Sexy Tuxedo Jesus a Romance & Adventure Podcast

Sexy Tuxedo Jesus a Romance & Adventure Podcast
By Ron & Morgan Cecil
About this podcast
Sexy Tuxedo Jesus a Romance and Adventure Podcast explores what true romance and meaningful adventure look like it real life. Every week, Ron and Morgan Cecil, husband and wife with two kids, talk candidly about their relationship and dish out spiritual advice with a sexy twist.
Episodes (Total: 20 / Page: 1)
April 26, 2017 · 00:34:12
When most people think of foreplay they think of the things they do with their hands and/or mouth before intercourse. When we think of foreplay, we think of so much more.  In this episode we talk about how to architect your entire day so that two things happen.  1) You remove the obstacles blocking desire. 2) You awaken desire and turn up the heat. In this episode: - YOU’LL LEARN HOW ALL THE LITTLE DETAILS THROUGHOUT THE DAY CAN HAVE A GIANT IMPACT ON SEX LATER THAT NIGHT. - YOU’LL SEE HOW THE WAY MOST OF US LIVE ACTUALLY KILLS OUR DESIRE FOR SEX AND WHAT WE CAN DO ABOUT IT.  - YOU’LL HEAR EXACTLY WHAT WE DO THROUGHOUT THE DAY TO MAKE THE CONDITIONS RIGHT SO THAT IF THE MOOD DOES ARISE, WE’RE WAY MORE GAME.  - YOU’LL HEAR HOW QUICKLY MOST PEOPLE RUSH INTO SEX AND HOW LONG YOU SHOULD REALLY FOCUS ON GETTING WARMED UP BEFORE YOU ENGAGE IN INTERCOURSE. -YOU’LL HEAR HOW WE GOT STARTED [...]
April 17, 2017 · 00:42:43
Sex is sexy, but sexy sex is even sexier. Think back to the last time you had sex? What was it like? Was it great, was it just ok or was it a minor disaster Many couples, who really really love each other aren’t feeling fulfilled in the bedroom. Something feels off or lacking. There is more suffering than joy.  Most cases this isn’t because they don’t belong together, or there is something fundamentally wrong with either partner, but because they have never been taught what sexual well-being and a fulfilling sex life, i.e. sexy sex, could look like. What is Sexy Sexy? Sexy Sex is the fullness of Love & Turn-On, when your 5 senses are activated and you then experience the spiritual connection.   It’s what we [...]
March 29, 2017 · 00:40:01
If you’ve ever wondered how to really create a new desire in your life, this is the episode where we teach you how, and it’s not what you think. Follow along with The R&A Roadmap for Deeper Connection We are covering #12 DEVOTE YOURSELF TO WHAT LIGHTS YOU UP   Ron was walking with a friend of his the other day and his friend was telling him about a conversation that he and his wife had a few nights earlier. She looked at him and said, I just don’t see the fire in your eyes anymore. You seem defeated.  How many of us have had similar conversations? My friend isn’t alone, this happens to ALL of us. We’ve had countless other men and women tell us similar stories. Dreams that are started and never finished. Careers that have had so much promise but then are only met with disappointment. Not to mention the pain of a relations [...]
Feb. 3, 2017 · 00:37:52
So far, this year has been a real doozy. Politics, job transitions, money, continuing education, 2017 has already been a bit of an emotional tsunami. We are feeling a lot of feelings.  In this episode, we are talking about feelings and how to really feel those things. We remember Stewart Smalley is actually a US Senator. We discuss the grim reality of panic attacks and that no matter how cool you might think it is, cocaine is never cool. Ever.  Morgan teaches us what feelings really are … or at least has a laugh trying to.  Ron decides to pretend to have a mental breakdown on the street, just to see what it’s like.  We also talk about all the ways we run from them our feelings and 4 things we can do to actually process and grow from them.  1. Connect with your breath 2. Connect with the physical sensations in your body 3. In a private space, all alone, go crazy and scream and shout  4. 
