Typical- Episode 1-এর সম্পূর্ণ প্রতিলিপি

00:01:41,589.003 Yeah. 41 00:01:41,909.003 --> 00:01:43,79.001 It was a God thing, for sure. 42 00:01:43,138.999 --> 00:01:43,368.999 Yeah. 43 00:01:43,369.002 --> 00:01:46,929.004 God pushed us into the same paths again and again, and we've talked about this before. 44 00:01:46,929.004 --> 00:01:49,539.004 I think if we had met back then, we probably wouldn't be friends. 45 00:01:50,208.999 --> 00:01:55,29.004 Well, no, we wouldn't have been- 'cause you're a rule follower, and I'm- And you were very not- Yeah back then. 46 00:01:55,29.004 --> 00:01:55,228.999 Yeah. 47 00:01:55,278.999 --> 00:01:55,678.999 Yeah. 48 00:01:55,939.002 --> 00:01:56,189.002 Yeah. 49 00:01:57,979.003 --> 00:02:03,559.002 I tell people Tara's more of a free spirit than I am, but I've always envied free spirits. 50 00:02:03,559.005 --> 00:02:05,369.162 I wish I could be that free. 51 00:02:05,799.161 --> 00:02:07,369.163 Yeah, and you help keep me grounded. 52 00:02:07,379.162 --> 00:02:07,779.162 Yeah. 53 00:02:07,779.162 --> 00:02:07,939.168 For sure. 54 00:02:07,939.168 --> 00:02:09,409.166 I gotta pull you back all the time. 55 00:02:09,439.168 --> 00:02:09,729.168 Yeah. 56 00:02:09,879.162 --> 00:02:11,679.164 Mm, we can't do that, Tara. 57 00:02:11,729.161 --> 00:02:12,129.161 Yeah. 58 00:02:12,269.162 --> 00:02:13,469.165 And I still feel like we can. 59 00:02:13,649.167 --> 00:02:15,729.163 And you're like, "Why the hell not?" Right, right. 60 00:02:15,999.165 --> 00:02:16,879.162 I still feel like we can do that. 61 00:02:16,879.162 --> 00:02:22,849.165 So sometimes you, like you create a fun space for me, and I keep you from ending up in jail. 62 00:02:23,69.165 --> 00:02:23,369.165 Right. 63 00:02:24,309.163 --> 00:02:25,389.164 I think it works out perfect. 64 00:02:25,399.167 --> 00:02:28,279.165 And I think a lot of friendships are, are like that. 65 00:02:28,279.165 --> 00:02:29,129.164 They balance that way. 66 00:02:29,139.164 --> 00:02:29,159.164 Yeah. 67 00:02:29,439.16 --> 00:02:31,979.161 If we were, if we were both Taras, we'd both be in jail. 68 00:02:31,979.161 --> 00:02:32,899.16 We'd be in prison. 69 00:02:33,59.163 --> 00:02:34,369.163 And if we were both Nikkis... 70 00:02:34,739.163 --> 00:02:36,949.162 Oh, we would never leave our houses maybe. 71 00:02:36,969.166 --> 00:02:38,79.164 We wouldn't have a lot of fun. 72 00:02:38,89.166 --> 00:02:38,479.166 No. 73 00:02:38,479.166 --> 00:02:39,209.166 It'd be boring. 74 00:02:39,219.166 --> 00:02:40,269.169 We, we- You'd be scared about it. 75 00:02:40,619.165 --> 00:02:41,769.161 He's so boring. 76 00:02:43,379.159 --> 00:02:46,599.166 So we met at this party house, didn't really realize it. 77 00:02:46,899.164 --> 00:02:47,979.163 I'm working at a med spa. 78 00:02:47,979.165 --> 00:02:48,759.156 I'm an esthetician. 79 00:02:48,759.164 --> 00:02:52,439.168 I have 50,000 different jobs, but one of them, I'm a licensed esthetician. 80 00:02:52,439.168 -->

00:02:56,809.156 So I was working at a med spa, and Tara came in actually as a patient. 81 00:02:56,839.166 --> 00:02:57,169.166 Yeah. 82 00:02:57,369.165 --> 00:02:58,849.156 You had just bumped your head. 83 00:02:58,899.167 --> 00:02:59,199.161 Yeah. 84 00:02:59,599.158 --> 00:03:02,722.49633333 And then I don't even know how all that came into fruition. 85 00:03:02,722.49633333 --> 00:03:03,589.168 I say It's a med spa. 86 00:03:03,589.168 --> 00:03:05,189.159 They also did, like family practice. 87 00:03:05,189.159 --> 00:03:05,219.154 Right. 88 00:03:05,219.154 --> 00:03:06,949.162 So that's why she came in for that. 89 00:03:06,959.159 --> 00:03:06,979.159 Yeah. 90 00:03:07,39.16 --> 00:03:09,189.16 She wasn't coming in to get Bopox. 91 00:03:09,199.164 --> 00:03:09,719.164 Botox. 92 00:03:09,729.163 --> 00:03:09,749.163 Yeah. 93 00:03:09,749.167 --> 00:03:10,389.154 Bopox? Bo fox. 94 00:03:10,439.154 --> 00:03:10,909.154 Not yet. 95 00:03:10,959.159 --> 00:03:12,919.163 Botox for her bump on her head. 96 00:03:12,919.165 --> 00:03:13,169.165 Yeah. 97 00:03:13,189.154 --> 00:03:18,109.163 But, um, she walked in, and immediately I'm like, "Why does she look so familiar?" Yeah. 98 00:03:18,959.159 --> 00:03:21,9.163 Do I know her? I don't know. 99 00:03:21,9.163 --> 00:03:21,39.16 Yeah. 100 00:03:21,39.16 --> 00:03:25,449.166 And I think I started, like looking you up on Facebook, and you're laying there- not doing so hot. 101 00:03:26,729.163 --> 00:03:28,239.164 And I'm like, "She is so familiar." 102 00:03:28,917.164 --> 00:03:29,127.164 Yeah. 103 00:03:29,677.164 --> 00:03:32,927.164 Well, and then I think, I don't, I don't know how I got the job. 104 00:03:32,927.164 --> 00:03:34,77.164 I don't know how that turned into... 105 00:03:34,547.164 --> 00:03:36,557.164 I don't know how it turned into me working there. 106 00:03:36,587.164 --> 00:03:38,867.164 She feels sorry for you because- I'm laying there pretty pathetic you're laying there pretty pathetic. 107 00:03:39,407.164 --> 00:03:40,17.164 Yeah, dying. 108 00:03:40,27.163 --> 00:03:40,867.164 She needs work. 109 00:03:41,107.163 --> 00:03:42,407.164 She needs to get up and work. 110 00:03:43,127.164 --> 00:03:46,367.164 And then I think we just kinda hit it off, pretty quickly and- Immediately. 111 00:03:46,367.164 --> 00:03:54,827.163 Like, I felt like a creepy, like a, like one of those girls that jumps into a relationship way too hot and heavy. 112 00:03:54,837.163 --> 00:03:54,867.163 Soon. 113 00:03:54,867.164 --> 00:03:54,997.164 Yeah. 114 00:03:55,27.163 --> 00:03:55,393.83 And stalks. 115 00:03:55,393.83 --> 00:03:58,417.163 It's like, did we just become best friends? Yeah, stalks everything about... 116 00:03:58,527.163 --> 00:03:59,487.163 Oh, so I'm a stalker. 117 00:03:59,507.163 --> 00:04:00,327.164 Yeah, you are. 118 00:04:00,327.164 --> 00:04:00,527.163 I am. 119 00:04:00,527.163 --> 00:04:02,37.162 I mean, I am too, kinda. 120 00:04:02,337.165 --> 00:04:05,27.162 And then we figured out- I mean, you called me every day on the way to work. 121 00:04:05,237.162 --> 00:04:05,647.165 I did. 122 00:04:05,647.165 --> 00:04:06,157.164 I did. 123 00:04:06,157.164 --> 00:04:06,867.162 We were driving. 124 00:04:06,877.162 --> 00:04:06,897.162 Yeah. 125 00:04:06,927.165 --> 00:04:08,947.162 We were on the phone, and then we spent all day together. 126 00:04:09,27.163 --> 00:04:09,227.163 Yep. 127 00:04:09,907.164 --> 00:04:11,797.161 It was normally- Probably talked on the drive home too. 128 00:04:11,827.163 --> 00:04:13,577.163 I'm sure we did. 129 00:04:13,577.163 --> 00:04:14,427.164 I d- about the day. 130 00:04:14,637.164 --> 00:04:14,927.164 Oh. 131 00:04:16,17.161 --> 00:04:17,247.161 About the day. 132 00:04:17,437.163 --> 00:04:19,47.164 This is b- bonding for sure. 133 00:04:20,17.161 --> 00:04:20,267.161 Yeah. 134 00:04:20,927.161 --> 00:04:34,617.164 So, um, on that topic, I don't know how much I wanna talk about that, but one of our little questions here is, like, how did we finally, like, become close? I think we became close really quick. 135 00:04:35,127.162 --> 00:04:39,197.166 It was, it was an interesting workspace, I'll say that. 136 00:04:39,477.16 --> 00:04:40,27.163 That's a good way to put it. 137 00:04:40,27.163 --> 00:04:42,837.161 And so there was a lot to bond over. 138 00:04:43,17.161 --> 00:04:43,267.161 Yeah. 139 00:04:43,497.165 --> 00:04:43,877.159 I think. 140 00:04:43,887.164 --> 00:04:44,957.163 That's a great way to put it. 141 00:04:45,427.165 --> 00:04:48,407.164 And we just became close f- fast, and then we never really... 142 00:04:49,347.163 --> 00:04:51,117.159 There was never any, any looking back. 143 00:04:51,137.164 --> 00:04:52,847.165 I mean, neither one of us work there now. 144 00:04:53,77.159 --> 00:04:53,457.159 Right. 145 00:04:53,507.159 --> 00:04:57,127.166 And we're still- No one that worked there when we worked there- Correct works there anymore. 146 00:04:57,367.16 --> 00:04:58,67.163 R- correct. 147 00:04:58,737.162 --> 00:05:02,507.162 And I don't know, our friendship stayed the same. 148 00:05:03,797.16 --> 00:05:05,97.162 Is there anything... 149 00:05:05,287.166 --> 00:05:07,57.164 I, I feel like this is kind of a dumb question. 150 00:05:07,57.164 --> 00:05:07,637.159 We have questions. 151 00:05:07,637.164 --> 00:05:08,597.159 This is our first podcast. 152 00:05:08,627.162 --> 00:05:09,437.16 We don't know what we're doing. 153 00:05:09,497.165 --> 00:05:09,677.165 Yeah. 154 00:05:09,677.165 --> 00:05:10,387.164 So we need a little more help. 155 00:05:10,687.159 --> 00:05:17,555.161 Was there anything about the other person that initially surprised you? Hmm. 156 00:05:17,745.161 --> 00:05:19,445.161 I don't think it was a surprise. 157 00:05:19,535.161 --> 00:05:20,795.161 It was just, like, a weird... 158 00:05:20,795.161 --> 00:05:21,835.161 This sounds so cheesy.

159 00:05:21,835.161 --> 00:05:27,595.161 Again, I feel like a crazy girlfriend or something, but it was like a, I don't know, it felt like a magnetic, like, boom. 160 00:05:27,605.161 --> 00:05:27,625.161 Yeah. 161 00:05:27,815.161 --> 00:05:31,345.16 Like, we just- I don't know that there was anything that surprised me either. 162 00:05:31,345.161 --> 00:05:33,645.161 I mean, we kinda, I don't know, we just clicked. 163 00:05:33,645.161 --> 00:05:37,225.16 I feel like both of us are 100% who we are for the most part. 164 00:05:37,275.16 --> 00:05:37,455.16 Yeah. 165 00:05:39,55.161 --> 00:05:43,975.1606 I think I wish I was a little more free than I am, but I know that I'm not, so I'm, like, honest about it. 166 00:05:43,975.1606 --> 00:05:45,955.16 I feel like over the years you're getting a little better, though. 167 00:05:46,155.161 --> 00:05:46,805.161 Loosen up a little bit. 168 00:05:46,805.161 --> 00:05:47,235.161 Yeah. 169 00:05:48,125.16 --> 00:05:51,195.161 Maybe, maybe you're getting old, and you just don't give a shit. 170 00:05:51,875.16 --> 00:05:52,935.162 I think that's part of it. 171 00:05:53,35.16 --> 00:05:53,465.159 I do, too. 172 00:05:53,635.159 --> 00:05:59,455.159 Um, you know, once you are over 40, that starts to kick in a little bit. 173 00:05:59,545.158 --> 00:05:59,835.158 Yeah. 174 00:06:00,525.162 --> 00:06:03,495.159 Like, I would never be doing this in my 30s, a podcast. 175 00:06:03,805.161 --> 00:06:17,615.159 Who does she think she is? You know? I mean, I still think who do we think we are about this- Right part of life, but- But I would be so scared of other people thinking, "Who does she think she is?" And now I'm like, like- Yeah I'm just gonna do it 'cause I want to. 176 00:06:17,655.159 --> 00:06:17,775.159 Yeah. 177 00:06:17,825.161 --> 00:06:22,475.16 Even if it's a huge failure, we did a podcast- Yeah at one point, so. 178 00:06:22,485.157 --> 00:06:22,895.161 We tried. 179 00:06:22,925.159 --> 00:06:23,185.159 Yeah. 180 00:06:23,775.158 --> 00:06:24,805.157 And I don't think we'll be a failure. 181 00:06:24,805.157 --> 00:06:25,615.162 I don't think so either. 182 00:06:25,625.156 --> 00:06:25,645.156 No. 183 00:06:25,655.163 --> 00:06:29,785.161 And plus, I'm not a quitter, so I like to change things up. 184 00:06:29,785.161 --> 00:06:30,470.1585 I'm a bit ADD. 185 00:06:30,470.1585 --> 00:06:30,805.157 Yeah. 186 00:06:30,805.157 --> 00:06:31,545.163 I get bored. 187 00:06:31,695.156 --> 00:06:31,955.156 Yeah. 188 00:06:31,995.159 --> 00:06:34,665.157 But I feel like this isn't boring, 'cause you can talk about different things every day. 189 00:06:35,325.161 --> 00:06:37,955.157 I agree, and I think we're relatable. 190 00:06:37,975.163 --> 00:06:45,355.159 I think there are a lot of women out there who relate to us, and I think there are a lot of things that they don't talk about, and maybe we do. 191 00:06:45,355.159 --> 00:06:45,615.1575 Mm-hmm. 192 00:06:45,615.1575 --> 00:06:47,155.158 And they're like, "Oh, yeah, I'm doing that. 193 00:06:47,155.158 --> 00:06:53,275.158 I'm going through that, too," or, "I feel the same way," or, "My friendships, you know, have developed in the same way," or- Mm-hmm you know. 194 00:06:53,275.158 --> 00:06:53,635.159 Yeah. 195 00:06:53,635.159 --> 00:06:59,265.159 I had a friend tell me yesterday that she thought I was very blunt, and I was shocked by that a little bit. 196 00:06:59,295.162 --> 00:07:03,205.162 I think my ADD, I say things sometimes, and then I'm like, "Ooh, maybe I shouldn't have said that." 197 00:07:03,255.161 --> 00:07:05,715.158 But I don't know that I would consider myself blunt. 198 00:07:07,125.156 --> 00:07:08,435.16 I don't- I think you're the blunt one. 199 00:07:08,545.162 --> 00:07:08,935.162 Yeah. 200 00:07:08,965.16 --> 00:07:10,75.162 I don't consider you blunt. 201 00:07:10,265.156 --> 00:07:15,935.155 I do consider sometimes your ADD gets ahold of you, and you're like- M- my mouth has a mind of its own. 202 00:07:15,935.162 --> 00:07:18,615.159 Yeah, and then you overthink it for three days. 203 00:07:18,905.155 --> 00:07:22,825.161 Oh, if I blurt something out, I'm gonna think about it- Oh, constantly for a long time. 204 00:07:23,285.16 --> 00:07:24,475.156 Yeah, from many different angles. 205 00:07:24,475.156 --> 00:07:29,465.164 I have had situations where I go back to people, I'm like, "I'm really sorry that I said that," and they're like- Oh, I know, and there was people who were like, "Mm-hmm." 206 00:07:29,495.159 --> 00:07:32,195.155 "What are you talking about?" Exactly, yeah. 207 00:07:32,225.155 --> 00:07:34,415.16 But I thought about it for days, and it bothered me. 208 00:07:34,425.152 --> 00:07:35,75.165 No, I know that. 209 00:07:36,895.153 --> 00:07:37,225.157 I'm aware. 210 00:07:38,845.165 --> 00:07:42,565.154 Okay, let's play this little, little, like, introduction. 211 00:07:42,815.151 --> 00:07:44,545.155 It's not a game, but it could be fun. 212 00:07:44,715.16 --> 00:07:44,985.16 Okay. 213 00:07:45,635.159 --> 00:07:47,485.161 Describe me in three words. 214 00:07:47,655.163 --> 00:07:48,625.163 Hmm. 215 00:07:50,587.161 --> 00:07:56,437.161 I would say loyal, honest, and OCD. 216 00:07:57,187.161 --> 00:07:59,67.161 Those are all very boring, but I appreciate it. 217 00:08:00,357.16 --> 00:08:01,327.161 You're fun too. 218 00:08:01,967.161 --> 00:08:02,67.161 Okay. 219 00:08:02,187.16 --> 00:08:03,507.16 I'll add a fourth word in there. 220 00:08:04,97.16 --> 00:08:07,947.16 Um, describe you in three words. 221 00:08:07,977.161 --> 00:08:10,877.161 I would say free spirit. 222 00:08:10,887.161 --> 00:08:12,87.16 That's not really a word. 223 00:08:12,617.161 --> 00:08:13,287.16 That could be an adjective though. 224 00:08:13,887.161 --> 00:08:15,597.161 I feel like Tara is sunshine. 225 00:08:15,597.161 --> 00:08:19,837.161 That sounds cheesy- Oh, I love that

