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Update frequency:
biweekly
Average audio length:
32 minutes
English
United States
28 episodes
since July 20, 2022
episodic

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On this episode, I talk about:- Signs of victim mentality- the root cause of victim mentality- difference between victimhood mentality vs survivor mentality- why it is hard to break out of victimhood mentality and hidden benefits- examples of how victimhood mindset affect us in our parenting and ma…

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This is our first story feature with a foreign-born mama! Aisulu and I talked about motherhood in the US, how we want to be a different parent, challenges of mothering in the US and how we are navigating past and present. Aisulu brought up our usual behaviors and thinking through her story and how …
I was invited to be a guest on a podcast "Self-care for Childhood Trauma Survivors" with Erin Hearts. We talked about:- How trauma affects us as moms and how it is different for immigrant moms- We shared self-care tools and how it is important for keeping us regulated and manage our react…
On this episode, I talk about:- Invisible standards we have on physical beauty and what makes us attractive and desire-able- cultural and societal conditioning of women and standards- how these standards have traumatized and still traumatizing women- how these standards makes us create internal bel…
On this episode, I share about:- story of how Oprah Winfrey opened a new school and how girls were not thriving despite how an amazing environment she created for them to thrive- I discuss how childhood trauma was affecting these girls in learning and reaching their potential- I discuss similaritie…
On  this epidose, I talk about how we, as women and moms, give away our power to men , particularly to our husbands to make this day special for us, to make us feel special. I offer a different perspective and discuss the potential old patterns and beliefs that may be guiding our feelings and emoti…
On this episode, I talked about:- Turning 40 years old and how it can make us feels as women- Share my decision to celebrate my birthday big time and feeling guilt -  Unconscious beliefs and thoughts in my head - where does this guilt come from and how is it affecting us?- Patriarchy and women&apos…
In this episode, I invite you to slow down and connect with natural cycles of winter season. The episode goes then to explain how trauma affected our brain size and our nervous system. As childhood trauma survivors, we need to understand the difference between sympathetic and parasympathetic system…
In this episode, Erin and I talked about:-  Sexual childhood trauma and how it is an effect of emotional neglect at home- Narcissistic partners and why we attract emotionally unavailable partners in life- Intergenerational patterns and parents' traumas- How motherhood can invite us to awaken f…
In this episode, I talk about:- the significance of New Years Eve in other countries- New Years Eve as a time to do a reset and set some goals and intentions- Difference between how goal and intention settings are done in the US vs Kyrgyzstani culture- How to find balance between the different ways…
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