Feb. 3, 2017 · 00:37:52
So far, this year has been a real doozy. Politics, job transitions, money, continuing education, 2017 has already been a bit of an emotional tsunami. We are feeling a lot of feelings.  In this episode, we are talking about feelings and how to really feel those things. We remember Stewart Smalley is actually a US Senator. We discuss the grim reality of panic attacks and that no matter how cool you might think it is, cocaine is never cool. Ever.  Morgan teaches us what feelings really are … or at least has a laugh trying to.  Ron decides to pretend to have a mental breakdown on the street, just to see what it’s like.  We also talk about all the ways we run from them our feelings and 4 things we can do to actually process and grow from them.  1. Connect with your breath 2. Connect with the physical sensations in your body 3. In a private space, all alone, go crazy and scream and shout  4. 
Jan. 26, 2017 · 00:02:50
Hey Guys,  We’re so bummed! We really did try and get something recorded, unfortunately Morgan was just too sick with a sinus infection to make it work. Thankfully she’s on antibiotics, so she’ll be on the up and up soon.  Tune in next week where were we will be discussing Intentional Feelings, or as like I like to say, feel the feelings. All of the feelings.  To give you a little taste, here is Louis CK discussing the very topic.    -Ron 
Jan. 11, 2017 · 00:45:31
In this episode you’ll hear our wins and losses from 2016. Ironically, one of our previous episodes was on how we won financially, which allowed us to go to Europe. In a horrible twist, money was also one of our biggest defeats! Also hear a hearfelt alopogy from Ron to Morgan about not getting her a birthday card last year.  How we’re already winning again with our money in 2017 and consistency and intentionality are the themes we carry into 2017.  Proverbs 8:22-31 Links from the show:  Mint.com We did a lot of research on how to get into investing (small-ish amounts). This is a brand new world to us. We were on the fence between, Acorns, Wealthfront, but finally landed on Betterment and Digit. More stuff we referred to in this show:
Jan. 11, 2017 · 00:45:31
In this episode you’ll hear our wins and losses from 2016. Ironically, one of our previous episodes was on how we won financially, which allowed us to go to Europe. In a horrible twist, money was also one of our biggest defeats! Also hear a hearfelt alopogy from Ron to Morgan about not getting her a birthday card last year.  How we’re already winning again with our money in 2017 and consistency and intentionality are the themes we carry into 2017.  Proverbs 8:22-31 Links from the show:  Mint.com We did a lot of research on how to get into investing (small-ish amounts). This is a brand new world to us. We were on the fence between, Acorns, Wealthfront, but finally landed on Betterment and Digit. More stuff we referred to in this show:
Dec. 1, 2016 · 01:13:34
We sit down with our friend Matt and Laura Arbo who are brave enough to recount their honeymoon disaster.  This kind of story is one we hear over and over or at least some form of it.  It usually goes like this, “I was a good christian kid, I waited to have sex until marriage, and it was a disaster!” Matt and Laura go into glory (glorious) detail of everything that went wrong on their wedding night and into their honeymoon. Including how the FedEx man almost walked in on their romantic, but not very private honeymoon airbnb. No story would be great without a redemptive ending! They also share their secrets that brought them from awkward and painful to fun and enjoyable! In this episode you also learn: Why rose pedals on a bed isn’t as sexy as you would think How the cultural view of sex is only tied to the [...]
Dec. 1, 2016 · 01:13:34
We sit down with our friend Matt and Laura Arbo who are brave enough to recount their honeymoon disaster.  This kind of story is one we hear over and over or at least some form of it.  It usually goes like this, “I was a good christian kid, I waited to have sex until marriage, and it was a disaster!” Matt and Laura go into glory (glorious) detail of everything that went wrong on their wedding night and into their honeymoon. Including how the FedEx man almost walked in on their romantic, but not very private honeymoon airbnb. No story would be great without a redemptive ending! They also share their secrets that brought them from awkward and painful to fun and enjoyable! In this episode you also learn: Why rose pedals on a bed isn’t as sexy as you would think How the cultural view of sex is only tied to the [...]
Nov. 23, 2016 · 00:41:34
Is fear holding you back? Fear keeps us from making progress and from going forward. It keeps us frozen and buried in shame. In this episode we talk about how we made the break from fear and get traction. Plus we resurrect Sexy Tuxedo Jesus and catch you up a little on what’s new with us. BEAUTIFUL QUESTIONS FOR DEEPER CONNECTION: 1) What one thing are you afraid of right now in this moment of your life? 2) What is the one thing you are going to do to move through that fear? 3) What’s your normal reaction when facing fear? 4) How do you want to live differently in 2017?
