Fuld transskription af Dancing Through Life with Tim & Tolly Sherry @timtoksherry: Finding Joy, Family & Connection | Ep 40

same elementary school for all those years, but then doing the extracurricular stuff at the secondary level. 00:04:56.879 --> 00:04:58.720 You got a little bit of everybody, yeah. 00:04:58.959 --> 00:05:00.800 Older kids and the the little kids. 00:05:01.120 --> 00:05:12.079 I tell you, it even if um since it was such a good school district, and you know, and once we were ready to have children, uh we knew that I didn't want to leave my teaching career. 00:05:12.240 --> 00:05:25.279 Um, and sure, we it was nice to have the extra income at the time, but we uh we I just it was important for me to stay there because I ended up becoming you know getting my master's in reading and becoming a reading specialist. 00:05:25.439 --> 00:05:31.759 Um, and so that also was a really important um job that I worked hard for. 00:05:31.920 --> 00:05:33.920 And so I didn't want to lose that as well. 00:05:34.079 --> 00:05:40.720 And and so we managed the working uh the working parent thing uh with our two boys. 00:05:41.040 --> 00:05:41.920 A lot to manage. 00:05:42.240 --> 00:05:43.519 That's right, as you know. 00:05:43.680 --> 00:05:45.920 Um lots lots of moving parts for sure. 00:05:46.240 --> 00:05:53.279 Yes, yes, but uh Tim got graduated with his degree in communication, so then he um maybe I can speak. 00:05:53.360 --> 00:05:54.240 Yeah, maybe you can speak. 00:05:55.360 --> 00:05:56.079 Go ahead, Tim. 00:05:56.319 --> 00:05:57.040 That's right. 00:05:57.279 --> 00:05:59.120 Yeah, so no, we met in 1983. 00:05:59.199 --> 00:06:02.319 I was she rocked the cradle, I was a freshman, she was a junior, yeah. 00:06:02.480 --> 00:06:12.000 And uh look at you, yeah, and then we got uh we got married in 89, so we've been married 37 years, but fast forward to 19 so 83, I was a freshman. 00:06:12.240 --> 00:06:17.120 1984, uh, I became the DJ at the famous it's called The Rat in Westchester. 00:06:17.279 --> 00:06:18.399 Okay, I remember hearing about that. 00:06:18.639 --> 00:06:23.279 I did that for 10 years, and that's why when people see our videos, they're like, How do you know this music? 00:06:23.360 --> 00:06:28.079 I'm like, This is what I did for 10 years, sing on the microphone and get the whole place rocking. 00:06:28.240 --> 00:06:28.560 Right. 00:06:28.720 --> 00:06:43.759 Yeah, so yeah, but uh and I've been in sales all my life, and um uh co-founder, I know we'll talk about co-founder Bring Hope Home, which is a charity we pay bills for families with cancer in six states, primarily in the Philadelphia area, but now it's gotten big uh in three other states as well. 00:06:43.839 --> 00:06:47.680 It's start up with a college buddy of mine, but we can dig into that, yeah. 00:06:47.920 --> 00:06:55.759 Um, and I was gonna ask Tali, were did you take dance lessons as a little kid or were you are you self-taught or how did you become such a dancer? 00:06:56.000 --> 00:07:08.240 And I would describe myself, I I think I'm a really good, like my girlfriend, like a

street dancer, but I I did perform um in a company in I grew up in suburban Harrisburg. 00:07:08.480 --> 00:07:08.800 Okay. 00:07:09.279 --> 00:07:17.600 So uh that's where my childhood was, and I performed in high school in um a dance company. 00:07:17.680 --> 00:07:36.560 I was one of the youngest members, and we would have uh these shows and such a lot of uh it would be a lot of uh jazz, uh hip-hop, musical theater type of uh so I did not have, interestingly enough, any of that ballet, that typical little girl training. 00:07:36.720 --> 00:07:37.360 Right, right, right. 00:07:37.839 --> 00:07:43.120 Ballet, uh no-tap, all of those traditional platforms for the little ones. 00:07:43.279 --> 00:07:51.199 Um, but I I knew I could move to music and I I sort of found my own journey in this uh dance company in high school. 00:07:51.279 --> 00:07:51.519 Okay. 00:07:51.680 --> 00:07:53.439 And then it transferred to college. 00:07:53.600 --> 00:08:02.319 There was a dance company in college as well that I auditioned for and then danced those four years uh in college as well. 00:08:02.720 --> 00:08:10.879 So um yeah, I can just feel the feel the music and the rhythm and uh see it and do it. 00:08:10.959 --> 00:08:20.079 Um you you two were kind of laying the foundation the whole time here with the and Tim, were you did are you just a really good dancer, or did you ever take take lessons or anything? 00:08:20.240 --> 00:08:22.160 Or you just feel the music when you're DJing? 00:08:22.399 --> 00:08:28.480 No, so I was a rock and roll guy all through high school, and I get to college, I hear my buddies listen to this, you know, this hip hop. 00:08:28.560 --> 00:08:30.079 I'm like, all right, I like this stuff. 00:08:30.560 --> 00:08:44.000 And then I started working my sophomore year, which was 1984 or 83, 84, and um I started working as a bouncer, and I would watch the DJ, and he would take me under his wings, like, hey, here's here's how you do it. 00:08:44.080 --> 00:08:45.919 You take these two turntables, you mix them together. 00:08:46.240 --> 00:08:52.799 Then I became developed a real love for hip-hop, uh, which what then wasn't called old school, it's called old school now. 00:08:52.960 --> 00:08:53.360 Right. 00:08:53.519 --> 00:08:55.120 Yeah, brand new. 00:08:55.519 --> 00:08:59.519 Yeah, but in terms of dancing, like uh I had a couple buddies who were great dancers. 00:08:59.600 --> 00:09:00.320 I would learn from them. 00:09:00.559 --> 00:09:02.159 Of course, I learned from the the champ here. 00:09:02.240 --> 00:09:04.799 I mean, she's I mean, she'd love to teach you, right? 00:09:05.679 --> 00:09:10.480 Yeah, and but Tim's come a long way, and I think he's a terrific dancer. 00:09:10.559 --> 00:09:19.679 He's he can hear the music and and and shake his booty like the best of them out there, and uh he's quite a ham and he loves that that that helps, right? 00:09:20.720 --> 00:09:21.919 Super fun on the dance. 00:09:22.559 --> 00:09:24.639 Just a little confidence is really all you need, right? 00:09:24.720 --> 00:09:26.720 Just and that, yeah, just own it. 00:09:27.840 --> 00:09:29.679 Yes, so uh that's so fun. 00:09:29.919 --> 00:09:33.840 Yeah, he's really he's come a long way, and now like he's the shining star. 00:09:33.919 --> 00:09:38.399 Well, I'll sort of step back on on a live dance floor and let him let him go to town. 00:09:38.480 --> 00:09:42.639 And uh well, you know, you know you were you taught him, so it's okay. 00:09:43.200 --> 00:09:48.080 Like even Tim, like that loved the the rock and roll stuff in high school forever. 00:09:48.480 --> 00:09:50.320 I love the R and B. 00:09:50.639 --> 00:09:50.960 Okay. 00:09:51.519 --> 00:09:54.960 Some that music, it it it fills my soul. 00:09:55.039 --> 00:10:08.159 You know, my first albums were, you know, that like I was a little girl, eight years old, and had the Jackson 5, and you know, and growing into T my teen years, it was all Earth, Wind, and Fire and Brothers Johnson. 00:10:08.240 --> 00:10:17.679 And so my love, my genre forever was all RB stuff, simply because I could move to it, I could hear it, I could dance to it. 00:10:17.759 --> 00:10:18.799 I I loved it. 00:10:18.960 --> 00:10:23.039 So um it that that was just always a part of who I was. 00:10:23.759 --> 00:10:25.600 And do you like new stuff too? 00:10:25.759 --> 00:10:27.120 Like hip hop RB or other? 00:10:27.919 --> 00:10:28.399 I love it. 00:10:28.559 --> 00:10:34.480 Even this the raunchy stuff with the bad lyrics, like they don't have awesome lyrics anymore. 00:10:34.559 --> 00:10:37.679 But uh I can't my boy's like mom. 00:10:38.320 --> 00:10:44.559 He's I I just that the you know, I can just that rhythm just it just resonates with me. 00:10:44.639 --> 00:10:47.679 And I love the new stuff to the window to the wall. 00:10:48.000 --> 00:10:51.039 I have my sometimes my children answer me, okay. 00:10:51.200 --> 00:10:53.039 And I'm like, I've done my job as a parent. 00:10:53.200 --> 00:11:00.240 That's a clean version, clean version, but you know, I'm like, yeah, no, they're they're yeah, all of that, all of that new stuff, every uh any of it. 00:11:00.320 --> 00:11:01.679 I some you're right, though. 00:11:01.759 --> 00:11:04.240 Sometimes the beat just gets you, and you're like, can't stop. 00:11:04.799 --> 00:11:05.200 That's right. 00:11:05.600 --> 00:11:07.200 And tell us about your kids. 00:11:07.360 --> 00:11:09.200 You have two yes, two sons? 00:11:09.440 --> 00:11:12.559 Okay, two boys, yeah, 34 and 31. 00:11:12.720 --> 00:11:14.480 Yes, they were born. 00:11:14.559 --> 00:11:20.960 Uh our we have two sons, um, and they uh were born in yeah, 92 and 94. 00:11:21.200 --> 00:11:27.679 Okay, three school years apart, and uh what wonderful kids had a great journey back then. 00:11:27.840 --> 00:11:32.399 Um it was a contractual thing, we were able to bring them into the school district where we were. 00:11:32.559 --> 00:11:33.120 Oh, yeah.

00:11:33.360 --> 00:11:36.240 So uh it was a joy to all be together. 00:11:36.480 --> 00:11:58.399 Um and so the uh we uh would get through a work week and everyone's working super hard, and we would you know go down into our you know finished basement and crank up the music and dance and play and dance and um just just blow off steam. 00:11:58.480 --> 00:12:01.039 And that's just sort of how the boys grew up. 00:12:01.279 --> 00:12:02.320 What happy memories? 00:12:02.480 --> 00:12:03.919 Like what what happy memories? 00:12:04.639 --> 00:12:06.080 Yeah, it was just who we were. 00:12:06.399 --> 00:12:11.039 I mean we would have birthday parties for the boys and it'd be all our families, and it would just turn into dance parties. 00:12:11.120 --> 00:12:11.200 Yeah. 00:12:13.759 --> 00:12:17.519 I'd be turned, I'd you know, be in charge of the music, the music, the whole place dancing, yeah. 00:12:17.600 --> 00:12:20.799 So we can't yeah, it's just sort of who we were. 00:12:20.960 --> 00:12:30.480 It wasn't anything we read, and you need to you know dance with your it's just the essence of what we did before we had children, you know. 00:12:30.720 --> 00:12:37.840 So it just we just taught them well, it's funny with all this social media attention, everyone's like, Aren't your children embarrassed? 00:12:38.000 --> 00:12:40.480 I'm like, oh my gosh, this is all they know. 00:12:41.279 --> 00:12:41.840 Like, doesn't it? 00:12:42.159 --> 00:12:43.600 We've been watching them dance forever. 00:12:43.840 --> 00:12:49.200 Like, doesn't every parent like dance with their with their children on you know all weekend long? 00:12:49.279 --> 00:12:53.440 But apparently we just thought, you know, that was just normal for us. 00:12:53.519 --> 00:12:57.840 Um and uh it was what it's just wonderful memories, you know. 00:12:57.919 --> 00:12:58.720 So great. 00:12:58.799 --> 00:13:09.519 All right, I want to get back to that in a minute, but I have a question for you because for transparency of everyone, Tali teaches at the school where my children go now, but you were not there when my children were there. 00:13:09.679 --> 00:13:15.360 But my kids always say to me, because I teach in a neighboring district, they're like, We wish you taught at our school. 00:13:15.440 --> 00:13:21.919 And I'm like, You don't, yeah, you don't like like everybody needs a little of their own stuff, absolutely. 00:13:22.159 --> 00:13:26.879 You know, and they so taught like because I often when they were little, I was like, Oh, I'd love to take them to work with me. 00:13:26.960 --> 00:13:30.080 And now I'm like, no, but tell me how was that? 00:13:30.159 --> 00:13:32.000 Like, did they have to call you Mrs. 00:13:32.159 --> 00:13:33.759 Sherry when they saw you in the school? 00:13:33.919 --> 00:13:35.039 Did you ever teach them? 00:13:35.200 --> 00:13:40.240 Like, I mean, it was the 90s, so it was probably a little different than it is now, but what was that experience like teaching? 00:13:40.559 --> 00:13:44.639 Yeah, well, especially at the elementary level, and we're all in the same building. 00:13:44.960 --> 00:13:52.559 I really, in my respect and my admiration for their teachers, their classroom teachers. 00:13:53.039 --> 00:14:00.080 I we even at conference time, they're like they they would say, Oh, you know all this, you know, you're reading special. 00:14:00.320 --> 00:14:06.240 You know, I go, I tell me, I am I have my parent hat on. 00:14:06.399 --> 00:14:16.799 And so all of my knowledge is out the way the window, and I want you to know that we are only talking about our my children right now. 00:14:17.120 --> 00:14:25.679 Um, and and um I want you to, you know, I would tell that teacher, I want you to be in the driver's seat. 00:14:26.000 --> 00:14:36.080 I am a parent like all the parents in this classroom, and I want you to tell me your expertise as a third grade teacher. 00:14:36.399 --> 00:14:40.080 Tell me what what you're driving this train. 00:14:40.159 --> 00:14:44.399 And I once I felt really um, I I felt great. 00:14:44.480 --> 00:14:56.799 I I I heard other sometimes it's not a good uh relationship with that because I I never wanted to come in as the expert and I knew more that I know more or anything. 00:14:56.960 --> 00:15:03.039 Yeah, I'm the humble emotional parent, and I wanted to put them at ease. 00:15:03.200 --> 00:15:10.320 Um and I'm sure they appreciated that because that could be, especially if you were friends with them, like a very awkward place to be for everyone. 00:15:10.799 --> 00:15:25.519 No, I truthfully um always take took that role and then it carried into the middle school and high school for sure, because real, I mean, I really was that just that humble parent because then I was out of my comfort zone. 00:15:25.600 --> 00:15:29.039 You know, you get in sixth, seventh, and and ninth and tenth, you know. 00:15:29.360 --> 00:15:36.960 So um I wanted them to know out of the gate that I was a humble and emotional mother. 00:15:37.440 --> 00:16:05.200 And um and it it just it just was our our green light as far as uh putting that child first, um uh putting the child first and letting them know everything that they're sharing with me is from a mother, uh uh, you know, an innocent mother's uh ears and um and and them to never ever and it just it worked out fine for both boys. 00:16:05.279 --> 00:16:13.519 So that and don't you feel like as the mother, like you're saying, you can be standing in a classroom and know exactly what needs to happen for the kids in that classroom. 00:16:13.679 --> 00:16:26.960 But I was actually talking to somebody at school today about one of my kids, and I was like, if this were a kid in my class, I would do exactly like what the script said, you know, and I said, but it's my child, and we're at home, and I don't feel like having the argument for three hours. 00:16:27.039 --> 00:16:33.840 So sometimes I give in and I know that's you know, and

