the gym.
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Great, let's see what we're gonna yeah, we know, we both exactly.
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But like a perfect addition to that is trey literally, we're just thinking about that, miguel, connect your phone to the speaker.
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And I'm like no way in hell, bro, you'll lose clients.
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They'll be like what?
01:00:12.577 --> 01:00:14.063
What did that song just say?
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and I'm just saying they're like this is my pr right now.
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You know I was thinking from two extremes.
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You guys know I'm big into my faith and stuff and I I listen to gospel music when I work out and you know, laughs at me all the time, but that's the thing I love.
01:00:26.018 --> 01:00:34.518
You know what I mean but it's like I would post a video like me training on the um on instagram or whatever, and then the background music, maybe like some gospel or something, and I would cringe like man.
01:00:34.518 --> 01:00:39.219
I don't want to post that because I want people to judge me like, oh, this big body but, or whatever he's posting, gospel, I don't
know.
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I just this self-doubt like, oh, how are they going to feel about me posting something like this?
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But then I got confident enough in my faith.
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I'm like I can care less yeah, this is me.
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This is what I I'm doing two things I love.
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Listen to my favorite type of music and training.
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You know what I mean.
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I'm posting it.
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Who cares?
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My biggest thing right, my biggest thing when people because sometimes people try to justify their differences to you because maybe they feel like they're so different that now they need to explain why they're going through it, right, I always stop and I'm like I got a really good question for you, are you happy?
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And they're like yeah.
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And I'm like that's it you don't need to explain anything to me, man, if you're happy with what you're doing, because people will tell me like oh man, I'd go to the gym five days a week too, if I could.
01:01:26.351 --> 01:01:29.083
Are you getting ready for a bodybuilding show?
01:01:29.083 --> 01:01:29.403
No.
01:01:29.403 --> 01:01:31.326
Are you obese?
01:01:31.326 --> 01:01:31.726
No.
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Are you happy with your life and where you are?
01:01:33.969 --> 01:01:34.871
Yeah.
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So what do you need?
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You know, don't, don't, don't, yeah, yeah.
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Don't, don't compare yourself to me.
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You don't owe anything to me.
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Justify what you love to do.
01:01:42.784 --> 01:01:43.226
Exactly.
01:01:43.226 --> 01:01:44.791
You love it because you love it, exactly.
01:01:46.981 --> 01:01:50.387
Bangers, yeah, so let's wrap up with that, that's an hour and one minute.
01:01:51.889 --> 01:01:56.715
Let's make the announcement and we're going to wing it to a certain extent.
01:01:56.715 --> 01:01:59.626
Not too many details, no, not too many.
01:01:59.626 --> 01:02:06.030
So understand this if you've listened to this far into the episode, and I'll make a reel about this as like a little teaser.
01:02:06.030 --> 01:02:30.148
There is no specific details here, but next week I'm going to release episode 99.5 and I've never done that before, but the reason being is because that's going to give us a few more days of preparation, because for episode 100, we're moving the studio, we're getting all the equipment and we're actually going to be live, and I mean live on instagram, live and live in person.
01:02:30.148 --> 01:02:36.027
If you want to come at Legacy Training Center in Middletown, what's the specific address?
01:02:36.980 --> 01:02:38.746
749 Saber Grove, middletown.
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Connecticut.
01:02:39.228 --> 01:02:43.331
There you go, and that's a guaranteed specific, because we're not going to switch the location.
01:02:43.331 --> 01:02:48.592
What we're working on at the moment is how we're going to run it, because it is a gym.
01:02:48.592 --> 01:02:54.132
We still want people to show up to the gym and actually work out, but we also are encouraging people to come and ask questions.
01:02:54.132 --> 01:02:56.588
You will be part of episode 100.
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We will have microphones there.
01:02:58.407 --> 01:03:00.387
There's going to be a camera guy there.
01:03:00.387 --> 01:03:02.369
I'm getting excited talking about it.
01:03:02.369 --> 01:03:04.208
I can't believe this is here.