but, like, her favorite color is yellow, and she's just a bright energy. 226 00:08:19,947.161 --> 00:08:20,737.161 So- Thanks. 227 00:08:20,767.16 --> 00:08:24,377.16 I love you for that um, free spirit, sunshine. 228 00:08:25,367.161 --> 00:08:32,267.158 Ugh, I mean, the more I've gotten to know you, this isn't the case, but in the beginning, very un- unpredictable. 229 00:08:32,797.161 --> 00:08:33,357.161 Okay. 230 00:08:33,787.159 --> 00:08:34,37.16 Lauren says that. 231 00:08:34,37.16 --> 00:08:35,47.161 But not in a bad way. 232 00:08:35,437.16 --> 00:08:36,367.16 Not in a bad way. 233 00:08:36,367.161 --> 00:08:37,557.158 It's just like, this is kinda fun. 234 00:08:37,557.159 --> 00:08:38,807.161 You don't know what you're gonna get today. 235 00:08:39,87.158 --> 00:08:39,427.158 Yeah. 236 00:08:39,817.161 --> 00:08:42,327.16 I mean, would that be considered bipolar? Because that's not good. 237 00:08:42,327.16 --> 00:08:43,457.16 I don't know if that's good. 238 00:08:43,527.161 --> 00:08:44,347.16 I'm not a medical doctor. 239 00:08:45,157.162 --> 00:08:48,297.16 I can't- Unpredictable make that diagnosis, but... 240 00:08:48,387.161 --> 00:08:48,537.161 Good. 241 00:08:48,787.159 --> 00:08:54,817.161 Um, what is my most predictable personality trait? I just called you unpredictable, so... 242 00:08:55,67.158 --> 00:09:02,427.161 Your most predictable personality trait? I mean, it's de- it's definitely, I, for me, the overanalyzing. 243 00:09:02,617.161 --> 00:09:02,977.161 Mm, overthinking everything. 244 00:09:02,977.161 --> 00:09:04,347.157 Like I know everything... 245 00:09:04,367.161 --> 00:09:04,697.161 Yeah. 246 00:09:04,987.156 --> 00:09:06,817.158 I know everything that you do. 247 00:09:07,627.163 --> 00:09:09,357.162 Well, and I think that's okay. 248 00:09:09,427.158 --> 00:09:11,797.163 I mean, I think that's good to, it's good to a fault. 249 00:09:11,907.162 --> 00:09:18,677.161 I mean, I think you're a perfectionist, so I think what you do, you look at it, and you pick it apart sometimes to where it's like, "Please stop. 250 00:09:18,697.163 --> 00:09:19,367.16 This is perfect. 251 00:09:19,377.155 --> 00:09:20,367.161 This is really good." 252 00:09:20,597.156 --> 00:09:22,557.156 Literally, like the intro to our podcast. 253 00:09:22,807.156 --> 00:09:23,257.156 Yes. 254 00:09:24,527.157 --> 00:09:26,877.159 I think you don't see- We made a version what others see. 255 00:09:27,867.159 --> 00:09:32,97.158 In five minutes, and then I went home and edited it about 50 times. 256 00:09:32,307.156 --> 00:09:33,417.157 Yeah, maybe more. 257 00:09:33,437.16 --> 00:09:35,67.158 And Tara was like, "The first one." 258 00:09:35,597.156 --> 00:09:35,617.156 Yeah. 259 00:09:36,747.158 --> 00:09:40,987.157 Like, we did a great job, and I think that you- Why are you trying to change it? Yeah. 260 00:09:40,987.157 --> 00:09:42,397.161 It was magic from the beginning. 261 00:09:44,487.156 --> 00:09:44,582.157 Please don't look. 262 00:09:44,582.157 --> 00:09:44,607.157 Yes. 263 00:09:44,607.157 --> 00:09:44,632.157 Yeah. 264 00:09:44,632.157 --> 00:09:45,337.156 Yeah, I definitely overanalyze it. 265 00:09:45,337.162 --> 00:09:48,117.156 I start looking at things, and I'm like, "Um, I don't know." 266 00:09:48,557.156 --> 00:09:48,887.155 Mm-hmm. 267 00:09:49,697.155 --> 00:09:56,557.151 I don't know if it's professional or- Right I mean, your most predictable personality trait is being unpredictable, I guess. 268 00:09:57,377.163 --> 00:09:57,817.152 I love it. 269 00:09:59,577.163 --> 00:10:05,705.16 What will I complain about every single time? Is that things aren't perfect. 270 00:10:06,585.16 --> 00:10:07,985.16 You're like, uh, things- I feel like there's a theme here. 271 00:10:08,925.16 --> 00:10:08,945.16 Yeah. 272 00:10:08,945.16 --> 00:10:10,805.16 That things aren't perfect, you're like, "Oh, we gotta get it right." 273 00:10:11,5.16 --> 00:10:12,135.16 I'm like, it- that is right. 274 00:10:12,175.16 --> 00:10:12,545.16 Yeah. 275 00:10:12,845.16 --> 00:10:13,65.16 Yeah. 276 00:10:14,925.16 --> 00:10:15,835.16 What is your... 277 00:10:15,855.159 --> 00:10:19,245.159 What did I say? What was it? Oh, what you'll complain about? Oh. 278 00:10:19,775.16 --> 00:10:23,355.16 I didn't wanna come on this podcast and cuss a lot, but there's no other way to explain it. 279 00:10:23,425.159 --> 00:10:24,135.159 Dumbasses. 280 00:10:24,275.16 --> 00:10:24,385.16 Oh. 281 00:10:24,595.159 --> 00:10:29,415.159 I feel like people that just don't use their brain, you're gonna complain about it. 282 00:10:29,605.159 --> 00:10:30,115.159 Yeah. 283 00:10:30,255.159 --> 00:10:31,445.16 So there's daily complaining. 284 00:10:31,695.16 --> 00:10:32,305.16 Constant. 285 00:10:35,309.16 --> 00:10:38,639.16 I think other people complain about that too I th- I think you're right. 286 00:10:38,819.16 --> 00:10:40,719.16 I probably also complain about it. 287 00:10:40,719.16 --> 00:10:41,152.49333333 You do. 288 00:10:41,152.49333333 --> 00:10:51,489.159 Like, what are these people doing? Yeah, because if I call you and I vent about those people, you typically- Typically yeah, you typically are right there with me. 289 00:10:51,489.16 --> 00:10:52,609.16 You're like, "I, I get it." 290 00:10:52,819.16 --> 00:10:53,149.16 Yeah. 291 00:10:53,239.16 --> 00:10:59,9.16 You know, "This has happened to me," or- Or I tell a story from my day that it's very identical to whatever- Yeah you're dealing with. 292 00:10:59,59.159 --> 00:10:59,329.159 Yeah. 293 00:11:01,139.159 --> 00:11:02,669.159 I think a lot of people can relate to that. 294 00:11:02,739.16 --> 00:11:03,669.16 I, me too. 295 00:11:03,769.158 --> 00:11:07,589.158 I think it's a, yeah, it's a daily thing that happens to a lot of us. 296 00:11:07,589.158 --> 00:11:10,469.16 We go out into this world and we're just like, "Wh- what?" Yeah. 297 00:11:11,819.158

--> 00:11:12,89.158 Yeah. 298 00:11:13,110.80793749 --> 00:11:14,770.80693749 I'm gonna answer this one for you first. 299 00:11:14,930.80793749 --> 00:11:15,190.80793749 Okay. 300 00:11:15,250.80693749 --> 00:11:16,0.80793749 The question's... 301 00:11:16,670.80693749 --> 00:11:17,610.80693749 I gotta think about it. 302 00:11:17,670.80693749 --> 00:11:21,340.80793749 What am I weirdly good at? You're weirdly good at making friends. 303 00:11:21,370.80793749 --> 00:11:27,40.80693749 Like, that's hard for most people, but I feel like you can go in somewhere and people are like, "I wanna be her friend." 304 00:11:27,600.80793749 --> 00:11:28,960.80793749 Probably because I'm crazy. 305 00:11:29,460.80593749 --> 00:11:32,610.80693749 Yeah, but you are that bright, like, sunshine energy. 306 00:11:32,610.80793749 --> 00:11:33,410.80693749 Like, you're the... 307 00:11:34,220.80693749 --> 00:11:34,640.80693749 You're... 308 00:11:34,780.80793749 --> 00:11:37,870.80793749 You never do it intentionally. 309 00:11:37,880.80793749 --> 00:11:42,880.80793749 You're not a look-at-me type of person, but your personality is so big that people are drawn to it. 310 00:11:43,810.80893749 --> 00:11:48,230.80593749 Well, and I, I think I'm really nosy, too, so like want to- You do yeah. 311 00:11:48,250.80693749 --> 00:11:51,120.80593749 You ask a lot of questions about people, and people love to talk about themselves. 312 00:11:51,480.80693749 --> 00:11:52,140.80693749 That's what it is. 313 00:11:52,140.80693749 --> 00:11:53,430.80693749 So they're like, "I love this girl. 314 00:11:53,430.80793749 --> 00:11:54,280.80893749 I don't know what it is." 315 00:11:54,290.80793749 --> 00:11:55,100.80493749 That's what it is. 316 00:11:55,180.80793749 --> 00:11:57,440.80893749 I mean, that's exactly what it is. 317 00:11:57,640.80693749 --> 00:11:59,520.80693749 That's why I know Montana de la Rosa. 318 00:12:00,980.80693749 --> 00:12:04,190.80593749 We're sitting there just- You meet somebody everywhere you go I meet somebody everywhere I go. 319 00:12:04,230.80693749 --> 00:12:04,430.80693749 Yeah. 320 00:12:04,440.80593749 --> 00:12:07,890.80593749 I met her and I know her whole life story now- in an hour. 321 00:12:08,150.80893749 --> 00:12:08,980.80493749 In an hour. 322 00:12:08,990.80493749 --> 00:12:09,250.80493749 Yeah. 323 00:12:09,700.80393749 --> 00:12:15,640.80793749 And yeah, I just feel like, I feel like that's your, um, that's what you're real- weirdly good at. 324 00:12:16,270.80393749 --> 00:12:16,630.80393749 Yeah. 325 00:12:17,100.80593749 --> 00:12:17,330.80593749 I don't... 326 00:12:17,390.80693749 --> 00:12:18,330.80893749 I mean, thank you for that. 327 00:12:18,330.80893749 --> 00:12:20,70.80293749 I don't, I don't know that I mean to do that. 328 00:12:20,70.80693749 --> 00:12:24,920.80693749 I think it's more of, like, a- I know you hate compliments, and I'm sitting here like, "You're so great." 329 00:12:24,920.80693749 --> 00:12:26,480.80693749 Yeah, I, I don't know that I mean to do that. 330 00:12:26,480.80693749 --> 00:12:33,260.80393749 But that is your- I, I think that I'm nosy really- Yeah and interested in, like, how you became- I will say- like to be you. 331 00:12:33,380.80493749 --> 00:12:34,850.80593749 Yeah sometimes I hear you ask questions. 332 00:12:34,850.80593749 --> 00:12:38,820.80693749 I'm like, "Tara, you cannot ask them that," and- I feel like it's- you do. 333 00:12:38,860.80793749 --> 00:12:39,220.80793749 Yeah. 334 00:12:39,380.80493749 --> 00:12:41,10.80793749 Well, I just feel like it's an appropriate question. 335 00:12:41,10.80993749 --> 00:12:41,420.80593749 I don't know. 336 00:12:42,940.80193749 --> 00:12:43,850.80393749 I mean, sometimes. 337 00:12:43,880.80493749 --> 00:12:46,0.80193749 You're like, "How much did you pay for that?" I'm- I'm like, "I... 338 00:12:46,200.80393749 --> 00:12:46,540.80593749 mm-mm. 339 00:12:46,780.80593749 --> 00:12:47,660.80293749 You just met them, Tara." 340 00:12:48,390.80693749 --> 00:12:49,200.80293749 "People don't like that." 341 00:12:50,600.80593749 --> 00:12:50,980.80593749 Yeah. 342 00:12:51,70.80693749 --> 00:12:52,670.80393749 But most of the time it's 'cause you want it. 343 00:12:52,870.80293749 --> 00:12:56,510.80493749 You want whatever this thing is that you're like, "Well, how much is it? 'Cause I need to see if I can get that." 344 00:12:56,510.80493749 --> 00:13:00,100.80493749 Yeah, and, and the questions that I ask, I don't mind answering, either. 345 00:13:00,160.80293749 --> 00:13:00,270.80293749 Yeah. 346 00:13:00,300.80293749 --> 00:13:04,360.80393749 Like- But you don't have those walls. 347 00:13:04,420.80593749 --> 00:13:05,770.80593749 Most people have those walls. 348 00:13:05,770.80593749 --> 00:13:06,160.80393749 Right. 349 00:13:06,960.80593749 --> 00:13:07,170.80593749 Yeah. 350 00:13:07,270.80393749 --> 00:13:07,890.80293749 You don't... 351 00:13:07,960.80593749 --> 00:13:08,350.80593749 Yeah. 352 00:13:08,350.80593749 --> 00:13:08,870.80293749 Yeah. 353 00:13:08,870.80293749 --> 00:13:10,210.80393749 There's a lot of things that you're like... 354 00:13:10,690.80193749 --> 00:13:12,630.80693749 I mean, you're a, you're an open book for the most part. 355 00:13:12,820.79893749 --> 00:13:13,130.79893749 Yeah. 356 00:13:15,190.79893749 --> 00:13:17,10.80993749 I, that's what- Most people are very closed books. 357 00:13:17,10.80993749 --> 00:13:17,30.80993749 I know. 358 00:13:17,30.80993749 --> 00:13:17,850.80993749 I like to open them up. 359 00:13:18,400.80093749 --> 00:13:18,760.80393749 You do. 360 00:13:18,770.81193749 --> 00:13:19,50.80693749 You have... 361 00:13:19,80.80893749 --> 00:13:20,10.80093749 That's your talent. 362 00:13:20,20.81193749 --> 00:13:20,40.81193749 Yeah. 363 00:13:20,50.80993749 --> 00:13:20,930.80593749 Your secret talent. 364 00:13:21,990.79793749 --> 00:13:23,900.80293749

Good luck keeping your book closed around Tara. 365 00:13:23,970.80893749 --> 00:13:24,280.80893749 Yeah. 366 00:13:24,560.80493749 --> 00:13:24,890.79793749 Good luck. 367 00:13:25,440.80993749 --> 00:13:25,950.80993749 And try. 368 00:13:26,90.80393749 --> 00:13:26,480.80393749 Try. 369 00:13:26,480.80393749 --> 00:13:31,10.79793749 She's gonna keep asking questions, and you're gonna get real uncomfortable and start sweating- and then feel like you have to say something, so. 370 00:13:31,20.81193749 --> 00:13:31,690.80193749 Yeah, try. 371 00:13:31,710.79893749 --> 00:13:34,230.80293749 I'd like to see me try. 372 00:13:34,230.80293749 --> 00:13:34,670.80293749 Okay. 373 00:13:34,710.79893749 --> 00:13:46,352.80793749 Um, what's, what's something I think I'm good at but I'm actually not? Okay, one thing about you that I can say- And you know I don't take criticism very well, so... 374 00:13:46,352.80793749 --> 00:13:47,652.80793749 This isn't really criticism. 375 00:13:47,882.80793749 --> 00:13:59,292.80693749 I honestly, I have said to every- you can ask my husband, my mother, my family, any time we do anything together, I'm like, "Oh my gosh, she's so great at it." 376 00:13:59,402.80693749 --> 00:14:04,72.80793749 Because literally- People are gonna be like, "Ugh," 'cause we're just sitting here complimenting each other. 377 00:14:04,432.80793749 --> 00:14:05,792.80793749 No, I don't think so. 378 00:14:06,142.80693749 --> 00:14:07,232.80693749 You can make shit shine. 379 00:14:07,772.80793749 --> 00:14:08,612.80793749 Whatever. 380 00:14:08,922.80793749 --> 00:14:09,922.80693749 I am telling you. 381 00:14:09,922.80793749 --> 00:14:14,542.80793749 I feel like I'm one of those people, I'm, like, kinda good at a lot of things, but I'm not great at any of the things. 382 00:14:14,622.80893749 --> 00:14:15,212.80893749 Hmm. 383 00:14:15,452.80693749 --> 00:14:16,592.80693749 I beg to differ. 384 00:14:17,282.80793749 --> 00:14:18,352.80693749 I, I don't think so. 385 00:14:18,372.80893749 --> 00:14:22,972.80593749 I really think you put a lot of yourself into everything that you do, which I think is great. 386 00:14:23,342.80593749 --> 00:14:24,622.80593749 Um- It's called hyperfixation. 387 00:14:25,112.80593749 --> 00:14:25,692.80593749 Maybe. 388 00:14:26,472.80693749 --> 00:14:28,632.80793749 Maybe, maybe it's to a fault. 389 00:14:28,742.80793749 --> 00:14:31,132.80593749 And then I'll get bored and it goes out the window. 390 00:14:31,142.80493749 --> 00:14:32,62.80493749 Yeah, that's true. 391 00:14:32,162.80593749 --> 00:14:33,402.80693749 I'm also a little clumsy. 392 00:14:35,712.80493749 --> 00:14:41,172.80693749 No, I feel like we have plenty of flaws and I, I feel like they will have, in time... 393 00:14:41,672.80793749 --> 00:14:43,312.80493749 In time everyone's gonna know. 394 00:14:43,572.80593749 --> 00:14:44,262.80693749 Yeah, they're gonna see. 395 00:14:44,262.80793749 --> 00:14:45,172.80593749 We just gotta get them hooked. 396 00:14:45,432.80593749 --> 00:14:52,422.80593749 What is something that you will spend money on without thinking twice? I'm gonna say health and wellness. 397 00:14:52,522.80593749 --> 00:14:52,632.80593749 Mm-hmm. 398 00:14:53,462.80593749 --> 00:14:56,222.80593749 I love that though, 'cause coming to Tara's house is like a spa. 399 00:14:56,222.80593749 --> 00:14:57,822.80593749 She's got red light therapy. 400 00:14:57,832.80593749 --> 00:15:01,492.80593749 She's got, um, what is the, the grounding mats. 401 00:15:01,502.80493749 --> 00:15:01,532.80593749 Mm-hmm. 402 00:15:01,712.80593749 --> 00:15:03,252.80593749 She's got any supplement. 403 00:15:03,252.80593749 --> 00:15:04,842.80493749 If you have a cut, she's like, "Take this. 404 00:15:05,372.80593749 --> 00:15:06,2.80493749 Put this on it." 405 00:15:06,862.80593749 --> 00:15:07,52.80593749 Yeah. 406 00:15:07,52.80593749 --> 00:15:08,802.80593749 And it's natural, and I love that. 407 00:15:09,92.80493749 --> 00:15:09,332.80493749 Yeah. 408 00:15:10,772.80593749 --> 00:15:12,532.80493749 Th- that also makes me sound crazy. 409 00:15:12,842.80493749 --> 00:15:14,402.80593749 N- no, I don't think so. 410 00:15:14,422.80493749 --> 00:15:14,772.80393749 I have an ozone machine. 411 00:15:14,772.80593749 --> 00:15:15,212.80493749 I love ozone. 412 00:15:15,512.80493749 --> 00:15:19,82.80493749 Yeah, she has her own ozone machine- Yeah and most of you probably don't even know what that is. 413 00:15:19,602.80393749 --> 00:15:20,2.80393749 Right. 414 00:15:20,122.80393749 --> 00:15:20,582.80593749 Mm-hmm. 415 00:15:21,402.80693749 --> 00:15:22,72.80793749 I love it though. 416 00:15:22,92.80493749 --> 00:15:29,212.80393749 If you're sick, come to Tara's house, and if you continue to be sick, you might have to go to the doctor, but- It'll take a while before I send you there. 417 00:15:29,532.80793749 --> 00:15:29,722.80793749 Yeah. 418 00:15:29,722.80793749 --> 00:15:30,952.80493749 Yeah, no, for sure. 419 00:15:31,42.80593749 --> 00:15:32,862.80593749 She'll minimize your symptoms at least. 420 00:15:32,872.80393749 --> 00:15:33,142.80393749 Yeah. 421 00:15:36,948.80693749 --> 00:15:42,423.80693749 If I suddenly had $10 million, what's the first ridiculous thing I'd do? You? Mm-hmm. 422 00:15:43,483.80693749 --> 00:15:46,293.80693749 I don't know that it's ridiculous, but I, I think that you would travel. 423 00:15:46,563.80693749 --> 00:15:47,83.80693749 A lot. 424 00:15:47,183.80693749 --> 00:15:47,433.80693749 Yeah. 425 00:15:48,53.80693749 --> 00:15:51,43.80693749 I would like to bring you with me, but- You can do that I don't know how you feel about that. 426 00:15:51,43.80693749 --> 00:15:53,63.80693749 I mean, I'd like to, a private jet to go on. 427 00:15:53,93.80593749 --> 00:15:54,333.80693749 I don't wanna be- Okay around other people. 428 00:15:54,433.80593749 --> 00:15:54,813.80593749 Okay.