you're like, so you are, you're just you're like, I'm just the parent, so just help me. 00:16:34.159 --> 00:16:35.679 Yeah, yes, exactly. 00:16:35.840 --> 00:16:37.519 I I have a dear friend of mine. 00:16:37.679 --> 00:16:47.440 She um she said she did, she's uh she her uh children were in a neighboring school district and she was really at home. 00:16:47.600 --> 00:16:50.559 She um she's like, I'm really pulling my hair out. 00:16:50.639 --> 00:16:51.519 I need you to help me. 00:16:51.679 --> 00:16:57.200 She said, so and so is really struggling, and every night we go through this and this and this and this. 00:16:57.600 --> 00:17:01.519 And I I told her, I said, she goes, you you have to help me. 00:17:01.679 --> 00:17:03.360 I said, you know what you need to do? 00:17:03.600 --> 00:17:05.200 You need to be his mother. 00:17:06.400 --> 00:17:08.880 And you're not the teacher, and not his teacher. 00:17:09.039 --> 00:17:13.759 And she looked at me, it was she just taught you like it was like a slap in the face. 00:17:14.240 --> 00:17:19.119 She said, that was the best advice anyone has ever told me. 00:17:19.279 --> 00:17:20.960 I said, put all of it away. 00:17:21.119 --> 00:17:22.960 Yeah, pretend you know nothing. 00:17:23.200 --> 00:17:25.920 And so and just be his mom. 00:17:26.079 --> 00:17:30.400 And she said from that they turn the corner and from that point on. 00:17:30.640 --> 00:17:36.079 So it's very it's a really interesting hat to wear as a working mom and as a teacher, mom. 00:17:36.400 --> 00:17:36.720 Yes. 00:17:36.799 --> 00:17:37.279 Yes, yes. 00:17:37.519 --> 00:17:47.680 My just the other day we were working on fraction homework, and um my son told me that I really didn't know how to do it or what I was saying, and I was really confusing. 00:17:47.759 --> 00:17:52.799 And and I was like, okay, that's cool because I've taught fractions for like 24 years, but that's fine. 00:17:53.039 --> 00:18:00.000 And uh, you know, and he came home the next day and he's like, Well, we had a small group in math, and the teacher explained it so much better than you do. 00:18:00.079 --> 00:18:03.200 And I was like, Okay, well, that's fine because that's how the kids in my class feel. 00:18:03.279 --> 00:18:06.799 They think I do a really good job of explaining it, and their parents know nothing, so I'm good. 00:18:06.880 --> 00:18:07.359 We're good. 00:18:07.680 --> 00:18:08.160 That's right. 00:18:08.720 --> 00:18:10.319 I know absolutely nothing. 00:18:11.200 --> 00:18:14.720 And you never know how your child is hearing you. 00:18:14.960 --> 00:18:23.440 Yes, is it's that's nothing to do with what you're saying, but how your child is receiving what you're saying, it's another, it's another take on it, you know? 00:18:23.680 --> 00:18:25.039 Yeah, yeah, it's very true. 00:18:25.200 --> 00:18:26.000 And I have to laugh. 00:18:26.079 --> 00:18:29.680 You'll laugh at this too, because I've worked in an elementary school. 00:18:29.839 --> 00:18:36.160 Whenever I go into the office of my children's own school, I'm friendly with the secretaries and friendly with the teachers. 00:18:36.240 --> 00:18:38.160 And I'm always like, I have to leave. 00:18:38.240 --> 00:18:39.759 Like, I should not be this comfortable. 00:18:39.920 --> 00:18:42.880 It's like I'm very comfortable in the school office, but I do not work here. 00:18:43.039 --> 00:18:43.680 I'm a parent. 00:18:43.839 --> 00:18:44.559 I'm really sorry. 00:18:44.880 --> 00:18:46.720 Like, you know, you're so great. 00:18:46.799 --> 00:18:47.599 I'm like, no, no, no. 00:18:47.680 --> 00:18:53.359 But like I know my place and I need to like, you know, you have to keep that as like, I'm not an employee here. 00:18:53.440 --> 00:18:59.359 So I need to be a parent, even though you know I I kind of know the inner workings of you know, school. 00:18:59.519 --> 00:19:03.039 But anyway, um, yes, I think that I'm glad it worked for you. 00:19:03.200 --> 00:19:07.039 I think it's best for all of the wine riches that we have two separate schools to be. 00:19:07.359 --> 00:19:07.759 Oh, yeah. 00:19:07.920 --> 00:19:12.480 That's it's a it's a great, yeah, a great, you know, there's just that space. 00:19:12.720 --> 00:19:14.240 There is respectful space. 00:19:14.640 --> 00:19:16.480 They have their day, I have my day. 00:19:16.559 --> 00:19:17.599 So it yeah, that's great. 00:19:18.559 --> 00:19:19.359 That's good stuff. 00:19:19.599 --> 00:19:20.000 All right. 00:19:20.079 --> 00:19:26.319 So going back to the social media, did you ever imagine that you would become this social media association? 00:19:26.480 --> 00:19:27.519 Look at Tim's face. 00:19:27.599 --> 00:19:27.759 No. 00:19:29.119 --> 00:19:40.160 I mean, I I've always wanted to do something like this because everyone, every wedding we go to, everyone's like, You gotta do something with all the crazy dancing, getting the soul train lines going, all that stuff. 00:19:40.319 --> 00:19:44.880 I had tried a couple things, but it it the wedding of our youngest son. 00:19:44.960 --> 00:19:47.680 We had two wet both of our boys got married in the last 10 months. 00:19:47.839 --> 00:19:48.720 Oh, that's fun. 00:19:48.799 --> 00:19:49.599 That's a fun year. 00:19:49.759 --> 00:19:51.839 Yes, and expensive at the same time. 00:19:51.920 --> 00:19:57.920 Yeah, but anywho, yeah, our youngest got married September of last year, and that's what launched everything. 00:19:58.079 --> 00:20:01.279 Was we posted a dance of Tolly and youngest Brad. 00:20:01.359 --> 00:20:03.759 They choreographed this amazing mother's mother's son. 00:20:04.079 --> 00:20:04.480 Solid. 00:20:05.039 --> 00:20:08.480 Um, it was good yeah, and and that's so I put that on the day after the wedding. 00:20:08.559 --> 00:20:09.920 I'm like, all right, where are all these followers? 00:20:10.240 --> 00:20:14.160 Where is this so you you just put it on your own like personal put it on? 00:20:14.400 --> 00:20:16.319 Yeah, put

it on Instagram and Facebook. 00:20:16.720 --> 00:20:21.039 His handle was t sherry45, like his own personal and tick tock. 00:20:21.119 --> 00:20:23.519 And and all of a sudden, like, okay, where is where's all this? 00:20:23.599 --> 00:20:26.720 And we had maybe I maybe a couple, I don't know, 500 followers or whatever. 00:20:26.799 --> 00:20:32.480 If that wow, and um, and then a couple days later, I'll never forget, I was going to New York for business. 00:20:32.559 --> 00:20:33.599 It was a Wednesday. 00:20:33.839 --> 00:20:45.599 Our oldest son texted, sent us a video of Tolly and I dancing to our requested song, which is called Planet Rock, an old pop song from the 80s, and we put that on and it completely blew up. 00:20:45.839 --> 00:20:47.839 In fact, I reposted it twice. 00:20:47.920 --> 00:20:54.400 I reposted it uh a week and a half ago because of um because of our just to recognize our son's one year anniversary. 00:20:54.559 --> 00:20:59.680 Okay 1.3 million in the last week and a half, but overall it's probably 10 million views. 00:21:00.000 --> 00:21:03.519 Oh my gosh, it just keeps it people just like it goes nuts. 00:21:03.599 --> 00:21:04.480 I can't figure it out. 00:21:04.559 --> 00:21:14.400 But then from that point on, my daughter-in-law is a content creator, and she's like, All right, just FYI, either you do something about this or you're gonna lose all your followers. 00:21:14.640 --> 00:21:15.279 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 00:21:15.359 --> 00:21:16.960 It's like the gift that keeps on giving. 00:21:17.119 --> 00:21:17.359 Right. 00:21:17.440 --> 00:21:27.680 So from that point on, we started these music videos, and then a month into it, Snoop reposted us, and like all these celebrities start following and liking, and then it just took off from there. 00:21:27.759 --> 00:21:32.240 And now it's like in one year 400,000 followers on Instagram and 300,000 on TikTok. 00:21:32.640 --> 00:21:34.880 It's crazy, isn't it crazy how that happens? 00:21:35.200 --> 00:21:44.160 Like, and I don't know when you came onto like my radar, I feel like it was in the spring, and I just kept like seeing your videos pop up, and I was like, These people are fun, and I followed them. 00:21:44.240 --> 00:21:56.640 And then Tim, you were wearing a shirt with the school district's name on it, and I was like, Wait a minute, this is I thought you were in like Missouri, I didn't know anything about you, and then I was like, Yeah, what song was that? 00:21:56.799 --> 00:21:57.759 It was more bounced to the ounce. 00:21:57.839 --> 00:21:59.519 It was when the great valve the great valve, right? 00:22:01.440 --> 00:22:02.240 Yeah, our youngest play. 00:22:04.640 --> 00:22:05.680 Yeah, so then that's okay. 00:22:06.000 --> 00:22:09.440 And then um, yeah, so and then I was like, wait a minute, these people are local. 00:22:09.599 --> 00:22:10.799 This makes it even more fun. 00:22:11.119 --> 00:22:19.680 Um and and what would be one thing outside of the social media blow up, what would be one thing that people would be surprised to learn about each one of you? 00:22:20.079 --> 00:22:21.279 That's a great question. 00:22:21.440 --> 00:22:23.279 What would they be surprised? 00:22:24.640 --> 00:22:25.279 Wow. 00:22:27.599 --> 00:22:32.160 I mean, our our age, yeah, 23 and 25, right? 00:22:32.720 --> 00:22:34.559 We're 10 years, at least 10 years younger. 00:22:35.599 --> 00:22:38.240 Everyone thinks we're Gen X, and I always correct them like the boomers. 00:22:38.559 --> 00:22:40.559 But we're at the very cusp. 00:22:40.720 --> 00:22:47.680 Apparently, there is some term because we are at the very like right at the beginning of the Gen X. 00:22:48.000 --> 00:22:54.799 Um it and because of what we look like, of that, you know, they they're always surprised by our age. 00:22:55.119 --> 00:22:56.319 You're just such spring chickens. 00:22:56.960 --> 00:22:57.440 I guess. 00:22:57.599 --> 00:23:01.759 I guess, but um, but I don't think that's a really good answer to the I think it's a great answer, actually. 00:23:02.000 --> 00:23:02.880 Yeah, it is a good answer. 00:23:02.960 --> 00:23:12.079 Yeah, that you're so like you know, hip and fun and dancing to the you know, to the hip hop music that most people wouldn't wouldn't be into. 00:23:12.240 --> 00:23:12.960 So sure. 00:23:14.559 --> 00:23:15.759 Um yeah, I never know. 00:23:15.839 --> 00:23:16.480 I always forget. 00:23:16.559 --> 00:23:18.559 I think I'm on the edge of a generation. 00:23:18.640 --> 00:23:22.559 So like people say I think I'm a millennial, but like I'm not really. 00:23:22.720 --> 00:23:24.079 I like you know what I mean. 00:23:24.160 --> 00:23:25.759 I think it was like in the last six months or something. 00:23:25.839 --> 00:23:26.960 I'm like, I'm not a millennial. 00:23:27.119 --> 00:23:28.079 Yeah, yes, exactly. 00:23:28.240 --> 00:23:29.200 I'm an old lady, yeah. 00:23:29.440 --> 00:23:32.640 I feel more, I truthfully feel much more Gen X. 00:23:32.880 --> 00:23:37.440 I I mean, truthfully, I then go with it, shave five years off and go with it, right? 00:23:37.599 --> 00:23:39.039 Yeah, like maybe no, I'm old. 00:23:42.640 --> 00:23:43.039 Wait a minute. 00:23:43.599 --> 00:23:44.480 We're not that well. 00:23:44.559 --> 00:23:46.240 Gen X started in 65. 00:23:46.480 --> 00:23:46.720 Yeah. 00:23:46.960 --> 00:23:47.759 We were born before that. 00:23:48.000 --> 00:23:50.559 Yes, and Tim, yeah, Tim 64. 00:23:50.640 --> 00:23:51.599 Like whoopty do. 00:23:51.839 --> 00:23:52.240 Okay, right. 00:23:52.400 --> 00:23:53.599 We'll put you, we'll put you in. 00:23:53.680 --> 00:23:55.039 You're not, yeah, you're you're we're not. 00:23:56.319 --> 00:23:57.519 We'll say we'll say Gen X. 00:23:58.000 --> 00:23:59.920 Um, and you already told us how you met. 00:24:00.079 --> 00:24:00.960 So you met at college. 00:24:01.119 --> 00:24:02.960 Who made the first move since Tim? 00:24:03.119 --> 00:24:04.000 You were a younger one.

00:24:04.160 --> 00:24:05.759 Go ahead, tell us how'd that happen. 00:24:06.079 --> 00:24:08.079 No, we met at a 10K party, yeah. 00:24:08.319 --> 00:24:10.240 122 Lacey Street in Westchester. 00:24:10.720 --> 00:24:12.160 All right, she was friends with my sister. 00:24:12.319 --> 00:24:14.160 Yes, I did not know. 00:24:14.319 --> 00:24:18.000 Tim, Tim, I did not know she had this younger. 00:24:18.480 --> 00:24:25.519 I was we were playing some inner murals, and I'm like, oh my gosh, there's that cute boy who I heard is a freshman. 00:24:25.680 --> 00:24:26.720 And was she like, what? 00:24:27.119 --> 00:24:28.960 He's like, Oh my god, that's my brother. 00:24:29.119 --> 00:24:31.119 I'm like, oh my gosh. 00:24:31.759 --> 00:24:40.160 So yeah, so he got word that I was gonna be at this party, and he came off a date and showed up at the party, and and then the rest is history. 00:24:40.319 --> 00:24:42.000 We did hit it off. 00:24:42.480 --> 00:24:44.400 You know, we really hit it off. 00:24:44.480 --> 00:24:46.799 Um was it okay with your uh Tim? 00:24:46.880 --> 00:24:49.279 Is your was your sister okay with it or a little weirded out? 00:24:49.599 --> 00:24:49.920 Okay, yeah. 00:24:50.319 --> 00:24:53.279 She's like, you know, still dear friends with Yeah, she's a dear friend. 00:24:53.839 --> 00:24:54.240 Okay, good. 00:24:54.319 --> 00:24:55.440 So it all worked out well. 00:24:55.519 --> 00:24:57.039 Yeah, oh yeah, yeah. 00:24:57.359 --> 00:25:05.680 All right, uh, Tim, let's talk about because Tali, we kind of talked about your time in education and you were a classroom teacher and then you were a reading specialist for a longer time. 00:25:05.759 --> 00:25:06.240 Is that right? 00:25:06.319 --> 00:25:06.480 Okay. 00:25:06.720 --> 00:25:08.799 Yeah, most of my career was a reading specialist. 00:25:08.880 --> 00:25:09.119 Okay. 00:25:09.519 --> 00:25:11.599 Yeah, like seven years I was in the classroom. 00:25:11.839 --> 00:25:13.839 And what did you teach in the when you were in the classroom? 00:25:14.079 --> 00:25:15.759 So uh mostly fourth grade. 00:25:15.839 --> 00:25:18.559 I was love fourth graders. 00:25:18.799 --> 00:25:19.759 I call it the promised land. 00:25:19.920 --> 00:25:25.039 I'm like, that's right, new stuff, you know, but they still want to talk about like their birthday lobby. 00:25:25.599 --> 00:25:27.599 And then you can be like, you're making me crazy. 00:25:27.680 --> 00:25:28.720 And they're like, okay, sorry, Mrs. 00:25:28.799 --> 00:25:29.200 Weinrich. 00:25:29.279 --> 00:25:30.880 And I'm like, love you, go do your work. 00:25:31.279 --> 00:25:35.039 Like, okay, you know, like they get they get it, they have senses of humor. 00:25:35.200 --> 00:25:43.920 Um, and Tim, um, if you want to tell us anything about sales, you can, but if you would like to talk about bringing hope home, that would be lovely as well. 00:25:44.160 --> 00:25:47.920 Yeah, uh in a nutshell, I was in radio and TV sales for 25 years. 00:25:48.000 --> 00:25:50.000 Uh oh, you music again, huh? 00:25:50.240 --> 00:25:51.599 Just uh it's all coming together. 00:25:51.920 --> 00:25:54.400 Ironically was KYW News Radio for 13 years. 00:25:54.559 --> 00:25:54.880 Okay. 00:25:55.119 --> 00:25:56.240 Sold advertising there. 00:25:56.400 --> 00:26:01.279 I was at Com uh Comcast for seven years selling television, then it was 975 The Fanatic. 00:26:01.440 --> 00:26:07.680 Uh, and then I got out of that in 2015, got into technology, and I've been in technology since 2015. 00:26:07.839 --> 00:26:07.920 Okay. 00:26:08.240 --> 00:26:11.440 Uh technology sales recruitment comp combination of stuff. 00:26:11.519 --> 00:26:14.079 But um, yeah, but bringing hope home. 00:26:14.640 --> 00:26:21.440 So that started in so my buddy, college buddy Paul Eisenberg, um, he was at our wedding in 1989. 00:26:21.599 --> 00:26:26.960 We lost touch, and I found out that his wife at the time was undergoing cancer. 00:26:27.119 --> 00:26:28.640 And so we reconnected. 00:26:28.799 --> 00:26:33.279 And she would always he would always come home and say, Hey, uh, hey, I bumped into so-and-so today. 00:26:33.359 --> 00:26:33.920 What a great guy. 00:26:34.000 --> 00:26:35.680 And and I bumped into this person, what a great guy. 00:26:35.759 --> 00:26:36.559 She's like, you know what? 00:26:36.720 --> 00:26:39.119 Put together an event and raise money for cancer. 00:26:39.200 --> 00:26:39.839 So we started. 00:26:41.839 --> 00:26:43.519 It was called the great, it's called the Great Guys Dinner. 00:26:43.599 --> 00:26:49.279 So we just finished we just finished our 26th year, but it's not all guys, it's primarily it's 50-50 with men and women. 00:26:49.519 --> 00:26:56.480 It's gotten so big that we we have uh, you know, we usually have a celebrity come in from out of town and speaks uh uh speaks. 00:26:56.799 --> 00:27:03.119 But um so that our money for the first eight years till 2008 uh went to coaches versus cancer. 00:27:03.279 --> 00:27:12.240 So we worked with the Philly big five can't uh coaches, Joe Martelli, Jay Wright, uh Fran Dunfey, and then we formed our own charity in 2008, Bringing Hope Home. 00:27:12.319 --> 00:27:19.279 And since then, 2008, I want to say we've raised um I'm trying to uh off the top of my head of like 12 million dollars. 00:27:19.440 --> 00:27:22.559 Wow, and we've helped over 12,000 families. 00:27:22.880 --> 00:27:31.279 We pay bills for families with cancer, started in the Philadelphia area, but now we're also into Connecticut, New York, and uh uh Maryland. 00:27:31.359 --> 00:27:32.720 Yeah, that's amazing. 00:27:32.960 --> 00:27:36.480 And I'm gonna link uh Bringing Hope Home in the show notes. 00:27:36.559 --> 00:27:43.119 So if people are interested in finding out more or um, you know, donating, they can do that all through the website, correct? 00:27:43.440 --> 00:27:44.559 That's great.org, yeah. 00:27:44.799 --> 00:27:48.079 Okay, and uh and I guess it would oh bring