01:03:05.643 --> 01:03:06.266
It's so crazy.
01:03:07.521 --> 01:03:08.684
There's going to be a camera there.
01:03:08.684 --> 01:03:11.193
Me Trey, chris, I'm assuming Chris is going to be a camera there me Trey Chris.
01:03:11.213 --> 01:03:12.277
I'm assuming Chris is going to be there.
01:03:12.277 --> 01:03:13.300
Samer will be there.
01:03:13.300 --> 01:03:15.606
I'm going to do my best to get Gino there, I'm sure he'll be there.
01:03:15.606 --> 01:03:16.791
Juliana's going to be there.
01:03:16.791 --> 01:03:32.876
A lot of the people that I've had on the show and wanted on the show are going to be there, and if you've ever listened to the show and you wanted to ask me or any of the guests any sort of questions, or you simply just want to have a good conversation, that's going to be the day to do it now.
01:03:32.916 --> 01:03:38.081
What day, we haven't decided yet yeah so that's where the specifics are still to be determined.
01:03:38.081 --> 01:03:41.349
Yeah, but understand that episode 100 is going to be a big one.
01:03:41.349 --> 01:03:42.893
Um, it is going to be.
01:03:42.893 --> 01:03:44.742
I expect a 10 minute.
01:03:45.041 --> 01:04:05.726
Next week we'll have the specifics yeah next week I'll release, like that, 99.5, uh, episode 99.5 will be me and maybe trey here sitting down 10 minutes tops and we're gonna be like, hey, this day, at this time, bring this, bring the questions, be part of the podcast, be part of the community.
01:04:05.726 --> 01:04:17.708
If, if you, if you guys could meet the people that I've surrounded my life with, which is what this day would really be about you're going to be nothing but quality people and it's a great place to mingle.
01:04:19.644 --> 01:04:29.635
So network is what I was looking for right, Because from all trades of life, from all different perspectives, and I really am looking forward to this.
01:04:29.635 --> 01:04:31.186
This is giving me anxiety.
01:04:31.400 --> 01:04:32.846
Yeah, this is going to be really good.
01:04:32.846 --> 01:04:35.260
So that's the announcement, right?
01:04:35.260 --> 01:04:36.284
There's nothing more than that.
01:04:36.284 --> 01:04:42.065
Yeah, so it'll be towards the end of this year, 2024, the very beginning of 2025.
01:04:42.065 -->
01:04:42.849
So that's what we're shooting for.
01:04:42.940 --> 01:04:53.240
Yeah, that's why, if I had to release episode 100 next week, it would be too last minute, which I'm nipping myself on the butt for but episode.
01:04:53.240 --> 01:04:56.469
It would be two last minute, which I'm nipping myself on the butt for, but episode 99.5.
01:04:56.469 --> 01:04:57.550
You know why we can do that?
01:04:57.550 --> 01:04:59.295
Because america, america, we can do anything we want.
01:04:59.295 --> 01:05:01.681
So episode 99.5 will be the specifics.
01:05:01.681 --> 01:05:07.871
Uh, I, I am expecting, I am expecting and I hate expectations.
01:05:07.871 --> 01:05:13.391
I'm expecting a decent sized crowd and if you really think about it, I I don't mean 50, 60 people.
01:05:13.391 --> 01:05:15.085
You put 20 people in a room.
01:05:15.085 --> 01:05:16.664
That's a crowded room.
01:05:16.784 --> 01:05:17.166
For sure.
01:05:17.166 --> 01:05:29.612
You know For sure, and 90% of the people that go to my gym legacy know of you, yeah, and they've probably always wanted to come up to you and ask you a question, or maybe it's a question.
01:05:29.612 --> 01:05:31.416
They gonna be a conversation, no matter what.
01:05:31.416 --> 01:05:34.409
So people are gonna walk and be like oh Miguel's doing a podcast let me say what's up.
01:05:34.429 --> 01:05:35.072
You know what I mean.
01:05:35.072 --> 01:05:35.876
So people are gonna come in.
