Sexy Tuxedo Jesus a Romance & Adventure Podcast

Sexy Tuxedo Jesus a Romance & Adventure Podcast
By Ron & Morgan Cecil
About this podcast
Sexy Tuxedo Jesus a Romance and Adventure Podcast explores what true romance and meaningful adventure look like it real life. Every week, Ron and Morgan Cecil, husband and wife with two kids, talk candidly about their relationship and dish out spiritual advice with a sexy twist.
Latest episodes
April 26, 2017
When most people think of foreplay they think of the things they do with their hands and/or mouth before intercourse. When we think of foreplay, we think of so much more.  In this episode we talk about how to architect your entire day so that two things happen.  1) You remove the obstacles blocking desire. 2) You awaken desire and turn up the heat. In this episode: - YOU'LL LEARN HOW ALL THE LITTLE DETAILS THROUGHOUT THE DAY CAN HAVE A GIANT IMPACT ON SEX LATER THAT NIGHT. - YOU'LL SEE HOW THE WAY MOST OF US LIVE ACTUALLY KILLS OUR DESIRE FOR SEX AND WHAT WE CAN DO ABOUT IT.  - YOU’LL HEAR EXACTLY WHAT WE DO THROUGHOUT THE DAY TO MAKE THE CONDITIONS RIGHT SO THAT IF THE MOOD DOES ARISE, WE'RE WAY MORE GAME.  - YOU’LL HEAR HOW QUICKLY MOST PEOPLE RUSH INTO SEX AND HOW LONG YOU SHOULD REALLY FOCUS ON GETTING WARMED UP BEFORE YOU ENGAGE IN INTERCOURSE. -YOU’LL HEAR HOW WE GOT STARTED WITH TANTRA AND HOW IT'S REVOLUTIONIZED OUR SEX LIFE.  We’ve also included all the questions that we asked each other (plus a few more we didn’t get to) in the notes below. Use them on your next date night with your lover, dinner party with your bffs, or as journal prompts to get to know your own heart better. Thanks for listening and thanks for subscribing. If you enjoyed this episode, please click on the share buttons below and share with your friends and community. BEAUTIFUL QUESTIONS FOR DEEPER CONNECTION: What turns you on in life? What turns you on in the bedroom? What turns you off in life? What turns you off in the bedroom? Design an ideal day that leads to intimacy and shared connection.  QUOTES FROM THIS WEEK’S EPISODE The Romance & Adventure definition of foreplay is actively pursuing what light you and your partner up and turning on the whole self. Gives her heart what it really wants-- intimacy! -Morgan “Foreplay begins at the end of the previous orgasm.” —Esther Perel
April 17, 2017
Sex is sexy, but sexy sex is even sexier. Think back to the last time you had sex? What was it like? Was it great, was it just ok or was it a minor disaster Many couples, who really really love each other aren’t feeling fulfilled in the bedroom. Something feels off or lacking. There is more suffering than joy.  Most cases this isn’t because they don’t belong together, or there is something fundamentally wrong with either partner, but because they have never been taught what sexual well-being and a fulfilling sex life, i.e. sexy sex, could look like. What is Sexy Sexy? Sexy Sex is the fullness of Love & Turn-On, when your 5 senses are activated and you then experience the spiritual connection.   It’s what we all really want and we can’t quite articulate, but know it when you have it.   It’s when you’ve got the basics-- safety, love and belonging and it’s amplified by an erotic energy. “Carnality feels welcome and safe.” There is no guilt or shame or fear.   Everything belongs. It’s all in the light. Naughtiness in the light is FUN and JOY. SEXY SEX ISN’T JUST ABOUT INTERCOURSE, It’s connection! “The tragedy of sexual intercourse is the perpetual virginity of the soul. ~William B. Yeats”   Sexy Sex is sex where you truly open up emotionally and sexually to your partner and receive love and safety and belonging from him and yourself.   Questions to know if you are having Sexy Sex   - Do you feel energized, uplifted and happy? - Do you feel calm, centred and grounded, like you’ve become more of your true, authentic self? - Do you feel more excited confident, like more is possible in your future than you could see before? "Sex is always about emotions. Good sex is about free emotions; bad sex is about blocked emotions." -Deepak Chopra   What is a quick win regarding Sexy Sex? -Listen to this podcast with your spouse. It will naturally prompt new conversations. You don’t have to take responsibility for awkward conversations, we'll start them for you! -Get excited about taking your sex life on as a worthwhile endeavor, journey, and adventure that is full of mystery, risk, but is very meaningful. -Put intimacy on the calendar. The goal is connection, not orgasm. The goal is closeness, not penetration.