okay, bringing hope home.org. 00:27:48.160 --> 00:27:54.160 And I guess there's I'm assuming there's like a a process for for uh applying to be a benefactor. 00:27:55.279 --> 00:27:57.599 Because I'm now in there on Thursdays volunteering. 00:27:58.079 --> 00:27:58.319 Okay. 00:27:59.279 --> 00:28:09.839 So it's just a really they they they've now they have in those um the the great guys' dinner is now one of the five signature events. 00:28:10.079 --> 00:28:10.400 Okay. 00:28:10.640 --> 00:28:15.440 And then they have corporate sponsors, and then they have these smaller events. 00:28:15.599 --> 00:28:19.599 Um, but they form this, you know, nonprofit, what is it called? 00:28:19.680 --> 00:28:20.960 A 50103. 00:28:21.200 --> 00:28:22.240 501c3. 00:28:22.480 --> 00:28:34.880 They've got this legitimate for real uh board of directors, and the the organization now has maybe nine employees and uh 12. 00:28:35.039 --> 00:28:39.920 Or yeah, they've got an office right there down, you know, right there on Sweetsford Road. 00:28:40.000 --> 00:28:44.160 And yes, um uh I was getting to a point. 00:28:44.319 --> 00:28:46.720 I was what was I uh talking about? 00:28:46.960 --> 00:28:55.920 Um well we so we have we the major events and we also have like schools, like there's oh the Haverford Middle School does these Olympics every year. 00:28:56.079 --> 00:29:00.400 They raise like a hundred and twenty-five thousand dollars a year. 00:29:00.559 --> 00:29:02.240 Yeah, it's unbelievable. 00:29:02.720 --> 00:29:11.920 So, you know, bringing now if once you get on the website, oh we I was get telling you how these families get um get found. 00:29:12.319 --> 00:29:12.960 Oh, yes, right. 00:29:13.039 --> 00:29:14.160 I forgot my question too. 00:29:14.319 --> 00:29:14.559 Go ahead. 00:29:15.440 --> 00:29:20.240 The local families of the families from the hospital, so there's a family department, okay. 00:29:20.400 --> 00:29:37.200 You know, there's a social media department, there's a the financial department, their family department has relationships with all of the the cancer hospitals in in this whole tri-state, really all the way up into New York, Fox Chase, everybody. 00:29:37.359 --> 00:29:42.640 Um, and the family department has a relationship with the social workers in the hospitals. 00:29:42.880 --> 00:29:55.920 And the social workers, if they see a family that that they are getting a vibe that they're in in need, the social worker helps the family fill out it's called the Light of Hope Grant. 00:29:56.079 --> 00:29:56.319 Okay. 00:29:56.640 --> 00:30:08.880 That they um they will every month uh they will then give a certain amount of families a thousand dollars um with this light of hope grant. 00:30:09.039 --> 00:30:15.599 So the social workers then contact us and then they help the them with their application. 00:30:15.839 --> 00:30:37.759 And then bringing hope home, rather than handing the family a check, which is um not what we want, they they re they get the um they get the account numbers for their electric bill, their rent, okay, mortgage, their water bill, their, you know, all of that. 00:30:38.000 --> 00:30:47.519 And so they will then they will pay directly so that they're not evicted, let's say they've three months behind in their rent, okay. 00:30:47.759 --> 00:30:56.079 So to keep them, you know, and then they'll also pay for groceries or acme cards and gift cards and stuff like that. 00:30:56.240 --> 00:30:58.960 So they just do it directly to wherever that's right. 00:30:59.440 --> 00:31:11.920 So that's these social, these wonderful social workers working with our family department that are they're just paying the bills directly so they don't have to feel buried underneath all of this other stuff. 00:31:12.400 --> 00:31:13.920 But it just kind of gets taken care of. 00:31:14.319 --> 00:31:15.519 It's taken care of. 00:31:15.680 --> 00:31:30.319 So they're not paying for their medical bills, they're not helping at that with that regard, but they're just you know bringing hope home, they're you know, paying for that roof over their head, you know, and all that and what a what a weight off of those people's shoulders, okay. 00:31:30.720 --> 00:31:31.680 They're focusing on. 00:31:31.920 --> 00:31:41.279 And um, if a I know that our high school, I just saw, I think our field hockey team um did a fundraiser, I believe, if that sounds right. 00:31:41.519 --> 00:31:43.039 My my school district. 00:31:43.200 --> 00:31:47.440 Um, so if somebody is interested in starting their own fundraiser, they can also find that on the website. 00:31:47.759 --> 00:31:48.079 Exactly. 00:31:48.160 --> 00:31:51.759 And that's the thing, the people want to do stuff, but they don't know who to give it to. 00:31:51.920 --> 00:31:52.160 Right. 00:31:52.400 --> 00:32:03.119 And a lot of these wonderful, you know, schools or or you know, other churches, or they'll they'll then donate um, you know, to to bringing hope home. 00:32:03.200 --> 00:32:06.000 So it's and it's nice for people who live in the Philadelphia area. 00:32:06.079 --> 00:32:16.079 I have listeners all over the world, but you know, for people especially who live in the Philadelphia area, if you're listening and you're interested, that's bringing hope home or anyone, anyone. 00:32:16.160 --> 00:32:24.480 But it's it is nice also, I feel like when you're donating to a charity, you like to keep it, you know, kind of where you are, so you feel like you're impacting the people who near you. 00:32:24.640 --> 00:32:25.759 So okay, well, great. 00:32:25.839 --> 00:32:31.200 Then we'll we'll definitely link that in the show notes so people who are interested um can can find out more. 00:32:31.359 --> 00:32:34.079 All right, let's move on to our win and challenge of the week. 00:32:34.240 --> 00:32:35.680 Um, Tally, do you want to do a win? 00:32:35.759 --> 00:32:38.160 And Tim, you do a challenge or the other way around? 00:32:38.319 --> 00:32:39.440

What would you what would you like? 00:32:39.599 --> 00:32:40.799 You can each take one. 00:32:41.039 --> 00:32:47.200 Wait, when you say explain that more, but a win, like what was something good, something great that happened to you this week. 00:32:47.440 --> 00:32:48.240 Oh, this week. 00:32:48.400 --> 00:32:50.640 Well, or anytime recently, that's okay, Tim. 00:32:51.279 --> 00:32:57.279 Well, the the big win was uh we've had to develop this great relationship with Damon John of a Shark Tank. 00:32:57.440 --> 00:32:58.559 Okay, oh, that is great. 00:32:58.720 --> 00:32:59.920 Yeah, and he reached out to us. 00:33:00.000 --> 00:33:02.880 He we went to his house and we he's in one of our videos. 00:33:03.039 --> 00:33:03.359 Okay. 00:33:03.519 --> 00:33:08.079 And uh last night we posted, they sent us this box that's called Shark World. 00:33:08.319 --> 00:33:09.200 Oh, yes, I saw that. 00:33:09.279 --> 00:33:10.240 I didn't get to watch the whole thing. 00:33:10.319 --> 00:33:10.960 Okay, explain it. 00:33:11.519 --> 00:33:12.400 So that was really cool. 00:33:12.480 --> 00:33:14.480 The fact that, you know, and Damon loved it. 00:33:14.559 --> 00:33:18.640 He gave us these great props uh on the post, and so that's great. 00:33:18.720 --> 00:33:28.079 And then we're working getting closer, closer, closer to launching our first national dance party, which might be which might be starting somewhere in this area. 00:33:28.240 --> 00:33:32.240 I'm I just a little maybe, okay. 00:33:32.480 --> 00:33:37.839 Yeah, because we vote by there's all kinds of voting by cities called funkyfresh danceparty.com. 00:33:38.000 --> 00:33:38.240 Okay. 00:33:38.480 --> 00:33:38.880 So yeah. 00:33:39.119 --> 00:33:41.200 Well, and another win you sign that contract with that. 00:33:41.519 --> 00:33:42.799 Yeah, we have we have another one. 00:33:43.279 --> 00:33:44.720 Oh keep going, go ahead. 00:33:44.960 --> 00:33:56.640 We we just uh connected with a uh with a management firm who's gonna handle our um are we allowed to say what it's yeah, it's management millennial yeah, it's called Millennial Entertainment. 00:33:56.799 --> 00:34:03.279 Okay, so uh from they're gonna be managing us, you know, appearances and brands and all that, and they're they're really good people. 00:34:03.359 --> 00:34:04.640 So that's great. 00:34:04.799 --> 00:34:09.920 I'll link them too, just in case anybody's looking for for a uh uh millennial entertainment, sure. 00:34:10.639 --> 00:34:11.199 Entertainment. 00:34:11.440 --> 00:34:15.199 And um, Tolly, did you have a challenge or do you want to stick with the win? 00:34:15.599 --> 00:34:18.159 We're right now, we're sort of like positive people. 00:34:19.119 --> 00:34:22.800 Uh did you did you lose your electricity in the nor'easter? 00:34:24.320 --> 00:34:24.719 We did not. 00:34:24.800 --> 00:34:25.280 We did not. 00:34:25.360 --> 00:34:25.519 Okay. 00:34:36.000 --> 00:34:37.840 And a nice retirement challenge, right? 00:34:38.400

--> 00:34:42.000 There's the light and breezy challenge, like you know, it's all relative. 00:34:42.559 --> 00:34:43.119 Well, that's good. 00:34:43.199 --> 00:34:43.599 I like that. 00:34:43.679 --> 00:34:44.719 You had a pretty good week. 00:34:44.880 --> 00:34:57.840 Um, my challenge this week, I will say, was it's kind of silly, but I wore braces for four years as a teenager and wore a retainer for over 20 years and stopped wearing it like five years ago. 00:34:57.920 --> 00:34:58.559 And guess what? 00:34:58.639 --> 00:34:59.280 My teeth moved. 00:34:59.360 --> 00:34:59.840 So the dentist. 00:35:00.559 --> 00:35:01.920 Yeah, I was like, who knew that this? 00:35:02.000 --> 00:35:04.079 I was like, no, but I I wore the retainer for decades. 00:35:04.239 --> 00:35:06.079 And she's like, Yeah, you have to wear it forever. 00:35:06.400 --> 00:35:09.119 So last week I got an invisalign. 00:35:09.360 --> 00:35:11.760 Uh, and um, it's not really a challenge. 00:35:11.920 --> 00:35:15.599 I mean, it's very like easy to wear, but it's just kind of annoying. 00:35:15.679 --> 00:35:23.039 I feel like I'm back in like high school with like you know, everything's very like slurpy, and but it's the fourth graders are like, Oh, Mrs. 00:35:23.199 --> 00:35:24.639 Reinrich, I got one last week too. 00:35:24.719 --> 00:35:26.800 So, like we're all straightening our teeth together. 00:35:27.039 --> 00:35:28.239 Like, this is great. 00:35:28.400 --> 00:35:28.880 Thank you. 00:35:29.039 --> 00:35:32.880 Um, so just like remembering like they're like, Don't throw it away on your lunch tray. 00:35:32.960 --> 00:35:33.599 I'm like, thank you. 00:35:33.679 --> 00:35:34.400 I'll try not to. 00:35:34.480 --> 00:35:35.039 That's a good point. 00:35:35.519 --> 00:35:38.000 But it's just like another thing for me to keep track of in my life. 00:35:38.239 --> 00:35:39.840 And that is a challenge, you know? 00:35:40.159 --> 00:35:43.280 It is, but I think I don't think I have to wear it for long. 00:35:43.360 --> 00:35:44.400 So we'll we'll take that. 00:35:44.880 --> 00:35:58.000 Um, and my win is just that here in Pennsylvania, I feel like you know, it's finally autumn and we're finally getting some like nice, cooler kind of sweatshirt weather dates and we're seeing pumpkins and people are starting to decorate for Halloween. 00:35:58.159 --> 00:36:01.599 And I always feel like you know, this is kind of the beginning of the holiday season. 00:36:01.840 --> 00:36:03.920 Like the next three months are just fun. 00:36:04.239 --> 00:36:07.920 So um yeah, so that's my that's my win for the week. 00:36:08.159 --> 00:36:09.519 Just f just FYI. 00:36:09.599 --> 00:36:15.679 Um, while I was kind of I was looking onto the side, the the big win is that they pulled off a miracle. 00:36:15.840 --> 00:36:17.199 They pulled off a miracle win. 00:36:17.599 --> 00:36:18.559 Phillies just won. 00:36:18.719 --> 00:36:19.920 All right, what's the score? 00:36:20.159 --> 00:36:21.039 They just won. 00:36:21.280 --> 00:36:23.440 Oh, it was uh four three, I think it was. 00:36:23.920 --> 00:36:28.000 Okay, because when I left school it was one-one, and then when I got home, they pulled ahead, then they were behind. 00:36:28.079 --> 00:36:32.079 And okay, so they'll try not to scream when it's I'm surprised. 00:36:32.159 --> 00:36:35.679 I'm surprised I didn't hear screaming downstairs in my house because the TV's on. 00:36:35.840 --> 00:36:37.519 We'll all give a little silent woo-hoo. 00:36:37.760 --> 00:36:39.599 All right, wear your Philly shirt again tomorrow. 00:36:39.679 --> 00:36:39.760 Right. 00:36:39.840 --> 00:36:41.280 Is tomorrow the last, right? 00:36:41.440 --> 00:36:43.039 Tomorrow's the last one, or is this it? 00:36:43.360 --> 00:36:43.920 Game three. 00:36:44.000 --> 00:36:44.239 That's it. 00:36:44.320 --> 00:36:45.119 Okay tomorrow. 00:36:45.360 --> 00:36:47.119 I I'm working on my sports knowledge. 00:36:47.199 --> 00:36:48.079 I'm working on it. 00:36:48.320 --> 00:36:49.199 Um, okay. 00:36:49.519 --> 00:36:57.199 So what um we were talking about your boys and they're two years apart and they got to so you did not live in the school district school blah blah blah. 00:36:57.599 --> 00:37:00.159 School district where you taught, but you brought your kids to school with you. 00:37:00.480 --> 00:37:01.199 Okay, okay. 00:37:02.079 --> 00:37:04.079 Um, and what would you say as parents? 00:37:04.239 --> 00:37:07.519 Um, what were your biggest important values to you? 00:37:07.599 --> 00:37:12.800 When because you kind of have hindsight where a lot of the people who listen to my podcast are kind of in the middle of it. 00:37:12.880 --> 00:37:16.559 So I think it's really nice to have perspective of people who are like, you'll get through it. 00:37:16.639 --> 00:37:17.440 It'll be okay. 00:37:17.599 --> 00:37:18.480 It's hard, you know. 00:37:18.559 --> 00:37:20.719 So tell us, we'll be okay, we'll get through it. 00:37:20.800 --> 00:37:25.440 Now, what were your what was most important to you as parents when you were raising your kids? 00:37:25.920 --> 00:37:37.840 I think um I think the hardest part is that they they'll constantly as as exhausting as it is, don't um don't give up. 00:37:38.079 --> 00:37:46.559 Uh it's you know, when that child, you know, even the little ones getting out of that time out chair for the hundredth time and putting them back there. 00:37:46.719 --> 00:38:05.119 I uh I think the takeaway is the most, the more you front load it when they're little, if you front load it and they know that you're boss and they know that, you know, I think children feel safer with the more parameters around them. 00:38:05.360 --> 00:38:12.159 And uh I know there's this huge gentle parenting wave going on, and I'm I'm not a fan. 00:38:12.320 --> 00:38:25.679 Um I feel that that they uh that they are looking for guidance from their parents and that they feel safer when those parameters are in place and when they