429 00:15:55,83.80593749 --> 00:15:55,313.80593749 Yeah. 430 00:15:55,813.80693749 --> 00:15:57,883.80693749 I mean, at $10 million we could probably make that happen. 431 00:15:57,883.80693749 --> 00:15:58,513.80693749 We probably could. 432 00:15:59,203.80693749 --> 00:16:03,363.80693749 There wouldn't be much left by the time I was done, but- And we could stay at hostels and stuff. 433 00:16:03,533.80593749 --> 00:16:04,433.80593749 That would be okay. 434 00:16:04,623.80693749 --> 00:16:11,203.80593749 I need to know specifically what a hostel is, because in my mind- Oh, I- I picture a brothel, and I know they're not the same thing. 435 00:16:11,483.80493749 --> 00:16:12,923.80593749 They're absolutely not. 436 00:16:13,53.80493749 --> 00:16:15,223.80393749 But I don't, you would not be okay with it probably. 437 00:16:15,493.80693749 --> 00:16:19,83.80393749 You would need every detail, and it's like, "Just grab your backpack and let's go in here." 438 00:16:19,83.80793749 --> 00:16:19,483.80693749 Wait a minute. 439 00:16:19,483.80693749 --> 00:16:25,383.80593749 We're sleeping in this room- Mm-hmm with strangers? They wouldn't be strangers for long. 440 00:16:25,603.80393749 --> 00:16:26,293.80393749 Mm. 441 00:16:26,613.80593749 --> 00:16:27,503.80793749 They would be for me. 442 00:16:27,513.80393749 --> 00:16:27,543.80593749 I know. 443 00:16:30,433.80593749 --> 00:16:31,363.80693749 They would be for you. 444 00:16:31,363.80693749 --> 00:16:32,723.80393749 Char's cuddled up with one of them. 445 00:16:32,723.80693749 --> 00:16:32,813.80693749 Absolutely. 446 00:16:32,813.80693749 --> 00:16:32,973.80693749 I'm fine with it. 447 00:16:32,973.80693749 --> 00:16:36,773.80393749 But I am, like- so uncomfortable with this. 448 00:16:37,713.80493749 --> 00:16:38,733.80493749 I might need a hotel. 449 00:16:40,563.8069375 --> 00:16:44,263.8049375 No, I think that's- If this place doesn't have a hot tub- What? it doesn't work for me. 450 00:16:44,263.8079375 --> 00:16:49,453.8019375 We're millionaires, what are we doing here? We're not sleeping in a brothel. 451 00:16:50,293.8069375 --> 00:16:51,183.8059375 It wouldn't be a brothel. 452 00:16:51,503.8059375 --> 00:16:59,289.8069375 I, I- wouldn't sleep in a brothel You're taking me way too far. 453 00:17:00,109.8069375 --> 00:17:03,69.8069375 I said hostel I pray we never end up in a brawl. 454 00:17:08,409.8069375 --> 00:17:10,49.8059375 I told you, I don't know the difference. 455 00:17:10,609.8069375 --> 00:17:11,659.8069375 Okay, hotel it is. 456 00:17:12,439.8069375 --> 00:17:13,429.8059375 I think they're the same thing. 457 00:17:16,389.8059375 --> 00:17:23,539.8069375 If you've ever stayed in a hostel, drop a comment and give me some information because I think I'm highly confused. 458 00:17:24,859.8069375 --> 00:17:25,899.8069375 She won't stay it either. 459 00:17:25,939.8069375 --> 00:17:28,239.8059375 Oh, now I'm cry laughing in front of everyone. 460

00:17:28,249.8059375 --> 00:17:28,339.8059375 Yeah. 461 00:17:28,439.8059375 --> 00:17:30,339.8039375 I hate the way my face looks when I cry-laugh. 462 00:17:30,339.8039375 --> 00:17:31,919.8049375 I'm like, No." 463 00:17:31,919.8049375 --> 00:17:33,569.8069375 I'm sure we have 45 chins. 464 00:17:33,569.8069375 --> 00:17:34,849.8049375 I'm still sweating my ass off. 465 00:17:34,849.8059375 --> 00:17:36,879.8059375 No, I'm, I'm- Okay? it's hot in here. 466 00:17:37,169.8059375 --> 00:17:39,129.8029375 Like- Okay pits are wet. 467 00:17:41,569.8029375 --> 00:17:43,69.8059375 And it's not 'cause I'm nervous. 468 00:17:44,379.8079375 --> 00:17:45,619.8029375 It's 'cause of this fucking air. 469 00:17:46,209.8019375 --> 00:17:47,249.8029375 Oh, my gosh. 470 00:17:47,649.8049375 --> 00:17:47,999.8049375 Okay. 471 00:17:48,659.8069375 --> 00:17:49,59.8069375 All right. 472 00:17:49,119.8059375 --> 00:17:49,699.8029375 Get it together. 473 00:17:49,719.8049375 --> 00:17:53,569.8029375 Do I look- Fine my eyes are okay? Yes, your eyes are good. 474 00:17:53,569.8029375 --> 00:17:54,19.8029375 Okay. 475 00:17:55,519.8079375 --> 00:18:00,249.8039375 So I can't even see my computer- Mm-hmm when I look down. 476 00:18:00,949.8079375 --> 00:18:01,269.8079375 Okay. 477 00:18:02,519.8079375 --> 00:18:04,159.8019375 Let's start back. 478 00:18:04,339.8069375 --> 00:18:05,179.8069375 Or if we're serious. 479 00:18:05,419.8019375 --> 00:18:05,789.8049375 All right. 480 00:18:06,629.8079375 --> 00:18:07,189.8069375 Get it together. 481 00:18:07,429.8039375 --> 00:18:08,289.8059375 And we're back. 482 00:18:09,289.8039375 --> 00:18:09,869.8039375 Untypical. 483 00:18:11,399.8049375 --> 00:18:13,809.8049375 Let's do the- We have to say the... 484 00:18:14,129.8049375 --> 00:18:15,49.8049375 You read the thing. 485 00:18:15,779.8049375 --> 00:18:16,29.8049375 Okay. 486 00:18:16,49.8049375 --> 00:18:18,639.8049375 What is it? The back and forth, like rapid fire? Yeah. 487 00:18:18,749.8049375 --> 00:18:19,449.8049375 Rapid fire. 488 00:18:19,599.8039375 --> 00:18:20,349.8049375 Yeah, let's do that. 489 00:18:20,409.8049375 --> 00:18:20,789.8049375 Okay. 490 00:18:21,719.8039375 --> 00:18:25,129.8049375 Okay, we're gonna do a little rapid fire so you guys can get to know us a little better. 491 00:18:25,669.8039375 --> 00:18:26,239.8029375 Okay, here we go. 492 00:18:26,549.8059375 --> 00:18:26,709.8059375 Go. 493 00:18:27,219.8039375 --> 00:18:28,609.8069375 Coffee or diet Coke? Coffee. 494 00:18:28,609.8069375 --> 00:18:29,189.8069375 Coffee. 495 00:18:29,489.8039375 --> 00:18:30,9.8049375 Mm-hmm. 496 00:18:30,649.8049375 --> 00:18:31,199.8049375 Thank you. 497 00:18:31,519.8069375 --> 00:18:34,399.8029375 You know what I miss? Your little espresso machine thing. 498 00:18:35,429.8069375 --> 00:18:38,129.8039375 Is that what it was? I know, but we don't use it anymore. 499 00:18:38,149.8039375 --> 00:18:39,49.8059375 It just sits there. 500 00:18:39,389.8059375 --> 00:18:40,619.8059375 No, I use it every morning. 501 00:18:40,889.8059375 --> 00:18:42,859.8039375 Mm, haven't been coming over early enough, I guess. 502 00:18:42,859.8039375 --> 00:18:43,919.8039375 Do you want a coffee? I can make you a coffee. 503 00:18:43,919.8039375 --> 00:18:45,529.8039375 No, I do not need a coffee right now. 504 00:18:45,529.8049375 --> 00:18:46,409.8059375 I've had a coffee today. 505 00:18:46,419.8039375 --> 00:18:49,999.8029375 I mean, I'm not gonna do it, give you a coffee right now- I'm not usually this girl- until podcasting is over. 506 00:18:50,519.8029375 --> 00:18:50,999.8029375 Yeah. 507 00:18:51,489.8039375 --> 00:18:52,319.8049375 We don't wanna do that. 508 00:18:52,439.8049375 --> 00:18:52,639.8049375 No. 509 00:18:53,69.8059375 --> 00:18:56,909.8049375 I'm not usually this girl, but pumpkin spice lattes are back. 510 00:18:56,909.8049375 --> 00:18:58,769.8019375 I know that's like, ugh, cliche. 511 00:18:58,779.8049375 --> 00:18:58,849.8029375 Mm-hmm. 512 00:18:58,859.8069375 --> 00:19:00,709.8009375 But it's like, I had to go get one. 513 00:19:00,799.8019375 --> 00:19:06,229.8019375 I usually do sugar- Did you get one today? free drinks, and they don't have sugar-free pumpkin, but I did splurge and have one today. 514 00:19:07,299.8019375 --> 00:19:14,999.8009375 I think, we're in Texas, and it's still 100 and plus degrees every day with very high humidity. 515 00:19:15,109.8069375 --> 00:19:16,109.8059375 Fires are burning up, uh, all around us. 516 00:19:16,109.8059375 --> 00:19:18,319.8019375 I mean, we're wearing long sleeves, but we're sweating. 517 00:19:18,789.8069375 --> 00:19:18,989.8069375 Yeah. 518 00:19:19,19.8029375 --> 00:19:23,579.8019375 So, we're also in a bakery, so- It's a lot it's warm in here, guys Yes. 519 00:19:23,879.8039375 --> 00:19:25,669.8039375 Bakery/podcast studio. 520 00:19:26,509.8009375 --> 00:19:26,539.8009375 Yes. 521 00:19:26,539.8069375 --> 00:19:29,159.8049375 We already have baked a loaf of bread this morning. 522 00:19:29,509.8009375 --> 00:19:34,499.8079375 We are, uh, I think we are trying to will fall. 523 00:19:34,839.8029375 --> 00:19:35,129.8029375 Yeah. 524 00:19:35,179.8069375 --> 00:19:36,189.8039375 Oh, for sure, this year, yeah. 525 00:19:36,269.8029375 --> 00:19:40,229.7999375 It's not happening, but- No that pumpkin spice- Hit the spot? Mm-hmm. 526 00:19:40,239.8039375 --> 00:19:40,679.8029375 It was good. 527 00:19:41,49.8019375 --> 00:19:41,419.8019375 Do you like... 528 00:19:41,429.8069375 --> 00:19:42,959.8039375 You don't like- I'm not- pumpkin either. 529 00:19:42,989.8039375 --> 00:19:44,559.8009375 No, I'm not like a super pumpkin. 530 00:19:44,559.8009375 --> 00:19:44,609.8009375 I mean, I'll taste it. 531 00:19:44,609.8009375 --> 00:19:44,669.8009375 So you don't like fall breads. 532 00:19:44,669.8009375 --> 00:19:44,719.8009375 Because I love pumpkin bread. 533

00:19:44,719.8009375 --> 00:19:50,777.8049375 I mean, I'll make you some, but no. 534 00:19:50,777.8049375 --> 00:19:52,249.8059375 And you won't eat bananas, so. 535 00:19:52,589.8059375 --> 00:19:52,609.8059375 No. 536 00:19:53,259.8059375 --> 00:19:54,69.8059375 Bananas are definitely off the list. 537 00:19:54,69.8059375 --> 00:19:59,589.7999375 Is there, is there a fall loaf? Friendship bread, have you ever had friendship bread? No, but I'd probably like it. 538 00:19:59,619.8009375 --> 00:20:00,159.8029375 I like a maple pecan. 539 00:20:00,159.8029375 --> 00:20:08,19.8029375 It's like more of like a cinnamon, a cinnamon with like the sugary crumble type stuff on top, like a s- like a streusel cake type thing. 540 00:20:08,19.8029375 --> 00:20:12,379.7989375 I mean, I'll try it, but I think the more flavors that you're talking about, maybe I don't like fall flavors. 541 00:20:12,809.7959375 --> 00:20:19,539.7989375 I like cinnamon a little bit, but it's like, it's not what I'm gonna- I put it in my coffee every morning I'm gonna grab, like a jalapeno cheese or something like that. 542 00:20:19,539.8069375 --> 00:20:20,199.8019375 For breakfast. 543 00:20:20,489.8039375 --> 00:20:20,809.8039375 Okay. 544 00:20:20,959.8049375 --> 00:20:21,289.8049375 Yes. 545 00:20:21,859.7989375 --> 00:20:22,839.8069375 Like a kolache dude. 546 00:20:22,839.8099375 --> 00:20:23,579.7959375 Texas girl. 547 00:20:24,319.8059375 --> 00:20:24,569.8059375 Yeah. 548 00:20:24,619.8089375 --> 00:20:25,479.8089375 Kolache. 549 00:20:26,109.7989375 --> 00:20:30,419.8039375 I don't think other people call it that- What do they call it? like in other areas. 550 00:20:30,469.7999375 --> 00:20:32,409.7969375 What do they call it? Texans call it kolache. 551 00:20:32,979.8099375 --> 00:20:35,879.8079375 Bread in a weenie? Weenie in a bread? I don't know what they... 552 00:20:35,989.8039375 --> 00:20:36,849.8069375 Pig in a blanket. 553 00:20:37,499.7989375 --> 00:20:37,959.7989375 Okay. 554 00:20:38,179.8069375 --> 00:20:39,99.8029375 I, mm. 555 00:20:39,99.8029375 --> 00:20:45,919.8039375 My, my grandpa is Czech, and he gets so mad when people say kolache because in Czech, it's pronounced kolach. 556 00:20:47,421.8059375 --> 00:20:48,401.8059375 And us Texans call it kolache. 557 00:20:48,571.8059375 --> 00:20:49,291.8059375 Kolache. 558 00:20:50,571.8059375 --> 00:20:52,801.8059375 And he gets so bothered by that. 559 00:20:52,801.8059375 --> 00:20:55,381.8059375 But also, in Czech, their little... 560 00:20:56,261.8049375 --> 00:20:57,631.8049375 It's like a pastry. 561 00:20:57,631.8049375 --> 00:20:59,1.8059375 It's not a pig in a blanket. 562 00:20:59,41.8059375 --> 00:20:59,481.8059375 Mm-hmm. 563 00:20:59,581.8059375 --> 00:21:00,531.8049375 It's got fruit in it. 564 00:21:00,751.8059375 --> 00:21:02,341.8059375 Ooh, I'd like to know that, too. 565 00:21:02,731.8059375 --> 00:21:04,111.8049375 I'm gonna chat Gigi about- They're delicious. 566 00:21:04,741.8059375 --> 00:21:08,531.8049375 Well, if you're from Texas, which you are, we've driven... 567 00:21:08,701.8049375 --> 00:21:12,401.8059375 If you go down in- to west- Yeah, they have the kolache there's the Czech bakeries. 568 00:21:12,431.8049375 --> 00:21:12,721.8049375 Yeah. 569 00:21:12,721.8049375 --> 00:21:13,201.8049375 It's so good. 570 00:21:13,251.8059375 --> 00:21:13,811.8049375 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 571 00:21:13,811.8049375 --> 00:21:15,81.8059375 We have to stop every time. 572 00:21:15,361.8049375 --> 00:21:16,371.8049375 I've been, I've been there. 573 00:21:16,401.8059375 --> 00:21:19,1.8059375 Even when I'm on a diet, if I'm on vacation- We have to go there we go there. 574 00:21:19,1.8059375 --> 00:21:19,231.8059375 Yeah. 575 00:21:19,271.8049375 --> 00:21:19,491.8059375 Mm-hmm. 576 00:21:19,831.8039375 --> 00:21:21,331.8049375 No, I think we'll just- Delicious yeah. 577 00:21:21,611.8069375 --> 00:21:24,241.8039375 Okay, so we got through one of the rapid fire questions. 578 00:21:24,281.8049375 --> 00:21:24,611.8049375 Mm-hmm. 579 00:21:24,651.8039375 --> 00:21:25,71.8049375 We did. 580 00:21:25,111.8069375 --> 00:21:25,481.8049375 Uh-huh. 581 00:21:26,61.8039375 --> 00:21:29,621.8049375 Um, stay home or go out? Go out. 582 00:21:29,621.8049375 --> 00:21:29,841.8039375 Stay home. 583 00:21:31,351.8049375 --> 00:21:33,1.8039375 I knew- And this is how we balance each other. 584 00:21:33,11.8039375 --> 00:21:33,271.8039375 Mm-hmm. 585 00:21:33,281.8049375 --> 00:21:34,411.8039375 Because you would be a hermit. 586 00:21:34,451.8029375 --> 00:21:35,641.8049375 Yep, I would be. 587 00:21:36,201.8029375 --> 00:21:36,791.8029375 Dumbasses. 588 00:21:38,911.8059375 --> 00:21:40,531.8069375 I know, but I just try to ignore them. 589 00:21:40,551.8049375 --> 00:21:42,121.8039375 Like, I just wanna do our thing. 590 00:21:42,911.8059375 --> 00:21:44,551.8059375 I really miss our Wealthy Wednesdays. 591 00:21:44,551.8059375 --> 00:21:46,831.8059375 Should we tell them about Wealthy Wednesdays? Yes. 592 00:21:47,411.8059375 --> 00:21:51,391.8049375 So after we both quit our job at the med spa, Uh-huh we were unemployed. 593 00:21:51,971.8039375 --> 00:21:51,991.8039375 Yeah. 594 00:21:53,61.8079375 --> 00:21:54,631.8029375 Unemployed, pinching pennies. 595 00:21:54,651.8039375 --> 00:21:55,91.8069375 Uh-huh. 596 00:21:55,291.8029375 --> 00:21:56,351.8019375 We would go on Wednesdays. 597 00:21:56,371.8049375 --> 00:21:59,211.8039375 Well, I think the first time it was a Wednesday, then it was just whatever day we could go. 598 00:21:59,211.8039375 --> 00:22:03,41.8049375 But we called it Wealthy Wednesdays, and we would pretend to be wealthy ladies. 599 00:22:03,271.8069375 --> 00:22:05,311.8069375 We would walk around this little area in Fort Worth. 600 00:22:05,411.8059375 --> 00:22:06,291.8009375 We love Clear Fork. 601 00:22:06,301.8049375 --> 00:22:06,931.8019375 Clear