Nov. 23, 2016 · 00:41:34
Is fear holding you back? Fear keeps us from making progress and from going forward. It keeps us frozen and buried in shame. In this episode we talk about how we made the break from fear and get traction. Plus we resurrect Sexy Tuxedo Jesus and catch you up a little on what’s new with us. BEAUTIFUL QUESTIONS FOR DEEPER CONNECTION: 1) What one thing are you afraid of right now in this moment of your life? 2) What is the one thing you are going to do to move through that fear? 3) What’s your normal reaction when facing fear? 4) How do you want to live differently in 2017?
June 7, 2016 · 01:00:06
If you’ve ever wondered how we can afford to travel, this is episode where we share how we do it.  Money, Money, Money or How to travel like a millionaire, even when you aren’t one. Follow along with The R&A Roadmap for Deeper Connection We are covering #7 LIVE GRATEFULLY BELOW YOUR MEANS.   When we are grateful we say, “What I have and who I am is enough.” A materialistic and busy lifestyle isn’t sexy or fulfilling. When we trade entitlement for gratitude we end up with more time and money to spend on things that really matter.
May 31, 2016 · 00:51:33
If you are following along with The R&A Roadmap for Deeper Connection We skipped ahead this week in honor of our first ever Romance & Adventure Yoga Wellness Retreat.  R&A Practice #9 Make novelty a habit. Novelty is a big turn on. Put little adventures on the calendar every month and seek out new experiences to share with your favorite people. Say more yeses to spontaneous invites and fun opportunities.
May 16, 2016 · 00:53:36
R&A Practice #4: The basics of feeling good physically and spiritually come down to four simple things: eating more fruits and veggies, drinking lots of water, getting good sleep and rest, and forgiving every offense. Keep it simple and simply treat your body (and mind) like the temple it is. What’s the secret to having enough energy to pursue romance and adventure? How does sleep and water relate to the quality of your sex life? Why is forgiveness as important as what you eat when it come [...]
May 10, 2016 · 00:52:12
R&A Practice #3:  Bring dedicated attention to your inhale and exhale for at least 2-20 min/day. It doesn’t matter if you are exercising, doing yoga, driving your kids to school, going to lunch, or sitting in meditation/prayer/stillness. Simple breath practice is the most effective tool we have to relieve stress, feel good in our body and connected to our heart. How do you go from feeling anxious and swimming in a mind full of thoughts and worries into a state of tenderness, receptivity and calm? How can we jou [...]
May 3, 2016 · 01:04:37
Bring life-giving rituals into your daily routine, like lighting a candle in the a.m. instead of turning on a screen. It reconnects you to the present, to the sacred and to your True Self. How do you get out of a rut and into a groove? Is there a way to stop feeling like life is passing you by? There are things we have to do everyday– eat, sleep, go to work, put our kids to bed, clean the house and ourselves, are a few examples. Can we make this everyday stuff mo [...]
April 26, 2016 · 00:57:44
Awakening delight in your physical senses returns you to the joy of being human. Look for ways to bring beauty into your day via taste, touch, sight, scent and sound. How do you delight in your senses? We discuss the first of 12 practices that we have laid out in the Road Map for Deeper Connection and Sexy Confidence. Morgan and I sit down and interview one another about our relationship with our senses and how we’ve learned to to delight in [...]
April 19, 2016
Episode 2: How to have more good days than bad. Coming to you from the finca in Andalucia, we discuss the practices and rituals that we have discovered for ourselves that answers the basic question, how do we do the good things that make us feel like good humans? We look at examples from our everyday life (from how we make coffee to our sex life) on creating the conditions for deep connection and transcendent moments. In this episode:
April 12, 2016
This week we’re coming to you from a farm house in Andalucia, Spain.  This episode, we talk about that we mean when we say Romance and Adventure. Both are words that are pre-loaded with controversy and triggers. It’s not all candle lit dinners and horseback riding. We use the Hero’s Journey to map out the process of what it means to live life to the full with True Romance and Meaningful Adventure. We’ll also catch you up on our 3 month long trip to Europe. Other questi [...]