break those parameters. 00:38:25.920 --> 00:39:17.519 Yes, for the hundredth time, it is hard and exhausting, but that's my advice is when they are little, and and I'm yeah, like all the way up until you know their social peers are really putting the pressure on them that to instill that fear that that you mean business and to front load it uh, you know, is is because when they're teenagers and and you're and they're bigger than you, and they know you mean business, that the the you you get into this clever way of how you're going to take away privileges and uh following through with that because um because if you don't if you don't sort of lay lay that groundwork, um that then you're really in trouble when they become middle school and high schoolers. 00:39:17.599 --> 00:39:19.280 I it's hard to re-establish. 00:39:19.679 --> 00:39:27.840 It's really hard to to to tell them that you're the boss when you haven't been the boss for the first you know 10 years of their life. 00:39:28.079 --> 00:39:28.480 Yes. 00:39:28.639 --> 00:39:32.079 Um then good luck when when they're in the middle school and high school. 00:39:32.159 --> 00:39:33.360 I I agree. 00:39:33.599 --> 00:39:44.320 I I uh uh because it w it got a lot easier when they're in the high school when when you set when you set those parameters um up front when they were little. 00:39:44.559 --> 00:39:52.800 Um those those those early childhood elementary years are are vital with uh setting those rules and sticking to it. 00:39:53.039 --> 00:39:53.519 Sticking to it. 00:39:54.800 --> 00:39:57.360 I think a lot of people are just let it slack. 00:39:57.599 --> 00:39:57.920 Uh-huh. 00:39:58.079 --> 00:40:01.760 You know, and you're tired, and yeah, you know, you're like, oh, yep. 00:40:02.000 --> 00:40:05.679 But the front loading is is my my words of wisdom. 00:40:05.920 --> 00:40:07.760 I think those are excellent words of wisdom. 00:40:08.000 --> 00:40:10.239 I would tell you, I'm still a little bit afraid of my mother. 00:40:10.400 --> 00:40:10.880 A little bit. 00:40:10.960 --> 00:40:11.599 Yeah, a little bit. 00:40:11.760 --> 00:40:13.440 Lover, still a little bit afraid of her. 00:40:13.519 --> 00:40:16.639 Yeah, because that woman will follow through. 00:40:16.800 --> 00:40:18.559 So did a good job. 00:40:18.639 --> 00:40:19.599 I'm like, yes, yeah. 00:40:19.920 --> 00:40:21.360 Like, sorry, is my mom gonna find out? 00:40:21.920 --> 00:40:28.480 Yes, I uh I uh I am very proud of a couple uh the older one with the couple parties. 00:40:28.639 --> 00:40:38.960 He yeah, he told me he was gonna text me, and the and the texting had just come out, and he told me he was gonna text me when he got to this pool party and he forgot. 00:40:40.239 --> 00:40:41.599 Did you show up at the pool party? 00:40:41.840 --> 00:40:42.880 He certainly did. 00:40:43.119 --> 00:40:43.519 Hello. 00:40:45.199 --> 00:40:48.000 Your mom's making sure you got here. 00:40:48.320 --> 00:40:49.119 Yeah, yeah. 00:40:49.280 --> 00:40:51.679 He was oh, and he never did it again. 00:40:51.920 --> 00:40:53.519 I bet I bet he didn't. 00:40:53.679 --> 00:40:56.880 I I remember my mom one time, she was gonna take me somewhere. 00:40:57.039 --> 00:40:57.840 I couldn't drive yet. 00:40:58.000 --> 00:40:59.360 I was like 14 or 15 years old. 00:40:59.519 --> 00:41:03.679 And right when we were about to leave, her boss called and she worked at a preschool. 00:41:03.840 --> 00:41:07.679 And her boss was actually one of her very close friends too, but she was still her boss. 00:41:07.840 --> 00:41:09.039 And I answered the phone. 00:41:09.119 --> 00:41:12.880 And then when my mom got on the phone, I said, And can you hurry up? 00:41:12.960 --> 00:41:16.079 Like I have places to be, or something real snooty, like a 15-year-old. 00:41:16.559 --> 00:41:18.320 Yeah, my life almost ended. 00:41:18.400 --> 00:41:20.159 And that woman, that that boss came. 00:41:20.320 --> 00:41:22.159 Oh, so she was like, hang up the phone. 00:41:22.320 --> 00:41:24.719 And when she got, I was like, Oh, I'm probably in trouble. 00:41:24.800 --> 00:41:30.559 And when she got off the phone, she said, you know, this friend is coming over to drop something off, and you're going to apologize to her. 00:41:30.880 --> 00:41:38.480 And I was mortified because I had known her my whole life, but my mom was like, Come on down and look her in the face and apologize to her. 00:41:38.559 --> 00:41:39.519 And I think I cried. 00:41:39.599 --> 00:41:42.960 I was mortified, but I'm like, you know what I didn't do again? 00:41:43.199 --> 00:41:44.159 No, what I didn't do. 00:41:44.400 --> 00:41:54.960 So and that's the that's this my second answer to that question is instilling a conscience in these children that that that your mother did for you. 00:41:55.039 --> 00:42:23.920 Like that, the the this is um there are there's uh there's that that inner thought you want that child to have that inner that conscience so that they know it really feels bad when you're not when you did, you know, that that that you know, and even telling a lie or whatever, you know, that that they're that they have a conscience that they they're not, you know, that they're doing the right thing. 00:42:24.159 --> 00:42:24.400 Yeah. 00:42:24.639 --> 00:42:27.280 I think that's really hard in this day and age. 00:42:27.440 --> 00:42:27.679 Yes. 00:42:27.920 --> 00:42:34.000 Where the people that these children have no remorse about doing the wrong thing. 00:42:34.079 --> 00:42:35.360 And that's another thing. 00:42:35.679 --> 00:42:45.440 And people in the media and people on TV and athletes and people that they look up to are making poor decisions and sometimes being almost glorified for it. 00:42:45.519 --> 00:42:51.679 And it's hard to teach that lesson of like, no, we're gonna be good people, we're gonna tell the truth, we're not, you know. 00:42:52.000 --> 00:42:53.760 That's that's a hard one for sure. 00:42:54.000 -->

00:42:54.320 That's right. 00:42:54.400 --> 00:42:54.639 I agree. 00:42:54.880 --> 00:42:58.159 So instilling that conscience also is huge. 00:42:58.480 --> 00:43:04.320 I told my mom one time, and my dad, I mean, my dad is fabulous too, but he was at work and my mom was at home. 00:43:04.400 --> 00:43:06.159 So she was really the one kind of toeing the line. 00:43:06.239 --> 00:43:13.119 And when I was, I think in college, I was like, Mom, don't you know that I hear your voice every time I'm gonna make a decision that you wouldn't like? 00:43:13.280 --> 00:43:15.920 And she kind of like paused and got like a big smile on her face. 00:43:16.079 --> 00:43:16.960 She was like, You do? 00:43:17.119 --> 00:43:18.000 And I was like, Yep. 00:43:18.159 --> 00:43:20.320 And she was like, No, okay, great. 00:43:20.400 --> 00:43:22.320 And I was like, So you're always there, you know? 00:43:22.400 --> 00:43:25.599 Like I was like, no, I am hoping that my children also hear me. 00:43:25.679 --> 00:43:27.280 They'll be like, Oh, there she is again. 00:43:27.440 --> 00:43:29.920 There she is again, can't escape us, right? 00:43:30.159 --> 00:43:30.719 For sure. 00:43:30.960 --> 00:43:31.840 Absolutely. 00:43:32.079 --> 00:43:41.280 And Tim, would you like to tell us about some traditions other than the Friday night dance party, which I love, but some other traditions that shaped your family's culture as your kids were growing up? 00:43:42.639 --> 00:43:44.239 I don't know if it's necessarily Friday nights. 00:43:44.320 --> 00:43:45.039 It was just weekends. 00:43:45.119 --> 00:43:52.559 I mean, that we would always they'd all we would do sleepovers in the room, they would bring their sleeping bags, sleep in the rooms, usually on Fridays andor Saturdays. 00:43:52.719 --> 00:43:58.159 Um, birthday parties for at our house for the boys always turn into a big party. 00:43:58.400 --> 00:43:59.280 And we would sleepover. 00:44:00.239 --> 00:44:05.840 Like my parents and her parents and siblings and they you know, because we'd all be like having a lot of fun. 00:44:06.000 --> 00:44:06.239 Yeah. 00:44:06.880 --> 00:44:08.639 No one's gonna be driving if you know what I mean. 00:44:08.800 --> 00:44:09.760 I gotcha, gotcha. 00:44:09.920 --> 00:44:10.000 Right. 00:44:10.239 --> 00:44:14.480 So we so we all sleep over and have a big old party into the wee hours of the morning. 00:44:14.559 --> 00:44:16.559 And yeah, that's I mean that's those are legendary. 00:44:17.039 --> 00:44:18.000 Do you have a big family? 00:44:18.079 --> 00:44:21.840 Like a like cousins and I'm I'm one of four, Tolly's one of four. 00:44:22.000 --> 00:44:22.320 Okay. 00:44:22.480 --> 00:44:32.480 Um so there are the and the boys have there there's the boys have six cousins on your side, four cousins on my side. 00:44:32.559 --> 00:44:33.920 So okay, so a good pack. 00:44:34.159 --> 00:44:34.719 A good pack. 00:44:34.880 --> 00:44:37.840 And on Tim's side, they're all around the same age. 00:44:37.920 --> 00:44:38.800 So fun. 00:44:39.119 --> 00:44:42.320 Cousins that are friends with each other, which is a blessing as well. 00:44:42.719 --> 00:44:50.079 And still, still as grown-ups, they're still but I think we did a lot, like a lot of um, we just did a lot of adventures with them. 00:44:50.239 --> 00:45:06.880 We took them skiing, and you know, we took them just traditional old school stuff, you know, what you know, skiing and we went to the shore and and then we'd travel and like like I said, I think we were easy that way with the sleepover, the sleeping bags in the back or the pack and play. 00:45:06.960 --> 00:45:09.280 We just we just go to my parents' house. 00:45:09.679 --> 00:45:14.320 Or or we would so we were sort of easy going that way. 00:45:14.559 --> 00:45:17.440 It was it it gave they were hearty in that respect. 00:45:17.599 --> 00:45:18.639 We go to my parents' house. 00:45:18.960 --> 00:45:20.480 Sleep on the floor, you'll be fine, right? 00:45:20.719 --> 00:45:21.199 That's right. 00:45:21.440 --> 00:45:26.960 All of that the sleep on the floor, and and we weren't we didn't stop our fun. 00:45:27.199 --> 00:45:27.519 Okay. 00:45:27.760 --> 00:45:38.000 Um, and so if we were traveling to uh friends of ours that live two hours away, we would just pack up the van and just let's go and then let's just stay over or whatever. 00:45:38.079 --> 00:45:40.320 That it was that type of vibe, yeah. 00:45:40.559 --> 00:45:50.079 With that with the boys, that was also just you know, small family, you know, no no big huge trips, but just you know, small weekend time. 00:45:50.480 --> 00:45:50.960 Yeah, yeah. 00:45:52.000 --> 00:45:52.800 I want to join your family. 00:45:52.880 --> 00:45:53.920 You sound like a lot of fun. 00:45:54.000 --> 00:45:55.440 You do sound like a lot of fun. 00:45:55.679 --> 00:45:57.280 I couldn't get down with that. 00:45:57.519 --> 00:46:03.760 Um what piece of parenting advice would you give to your younger selves if you could go back now? 00:46:03.920 --> 00:46:07.519 Knowing what you know now, what would you tell yourself then? 00:46:10.639 --> 00:46:16.639 I know like something that we would do better if we're a parent. 00:46:17.199 --> 00:46:29.199 Or better or different, or like, you know, we worried about all these little tiny things and realized later we didn't have to, or you know, whatever it is, whatever, whatever you would tell yourself as a as a new parent now that you've done it. 00:46:29.519 --> 00:46:30.079 Right. 00:46:31.119 --> 00:46:31.760 Yeah. 00:46:33.039 --> 00:46:34.000 I think I don't know. 00:46:34.079 --> 00:46:39.760 I can't see anything that really sticks out because I would think we would be considered really good parents. 00:46:40.239 --> 00:46:40.480 Okay. 00:46:41.119 --> 00:46:44.079 Sounds like it's well, definitely fun, fun parents. 00:46:44.159 --> 00:46:50.480 So because you know, we would their friends would love coming over and hanging out because they know

we'd be hanging out, getting the dancing going. 00:46:50.559 --> 00:46:52.960 And so, you know, so I I I don't know. 00:46:53.039 --> 00:46:55.760 I can really yeah, that's a really tough question. 00:46:56.000 --> 00:47:03.199 But I love like what Tolly said, like you still held the line and you you had fun with your kids and you made all these memories at the same time. 00:47:03.280 --> 00:47:07.599 They knew you weren't messing around, so like we can have fun until you cross the line and then we're done. 00:47:07.840 --> 00:47:18.800 Like that's you know, well, and I I'm also I don't think I'm answering your question, but I we we raised they even though they were both boys, they were so different. 00:47:19.599 --> 00:47:26.639 And I felt we raised two very individuals, so there was never oh, do it. 00:47:26.719 --> 00:47:28.000 You did you see what your brother did? 00:47:28.079 --> 00:47:28.719 You should do it. 00:47:28.880 --> 00:47:31.440 Like we were there was never comparison. 00:47:32.239 --> 00:47:53.119 Um you know, one sort of found his journey through the music programs and all of that, and the other one was on a ball field all the time, and he was okay, it was more, and yeah, the old the one could care less about like, and so you were we were never we just let them have their own ride. 00:47:54.000 --> 00:48:08.000 Um and they're only like till they went to college and stuff did they discover, you know, they each had their own set of friends and their own their own journey to find their thing. 00:48:08.719 --> 00:48:10.960 Um but then are they close? 00:48:11.119 --> 00:48:12.719 Were they close growing up even though they weren't? 00:48:13.119 --> 00:48:17.039 I don't think they I don't think they were close growing up because they had different interests. 00:48:17.679 --> 00:48:21.599 They were doing different things, they were three school years apart. 00:48:21.840 --> 00:48:27.599 Okay, but the one was you know always at all these you know sporting events and blah blah blah. 00:48:27.840 --> 00:48:34.639 Um, and the other one, you know, you play a skier and play tennis, but it wasn't like an organized athlete. 00:48:34.800 --> 00:48:42.239 So we weren't in the grind of running everybody to all these but they're very close now, they're very close now, they've been close over the last 10 years. 00:48:42.320 --> 00:48:46.719 I mean it became yes, but they were two different guys, yeah. 00:48:46.880 --> 00:48:59.519 And so I think that was also helpful that they weren't one wasn't being compared to the other because they were two, they had different interests and different uh ways of looking at the world, you know. 00:48:59.760 --> 00:49:00.320 Right, right. 00:49:00.400 --> 00:49:12.800 And so it didn't matter if one was a good baseball player because the other one didn't want to base sort of clueless to it all because we didn't talk about it, we didn't there was no comparison, there was nothing, you know what I mean? 00:49:12.880