Fork. 602 00:22:06,931.8019375 --> 00:22:12,481.8029375 It's so- I think it was, uh, I think it was in my ozone era, when I was learning about ozone and I was getting IVs. 603 00:22:12,481.8029375 --> 00:22:12,491.8029375 Mm-hmm. 604 00:22:12,491.8029375 --> 00:22:16,101.8059375 And you would go with me, and I'm like- Let's go get lunch let's go to Clear Fork. 605 00:22:16,101.8059375 --> 00:22:20,61.7999375 And we would people watch- Walk the shops which is our favorite I mean, they have Burberry. 606 00:22:20,81.8039375 --> 00:22:25,321.8019375 They have- Oh, all that stuff I don't even know all the brands, 'cause I'm a resale shop girl. 607 00:22:25,741.7999375 --> 00:22:28,871.8049375 Uh, yeah, so we would go to Press Cafe- Press Cafe if you haven't been, go. 608 00:22:28,871.8049375 --> 00:22:29,931.8029375 And then we would watch people. 609 00:22:29,931.8029375 --> 00:22:35,671.8069375 It overlooks the Trinity River, which sounds nice, but if you know anything about the Trinity River- Yeah it's disgusting. 610 00:22:36,211.8009375 --> 00:22:39,11.7999375 And then we would people watch, and be like, "Oh, she..." 611 00:22:39,351.8009375 --> 00:22:41,371.8049375 Oh, there was a Mommy and Me yoga class. 612 00:22:41,441.8049375 --> 00:22:43,811.8029375 Oh, and the baby, the baby left the mom. 613 00:22:44,81.8039375 --> 00:22:44,191.8052708 But the mom didn't know. 614 00:22:44,191.8052708 --> 00:22:47,391.8069375 And we knew exactly where the baby was, but she was so confused. 615 00:22:47,401.8039375 --> 00:22:48,931.8009375 She was very confused. 616 00:22:49,411.8059375 --> 00:22:52,301.8049375 Yeah, people wa- We do need to do Wealthy Wednesdays again. 617 00:22:52,301.8049375 --> 00:22:52,691.8019375 We do. 618 00:22:52,701.8069375 --> 00:22:53,101.8039375 For sure. 619 00:22:53,151.8039375 --> 00:22:57,101.7959375 And we would go by the little chocolate shop and, like, pay way too much- That's closed for a chocolate. 620 00:22:57,131.8069375 --> 00:22:58,829.8057375 Is it really? Yeah, it's closed now. 621 00:22:58,829.8057375 --> 00:23:00,61.7969375 Oh, they were very expensive. 622 00:23:00,71.8099375 --> 00:23:03,741.8069375 They were v- maybe- And everybody's on a diet, so nobody's gonna pay that much for chocolate. 623 00:23:03,741.8079375 --> 00:23:04,531.7989375 Oh, yes. 624 00:23:04,561.7999375 --> 00:23:06,331.8029375 Everybody's very healthy over there. 625 00:23:07,831.8039375 --> 00:23:08,51.8039375 Yep. 626 00:23:08,71.8099375 --> 00:23:10,1.7979375 A bad place for expensive chocolates. 627 00:23:10,21.8069375 --> 00:23:10,381.8069375 Yeah. 628 00:23:11,251.8019375 --> 00:23:11,621.8019375 Okay. 629 00:23:12,301.8049375 --> 00:23:14,391.8099375 Beach or mountains? Ooh. 630 00:23:14,431.8099375 --> 00:23:16,331.8099375 I like both, but I'm gonna say beach. 631 00:23:17,637.8059375 --> 00:23:25,347.8059375 I feel like my whole body is fully recharged when I lay in sand with the ocean just, like,

hitting my legs. 632 00:23:25,357.8059375 --> 00:23:25,377.8059375 Yeah. 633 00:23:26,507.8059375 --> 00:23:29,267.8059375 Like, I will lay face down in public on the beach. 634 00:23:29,847.8049375 --> 00:23:32,717.8049375 And I just feel like I've never felt that relaxed in my life. 635 00:23:33,267.8049375 --> 00:23:34,297.8049375 I love both, too. 636 00:23:34,297.8049375 --> 00:23:37,147.8049375 I don't know that I like one more than the other. 637 00:23:37,307.8049375 --> 00:23:38,867.8059375 People get so bothered by sand. 638 00:23:38,867.8059375 --> 00:23:39,767.8059375 I'm like, "I don't mind it." 639 00:23:40,97.8059375 --> 00:23:40,357.8059375 Yeah, I don't mind sand. 640 00:23:40,357.8059375 --> 00:23:41,747.8059375 It exfoliates the skin. 641 00:23:42,367.8049375 --> 00:23:43,127.8049375 Yeah, I don't mind sand. 642 00:23:43,827.8059375 --> 00:23:44,777.8059375 I just feel... 643 00:23:45,87.8059375 --> 00:23:46,647.8049375 Yeah, I feel great- Yeah at the beach. 644 00:23:47,187.8039375 --> 00:23:47,927.8059375 You're tan. 645 00:23:48,257.8059375 --> 00:23:48,307.8049375 Love it. 646 00:23:48,307.8049375 --> 00:23:53,387.8049375 When you go back to the hotel, you get cleaned up to go to dinner, you got that little pink- Glow glow. 647 00:23:53,427.8059375 --> 00:23:53,847.8059375 Yeah. 648 00:23:54,7.8039375 --> 00:23:54,307.8054375 I love the beach. 649 00:23:54,307.8054375 --> 00:23:54,937.8069375 You hear the waves. 650 00:23:55,397.8039375 --> 00:23:59,507.8029375 I do like the mountains, but I think I need to do a trip to the mountains in the summer. 651 00:23:59,847.8039375 --> 00:24:01,777.8039375 I've never gone, like, in the full winter. 652 00:24:01,807.8029375 --> 00:24:04,817.8069375 Well, we went to New Mexico in February once. 653 00:24:05,47.8049375 --> 00:24:05,227.8049375 Okay. 654 00:24:05,227.8049375 --> 00:24:06,447.8039375 And it was pretty snowy. 655 00:24:06,447.8069375 --> 00:24:10,227.8049375 But, um, I think I need to m- spend more time out there. 656 00:24:10,477.8049375 --> 00:24:10,687.8049375 Yeah. 657 00:24:10,977.8049375 --> 00:24:12,907.8049375 If I'm gonna be in the mountains, I want a hot tub. 658 00:24:13,287.8029375 --> 00:24:13,767.8069375 Mm-hmm. 659 00:24:14,277.8049375 --> 00:24:15,107.8049375 Somewhere I can shower. 660 00:24:15,107.8059375 --> 00:24:16,337.8039375 I'm not camping in the mountains. 661 00:24:16,417.8039375 --> 00:24:16,877.8059375 Mm-hmm. 662 00:24:16,937.8039375 --> 00:24:23,221.1392708 Um, and I- maybe some ATVs or something- Yeah to, like, ride through the woods. 663 00:24:23,221.1392708 --> 00:24:23,967.8019375 Yeah, that would be fun. 664 00:24:24,17.8059375 --> 00:24:24,297.8059375 Yeah. 665 00:24:24,777.8009375 --> 00:24:25,67.8019375 That would be a lot of fun. 666 00:24:25,67.8019375 --> 00:24:26,27.8009375 I need an activity. 667 00:24:26,97.8079375 --> 00:24:26,757.8009375 We could fish. 668 00:24:26,757.8039375 --> 00:24:27,677.8069375 I don't mind fishing. 669 00:24:27,777.8009375 --> 00:24:28,17.8009375 Yeah. 670 00:24:28,847.8079375 --> 00:24:31,767.8029375 What about skiing? I've never in my life been skiing before. 671 00:24:31,857.8029375 --> 00:24:31,947.8029375 Okay. 672 00:24:31,947.8029375 --> 00:24:35,937.8039375 Well, if you- I've never water skied ever do that, I wanna go with you, because I've tried to ski once. 673 00:24:36,477.8049375 --> 00:24:38,727.8039375 You've seen me just try to walk through this room. 674 00:24:38,877.8069375 --> 00:24:39,77.8069375 Okay. 675 00:24:39,77.8069375 --> 00:24:40,627.8069375 I couldn't do it, and I am a quitter. 676 00:24:42,237.8079375 --> 00:24:43,47.8039375 And I started crying. 677 00:24:43,47.8049375 --> 00:24:45,47.8049375 My brother's like, "Get-" I wouldn't quit until something's broken, I think. 678 00:24:45,137.8009375 --> 00:24:46,7.8049375 Oh, yeah, you would. 679 00:24:46,137.8009375 --> 00:24:47,7.8009375 Okay, I'm gonna go with you. 680 00:24:47,997.8019375 --> 00:24:50,437.8059375 My brother was like, "We are not quitters," and I'm like, "I am." 681 00:24:50,437.8059375 --> 00:24:50,837.8059375 I am. 682 00:24:50,847.8059375 --> 00:24:52,537.8069375 I was a quitter today. 683 00:24:52,537.8069375 --> 00:24:54,537.8029375 Yeah, it was very hard. 684 00:24:54,537.8029375 --> 00:24:56,317.8069375 Yeah, I've never been skiing. 685 00:24:56,507.8039375 --> 00:24:57,627.8069375 I mean- We went to the beach. 686 00:24:57,627.8069375 --> 00:25:07,687.8019375 It was much cheaper I- I think that that's something definitely, like, you should take your ki- you know, you should go skiing as a child, and then I think it might be like riding a bike. 687 00:25:07,687.8039375 --> 00:25:08,707.8019375 I'm not quite sure. 688 00:25:08,717.8029375 --> 00:25:10,477.8009375 But I can't do it. 689 00:25:11,757.8039375 --> 00:25:12,427.8059375 Never tried it. 690 00:25:13,37.8029375 --> 00:25:13,287.8029375 Yeah. 691 00:25:13,297.8049375 --> 00:25:13,727.8069375 It's tough. 692 00:25:13,737.7999375 --> 00:25:14,77.8039375 I don't know. 693 00:25:14,77.8039375 --> 00:25:15,227.8019375 We used to water ski. 694 00:25:15,617.8049375 --> 00:25:17,137.8039375 I preferred, like, knee boarding. 695 00:25:17,137.8039375 --> 00:25:18,287.8029375 It's a lot easier. 696 00:25:18,517.8059375 --> 00:25:19,607.7999375 See, I've never done any of that. 697 00:25:19,837.8059375 --> 00:25:21,547.8039375 Um, I tried wakeboarding. 698 00:25:21,577.8039375 --> 00:25:23,317.8009375 I think I, like, got up once or twice. 699 00:25:23,317.8019375 --> 00:25:29,137.8059375 But we really did it a lot when I was, like, 9, 10, 11, 12, maybe 13, and then we didn't really do it anymore. 700 00:25:29,147.8039375 --> 00:25:29,437.8039375 Okay. 701 00:25:29,437.8039375 --> 00:25:31,7.7989375 Well, you might be better at it than me. 702 00:25:31,37.8029375 --> 00:25:36,17.7989375 I literally got up and fell down,

uh, several, several, probably 20 times. 703 00:25:36,17.7989375 --> 00:25:40,17.7969375 I think I would do that, and then I'd be sweating in the snow, and then I would really get flustered. 704 00:25:40,17.7989375 --> 00:25:43,797.8009375 Because, you know, like, I c- I would be overstimulated, I think. 705 00:25:43,857.8099375 --> 00:25:44,27.7999375 Oh, tears. 706 00:25:44,57.8069375 --> 00:25:47,177.8009375 With all the clothes, I would feel like I can't move. 707 00:25:47,707.8009375 --> 00:25:49,597.8009375 Maybe that's hindered my ability to ski. 708 00:25:49,597.8009375 --> 00:25:50,597.7969375 I get agitated. 709 00:25:50,627.7989375 --> 00:25:54,977.8039375 I'm not sure, but I, tears were coming out, and I was like, "This is n- nothing about this is fun. 710 00:25:56,27.8039375 --> 00:25:56,707.8049375 Give me a drink." 711 00:25:56,997.8099375 --> 00:25:58,987.8009375 Give me a drink and a hot tub. 712 00:25:59,37.8029375 --> 00:25:59,347.8029375 Yeah. 713 00:25:59,367.8049375 --> 00:26:00,387.7979375 This is not gonna be me. 714 00:26:00,537.8029375 --> 00:26:02,487.8089375 Take me back to the cabin. 715 00:26:02,607.7949375 --> 00:26:02,917.7949375 Yeah. 716 00:26:04,97.8009375 --> 00:26:05,977.8029375 What's it, a resort? It was, like, a lodge. 717 00:26:05,987.7999375 --> 00:26:06,17.7999375 Yeah. 718 00:26:06,27.8079375 --> 00:26:07,757.8099375 A lodge, that's the word I was looking for. 719 00:26:08,707.8009375 --> 00:26:09,107.8009375 Okay. 720 00:26:09,597.8009375 --> 00:26:11,627.8079375 Text or call? Text. 721 00:26:13,683.8059375 --> 00:26:14,573.8059375 Yes and no. 722 00:26:14,583.8059375 --> 00:26:14,593.8059375 Oh. 723 00:26:15,103.8059375 --> 00:26:16,923.8059375 If it's quick, but sometimes... 724 00:26:16,963.8059375 --> 00:26:17,643.8059375 I know you hate it. 725 00:26:17,643.8059375 --> 00:26:19,53.8059375 I'm like, "Tara, I'm gonna call you." 726 00:26:19,733.8059375 --> 00:26:23,103.8059375 I'm like, "Can I call you really quick?" And you're like, "Ah." 727 00:26:23,103.8059375 --> 00:26:23,293.8059375 Yeah. 728 00:26:24,323.8049375 --> 00:26:26,573.8059375 Can this not be handled in a text? No. 729 00:26:26,583.8059375 --> 00:26:26,613.8059375 Okay. 730 00:26:26,623.8059375 --> 00:26:27,763.8059375 I don't have time to text this. 731 00:26:28,333.8059375 --> 00:26:29,893.8059375 I need to just call you and get an answer now. 732 00:26:29,893.8059375 --> 00:26:31,163.8059375 I don't wanna wait for you to respond. 733 00:26:31,513.8059375 --> 00:26:32,363.8049375 I do both. 734 00:26:34,363.8059375 --> 00:26:38,943.8049375 But I can tell every time when I'm on the phone with you, and I'm like, "Just talk to me while I'm driving." 735 00:26:40,153.8049375 --> 00:26:41,573.8059375 And you're like, "Okay, we're... 736 00:26:41,643.8049375 --> 00:26:46,63.8059375 Are we gonna wrap this up?" What- Just stay on the phone with me. 737 00:26:46,243.8039375 --> 00:26:48,123.8059375 What else did you need? Nothing else. 738 00:26:48,123.8059375 --> 00:26:48,953.8059375 Keep talking to me. 739 00:26:50,623.8049375 --> 00:26:56,51.8059375 Okay, um, early or late? Like, stay up? Uh-huh. 740 00:26:56,581.8059375 --> 00:26:57,941.8059375 I'm definitely more of an early person. 741 00:26:58,251.8059375 --> 00:27:09,531.8049375 I am too, and you know what's funny? When I was like 19, 18, 19, 20, Chris used to call me Nikki Night Owl because I think I had FOMO, like I did not wanna miss out on things, so I stayed up till that party was over. 742 00:27:09,921.8049375 --> 00:27:12,871.8059375 I think I used to be a night person. 743 00:27:12,881.8059375 --> 00:27:12,901.8059375 Yeah. 744 00:27:12,961.8059375 --> 00:27:18,431.8049375 We would go to Jack in the Box- Yeah, I used to do all of that and get the oddest combinations of food partying was a huge part of my life. 745 00:27:18,451.8059375 --> 00:27:25,441.8049375 But now I'm like, I wanna be definitely in my room watching- The second I get home, my sweatpants are on. 746 00:27:25,591.8059375 --> 00:27:27,281.8039375 Oh, my sweatpants don't come off. 747 00:27:27,281.8039375 --> 00:27:27,921.8069375 I work from home. 748 00:27:28,271.8059375 --> 00:27:34,151.8029375 I mean, getting ready for this today, my mom's like, "Where, where are you going?" I'm like, "I can't wait to take this bra off." 749 00:27:34,151.8069375 --> 00:27:35,651.8029375 You're like, "What bra?" Yeah. 750 00:27:35,731.8049375 --> 00:27:36,901.8059375 I had n- none. 751 00:27:36,901.8069375 --> 00:27:38,471.8039375 I made her put a bra on for this. 752 00:27:38,541.8059375 --> 00:27:39,171.8059375 You're welcome. 753 00:27:40,741.8029375 --> 00:27:41,981.8039375 She's lucky I had one. 754 00:27:42,21.8059375 --> 00:27:44,71.8059375 We might have gotten more views otherwise, but it's okay. 755 00:27:44,81.8029375 --> 00:27:44,551.8059375 We would've. 756 00:27:46,601.8039375 --> 00:27:57,575.8059375 Okay, um, spend it or save it? I'm a saver now I think there needs to be a healthy balance, because we're not gonna live forever. 757 00:27:57,635.8059375 --> 00:27:58,235.8059375 That's true. 758 00:27:58,485.8059375 --> 00:28:02,365.8059375 But you never know what tomorrow will bring, so you wanna have a little cushion. 759 00:28:02,385.8059375 --> 00:28:02,635.8059375 Yeah. 760 00:28:02,945.8049375 --> 00:28:05,785.8059375 But if you have an excess of a cushion, it's okay to spend some. 761 00:28:05,805.8059375 --> 00:28:06,315.8049375 That's true. 762 00:28:06,455.8059375 --> 00:28:08,205.8059375 You gotta enjoy the, enjoy this life. 763 00:28:08,225.8059375 --> 00:28:08,875.8059375 Yeah, you do. 764 00:28:09,325.8059375 --> 00:28:12,475.8059375 You never know when it's gonna- Never know be fleeting, for sure. 765 00:28:12,915.8049375 --> 00:28:16,25.8059375 Um, fancy dinner or hole in the wall? Hole in the wall. 766 00:28:16,155.8059375 --> 00:28:16,515.8059375 Mm. 767