March 29, 2017
If you've ever wondered how to really create a new desire in your life, this is the episode where we teach you how, and it's not what you think. Follow along with The R&A Roadmap for Deeper Connection We are covering #12 DEVOTE YOURSELF TO WHAT LIGHTS YOU UP   Ron was walking with a friend of his the other day and his friend was telling him about a conversation that he and his wife had a few nights earlier. She looked at him and said, I just don't see the fire in your eyes anymore. You seem defeated.  How many of us have had similar conversations? My friend isn't alone, this happens to ALL of us. We've had countless other men and women tell us similar stories. Dreams that are started and never finished. Careers that have had so much promise but then are only met with disappointment. Not to mention the pain of a relationship that has lost its way, especially in the bedroom. The sum total means that we are left with less light in our life. In this episode, we are going to explore: 1) How to create a "beautiful state" of mind. 2) How to create the emotions in ourselves that helps us delight in whatever we find ourselves 3) How in doing so, we "turn ourselves on," yes even in sex.  The gist is this, when we do the activities that light up, we become healthier people, we are better partners, better parents, and even better and giving and receiving love in all its forms.   Plus, we have a few really cool announcements.    Firstly, Morgan is leading an incredible women's retreat in Italy this summer, there are just a few spots left and if you've been on the fence, it's time to act.  The retreat is called Sophia Embodied, you can check it out here. Plus, Ron just finished a primer on fear called Face your Fear. It's available on amazon or get it for free at RonCecil.com  
Feb. 3, 2017
So far, this year has been a real doozy. Politics, job transitions, money, continuing education, 2017 has already been a bit of an emotional tsunami. We are feeling a lot of feelings.  In this episode, we are talking about feelings and how to really feel those things. We remember Stewart Smalley is actually a US Senator. We discuss the grim reality of panic attacks and that no matter how cool you might think it is, cocaine is never cool. Ever.  Morgan teaches us what feelings really are ... or at least has a laugh trying to.  Ron decides to pretend to have a mental breakdown on the street, just to see what it's like.  We also talk about all the ways we run from them our feelings and 4 things we can do to actually process and grow from them.  1. Connect with your breath 2. Connect with the physical sensations in your body 3. In a private space, all alone, go crazy and scream and shout  4. Meditate Plus, we discuss how learning how to make animal sounds really did lead to better sex! No joke.  So, whether you are super bummed out by the current political situation or needing to grieve over the loss of the loved one, we'll teach you what we've been doing lately to wade through the very same waters. 
Feb. 3, 2017
So far, this year has been a real doozy. Politics, job transitions, money, continuing education, 2017 has already been a bit of an emotional tsunami. We are feeling a lot of feelings.  In this episode, we are talking about feelings and how to really feel those things. We remember Stewart Smalley is actually a US Senator. We discuss the grim reality of panic attacks and that no matter how cool you might think it is, cocaine is never cool. Ever.  Morgan teaches us what feelings really are … or at least has a laugh trying to.  Ron decides to pretend to have a mental breakdown on the street, just to see what it’s like.  We also talk about all the ways we run from them our feelings and 4 things we can do to actually process and grow from them.  1. Connect with your breath 2. Connect with the physical sensations in your body 3. In a private space, all alone, go crazy and scream and shout  4. 
Jan. 26, 2017
Hey Guys,  We’re so bummed! We really did try and get something recorded, unfortunately Morgan was just too sick with a sinus infection to make it work. Thankfully she’s on antibiotics, so she’ll be on the up and up soon.  Tune in next week where were we will be discussing Intentional Feelings, or as like I like to say, feel the feelings. All of the feelings.  To give you a little taste, here is Louis CK discussing the very topic.    -Ron 
Jan. 11, 2017
In this episode you'll hear our wins and losses from 2016. Ironically, one of our previous episodes was on how we won financially, which allowed us to go to Europe. In a horrible twist, money was also one of our biggest defeats! Also hear a hearfelt alopogy from Ron to Morgan about not getting her a birthday card last year.  How we're already winning again with our money in 2017 and consistency and intentionality are the themes we carry into 2017.  Proverbs 8:22-31 Links from the show:  Mint.com We did a lot of research on how to get into investing (small-ish amounts). This is a brand new world to us. We were on the fence between, Acorns, Wealthfront, but finally landed on Betterment and Digit. More stuff we referred to in this show: Sophia Sessions! Come on a muy, muy romantico get away with us in sunny Mexico!  
Jan. 11, 2017
In this episode you’ll hear our wins and losses from 2016. Ironically, one of our previous episodes was on how we won financially, which allowed us to go to Europe. In a horrible twist, money was also one of our biggest defeats! Also hear a hearfelt alopogy from Ron to Morgan about not getting her a birthday card last year.  How we’re already winning again with our money in 2017 and consistency and intentionality are the themes we carry into 2017.  Proverbs 8:22-31 Links from the show:  Mint.com We did a lot of research on how to get into investing (small-ish amounts). This is a brand new world to us. We were on the fence between, Acorns, Wealthfront, but finally landed on Betterment and Digit. More stuff we referred to in this show:
Dec. 1, 2016
We sit down with our friend Matt and Laura Arbo who are brave enough to recount their honeymoon disaster.  This kind of story is one we hear over and over or at least some form of it.  It usually goes like this, "I was a good christian kid, I waited to have sex until marriage, and it was a disaster!" Matt and Laura go into glory (glorious) detail of everything that went wrong on their wedding night and into their honeymoon. Including how the FedEx man almost walked in on their romantic, but not very private honeymoon airbnb. No story would be great without a redemptive ending! They also share their secrets that brought them from awkward and painful to fun and enjoyable! In this episode you also learn: Why rose pedals on a bed isn't as sexy as you would think How the cultural view of sex is only tied to the male orgasm How preparing for great sex is a must How a husbands lead is critical in making sex fantastic- (stay to the end, Matt really shares some great stuff about this) We're so grateful to hear and share their story. Go follow them on instagram and let them know how much you appreciate them too.  Matt on Instragram Laura on Instagram  
Dec. 1, 2016
We sit down with our friend Matt and Laura Arbo who are brave enough to recount their honeymoon disaster.  This kind of story is one we hear over and over or at least some form of it.  It usually goes like this, “I was a good christian kid, I waited to have sex until marriage, and it was a disaster!” Matt and Laura go into glory (glorious) detail of everything that went wrong on their wedding night and into their honeymoon. Including how the FedEx man almost walked in on their romantic, but not very private honeymoon airbnb. No story would be great without a redemptive ending! They also share their secrets that brought them from awkward and painful to fun and enjoyable! In this episode you also learn: Why rose pedals on a bed isn’t as sexy as you would think How the cultural view of sex is only tied to the [...]