--> 00:49:15.920 We just sort of kept our we kept her mouth shut a lot. 00:49:16.880 --> 00:49:17.760 That's very hard for me. 00:49:17.840 --> 00:49:18.800 I'll have to take that in. 00:49:18.880 --> 00:49:20.000 It's hard for me to keep it. 00:49:20.079 --> 00:49:33.840 I a lot of um I I think there's a lot of I don't want to say verbal vomit, but uh with anxiety, and then the the parents are just talking about all you know what I mean, and yeah, well, did you see like Sally's over there playing with all of her friends? 00:49:34.239 --> 00:49:37.519 Why don't you go over and we just let them just be them? 00:49:38.159 --> 00:49:47.760 It's a very, it's a really uh it's really difficult to because they only know the world that's presented to them. 00:49:48.559 --> 00:49:57.920 So um they so I I I I can't tell you how many school dances I dropped one of my sons off. 00:49:58.239 --> 00:50:00.960 Um he claims he was meeting his friends there. 00:50:01.199 --> 00:50:02.719 Okay, I dropped him off. 00:50:02.800 --> 00:50:05.360 I can't like a handful of dances at the high school. 00:50:05.519 --> 00:50:09.679 He walks in by himself, and they're like and I didn't I didn't say a thing. 00:50:09.840 --> 00:50:12.239 And picking him up, I'm like, so how was he? 00:50:12.320 --> 00:50:13.039 He was great. 00:50:13.199 --> 00:50:16.800 I go, so trying out with I hear like maybe two or three kids. 00:50:16.880 --> 00:50:20.880 Uh I and I didn't say a thing. 00:50:21.199 --> 00:50:24.639 He had no idea that that wasn't the cool thing to do. 00:50:24.800 --> 00:50:29.519 Yeah, he just I wanted to go, I dropped him off. 00:50:29.679 --> 00:50:32.880 Yeah, so it they they have to find their way. 00:50:32.960 --> 00:50:36.559 Um, Tatania, the less I didn't say a thing. 00:50:36.800 --> 00:50:53.679 I uh so any of this, you know, you know compared to I think it's it's hard because I think people you know want their kids to fit in or be part of a group, but be a part of the or whatever, and you know, like they're the big parties are over this house and this house, and I knew he wasn't a part of it, but he wanted to go. 00:50:53.920 --> 00:50:56.320 Yeah, and you're like I never said anything. 00:50:56.559 --> 00:50:58.079 You're like, go ahead, go ahead. 00:50:58.239 --> 00:50:59.760 Yeah, like that. 00:50:59.840 --> 00:51:02.800 Let them let them be who they are and be okay with that. 00:51:03.039 --> 00:51:04.639 I'm not trying to not try to change that. 00:51:04.880 --> 00:51:06.639 I think the less said the better. 00:51:06.800 --> 00:51:17.199 Yeah, I think uh the the own emotional, I know it's your own emotional insecurity, but uh you don't there's no need to project it onto that child, right? 00:51:17.360 --> 00:51:19.519 Because it's his journey, it's their journey. 00:51:19.840 --> 00:51:33.280 And a friend of mine is like, if they're happy, okay, oh yeah, like you know, because I was like, Oh, my daughter will come home once in a while and say she played basketball by herself at recess, but other times she comes home and she'll spew off like eight kids. 00:51:33.360 --> 00:51:35.840 And I try to be very like, oh, that's fun, oh that's great. 00:51:35.920 --> 00:51:38.239 I was talking to a friend of mine and she's like, is she upset about it? 00:51:38.400 --> 00:51:39.840 I said, No, she's perfectly happy. 00:51:39.920 --> 00:51:40.960 She's like, then let it be. 00:51:41.039 --> 00:51:45.039 And I'm like, okay, you're right, you know, and she was like, Maybe she needs 10 minutes to herself. 00:51:45.119 --> 00:51:47.280 And I'm like, that could be what did it, you know what I mean? 00:51:47.360 --> 00:51:48.159 Like 100%. 00:51:48.480 --> 00:51:50.239 You it's amazing. 00:51:50.719 --> 00:51:51.920 Yep, absolutely. 00:51:52.639 --> 00:52:00.000 As long as she's happy, and I'm like, okay, she's happy, and we can then I then maybe they'll just want to live in a little plastic bubble with me for the rest of their lives, right? 00:52:00.079 --> 00:52:01.599 No, yeah, but you know what? 00:52:01.920 --> 00:52:05.360 Like, that's fine, we'll just put our plastic bubble and protect them forever. 00:52:05.519 --> 00:52:07.840 But uh yeah, no, that's great advice. 00:52:08.000 --> 00:52:18.960 Um, all right, so let's talk about how you two have quote unquote danced through life, and you told us how dancing became part of your story and how Tali, you were a dancer and Tim she taught you to dance. 00:52:19.119 --> 00:52:22.159 We'll say you had it in you, but she kind of helped out a little. 00:52:22.719 --> 00:52:23.760 And I helped him along the way. 00:52:24.320 --> 00:52:25.119 Helped them along. 00:52:25.199 --> 00:52:28.800 Yeah, why do you think your videos became so popular? 00:52:28.880 --> 00:52:33.840 And why do you think people connect with them and love them so much and watch them and want to see you dance? 00:52:34.000 --> 00:52:37.280 And I I you know, we're what is your magic? 00:52:37.360 --> 00:52:37.760 What is that? 00:52:38.400 --> 00:52:41.280 We're just blown away with like what is what is the appeal of this? 00:52:41.440 --> 00:52:50.480 But people love it because it's it's wholesome, it's you know, every time you put on the news, which we try not to watch because it's just all the news. 00:52:50.639 --> 00:52:53.679 So it's just uh there's fun, there's it's fun. 00:52:54.559 --> 00:52:56.960 There's people say the body and happiness that we bring it. 00:52:57.119 --> 00:53:10.320 It's my you know, and there's people that it's Philly, there's there's yeah, there's there's uh uh like plenty of cases where people are in the hospital and they're sending us messages saying you have no idea what these videos do for us. 00:53:10.639 --> 00:53:12.719 Oh, how nice it happens a lot. 00:53:12.960 --> 00:53:20.239 So it's just you know, you see two uh regular people, there's nothing uh pretentious about us, right? 00:53:20.719 --> 00:53:22.159 Live in this massive home. 00:53:22.320 -->

00:53:26.000 We just, you know, we've done well over the over the years, but I don't know. 00:53:26.079 --> 00:53:27.599 I just we're just two regular people. 00:53:28.000 --> 00:53:28.639 Yeah, yeah. 00:53:28.719 --> 00:53:34.639 I think it's and I think that that authenticity, you're right, like you're just normal people, you're not celebrities, you're not whatever. 00:53:34.800 --> 00:53:37.599 And I think too, you look like you're having fun when you're dancing. 00:53:37.679 --> 00:53:45.039 So like I feel like when I watch your videos, I am smiling just because I'm like smiling at the two of you having fun. 00:53:45.199 --> 00:53:51.440 And I love Tim when you come in with like a you know, like a costume and like a little, you know, solo with a microphone or something. 00:53:51.519 --> 00:53:52.880 I'm like, that it is okay. 00:53:53.440 --> 00:53:54.239 And that's the other thing. 00:53:54.400 --> 00:53:57.119 That's that that's all in our base in our storage area. 00:53:57.360 --> 00:54:04.880 Like we've accumulated dress-up boxes when the boys when since they were little, little, none of that's been thrown away. 00:54:04.960 --> 00:54:08.159 Yeah, these silly wigs, these silly costumes. 00:54:08.320 --> 00:54:10.000 People are like, Where did you get that? 00:54:10.079 --> 00:54:12.079 I'm like, out of our storage, yeah. 00:54:12.800 --> 00:54:15.840 Out of our dress-up box, pull them out in our adult parties. 00:54:15.920 --> 00:54:20.400 Like, we usually have a New Year's party with our Great Valley friends, and couples, it's like six couples. 00:54:21.199 --> 00:54:29.119 And and um, so it and and you know, it always turns into a big party, and uh I go down the basement and start bringing out we're gonna pull out the costumes, yeah. 00:54:29.920 --> 00:54:30.400 I love that. 00:54:30.480 --> 00:54:32.079 That makes it even more fun, right? 00:54:32.159 --> 00:54:32.400 Exactly. 00:54:32.559 --> 00:54:37.199 Yeah, um, and what message do you hope people take away from your dances? 00:54:37.440 --> 00:54:44.880 Just this whole idea of joy and fun, and sort of like I love when you're dancing in your front hall or you're dancing on your back deck, you're dancing in the kitchen. 00:54:44.960 --> 00:54:45.920 I'm like, love that. 00:54:46.079 --> 00:54:48.880 Like it's just yeah, you know, spontaneous. 00:54:49.199 --> 00:54:55.519 I I I think like this is an example of us just like trying something and it worked. 00:54:55.679 --> 00:55:00.800 Now, look, this we could have done it, but like Tolly's being the first one to tell you our first bunch of videos. 00:55:00.880 --> 00:55:02.559 She's like, Look, she goes, I'll try this. 00:55:02.719 --> 00:55:04.400 If it's not working, I'm out. 00:55:04.559 --> 00:55:05.360 Okay, and it worked. 00:55:05.440 --> 00:55:08.480 I said, Yeah, I said, guess what? 00:55:08.559 --> 00:55:11.039 You're in, and you're not in the turn, you're you ain't leaving. 00:55:11.199 --> 00:55:17.840 So, um, but uh yeah, I I just think that's the like if people have an idea that they want to do, just go for it. 00:55:18.239 --> 00:55:18.800 I love that. 00:55:19.280 --> 00:55:19.519 Right. 00:55:19.599 --> 00:55:21.440 I mean, just throw it on Instagram. 00:55:21.519 --> 00:55:22.639 You never, you never know. 00:55:22.719 --> 00:55:26.400 We would have never known that this thing was gonna broke blow up like the way it is, right? 00:55:26.480 --> 00:55:30.559 And like what a fun thing to be doing in like your retirement years, you know. 00:55:30.639 --> 00:55:40.159 Like, yes, we are Instagram and social media sensations, like it just kind of goes with your whole feeling of like life is fun, we're having fun with this, like it's just it's funny, it's fun. 00:55:40.239 --> 00:55:41.920 You're not taking yourself too seriously. 00:55:42.000 --> 00:55:44.480 You're like, it's just that's for sure. 00:55:44.559 --> 00:55:51.440 Well, and yeah, I bet, I bet we're we're going on this, you know, we're scheduling this, we're working on this national dance tour. 00:55:51.519 --> 00:55:55.039 We're gonna go doing these old school dance parties, and we're we're starting in. 00:55:55.119 --> 00:55:58.079 I'm not saying where we're starting, but it's uh figure out, okay. 00:55:58.320 --> 00:56:05.360 But all the other big cities, LA, New York, Chicago, like we're gonna be supposed to go to all these cities and you'll get to travel there, like how great! 00:56:05.440 --> 00:56:09.519 Like now you get to travel across the country and do dance and meet people. 00:56:09.760 --> 00:56:13.519 And we're working, so we're partnering with this legendary, legendary music producer. 00:56:13.599 --> 00:56:14.960 His name is DJ Eddie F. 00:56:15.199 --> 00:56:20.639 Okay, he was he produced a lot of big time, he was the co-founder of a great group in the 80s called Heavy D and the Boys. 00:56:20.880 --> 00:56:21.519 Oh, yes, okay. 00:56:22.079 --> 00:56:24.639 Yeah, he was the co-founder, but then he got in the music business. 00:56:24.719 --> 00:56:27.679 He he was the head of moat, like one of the head guys at Motown in the 90s. 00:56:27.920 --> 00:56:33.599 Wow, he reached out to us, and we he and I talked more than I talked to Tali in the course of the day, you know. 00:56:33.760 --> 00:56:35.440 So yeah, so it's it's fun, you know. 00:56:35.519 --> 00:56:38.960 The fact that we're doing this, most people are like kind of slow and slow in the role. 00:56:39.039 --> 00:56:42.079 I'm like, here we go, here we go, let's get this thing going. 00:56:42.320 --> 00:56:44.960 But like we keep saying it, but like, what fun? 00:56:45.199 --> 00:56:50.320 How fun, like how fitting for the two of you to be like, ah, we're just gonna dance our way through retirement. 00:56:50.480 --> 00:56:51.920 Like that's that's so great. 00:56:52.079 --> 00:56:55.119 And Tim, you are retired, you are not retired. 00:56:55.440 --> 00:56:56.320 Interesting question. 00:56:56.480 --> 00:57:00.960 I just