00:28:16,525.8049375 --> 00:28:17,715.8049375 I want a fancy dinner. 768 00:28:18,55.8059375 --> 00:28:19,465.8059375 Unless it's Wealthy Wednesday. 769 00:28:19,875.8059375 --> 00:28:20,345.8059375 Yeah. 770 00:28:20,795.8059375 --> 00:28:22,175.8049375 We have a whole list. 771 00:28:23,215.8049375 --> 00:28:23,285.8049375 That's true. 772 00:28:23,285.8049375 --> 00:28:27,245.8059375 It's, it's TikToks that I've saved- That's true of fancy little places we wanna go to. 773 00:28:27,415.8069375 --> 00:28:28,5.8069375 Yes. 774 00:28:28,85.8049375 --> 00:28:31,975.8049375 What is the place in Dallas? It's like a, is it a blues bar? That's okay. 775 00:28:31,975.8049375 --> 00:28:32,835.8039375 Molly is sitting on me. 776 00:28:32,845.8069375 --> 00:28:33,705.8049375 There's cats in here. 777 00:28:34,375.8059375 --> 00:28:35,235.8059375 She can stay. 778 00:28:36,15.8049375 --> 00:28:38,680.8044375 Is it a blues bar- Oh or jazz? It's jazz, I think. 779 00:28:38,680.8044375 --> 00:28:40,245.8059375 I don't know, they do little, like, dances. 780 00:28:40,275.8029375 --> 00:28:44,5.8069375 Is it Delilah's or D- I was about to say the name- Dahlias or- is on the tip of my tongue. 781 00:28:44,265.8049375 --> 00:28:49,945.8059375 It's something like, uh, is it Delilah's? I don't know, but if y'all been there, we need to know. 782 00:28:50,15.8049375 --> 00:28:50,925.8049375 Drop a comment. 783 00:28:50,975.8039375 --> 00:28:55,675.8059375 Yeah, because sometimes we have, I mean, we have places saved for girls, just us. 784 00:28:55,735.8059375 --> 00:28:56,165.8039375 Mm-hmm. 785 00:28:56,175.8049375 --> 00:28:59,875.8059375 And then- Double dates yeah, spouses are allowed on some. 786 00:28:59,935.8029375 --> 00:29:00,465.8029375 Mm-hmm. 787 00:29:00,555.8059375 --> 00:29:00,845.8059375 But yeah. 788 00:29:02,385.8079375 --> 00:29:04,395.8019375 Yeah, we have a whole list of- Yeah fancy places. 789 00:29:04,565.8079375 --> 00:29:09,25.8069375 So it's not something we do all the time, but if I could do that once a month, I wouldn't be mad at it. 790 00:29:09,265.8049375 --> 00:29:10,405.8059375 We need to do it once a month. 791 00:29:10,485.8059375 --> 00:29:14,515.8009375 It, it's really actually coming up time, because August 1st we went to the Lighthouse. 792 00:29:14,625.8059375 --> 00:29:15,185.8019375 The Lighthouse. 793 00:29:15,385.8079375 --> 00:29:25,935.8069375 So now September 1st is rolling around, so we need to plan our next- Which is the day that we decided we were gonna have a podcast, so it's not even a month later, and here we are. 794 00:29:26,465.8019375 --> 00:29:26,915.8059375 Mm-hmm. 795 00:29:28,595.8059375 --> 00:29:31,675.8059375 Yeah, I'll break those to you if you wait around and just talk about things, it's never gonna happen. 796 00:29:31,735.8059375 --> 00:29:32,75.8059375 I know, you're right. 797 00:29:32,75.8059375 --> 00:29:32,845.8059375 So we have to just do it. 798 00:29:32,865.8059375 --> 00:29:33,385.8059375 That's true. 799 00:29:33,395.8059375 --> 00:29:34,225.8059375 Rip the Band-Aid off. 800 00:29:34,255.8059375 --> 00:29:35,585.8059375 Rip the Band-Aid off, yeah. 801 00:29:36,275.8059375 --> 00:29:38,465.8059375 That was a fun, that was a fun trip. 802 00:29:40,745.8059375 --> 00:29:43,175.8059375 It was a fun trip, and it was so simple. 803 00:29:43,535.8059375 --> 00:29:43,805.8059375 That was the best. 804 00:29:43,805.8059375 --> 00:29:43,895.8059375 It was fun. 805 00:29:43,935.8049375 --> 00:29:45,785.8059375 No alcohol was invo- we stayed sober. 806 00:29:45,975.8049375 --> 00:29:46,325.8049375 Yeah. 807 00:29:47,15.8059375 --> 00:29:49,795.8049375 I think I had one drink, but, like, never- Yeah. 808 00:29:49,945.8059375 --> 00:29:50,195.8059375 Yeah. 809 00:29:50,195.8059375 --> 00:29:51,605.8059375 Yeah. 810 00:29:51,605.8059375 --> 00:29:52,695.8059375 We got some good giggles, for sure. 811 00:29:52,755.8059375 --> 00:29:53,255.8049375 Uh-huh. 812 00:29:53,505.8059375 --> 00:29:55,470.8054375 I haven't cry laughed like that in a really long time. 813 00:29:55,470.8054375 --> 00:29:56,205.8049375 No, it was a good one. 814 00:29:56,795.8049375 --> 00:30:02,505.8059375 And I have a couple photos that I snapped of us while we, while we were- Oh, those should never be seen. 815 00:30:02,505.8059375 --> 00:30:03,735.8069375 While we were cry laughing. 816 00:30:03,745.8039375 --> 00:30:04,92.4719375 They should remain a staple. 817 00:30:04,92.4719375 --> 00:30:05,385.8049375 That is the ugliest thing I've ever seen. 818 00:30:05,675.8039375 --> 00:30:06,295.8039375 Okay. 819 00:30:06,295.8039375 --> 00:30:07,85.8039375 Okay. 820 00:30:07,85.8039375 --> 00:30:07,525.8039375 Ow. 821 00:30:07,655.8039375 --> 00:30:08,75.8039375 Okay. 822 00:30:09,565.8029375 --> 00:30:11,485.8039375 You're gonna get canceled for animal cruelty now. 823 00:30:11,585.8039375 --> 00:30:11,995.8039375 Okay. 824 00:30:12,45.8069375 --> 00:30:12,935.8049375 Well, she's... 825 00:30:14,545.8069375 --> 00:30:15,665.8049375 I'm sure- She just loves a cuddle. 826 00:30:17,215.8049375 --> 00:30:17,575.8049375 Okay. 827 00:30:17,615.8059375 --> 00:30:17,905.8029375 She does. 828 00:30:18,115.8059375 --> 00:30:23,541.8029375 Um, reality TV or true crime? I'm reality all the way. 829 00:30:23,541.8029375 --> 00:30:27,575.8059375 This is really hard for me because I like both, but you are very more reality. 830 00:30:27,665.8059375 --> 00:30:28,455.8049375 Oh, yeah. 831 00:30:28,455.8049375 --> 00:30:29,15.8049375 But I love a good true crime. 832 00:30:29,15.8049375 --> 00:30:29,235.8059375 I just finished UK Love Island last night. 833 00:30:29,235.8059375 --> 00:30:37,115.8049375 You watched tr- Did you? No, I didn't finish that one yet, but I watched the r- the reunion of Let's Marry Harry, and oh. 834 00:30:37,205.8069375 --> 00:30:38,675.8069375 Did you watch the reunion? No. 835

00:30:39,705.8069375 --> 00:30:42,205.8029375 It was the most trash, trash TV I've ever seen. 836 00:30:42,215.8009375 --> 00:30:43,385.8009375 Okay, let's wrap this up. 837 00:30:44,205.8069375 --> 00:30:46,115.8009375 I, you have to finish Love is Blind. 838 00:30:46,125.8049375 --> 00:30:46,965.8039375 I haven't finished it. 839 00:30:46,965.8039375 --> 00:30:50,415.8049375 Okay, that's on your list today, and then I'll watch the reunion of Harry today. 840 00:30:50,425.8079375 --> 00:30:57,735.8009375 So we'll come on here every once in a while and talk to you guys about this stuff because we watch a, we're, we're really good people, but we watch some trash TV. 841 00:30:57,745.8079375 --> 00:30:58,525.8079375 Trash. 842 00:30:59,195.8039375 --> 00:31:00,145.8059375 It's garbage. 843 00:31:00,155.8039375 --> 00:31:00,575.8069375 I love it. 844 00:31:00,585.8039375 --> 00:31:04,235.8029375 And I think I wa- definitely watch more of it because of you, 'cause then we have things to talk about. 845 00:31:04,235.8049375 --> 00:31:08,885.8059375 But I've always, I mean, I was a OG Teen Mom girl back in the day. 846 00:31:08,945.8039375 --> 00:31:09,275.8039375 Mm-hmm. 847 00:31:09,285.8009375 --> 00:31:10,445.8029375 I used to watch Real World. 848 00:31:10,865.8029375 --> 00:31:15,205.8069375 I've watched the crime, I mean, too, like, A Pastor's Wife came out yesterday. 849 00:31:15,285.8009375 --> 00:31:16,615.8049375 I have not started that one yet. 850 00:31:16,615.8049375 --> 00:31:17,265.8049375 You gotta watch that. 851 00:31:17,265.8049375 --> 00:31:27,775.7999375 That's, you can't even fathom what- What is the one with the daughter that was being bullied and it, I g- I guess I don't wanna spoil anything, but it was really, like, all over social media when it came out. 852 00:31:27,785.8009375 --> 00:31:29,115.8029375 Do you know what I'm talking about? Mm-mm. 853 00:31:29,115.8029375 --> 00:31:32,925.8029375 She was being bullied through text, and they were try- the whole movie, you're trying to figure out who did it. 854 00:31:32,985.8049375 --> 00:31:33,695.8049375 Mm-hmm. 855 00:31:33,815.7999375 --> 00:31:34,995.8009375 I do, and it's, yes. 856 00:31:35,65.7999375 --> 00:31:36,175.8069375 You can't say it. 857 00:31:36,895.8089375 --> 00:31:37,695.7979375 People have seen that. 858 00:31:37,705.8069375 --> 00:31:38,225.8039375 I don't know. 859 00:31:38,225.8039375 --> 00:31:39,425.8099375 It's, like, the whole ending. 860 00:31:39,435.8019375 --> 00:31:42,735.8049375 I would think people have seen it, but- Cause that's been a while since it's come out. 861 00:31:42,735.8049375 --> 00:31:42,945.8049375 Yeah. 862 00:31:42,945.8049375 --> 00:31:47,785.7989375 But it's like every so often, you get one of those, like, really good- Yeah documentaries, true crime. 863 00:31:48,205.8069375 --> 00:31:48,365.8069375 Yeah. 864 00:31:48,375.8049375 --> 00:31:54,925.7999375 Speaking of documentaries, I made a TikTok about this this morning just because I'm obsessed with it, the Travis Barker documentary. 865 00:31:55,685.8019375 --> 00:31:59,105.7989375 It was so- The best good Literally the best. 866 00:31:59,465.8009375 --> 00:32:00,675.8029375 And I was not expecting that. 867 00:32:00,675.8079375 --> 00:32:06,631.8059375 I'm like, "Oh, I'm gonna watch this, maybe feel a little nostalgic from the Blink-182 days," but- It was good. 868 00:32:07,181.8059375 --> 00:32:08,781.8059375 Well, it was, like, artistic. 869 00:32:08,921.8059375 --> 00:32:09,471.8059375 Yeah. 870 00:32:09,531.8059375 --> 00:32:15,691.8059375 I didn't know how I was gonna feel about it, because sometimes, like, watching the Kardashians, I don't quite know how I feel about him. 871 00:32:15,751.8059375 --> 00:32:16,51.8059375 Mm-hmm. 872 00:32:16,61.8059375 --> 00:32:20,131.8059375 Or I didn't know how I felt about him, and then I watched that and I'm like, "Oh my, I love him." 873 00:32:20,221.8059375 --> 00:32:22,1.8049375 I feel like on there he's more quiet and reserved. 874 00:32:22,1.8049375 --> 00:32:22,961.8049375 Like, that's their show. 875 00:32:23,41.8059375 --> 00:32:23,631.8059375 Mm-hmm. 876 00:32:23,771.8049375 --> 00:32:24,801.8049375 Yeah, maybe that... 877 00:32:24,811.8059375 --> 00:32:27,351.8049375 Maybe- And so this was, like, about him- he opened up and he got to... 878 00:32:27,351.8049375 --> 00:32:27,771.8049375 Yeah. 879 00:32:27,841.8049375 --> 00:32:28,211.8049375 Yeah. 880 00:32:28,211.8049375 --> 00:32:29,311.8049375 It was good. 881 00:32:29,541.8059375 --> 00:32:29,561.8059375 Yeah. 882 00:32:29,571.8059375 --> 00:32:31,851.8049375 If you have not watched it- Go do it check it out. 883 00:32:31,851.8049375 --> 00:32:32,461.8049375 It's on Hulu. 884 00:32:32,611.8049375 --> 00:32:32,811.8049375 Yeah. 885 00:32:33,221.8059375 --> 00:32:38,778.4709375 What's it called? Something- Fear Over- Bigger Than Fear? Fa- it's Bigger Than Fear or something Stronger Than Fear? Something with fear. 886 00:32:38,778.4709375 --> 00:32:39,581.8069375 Something like that. 887 00:32:39,821.8039375 --> 00:32:40,941.8049375 Something with fear. 888 00:32:41,181.8049375 --> 00:32:41,781.8049375 It's really good. 889 00:32:42,361.8049375 --> 00:32:43,421.8059375 Um, okay. 890 00:32:43,611.8049375 --> 00:32:45,831.8039375 Sweet or salty? Salty. 891 00:32:45,901.8059375 --> 00:32:46,371.8059375 Sweet. 892 00:32:47,71.8039375 --> 00:32:50,111.8039375 I like sweet every once in a while, but I'm a salty girl. 893 00:32:50,851.8029375 --> 00:32:52,521.8059375 I like sweets every night. 894 00:32:52,851.8029375 --> 00:32:58,141.8049375 Like, I, all day, I'm fine- I mean, I would eat a bag of Lay's Potato Chips every day if, if I could get away with it it's only at night. 895 00:32:58,181.8049375 --> 00:32:59,831.8059375 If I could kick that, that would be great. 896 00:33:00,671.8029375 --> 00:33:02,321.8059375 I need to show you those little protein

bars. 897 00:33:02,871.8039375 --> 00:33:07,841.8049375 Oh yeah, from Aldi? It tastes like a candy bar, but they're like two grams of sugar. 898 00:33:08,251.8049375 --> 00:33:09,271.8059375 One or two grams of sugar. 899 00:33:09,281.8039375 --> 00:33:09,301.8039375 Yeah. 900 00:33:09,611.8049375 --> 00:33:10,41.8059375 It's really good. 901 00:33:10,41.8059375 --> 00:33:13,201.8059375 It probably has terrible artificial sweeteners in it, but they're good. 902 00:33:13,951.8019375 --> 00:33:17,121.8009375 Concert or movie? Concert for me. 903 00:33:17,221.7979375 --> 00:33:18,211.7999375 Yeah, me too. 904 00:33:18,321.7969375 --> 00:33:20,201.8009375 I will fall asleep in the movie theaters now. 905 00:33:20,961.8039375 --> 00:33:23,881.8009375 I'm over 40 and- Now they're recliners. 906 00:33:23,931.7969375 --> 00:33:25,51.7969375 I'm gonna bring a blanket. 907 00:33:25,571.7969375 --> 00:33:26,771.7969375 Probably not gonna make it through. 908 00:33:27,251.7969375 --> 00:33:28,191.8019375 That's because you can take... 909 00:33:28,311.8019375 --> 00:33:29,371.7979375 I can't take naps. 910 00:33:30,441.7999375 --> 00:33:31,631.7979375 Like, I'd love a good nap. 911 00:33:31,791.7979375 --> 00:33:37,761.8019375 I used to get tired during the day, and I try to go lay down- I love naps but it's like my brain is like, if the sun is out, it's daytime. 912 00:33:38,681.7969375 --> 00:33:39,411.8019375 I love a nap. 913 00:33:39,411.8019375 --> 00:33:40,661.8009375 I know. 914 00:33:40,661.8009375 --> 00:33:42,761.7999375 I really, in my brain I love a nap. 915 00:33:42,761.7999375 --> 00:33:43,418.4639375 My body's like, "Eh." 916 00:33:43,418.4639375 --> 00:33:44,471.8009375 You like the idea of a nap. 917 00:33:44,821.7969375 --> 00:33:45,251.7969375 Yeah. 918 00:33:46,631.8019375 --> 00:33:47,101.8019375 Okay. 919 00:33:47,191.7969375 --> 00:33:49,871.7929375 Girls' trip or couples' trip? Girls' trip. 920 00:33:49,971.7959375 --> 00:33:50,401.7959375 Yeah. 921 00:33:50,631.7989375 --> 00:33:52,811.7959375 Which- we've never done a proper girls' trip. 922 00:33:52,941.7969375 --> 00:33:53,591.7919375 No, we need to. 923 00:33:53,601.7929375 --> 00:33:54,741.7989375 We have outings. 924 00:33:55,971.7959375 --> 00:33:56,341.7959375 Yeah. 925 00:33:56,551.7969375 --> 00:33:57,711.7959375 But- We have outings we need to do. 926 00:33:58,31.7929375 --> 00:34:02,193.7979375 Yeah, that'd be fun We should do that. 927 00:34:02,763.7979375 --> 00:34:03,613.7979375 I don't know where we'd go. 928 00:34:04,333.7979375 --> 00:34:04,963.7979375 I don't either. 929 00:34:04,973.7979375 --> 00:34:06,603.7979375 You know I'm weird about, this is my... 930 00:34:07,733.7979375 --> 00:34:14,443.7969375 I, I don't know what it is, but when I'm planning a trip, I want it to be, like, the best trip that it can be. 931 00:34:15,293.7979375 --> 00:34:19,803.7969375 So I don't like to just be like, "Oh, we'll just go stay in a hotel