01:05:35.876 --> 01:05:43.708
You know what I mean and the biggest thing is that episode 100 will be the first episode that Compounding Daily will be on YouTube.
01:05:43.708 --> 01:05:50.409
Yes, so so out, but at least come dressed, you know properly.
01:05:50.409 --> 01:05:53.534
Yeah, you know, I don't want nobody to come out.
01:05:53.534 --> 01:06:00.802
Hey, I'm gonna be like, yeah, I'm putting you on youtube like that so, uh, no, with that being said, that that's all we have.
01:06:00.983 --> 01:06:05.255
Yeah, phenomenal roulette yeah, that was great.
01:06:05.315 --> 01:06:07.483
Those were all great I don't even know how many.
01:06:07.483 --> 01:06:15.510
We did the hardest part about making the real, just finding where we started talking about why I'm hoping ai does it for me you know, I'm still learning how to work with that.
01:06:15.510 --> 01:06:18.382
Um, yeah, I'm very grateful for you guys.
01:06:18.382 --> 01:06:34.672
I always end every episode with a guest like that I have to, you know, because a conversation by myself would be valuable, but nowhere near as valuable as the perspectives you guys brought in and the extra questions you guys had on top of the questions, which is that something I'm used to if I'm alone, you know.
01:06:34.771 --> 01:06:38.425
So thank you for being here thank you for having us, bro, absolutely thank you?
01:06:38.626 --> 01:06:40.150
yeah, last minute for you too.
01:06:40.150 --> 01:06:41.762
I'd literally message him today.
01:06:41.762 --> 01:06:43.166
I'm like chris, are you available here?
01:06:43.166 --> 01:06:46.702
Today man you know because me and him talked about it last night for two seconds.
01:06:46.702 --> 01:06:48.706
I'm like yo, how do you feel about chris being there as well?
01:06:48.706 --> 01:06:50.489
And then the roulette.
01:06:50.489 --> 01:06:55.867
I love my life because I always talk about planning and I plan on doing things without the specifics.
01:06:56.268 --> 01:06:59.108
You know what I'm saying, like I, know an episode is being recorded this day.
01:06:59.108 --> 01:07:00.244
I don't know who's going to be on it.
01:07:00.244 --> 01:07:02.150
While we're talking about, we're winging it.
01:07:02.150 --> 01:07:05.028
And it always turns into what I consider value.
01:07:05.902 --> 01:07:07.387
So, thank you for being here.
01:07:07.387 --> 01:07:09.420
For you, the listener Wow.
01:07:09.420 --> 01:07:10.563
For you the listener wow.
01:07:10.563 --> 01:07:11.927
And an over an hour episode.
01:07:11.927 --> 01:07:13.550
I haven't done that in a very long time.
01:07:13.550 --> 01:07:14.882
Thank you for being here.
01:07:14.882 --> 01:07:15.846
Thank you for listening.
01:07:17.199 --> 01:07:31.831
I hope you feel the genuine conversation that we are having here as individuals, like none of us here are preaching about how humans are sad and weak and pathetic and how we're better.
01:07:31.831 --> 01:07:33.125
It's never none of that.
01:07:33.125 --> 01:07:34.362
It's strictly from.
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We're human beings, all with different goals.
01:07:37.632 --> 01:07:45.208
We have no idea how we're going to achieve them specifically, but day by day, we're earning that 1%.
01:07:45.208 --> 01:07:47.648
Day by day, we encourage each other.
01:07:47.648 --> 01:07:57.007
Day by day, we check in on each other, whether it's we see each other at the gym, whether it's a group chat, whether it at the gym, whether it's a group chat, whether it's a Snapchat, whether it's a private message, a phone call, a text message.
01:07:57.007 --> 01:08:13.963
The point is that the Compounding Daily community is becoming a community of all people aiming to be extraordinary, not by becoming copy and paste of each other's, but by all individually succeeding in your own rights, regardless of the judgment that people are going to give you.
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Boom done, banger.
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Thank you for listening and until next time.