finished with my current company about a month ago. 00:57:01.199 --> 00:57:01.519 Okay. 00:57:01.679 --> 00:57:07.679 And so I'm probably gonna be doing some consulting, but okay, I'm really pushing to go all in on this. 00:57:07.760 --> 00:57:10.079 We you are footloose and fancy free for the most part. 00:57:10.559 --> 00:57:13.920 Okay, I'm going all in on this, and you know, we'll see after six months. 00:57:14.000 --> 00:57:16.480 I'm we're pretty confident it's gonna be okay. 00:57:16.559 --> 00:57:19.280 And yeah, and so we're just gonna I'm going full force. 00:57:19.360 --> 00:57:21.280 And Tali's been retired since 2021. 00:57:21.440 --> 00:57:22.880 And that's so talk about that, Tali. 00:57:23.119 --> 00:57:27.920 What have you found, you know, after being a working mom and go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go for so many years. 00:57:28.000 --> 00:57:29.920 And now you're like, I'm just gonna be retired. 00:57:30.079 --> 00:57:35.599 Like, what do you find yourself with a ton of like people are like, oh, it would be so boring. 00:57:35.679 --> 00:57:37.039 I'm like, oh, I'd find something to do. 00:57:37.599 --> 00:57:38.719 Yeah, I wouldn't be bored. 00:57:38.880 --> 00:57:40.480 Like, what how are you spending your time? 00:57:40.719 --> 00:57:47.679 So, my in my personality, I'm I'm a joiner, I uh I'm social, I love not surprising. 00:57:47.840 --> 00:57:47.920 Right. 00:57:48.320 --> 00:57:55.599 I am just I I I number one love volunteering uh once a week at Bringing Hope Home. 00:57:56.079 --> 00:57:59.440 Um, they've got a nice uh group of people in there. 00:57:59.599 --> 00:58:09.840 Um I'm in there on Thursdays and I'm helping them out with the outreach for the signature events um with the silent auction items. 00:58:10.000 --> 00:58:18.079 And then a lot of uh sometimes I'm in there doing some data entry, good old sales force and taking some old files and put and updating that stuff. 00:58:18.320 --> 00:58:38.239 So it's just fine to go in on Thursdays, but then during the the weather, the when the weather gets nice, I've really um you know just jumped in feet first, um, and I'm playing a lot of golf in some ladies' leagues, and I have um built a nice network of friends. 00:58:38.400 --> 00:58:38.719 Yeah. 00:58:38.880 --> 00:58:44.159 And and with it, there's just a lot of good things that come out of it, you know, the socialization. 00:58:44.320 --> 00:58:49.039 There's always something to work on, always something to get better on, you know, at. 00:58:49.199 --> 00:58:52.480 So it gives me a challenge, yeah, keeps me healthy. 00:58:52.639 --> 00:58:55.280 Um, and it's just beautiful being outside. 00:58:55.440 --> 00:58:58.320 It just fill it's it's a it definitely fills my bucket. 00:58:58.480 --> 00:58:59.679 I I definitely love it. 00:58:59.840 --> 00:59:03.199 Uh for all you can spend your time doing what you want to do. 00:59:03.360 --> 00:59:05.440 Yeah, you know, and how you want to do it. 00:59:05.679 --> 00:59:08.719 Question for you is September weird for you or not anymore? 00:59:08.800 --> 00:59:16.159 Like I always think as a teacher, like yeah, were the first couple of years weird or not like the first day of school, or you're like, nope, not thinking about it. 00:59:16.400 --> 00:59:18.639 Yeah, it really it was pretty seamless. 00:59:18.719 --> 00:59:20.960 Um just outside playing golf. 00:59:21.039 --> 00:59:25.360 But I always remember for me, like September is such a beautiful month. 00:59:25.440 --> 00:59:25.760 Yeah. 00:59:25.920 --> 00:59:28.559 And and I always remember how beautiful May is. 00:59:28.719 --> 00:59:36.639 And as a reading specialist, as we're running around doing all the beginning of the year assessments, May, end of the year assessments, or gathering up all this data. 00:59:36.719 --> 00:59:43.440 And like I just read that those truly for me are true, they were just so crazy. 00:59:43.679 --> 00:59:44.800 Go, go, go, go, go. 00:59:45.360 --> 00:59:49.760 And I just remember just looking outside, going, it's gorgeous out there. 00:59:49.920 --> 00:59:50.880 And I'm in here. 00:59:51.119 --> 00:59:59.840 And so uh for May and June and September, I am um loving every second of it because I'm out there probably three days a week. 01:00:00.000 --> 01:00:04.159 Um it's been it's been that big of a change of a lifestyle for me. 01:00:04.239 --> 01:00:05.360 I I really love it. 01:00:05.519 --> 01:00:06.239 Yeah, yeah. 01:00:06.320 --> 01:00:08.400 And you were in you were in education for 25. 01:00:08.480 --> 01:00:09.119 How long were you in? 01:00:09.280 --> 01:00:09.599 30 years? 01:00:09.920 --> 01:00:12.559 Uh I was with my school district for 36 years. 01:00:12.719 --> 01:00:13.119 Oh wow. 01:00:13.199 --> 01:00:15.199 So you figure you did it for a long time. 01:00:15.519 --> 01:00:17.119 So you don't you don't have to miss it. 01:00:17.280 --> 01:00:18.480 You did it for a long time. 01:00:18.719 --> 01:00:20.079 I literally missed. 01:00:20.400 --> 01:00:25.920 I was a 22-year-old kid and uh and I left when I was I was turning 59. 01:00:26.079 --> 01:00:28.719 Um it's you you did it. 01:00:28.960 --> 01:00:31.440 Yeah, no need to be sad. 01:00:31.679 --> 01:00:39.920 Yeah, I was bl I was really I was grateful to be employed there, especially after that tea uh student teaching experience. 01:00:40.400 --> 01:00:41.360 Yeah, that was a great advice. 01:00:41.599 --> 01:00:42.239 That was a blessing. 01:00:44.480 --> 01:00:44.880 Yes. 01:00:45.119 --> 01:00:45.920 Um, okay. 01:00:46.159 --> 01:00:54.639 How have you what what advice would you give to people who are newly empty nesters or you know coming up on their empty nest season of life? 01:00:54.719 --> 01:00:55.840 What would you tell them? 01:00:58.239 --> 01:00:58.800 Yeah. 01:01:00.960 --> 01:01:20.960 The empty nest, I mean, so empty nest versus retired, you're you're just thinking like emptiness when you or like even that whole thing, like people whose

kids have moved out, so they're not, you know, micromanaging kids anymore, and now they're finding themselves with all this time on their hands, whether they're still working or not working, just kind of like a new chapter in life after raising kids. 01:01:21.599 --> 01:01:50.320 I mean, just what was pretty standard out there, keep your mind busy, keep your body busy, busy uh as far as your body has to be moving, your mind has to be moving, and your social engagements, and those three things are is sort of, you know, Tim's mom is 90 years old, and she's a living testament with her how sharp she is, how social she is, and her moving her body the way she. 01:01:50.719 --> 01:02:00.559 I mean, it those three areas, those three domains are just vital um to you know, uh happy, healthy lifestyle. 01:02:00.719 --> 01:02:01.679 Well, and and that's the thing. 01:02:01.760 --> 01:02:07.679 Like, we have we have plenty of friends who are on the healthier side, and we have plenty of friends that aren't on the healthier side. 01:02:08.480 --> 01:02:10.079 Get your buck, get moving. 01:02:10.159 --> 01:02:11.119 Like I'm a freak. 01:02:11.280 --> 01:02:14.000 I'm up at no, that's why you're dancing all the time, right? 01:02:14.239 --> 01:02:16.320 A couple days a week, I'm up at like 3 30, 4 o'clock. 01:02:17.119 --> 01:02:19.360 Whoa, you wake up at 3 30 or 4 o'clock in the morning? 01:02:19.599 --> 01:02:21.920 On Mondays and Wednesdays, those are my busier days where I get to do it. 01:02:22.079 --> 01:02:22.639 What do you do? 01:02:22.880 --> 01:02:32.000 Well, I go to a couple one gym doesn't open till five, so I get to one at 4 30 in the morning for a half hour, go to the other one at five, and then I meet guys to run at six, and then so but then look at me. 01:02:32.079 --> 01:02:34.480 I'm like uh yeah, I'm like six days a week. 01:02:34.639 --> 01:02:40.320 Yeah, and I'll sleep in, I'll sleep in till some days I'll sleep in till five or five thirty if I'm lucky. 01:02:40.400 --> 01:02:47.920 But okay, it's like if I don't get if I don't start my day at the gym, it's like it's forget it, it has to happen. 01:02:48.000 --> 01:02:52.719 You just and it does feel good when you start your day like uh working out or I've done it now. 01:02:52.800 --> 01:02:57.599 I sleep in, but yes, I've done it, and you do feel like energized for the rest of the day. 01:02:57.760 --> 01:02:59.039 Where what time do you go to sleep? 01:02:59.119 --> 01:02:59.760 Do you go to bed early? 01:03:00.159 --> 01:03:00.960 Oh god, we're in bed. 01:03:01.119 --> 01:03:02.079 I'm 8 15, 8. 01:03:02.320 --> 01:03:08.000 Well, I shouldn't say that in bed by 8 30, reading, whatever, till like I'm usually asleep by 9 15. 01:03:08.239 --> 01:03:09.920 We're usually asleep 9 15 ish or so. 01:03:10.159 --> 01:03:11.679 Yes, I love an early bedtime. 01:03:11.920 --> 01:03:12.159 Love it. 01:03:12.480 --> 01:03:12.880 100%. 01:03:13.199 --> 01:03:15.039 Yeah, and then you're you're up and

ready to go. 01:03:15.119 --> 01:03:15.920 I love that for you. 01:03:17.360 --> 01:03:36.320 Um, okay, so before we do our fun questions, um, what is one message that you would like our listeners to remember from you as parents or as people who have raised kids, or what's what's or from your dancing, what's one little nugget of something to leave them with? 01:03:36.719 --> 01:03:42.480 I I'm I'm always a uh a fan of I call it the three, I don't even know if you've ever heard this up forever. 01:03:43.039 --> 01:03:44.320 The three, it's a three F. 01:03:44.559 --> 01:03:46.480 It's fun, it's fitness and faith. 01:03:46.800 --> 01:03:48.159 Like I'm a big Catholic guy. 01:03:48.320 --> 01:03:56.960 Okay at church every Sunday, and you know, I you know, you I'm always telling like friends, I'm like, you gotta be thankful for what you have. 01:03:57.119 --> 01:04:00.400 And if you if things aren't working out, that's why you should be there. 01:04:00.480 --> 01:04:05.920 And so I'm a big, big faith guy, but fitness, but fun is really actually you gotta throw in family. 01:04:06.079 --> 01:04:06.639 Families first. 01:04:06.800 --> 01:04:07.519 Okay, the four. 01:04:07.599 --> 01:04:08.000 I like it. 01:04:08.239 --> 01:04:12.320 Okay, so but families like we're five friends, friends, okay. 01:04:12.400 --> 01:04:12.960 So it's five. 01:04:13.039 --> 01:04:15.599 All right, so we'll call them the F words, exactly. 01:04:16.400 --> 01:04:19.039 Okay, friends, family, the good ones. 01:04:19.119 --> 01:04:19.679 I like that though. 01:04:19.760 --> 01:04:20.159 Those are good. 01:04:20.239 --> 01:04:20.960 The five F's. 01:04:21.039 --> 01:04:21.760 That's fantastic. 01:04:22.000 --> 01:04:22.880 It's fantastic. 01:04:23.039 --> 01:04:24.800 There's another one six words. 01:04:24.960 --> 01:04:25.840 There you go. 01:04:26.239 --> 01:04:27.280 I love you guys. 01:04:27.360 --> 01:04:30.880 Are just so like joyful, even just to talk to you on Zoom. 01:04:30.960 --> 01:04:32.000 I just feel your joy. 01:04:32.079 --> 01:04:35.199 Yeah, we'll have to run into each other at the grocery store again sometime. 01:04:35.599 --> 01:04:48.960 Because I I remember when I left, I was like, she was so so to back up, before Tim and Tali were Tim and Tolly on social media, we happened to randomly run into each other, walk past each other in a grocery store near our house. 01:04:49.039 --> 01:04:52.639 And I was talking to my children and said the name of the school that they go to. 01:04:52.719 --> 01:04:55.360 And Tolly stopped me and was like, Did you just say this school? 01:04:55.440 --> 01:04:57.119 And I was like, Yeah, she's like, I used to teach there. 01:04:57.280 --> 01:05:00.960 So, not until like I emailed you to be on the show did we put it all together. 01:05:01.039 --> 01:05:03.280 So I feel like it's, you know, kind of fun. 01:05:03.519 --> 01:05:08.639 But yes, we'll have to we'll have to meet up again at the giant, at the entrance to the giant and chat. 01:05:08.800 --> 01:05:10.079 I'm usually at Wagmans, though. 01:05:10.159 --> 01:05:11.280 You might have to go to Wagmans. 01:05:11.599 --> 01:05:15.039 Well, and for all your listeners, keep in mind we are really normal. 01:05:15.199 --> 01:05:18.400 We have we've been through difficult times as well. 01:05:18.559 --> 01:05:22.800 It is not just a constant celebratory party. 01:05:22.880 --> 01:05:37.840 Their life is filled with ups and downs, even though we're coming across with this, you know, happy vibe here that we, you know, you just have to to motor through it together and and keep your strength, you know, going. 01:05:37.920 --> 01:05:44.880 But truthfully, it's just not normal to have to not have, you know, some some difficult times as well. 01:05:45.119 --> 01:05:45.599 I like that. 01:05:45.679 --> 01:05:46.719 That's a that's a good point. 01:05:46.880 --> 01:05:49.039 While you're all sunshine and cupcakes. 01:05:49.199 --> 01:05:49.840 That's right. 01:05:50.079 --> 01:06:00.719 And I mean, and I mean, and that's what the that's what the social media does to this world is right, you know, makes us look like every day is just like a you know, and it's Just not. 01:06:01.360 --> 01:06:02.719 But I love that your outlook. 01:06:02.880 --> 01:06:04.800 I feel like you said you're pretty positive people. 01:06:04.880 --> 01:06:14.719 I feel I don't know, but I would imagine even when you hit the harm hard times, you have each other, but you also have this joy and energy within you that I would think would help you stay optimistic. 01:06:14.960 --> 01:06:22.800 I I think for Tim's family, like I I remember telling my mom when things would go sour or whatever, I'm like, all they do is make a joke about it. 01:06:22.960 --> 01:06:34.000 Like so Tim's family is funny that way, but uh I you know, I I think I'm a little bit my family is a little bit more realistic with you know tough times and showing emotions. 01:06:34.239 --> 01:06:40.719 You know, it's so yeah for your kids to see both ways, a little bit of both solving problems and those types of things. 01:06:41.119 --> 01:06:43.280 Well, and right, and the different the different ways to do it. 01:06:43.360 --> 01:06:46.239 I'm like, I'd probably say something awkward in like a moment, you know. 01:06:46.320 --> 01:06:50.159 I'm like, I'm trying to lighten the mood, but I think I just made it worse, you know? 01:06:50.320 --> 01:06:51.599 Yeah, yeah, exactly. 01:06:51.920 --> 01:06:57.039 My husband and I were laughing because his father passed away in June and he was 93 years old. 01:06:57.119 --> 01:07:02.239 He had a wonderful life, he was a wonderful man, and he has my brother, my husband has four brothers. 01:07:02.400 --> 01:07:08.079 So all five boys went down to the bedside, and I was texting my husband and I was like, Are you making fun of him? 01:07:08.159 --> 01:07:09.199 He's like, Of course we are. 01:07:09.360 --> 01:07:10.960 Like, you know, he and he we were

laughing. 01:07:11.119 --> 01:07:12.559 And I said, And is your dad laughing? 01:07:12.639 --> 01:07:13.760 He's like, Of course he is. 01:07:13.840 --> 01:07:18.159 He's like, We're telling old stories and we're making fun of him, and he is laughing. 01:07:18.320 --> 01:07:20.960 And I was like, that would never fly in my family. 01:07:21.119 --> 01:07:21.440 That's right. 01:07:21.519 --> 01:07:23.920 And to his family, that's exactly what they did. 01:07:24.320 --> 01:07:26.719 And I'm like, that poor man is literally on his deathbed. 01:07:26.800 --> 01:07:27.760 He's like, what are we gonna do? 01:07:27.920 --> 01:07:28.880 Like sit around and cry? 01:07:29.039 --> 01:07:30.079 Like we all know what's happening. 01:07:30.239 --> 01:07:37.119 He's like, and we did also cry, and we had moments, and he's like, but yeah, no, we've always kind of made fun of my mom and dad, so we just kind of kept doing it. 01:07:37.199 --> 01:07:39.440 And I was like, well, you wouldn't expect anything less. 01:07:39.679 --> 01:07:41.920 So um, yeah, I I like that. 01:07:42.079 --> 01:07:48.960 Um, okay, and okay, so here are our fun, uh our fun questions. 01:07:49.119 --> 01:07:50.800 So we'll kind of go, we'll go back and forth. 01:07:50.960 --> 01:07:52.400 Tim, I'll start with you. 01:07:52.639 --> 01:07:55.840 Um, who was the stricter parent, you or Tolly? 01:07:56.000 --> 01:07:57.280 Or were you both Tolly? 01:07:57.679 --> 01:07:58.159 Tolly. 01:07:58.320 --> 01:07:59.440 Okay, all right, Tolly. 01:07:59.519 --> 01:08:02.239 It's that whole sorry your mom's a teacher, right? 01:08:02.320 --> 01:08:03.840 That's what I say to my kids all the time. 01:08:04.000 --> 01:08:05.360 Kind of a bummer, isn't it? 01:08:06.000 --> 01:08:07.199 Um, who's the better cop? 01:08:08.400 --> 01:08:09.199 You what did you say? 01:08:09.280 --> 01:08:10.000 What did you say, Tolly? 01:08:10.320 --> 01:08:11.440 I was definitely the bad cop. 01:08:11.599 --> 01:08:11.840 Mm-hmm. 01:08:12.000 --> 01:08:12.239 Yeah. 01:08:12.320 --> 01:08:14.000 I'm like, my my kids will say something. 01:08:14.079 --> 01:08:15.119 My husband's like, oh, that's cute. 01:08:15.199 --> 01:08:18.800 And I'm like, on the other hand, and they're all like, oh, like, no. 01:08:19.520 --> 01:08:19.840 Okay. 01:08:20.079 --> 01:08:21.840 I'm like, I can picture that in a classroom. 01:08:21.920 --> 01:08:22.560 You're not doing that. 01:08:22.640 --> 01:08:23.920 And he's like, okay, sorry. 01:08:24.159 --> 01:08:26.479 Um, who is the better cook? 01:08:28.960 --> 01:08:31.199 Um, we we really don't cook. 01:08:31.279 --> 01:08:32.800 That's so okay. 01:08:33.039 --> 01:08:39.680 I think I'm the better cook, but yeah, we're not we love food, good food, and we go out to dinner a lot. 01:08:39.920 --> 01:08:40.239 Okay. 01:08:40.880 --> 01:08:47.439 Um, I think I cooked for the boys when they were little, and my food was very efficient food. 01:08:47.600 --> 01:09:03.119 It was working mom food, um, you