in this little town," and whatever. 932 00:34:19,853.7969375 --> 00:34:20,923.7969375 And see, I am like that. 933 00:34:20,923.7969375 --> 00:34:26,743.7969375 I'm super- I'm like, if I'm gonna spend this money, it's gonna be the best spent money- Uh, most- at the most, best I can get for my dollar mm-mm. 934 00:34:26,743.7969375 --> 00:34:31,333.7969375 No, most of mine and Dustin's trip on a Tuesday, we're like, "Oh, do you wanna go to St. 935 00:34:31,333.7969375 --> 00:34:32,603.7969375 Thomas?" And he's like, "Yeah." 936 00:34:32,643.7979375 --> 00:34:34,223.7969375 And he's like, "When?" I'm like, "Oh, tomorrow." 937 00:34:35,223.7969375 --> 00:34:35,923.7969375 We'll do that tomorrow. 938 00:34:35,923.7969375 --> 00:34:36,523.7979375 And we get on a plane the next day. 939 00:34:36,883.7959375 --> 00:34:37,373.7959375 I love it. 940 00:34:37,513.7969375 --> 00:34:37,983.7969375 We are... 941 00:34:38,503.7989375 --> 00:34:40,493.7959375 It's always, like, super spontaneous. 942 00:34:40,733.7979375 --> 00:34:44,723.7979375 That gives me anxiety, 'cause then I'm gonna get home and be like, "Well, we coulda done this, and we didn't. 943 00:34:45,33.7979375 --> 00:34:46,103.7979375 Why didn't we do that?" Oh, we do stuff. 944 00:34:46,833.7969375 --> 00:34:52,643.7969375 I would just be scared of not hitting- Not missing out like, the one thing that you go to that place for, because I didn't know about it. 945 00:34:52,703.7959375 --> 00:34:52,731.2964375 Oh, yeah. 946 00:34:52,731.2964375 --> 00:34:53,413.7969375 No, we still do stuff. 947 00:34:54,323.7979375 --> 00:34:55,263.7979375 I like to research it. 948 00:34:57,777.7979375 --> 00:34:58,647.7979375 And that's good. 949 00:34:59,127.7979375 --> 00:34:59,897.7979375 For some people. 950 00:35:01,367.7979375 --> 00:35:02,437.7979375 That's great for you. 951 00:35:02,647.7979375 --> 00:35:03,787.7979375 Free spirit, Karen. 952 00:35:03,787.7979375 --> 00:35:05,57.7979375 I'm gonna just go. 953 00:35:05,67.7979375 --> 00:35:06,377.7979375 She's just fly by the seat of her pants. 954 00:35:06,387.7979375 --> 00:35:06,407.7979375 Yeah. 955 00:35:06,417.7969375 --> 00:35:08,17.7979375 And I would have a panic attack. 956 00:35:08,997.7969375 --> 00:35:09,387.7969375 Okay. 957 00:35:09,447.7979375 --> 00:35:16,657.7979375 Um, the next question is plan everything or figure it out when we get there? Oh, well we've answered that. 958 00:35:16,667.7969375 --> 00:35:18,27.7979375 We've already answered that question. 959 00:35:18,467.7969375 --> 00:35:21,427.7969375 Forgive and forget or forgive and remember forever? Oof. 960 00:35:22,257.7969375 --> 00:35:23,857.7979375 I am a grudge holder. 961 00:35:23,887.7969375 --> 00:35:24,877.7979375 You are. 962 00:35:25,157.7969375 --> 00:35:26,317.7969375 I try to help you with that. 963 00:35:26,767.7979375 --> 00:35:27,527.7979375 You try. 964 00:35:27,577.7969375 --> 00:35:28,707.7979375 I'm not a forgive and forget. 965 00:35:29,397.7979375 --> 00:35:29,727.7969375 It's just ingrained. 966 00:35:29,727.7969375 --> 00:35:36,527.7979375 I won't forget, but I really try to understand why someone would've acted a certain way. 967 00:35:36,527.7979375 --> 00:35:38,107.7959375 And I don't, and I don't give a shit. 968 00:35:38,257.7979375 --> 00:35:39,827.7979375 Uh, once you- There's no excuse. 969 00:35:39,847.7979375 --> 00:35:40,437.7979375 Yeah. 970 00:35:40,437.7979375 --> 00:35:50,107.7959375 Like, once you burn me and, like, really hurt my feelings or, you know, put me off in some type of way, I'm like, "You know, maybe, maybe you're not meant for my life." 971 00:35:50,127.7959375 --> 00:35:50,787.7979375 You know what I mean? Mm-hmm. 972 00:35:50,847.7979375 --> 00:35:52,867.7979375 I think that's why I have such a group of good friends. 973 00:35:52,937.7979375 --> 00:35:53,357.7959375 Mm-hmm. 974 00:35:54,177.7949375 --> 00:36:00,587.7939375 Definitely more Christ-like to forgive and forget and, you know, give grace and move on. 975 00:36:01,77.7969375 --> 00:36:03,237.7929375 And I do try to do that, but sometimes it's hard. 976 00:36:03,307.7919375 --> 00:36:03,657.7919375 Yeah. 977 00:36:04,387.7939375 --> 00:36:04,927.7919375 It is hard. 978 00:36:04,987.7929375 --> 00:36:05,247.7929375 Yeah. 979 00:36:06,427.7949375 --> 00:36:13,107.7899375 But I'm also a recovering people pleaser, so I also struggle with proper boundaries. 980 00:36:13,117.7899375 --> 00:36:16,97.7919375 Like, sometimes it's just time to cut it off. 981 00:36:17,17.7909375 --> 00:36:17,37.7909375 Yeah. 982 00:36:17,47.7899375 --> 00:36:19,917.7919375 And it takes me way longer than it should to do that. 983 00:36:19,977.7899375 --> 00:36:20,227.7899375 Yeah. 984 00:36:20,227.7899375 --> 00:36:22,907.7919375 And see, I'm real quick to be like, "Uh, I'm good." 985 00:36:23,197.7919375 --> 00:36:23,527.7919375 Yeah. 986 00:36:23,607.7949375 --> 00:36:27,507.7939375 I hope you have- That's enough for me I wish you nothing but the best out of my life. 987 00:36:27,507.7939375 --> 00:36:28,447.7899375 I wish you nothing but the best. 988 00:36:28,457.7939375 --> 00:36:29,797.7929375 Yeah, out of my life. 989 00:36:30,107.7949375 --> 00:36:31,410.2959375 I don't need to know what's gonna happen. 990 00:36:31,410.2959375 --> 00:36:31,847.7969375 Over there. 991 00:36:31,877.7919375 --> 00:36:32,967.7939375 Uh, yeah. 992 00:36:33,837.7909375 --> 00:36:34,157.7929375 Thank you. 993 00:36:34,727.7899375 --> 00:36:34,977.7899375 Yeah. 994 00:36:35,137.7939375 --> 00:36:35,587.7939375 Okay. 995 00:36:35,837.7909375 --> 00:36:38,357.7949375 Um, would you rather be overdressed or underdressed? Hmm. 996 00:36:38,387.7939375 --> 00:36:40,747.7899375 Under for sure. 997 00:36:41,387.7939375 --> 00:36:42,767.7949375 I think I'd rather be overdressed. 998 00:36:42,797.7899375 --> 00:36:50,177.7949375 I wanna be comfortable though, so as soon as I get home

I'm gonna look- For pajamas? Mm-hmm. 999 00:36:50,297.7949375 --> 00:36:51,587.7949375 I'm gonna be in stretchy pants. 1000 00:36:51,637.7949375 --> 00:36:53,387.7949375 Yeah, no, I want to always be comfortable. 1001 00:36:53,447.7949375 --> 00:36:57,697.7949375 But sometimes I'm, I'll allow myself to be uncomfortable just to dress up a little. 1002 00:36:57,707.7949375 --> 00:36:59,197.7949375 Like, it's fun to me sometimes. 1003 00:36:59,317.7939375 --> 00:37:01,427.7949375 Yeah, I know, and I think- I don't wanna have to do it every day. 1004 00:37:01,837.7949375 --> 00:37:09,467.7939375 I will say b- like, you know, people think, "Oh, God, she probably wants to be uncomfortable, you know, comfortable all the time because of her age." 1005 00:37:09,647.7939375 --> 00:37:10,617.7949375 I've always been like that. 1006 00:37:10,657.7949375 --> 00:37:13,487.7949375 Like, in high school I would wear pajamas to school. 1007 00:37:14,487.7949375 --> 00:37:15,977.7949375 Please don't text me while I'm podcasting. 1008 00:37:15,987.7949375 --> 00:37:17,927.7939375 Yeah, it's- Thank you really rude. 1009 00:37:19,507.7949375 --> 00:37:23,47.7929375 Um, so I've never been like a, "Oh, let me dress up," girl. 1010 00:37:23,87.7929375 --> 00:37:23,757.7949375 You know what I mean? Yeah. 1011 00:37:23,777.7949375 --> 00:37:28,197.7949375 I've always, like, rolled out of bed, put, changed into a different pair of pajama pants and gone to school. 1012 00:37:28,257.7949375 --> 00:37:28,767.7959375 Mm-hmm. 1013 00:37:28,817.7929375 --> 00:37:29,7.7929375 Yeah. 1014 00:37:29,617.7959375 --> 00:37:30,927.7939375 I don't know. 1015 00:37:31,117.7959375 --> 00:37:38,727.7919375 I don't wanna say never, 'cause I'm sure there was, like, a dress up day at school where we all wore pajama pants, but I, I don't know that I wore pajama pants to school. 1016 00:37:38,727.7919375 --> 00:37:39,607.7929375 It's not acceptable. 1017 00:37:39,677.7929375 --> 00:37:45,897.7939375 I would never let- A lot of people did it, though, but I was too chicken- Oh to show up like that. 1018 00:37:45,987.7949375 --> 00:37:47,667.7919375 Yeah, no, no cares given over here. 1019 00:37:47,677.7929375 --> 00:37:52,177.7919375 There was a lot of pressure as a kid, like, you gotta look this way. 1020 00:37:52,707.7919375 --> 00:37:55,427.7969375 And I think maybe- Everything was ironed and, like, you know. 1021 00:37:55,447.7899375 --> 00:37:55,687.7929375 Mm-hmm. 1022 00:37:55,837.7929375 --> 00:37:55,867.7929375 I see. 1023 00:37:56,547.7959375 --> 00:37:57,667.7969375 I didn't iron, but... 1024 00:37:57,807.7899375 --> 00:37:58,347.7899375 Yeah. 1025 00:37:58,687.7949375 --> 00:38:00,327.7909375 Mine was just like, you know. 1026 00:38:00,517.7969375 --> 00:38:01,287.7909375 Get out the door. 1027 00:38:01,367.7959375 --> 00:38:01,577.7959375 Yep. 1028 00:38:02,667.7909375 --> 00:38:03,527.7959375 Hopefully go to school. 1029 00:38:04,17.7899375 --> 00:38:05,527.7929375 Yeah, hopefully she makes it to school. 1030 00:38:06,47.7959375 --> 00:38:07,727.7939375 Wear whatever you want, just get there. 1031 00:38:08,987.7909375 --> 00:38:10,47.7899375 Go to class. 1032 00:38:10,817.7929375 --> 00:38:11,217.7929375 Okay. 1033 00:38:11,437.7949375 --> 00:38:21,603.7949375 Um, would you rather have everyone know your search history or your text messages? Hmm. 1034 00:38:22,743.7949375 --> 00:38:24,693.7949375 I don't think that I care about either one. 1035 00:38:25,773.7949375 --> 00:38:28,563.7949375 And I'm sitting here really balancing what have I searched? I don't think it was... 1036 00:38:28,563.7949375 --> 00:38:31,543.7939375 I think I would rather someone see my search history than my text messages. 1037 00:38:33,53.7949375 --> 00:38:39,933.7939375 Because I feel like there's things in my text messages, and this is my people pleaser, that might like hurt someone's feelings, and I don't wanna hurt people's feelings. 1038 00:38:40,613.7949375 --> 00:38:41,153.7949375 Mm. 1039 00:38:41,403.7939375 --> 00:38:41,813.7939375 Sweet. 1040 00:38:41,823.7939375 --> 00:38:43,953.7939375 Versus a Google search is not gonna... 1041 00:38:43,963.7939375 --> 00:38:46,113.7939375 Unless I'm like, "Why is this bitch doing..." 1042 00:38:46,133.7939375 --> 00:38:48,573.7939375 You know, like- they're gonna be like, "What?" That's me. 1043 00:38:48,813.7939375 --> 00:38:50,133.7949375 That, oh, she's talking about me. 1044 00:38:50,993.7949375 --> 00:38:56,343.7949375 But I think a text message, not that I like just sit and talk bad about people all the time, but we all vent from time to time. 1045 00:38:56,423.7949375 --> 00:38:57,103.7949375 Oh, yeah. 1046 00:38:57,123.7959375 --> 00:38:59,953.7929375 We get frustrated, and then later we're like, "Ugh, okay, I'm over it. 1047 00:38:59,963.7959375 --> 00:39:00,543.7919375 It's fine." 1048 00:39:00,773.7929375 --> 00:39:01,153.7929375 Yeah. 1049 00:39:02,913.7929375 --> 00:39:10,763.7919375 But I would hate, I would hate for that to get out and like hurt someone's feelings, especially when it's just like a fleeting annoyed- Moment vent. 1050 00:39:10,763.7919375 --> 00:39:10,793.7939375 Yeah. 1051 00:39:10,793.7939375 --> 00:39:11,73.7939375 Yeah. 1052 00:39:11,73.7939375 --> 00:39:13,223.7939375 It's not like a real- Yeah thing. 1053 00:39:13,233.7919375 --> 00:39:27,643.7959375 I understand that She doesn't care What if they need to hear it? What if they need to hear how you're really feeling? Why are we starting a podcast? Whose idea was this? Oh, definitely Sick Nick. 1054 00:39:27,913.7959375 --> 00:39:28,323.7959375 All you. 1055 00:39:28,323.7959375 --> 00:39:30,763.7959375 You think it was me? I feel like you blurted it out, though. 1056 00:39:30,853.7959375 --> 00:39:31,313.7959375 You did. 1057 00:39:31,333.7959375 --> 00:39:32,643.7959375 And then I was like, "Oh yeah, we're doing it." 1058 00:39:32,743.7949375 -->

00:39:33,263.7959375 You did. 1059 00:39:33,283.7959375 --> 00:39:36,903.7949375 You said- I think you blurted it out "Would you do a podcast with me on the deck, a dock? Deck, dock." 1060 00:39:36,953.7949375 --> 00:39:40,313.7949375 I thought you were laughing and you were like, "We should start a podcast." 1061 00:39:40,323.7949375 --> 00:39:41,663.7959375 No, you, you. 1062 00:39:41,713.7949375 --> 00:39:45,273.7959375 This was your idea, and you were like, "Do, would you do that with me?" I'm like, "Yeah, I think so. 1063 00:39:45,273.7959375 --> 00:39:46,53.7939375 I think it'd be fun." 1064 00:39:46,163.7959375 --> 00:39:49,13.7939375 And then I had Chris like force her- And I think Chris was like- every day That's not true. 1065 00:39:49,563.7969375 --> 00:39:51,163.7959375 Uh, Chris was like, "I think it'd be great. 1066 00:39:51,163.7959375 --> 00:39:54,323.7949375 Y'all's banter balance each o- each, each other out or what- whatever." 1067 00:39:54,323.7949375 --> 00:40:00,873.7969375 Yeah, and because of that, I was like, "Maybe I should really do it," 'cause I have crazy ideas all the time, and he's like, "I mean, I guess you could do that." 1068 00:40:00,923.7939375 --> 00:40:01,303.7939375 Yeah. 1069 00:40:01,313.7929375 --> 00:40:03,83.7929375 But this one, he was like, "No, I think you should do that." 1070 00:40:03,243.7939375 --> 00:40:03,583.7939375 Yeah. 1071 00:40:03,863.7959375 --> 00:40:04,493.7949375 It's worth a shot. 1072 00:40:05,903.7929375 --> 00:40:06,803.7939375 I'm hilarious. 1073 00:40:06,803.7949375 --> 00:40:07,943.7949375 So if you're... 1074 00:40:07,943.7949375 --> 00:40:08,383.7949375 You're hilarious. 1075 00:40:08,383.7949375 --> 00:40:09,533.7939375 We're so funny. 1076 00:40:11,93.7959375 --> 00:40:13,353.7949375 Um, how long have we talked about doing it? About a month. 1077 00:40:13,543.7929375 --> 00:40:13,913.7929375 Mm-hmm. 1078 00:40:14,183.7959375 --> 00:40:15,183.7959375 And here we are. 1079 00:40:15,333.7939375 --> 00:40:15,613.7939375 Yeah. 1080 00:40:16,623.7949375 --> 00:40:18,473.7909375 We don't have time to wait for anything. 1081 00:40:18,513.7979375 --> 00:40:18,873.7979375 No. 1082 00:40:18,933.7959375 --> 00:40:20,123.7939375 These chairs were enough. 1083 00:40:20,173.7939375 --> 00:40:20,973.7969375 Time is, oh my gosh. 1084 00:40:20,993.7939375 --> 00:40:22,113.7979375 They showed up one at a time. 1085 00:40:22,293.7969375 --> 00:40:23,663.7929375 It was an order, a set of two. 1086 00:40:24,363.7959375 --> 00:40:26,143.7929375 I ordered them as a set of two. 1087 00:40:26,513.7979375 --> 00:40:30,33.7929375 Yeah, and if they would've come together- We'd have started this last week. 1088 00:40:30,43.7969375 --> 00:40:30,933.7909375 Yeah, it would've been quick. 1089 00:40:30,993.7939375 --> 00:40:31,973.7969375 It would've been quick, yeah. 1090 00:40:33,163.7919375 --> 00:40:41,453.7909375 Anyway, uh, what are we most excited about? Ooh, I think I'm really excited to just see where this goes. 1091 00:40:42,3.7959375 --> 00:40:42,523.7919375 Me too. 1092 00:40:42,853.7939375 --> 00:40:46,103.7929375 I think one day I would like to get to a point where we interview too, though. 1093 00:40:46,113.7959375 --> 00:40:49,73.7919375 Like, that could get- Oh, yeah meaty. 1094 00:40:49,253.7959375 --> 00:40:51,123.7979375 Like, in, in a non-gro- that sounds gross. 1095 00:40:51,123.7979375 --> 00:40:51,933.7899375 But like, you know what I mean. 1096 00:40:51,933.7959375 --> 00:40:55,253.7939375 Like, that could get really- Yeah interesting. 1097 00:40:55,313.7929375 --> 00:40:55,573.7929375 Yeah. 1098 00:40:55,903.7969375 --> 00:40:58,253.7899375 I was gonna say deep, and then I'm like, "That sounds gross too." 1099 00:40:59,543.7969375 --> 00:41:00,393.7929375 This is not the right context. 1100 00:41:00,453.7929375 --> 00:41:02,393.7959375 This is, I think this is our generation. 1101 00:41:02,713.7949375 --> 00:41:03,583.7929375 We can't speak. 1102 00:41:04,153.7969375 --> 00:41:06,163.7899375 Just don't say anything, 'cause everything's gross. 1103 00:41:06,163.7919375 --> 00:41:06,353.7919375 It's not. 1104 00:41:06,353.7939375 --> 00:41:11,553.7929375 Okay? Um, we grew up in the '90s, so. 1105 00:41:11,673.7939375 --> 00:41:12,163.7909375 The '90s. 1106 00:41:12,853.7939375 --> 00:41:21,57.7959375 Uh, what do we hope this turns into? I mean, honestly, I just like sitting here talking to you for an hour. 1107 00:41:21,317.7959375 --> 00:41:21,657.7959375 I love it. 1108 00:41:21,657.7959375 --> 00:41:22,897.7959375 I get your undivided attention. 1109 00:41:22,897.7959375 --> 00:41:24,947.7959375 Like, un- uh, yeah, no kids- uninterrupted. 1110 00:41:25,167.7959375 --> 00:41:25,977.7959375 I like it too. 1111 00:41:26,167.7959375 --> 00:41:37,617.7949375 I hope eventually something that we say resonates with someone, right? Like, I think a lot of people don't talk about the nitty-gritty, and I don't think we have a pro- a problem- Right talking about it. 1112 00:41:38,137.7959375 --> 00:41:40,57.7959375 And if you do, I will just pull it right out of you. 1113 00:41:41,127.7959375 --> 00:41:44,247.7959375 But, I mean, eventually one day hopefully that's the case. 1114 00:41:44,287.7959375 --> 00:41:44,737.7949375 I don't know. 1115 00:41:45,47.7959375 --> 00:41:46,177.7959375 Cayden, you know how Cayden feels. 1116 00:41:46,177.7959375 --> 00:41:47,294.4616042 Cayden's our son. 1117 00:41:47,294.4616042 --> 00:41:48,237.7959375 Cayden's my child. 1118 00:41:48,417.7949375 --> 00:41:49,127.7949375 Our oldest son. 1119 00:41:49,137.7949375 --> 00:41:49,777.7949375 Yeah. 1120 00:41:50,517.7939375 --> 00:41:51,837.7959375 He'll be- He thinks we're gonna suck at this. 1121 00:41:51,837.7959375 --> 00:41:52,557.7959375 Yeah, absolutely does. 1122 00:41:52,737.7949375 --> 00:41:54,517.7939375 All the, all the children do, though. 1123 00:41:54,547.7959375 -->

00:41:58,407.7949375 They're just cringing so hard they can't stand- Oh Mom why... 1124 00:41:59,557.7949375 --> 00:42:02,197.7959375 What did, uh, Canon say? Her other son. 1125 00:42:02,417.7949375 --> 00:42:04,267.7939375 He was like, "If you talk about me, I'll sue you." 1126 00:42:04,277.7959375 --> 00:42:04,297.7959375 Yeah. 1127 00:42:05,497.7929375 --> 00:42:06,837.7949375 Well, Lauren didn't want to be- We just brought him up. 1128 00:42:06,837.7949375 --> 00:42:07,387.7949375 Don't sue us. 1129 00:42:08,217.7939375 --> 00:42:09,221.1269375 But Lauren didn't wanna be talked about. 1130 00:42:09,221.1269375 --> 00:42:11,27.7959375 Yeah, my daughter was like, "Uh, yeah, me too." 1131 00:42:11,597.7959375 --> 00:42:13,847.7939375 What do Logan and Lily think about it? I don't know. 1132 00:42:13,887.7959375 --> 00:42:15,667.7959375 They're just like, "Okay." 1133 00:42:15,727.7969375 --> 00:42:16,542.7959375 Like, they d- I don't know. 1134 00:42:16,542.7959375 --> 00:42:16,867.7949375 They think we're idiots. 1135 00:42:16,867.7959375 --> 00:42:18,717.7929375 Lily doesn't have any opinion about it. 1136 00:42:19,467.7939375 --> 00:42:21,27.7959375 Um- You know that Logan thinks we're idiots. 1137 00:42:21,27.7959375 --> 00:42:21,47.7959375 Yeah. 1138 00:42:21,137.7959375 --> 00:42:22,377.7979375 I'm gonna have to ask him. 1139 00:42:22,377.7979375 --> 00:42:22,727.7979375 Yeah. 1140 00:42:24,127.7979375 --> 00:42:26,907.7989375 Hopefully we can just come on here and embarrass them. 1141 00:42:27,967.8019375 --> 00:42:28,367.7959375 I don't know. 1142 00:42:28,627.7979375 --> 00:42:30,377.7979375 Um, we... 1143 00:42:31,367.7959375 --> 00:42:42,167.7979375 Back on the topic of, like, what we wanna get out of this, I do hope that this can become something that, like you said, like, there's so many things that people don't openly talk about, but everyone's dealing with. 1144 00:42:42,327.8029375 --> 00:42:42,647.7969375 Mm-hmm. 1145 00:42:42,717.8019375 --> 00:42:53,557.8029375 One of the examples is I, we, so before we started this podcast, we kind of talked about, it was that weekend at the lake, and we started talking about, like, we were giggling about everything because that's just how we are. 1146 00:42:53,557.8029375 --> 00:42:55,177.8019375 Everything's funny. 1147 00:42:55,587.7969375 --> 00:42:57,67.7979375 You can't take life too seriously. 1148 00:42:57,67.8009375 --> 00:43:01,269.8009375 But- um, things that happen to you after you turn 40. 1149 00:43:01,429.8009375 --> 00:43:01,559.8009375 Yeah. 1150 00:43:02,189.8009375 --> 00:43:05,579.8009375 And all the crazy changes, and it's like, "Why is this doing that?" Yeah. 1151 00:43:05,629.8009375 --> 00:43:13,719.8009375 Why is this doing that now? Like, I remember not even a year ago making fun of you because you were using subtitles. 1152 00:43:14,319.8009375 --> 00:43:15,289.8009375 Yeah, closed caption. 1153 00:43:15,879.8009375 --> 00:43:16,149.8009375 Yeah. 1154 00:43:16,359.8009375 --> 00:43:17,499.8009375 Now I have to have them. 1155 00:43:17,959.8009375 --> 00:43:20,712.3009375 That's, that's karma is what that is, actually. 1156 00:43:20,712.3009375 --> 00:43:21,609.8009375 Egg on my face. 1157 00:43:22,189.8009375 --> 00:43:29,429.7999375 Because even if I go somewhere like to my sister's house or anywhere else and I'm watching- Your sister's younger than we are and she uses them. 1158 00:43:29,459.8009375 --> 00:43:30,389.8009375 She uses them too. 1159 00:43:30,389.8009375 --> 00:43:30,639.7989375 Absolutely. 1160 00:43:30,649.7999375 --> 00:43:31,179.7999375 Thank God. 1161 00:43:31,709.8009375 --> 00:43:32,489.7989375 Because she'd have to... 1162 00:43:32,559.7989375 --> 00:43:33,809.7989375 I can't watch a show. 1163 00:43:33,809.7989375 --> 00:43:34,969.7989375 I'm like, "I don't know what's going on." 1164 00:43:35,129.7989375 --> 00:43:36,439.8009375 I just started doing that. 1165 00:43:36,439.8009375 --> 00:43:45,889.8009375 Chris, my husband, is sitting there watching a movie, and somehow he knows what they're saying, and to me it's like, Or, or are we watching something in English? I have no idea. 1166 00:43:45,889.8009375 --> 00:43:46,209.7979375 I know. 1167 00:43:46,259.7999375 --> 00:43:46,639.7989375 I hate it. 1168 00:43:48,159.7989375 --> 00:43:49,319.8009375 Well, I, I hate it. 1169 00:43:49,489.7999375 --> 00:43:52,209.8009375 Like- But when they're on, I'm like, "I understand" are they even talking right now? Yeah. 1170 00:43:52,229.8009375 --> 00:43:52,549.7989375 Uh-huh. 1171 00:43:53,359.7989375 --> 00:43:56,769.7999375 Am I watching a, someone play The Sims? It's awful. 1172 00:43:57,859.7989375 --> 00:43:58,369.7979375 It's awful. 1173 00:43:58,399.7999375 --> 00:43:58,489.7999375 It's terrible. 1174 00:43:58,489.7999375 --> 00:43:59,809.7979375 I don't wanna watch TV without them. 1175 00:44:00,9.7999375 --> 00:44:00,209.7999375 Yeah. 1176 00:44:00,329.7999375 --> 00:44:02,539.7979375 But when they start talking too fast, I'm like, "Wait." 1177 00:44:04,29.8009375 --> 00:44:04,639.7999375 I've missed it. 1178 00:44:05,179.7999375 --> 00:44:05,329.7999375 I can't keep up. 1179 00:44:05,469.8029375 --> 00:44:05,869.8029375 Yeah. 1180 00:44:06,309.7989375 --> 00:44:08,799.7989375 And I'm a fast reader, but some of those subtitles just go. 1181 00:44:09,239.7999375 --> 00:44:13,439.8009375 But I did a Facebook post, and there were a lot of people reaching out, commenting. 1182 00:44:14,169.7999375 --> 00:44:22,679.7969375 Yeah I just asked them, "What is something that surprised you after turning 40? What is something that happened that you're just like, 'What is going on?'" And there were a lot of different comments. 1183 00:44:22,689.7999375 --> 00:44:25,959.8009375 We'll have a podcast probably all about that. 1184 00:44:25,959.8009375 --> 00:44:26,89.8009375 Yeah. 1185 00:44:26,89.8009375 -->

00:44:26,909.7979375 Maybe more than one. 1186 00:44:27,69.7969375 --> 00:44:27,969.7969375 Yeah, for sure. 1187 00:44:28,339.8009375 --> 00:44:40,279.7999375 A lot of different comments, but what I really liked about it is the number of people saying, "Thank you for posting this because- Mm-hmm I can look at these comments and see that I'm not the only one dealing with this or that." 1188 00:44:40,549.7999375 --> 00:44:41,249.7979375 Uh, yep. 1189 00:44:41,509.7999375 --> 00:44:42,729.7989375 And they weren't all funny. 1190 00:44:42,729.8009375 --> 00:44:47,869.7959375 Like, some people were kind of funny about their symptoms, but a lot of it was just, like, genuine things. 1191 00:44:48,49.7999375 --> 00:44:48,109.7999375 Yep. 1192 00:44:48,499.7969375 --> 00:44:58,499.7969375 And so many people our age, you know, we're right around 40, uh, go to their doctor and they're like, "Is this perimenopause? Am I- Mm-hmm starting menopause?" And I mean, this happened to me. 1193 00:44:58,499.7969375 --> 00:45:00,139.7979375 My doctor's like, "No, you're too young for that." 1194 00:45:00,199.8019375 --> 00:45:00,829.7969375 Mm-hmm. 1195 00:45:00,829.7969375 --> 00:45:06,449.7919375 I'm like, "Well, then why is this happening and this happening and this happening and this happening?" Well, your blood work's normal, so you're fine." 1196 00:45:06,459.7969375 --> 00:45:07,39.7919375 Yeah, you're fine. 1197 00:45:07,89.8009375 --> 00:45:07,309.8009375 Yeah. 1198 00:45:07,759.7999375 --> 00:45:16,159.7939375 So I think there's a lot to talk about there, and I think that there's a lot of things that people don't talk about- Mm-hmm that maybe if we talk about it they'll- Feel more open to discuss it. 1199 00:45:16,209.7969375 --> 00:45:16,669.7979375 Mm-hmm. 1200 00:45:17,439.8079375 --> 00:45:20,539.8079375 Yeah, I think a lot of these things go on behind closed doors. 1201 00:45:20,539.8079375 --> 00:45:24,429.8029375 I think there are a lot of people that are, you know, do have their walls up, and that's totally fine. 1202 00:45:25,259.7999375 --> 00:45:32,459.7969375 I mean, but maybe this would help in some, some way get the conversation going in their life with somebody, somebody they trust or, you know- Mm-hmm I don't... 1203 00:45:32,459.7969375 --> 00:45:33,329.8069375 Or somebody they don't. 1204 00:45:33,459.7969375 --> 00:45:33,789.7969375 Yeah. 1205 00:45:34,679.7979375 --> 00:45:37,49.7979375 Somebody they don't even really know- Yeah. 1206 00:45:37,49.7979375 --> 00:45:40,69.7949375 and they're just listening to on a podcast weekly. 1207 00:45:40,149.7989375 --> 00:45:40,169.7989375 Ugh. 1208 00:45:40,179.7979375 --> 00:45:40,899.7949375 Every week. 1209 00:45:41,169.8029375 --> 00:45:41,289.8029375 Ugh. 1210 00:45:41,299.7929375 --> 00:45:42,589.8029375 Like, share, and subscribe. 1211 00:45:43,99.7959375 --> 00:45:43,469.7959375 Yeah. 1212 00:45:43,469.8059375 --> 00:45:44,789.8069375 Share with your friends. 1213

00:45:45,589.8019375 --> 00:45:47,789.8019375 So yeah, so that's gonna be some of our topics. 1214 00:45:47,889.8019375 --> 00:45:49,29.8019375 What's coming on Typical. 1215 00:45:49,29.8019375 --> 00:45:50,89.8019375 We talked a little bit about it. 1216 00:45:50,89.8019375 --> 00:45:51,819.8019375 We wanna do some of the over 40 stuff. 1217 00:45:51,859.8019375 --> 00:45:52,319.8019375 Mm-hmm. 1218 00:45:52,319.8019375 --> 00:46:04,581.8019375 And- And then like just everyday life, like- Mm-hmm marriage, kids, work What reality shows or documentaries we just watched Yeah, living in 2026 and what's, what that's like. 1219 00:46:04,651.8019375 --> 00:46:05,211.8019375 Mm-hmm. 1220 00:46:05,701.8019375 --> 00:46:12,721.8009375 What it was like to grow up in the '90s- Born in the '80s, grow up in the '90s- Growing up in the '90s party in the 2000s. 1221 00:46:12,971.8009375 --> 00:46:15,831.8019375 Yeah apparently together unknowingly. 1222 00:46:16,1.8019375 --> 00:46:16,401.8019375 Unknowingly, yeah. 1223 00:46:16,401.8019375 --> 00:46:20,1.8009375 Yeah Um, I feel bad for our kids 'cause they didn't get to experience that. 1224 00:46:20,11.8019375 --> 00:46:31,51.7999375 Like, I'm such a- I mean, we've got them on Live 360 100% now, right? So, like, I wouldn't want that, but I feel like that definitely helped shape, and it was so fun. 1225 00:46:32,421.8019375 --> 00:46:40,421.8009375 We- And dangerous grew up in a time where you were still sort of, like, I don't know, I was talking to somebody about this the other day, like, we were the latchkey kids. 1226 00:46:40,611.8009375 --> 00:46:45,171.8029375 Like, I rode the bus home, and we were home until parents got off work. 1227 00:46:45,341.7999375 --> 00:46:45,731.8009375 Mm-hmm. 1228 00:46:46,111.8009375 --> 00:46:51,11.8019375 Um, single mom for a lot of that time, so, like, we had chores to do. 1229 00:46:51,11.8019375 --> 00:46:51,21.8019375 Mm-hmm. 1230 00:46:51,21.8019375 --> 00:46:52,381.8009375 The house had to be clean. 1231 00:46:52,491.8019375 --> 00:46:54,71.7999375 Sometimes we were starting dinner. 1232 00:46:54,171.8019375 --> 00:46:54,391.8019375 Yeah. 1233 00:46:54,841.7999375 --> 00:47:02,361.8039375 We grew up a lot faster than our kids, and I think that's a blessing for them, but it also- A curse there's some ways that it, yeah, they're not ready. 1234 00:47:02,501.8039375 --> 00:47:03,401.7999375 Oh, for sure. 1235 00:47:03,821.8039375 --> 00:47:04,921.7999375 Dude, my kid's 16. 1236 00:47:04,931.7969375 --> 00:47:08,371.8009375 He woke up this morning, and his breakfast is made, and his lunch is laid out. 1237 00:47:08,691.7989375 --> 00:47:13,541.7999375 But, two, he's also my last one- Yeah, he's the baby so I'm like, "Let me savor every second of this with Caden." 1238 00:47:13,541.7999375 --> 00:47:15,943.7973375 I was like, "Get your shit and get out the door." 1239 00:47:15,943.7973375 --> 00:47:16,791.8029375 You know better than this. 1240 00:47:17,111.7969375 --> 00:47:17,501.7969375 Yeah. 1241 00:47:17,501.7969375 --> 00:47:18,81.7979375 Yeah. 1242 00:47:18,81.7979375 --> 00:47:20,211.8029375 And I have so much mom guilt for that, honestly. 1243 00:47:20,221.7969375 --> 00:47:20,241.7969375 Yeah. 1244 00:47:20,291.7969375 --> 00:47:26,811.7999375 I know that it helps them in a lot of ways- No, me too but, like, I feel so guilty 'cause they were still a baby at that point, you know, at certain points, and- Yeah, you just don't know. 1245 00:47:27,851.8019375 --> 00:47:29,341.7969375 You do the best you can with what you have. 1246 00:47:29,401.7979375 --> 00:47:29,611.7979375 Yeah. 1247 00:47:30,361.7969375 --> 00:47:32,561.8019375 And I think each child you kinda grow with, obviously. 1248 00:47:32,561.8019375 --> 00:47:34,841.8009375 And- The first one's kinda like a, like a trial and error kid. 1249 00:47:35,301.7989375 --> 00:47:37,621.7969375 Unfortunately, that's the truth, and I'm the firstborn. 1250 00:47:37,911.7999375 --> 00:47:38,221.7999375 Same. 1251 00:47:38,231.7999375 --> 00:47:40,41.8019375 So we were, we were the trial kids. 1252 00:47:40,111.7969375 --> 00:47:40,851.7979375 And look at us now. 1253 00:47:40,861.7969375 --> 00:47:41,871.8029375 Look at us now. 1254 00:47:43,291.7969375 --> 00:47:44,931.7999375 We have so much to talk about. 1255 00:47:45,481.8029375 --> 00:47:47,411.7999375 In a podcast and with our therapist. 1256 00:47:47,411.8029375 --> 00:47:51,411.8029375 Who we, uh, who, yeah, I don't have one. 1257 00:47:51,411.8029375 --> 00:47:52,901.8019375 I would love to, but I don't have one either. 1258 00:47:53,551.8019375 --> 00:47:54,871.8019375 We are- So that's what this is. 1259 00:47:55,921.7979375 --> 00:47:57,131.8009375 We are each other's therapist. 1260 00:47:57,171.8049375 --> 00:48:06,511.7979375 Yeah I think that, I think that sums it up, uh, you know, as to why we're doing this and what we want out of it. 1261 00:48:06,551.7979375 --> 00:48:09,191.8089375 I think- I just want it to be real. 1262 00:48:09,191.8089375 --> 00:48:10,171.8039375 I want it to be genuine. 1263 00:48:10,211.8019375 --> 00:48:10,411.8019375 Yeah. 1264 00:48:10,471.8119375 --> 00:48:15,711.7999375 And I feel like if I had done this with anybody else, there would've been a layer of, like- Fake that not being the case. 1265 00:48:15,721.8119375 --> 00:48:15,741.8119375 Yeah. 1266 00:48:15,751.8099375 --> 00:48:17,641.8099375 And it's not because I'm trying to be fake. 1267 00:48:17,701.8069375 --> 00:48:18,121.8069375 Yeah. 1268 00:48:18,941.7979375 --> 00:48:21,361.7989375 It's just you are the easiest for me to be me around. 1269 00:48:21,561.8079375 --> 00:48:22,401.8089375 Yeah, I love that. 1270 00:48:22,411.7989375 --> 00:48:22,431.7989375 So. 1271 00:48:22,921.8089375 --> 00:48:23,801.7999375 Yeah, I love that. 1272 00:48:24,11.8049375 --> 00:48:26,351.7999375 And I don't think, uh, you would wanna do this if you