know, and Tim cooked for the boys when they there because they were big boys, and Tim's a big guy, so he cooked big manly food when they got older in the whole college. 01:09:03.439 --> 01:09:06.079 Okay, the meat, the meat and the potatoes, right, Tim? 01:09:06.399 --> 01:09:16.800 But when it comes to like entertaining, like I can pull off of turkey dinner, uh, you know, we do it chairwise, but um, we're not giving you a straight answer. 01:09:16.960 --> 01:09:29.520 So, you know, a lot of a lot of moms, like you know, their love language is their kitchen and all of the wonderfulness, and I think that's pretty common, but that was that wasn't my love language, you know. 01:09:29.920 --> 01:09:31.439 But you did it, you got it done. 01:09:31.760 --> 01:09:34.079 I got it done, fed them, you know what I mean? 01:09:34.159 --> 01:09:36.239 By what you get a lot of other things to do. 01:09:36.319 --> 01:09:40.479 I'm like, yeah, I know that's yeah, that's sort of how it is with us. 01:09:40.560 --> 01:09:44.319 Yeah, so you both have your you don't love it, but you can both do it. 01:09:44.560 --> 01:09:44.720 Yeah. 01:09:45.439 --> 01:09:45.600 Okay. 01:09:46.000 --> 01:09:47.439 And then make reservations, right? 01:09:47.840 --> 01:09:50.319 Make reservations and you can do really well. 01:09:50.640 --> 01:09:52.479 Who um wait, I didn't ask this. 01:09:52.640 --> 01:09:54.560 Your boys can both dance, I'm assuming. 01:09:54.640 --> 01:09:54.880 Yes. 01:09:55.039 --> 01:09:58.880 And I know that you when you were on vacation on a family vacation, what was it a couple weeks ago? 01:09:58.960 --> 01:10:03.199 You did like a family dance and they just learned, I'm assuming, in your kitchen, in your basement. 01:10:03.439 --> 01:10:04.079 Yes, right. 01:10:04.239 --> 01:10:04.560 Okay. 01:10:05.039 --> 01:10:10.079 Um one is extremely like he's really hip hop. 01:10:10.239 --> 01:10:12.000 Uh, he's phenomenal. 01:10:12.079 --> 01:10:13.840 He's actually has a TikTok page. 01:10:14.000 --> 01:10:14.079 Right. 01:10:14.399 --> 01:10:14.479 Okay. 01:10:14.800 --> 01:10:14.960 Yeah. 01:10:15.119 --> 01:10:21.840 Brad underscore sherry and that kid, he uh our other son would would agree 100%. 01:10:22.239 --> 01:10:24.960 Like he's just on TikTok or is he on um? 01:10:25.359 --> 01:10:30.079 Well, they so he's only on TikTok, Brad underscore Sherry. 01:10:30.239 --> 01:10:35.039 The other son, Drew, is um an amazing uh vocalist, he's a singer. 01:10:35.279 --> 01:10:37.520 Oh he was my music, he was our music kid. 01:10:37.840 --> 01:10:39.840 Okay, yeah, I was gonna say which one was which. 01:10:40.159 --> 01:10:44.479 One is a uh uh a tenor, he's a beautiful vibrato. 01:10:45.039 --> 01:10:48.800 Um he sings beautifully, so you know. 01:10:49.199 --> 01:10:52.239 Um, so he's a singer and the other one's a dancer. 01:10:52.399 --> 01:10:54.640 A dancer, you've got a lot of things going on there. 01:10:54.720 --> 01:10:56.000 You guys should take it on

the road. 01:10:56.159 --> 01:10:57.600 Oh, wait, you're going to, right? 01:10:58.880 --> 01:11:00.960 You're like the new Von Traps or something. 01:11:01.199 --> 01:11:01.520 Yeah. 01:11:01.920 --> 01:11:02.239 Okay. 01:11:02.479 --> 01:11:06.800 Who when the kids first left, who missed them more when they went to college and your house was quiet? 01:11:06.880 --> 01:11:07.920 Who would you say missed them? 01:11:08.079 --> 01:11:09.279 I we both missed. 01:11:09.760 --> 01:11:13.439 I both times we dropped them off of college, I balled like a baby. 01:11:13.840 --> 01:11:14.159 Yeah. 01:11:14.479 --> 01:11:14.800 Ball. 01:11:15.119 --> 01:11:16.640 I mean, uncontrollably. 01:11:16.720 --> 01:11:24.479 Like where I think you were the old well, the older one, I felt like it was I couldn't breathe. 01:11:24.960 --> 01:11:25.680 I have a friend. 01:11:25.760 --> 01:11:28.000 I just did an episode with a friend that she said the same thing. 01:11:28.079 --> 01:11:28.640 She couldn't breathe. 01:11:30.640 --> 01:11:32.319 I couldn't catch my breath. 01:11:32.800 --> 01:11:34.399 And it lasted for days. 01:11:34.560 --> 01:11:40.960 I kept trying to fill my my lungs with oxygen. 01:11:41.279 --> 01:11:43.199 I felt like this. 01:11:43.520 --> 01:11:49.680 Um, and then with the second one, I just balled, we just balled because it's it was over. 01:11:49.760 --> 01:11:51.439 Yeah, it was like, oh boy. 01:11:51.600 --> 01:11:53.199 Oh, over. 01:11:53.920 --> 01:11:54.800 Did they go far away? 01:11:58.880 --> 01:11:59.920 Um the end of it. 01:12:00.079 --> 01:12:00.720 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 01:12:02.319 --> 01:12:04.800 I said, um, did they go far away for college? 01:12:05.119 --> 01:12:08.000 Drew, although all this went to Duquesne in Pittsburgh, so it's four hours. 01:12:08.479 --> 01:12:09.119 Duquesne University. 01:12:09.279 --> 01:12:12.560 And then Brad or youngest, he went to Catholic University in DC, so that's okay. 01:12:13.119 --> 01:12:16.720 So we're kind of three, four hours both ways, but at least they weren't in like California, right? 01:12:17.439 --> 01:12:18.880 Nobody wanted to go to Westchester, huh? 01:12:18.960 --> 01:12:19.359 That's a shame. 01:12:19.680 --> 01:12:20.000 Exactly. 01:12:20.079 --> 01:12:20.319 Yeah. 01:12:20.479 --> 01:12:21.039 They should have. 01:12:21.119 --> 01:12:22.000 I went to Millersville. 01:12:22.159 --> 01:12:24.159 I am a state school product myself. 01:12:24.319 --> 01:12:25.119 Yeah, Pennsylvania. 01:12:25.920 --> 01:12:26.640 It is a great place. 01:12:27.039 --> 01:12:27.920 It's a great place. 01:12:28.079 --> 01:12:30.399 Um, who plans a better date night? 01:12:31.119 --> 01:12:32.079 Oh, definitely. 01:12:33.279 --> 01:12:33.520 Okay. 01:12:33.840 --> 01:12:34.560 He plans them all. 01:12:34.720 --> 01:12:36.079 He doesn't plan anything. 01:12:36.479 --> 01:12:39.600 Well, you're just he's just so good at it, you don't have to, right, Tali. 01:12:39.840 --> 01:12:40.880 He's the social director. 01:12:41.199 --> 01:12:41.520 That's right. 01:12:41.600 --> 01:12:42.239 What what's your best? 01:12:42.319 --> 01:12:46.319 What do you what do you have a Friday, if you have a Saturday night, what are you doing? 01:12:46.399 --> 01:12:46.720 What's your plan? 01:12:47.279 --> 01:12:51.840 Actually, what what I love the most is uh playing nine holes of golf. 01:12:52.479 --> 01:12:54.560 Uh um, what is it called? 01:12:55.359 --> 01:12:56.159 Nine and dine. 01:12:56.319 --> 01:12:56.479 Okay. 01:12:56.720 --> 01:12:57.520 You just go out to dinner. 01:12:57.600 --> 01:12:59.520 Yeah, it's that's like a built-in, right? 01:12:59.600 --> 01:13:01.840 You play and then you're like, look, there's a restaurant right here. 01:13:02.079 --> 01:13:03.439 Yeah, love love doing that. 01:13:03.600 --> 01:13:04.720 All right, that sounds like fun. 01:13:04.800 --> 01:13:06.720 And your weather, the weather's getting nice. 01:13:07.279 --> 01:13:11.279 So that would be your dream free, your free Saturday would be nine holes in a restaurant. 01:13:11.359 --> 01:13:12.159 That was the next question. 01:13:12.319 --> 01:13:13.760 What would you do on a free Saturday? 01:13:13.920 --> 01:13:14.640 Yeah, play golf. 01:13:15.039 --> 01:13:18.079 Yeah, lay back, you know, not when we're not with friends or something. 01:13:18.159 --> 01:13:18.479 Yeah. 01:13:18.720 --> 01:13:20.159 Um, this is kind of a funny one. 01:13:20.239 --> 01:13:23.600 Now that you're together more often, who's more annoying? 01:13:26.239 --> 01:13:26.720 Jeez. 01:13:27.920 --> 01:13:30.000 Who's who's got the more annoying habits? 01:13:30.079 --> 01:13:30.560 What do you think? 01:13:30.640 --> 01:13:33.359 Or are you both just a delight to be with at all times? 01:13:33.439 --> 01:13:33.760 Probably. 01:13:34.000 --> 01:13:35.199 Oh, for God's sakes. 01:13:35.600 --> 01:13:38.000 We're like I said, we are very normal. 01:13:38.800 --> 01:13:39.680 We are normal. 01:13:40.319 --> 01:13:45.039 Rather, you know, regardless of what that one minute on Instagram shows you, we are very normal. 01:13:45.359 --> 01:13:51.680 What when we when we have the kids, I think there's that lends itself to having more conflicts. 01:13:52.640 --> 01:13:53.600 Yeah, like right now. 01:13:53.760 --> 01:13:55.279 Yeah, but right now without the kids. 01:13:55.520 --> 01:13:58.399 We don't really, I mean, there's no annoying habit to have. 01:13:58.960 --> 01:14:04.880 Yeah, like I think like though during the TikTok process when we make videos, I'm more impatient. 01:14:05.119 --> 01:14:09.760 Okay, she is and I'll be like, Can we just get the stop moving the furniture? 01:14:09.840 --> 01:14:11.199 Just let's get this thing done. 01:14:11.279 --> 01:14:12.319 And she's moving things around. 01:14:12.399 --> 01:14:13.439 I'm like, I just want to get this. 01:14:13.920 --> 01:14:16.800 I I am the one with the artistic eye, yes, okay. 01:14:17.600 --> 01:14:25.279 And the and that couch is in your

room, and all of that really matters, and all he wants to do is get it done and over with. 01:14:25.439 --> 01:14:29.439 And I'm like, okay, there's you need space to move, you know. 01:14:30.159 --> 01:14:35.119 Yes, yeah, so it's our my impatience and her patience, but so you're even each other out. 01:14:35.279 --> 01:14:38.319 So yeah, Tim's Tim's an impatient guy, yeah. 01:14:38.720 --> 01:14:48.159 He's I am not, I'm impatient, and my husband is very patient, and sometimes it's annoying because I'm like, can we just you know, and he's like, anything worth doing is worth doing well. 01:14:48.239 --> 01:14:49.199 I'm like, can we just get it done? 01:14:49.279 --> 01:14:50.720 So, Tim, I feel you on that. 01:14:50.800 --> 01:14:51.279 I feel you. 01:14:51.520 --> 01:14:51.920 Yes. 01:14:52.159 --> 01:14:55.039 Um, who are both of your favorite singers? 01:14:57.680 --> 01:14:58.159 Singer. 01:14:59.199 --> 01:15:06.640 So, like, are you taught are you thinking like RB of all time, of all time, if you could only listen to one singer or one band forever. 01:15:06.880 --> 01:15:08.800 Well, I think we'll agree on the same band. 01:15:09.039 --> 01:15:09.359 Oh. 01:15:10.319 --> 01:15:11.279 Earth, Wind and Fire. 01:15:11.359 --> 01:15:12.800 Yeah, we I was gonna say okay. 01:15:13.039 --> 01:15:13.840 Earth, Wind and Fire. 01:15:14.000 --> 01:15:15.680 Were they they're dancing in September, right? 01:15:15.760 --> 01:15:16.640 They just had a moment. 01:15:16.800 --> 01:15:18.800 Okay, they just you could just listen to that all the time. 01:15:18.960 --> 01:15:27.840 Yeah, but one of our other favorite singers, I don't know if you saw the video, we we met him, we performed on stage before and Luther Vandros. 01:15:28.079 --> 01:15:38.399 And Luther Vanros Jeffrey Osborne was in film and the WDAS in Philadelphia, Patty Jackson asked us to come out, and we were we were on stage dancing be right before Jeffrey Osborne. 01:15:38.479 --> 01:15:39.600 It was the headlining act, yeah. 01:15:39.680 --> 01:15:47.840 And then we went up, he took us backstage, and we met him, and he literally is like, I love your videos, and you're like, Thanks, thanks, we love you. 01:15:48.159 --> 01:15:48.960 It was gracious. 01:15:49.199 --> 01:15:52.720 But you know us with him and he wanted his picture with us. 01:15:52.960 --> 01:15:56.000 Like, I was like, Oh my gosh, it was crazy, it was a surreal moment. 01:15:56.079 --> 01:15:58.319 So, yeah, we love Jeffrey Osborne. 01:15:58.399 --> 01:16:00.159 We love like Justin Turmer like Bruno Moore's. 01:16:00.239 --> 01:16:04.319 We just it's no, but like my favorite vocalists are like Luther. 01:16:04.479 --> 01:16:08.880 Yeah, I feel like maybe that can be your Christmas card, the card with with your guy, you know. 01:16:09.039 --> 01:16:09.520 Yeah, there you go. 01:16:09.840 --> 01:16:12.399 Three of you here, Merry Christmas from the Sherries, right? 01:16:12.560 --> 01:16:13.359 Yeah, this is it. 01:16:13.439 --> 01:16:13.840 We're done. 01:16:13.920 --> 01:16:15.279 We don't have to spend any more. 01:16:15.600 --> 01:16:16.800 Reach the pinnacle. 01:16:16.960 --> 01:16:19.760 Yeah, um uh favorite book. 01:16:19.920 --> 01:16:20.800 Are you big uh tally? 01:16:20.960 --> 01:16:23.279 I'm assuming you're a big reader if you're reading some big readers. 01:16:23.680 --> 01:16:28.640 Yeah, Tim Tim reads a lot of biographies, lots of nonfiction. 01:16:28.960 --> 01:16:34.800 I am a definite um, I'm like a top five girl. 01:16:34.960 --> 01:16:39.279 Like uh I love the night and gale from Kirsten Hannah. 01:16:39.439 --> 01:16:40.000 Oh yes. 01:16:40.159 --> 01:16:41.840 Um, did you read the women? 01:16:41.920 --> 01:16:43.039 I didn't read the women. 01:16:43.359 --> 01:16:45.840 The women, yeah. 01:16:46.079 --> 01:16:48.880 Yes, I that oh my god, Theo of Golden. 01:16:48.960 --> 01:16:53.439 Hello, the it's like all the rage. 01:16:53.760 --> 01:16:55.279 Theo of Golden. 01:16:55.520 --> 01:16:56.239 I'm writing it down. 01:16:56.399 --> 01:16:57.760 Okay, Theo of Golden. 01:16:57.840 --> 01:16:59.279 Is that Kristen Hanna or no? 01:16:59.520 --> 01:17:00.319 No, no. 01:17:00.399 --> 01:17:10.800 The um it's it's and the the whole story on the author is um this this 70-year-old guy who wrote this. 01:17:10.960 --> 01:17:13.840 He he he and his niece published it himself. 01:17:13.920 --> 01:17:18.079 It's a now, it's a best, it's uh New York Times bestseller. 01:17:18.399 --> 01:17:21.600 It is um, oh my gosh, it's I haven't heard of it. 01:17:21.680 --> 01:17:23.039 I don't now I'll hear about it all the time. 01:17:23.119 --> 01:17:24.000 Now I'm trying to figure out. 01:17:25.439 --> 01:17:30.319 What's the name of the uh Alan uh something or other? 01:17:31.039 --> 01:17:33.439 And he published it himself. 01:17:33.520 --> 01:17:35.520 It's like a New York Times bestseller. 01:17:35.840 --> 01:17:48.479 It was that he had that he has had this amazing, he was an attorney and he became a judge, and he he has this whole life before he decided to sit down and write this book. 01:17:48.640 --> 01:17:50.880 He's a musician and a singer and a songwriter. 01:17:50.960 --> 01:17:55.520 And wow, oh my gosh, it's um really, really good. 01:17:55.760 --> 01:18:00.800 Um I will link that in the show notes as well because maybe now we're all gonna be reading that book. 01:18:01.119 --> 01:18:06.079 Oh my gosh, it's uh it I mean, literally in the last year and a half. 01:18:06.159 --> 01:18:08.720 Um, it's everybody's reading it. 01:18:08.800 --> 01:18:09.359 It's wonderful. 01:18:09.600 --> 01:18:10.000 Except me. 01:18:10.720 --> 01:18:11.039 You know what? 01:18:11.119 --> 01:18:13.680 You gotta read it soon because it's gonna be a movie that's that good. 01:18:13.840 --> 01:18:15.119 Oh, okay, okay. 01:18:15.199 --> 01:18:15.520 Yes. 01:18:15.760 --> 01:18:18.640 I felt like The Women would be a really good movie too, don't you think? 01:18:18.800 -->