weren't you. 1273 00:48:27,151.8039375 --> 00:48:27,611.8039375 No. 1274 00:48:27,621.8059375 --> 00:48:27,641.8059375 Yeah. 1275 00:48:27,821.8029375 --> 00:48:28,901.7989375 And no one would listen. 1276 00:48:29,41.8039375 --> 00:48:29,931.8009375 You have to be genuine. 1277 00:48:29,931.8029375 --> 00:48:30,681.8049375 You have to be yourself. 1278 00:48:30,761.8049375 --> 00:48:34,569.8079375 Yeah And if you don't like us, I mean, that's fine too. 1279 00:48:34,619.8079375 --> 00:48:35,159.8079375 That's okay. 1280 00:48:35,169.8079375 --> 00:48:36,879.8079375 Our kids have already told us they're not listening. 1281 00:48:36,949.8079375 --> 00:48:38,729.8079375 Yeah, we're not everybody's cup of tea. 1282 00:48:39,9.8079375 --> 00:48:48,199.8069375 Her son's girlfriend, which, I mean, it's like a daughter, she's been around since middle school, she was like, "I would not listen to y'all if y'all talked about that" where I was like- "I don't think you are our target demographic." 1283 00:48:49,459.8069375 --> 00:48:51,419.8079375 How old is she? 20- Three three. 1284 00:48:52,479.8069375 --> 00:48:52,499.8069375 Yeah. 1285 00:48:52,499.8079375 --> 00:48:53,79.8069375 23 years old. 1286 00:48:53,979.8069375 --> 00:48:56,149.8069375 I would love it if some 23-year-olds listen to us. 1287 00:48:56,179.8079375 --> 00:49:01,229.8069375 I just don't think they're gonna- She'll listen they're gonna be like, "Ugh, they're so old." 1288 00:49:01,409.8079375 --> 00:49:01,939.8069375 Oh, they're so... 1289 00:49:02,9.8079375 --> 00:49:09,159.8059375 Cadence- You know what my kids always say? "Why do you guys always talk about what generation you are?" Like y'all are always like elder millennials or whatever. 1290 00:49:09,709.8089375 --> 00:49:11,599.8079375 Well, I don't know why we always talk about that. 1291 00:49:11,599.8079375 --> 00:49:17,239.8049375 Or boomers or- But Caden found out I was born in '83, and he was like, "Holy shit, '83." 1292 00:49:17,909.8059375 --> 00:49:21,309.8069375 He's like, "Do you, do you feel old?" And I'm like, "That's not that old." 1293 00:49:21,859.8059375 --> 00:49:23,809.8049375 Look, I'm also a real estate agent. 1294 00:49:23,809.8049375 --> 00:49:24,839.8059375 I do a lot of different things. 1295 00:49:24,839.8059375 --> 00:49:25,439.8029375 I've talked about this. 1296 00:49:25,839.8059375 --> 00:49:30,369.8049375 I just sold a house to a couple that was born the year I graduated high school. 1297 00:49:31,499.8049375 --> 00:49:37,939.8049375 They bought a house, and had a baby, and they were married, and they were born the year that I graduated high school. 1298 00:49:39,209.8039375 --> 00:49:39,499.8049375 Yeah, I know. 1299 00:49:39,499.8049375 --> 00:49:40,509.8059375 I don't feel good about that. 1300 00:49:40,619.8079375 --> 00:49:41,489.8069375 I don't feel good about that. 1301 00:49:41,499.8049375 --> 00:49:45,869.8059375 Well, when Caden said that, I was like, "I don't

really look at that as a, a long time ago." 1302 00:49:45,899.8069375 --> 00:49:46,199.8069375 Yeah. 1303 00:49:46,489.8029375 --> 00:49:47,689.8039375 And he's like, "That's ancient. 1304 00:49:47,729.8009375 --> 00:49:48,779.8039375 That's a long time ago." 1305 00:49:48,779.8039375 --> 00:49:48,839.8039375 Ancient. 1306 00:49:48,849.8039375 --> 00:49:50,9.8029375 "It's 2026." 1307 00:49:50,9.8079375 --> 00:49:55,269.8059375 And I'm like- Well, I suck at math, so- Uh- that doesn't mean much to me nothing to me. 1308 00:49:57,449.8019375 --> 00:49:59,409.8029375 And my brain still thinks I'm 20. 1309 00:50:00,99.8039375 --> 00:50:00,439.8039375 Yeah. 1310 00:50:00,489.8029375 --> 00:50:09,539.8009375 I, I wonder if that's every generation or just ours because I feel like so many of us are, like, always looking around for an adult. 1311 00:50:09,559.8029375 --> 00:50:11,859.8059375 Like, who is gonna take care of this? Yeah. 1312 00:50:11,869.8009375 --> 00:50:15,69.7999375 I'm- There's something happening over there I'm- Somebody needs to do something about that. 1313 00:50:15,69.8049375 --> 00:50:16,319.7999375 I will always look for the adult. 1314 00:50:17,509.7999375 --> 00:50:18,469.8049375 Like, help me out. 1315 00:50:19,509.7999375 --> 00:50:20,319.8069375 I need help. 1316 00:50:21,229.8069375 --> 00:50:21,429.8069375 Help. 1317 00:50:21,749.8049375 --> 00:50:22,109.8049375 Yeah. 1318 00:50:22,549.8009375 --> 00:50:25,729.7979375 I will always look for the adult, yeah, I don't remember what I was trying to say. 1319 00:50:25,949.8019375 --> 00:50:27,639.7929375 Yeah I couldn't pull it from the deep brain. 1320 00:50:27,649.7989375 --> 00:50:28,349.8005375 But it takes a lot. 1321 00:50:28,349.8005375 --> 00:50:29,709.7919375 Things that happen when you turn 40. 1322 00:50:30,269.7939375 --> 00:50:30,649.7989375 Well, we have, we've been talking. 1323 00:50:30,649.7989375 --> 00:50:31,939.7949375 We have, and we're close. 1324 00:50:31,999.8049375 --> 00:50:33,169.8049375 We're at 52 minutes. 1325 00:50:33,369.7999375 --> 00:50:33,389.7999375 Yeah. 1326 00:50:33,389.8039375 --> 00:50:34,319.8029375 We're trying to get an hour. 1327 00:50:35,149.7929375 --> 00:50:39,519.7929375 Do you think people are gonna listen for a whole hour? I think they're gonna have to. 1328 00:50:41,849.7899375 --> 00:50:43,19.7859375 They're not gonna have a choice. 1329 00:50:44,59.7809375 --> 00:50:45,539.7829375 I think that's what you're supposed to aim for. 1330 00:50:45,539.7829375 --> 00:50:47,79.7939375 I think a podcast is supposed to be an hour. 1331 00:50:47,179.7919375 --> 00:50:47,479.7919375 Yeah. 1332 00:50:47,849.7899375 --> 00:50:49,569.7879375 If they wanna skip through some of it, they can. 1333 00:50:49,929.7919375 --> 00:50:50,159.7879375 Oh, for sure. 1334 00:50:50,159.7879375 --> 00:50:51,289.7869375 I wouldn't recommend it. 1335 00:50:51,649.7869375 --> 00:50:51,974.7854375 Not at all. 1336 00:50:51,974.7854375 --> 00:50:53,369.7809375 You're gonna miss the fun part. 1337 00:50:53,369.7809375 --> 00:50:54,809.7849375 Miss the best part. 1338 00:50:55,909.7849375 --> 00:50:58,29.7849375 The temperature's regulating now too It is. 1339 00:50:58,29.7849375 --> 00:50:59,709.7849375 I'm not so hot I'm not sweating. 1340 00:51:00,49.7849375 --> 00:51:01,19.7849375 Maybe I was nervous. 1341 00:51:02,649.7849375 --> 00:51:03,953.7849375 Maybe I was nervous and didn't know it. 1342 00:51:03,953.7849375 --> 00:51:04,819.7849375 It feels fine though. 1343 00:51:05,59.7849375 --> 00:51:06,209.7849375 It just feels like we're talking. 1344 00:51:06,839.7849375 --> 00:51:07,69.7849375 Yeah. 1345 00:51:07,69.7849375 --> 00:51:07,529.7849375 We're like... 1346 00:51:07,529.7849375 --> 00:51:14,589.7839375 It feels like me and you are sitting here, and someone is sitting there, and we're telling them a story. 1347 00:51:14,859.7839375 --> 00:51:16,179.7849375 Oh, it definitely does. 1348 00:51:16,509.7839375 --> 00:51:21,379.7829375 Like, "Oh, remember when this happened?" Which I love- Yeah because if it didn't feel like that, I would- Yeah I wouldn't like that. 1349 00:51:21,809.7849375 --> 00:51:24,99.7839375 I mean, I wouldn't wanna spend an hour doing it, that's for sure. 1350 00:51:24,359.7839375 --> 00:51:27,289.7849375 That's why our little slogan thing is like, "Pull up a chair. 1351 00:51:27,289.7849375 --> 00:51:28,209.7849375 You're one of us now." 1352 00:51:28,369.7849375 --> 00:51:28,829.7829375 Mm-hmm. 1353 00:51:29,219.7829375 --> 00:51:29,459.7829375 Yeah. 1354 00:51:29,489.7839375 --> 00:51:33,479.7849375 Because that's what we want it to feel like, just like some girls talking. 1355 00:51:33,699.7829375 --> 00:51:34,679.7859375 Get some coffee. 1356 00:51:35,139.7849375 --> 00:51:35,389.7849375 Yeah. 1357 00:51:35,479.7849375 --> 00:51:39,14.7839375 Or tea or Diet Coke, whatever is your choice. 1358 00:51:39,14.7839375 --> 00:51:39,789.7849375 Whatever you prefer. 1359 00:51:39,799.7849375 --> 00:51:40,529.7849375 Whatever you want. 1360 00:51:42,199.7829375 --> 00:51:44,99.7819375 It wasn't as hard as I thought it was gonna be. 1361 00:51:44,109.7859375 --> 00:51:44,589.7859375 Yeah. 1362 00:51:44,649.7839375 --> 00:51:46,209.7829375 Well, 'cause it's been so long. 1363 00:51:46,309.7799375 --> 00:51:47,519.7819375 It's been a long chat. 1364 00:51:48,769.7789375 --> 00:51:51,29.7789375 You think we can do this every week? I don't know. 1365 00:51:52,589.7789375 --> 00:51:53,749.7799375 I think it will just... 1366 00:51:54,119.7779375 --> 00:51:55,399.7779375 Yeah, I think we can. 1367 00:51:56,239.7809375 --> 00:51:57,49.7789375 I mean, we talk on... 1368 00:51:57,319.7819375 --> 00:51:59,699.7789375 When we do talk on the phone, we talk for a long time. 1369 00:52:03,123.7829375 --> 00:52:05,483.7829375 You hate talking on the phone You're always on the go. 1370 00:52:05,953.7829375 -->

00:52:08,473.7829375 I am, and I need somebody to talk to while I'm driving down the road. 1371 00:52:08,483.7829375 --> 00:52:09,73.7829375 15 minutes. 1372 00:52:09,113.7829375 --> 00:52:10,823.7829375 I get tired of other podcasts. 1373 00:52:12,573.7829375 --> 00:52:13,263.7829375 That's not good. 1374 00:52:13,303.7819375 --> 00:52:14,353.7829375 I could listen to ours. 1375 00:52:14,973.7819375 --> 00:52:15,923.7829375 You're gonna have to start. 1376 00:52:16,223.7819375 --> 00:52:17,883.7829375 No, don't, 'cause then you'll start critiquing it. 1377 00:52:17,893.7829375 --> 00:52:19,453.7839375 I'll overthink the whole thing. 1378 00:52:19,453.7839375 --> 00:52:19,513.7819375 Do not. 1379 00:52:19,513.7819375 --> 00:52:22,823.7819375 I mean, I'm gonna have to listen to it anyways 'cause I'm gonna be editing it initially. 1380 00:52:22,853.7829375 --> 00:52:23,243.7829375 Yeah. 1381 00:52:24,293.7829375 --> 00:52:27,723.7829375 Unless you guys just make this thing take off, and then we can just pay someone to do that. 1382 00:52:27,723.7829375 --> 00:52:27,858.7821875 That's another thing. 1383 00:52:27,858.7821875 --> 00:52:29,423.7819375 'Cause I would rather do that, but- Mm-hmm. 1384 00:52:29,933.7819375 --> 00:52:30,423.7819375 Love that. 1385 00:52:30,443.7829375 --> 00:52:30,893.7829375 It's okay. 1386 00:52:31,973.7809375 --> 00:52:32,133.7809375 We'll get there. 1387 00:52:32,293.7809375 --> 00:52:32,733.7809375 Yeah. 1388 00:52:32,793.7799375 --> 00:52:33,993.7799375 I think so. 1389 00:52:34,463.7799375 --> 00:52:38,143.7789375 If you made it all the way through our first episode, you're officially one of us. 1390 00:52:38,683.7809375 --> 00:52:39,953.7799375 Welcome to the club. 1391 00:52:40,3.7809375 --> 00:52:41,183.7809375 Welcome to Typical. 1392 00:52:41,193.7799375 --> 00:52:41,463.7799375 Yeah. 1393 00:52:42,313.7789375 --> 00:52:46,443.7789375 If you were to help us out and invite your friends, follow, subscribe. 1394 00:52:46,813.7789375 --> 00:52:51,593.7799375 I hope to post this at least to YouTube and probably some clips on all the other socials. 1395 00:52:52,693.7799375 --> 00:52:57,583.7789375 Probably can't post the whole video on TikTok, but we'll have little snippets on Instagram, TikTok, Facebook. 1396 00:52:57,593.7779375 --> 00:52:58,613.7779375 We've got all the pages. 1397 00:52:59,253.7779375 --> 00:53:00,613.7759375 I will put the... 1398 00:53:01,953.7779375 --> 00:53:03,253.7769375 What do you call it? Like, your... 1399 00:53:04,73.7729375 --> 00:53:05,473.7729375 Like, your little social media name. 1400 00:53:06,823.7729375 --> 00:53:07,893.7729375 Mm-mm. 1401 00:53:08,113.7739375 --> 00:53:10,373.7799375 I'll put the handle down in the comments. 1402 00:53:10,423.7799375 --> 00:53:11,993.7799375 I think that's- That's not what people call it. 1403 00:53:12,153.7749375 --> 00:53:14,793.7749375 I think we get made fun of for calling it that, but that's what I'm gonna say. 1404 00:53:15,603.7799375 --> 00:53:16,683.7739375 Yeah, I don't know what it's called. 1405 00:53:17,193.7759375 --> 00:53:20,983.7729375 We're gonna put that in the comments so you guys can go check out all of our pages. 1406 00:53:21,53.7769375 --> 00:53:22,863.7729375 Make sure to follow all of the pages. 1407 00:53:22,873.7759375 --> 00:53:23,753.7729375 Help us out. 1408 00:53:24,173.7799375 --> 00:53:25,803.7749375 And, um, share with your friends. 1409 00:53:26,393.7729375 --> 00:53:26,593.7729375 Yeah. 1410 00:53:27,573.7729375 --> 00:53:30,453.7749375 And thank you for being a part of our very first episode of Typical. 1411 00:53:31,253.7739375 --> 00:53:31,313.7739375 Yeah. 1412 00:53:32,643.7729375 --> 00:53:33,263.7759375 We love you. 1413 00:53:33,923.7799375 --> 00:53:34,503.7759375 So much. 1414 00:53:40,895.7779376 --> 00:53:41,775.7779376 That is so typical