01:18:24.159 Like I feel like yeah, I mean, we would all cry through it, but I felt like that, like of all books that I've read lately. 01:18:24.239 --> 01:18:25.840 I'm like, that would be a great movie. 01:18:26.079 --> 01:18:26.319 Yes. 01:18:30.640 --> 01:18:30.960 Yeah. 01:18:31.600 --> 01:18:33.520 Um, sorry, dude. 01:18:33.600 --> 01:18:34.319 What were you gonna say? 01:18:34.399 --> 01:18:38.479 Okay, no, I was just gonna give you like five other titles, but we can be talking about you know what? 01:18:38.560 --> 01:18:40.159 You can email them to me and I'll stick them in there. 01:18:40.239 --> 01:18:41.600 It'll be Tolly's book recommendation. 01:18:41.840 --> 01:18:45.119 I know, but like we can talk about books, you know, for the next hour. 01:18:45.359 --> 01:18:53.520 Well, I keep saying on all these episodes I love to read and I just haven't I have a list on my phone of probably 300 books I want to read. 01:18:53.600 --> 01:18:55.439 And it's like I'm so tired. 01:18:56.000 --> 01:19:01.439 When I was in when I was doing what you're doing now, I I got through maybe two or three in a summer. 01:19:01.520 --> 01:19:02.079 That was it. 01:19:02.239 --> 01:19:05.840 Yeah, I I would start and I got through a page and would pass out. 01:19:06.079 --> 01:19:08.159 So there there was a time now. 01:19:08.239 --> 01:19:11.199 I'm reading like a lunatic, but I feel like that'll be me. 01:19:12.079 --> 01:19:15.680 It'll come back, but you you gotta be your mom first, you know. 01:19:15.760 --> 01:19:18.319 Yes, nobody cares that I have one of your chapters. 01:19:18.880 --> 01:19:21.920 Yeah, don't don't do not beat yourself up about that. 01:19:22.159 --> 01:19:23.359 Something's gotta give, right? 01:19:23.600 --> 01:19:24.800 I guess right now it's books. 01:19:24.880 --> 01:19:28.880 All right, but then every time I add a book to my list, I'm like, oh, I'm never gonna get to all these books. 01:19:29.039 --> 01:19:32.000 But then I have asterisk next to the ones that people tell me are really good. 01:19:32.079 --> 01:19:34.479 And I'm like, I don't know why this book was really good. 01:19:34.640 --> 01:19:35.760 But anyway, I'll get to it. 01:19:35.920 --> 01:19:40.000 And so do you have a do you have a favorite or are you just like the nonfiction biographies? 01:19:40.239 --> 01:19:42.319 I you know, I just finished Kenny Chesney's book. 01:19:42.399 --> 01:19:43.359 I mean, I love Kenny Chesney. 01:19:43.520 --> 01:19:46.319 Oh, but I but I've read like I love Stephen A. 01:19:46.479 --> 01:19:48.479 Smith, uh I've read his book. 01:19:48.560 --> 01:19:50.560 I read Rich Paul, who's the sports agent. 01:19:50.800 --> 01:19:51.439 Neil Peart. 01:19:52.079 --> 01:19:52.960 Oh, he's isn't he? 01:19:53.039 --> 01:19:55.119 Um is he LeBron's agent? 01:19:55.359 --> 01:19:55.600 Yes. 01:19:55.840 --> 01:19:56.720 Okay, look at me. 01:19:56.960 --> 01:19:58.880 Look at me with my sports knowledge, aren't you proud? 01:19:59.199 --> 01:19:59.520 Great book. 01:19:59.600 --> 01:20:02.640 And so that um you like that one with Neil Peart. 01:20:02.880 --> 01:20:03.359 What's it called? 01:20:03.680 --> 01:20:04.560 It's called Ghost Rider. 01:20:04.800 --> 01:20:05.199 Ghost Rider. 01:20:05.600 --> 01:20:10.000 Neil Peart was the legendary drummer of Rush, which was one of my favorite bands growing up. 01:20:10.159 --> 01:20:12.800 Okay, he lost his his daughter. 01:20:13.119 --> 01:20:13.760 Died of cancer. 01:20:14.000 --> 01:20:15.119 No, his daughter was in a car accident. 01:20:15.279 --> 01:20:15.680 Oh, that's right. 01:20:15.760 --> 01:20:17.760 Okay, six months later, his wife dies of cancer. 01:20:17.840 --> 01:20:19.039 So they stuck with nothing. 01:20:19.279 --> 01:20:30.319 Oh he either was going to commit suicide, or he got on his BMW motorcycle and rode 50,000 miles around the country and got his life together in all these towns, and and then he got remarried. 01:20:30.479 --> 01:20:31.439 Yeah, it's it's a number of things. 01:20:31.600 --> 01:20:32.399 Yeah, so that's okay. 01:20:32.479 --> 01:20:34.319 You'll have to send me the the those titles too. 01:20:34.960 --> 01:20:46.560 Ghost Rider is cool because he was started with such heartache and then decided to get on this motorcycle and go across, you know, and uh he's a genius percussionist. 01:20:47.119 --> 01:20:47.760 Unfortunately, yeah. 01:20:47.920 --> 01:20:52.239 Um, so it's it it I think that was you were really moved by that book. 01:20:52.479 --> 01:20:53.520 That sounds like a good one. 01:20:53.680 --> 01:20:53.920 Hmm. 01:20:54.079 --> 01:20:55.199 A little bit of everything, right? 01:20:55.279 --> 01:20:56.880 Like a little sorrow, a little joy. 01:20:57.039 --> 01:20:59.920 And uh Tim, the um what was I gonna say? 01:21:00.079 --> 01:21:00.880 Andy Chesney. 01:21:00.960 --> 01:21:01.760 No, not yes, no. 01:21:02.319 --> 01:21:05.680 Andy Chesney, he I went to high school with Andy Chesney, Kenny Chesney. 01:21:06.000 --> 01:21:13.680 Um, he wrote No Shoes, No Shirt, No Problem, about um uh an island called Yost Van Dyke in the British Virgin Islands. 01:21:13.760 --> 01:21:16.319 I went there a long time ago, right after I graduated from college. 01:21:16.560 --> 01:21:17.680 No, he didn't write it about there. 01:21:17.760 --> 01:21:19.600 That was where he filmed the music video. 01:21:19.760 --> 01:21:22.399 And uh my friends and I thought that was very cool when we were there. 01:21:22.560 --> 01:21:24.159 We didn't see him, but he was there. 01:21:24.640 --> 01:21:25.119 Yes. 01:21:25.279 --> 01:21:26.479 Um, so yeah. 01:21:26.640 --> 01:21:31.199 Uh all right, last one favorite restaurant, not the golf course. 01:21:32.399 --> 01:21:36.000 Favorite restaurant, or favorite kind of food to go out to eat. 01:21:36.079 --> 01:21:38.560 Like if you like Italian, if you you know, either one. 01:21:39.119 --> 01:21:43.119 Do you want what like local or or if just favorite cuisine?

01:21:43.199 --> 01:21:43.760 What do you like? 01:21:43.840 --> 01:21:47.039 Or you know, I'm a I'm a big Italian guy. 01:21:47.279 --> 01:21:49.680 He loves Italian, Tim loves Italian, yeah. 01:21:50.000 --> 01:21:56.800 But I love a good steak, but I don't eat steaks for when I do, I'd love to go to a you know, great, great steakhouse and but yeah, you love it. 01:21:58.079 --> 01:21:59.840 You love Italian, I rarely eat steaks. 01:22:00.079 --> 01:22:06.560 I if I if I'll go to have a steak if it's someone else is paying for it because anyone's good to know if you're gonna take Tim out for dinner. 01:22:06.880 --> 01:22:07.840 Steaks for$75. 01:22:08.079 --> 01:22:09.840 I'm like, I'm not paying$75 for a steak. 01:22:09.920 --> 01:22:10.880 I'd rather go get to it. 01:22:10.960 --> 01:22:13.760 So yeah, that's go buy it at the store and make it it for yourself at home. 01:22:14.000 --> 01:22:20.000 Yeah, he Tim loves Italian, he loves barbecue, you love like big soul food. 01:22:20.159 --> 01:22:23.760 He's he's mac and cheese, maybe a little something, right? 01:22:24.000 --> 01:22:36.720 Yeah, I I'm more of like uh I don't know, like a quaint, like French dish, you know, like with a grilled halibut on a on a puree of something like you know, with the like a little artisticky, yeah, yeah. 01:22:37.039 --> 01:22:39.359 Because if you're not cooking it, it might as well be beautiful, yeah. 01:22:40.319 --> 01:22:43.439 I'm a fancy restaurant type of beauty, you know, lovely. 01:22:43.600 --> 01:22:44.239 What do we like? 01:22:44.319 --> 01:22:48.399 We love to go to like like uh the original Spence in in West Chester. 01:22:48.640 --> 01:22:49.760 Oh, in Westchester, yes. 01:22:49.840 --> 01:22:51.199 I've never been there, but people talk about it. 01:22:57.039 --> 01:22:59.600 How about um uh lemon cello in Westchester? 01:22:59.920 --> 01:23:01.760 Yes, lemoncello were there a lot. 01:23:01.920 --> 01:23:05.119 Tim, yeah, Tim likes that more than I do. 01:23:05.359 --> 01:23:05.600 Okay. 01:23:06.079 --> 01:23:07.439 We love the general worn in. 01:23:07.520 --> 01:23:13.359 Yes, yes, I definitely like fancy dining, um, for sure. 01:23:13.680 --> 01:23:18.239 Well, and there's a lot around here, so you can and in Philadelphia too, you can find a lot of really great restaurants. 01:23:18.479 --> 01:23:19.359 We'll go out fancy. 01:23:19.439 --> 01:23:20.640 I don't know about fancy, yeah. 01:23:20.720 --> 01:23:23.039 But we'll go out classy, shall we say classy? 01:23:23.279 --> 01:23:25.039 Yeah, we'll go out in Westchester, yeah. 01:23:25.119 --> 01:23:26.079 But I wouldn't say fancy. 01:23:26.560 --> 01:23:29.119 Have you done um have you been to Taco Mar in Melbourne yet? 01:23:29.199 --> 01:23:32.479 It's Mexican, but it's like yeah, homemade and fresh. 01:23:32.560 --> 01:23:33.039 It's really good. 01:23:33.439 --> 01:23:36.319 Is that the one over by um it was in the diner? 01:23:36.399 --> 01:23:38.399 It was the little diner on Route 30. 01:23:38.720 --> 01:23:39.199 Got you. 01:23:39.279 --> 01:23:40.479 Uh it's really good. 01:23:40.880 --> 01:23:43.600 You've got if you like like Mexican food, you should go there. 01:23:44.399 --> 01:23:45.920 Yeah, it's another one for you. 01:23:46.159 --> 01:23:47.119 Um, okay. 01:23:47.279 --> 01:23:57.840 Well, Tim and Tolly, thank you so much for joining me today and talking about uh parenting and you know what you would have done differently, what you did well, your traditions, your dancing. 01:23:58.000 --> 01:24:05.439 And thank you for reminding us that life does not have to be perfect or fancy to be meaningful and that you are just regular people enjoying life. 01:24:05.600 --> 01:24:11.760 Uh sometimes all it takes is a little music, a willing dance partner, and the courage to keep moving through every season together. 01:24:12.000 --> 01:24:19.840 If you enjoyed today's episode, oh, tell me you are, I know Tim Talk Sherry on mostly TikTok and Instagram, correct? 01:24:20.079 --> 01:24:21.600 Yeah, Instagram and TikTok. 01:24:21.760 --> 01:24:22.000 Yeah. 01:24:22.720 --> 01:24:26.960 We don't do anything on Facebook because X also it's on X, but no one looks at it. 01:24:27.119 --> 01:24:28.319 It's on X, as everyone looks. 01:24:28.560 --> 01:24:30.399 It's and write Facebooks for old people. 01:24:30.479 --> 01:24:32.560 That's what I hear because I'm still on Facebook. 01:24:32.720 --> 01:24:35.279 So yeah, we don't really post it. 01:24:35.359 --> 01:24:38.479 Yeah, it's it's primarily in real tick. 01:24:38.640 --> 01:24:40.399 Uh yeah, absolutely Instagram and TikTok. 01:24:40.720 --> 01:24:42.479 Instagram and TikTok, Tim Tac Sherry. 01:24:42.560 --> 01:24:42.880 Got it. 01:24:42.960 --> 01:24:44.399 And again, I'll link it. 01:24:44.479 --> 01:24:47.119 I'll we'll probably be in do some posts together and stuff. 01:24:47.199 --> 01:24:53.359 So people, if they're not already following you, which many, many, many people are, they can follow you after they listen to this. 01:24:53.600 --> 01:24:57.439 And funky funky fresh, funky fresh danceparty.com. 01:24:57.680 --> 01:24:59.279 Okay, we will add that as well. 01:24:59.439 --> 01:25:05.520 Okay, yeah, that's gonna have all the information about the the day the dance parties across the country. 01:25:05.680 --> 01:25:07.920 And when is that big announcement coming of all the police? 01:25:08.159 --> 01:25:10.560 Uh we're hoping this week, but probably early next week. 01:25:11.119 --> 01:25:14.239 Oh, so probably by the time this episode publishes, it'll already be out. 01:25:14.479 --> 01:25:15.359 Which is when? 01:25:15.760 --> 01:25:18.000 Um, either next Tuesday or the Tuesday after. 01:25:18.239 --> 01:25:18.560 We'll see. 01:25:18.720 --> 01:25:21.039 Yeah, I'll keep you around that day. 01:25:21.199 --> 01:25:23.119 Yeah, I I won't be the one to break the news. 01:25:23.199 --> 01:25:24.000 I'll let you do that. 01:25:25.199 --> 01:25:32.720 And if you enjoyed today's episode, please like, share, and follow mom's work podcast on Instagram and Facebook because I'm old. 01:25:32.800 --> 01:25:38.000 Um, you can listen, subscribe, and leave a review on any podcast platform where you listen. 01:25:38.159 --> 01:25:42.479 And you can also visit the newly launched momsworkpodcast.com. 01:25:42.640 --> 01:25:46.079 Tim and Tolly, thanks again so much for being here and chatting with me. 01:25:46.399 --> 01:25:46.960 Your pleasure. 01:25:47.119 --> 01:25:47.520 You're welcome. 01:25:47.760 --> 01:25:48.079 So awesome. 01:25:48.720 --> 01:25:49.520 Nice to be here. 01:25:49.760 --> 01:25:50.159 Great.